Tag: Femdom

  • Reign of Power: Exploring Femdom Fantasies

    Reign of Power: Exploring Femdom Fantasies

    Femdom POV stands at the intriguing intersection of power dynamics and sexual gratification within the realm of adult entertainment. This captivating genre portrays a dominant female, known as a “domme,” asserting control over her willing male submissive, aptly referred to as a “sub,” in an intimate and sensual fashion. The allure of Femdom POV lies in its ability to transport viewers into a world where they can embody the submissive role under the firm yet alluring hand of a commanding figure. The scenes can range from mild to extreme, offering a diverse spectrum for individuals to delve into their desires and fantasies.


    Defining Femdom POV

    Femdom POV, also recognised as Female Domination Point-of-View, unfolds as an adult content genre where the female protagonist takes the lead. The scenes predominantly feature dominant women paired with submissive men, although variations may include multiple females and/or males.

    Within the realm of Femdom POV scenes, the female exerts dominance through an array of physical activities such as spanking, bondage, and roleplay. She may also employ psychological tactics, including humiliation or commanding language, to maintain her authoritative position. The point-of-view angle within these scenes grants viewers the immersive experience of partaking in the depicted sexual activities.

    For many enthusiasts of Femdom POV pornography, this genre offers an escape from the mundane, allowing exploration of their fantasies without the burden of societal judgment. It embodies empowerment, affording individuals the chance to step into the shoes of a formidable woman with absolute control over her sexual partners. Additionally, it serves as a liberating outlet for those who identify with a submissive inclination, enabling them to embrace their desires without fear of external condemnation.

    Overall, it provides a unique avenue for viewers to traverse the realms of dominance and submission, embracing the complexities of human desire.

    Exploring Femdom POV: A Glimpse into Dominance and Submission

    The realm of Femdom POV unfolds into distinct archetypes, each presenting a unique facet of power dynamics and intimate connections. Let’s delve into the enigmatic world of domination and submission, exploring the varied shades that Femdom POV embodies.

    1. Dominatrix or Mistress Play: A Symphony of Control and Pleasure

    Dominatrix or Mistress play encapsulates the essence of dominance and submission within Femdom POV. In this enthralling variant, a woman assumes the role of a dominant figure, imposing strict rules and orders upon her submissive male partner. The male partner is bound to obey her every command, and disobedience often results in punishments. Within this scenario, the female partner enjoys complete control, employing an array of techniques and even sex toys to heighten their shared experience.

    2. ‘Girlfriend Experience’ (GFE): A Fusion of Intimacy and Discipline

    Contrasting the stringent power dynamics of Dominatrix play, the ‘Girlfriend Experience’ or GFE focuses on fostering an intimate connection between partners. Here, the dominant female partner strives to cultivate a sense of love and appreciation while maintaining the capacity to enforce discipline when necessary. Techniques vary, from tender gestures to strict punishments, creating a unique balance of intimacy and dominance.

    Benefits of Engaging in Femdom POV: An Exploration of Empowerment

    Femdom POV offers a deeply empowering experience for all involved, emphasizing the importance of understanding and embracing dominant and submissive roles. This genre allows the female partner to confidently express desires within an intimate setting while exploring new boundaries alongside their partner. The resulting connection often strengthens and deepens the bond between couples, enhancing both physical and emotional intimacy.

    From a physical perspective, it provides a gratifying experience for all participants, intensifying pleasure through submission and domination. The submissive partner revels in the feeling of vulnerability, while the dominant partner creatively explores various control methods, employing body language, toys, props, and more. This heightened engagement often leads to intensely satisfying orgasms, enriching the overall pleasure experienced by both partners.

    Furthermore, it cultivates psychological benefits, fostering increased confidence and self-esteem. By taking charge during intimate moments, femdoms revel in the empowerment of directing their own pleasure, thus contributing to a more fulfilling and confident sexual experience.


    The Soaring Popularity of Femdom POV: A Glimpse into Modern Desires

    The popularity of Femdom POV videos can be attributed to a burgeoning interest in exploring diverse sexual activities. More individuals are willing to experiment with BDSM, making these videos increasingly accessible and enticing. The advent of online platforms has further amplified the availability and appeal of Femdom POV videos, allowing enthusiasts to explore their fantasies with ease.

