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  • The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 19) – Schedules

    The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 19) – Schedules

    Ever wondered what really happens on a hot girls’ night out? Meet Juliet Adelaide and her friends in The Secret Life of a Hotwife as they drive into the sassy world in this no-holds barred account of a hotwife’s lifestyle, and uncover all you’ve ever wanted to know, from the sensual and provocative to the risque and unspeakable.

    Based on the steamy real-life experience of Juliet Adelaide, author of The Mrs Sexy Chronicles, this exclusive first-hand account of her exploration of sexual freedom and insight into the life of a hotwife will leave you begging for more.

    Chapter 19 Teaser – Schedules

    I found out quickly when I adopted my hot wife mentality that looking sexy make me feel provocative and horny. Scott has reaped the rewards of this part of my transformation. While I wanted sex more often for many reasons, I learned to love my femininity and embraced my sensuality. It’s great to be comfortable around someone and looking casual, even sloppy from time to time. Physical attraction and sex are key components of a healthy relationship, and we should continue to make an effort on our appearance even if it’s only for our own self-confidence.

    Being a hot wife has definitely helped my appearance. It may sound crazy but since I have embraced this lifestyle, I have lost weight, dress nicer and put more effort into doing my hair and makeup. I’m not sitting home at night watching reality television, I’m out in the real world making my own adventures. Being active sexually does burn calories too and giving head can even improve one’s metabolism. It also helps to date a variety of younger attractive men, at least for me. Those guys have a lot of energy and I definitely have to work to keep up with them. They make me feel desirable when we’re together and when I go home, my husband makes me feel sexy all over again.

    Purchase and read the rest of this amazing book by clicking here: The Secret Life Of A Hotwife 

    Juliet Adelaide has a Bachelor’s degree in Humanities and Culture from Arizona State University. She started dating her husband at the age of 17 and they were monogamous for 25 years. They are a devoted couple who only recently opened their marriage to new sexual experiences allowing Juliet to become a hotwife.

    “mrs Sexy” is the witty, erotic and true story of her experiences with this new polyamorous lifestyle. Juliet, (aka Mrs Sexy), takes you through the most personal moments of her romantic and sexual adventures.

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  • Actor, Model & Creative Sierra Paletta

    Actor, Model & Creative Sierra Paletta

    Hi there! My name is Sierra Paletta and I’m a NYC based actor, model, and creative. I’m originally from South Jersey and lived there for most of my life besides living in Argentina for some time when I was a kid. I’ve been in NYC for almost seven years now and currently reside in Brooklyn.

    Where did your inspiration to be a performer and artist come from?

    Ever since I was a kid, I fell in love with performance. I watched American Idol all the time, my mom was really into watching movie musicals, and I was in my first musical when I was 10 years old. I loved playing make believe and getting lost in different worlds and characters excited me. Those seeds planted my dream of becoming an artist and later on I joined my high school choir and performed in all the musicals/plays they had to offer.

    As I got older, I also fell in love with the idea of moving to New York City (I lived in suburbia for most of my life) and luckily that fell right into place with my passion for the arts. Living in the city and being surrounded by a variety of art forms allowed me to step into my skin and pursue my passion.

    Which is your favorite or most memorable performance so far?

    When I was in college, I was in a production of The Laramie Project by Tectonic Theatre Project. We performed in a downtown theatre space called New York Live Arts and the minute I stepped into the space, I teared up. The show itself was a very transformative experience for me. I had always loved fiction and the fantasy side of performing and this show was the opposite: it was a real life story about a horrendous incident that had happened and how it affected the town. In the show I played two characters (one female one male) and at the time it gave me freedom in my identity as genderfluid and made me feel welcome in my own body.

    At one point, I gave a monologue on stage by myself to the audience where I did a pelvic thrust amongst other comedic things and it gave me confidence in my role as comedic relief in the play (considering I did a lot of dramatic work throughout college). The whole experience itself was fantastic but the most beautiful thing about the show was being able to share peoples stories and have their voices heard through mine/ours. In this performance, I realized the power of non-fiction material and how it can change lives.

