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  • What It’s Like Having A Swinger Lifestyle

    What It’s Like Having A Swinger Lifestyle

    Sex is a wonderful thing! I think it is important for adults to explore their sexuality and maintain an active (safe) sex life. It is great for your physical, mental, and emotional health. When I’m having great sex, my life improves in all areas!

    What It Means To Be A Swinger

    An open-minded person who pursues fun, playful, and flirtatious friendships, which are often, but not always, of a sexual nature. Swingers understand that sex and love are not the same thing and can be enjoyed separately and without jealousy. For me being a swinger lets me open up about sex and celebrate it instead of being ashamed.

    I got into swinging through my husband who was in the lifestyle before we got together. We were best friends for about 4 years before we got together so I already knew about his sex life and he knew about mine. At first I thought I could never be with anyone else or see him with anyone else but we talked about it a lot, and he never pushed, and eventually I found myself wanting to know more. Right before we got married we slowly starting easing into the lifestyle.

    Rules & Boundaries In A Swinging Lifestyle

    First of all honesty!

    Second, if you have problems in your relationship, that is not the time to start in the lifestyle. Other than that each couple comes up with their own rules. When we first started, we had a no kissing rule and we only played when we were both present.

    Now our only rule is to wear condoms NO MATTER WHAT! We would not do anything without discussing it with the other person first but that is kind of an unspoken rule. I also think it’s best to not have sexual relations with anyone you see in your everyday life.

    How Swinging Has Changed My Life

    Before swinging I was not very open about sex. I would keep my fantasies to myself and I wasn’t as open to trying new things. Swinging has made my marriage so much stronger! We have this incredible bond that is so special to us. We have amazing trust and communication. Plus, there is nothing sexier than seeing your partner please another person, or them getting turned on by hearing all about your slutty adventures.

    Advice For Beginners Into Swinging

    My advice would be to go at your own pace. Explore and find out what you both like and are comfortable with. There are a lot of parties that allow you to be voyeurs (just watch). Majority of swingers will not be pushy and will work with your comfort zone. Make sure you have established rules before you begin and you can re-evaluate regularly.

    Ivy Secret – I am a new adult film actress and fetish model. I’m loving every minute of this new and exciting journey. I love sex and everything that goes along with it.

    Follow Ivy on

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/ivy_secretxxx

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ivysecret719/

    Sext Panther: Ivy Secret

    I have a lot of amazing shoots coming up and clips coming out! You can see what’s coming on my Twitter! Look for me at Fetcon!

    Images courtesy of Ivy Secret

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  • Travel Blogger & YouTuber Amelia Rose

    Travel Blogger & YouTuber Amelia Rose

    Hi! Well as you already know, my name is Amelia (or liarosealice on social media) which is a shorter version of my name, Amelia Rose Alice. I’m 23 and live in the midlands and I’m currently studying for my Master’s Degree in International Business. Although I’m a student, you’ll probably catch me on a plane travelling somewhere new or in my happy place, the gym.

    What was the inspiration behind starting your website?

    My love of travel. I’d post about my travels on Instagram and Youtube and receive so many questions and messages asking for advice and tips and I decided to start my own blog to help others and share my knowledge.

    How is your fashion style like?

    I’ve always struggled to define my style, but if I had to, I’d say timeless and simple. I love buying staple pieces for my wardrobe and I don’t buy into trends so much, I know what suits me and that could be a pair of Nike’s, Lululemon leggings and a sports top one day to a red summer dress the next.

    Which is your most memorable life experience so far?

    Travelling to New York City a few years ago most definitely. I’ve always wanted to live in the US and I’ve never felt so at home anywhere than in New York, it made me realise that a childhood dream is something I can most definitely achieve.

    Where is your dream holiday destination?

    Bali! I’ve never been but somewhere filled with beautiful nature, açaí bowls and infinity pools looks like heaven to me.

    Do you have a sweet tooth?

    More of a savoury one, but I definitely need dessert after dinner and have a constant need for cronuts.

    Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t had the time to do it?

    Become fluent in German, I’m on the cusp but life gets in the way from taking that step. It’s easy to do when living in that country, but I haven’t had a few months spare to just live in Berlin yet unfortunately.

    Funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    This may be lame or just super creepy, but a senior manager from the company I first worked for followed me around London after a training day once and kept insisting he showed me around although I knew it better than he did. I ended up being obnoxiously slow in Whole Foods when buying my breakfast for the next morning and he eventually left after I told him I didn’t want to go for dinner with him.

    Another weird twist to the story is the waiter at Wagamama’s that night also tried to ask me out and drew a flower on my menu when I went to the bathroom and sat opposite me when I was eating. Moral of the story being, if you’re alone on a business trip you may experience some weirdness like this haha.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Amelia. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy to me is an attitude, knowing what you want and just going for it. There’s nothing better in my opinion than ambition and confidence, and I believe that both of them exude sexiness.

    Follow the beautiful Amelia Rose on:

    Instagram: @liarosealice

    YouTube: youtube.com/liarosealice

    Blog: www.liarosealice.com

    Images courtesy of Amelia

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  • Cosplayer & Gamer Girl Vanessa

    Cosplayer & Gamer Girl Vanessa

    I’m half Filipino, half Italian from Sydney, Australia. I like to longboard and edit videos/photos and sew costumes for cosplay in my spare time.

    What is your fashion style like?

    Cute streetwear best describes my style. I love sneakers (for comfort) and I love wearing pink, black and grey. I usually pair my sneakers with dresses or oversized tees and hoodies.

    Do you have a beauty regime you follow strictly?

    Not so much strictly, but I do make sure I cleanse, tone, and moisturize twice a day. On days where I need a little pick-me-up, I use face masks. I believe in prevention is better than a cure, so I make sure to use anti-wrinkle cream around my eyes to prevent early signs of aging.

    Which accessories are a must have in your wardrobe?

    Bucket hats and dangly earrings!

    Have you been in an embarrassing situation that is funny now?

    Many! I’m clumsy, so I’m always tripping or falling over at the wrong time. A funny moment would have to be when I tripped on flat ground while walking the streets of Hongdae in South Korea. It’s embarrassing because the ground was flat, but it’s funny because I tripped anyway.

    If you had the opportunity to learn anything in this world, what will it be?

    To learn as many languages as I can. Learning a new language can be a pretty difficult and long journey, so if I was given the opportunity to learn as many as I could, given resources and time, I would do it.

    Would you rather go bungee jumping or sky diving?

    Probably sky diving for that feeling of flying.

    What turns you off on a date?

    When someone talks highly about themselves, but negatively about others.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Vanessa. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Confidence – but not arrogance. You can be beautiful in and out, but shy away due to insecurity or negative thinking about yourself, but being sexy is when you are confident about who you are as a person, whether it’s your physical appearance or personality or both, while staying humble and down to earth at the same time.

    Follow the gorgeous Vanessa on:

    Instagram: @vanessalpaca

    YouTube: @vanessalpaca

    Images courtesy of Vanessa

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  • How To Dirty Talk Before & During Sex

    How To Dirty Talk Before & During Sex

    I LOVE SEX! I’m an International Companion/Escort so my life is sex, and great sex might I add. Sex brings all types of people together and makes the world go around!  I was raised in a Catholic, strict household and I knew from the moment I was a little girl and saw these beautiful glamour icons and how sexy they were that I wanted to be in the sex industry and lavished by men all around the world!

    What I Love About Dirty Talk

    Dirty talk is one of my favorite foreplay methods and I think when done correctly it can instantly make sex so much hotter! Personally I’m very submissive, so dominant dirty talk drives me wild! Men love dirty talk because they are very visual and hands on therefore, engaging in dirty talk just adds to the experience for them, and assures them, they are doing a great job.

    How To Incorporate Dirty Talk Into Foreplay

    Dirty talk is THE BEST prior to sex and foreplay because it sets the mood and gives the other real assurance that he/she is ready and wants you.  I find it best to incorporate while kissing and lightly touching by whispering in his ear something you can’t wait to do to him and invite him to the bedroom.  Once we get to the bedroom and foreplay starts being initiated, that’s when I personally go full fledge on the dirty talk and it sends men wild EVERY TIME.

    Favorite Dirty Talk Lines

    I have a whole little black book of dirty talk slurs I say during sex and depending on the man and the mood is how I choose what to say. However, some of my favorite lines are: “Please come fuck me”, “fuck me harder/deeper”, “I can’t wait to deep throat you”, “oh my god your cock fits perfect in my mouth” and my personal favorite “choke me, spank me, pull my hair”.