    Beyond mere gratification, Femdom POV videos serve as educational resources, enlightening viewers about various aspects of BDSM. These videos offer insights into safety protocols and introduce a myriad of techniques, guiding individuals who wish to delve deeper into the realm of dominance and submission.

    Navigating the Complexities of Femdom POV: Unveiling the Multifaceted Challenges

    As Femdom POV gains traction within mainstream culture, it brings forth a series of intricate challenges for those involved in its production. Let’s delve into the multifarious hurdles that come with Femdom POV and shed light on potential strategies to mitigate them.

    1. Physical Demands: The Strenuous Ballet of Eroticism

    Embarking on the journey of Femdom POV demands a significant physical toll from the female performers. Engaging in arduous activities like wrestling and simulated sex scenes necessitates endurance and strength. It is imperative for these performers to maintain peak physical condition to execute these scenes safely, ensuring the well-being of both themselves and their partners. Additionally, the elaborate rope bondage techniques, prevalent in many popular Femdom POV scenes, require mastery, practice, and finesse to be performed safely and effectively.

    2. The Intricacies of Psychological Readiness: Embracing the Dominant Narrative

    Stepping into the realm of Femdom POV necessitates a psychological shift for all participants involved. The woman, often assuming a dominant role, must navigate the complexities of this persona. For those lacking natural experience in dominance or harbouring negative associations due to societal conditioning or past relationship dynamics, embodying this role presents a formidable challenge. On the other hand, the man must psychologically prepare himself to surrender his body completely to the control of another during specific scenes, an endeavour that can prove daunting without proper mental preparation.

    Conclusion

    Diving into the realms of contemporary adult entertainment, femdom porn has witnessed a staggering surge in popularity in recent years. Its allure lies in the intricate power dynamics it explores, offering viewers an unparalleled and taboo fantasy experience. This genre serves as a liberating gateway for individuals to navigate the intricacies of their desires without societal judgment, fostering self-discovery and a deeper understanding of their own sexuality. Despite the potential risks associated with engaging in this form of content, for those with an open mind and a willingness to explore, femdom porn can be an exhilarating voyage into the uncharted territories of eroticism.


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  • What One Should Know About Femdom

    What One Should Know About Femdom

    My thoughts on kink are that alternative lifestyles can be therapeutic and/or life changing. There is a place for anyone and everyone in the community, young or old no matter what size, shape, or color they may be. When someone explores their sexuality, they improve their quality of life.

    How My Interest In Femdom Started

    I’ve always been a dominant woman, but when I was 22, I’ll officially say it started. Life really wasn’t treating me the best. I had been nude modeling with local photographers for pay and it just was not enough. I just couldn’t live in poverty anymore, I have two mouths to feed. So I was looking for any option to get myself out of where I was. I tried being a sugar baby, but all the dates I went on were so strange. I would go out on a dinner date, which I required them to pay for, then 99% I never saw again. Most wanted to give me an “allowance”, then control my day to day schedule, or they thought I was gonna be like a prostitute (power to those who are, you ROCK). I was not comfortable with any of that.

    So one day, I was talking to this girl about it and she told me about “findom” and that she abused guys for money. A light bulb went off in my head and I google searched all the terms I heard her talk about. Surprisingly to me, this was all nothing new to me. I have been doing this to people for YEARS with a smile on my face. I thought I was just a shitty person, turned out there’s a whole community for queens like myself and we get paid to do it. So I made a Fetlife profile, then a twitter stage page and it went from there.

    Misconceptions About Femdom

    A misconception about femdom is that we wear leather and latex with six inch boots all the time. I will happily bust your balls in sweat pants, a sweat shirt, with no make up on. Costumes have nothing to do with a dominant mind.

    Another misconception is that femdom is easy money and it is just handed to you. I spend hours answering pointless messages, dealing with the emotions of my clients, and editing my videos and stage pages. Any message I miss is potential money missed.