    How is a typical day like for you?

    Usually I wake up early-ish (anywhere from 8-10am), meditate for 20 minutes either in my bed or in this green velvet chair in my room. I do a daily yoga practice from Yoga with Adriene, make a cup of green tea, eat half a grapefruit (with a teaspoon of sugar) and that’s pretty much the base of my morning.

    From there on out, it sprouts into three options: work (my side hustle, serving), hanging at home watching TV/reading/writing, or venturing out into the city and engaging in some activity. My favorite activities at the moment are Lyra classes, archery, practicing stage combat in Central Park with my friends, and whatever exciting new things land in my lap.

    What 3 things do you love to do most in the city you live in?

    The first one is walking around alone listening to music in Central Park. There is something so classic about escaping into nature while still having echoes of the metropolis all around you. It’s the perfect blend. I grew up surrounded by woods so it feels like home away from home for me.

    The second one is going to the MoMA. I used to go a lot when I was in college because it was so close by but it’s another one of those places that feels like home in the city. Visual artists always baffle me and I love looking at paintings and musing and just being surrounded by art. It’s very inspiring and grounding.

    The third and last would probably be going out to House of Yes or the Slipper Room with my friends. We’re in different times now because of COVID but those places have changed who I am as a person and made me discover parts of myself that I never knew existed. They also fostered an environment and a community that I didn’t understand I was a part of until I came to the city. In these places, I grew into my most confident self and met people/had experiences I will never forget.

    If you could have a super power, what will it be?

    The ability to fly. First of all, flying is cool as hell, second I could go anywhere I wanted to in the world. Think about the views! So exciting, I could be on the tops of mountains, buildings, travel a lot. Feels like endless possibilities to me.

    Are you more of a morning person or night owl?

    Definitely a morning person. I was always that kid at sleepovers that would wake up before everyone else and just kinda let my mind wander for what felt like forever until everyone else woke up. Not much has changed, unless I’m working on/writing something and I can’t stop or I’m out with friends. I’m still that morning person I’ve always been.

    What turns you off on a date?

    If I don’t have a natural connection with them it’s kind of a bust. I’ve always been a highly sensitive, empathetic person so I’m pretty aware if it’s there or not. It ultimately comes down to the way they treat people; if I get the sense that they are not a generally kind or caring person, that is an immediate turn off.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Sierra. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy is feeling confident in your own skin. Whether that be all natural, full face, naked, fully clothed, everyone has the right circumstances that make them feel proud of their beauty. Seeing burlesque shows in the city taught me a lot about what sexy means and at the end of the day it takes on a different form in everyone.

    Once you find what works for you, it’s a matter of being proud of who you are and celebrating that in whatever way you see fit. Wearing lingerie, fake lashes, and a red lip is an easy way in for me 🙂

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  • Makeup Artist & Brand Consultant Grace Kijjaroenvisal

    Makeup Artist & Brand Consultant Grace Kijjaroenvisal

    Everyone calls me Grace and all things beauty. My full name is Grace Nachanok Kijjaroenvisal and I’m currently a brand consultant for a creative branding agency. I consult beauty and fashion brands on the side but first and foremost, I am a makeup artist.

    I’m a Thai national who grew up in Brussels, Belgium aka the best place for chocolates, mussels, and beer in the world. I graduated with an MPS in Fashion Marketing in New York a few years back and I am now living in Bangkok.

    How did your interest in makeup begin and inspire you to be a makeup artist?                  

    I’ve always been in love with the arts and the beauty that it inspires across mediums, cultures and even languages. I could’ve gone any direction in life but the very fact that the arts allows you to draw inspiration from across categories is an impactful factor for me. When I realized I could create just about anything on my face, I dove in head first.

