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The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 1) – Introduction To Hotwives

Ever wondered what really happens on a hot girls’ night out? Meet Juliet Adelaide and her friends in The Secret Life of a Hotwife as they drive into the sassy world in this no-holds barred account of a hotwife’s lifestyle, and uncover all you’ve ever wanted to know, from the sensual and provocative to the risque and unspeakable.

Based on the steamy real-life experience of Juliet Adelaide, author of The Mrs Sexy Chronicles, this exclusive first-hand account of her exploration of sexual freedom and insight into the life of a hotwife will leave you begging for more.

Chapter 1 Teaser – Introduction To Hotwives

We order another round of drinks. I tell them that it gets much better. I talk about how Damian and I decided the car on the street was just too visible to be hopping in the back seat but we really wanted to fuck and it seemed my car was the only nearby option for the evening. We spotted a parking lot that seemed fairly empty and dimly lit so we moved the car and hopped in the back seat. The ladies are feeling their drinks thankfully as they giggle when I tell them that he said, “ladies first” as he wiggled my panties off me and rubbed his fingers along my pussy a bit before eating me out until I came in the backseat.

Julie is more interested than the others and is the only one smiling. I continue anyways with the story of how I sucked his cock, rubbing my hands firmly over it, stroking it, licking and sucking this good looking, younger guy’s cock, gagging a little on it as we grabbed a condom. I tell them how I hiked up my skirt and straddled my new lover. I slid his cock into me and fucked him as he moaned in my backseat. I told them how I really like it when men cum inside of me and you can hear the change in their moans. They looked at me as if I had gone crazy. Kristin simply asked me, “Why?” I respond, “I’m a Hot Wife” as if they will know what the fuck that means.

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Juliet Adelaide has a Bachelor’s degree in Humanities and Culture from Arizona State University. She started dating her husband at the age of 17 and they were monogamous for 25 years. They are a devoted couple who only recently opened their marriage to new sexual experiences allowing Juliet to become a hotwife.

“mrs Sexy” is the witty, erotic and true story of her experiences with this new polyamorous lifestyle. Juliet, (aka Mrs Sexy), takes you through the most personal moments of her romantic and sexual adventures.

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June 6, 2020
What It Takes To Be A Hotwife

As long as sex is between consenting adults, anything goes. I view sex as purely pleasure, much like eating a very decadent dessert or having a nice cocktail or glass of wine. Sex is an amazing mental escape and release of tension.

What Convinced My Husband To Allow Me To Be A Hotwife

Convincing him wasn’t necessary because in our entire time together, I’ve never been monogamous. In other words, he married me this way.

Misconceptions About Hotwives

According to dictionary.com “A hotwife is a married woman who has sexual relationships outside of her marriage, with the full knowledge of her husband“. This definition is accurate in my situation. We are not all swingers or have our husbands watch us when having sex with our bulls (some hotwives do, I do not). We don’t just fuck anyone. Like most people, I have preferences and select my lovers based on them.

Characteristics Of Bulls I Look For

Age 18-30, well endowed, fit, sexually open. I usually gravitate towards the edgy punk rock types, although a few sexy brainy types have caught my attention.

What To Know Before Becoming A Hotwife

Just make sure that the primary relationship with your husband is strong and that he’s on board.

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November 11, 2019
How To Have A Successful Cuckold Marriage

Cuckold stag/vixen relationships can be an exciting stimulating experience for the right couple. It takes a lot of discussion, trust in your marriage and each other to be successful. Sharing your spouse with others should be sexually rewarding for all involved.

How I Became A Cuckold Wife

My husband and I have been together for six years, and we had two experiences before we got married. My husband knew I had been in a swinger relationship before we met that had been exciting but the trust was not there and ruined it.

My husband told me he just wanted to watch me being pleasured by another man. I was insecure at first, we were still dating and I was afraid that it might change what we had. It did but for the better. It made our sex life more exciting.