    Favorite Domination Activities

    My favorite things are findom, ball busting, and foot worship. Findom is money domination and I love taking what’s yours. That honestly fuels me. Ball busting is loads of fun! I make a guy give me some sort of tribute, then I kick and abuse his balls until I’m happy (:

    Foot worship is self explanatory. Having someone on the floor worshipping my feet and the ground they walk on makes me feel like real royalty and I love that.

    Characteristics Of A Good Sub

    The characteristics of a good sub are:

    Having A stable job 40k a year or more type of thing

    How they approach, is it an inquiry or just a hey sexy

    Proper Grammar

    Tribute without asking

    Not needy

    Well dressed

    Well mannered

    No wife no kids

    The rules for me is I do not tolerate broke, hesitation, needy, or creepy. You must have a stable job. Everything is my way or the highway. If you can’t show me your ID and aren’t okay with my security clearances, I have no use for you. You must give me 24 hours notice for any plans with me. And I won’t consider giving you the time of day until you’ve benefited me in some way first.

    Why Do Subs Enjoy Humiliation?

    Everyone is hardwired differently. Say how a man is sexually attracted to a woman’s body parts, some men are sexually attracted to being humiliated. The part I enjoy is that I get to be as mean and nasty as I am and make them do these things to make me laugh and then get thanked and paid for it.


    Princess Lextacy – Professional princess from Cleveland, OH . It’s my way or the highway and you’ll do what I say with a smile on your face.

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  • An Introduction Into Femdom

    An Introduction Into Femdom

    Personally, for me, kink has been an outlet for a part of myself that I have not been comfortable showing to friends/family. I think it’s a great way to understand yourself, your nature, your motives. Kink has definitely been a life changer for me. It has opened me up to so many different ways of thinking and being. It has made me more knowledgeable about people’s behaviors and even my own.

    How My Interest In Femdom Began

    I started in 2015 as a webcam model. I got into Femdom by way of an ex-colleague. She was deeply into Femdom/fetish. When I first heard of Femdom/fetish, I was so uncomfortable because I didn’t understand why someone would want to be humiliated. However, as I started doing more of it, I realized that it was like therapy for me and the submissive.

    As a child, I suffered lots of verbal humiliation from my mother. Femdom allowed me to channel that experience and become the humiliator. It was a powerful experience. Through this I began to understand that it is how people deal with those hidden issues inside. Through kink, they are expressed.

    Characteristics Of A Good Submissive

    The best characteristic a sub can have is know thyself, be financially independent, have mental strength/endurance and do what I say! The rules a sub has to follow to be my bitch is very simple: DO AS I SAY, LISTEN, AND BOW.

    I am a Domme who enjoys control and gifts, so if they cannot pleasure me before themselves, I don’t waste my time. I am not into all the punishing, that’s not my style. You either do as I say, or I banish you.

    They always return.

    Why Subs Enjoy Being Humiliated

    Well as I have said before, humiliation during playtime is like therapy. They want to be humiliated partially because an experience or experiences in life have made them feel a way. It could be reinforcement of those negative beliefs. However, when channeled into something positive, by a Goddess who not only enjoys humiliating you, but also cares about you enough to bring you back down and remind you that you are not weak, is a powerful thing.

    I simply just love humiliating. It doesn’t matter what form it is. It makes me feel powerful and I have to say, I am very good at humiliating losers.


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  • What You Should Know About Femdom

    What You Should Know About Femdom

    I love kink, I love that there are a lot of different fetishes, and everyone has his own fetish. I heard them all from ear fetishes to ignore fetishes. It lets me be creative with sessions and that’s what I like.

    How My Interest In Femdom Began

    It all started with the question of a man, if I could dominate him…I thought okay, I can try it out with a girlfriend sometime. So we did. He gave us a nice amount of money and we tried our first Femdom session in real life, and we giggled a lot, and had fun. After the session I was looking on the internet to find more about domination and fetish and I saw it was a real big world…and that’s where it all started.

    Favorite Domination Activities

    I love to do CBT and Ballbusting, I’m a little sadist and I enjoy when other people are hurting. I put my boots on and just kick them in the balls very hard. But also online, I love it when a sub is open to do a lot for the cam.