    I always felt like what I can contribute to the world should be transparent and real; and more importantly, the beauty we have within ourselves starts from health of our skincare and we can all accentuate our best features that way.

    What are some challenges a makeup artist like yourself typically faces?

    The beauty industry in Thailand is quite different to what I knew back in the US where the competition demands makeup artists with a star-studded portfolio. A lot of celebrity makeup-artists here dominate the industry unless you’re giving it all your energy and time into getting yourself booked for jobs. Knowing the right people and making connections at the right place and time is key.

    The other observation I’ve made though, is that I’ve connected with many people who enjoy the same style of makeup as I do and it’s been a really great experience learning through the other professionals and listening to the needs of customers. The beauty style in Asia is not my style personally but to be a good makeup artist, I chose to overcome the challenge by embracing all styles and working with every opportunity I came across.

    Which are some beauty products every lady should own?

    For skincare, it’s super vital to have a moisturizer, an eye serum, and a form of SPF for your face. I’m only listing the absolute essentials for the everyday person who may not enjoy a full-on skincare routine like I do.

    A moisturizer is important because the skin barrier on your face needs help to return the right amount of hydration onto the skin; some people with oily skin make the mistake of not using it which in return backfires and their skin produces even more oil. A lot of people question why we need separate types of creams for our face and eyes given it’s on our face, but the truth is that the skin around our eyes are completely different. It’s the most sensitive area on our face and it will be the first part that will show signs of aging.

    Last but not least, SPF is not only the first step of anti-aging, this product is going to protect you for health reasons such as skin cancer; a lot of people still neglect the usage of SPF every morning on their body let alone their face. Wearing sunscreen is heavily associated with vacations or sunny days outside but truthfully, not even our clothes can protect us from UVA and UVB rays. Sitting in a dark room is really where our skin is safest from any UV rays as even some lightbulbs emit UV rays.

    A quick glossary for others who are still new to SPF is that UVA rays causes ageing while UVB rays burns your skin; sunscreen varies from chemical to physical in which protects you from UV rays very differently. So I recommend everyone to do their research to find the best SPF for you and change your routine into incorporating it so it doesn’t feel like a chore.

    Skincare is absolute for everyone and all ages; your routine and the type of products you use should shift as you age and you recognize the needs and changes your skin require as you get older. This includes the type of ingredients, the texture, and the benefits the product is meant to help you achieve. Makeup comes second, and I believe that is totally personal. Whether or not you need it, I don’t believe anyone needs makeup but if you want to indulge, I think the world of beauty is your oyster.

    Do you have any other hobbies or interests?

    I’ve been a bookworm since I was a child while I was performing on stage from acting to dancing to singing. I still try to incorporate all of those hobbies nowadays for fun but I’ve developed a love for making scented soy candles. It’s incredibly soothing and I love how candles make me feel when I add it into my environment.

    More active hobbies include rock-climbing, swimming, traveling, café hopping and I love to give back by helping shelters and rescue centers in Bangkok foster puppies to help introduce them into the world once a family is ready to adopt them into their forever home.

    If you can have a superpower, what will it be?

    Teleportation. It’s a lot quicker than flying.

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a foodie are you?

    A big fat 10, haha.

    What do you not get about the opposite sex?

    At times, their ignorance in the struggles women have to go through. We can have the same destination or goal in something but our paths to achieving it will be very different.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Grace. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy is intelligence, sense of humor, and being at peace with yourself. I practice this within myself, and I am attracted to people of these traits as well.

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  • Disability & Sex Work

    Disability & Sex Work

    I love sex! LOL. The weirder the better, I love roleplays and kinks, and people being fully themselves during sex. But in general, I think sexuality is an opportunity for joy.

    My Companionship Style

    I don’t think I’m necessarily the ideal companion for everyone. I’m a fat and curvy redhead who is pushing 40, and I like seeing people who appreciate that about me and see all of those things as positives. I also love seeing people who are disabled and/or kinky and/or marginalized who are looking for an authentic connection based on mutual respect and fun!