How My Husband Supports Me

My husband is a wonderful man that loves and trusts me. He gets so turned on watching me being pleasured. Our experiences makes me feel sexy and powerful which makes us so hot for each other. We don’t get into the belittling and being constantly locked in a cock cage like some couples. We are more stag/vixen but depending on the mood, the bull, and the situation, we do play that way also.

What Couples Should Know Before Going Into Cuckoldry

There should be lots and lots of discussion. Rules need to be set and agreed upon beforehand. This is supposed to be fun and exciting for both and not hurtful. It can take your marriage to a new level but can ruin things if the trust is broken.

It is not something to jump into lightly. I don’t let feelings develop with a bull, they are there for fun and casual sex only. We have had good friendships with a few of them but that is all. We do not need or want any drama, just fun and hot sex. You will need to find the right bull that fits what you both are looking for. Be honest with your expectations and your fantasies upfront.

Be very clear about what you want and do not want to happen.

One of the most asked questions we get on our personal Twitter accounts is how to get their spouse to get into this lifestyle. We always tell them to be honest, have a discussion, watch some cuckold porn together or try going to a sex club to watch. See if it excites you both. Don’t pressure your spouse into anything, as that only brings negative emotions.

Tips To Make A Cuckold Marriage Work

Honesty and transparency are key to making this type of relationships work. I don’t do anything that he doesn’t know about. This works for us because of the love, respect and trust we share. If he or I decided tomorrow that we wanted to stop or take a break from the lifestyle, we would respect their decision.

Until then, we will enjoy the carnal world of cuckolding. We share our experiences and lifestyle on Twitter. It’s exciting and liberating to share with others like us or who are curious about the lifestyle.

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January 29, 2019
What It Takes To Be A Snowbunny

I love being open and viewing sex as having fun. Sex is an awesome release of stress and love thinking about what turns people on. I wouldn’t say that it’s all to dominate or be submissive, I like both. I like being in control; spanking, cage play, teasing…but also like being tied up, choked, spanked, came on. I prefer to be submissive only with black guys.

I love being able to openly share my experiences, photos, and videos with my husband and all my followers. I love that I can go out and experience life and not have a partner that’s controlling. My husband and I have a whole new sex life; I tease him all day long, we share memes, pics we find sexy, porn scenes we want to try, I’m like his personal porn star.

Getting Started As A Snowbunny

I’ve been with my husband (who is white) for over ten years, and I felt like I needed more sex and attention and black guys give me that! They know how to hit on a girl, and when my hubby showed me interracial porn and hashtags like #hotwife #irmovement #bbcslut #bbc, it made me so turned on.

How I Convinced My Husband

That was the only way I was going to be happy. I needed more attention, more sex, I wanted to be told how hot I am and I like to show off, but made sure he understood I didn’t want to leave him. I wasn’t unhappy with our sex, just needed more. We would come up with our own rules before I went out.

What I Love About Being A Snowbunny

I like the dark hands on white skin, I love how smooth and shiny the skin is. Watching a dark black dick enter my pink pussy is so hot! I find porn that is more realistic to my situation and body type the hottest. I never liked white guys in porn. When I saw big black men in porn fucking nice and rough, it was a major turn on.

I started only keeping my eye on black guys because really, I have my white boy already! Black guys love that I only fuck them! I consider myself a Hotwife because I am married and there are ladies all over the world doing the same kink. I realized The Queen of Spades is a Hotwife that likes nothing more than a big black guy… I love having an open mind and knowing I’m not the only one.

Advice On How To Be A Good Snowbunny

Have fun and don’t do anything you don’t want to do. I think you should always be nice and in my case, being a Queen of Spades, they don’t have to be monogamous! Enjoy the time spent getting those big black cocks. Take pictures and always try to take all that dick down all your holes.

What You Should Know Before Becoming One

The dicks are bigger and believe or not, black guys are not all dominating guys. Some like to be told what to do, how to fuck, and some like ass play. I have an open mind and can enjoy Twitter DMs of all kinds, except all dick pics with a smile, and know when it’s just fantasy. And girls, always stick together.