    Characteristics Of A Good Submissive

    Don’t email me non stop, if your clip is ready, or with tons of questions. Make sure he reads my whole website, watches some clips so he knows who I am before he books a session. And on Skype, don’t let me walk to the pc for nothing… Never ask to see me naked, there are enough other girls who offer that so don’t ask me….

    Why Subs Love Being Humiliated

    It’s a certain feeling they get from it, and the feeling turns them on in some way. I love to humiliate them, I love it when they have a small dick I can laugh at. Most of them already look like losers, so it’s not very hard to have a good laugh!


    Elite Rose – A Goddess who is into a lot of fetishes, Femdom and Findom. Love to do custom clips, Skype sessions, Kik sessions, real life sessions and sell my worn items. Drop on your knees and start worshiping.

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  • What I Learnt About Being A Findomme

    What I Learnt About Being A Findomme

    I think exploring kinks and alternative lifestyles is a great way to not only learn more about yourself and what you like, but it also serves as an escape. You’re free to be as adventurous as you’d like and dive into things you may have not even known existed. You can even create an entire different life and identity which makes it even more thrilling for most.

    How I Got Started Into Financial Domination

    I actually didn’t even mean to get into Findom. I had a pretty good following on one of my personal accounts and pay pigs started messaging me asking if they could send me money. It was actually so insane to me at first because I didn’t even know a financial domination fetish existed.

    Long story short, for about six months, I did a TON of research about all the different aspects of Findom and learned as much as I could by silently following the scene on Twitter and Tumblr. I wouldn’t dare step into the community if I was clueless. I never planned to dive in like I did but I just fell in love with the fetish and it all comes so naturally to me. It’s truly addicting.

    Misconceptions About Findommes

    One of the most common misconceptions I hear about Findommes is that they’re all cruel. Each Domme has her own style. There are Dommes who still dominate but aren’t into the humiliation kink.

    Another misconception that is addressed all the time is that being a Findomme is easy money. I cannot stress enough how FALSE this is. It is not “free money” or quick cash. If that’s what you’re looking for, look into being a sugar baby. Sugar babies and Findommes are TWO completely different things. I always run as far away as I can when I come across someone who thinks they are the same.

    Characteristics Of A Findomme

    As a Findomme, you are a brand. It is definitely a job and there are so many different aspects to it. Consistency is probably the hardest part about it and why so many girls jump on the scene and give up after two weeks. You have to constantly be creative to develop content to put out. I usually post 3-4 times a day but that’s just what I’m comfortable with. I have found out with Findom, just like almost everything in life, you get what you put in so having a self-starter attitude is vital if you want to be successful. You work for yourself so nobody’s going to be there to remind you to be active and post or respond to messages.

    This next one might be a no brainer but I will say it anyway… You must be dominant. There are definitely things you can learn if you’re a Findomme but if you have absolutely no dominant traits in your personality, it’s going to be extremely difficult to be successful. Being a Domme isn’t just being bratty or being mean. It’s truly an art that takes time to perfect. When you do perfect it, it’s tasteful and drives subs crazy. They always are left desperate for more.

    It’s also important to be genuine. Lots of subs have been in the scene for years. They can recognize immediately when you aren’t being real or are a phony in any way. Both Dommes and subs are so cautious because of how many catfishes and “fake Dommes” there are online. Don’t steal or copy content. Findom is a pretty close knit community so once you establish a bad reputation, everyone will know very quickly.

    How Can One Stand Out As A Findomme?

    There are so many different platforms for Findom. I mostly use Twitter because that’s just where it all started for me. However, there is a ton of competition on this specific channel. My advice to stand out is to showcase your personality. Your profile is basically how subs and other Dommes get a feel for you and who you are.

    Post high quality content and put thought into your posts. It’s not enough to post a Snapchat selfie with a caption that says “Fuck you, pay me”. Think about what your competitive edge is and own it. What kinks do you specialize in? What makes you not just A Domme, but what makes you THE Domme?