    I see all respectful clients 21+ and love vanilla sessions too, but I particularly specialize in clients with disabilities, Milf/mommy, and catering to non-impact kinks and fantasies. I have my own disabilities which limit things like hiking or going to the beach so an ideal match are clients who are comfortable with spending more indoor time. (smiling devil emoji LOL).

    Misconceptions About The Sex Lives Of People With Disabilities

    How much time do you have? I think it’s generally that disabled people aren’t sexual and aren’t currently having a ton of great sex. A lot of sex workers and clients are disabled but we don’t really talk about it that much, which is a mistake. It can give us an opportunity to connect and help me really be able to meet clients’ intimacy needs which includes their access needs.

    Exploring One’s Sexual Needs With A Disability

    I think the thing that is important is to know it’s okay to be disabled during sex. It’s okay to not want to do certain positions or not be able to do certain things, in fact – it’s normal. Everyone has sexual things that we like and don’t like, and this may or may not be related to our disabilities.

    We should all be thinking about the way our minds affect our sexuality, and disability is just one aspect. I also really encourage people to reach out to disabled sex workers if they have the ability. The relationship between an escort and a client is unique and can be a great way to help you learn about what you like and don’t like with someone who has no other agenda than your (and mutual) pleasure and joy.

    Recommended Sexual Activities Together

    I recommend people work on seeing whatever makes them unique as a strength sexually, rather than a negative. While they also affect my ability to work as much as I’d like, my chronic and mental illnesses have helped me be able to connect to clients better, even non-disabled ones. I know so much more about bodies now than I did before I was disabled.

    Don”t Be Afraid To Explore Your Sexual Needs!

    I think a lot of times, stigma is the hardest part of all. I recommend that you talk openly about disabilities and the way they affect or don’t your sex life. Of course this is AFTER you are in a sexual relationship with a disabled person. It is rude to ask disabled people about their sexuality or what they are able to do unless you are in a sexual relationship with us.

    But just like most things, I recommend having as much fun as possible and exploring whatever sounds the most pleasurable!  Sometimes that may not be sex but may be a back rub or something else! There are a lot of ways that we can be intimate with each other and disabilities only increase those opportunities!

    Kitty Milford is a Syracuse, NY based sex worker with big tits, a big, ass, and a big personality. She’s a BBW Milf redhead specializing in Milf/Mommy, non-impact kink/roleplay, gfe, and clients with disabilities. She is also a writer and used to be a lawyer and loves books, seltzer, and lingerie. Since the pandemic she’s been focusing on virtual services. See more at kittymilford.com or email her at kittymilford@gmail.com. 

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  • Model & Influencer Anica Dela Rama

    Model & Influencer Anica Dela Rama

    Hi! I’m Anica Dela Rama. Born and raised in Metro Manila, Philippines. 

    I’m a flight attendant by profession, a model and aspiring entrepreneur by passion. I am also a social media influencer who loves to share fragments of life interests which includes food, travel, lifestyle, fashion and hobbies. 

    How is your fashion style like and where do you draw inspiration from?

    As for my fashion style, I would say that it’s a “Mix and Match”. I always try to keep up with the trends, I sometime draw inspiration from other influencers, celebrities or other model friends that I know of. I also love to keep it simple, decent yet at the same time, classy and sexy. 

    Do you follow a beauty regime to look so beautiful?

    There’s no specific beauty regime that I actually follow. I just make sure that I have proper hygiene. I clean my face, I eat healthy food, drink collagen and lots of vitamin C. I also keep my face moisturized and protected by a sunscreen whenever I go out. I only wear make up if I have to (I use hypoallergenic cosmetics because of my sensitive skin), then I remove my make up right after my day ends 🙂

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    Best compliment, most of the time is whenever my friends tell me that I look younger than my age. When some people are telling me that I’m very talented, that I’m not only “looks” but I also have brains.

    What are 3 fun things you like to do in the city you live in?