    Possible Dirty Talk Mistakes

    Make sure you know/have a feeling of what he/she’s into. Don’t be too technical, just let your mind wander and be free. Don’t think about it so much, usually just saying what you can’t wait to do to him/her will work with a little personal twist to make it genuine and sexy!

    Ava Hadid – I’m a Las Vegas based International Escort that has had PLENTY of sex of men of all types.  My life is SEX and let’s just say if I wasn’t good at what I do I would not be in business 😉 Men have written reviews of me and I’m proud to say I ooze sex whether I’m in lingerie in bed with you, or at the grocery store browsing the produce section.

    Follow Ava Hadid on

    Website: Avagfe.com

    Email: Bookavahadid@gmail.com

    Twitter: @Persiansfinest

    Instagram: @Persiansfinest

    Switter: AvaHadid

    Featured image courtesy of Shutterstock, article images courtesy of Ava Hadid

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  • Florida Model & Vlogger Allie Pepper

    Florida Model & Vlogger Allie Pepper

    Hi Ty, thank you for having me! My name is Allie Pepper and I was born and raised in Vero Beach, Florida. I am a curvy model and a fashion and lifestyle vlogger. I am compelled to anything that has to do with the fashion industry. I started modeling at 15 years old. However, when I was going away to college I took a break. It always weighed on my mind because of my love for the industry. I started modeling again last year and could not be happier.

    What do you enjoy about modeling?

    I love so many things about modeling and the industry. First off, I love being in front of the camera and showing that women with curves are beautiful. Being in front of the camera makes me so happy and nothing compares to it. I also love meeting and working with new people on set.

    I love that each shoot is a new adventure and you never know what to expect. Working with different teams gives you a unique experience each time. I love being around creative people as it brings out my own creative side and definitely brings out the best in me.

    Is there a particular fashion style you are attracted to?

    My main fashion style that I am attracted to is trendy and chic clothing. Anything that shows off my curves is what I look for in clothing. But I like to keep it classy and not reveal too much. You have to keep a mystery there for sure.

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a party animal are you?

    I would say I’m a 5. I guess it depends on the crowd I’m around… if it’s me and my best girlfriends, maybe that number is higher. But I like to keep a balance between having fun and focusing on my work. Having fun all the time is not good for that model glow!

    How do you spend your free time?

    I have a YouTube channel dedicated to style and fashion and I even throw some vlogs of my daily life in there. So I’m typically filming videos for my channel or thinking of new ideas for my audience. I’m also the Spokesmodel for Cliquish, which is a community of kick ass female vloggers, so I am often engaging with members of the community.

    What movie did you last watch and was it any good?

    The last movie I saw was Adrift in the theatre. I really enjoyed it! It was really intense and emotional. I am glad I was able to experience it on the big screen to get the full effect.

    If you could travel to any part of the world for an experience, where will it be?

    I truly want to see all of the world but if I had to choose just one place, I would pick Paris. It’s a beautiful city and the fashion over there is out of this world! But first… I need to get my passport.

    What do you not get about the opposite sex?

    I don’t understand why guys my age are so afraid to talk to girls. I feel like the only form of communication my generation cares about is digital communication. When it comes to real life and face-to-face communication guys definitely don’t go out of their way… which is truly unfortunate and something I don’t understand.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Allie. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Thank you for having me! I define sexy as being one’s state of mind. Sexy is confidence and self-love. There’s nothing more attractive than confidence and loving every aspect of yourself!

    Follow the beautiful Allie Pepper on:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ealyssahlee/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCiuVy9aAqGj8kcyEuklboMg?view_as=subscriber

    Images courtesy of Allie Pepper

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  • Fashionable Law Student Carmene Tan

    Fashionable Law Student Carmene Tan

    Hi everyone from SimplySxy, I am Carmene Tan from Malaysia, I’m 20 years old this year and I’m currently a Bachelor of Laws student. I love everything about fashion, beauty and travel and these are the things I enjoy doing the most!

    What is your fashion style like?

    I love cheeky and cool styles but I love being casual as well. My fashion style all depends on my mood, like sometimes if I want to look sweet, I will wear a skirt to University. On the other way round, if I’m moody that day, I will wear an oversized black sweater with a black cap.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    Strangers complimented me when I have a good hair day and good fashion style in a lift!