    9 Tips To Get Started As A Findomme

    • Research, research, research. Stepping on the scene knowing as much as I possibly could really allowed me to move up very quickly.
    • Realize that this community is not always as friendly as it might seem. There are tons of trolls and timewasters. Don’t allow them to drain you of your time or energy. Also, stay away from drama.
    • Optimize your profile: tribute methods in bio, verification, links to any other websites.
    • Understand that, like any other business, Findom has high’s and low’s whether it’s financially or emotionally. There are weeks where you’ll make thousands and there are weeks where it’ll slow down. I’ve noticed towards the end of the month things slow down because everyone’s bills are due.
    • Network! Networking with fellow Dommes will teach you so much and also help you grow faster. It’s also so much fun to get to do double Domme sessions too!
    • Make use of relevant hash-tags (if you’re on Twitter or Tumblr).
    • Don’t try to be anyone else. Do what is true to you. Feel free to explore but also set your own limits.
    • Be smart and safe. Not to sound like your mom, but everything you post online is permanent. Don’t do anything that will ruin your future in any way.
    • Don’t use Paypal as your preferred tribute method.

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  • What You Need To Know About Blackmail and Hypnosis

    What You Need To Know About Blackmail and Hypnosis

    Femdom is really all there is for me. I’ve never had, wanted, or needed a job beyond being a professional dominatrix, but it’s far more than just income for me. Femdom is empowering and fulfilling in ways that I could never see another ‘job’ living up to. I’ve heard from so many of the subs I’ve interacted with that Femdom has given them renewed purpose in life, their Dommes having given them the guidance and direction they needed to become a person that they can be proud of.

    Some have even told me that finding a Domme has saved their lives, digging them out of depression and helping them fend off anxiety issues. Femdom is so much more than a different type of “porn,” it’s a real connection between two people who can each make each other’s lives better in some way. I’ve been being paid for my expertise in the fetish world since 2005.

    What Does Hypnosis Involve?

    I’ve always been interested in learning different ways of manipulation. Honestly, this world runs on manipulation. Everybody in life wants something from you, and everybody in your life has something you want. It’s all about learning how to manipulate them into giving it to you. You may even find that there are certain things that you want from yourself and then must find ways to manipulate your own psyche in order to get that to happen.

    Unlike stage hypnosis, which uses things like swinging watches, special effects, and swirling spirals, I am certified in hypnotherapy. Hypnotherapy is a verified psychological tool which is used to induce a trance or meditation-like state in the subject being hypnotized. Once in this state, the hypnotist can then mold and change someone’s behaviors, thought patterns, wants, likes, dislikes, etc. by implanting ideas directly into their subconscious (the part of the mind which controls all of your base desires).

    According to the Stanford Hypnotic Susceptibility Scale, 95% of the population can be hypnotized with varying degrees of difficulty. I’ve personally never run into any of the 5% of people who can’t be hypnotized, and have found that most go under with medium to moderate effort. Since all sensations are perceived by the brain, I am even able to make my subjects feel things that aren’t really happening to them in the physical world. Even if they are thousands of miles away, my subjects can feel like I am physically with them, touching them, punishing them, etc. I can also leave post-hypnotic suggestions, causing them to want or no longer want certain things, or to make them go under more easily again the next time I hypnotize them. I can even make it so that they don’t have any recollection of the session itself, which is quite useful for certain fetishes…

    The Blackmail Fetish

    I think blackmail fetish was my first love in the femdom world. The way I approach blackmail starts with a session wherein I will discuss the sub’s limits, weekly tribute amount, time frame of the contract, buyout clause, additional add ons such as session or assignment requirements, etc. Then I will write up an individualized contract for the sub in question. he will agree to it and sign it, along with filling out his information and sending over any pictures or videos he might have of himself. That’s when the real fun starts…

    The money, of course, is wonderful. I receive weekly or monthly tributes from the sub being blackmailed. Many also enjoy financial domination, which means I can enjoy asking for more cash just to watch them squirm, knowing full well that if they don’t pay, then they will be exposed.

    What I enjoy most about blackmail fetish, though, is the control it affords me. I feel that blackmail fetish is really one of the few ways that distance domination can have real consequences.  Once I have a little information on a sub, I can easily use that to extract even more information, pictures, videos, social media passwords, anything I want! And they know that if they fail to provide, or don’t follow through on a task, or miss a tribute then I’ll just expose their pictures and information on my websites and social media for all the world to see.