    Since I’m a newbie in this place as I just transferred here a few months ago, due to the pandemic it became limited for me to maximize my activities here.

    But I would say that it became a habit for me to go out, buy some food and shop for some groceries.

    I love to hang out with my best friend who lives near me, meet some new neighbors, and have a little chat with them. And if there’s ample time we go out, for some pampering and a ladies day out.

    The last thing that I love here is that I can relax and stay at home. I can paint, make some poems overlooking in my terrace seeing trees. I just love the “nature vibes” in this place, and I can have my “me-time” peacefully.

    Which are your favorite quotes or mottos you like to use for inspiration?

    I have lots of favorite quotes in life, but my most favorite of all is that “You don’t have to be good to start. You just need to start.” I’ve been through a lot of challenges and admittedly, I failed at lots of them. But I always keep in mind that if I want to achieve something, I’ll never know the result unless I’ll try doing it. I’ll just take the risk and start…even if I’m not actually good at it.

    Would you rather have the power to control minds or teleport?

    As a flight attendant, I love travelling. I would do anything just to visit the places that I haven’t been to. If I’ll have the power to teleport, I can definitely do that for sure without breaking my own bank account and wallet haha. If I could just go there in a snap, I’ll bring my love ones with me, take some pictures wearing my new OOTDs, eat their delicacies and learn their culture. I would love to do that everyday. 

    What do you not get about guys?

    What I do not get about guys is their pride and ego. I mean, not all of them are full of pride and ego. I admit that I had my own share of pride when I was in a relationship. It’s just that as per experience, we always end up in an argument because of them not admitting their own mistakes. They don’t share their true feelings because they feel like it’ll show weakness for them as a ‘man’ (and its definitely not a definition of a man). 

    For me it’ll be a lot easier to understand them if they can also be open about their thoughts and be more compassionate to fix an issue. 

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Anica. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    For me, being sexy is just being you. Be natural. I mean by loving yourself, being happy about who or what u are. Be “confident”, for me that’s very sexy. Regardless of your size, vital statistics, your complexion or flaws. The person’s aura or glow for me is more appealing than their own physique.

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  • What To Know About Slut Training

    What To Know About Slut Training

    Kink and alternative lifestyles are a wonderful way to sexually explore your likes. Therapeutic for some and it’s interactive entertainment. I have always beaten to my own drum and when I discovered so many alternative lifestyles, I immediately thought, now this is me seeing people live the way they want to live safely that I’m always for. 

    What Is Slut Training?

    Slut training consists of a Dominant partner teaching the submissive to behave in an overtly sexual manner, from their clothing, behavior and mindset. While some may see being a slut as a negative, slut training encourages very promiscuous behavior. 

    Reasons For Undergoing Slut Training

    Most subs just want a feeling of being used. They want to let all inhibitions go and just please and serve being a toy for pleasure. 

    My Domme Style

    I’m a natural sensual dominant who specializes in  mental / psychological sadism.

    Slut training is a highly mental training, and you are shifting ones’ mindset on how to behave. Most submissives undergoing slut training are going to be reluctant, embarrassed and shamed at times. I always help to make sure they overcome these emotions and sometimes use them for humiliation. 

    A Typical Slut Training Session

    First and foremost, all of my sessions start with a brief reminder of RACK (risk-aware consensual kink) and a safe word is established. 

    I don’t have a typical training because each session is based on what I feel the submissive needs. So it can be focusing on learning how to properly suck cock, to undergoing intense slut training hypno. 

    What To Expect From Your First Session

    You should know that while you are expected to oblige your Dominants commands, you should always partake slut training with who you feel comfortable with. You will usually be learning and trying things you never experienced and want to feel safe and have an open mind. 

    Empress Katana – Enchanting Queer Dominant. I pride myself in creating safe kink spaces both online and in person.

    I’m currently not touring due to the pandemic. 2021 I will return to traveling starting with Los Angeles and then all over Europe. 