Mistress Melissa – Mistress Melissa, Queen of Spades, Hotwife, Snowbunny I love sharing my photos and videos, chatting with fans, and of course being a naughty little slut! I enjoy getting dick pics and seeing what guys are working with even if I laugh at the small ones lol. My cuckold gets caged sometimes… gets spanked a lot! Making new videos turn me on.

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September 30, 2018
mrs Sexy – Under The Influence

In mrs. Sexy-Under the Influence, Juliet Adelaide continues her pursuit of sexual excitement and adventure. Her original plan of becoming a hotwife has changed. She develops relationships with her lovers which were not part of the plan. She becomes too involved with one, develops close friendships with others, and dabbles in new experiences which include her husband. The absurd turns that her life is taking become problematic but she is addicted to her new lifestyle. Her marriage remains strong even though her behavior tests the boundaries of all the relationships in her life.

From Chapter 11 – The Games Continue

As I walked into the photographer’s studio, I am shocked that it’s really enormous. Ian and his business partners are creating a haven for local artists. It’s two stories and upstairs they are making a bar and lounge. There are all sorts of interesting props, light installations, and art in various rooms within the warehouse. I am advised that Ian is meeting his business associates for dinner, but it isn’t for a while. I am asked if someone should show early, can I say I’m the interior designer helping with colors for the rooms. OK. I’m led into one of the smaller rooms. There are various objects in the room that he may be using for photo shoots including a resort style massage table.

I am asked if I would like a massage. Absolutely. I am told to take my shoes off. He promptly reaches under my dress and pulls off my panties. He tells me that I should keep my dress on in case of surprise visitors in the warehouse. He remains fully dressed in a really nice button up dress shirt and nice jeans. I lay down on my stomach and he starts massaging my shoulders. I make a remark about this being a nice way to spend a Friday afternoon. He starts to massage my feet and legs. He tells me that today is all about me. He advises me that since he first met me at a coffee social a couple of weeks ago, he just wanted to touch me.

I am massaged for quite a while. Maybe twenty minutes in, he pulls my dress up around my waist. His fingers begin to gently massage my pussy. I have my face still in the massage table hole and turn to look at him. He touches my head and makes me put my face back down. He tells me just to enjoy. He continues to rub my pussy. He grazes my asshole and slips his fingers inside my cunt . He begins to rub quicker realizing I am nearing orgasm. I gently moan as I cum stretched out on the massage table. Now I know why men always joke about a happy ending with a massage. It’s quite an experience.

He kneels down in front of my face and kisses me. I ask if I could suck his cock for him. He reiterates that it’s supposed to be about me today, but he can’t refuse a little tease. His pants are undone as I am still lying on the table. I start to stroke and suck his cock. He moans a bit and jokes that he knows why I write about sucking cock a lot. He only allows me to do this a few minutes before backing away and telling me to turn over. He pulls me to the edge of the table and begins licking my clit. He is quite skilled. I am enjoying his tongue as he also uses his fingers to trace the opening of my pussy. I am fondled and licked by this attractive, fully dressed photographer. He senses my growing arousal and really puts his whole face into my pussy. He seems so into it and it feels so good. His mouth and tongue are quickening in pace and enthusiasm. I cum again and start writhing on the table.

He asks if he can put a condom on for a little taste of being inside me. I agree and am slid, sitting up, on the table to the edge of it. He kisses me as he enters and starts to fuck me. I see his eyes close as he gently moans. He pulls out and asks me to turn over onto my stomach. He enters me again and fucks me harder from behind as I stretch my arms out in front of me grabbing the edge of the table as I’m fucked. He stops abruptly and reminds me that it’s about me today. He pitches the condom in the trash and does up his pants. He goes back to massaging me a bit. He asks if I will be able to see him again. He hopes soon when perhaps we can have more time. He kisses me as I remain stretched out on my back on the table. We laugh as I’m getting up, and we notice my pussy juice mark on the bottom of his nice dress shirt. He says he forgot to bring a change of clothes, and he guesses part of me will be joining him for dinner. As I drive home, I wonder why I can’t move on from Max.

