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Sizzling Ways to Seduce Your Valentine

When I was a teenager way back in the late eighties, us girls would get all nervous and worried around Valentines Day. We hoped and prayed that special cute guy in the class would ask us out. Later on, being a single young woman I did the same but then it was the guy in the office.

We women often assume or expect the man to ask us out and make Valentine Day special. This editorial goes out to the young readers. We need more “girl power”, you need to take control of Valentine’s Day and ask that cute guy out.

Once you have done it, you have to start planning the evening. Either you can go out and have dinner and then maybe a movie, but if you are in seduction mode, then you need to cook at home or at least use a catering.

Make sure you have plenty to drink at home and that the food is not too heavy. No big steaks or heavy desserts. You don’t want your man to fall asleep on the couch after dinner. Fish, seafood and salads are great.

Dress sexy, but don’t over do it. Let him see cleavage, but not your nipples. If you wear a skirt, keep it short, but he doesn’t have to see your underwear when you open the oven. Be light on the makeup, don’t over do it. Perfumes should be hinted at not bathed in.

Make sure you have done all the prep work before he arrives. That way you won’t get stains on your clothes.

After dinner, sit together on the couch; watch a scary movie so you can snuggle up close to him. Put your hand on his leg and then squeeze lightly at the scary parts. Turn into him, so that he can feel your boobs.

If everything goes as planned you should be making out by the time the movie is half way through. Now it’s the time to be brave. If you feel you will end up making love, do it on the couch. Don’t go hiding away in the darkness of your bedroom. Do it right there and then. Show him you are not shy and that you know what you want, and how to get it.

Undress him, loosen the tie slowly, and then unbutton the shirt one button at the time while you are straddling him. Let you skirt ride up on your thigh. Lean in to kiss him, but pull away in the last minute. Play with him, and have fun.

Do it on the floor, in the armchair or wherever there is space. This is the day of the lovers, so celebrate it.

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February 9, 2015
Have A Sexciting Vday
Have a Sexciting Vday!!

Life has been monotonous enough, and you are telling me that you just want to go through the motion this Valentine’s day with your wife? Come on!!

Do something out of the norm for you wife. How about a naughty evening for a change? Many times, women complain that their men do not spend enough time gearing thing up, or enough effort spicing things up. Guys, it’s time to take the lead this Valentines day!

Instead of paying a premium in restaurants and on roses, DIY everything YOUR sexy way at home!
1. Get home early to cook – in only an apron over your body to get yourself in the mood. Feel the air brushing through your skin and you will feel sexy instantly. Wait for her to return home.
2. Play some sexy jazzy music on the hi-fi. Humans are visual and audio creatures. Music gets yourself in the mood while waiting for her return.
3. When she gets ‎home, welcome her in that apron suit. Have a good kiss at the door before welcoming her to sit at the dining table. She should be very shocked by now.
4. Also get her to put on an apron, just like you. Instead of a usual gift, give her a sexy gift for this Valentine’s day. How about some sexy Babydolls? A naughty vibrator? Something that she will feel sexy in/on?
5. Instead of a ‎bouquet of flowers, how about a jar of condoms or edible undies?? Something that is really unexpected. By now, ladies already know what they are in for. The rest is up to your creativity to spice it up and create the fireworks that you want.
6. Have a good conversation over dinner. Please, gentleman, meet her needs FIRST!! No getting into action yet, let the sexual excitement build up through your attention towards her. Many women complain that they lose attractiveness in the eyes of their husband as they age. Proof this wrong to her through your undivided attention to her. Make sure you esteem her and edify her like you have never done it before. Even though you think she already knows, that’s not the point. She loves to hear it from you, again and again. So do it if you want what you want at the end of the night. Women love it!
7. Have some dessert wine (Ladies love them). Some alcohol makes the night a little more colorful. A little tipsy in a safe environment such as your own house is perfectly fine. In fact, it is so wonderful because there is nothing to worry about. Let yourself loose and let your heart take you home.
8. Have a small strip poker game or adult board game. You both have only 1 piece to strip anyway. It shall take you into action very soon.
9. End off the night whichever way u like it. It is time for your needs to be met, gentlemen. Make sure you make it memorable with a tight cuddle at the end. Let the tingling sensation linger after the fireworks to rekindle the love and affirmation.
So there you have it! Something different this Valentine’s day. You are free to add in any segment that fits your taste or fantasy. Remember, so something different, challenge your creativity in the realm of sexuality. I am sure you can rekindle the love between you and your spouse through a small act of creativity.