    Not Your Babe is a brand I’m creating featuring sex worker positive apparel and work related items. 

    Feel free to check out my link.tree/EmpressKatana and main site AllHailKatana.com for more information about me, my BDSM lifestyle and events. 

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  • Entrepreneur & Influencer, Shivani Bafna

    Entrepreneur & Influencer, Shivani Bafna

    I am an Indian-American influencer with an online community of 250K+ across channels and an entrepreneur based in Cleveland, Ohio! I’m passionate about seeing more authenticity in the media industry and strive to celebrate the journey as much as the wins.

    What is your proudest achievement so far?

    Interviewing Shah Rukh Khan and seeing myself on a billboard were two incredibly surreal achievements. 10 year old Shivani wouldn’t believe you if you told her that would happen one day.

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    Moody. I could happily live in sweatpants and oversized t-shirts but also slip into a glam desi lengha with as much ease. All depends on my mood.

    Can you share a typical day like for yourself?

    No day looks the same and I love that! You’ll find me shooting content one day and sitting behind a laptop for hours on end the next. 

    Do you have any hobbies or interests?

    Many! Does sleeping count haha? But in all seriousness, I enjoy playing cards and board games with my family and friends. Dancing is another hobby I’ve loved since I was two years old! I don’t always make time for it, but the feeling while performing can be addictive. 

    If you could change one thing in this world, what will it be?

    Many social issues I feel passionately towards such as racism, gender inequality, poverty etc in my opinion are tied to a root cause being a lack of empathy. If we all tried to put ourselves in someone else’s shoes, I believe we would create a more unified world. But re-adding the Mexican Pizza to Taco Bell’s menu may be the first step!!!! #jokes

    Do you believe in any superstition?

    I have worn this red dress for the first day of any new internship or job opportunity since 2014. It’s not necessarily superstitious, but I wear it for tradition’s sake!

    What quotes or mottos do you like to use to motivate yourself?

    “If it was easy, everyone would do it”

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Shivani. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    To me, sexy has nothing to do with external factors like makeup or clothing. It has everything to do with being unabashedly yourself, no matter who is in the room. It’s the confidence to embrace who you are, despite what society or your peers have told you to be like. 

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  • The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 18) – Dealing With Jealousy

    The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 18) – Dealing With Jealousy

    Ever wondered what really happens on a hot girls’ night out? Meet Juliet Adelaide and her friends in The Secret Life of a Hotwife as they drive into the sassy world in this no-holds barred account of a hotwife’s lifestyle, and uncover all you’ve ever wanted to know, from the sensual and provocative to the risque and unspeakable.

    Based on the steamy real-life experience of Juliet Adelaide, author of The Mrs Sexy Chronicles, this exclusive first-hand account of her exploration of sexual freedom and insight into the life of a hotwife will leave you begging for more.

    Chapter 18 Teaser – Dealing With Jealousy

    Kristin began checking the time on her phone again. It reminds me of the times when I was out and worried about coming home so late. It was usually with Mark, like most of my bad behavior, but a couple men have kept me out exceedingly late. Time and schedules may have been the most difficult obstacles that Scott and I faced. He didn’t really get jealous about other men fucking me, but he would get a little upset if they got to spend a lot of time with me. With work and family, we would only seem to have a few hours together at night when I was home. My dates with Mark had been known to last 12 hours with a rare overnight. Scott thought I somehow enjoyed Mark’s company to his, but the truth was, it was all about schedules. My husband’s work hours didn’t allow the same amount of free time as a part-time cook.

    I would only get a couple nights out a week though, so I guess I always felt that I had to squeeze in as much time as possible with lovers because I didn’t really get to spend a lot of time with them in the grand scheme of things. In fact, it took me a while to be able to look at it from my husband’s point of view. I would go out with Mark for happy hour at four o’clock in the afternoon, then dinner, then a show, then a different place, then his place and then I would come strolling in with my panties in my purse at four o’clock in the morning. My hotwife lifestyle was supposed to be about sex, but Mark had become my boyfriend and it caused issues.