I tell my husband details of the story when I arrive home. He is happy that I had a good time. We have the night off and an odd night out planned. We are going to a rope tying party. We were just going as voyeurs. You could participate or just watch couples tie each other up into elaborate designs. Sexual art. It’s held at a local hotel. It seems very odd to pay to go watch naked and half naked people tied up to, what can only be described as, playground equipment. There are other various games including electro therapy orgasm table, various fetishes and paddles. Mostly it was couples tying the girl up to metal bars, often totally suspended and really quite interesting. We chat with a couple of people we had met before and some new people. My hubby is inspired when we get home.

He gets out a combination of leather and metal cuffs that connect to one another. I am blindfolded and told to lay naked on my stomach. My ankles and wrists each receive a special cuff. Those all pull back and attach to one another as I am essentially hogtied on my bed. I thought that it would be really uncomfortable and awkward. As he reached his fingers underneath me to play with my pussy as I was tied up, I had different opinions. I was very aware of things and it made me ultra sensitive to touch. He tickled and rubbed my body. He put his cock in my mouth for a bit and then slides my vibrator under me until I am cumming and writhing still hogtied on the bed. He undid me and told me to get on my knees as he fucked me hard and came deep within me. He collapsed onto me and held me for a while. It had been an extraordinary day.

Juliet Adelaide – Juliet Adelaide has a Bachelor’s degree in Humanities and Culture from Arizona State University. She started dating her husband at the young age of 17. They lived together while she attended college and often even worked at the same jobs. They are a devoted couple who only recently opened their marriage to new sexual experiences. “mrs Sexy-Under the Influence” is Juliet’s second book, and she takes you through all of the most personal moments of her adventures.

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October 17, 2017
I Fantastize About My Wife Having Sex With Other Men

When I have sex with my wife, I fantasize about her with another guy which enables me to reach a orgasm faster. Does this mean there is a cuck possibility in me?

Clearly you fantasize about being a cuckold husband so you have the potential to be a cuck. The question is are you now or will you ever be ready for the real thing.

It is very easy for a man to become overwhelmed and allow his sexual fantasizes to run wild – it’s a hormonal thing.

If you want to be a real cuckold who is faithful to his wife and supports her sexual freedom and extramarital activities, you need to step back and consider several things.

First and foremost, why do you want to be a cuckold; what is it that excites you about another man having sex with your wife?

There are three themes or motivating factors for a cuckold; bisexuality, voyeurism and submission-humiliation.

Is your desire to be a cuckold a covert way of sabotaging your marriage -or- getting your wife to allow you some extra-marital dalliances?

Is your marriage strong enough to the stresses that involving a third party might cause?

Aside from the sex why would your wife enjoy being a hot-wife?

Have you considered how your marriage might change after telling your wife about your fantasy and further how it might change if she went ahead and acted on it?

How would you feel if your wife began having more sex with another man than she has with you?

How would you feel if your wife rarely or never had sex with you anymore but instead saved herself for her lover?

One thing you might try is doing a thought-experiment. When you are in a public place with your wife, look at the men walking by and silently imagine how you would feel if some of them were having sex with your wife. It is important to do this exercise while you are with your wife when you are not sexually aroused.

In this situation you might find that the idea of some random guy having sex with the woman you married to be quite stressful.

This is a very complex topic and I welcome follow-up questions.

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Steve is a middle-aged husband and father living in the northern US. By day he works as a technical analyst/project manager for a large company by night he explores the depths of alternative sexual lifestyles – mostly involve female-led relations.

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May 4, 2016
How to spot a Cuckoldress

Is it possible to tell if a lady is a cuckoldress, as in are there any signs or vibes she gives? If so, how do I seduce one?

In some circles a hot-wife or cuckoldress is supposed to wear an ankle bracelet to denote the sexual liberties she enjoys. Other women will wear a wedding band or other ring on a non-traditional finger like the thumb.

The thing to realize is that any symbol can be removed and only worn at certain times or the wearing of some special jewelry might just be a fashion choice.