    Is there any type of food you will never try or are you game for everything?

    Uhm no… I’ll never try insect-related foods.

    Do you have any hobbies?

    I love to watch makeup videos on YouTube, shopping, watching dramas, gym, playing the piano and scrolling through Instagram to see how people style themselves.

    Would you rather go sky diving or bungee jumping?

    I WOULD GLADLY GO WITH BOTH!!

    If you could be a Disney character, who will you choose to be?

    Sleeping Beauty, I believe every girl’s dream is to become a princess to the person she loves.  The fact that she’s still looking young despite so many years of sleeping is a bonus point.

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    When a police man stops me at the road side during a road block just to get my phone number.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Carmene. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy is not about how much your reveal your skin, it’s about the attitude, confidence and how you believe in yourself. I believe that a girl who has a nice body figure and a girl who is fat is equally sexy as long as they are confident and believe in themselves. It is the attitude that matters.

    Follow the beautiful Carmene Tan on:

    Email : www.carmenetanct@gmail.com

    Instagram : www.instagram.com/carmenetanct

    Facebook: www.facebook.com/CarmeneTan98

    Twitter: www.twitter.com/carmenetanct

    Images courtesy of Carmene Tan

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  • San Diego Model Allyson Joy

    San Diego Model Allyson Joy

    Hi! Nice to meet you guys. I’m from San Diego, California. I was born and raised in San Diego so I’m definitely a beach girl haha.

    What is your proudest achievement so far?

    Well I’ve always been the biggest busy body so I’m really proud of myself in general but I think my favorite achievement has been getting my degree. My work with modeling and acting has been awesome though! I get to travel and meet the best people 😀

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    “Are your boobs real?” Hahaha.

    Do you have any food you can’t live without?

    I LOVE fruit! Cantaloupe is actually my favorite food, so weird I know lol.

    What is your dream super power to have?

    Definitely teleportation! And be able to transport people with me haha. With my hectic schedule I would love to be able to jump around anywhere for work, or to just travel without the long flights, or just relax 🙂

    If you could change one thing about the world, what will it be?

    I would change a lot actually, my number 1 would probably be to change the way corporate companies run the world.

    What is the craziest thing you have ever done or attempted?

    Nothing to brag about so far but I will be going sky diving for my birthday in August!

    Funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    Lamest attempt was definitely when I had a stalker that broke into my house and still thought I would date him haha!

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Allyson. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Someone who is confident, intelligent, funny, and has a passion for something beyond themselves.

    Follow the beautiful Allyson Joy on:

    Instagram: @hiallysonjoy 

    Website: www.allysonjoy.com

    Check out my Instagram to stay updated!

    Images courtesy of Allyson Joy

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  • How To Serve A Mistress Correctly

    How To Serve A Mistress Correctly

    I’ve always been more open about my sexual side and I have known this since at a young age. I have learnt a lot about different fetishes and kinks over the years. I’m honestly a full sub when it comes to my personal relationship with my partner but I work best as a Domme! I love the passion that comes along with kink, and it’s like nothing else which is probably why I love it so much.

    Characteristics Of A Submissive

    Loyalty and dependability are my top two favorite things. I want to be able to count on you to not waste my time as well as being able to trust you to serve me properly. Communication is very important because I want to be able to cater to all your fetishes so we can both be satisfied in the end. I can’t lie though, I am a financial Dominatrix so money is a huge factor in my selection of subs.

    Why Submissives Love Being Dominated

    It’s honestly always a very personal reason on why and what kind of fetishes they are into. One thing that doesn’t change is the enjoyment they get from their preferred fetish fulfilled. I’ve had a financial paypig who loves the suffering feeling of having to struggle to pay for himself and make his own life harder in a sense. He liked this because growing up, he never had this issue due to his financial upbringing, so it was a brand new feeling which ultimately makes him weak for his mistress.

    My sissy subs like dressing up in lingerie and acting like a female because they know they’ll never actually be a true masculine man. They give in instead and embrace their feminine side which is satisfying to them.

    My domination and/or CBT subs love physical pain for the pure feeling of it, they’re masochists and that’s pretty self explanatory.