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    Juliet Adelaide has a Bachelor’s degree in Humanities and Culture from Arizona State University. She started dating her husband at the age of 17 and they were monogamous for 25 years. They are a devoted couple who only recently opened their marriage to new sexual experiences allowing Juliet to become a hotwife.

    “mrs Sexy” is the witty, erotic and true story of her experiences with this new polyamorous lifestyle. Juliet, (aka Mrs Sexy), takes you through the most personal moments of her romantic and sexual adventures.

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  • Singer, Performer & Influencer Jannine Cartagena

    Singer, Performer & Influencer Jannine Cartagena

    Hi, thank you so much SimplySxy for reaching out to me. I’m a singer/performer and a social media influencer from Davao City.  I’m 21 years old and I started promoting brands since I was in High School.

    How is your fashion style like and where do you draw inspiration from?

    I just follow the trends that I see from Instagram. I also love mixing and matching everything that I have in my closet. I love timeless pieces that I can use at any time of the year. 

    Do you follow a beauty regime to look so beautiful?

    Right now, confidence is all I have, since I’m struggling with finding the right skin care products for my skin. I do have breakouts. But it’s actually not a big deal. I think that our imperfections makes us beautiful, you just have to embrace it and that natural glow follows.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    The best compliment that I received so far was from my mother, I’m flattered that she said I look beautiful with no make up on.

    What are 3 fun things you recommend to tourists to do when visiting your city?

    Since Davao City is known as the “Fruit Basket of The Philippines”, Magsaysay Park is one of the best places to visit. You can eat different varieties of durian, and you can also experience the culture of the 11 indigenous tribes that belongs to Davao since they showcase their villages there, same with People’s Park.

    You can also enjoy wildlife at Davao Crocodile Park and at the Philippine Eagle Centre. For slow days where you want to appreciate God’s beautiful creation, you can visit Eden Nature Park and Resort.

    Which are your favorite quotes or mottos you like to use for inspiration?

    I hold on to the quote, ”Your time will come.”

    I believe that everyone has their own time to shine, to become successful, to meet the perfect someone, and to peak at life. I had a lot of ups and downs, and I draw motivation from this quote whenever I’m feeling tired or when I have doubts in life. But we all have to be patient, never rush things, must keep moving forward and enjoy life! 

    Would you rather have the power to control minds or teleport?

    I would love to control minds and change how other people think. There’s a lot of negativity in the world already and we should not release bad energy to others, so I’d like for everyone to keep a happy mind. 

    What do you not get about guys?

    In my generation, I could say that guys are a little too complicated to understand. I actually have observed that they tend to be a little irrational and they prioritize things that doesn’t really matter. I think they should focus on making themselves better, be mature and give value to people that truly cares for them.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Jannine. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Being sexy is being confident. Nothing is more sexier than embracing and appreciating your imperfections. It’s about doing your own thing without thinking about how others would think about you. Don’t let other people define who you are, at the end of the day, it’s only you who knows yourself deeply. Your authenticity and confidence would make you the sexiest person you could ever be.

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  • How To Explore Virtual or Remote Domination

    How To Explore Virtual or Remote Domination

    Kink is a massive part of my life, both professionally and personally. I believe that folks come to kink for all sorts of reasons, from satisfying deep primal urges, to healing, to spicing things up in the bedroom.  All are valid ways of exploring connection, validation, and catharsis.  

    How My Interest In Kink Started

    Probably when I was kidnapping and tying up my Barbies.  This has been a part of my life as far back as I can remember, even though I may not have always had the opportunity to express it.

    My Domme Style

    My style is playful.  I’m quite a chameleon, so I can deliver anything from severe to nurturing, but there is always an element of playfulness.  I laugh and smile, no matter what the vibe.  It’s because I’m enjoying myself, and that’s how I express it.