    The threat of being outed is a huge motivator, and the risk can be extremely arousing for my subs. A lot of fetishes involve risky behavior, and what can be riskier than having your information and even face pictures of you performing humiliating acts on display to strangers? It’s especially damning when everyone knows you literally asked for it…

    How Do Subs Know That Femdom Suits Them?

    Really there are only two ways to determine if you are meant for submission. First is research. What type of porn really gets you going? If you like femdom porn, you might just be a submissive. However, fantasy and reality are often very different. Just because you like watching a sexy Mistress kick a sub in the balls until they’re black and blue doesn’t mean that you can handle actually being that sub.

    The best way to determine if you are built for a life of servitude to a Superior Goddess such as myself is to find someone you trust and give it a try. Start slow, don’t go all in for ball kicking on day one! Maybe start with something more simple, like spanking or light CBT, and if you like it, go from there. Try new things, see what you enjoy most and build on it. Never be afraid of saying, ‘this isn’t for me.’ Any good Domme will understand limits.

    Characteristics Of A Good Sub & Rules To Follow

    It really varies from Domme to Domme, but I know for myself, respect is key. Even if it is the first time you’re contacting me, do not use pet names like “baby” or “hey sexy.” If you’re thinking of serving Me as your Superior Goddess, act like it.

    Second is communication and honesty. Not everyone can complete every task or fulfill every desire for everyone, but everyone can communicate and be truthful about their own abilities, and can learn to take responsibility for their actions (or failure to act) without making excuses. If you know you can’t do something, say so. If you know you’re going to be out of town when we have something scheduled, let me know more ahead of time than the day of the session or tribute deadline.

    Lastly, my time is valuable. I am a professional. My subs will pay for my time. I am a fan of the idea that I first hear from Mixtrix – if you contact a woman for something that will be used to arouse you or get you off but refuse to pay her, you are looking for someone to use, not a Mistress to serve.

    Types Of Punishments For Subs Who Don’t Obey

    It really depends on each individual sub and their limits, likes, dislikes, and if we have a contract of some sort. The easiest is fees – the requirement of sending an extra tribute to make up for a failure is pretty standard and universal. Others include physical/pain punishments, being ‘grounded’ (not allowed to go out with friends or family for a certain time), general tasks (writing lines, etc), chores, being disallowed from sessioning with me for a certain time or until the issue is resolved, humiliating tasks, etc.

    If the offence is great enough, the sub will be blocked and his behavior will be posted on my website and Twitter for everyone to see so that any future Mistress who he approaches can search Google and see what he has done to one of his previous Mistresses.

    Other Hobbies Of Mine

    I’m an avid video gamer. I prefer survival horror and sandbox style games. I also enjoy most non-mainstream boardgames. I think Betrayal at House on the Hill is my favorite. For sports, I practice a lot of judo, and Brazilian jiujitsu. I do tight lacing and corset training on both myself and my slaves, particularly my sissies. I love baking, especially for those I care about as well, and enjoy crafting as well. I’ve also made and designed most of my websites, so web design I guess is a hobby of mine too.

    I love astronomy and art. I have the entire Northern hemisphere of constellations tattooed on my right arm. It is by far my favorite tattoo (so far three) and I plan to get my favorite nebula (the Orion Nebula, M42) tattooed on my left thigh. I also enjoy music, particularly singing. I have a piece of music from a friend who worked at the Renaissance Festival as a bard tattooed on my right thigh. I’m very passionate about art, particularly tattoos, and plan to have as many as possible. I have six currently.


    Mistress Kiara – I have been a Professional Dominatrix both online and in the real world since 2005. Currently residing in the lovely town of Ann Arbor, Michigan, I pride Myself on My vast knowledge of the fetish world, as well as My unique fetishes and portrayal there of. I prefer using a more intelligent and refined demeanor when dealing with My subs, rather than a bratty or bitchy approach.

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  • How To Train Your Slave Online

    How To Train Your Slave Online

    I adore the practice and play of BDSM. When practiced with a critical eye and consent – it is really an incredible way to experience life. I see BDSM as a safe space to push on the boundaries of our identities and our interactions with others. It can enable us to feel into our edges and recognise how to exist with them in a productive and enriching way.