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February 9, 2015
My Saucy Valentine Sex list
Valentine’s Day. I love this day. It gives me the perfect excuse to spend my days leading up to it dreaming of endless possibilities and lists in pampering my partner, to indulge my partner in a night of unforgettable memories amidst our busy schedules.

I have always created different possibilities when it comes to Valentine’s Day. Questions of: What can I do to make this year a little more special, to create a magical night of discovery and exploration, a night of uninterrupted explosive sex that would push boundaries and create new undiscovered sensations. Why, I create a sexlist of course. My Valentine’s Sexlist. A sex list gets me prepared for a night of good expectations. It gets me psyched up and ready for what is to come.

My sex list always starts with the mood. How do I set the mood right for Valentine’s Day:
1. Candles. Nothing screams mystery and romance more than entering a dimly lit room, inhaling the scent of sweetness mixed with candle wax burning, flicking in the darkness of the room.
2. Wine. Alcohol in small amounts will increase your libido and make you feel flushed. Now imagine this setting where you enter into a dimly lit room, with wine by your bedside. As you start sipping wine, allow yourself to be pampered by engaging in long foreplay and by teasing each other ever so slightly. A slight nibble on the ear, hands moving up thighs, sharing a sip of wine between kisses. There are endless possibilities when it comes to spicing up the mood with some wine at the beginning!
3. Chocolates. Just like wine, chocolates are known to increase desire, arousal and sexual satisfaction. After all, you are getting ready for a long exciting night, aren’t you?
With the mood set, my sex list would carry on to things that would create an exciting adventure for an unforgettable Valentine’s Day night. I want to treat my partner to a full sensuous feast, to tantalise every sensation and every fibre possible.
1. A sexy lingerie. Valentine’s Day is the day to be creative and open, to wear something that you might not wear on an ordinary day. Be it a crotchless panty; which could open up a ton of creativity, or a sexy two piece lingerie, it is the day to give your partner a visual treat for the eye, and to make him yearn for your body simply by teasing his sight. Guys, do not worry, for you can do the same. Put on a piece of tong, or a C-String and you can be assured that your lady appreciates more than just the visual treat she receives.
2. Get your partner a sex box which comprises everything needed to create an unforgettable, explosive and intimate Valentine’s Day. Our Saucy Secrets, a Singapore based company (www.oursaucysecrets.com) , has made my dream come true by putting together creative, intimate, fun and exciting packages for every one of us. Each box has been carefully thought through to ensure that couples not only have all the necessary tools needed for an unforgettable night of pleasure, but that there is a central theme running through these boxes, tying in every item in the box. It is an adventure waiting to be explored. I had the luxury of exploring Saucy’s Valentine’s Box with the theme (Back to Basics), and Saucy’s Kinky Box, and I got to say, it sure blew my mind with the sensations I encountered with my partner. Not only did I get to know my partner’s sexual preference better and experienced such heightened sensations through the Valentine’s Day Box, I also got to explore my kinkier side with blindfolds, handcuffs and whips with the Kinky Box. It was sensuality at its best.
3. Foreplay. My Valentine’s Sexlist cannot do without foreplay. This is the night of romance and sexuality, the night where I want to take as much time as I can, pampering and teasing my partner slowly. It is a night that should result in an explosive orgasm, a night of unforgettable memory.
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February 8, 2015