    Transition To Virtual Domination Due To Covid

    It was as natural as could be, despite the circumstances.  I think the way I Dominate translates fairly well to providing online services.  I’m perfectly fine with monologuing to a camera for an hour.  And I believe I have a knack for making people feel comfortable, even if it’s through a computer.  It’s certainly a lot more work.  You have to be on your phone constantly. 

    Luckily, I’m very good at online marketing, consistency, and branding, which worked to my advantage.  Difficulties for me ended setting up boundaries surrounding how much I work.  It’s very easy for me to never stop working, especially so if I’m working from home.

    The other difficulty is that many kinks don’t translate super well to video sessions.  It was a learning curve to find the ones that really work well. 

    A Typical Virtual Domination Session

    Virtual Domination allows you to keep in touch more often, so it’s actually advantangeous, I find, to making deep and long lasting connections.  For my regulars, we keep in touch throughout the week via text (I use Niteflirt), with weekly sessions or content requests.  Each sub is different, but I like to start my sessions with a bit of catching up and relaxing into each other. 

    I ask them to show me what implements/toys they have on-hand.  The majority of the session, just like in-person, includes whatever kinks they would like to act out.  Because I can’t touch them, what this looks like, is me telling them what to do to themselves.  And then I also leave some time at the end to decompress and chat about the scene.  I always ask what they are going to do when we hang up the call for aftercare.

    Recommended Sessions For Virtual Domination

    It really depends.  Sometimes it just doesn’t feel the same when you’re doing it to yourself, even if a Dominatrix is ordering you to do it.  Some folks are simply not into topping while submitting.  Also, virtual sessions depend on what equipment/implements/toys/wardrobe the client has available to them.  Sometimes you end up ordering to fuck themselves with a margarine covered banana, because there’s literally nothing else around.  Not that you can’t do a session without implements, but for some kinks it’s more essential than others.

    Impact play, or other pain play can be really great for some folks, but not the best for others.  Asking people to deliever pain to themselves can sometimes be tricky territory.  Keep checking in, and really encourage them to listen, and stay focussed.  Just make sure that the client is somewhat experienced with using the item.  Even with your supervision, they can end up hurting themselves by doing something incorrectly.  This could be using a hairbrush for spanking, clothespins zippers, nipple clamps, CBT, wax, ice, stress positions, and more.

    Pegging or strap-on play is usually a good go-to.  Most people are familiar with fucking themselves with a dildo.  This could mean orally, vaginally, or anally.  A suction cup is helpful.  From the other side, the Dom(me) can wear a strap-on to give them the visual.

    Humiliation or any other verbal kinks works well, because touching isn’t necessarily required to make the kink feel “real”.  Your dirty talk skills will really shine in a virtual setting.

    Tease and denial is also a fun one, especially if they have a vibrator on hand, extra points if it has bluetooth technology so that you can operate it.  E-stim similarly so.  Count downs are a common thing in virtual sessions.

    Sissification, feminization, bimbofication, dollification all work fairly well virtually, just as long as the client has some items to dress up into.  Even if they don’t, the language surrounding these kinks can still be very salient.

    Gagging can be useful for parts of the session, but it also takes away one of the ways to connect with each other, which is not always conducive, since you already have touch taken away.  But, making people talk through gags and drool on themselves is always fun.  Again, make sure that this is done safely, since you are not there in-person to help them if they start choking.

    Fluid play can be done too, just as long as they’re into being ordered to consume their own fluids.

    Lady Pim – A Professional Dominatrix and kink educator, working out of The Ritual Chamber in Toronto. She takes in-person sessions (currently on hiatus due to Covid-19), sells custom content, offers remote/virtual sessions, teaches on a variety of kinky topics, and conducts one-on-one kink consultations.   She is also the host of the multiple award winning Bed Post Podcast, a sex/sexuality show which features interviews of sex workers, sex educators, and other sexy people.  

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    Website: https://theritualchamber.ca/lady-pim

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