    Personally, BDSM has helped me to explore aspects of myself that society has shunned – my personality as a dominant female to be specific. It has helped me to frame it in a way that I accept and that is accepted and even enjoyed by others.

    What Is Slave Training

    BDSM slave training is the process of ‘training’ a submissive into a role of service – namely, the role of what is termed a ‘slave’ in BDSM. The actual process is always different depending on the preferences of the Dominant party. But essentially it’s familiarising a submissive with the protocols, behaviour and preferences of the Dominant – in order for the submissive to function to serve or please the Dominant in the best way possible.

    Appeal Of Online Slave Training

    I have created an online slave training program and filmed slave training video clips because it enables me to reach a much wider audience. An audience that may never have had the chance to session with me in person. It also provides a bridge for many who may be wary of meeting a Domme in real time. For them to get an experience and a better understanding of what it is like to serve someone well versed in the art of Domination. It also provides an extension of knowledge for those who are practicing real time. A chance for them to get to know me, from anywhere.

    I really adore slave training because I find real value in seeing my submissives grow into my desires – and into becoming more self-aware and considered beings as a result of their service. It is much more fulfilling for me to see them grow rather than to cater to individual fetishes or kinks. I am also a Lifestyle Domme (where D/s is a natural joy to me); and I’m also a bit of a protocol fetishist – which suits slave training and behaviour modification perfectly.

    Training My Slaves Online

    All submissives can join my slave training program at youwillpleaseme.com; which has daily tasks, courses, images and videos to guide you into your slavery to me. There are different levels all the way from learning how to dream over my images, to making a commitment to my slave agreement.

    Submissives can also watch my slave training Femdom video clips – which feature instructions on different kinks such as foot worship and strap on training…

    My Expectations Of Slaves

    I have a whole slave agreement that goes through many points hah.

    But essentially the thing I prize above everything else is honesty – to myself and their own selves. It is important that subs come with either an awareness of where they are at (emotionally, psychologically, intellectually, financially); or that they are ready to start looking at themselves under my guidance.

    Without this you are not the sub/slave-in-training for me. I enjoy my slaves to be self-aware or on the path towards it. This makes for the most sustainable and strongest slaves. Slaves that can bring as much to the relationship as I will.

    I understand that this can sound intimidating for new submissives – but that is why I have different courses. They allow different personalities at different stages to feel out what service might be like – whichever stage they are at or interested in.

    Things To Consider Before Being A Slave

    It is good to be aware that every Dominant will have their own nature and therefore every relationship will be different.

    With this in mind, it is good to do your research – feel out the personality of your Dominant before you approach them (if you can). Or take your time to get to know their personality, priorities and preferences before making any long term commitments.

    Also, don’t beat yourself up if it doesn’t work out. It might not be the right Dominant for you – or, you might not be as submissive as you thought. BDSM is about exploring the potential of human personality and sexuality – don’t limit yourself to roles or activities as best you can.


    Mistress Eva – Mistress Eva is a lifestyle Domme with an accomplished past in professional domination. A classically trained Dominatrix, Mistress Eva has toured the world since 2012. She is now semi-retired in the tropics, runs an online slave training platform (youwillpleaseme.com), films XXX Femdom videos and owns a stable of international personal slaves. She meets them and other potential recruits once a month in cities worldwide.

    Follow Mistress Eva on

    Online slave training: youwillpleaseme.com

    Hong Kong Domme: hongkongdomme.com

    Singapore Domme: singaporedomme.com

    Twitter: twitter.com/youwillpleaseme

    Instagram: instagram.com/youwillpleaseme


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  • What Exactly Is Findom?

    What Exactly Is Findom?

    For many, kink can be a form of therapy and catharsis; a much needed escape from reality. Everyone has a different take on kink and a different experience, meaning the possibility for something new and interesting to be discovered is limitless. Whether it’s a 24/7 lifestyle or just for play, sensual or sadistic, kink provides us with a safe community where for some, they can finally let go and be themselves.

    What Is Financial Domination?