There are many niches with modern cuckold lifestyles so unless the woman has a necklace on with the words “Hot Wife” it can be very difficult and embarrassing to assume anything.

Seducing someone you suspect of being a hot-wife is no different than a single, unattached woman. Be charming, polite and engaging. It is advisable not to ask her if she is married but let her tell – when she is ready.

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Steve is a middle-aged husband and father living in the northern US. By day he works as a technical analyst/project manager for a large company by night he explores the depths of alternative sexual lifestyles – mostly involve female-led relations.

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May 1, 2016
Why I Love Sharing My Wife With Other Men

Fucking LOVE sharing my wife. The site and sounds of your wife fucking other man while you watch (jerking off) is the biggest turn on. The woman you love, married, and will spend the rest of your life with being pleasured by others. The smile on her face while she looks you in the eyes… moaning.. cumming.. and wanting more.

How Love I Have Been A Hotwife Husband

The first time I shared my wife with others was about 8 years ago, summer of 2007. Like most men that share their wives, I had fantasized about it for years. Bringing up the idea to her ever so often, sharing her pictures with others online, and using toys on her… while imagining it was another man fucking her.

Dee (my wife) finally agreed to me posting on ad on Craigslist. Yes, I said Craigslist. Luckily for us, that led us to a local swingers website. Once we posted there, a ton of good looking guys hit us up. It was summer and Dee was a teacher at the time. She’d chat with some of them during the day, getting horny as fuck. I’d come home and we’d fuck like crazy.

After a couple of weeks of her chatting, we invited one of the guys over that she connected with. That night, I watched another man fuck my wife for the first time…and it was FUCKING HEAVEN! Since then, she’s been “addicted” to big dicks.

Why Hotwifing Is Popular

Like most alternative lifestyles, the internet has a lot to do with it. Couples would stay “low key” about their kinks and not sure who else did the naughty things they did. Now, we can talk to others and see that what turns us on it’s so “out there” as most would think.

What Men Attracts A Hotwife

This is like asking what type of men do women like in general. I’m sure it varies depending on the woman. One constant, if any, is that they all seem to like big dicks. Guys that can fuck them as good, or better than their husbands.

Popular Hotwife Fantasies

To be the center of attention. The one thing I’ve found about all Hotwives is they love the attention. They don’t like being left on the sidelines to watch. They want to be part of the action. Either with another man, woman, or group … if there is playing going on they need to be involved.

Wayne Siren, husband to HOTWIFE & PORNSTAR Dee Siren. Owner & Producer for Siren XXX Studios and all around perv. Follow him on Twitter (https://twitter.com/SirenXXXStudios), Tumblr (http://mrsiren.tumblr.com/) and www.SirenXXXStudios.com

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January 9, 2016
Why I Love Gangbangs And Bukkakes

My name is Dee Siren. I am a pornstar and a real hotwife that loves fucking other men, women, and myself while my hubby watches and films it to share. Gangbangs, blowbangs, orgies, big toys, gaping, anal sex, public sex, and of course playing with my girlfriends.

I love gangbangs because I love the attention and love playing with multiple big cocks at a time.

My First Gangbang Experience

I have had many MFM experiences but my first gangbang was set up by my hubby for a video. The video is on my website, http://mrssiren.com and is called “My First Gangbang”. Four of my fans met me at a local swingers club that agreed for us to use it during the day to film. We had a great time playing on one of their big ottomans and I squirted all over the place. It was awesome.

Ideal Gangbang Size For Enjoyment

I would say the ideal gangbang size is at least 4 guys. That way, there are several cocks to play with at one time and all my holes are filled. It also allows the guys to take a break and watch and jerk off while others are playing. I am very insatiable and can keep going and going so all those involved are always having a good time.

Is Preparation For A Gangbang Required?

I don’t really prepare unless the gangbang will include anal sex (which will always need preparation). Otherwise I just show up and converse with the guys for awhile and then get going. I am a major squirter so I don’t ever need lube but others may need it so it’s a good thing to have. It’s really about letting go and just having a good time.