    How Subs Should Serve A Mistress Correctly

    My number one pet peeve is whining so absolutely stay away from that. I like to have sessions with my devoted subs at least once a week so their need for me is heighten in their daily lives. If I give you tasks to complete, make sure you do them in the allotted amount of time and don’t ever make me wait. If you are my sub then only serve me, give me everything instead of splitting it between another Domme. Always pay for our sessions but that is already a given!

    Typical Punishments For Subs 

    I don’t give out too many chances, I have a three strike policy. I know I’m capable of finding subs who can devote their time and serve me in the way I like so if that’s not you, I have no problem with dropping you. However, if you mess up, I will make sure you make it up to me by giving extra tributes and showering me in gifts. I want to know you’re genuinely sorry for disobeying your Mistress and ensuring you won’t do it again.

    Mistress Milan – I’m a 21 year old bratty Brazilian financial dominatrix and humiliatrix! I love the feeling of weakening grown men into my devoted subs and leaving them always wanting more of me. I love power and mind control it’s the key to domination.

    Twitter: @Mistress_Milan

    Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/2484178 (MistressMilan)

    Tumblr: Mistress–Milan

    IWantClips:https://iwantclips.com/store/40056/Milan-Luna

    IWantFanClub: Milan_Luna

    Reddit: Mistress_Milan

    I don’t have any tours but I’m always accepting subs for sessions via Teamviewer, Kik, or Skype!

    Images courtesy of Mistress Milan, Featured image courtesy of Shutterstock

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  • What’s Abri Nicelle’s Fashion Style Like?

    What’s Abri Nicelle’s Fashion Style Like?

    Thank you for the opportunity! I am a 22 year old Microbiologist living in Southern California from a small town called Tonopah, Nevada!

    What is the best compliment you have received?

    One guy in college told me he was attracted to me because he always saw me at the library and the gym. It felt good to be complimented on my work ethic, rather than looks.

    Do you have any hobbies?

    Yes, I love reading, lifting weights, and spending time at the beach!

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    It depends on what I’m doing, but I would say I definitely have a girly, flirty, and colorful style overall.

    Which items are a must have in your wardrobe?

    A jean jacket, a nice pair of booties, and a classic crew neck are my must have items.

    Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t had the time to do so?

    Yes, I’d like to compete in a bikini competition at some point.

    If you could time travel, where will you like to visit?

    The 70’s or 80’s. I’ve always felt like I was born in the wrong generation lol.

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    The funniest time I can remember was when I worked as a tutor in college. One guy pretended to be in the Anatomy and Physiology class so I could meet to tutor him one evening. I came fully prepared to help him study. When I arrived he admitted he wasn’t in the class. He just wanted to take me out.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Abri. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I think it’s a bit different for everyone. I feel most sexy when I look strong. So for me strong is sexy. People can be sexy in different ways.. the way they dress, the way they speak, the way they look, or the way they think. Sexy is a powerful and comprehensive term. I think it’s a combination of confidence and allure.

    Follow the beautiful Abri Nicelle on:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abrinicelle/

    Blog: https://abrinicelle.wordpress.com/

    Images courtesy of Abri Nicelle

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  • New York Musician & DJ Jessica Louise Dye

    New York Musician & DJ Jessica Louise Dye

    I’m a musician and DJ living in NYC’s historic Lower East Side.

    What is your proudest achievement so far?

    Touring the world for music. And getting my cat to play fetch.

    How did your passion in music begin?

    I found music in my mid twenties.  It became my best friend, therapy, lover. Now I get to play in front of audiences surrounded by my best friends on stage with me. I’m also very fortunate to have discovered my love for DJing. I love seeing a room come alive when I put their favorite songs on!

    Where do you and your band get inspiration from?

    NYC.  Late nights. Lost friends. Puppy love.

    If you could collaborate with anyone past or present, who will it be?

    I’d love to make a record with Ryan Adams.

    Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but have yet to find the time?

    I’d like to be able to read all the great books sitting around my apartment.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Jessica. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    A blend of confidence, goofiness and the courage to be yourself.

    Follow the talented Jessica Louise Dye on:

    Instagram: @hellolightfoot

    My band’s music:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/3mnkKjjmtXT6mpSAxUSiIo?si=7wl0rrD4QmSszKADQwE4Uw

    I host and DJ a weekly rock ‘n’ roll dance party at Coney Island Baby in the East Village NYC called Femme Fatale – https://www.facebook.com/femmefatalenyc

    Images courtesy of Jessica Louise Dye

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