Rules In A Gangbang

Depending on the day, I may or may not want to include anal in a gangbang. It also depends on how big the guy is. I can take a lot more in my pussy than in my ass. I will discuss what I like and what I don’t with the guys. All girls are different, some like spanking, some like gagging, etc. Rules are very specific to the girl and what they are comfortable with.

The Everlasting Appeal Of Bukkakes

Bukkakes are all about exhibitionism and voyeurism. It is always fun to be able to show off and play with my toys in front of a group of eager guys but also having the control and knowing that it is not about fucking. It is about mutual masturbation and watching each other orgasm. Of course, in the end I love being covered in the guy’s cum after squirting all over myself.

Is Cum Good For Skin?

It is high in protein so I have heard but I’m not an expert.

And When They Start Cumming…

I normally continue to masturbate while they are cumming on me. Sometimes I will decide to give some a blowjob or jerk them off but if it’s a true bukkake, I watch them jerk off while I masturbate.

I continuously shoot video for my website and there is a weekly release for my members. I have a “fuck me” form in my members area so as a fan you can apply for a chance to participate in one of my video shoots. I do have fan events and meet & greets which I promote and announce on my website and social media. Follow me on Twitter (@mrssiren), http://mrssiren.com and http://sirenxxxstudios.com.

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Wife Gangbanged on the Couch – http://mrssiren.com/tour/trailer.php?id=69
Vegas Bukkake – http://mrssiren.com/tour/trailer.php?id=108
Dallas Bukkake – mrssiren.com/tour/trailer.php?id=390
Adult Theater Blowbang – mrssiren.com/tour/trailer.php?id=84
Gangbang in Austin – http://mrssiren.com/tour/trailer.php?id=78

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December 29, 2015
How I Became the Husband of a Hotwife

A hotwife is a woman who engages in sexual relations with other men outside of her marriage or relationship with her husbands approval. This hotwife-cuckold husband phenomenon has been steadily increasing over the past few decades and it is no surprise that having a hotwife ranks as one of the top fantasies among males. How does the husband feel when his wife is having sex with someone else? Whose idea was it? SimplySxy finds out from a husband of a hotwife, on how hotwifing came into his marriage and what is it about being a husband of a hotwife that turns him on.

When did the subject of hotwifing first come up in your relationship?

The subject first came up around 6-7 years ago. I had mentioned that I was interested in her being with other men in the past and then I started to learn more about the hotwife lifestyle (prior to that, I didn’t realize it was a “thing”). The more I read and learned about it the more intrigued I got. For context, we had been together for about 12 years (between dating and marriage) at the time.

Is this a fantasy that one of you always wanted before the subject was brought up?

Yes, it was a fantasy of mine.

What made the other party agree? (If one required some form of persuasion)

I was pretty persistent on it, but at the same time gave her time (I’m not the type to be forceful and really only have fun when my wife is having fun too). I would bring it up, and then let it go, and then bring it up and let it go. I always gave her time to think it over and was never pushy about it. We had explored with others a few times here and there over the years (never really considered ourselves as swingers though), so that bit of openness may have helped.

Ultimately it was just after we got back from a vacation and I emailed her with something short that was effectively “What would it take for you to have a boyfriend?”, that got her to start her search for a man to explore with.

How did the preparation for the first experience of your wife with another man go?

Her very first date was a just drinks date. She had met a man online, talked with him over email for a bit before arranging for a night to meet for a drink. I can still remember a few days before the date when she told me “I met someone online and am going out for a drink with him.” So in terms of preparations there weren’t many other than some coordination on when she should text me to let me know things were going ok.

What is it about this lifestyle that turns you on the most?

I LOVE a woman who is strong, confident and sexy and there is something about a hotwife that hits on all those points for me. It’s about her having her fun (not me telling/asking her to do things) that I love. I also love to see her with another man and I also love a slut 🙂

I’m a married and professional guy, I truly love women and sex and have found the hotwife lifestyle an amazing journey so far, full of ups and downs but never boring 🙂 Visit my blog to read my stories www.husbandofahotwife.blogspot.com

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May 31, 2015