    A branch of BDSM Femdom, financial domination involves a (usually) male submissive submitting to a dominant, known as a Domme, Goddess, Mistress, (or male Cashmaster) financially. This submission can take many forms, from buying gifts, to money transfers known as ‘tribute’, and in some cases, giving the dominant full control over bank accounts and credit cards.

    The submissive, known as a ‘finsub’ (short for ‘financial submissive’), pay pig, or money slave, finds a sense of arousal in handing over financial control to the dominant. As with traditional Femdom, financial domination is routed in an exchange of power and is often coupled with humiliation kink, obedience, chastity and orgasm denial.

    Sounds scary? It is! Financial Domination is one of the few branches of BDSM with real world consequences, blurring the lines between role-play and real-life, making it one of the more intense and addictive forms of submission.

    Why I Enjoy Findom

    I’m very much a controlling person in my personal life and in my private relationships with men, and online financial domination has been a fun extension of that.  I definitely enjoy the power and adoration that comes with being a Domme, and I’ve been able to meet and be served by wonderful people that I ordinarily wouldn’t have met otherwise.

    Characteristics Of A Good Finsub

    Dedication, devotion, obedience, and a willingness to learn and make sacrifices are all qualities of a good finsub. Gratification should come from amusing and improving the life of the Dominant, the finsubs personal wants are secondary.

    Tips For Potential Finsubs

    No two Dommes are alike, so take your time finding someone who’s style and personality meshes with yours. Compatibility is key to a lasting and fulfilling relationship, both inside and outside the world of BDSM. Prior experience isn’t necessary, but it’s important to be clear about your limits and needs outright. Your Domme will guide you, challenge you, and shape you.  Together you’ll explore parts of yourself you may not have otherwise known existed.


    Luss the Queen: Australian Financial Dominatrix with a penchant for humiliating, controlling, and teasing men. Lover of key-holding and total power exchange; shaping men into whatever she desirers at any given time.

    Follow me on:

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  • Exploring My Fetish Side With My Favorite Fetishes

    Exploring My Fetish Side With My Favorite Fetishes

    My name is Alexa L. Taylor, I am a typical 29 year old woman with a wonderful career, however I also am a sex worker. I enjoy sex work, and more importantly, the benefits that come from it.  I have been in the adult industry since I was barely legal.  I’ll never forget the day my college roommate found my first dildo which I was using on cam with a man 10 years my senior that my boyfriend got me. And since then, sex work and I have never parted.

    A lot has changed in the past 11 years, however, I am excited about this opportunity to share my story and viewpoints with SimplySxy readers..

    When I turned 18 I had this bright idea that I could be a porn star, however I couldn’t balance school and porn, and school won.  I graduated from college and went on to graduate school and beyond.  It wasn’t until my mid 20s when I started taking my adult life style seriously.  I joined a webcam modeling studio without realizing what that meant and foolishly signed the right away to my name.

    I have re-birthed myself many times over and about 2 years ago, I finally began to really understand who I am as a sex worker and am excited for where I am headed.  I am an adult webcam model who sells content in the form of videos, and private Skype sessions. I started out as a webcam model for free, and I had no idea you could grow up in a very much Christian household, however, I realized at a young age and embraced my sexuality and was curious about my body in addition to the adult sex worker lifestyle.

    I think alternative lifestyles help bring out who you are without judgement.  The only opinion you should be worried about is yourself.  If you don’t like something, then you shouldn’t do it.  And if you really enjoy something, then go ahead and enjoy yourself.  Chances are you will find others who enjoy the same lifestyle.

    At first it can be isolating. However, I have found that if you want to build a community, you’re going to have to be social. Find others who share your interest, be friendly, don’t divulge in drama and you will be happy.

    Exploring My Fetish Side

    I am a huge exhibitionist.  I get off on other people watching me and as soon as I learned I could get paid to do what I love, I never looked back.  I started off camming for free which turned into camming on adult cam sites which eventually grew to creating content and selling it online.

    I started exploring Femdom and Findom about 4 months ago.  I came across Iwantclips.com through a very popular cam model on Twitter.  I was up at 5am getting ready for work, checked my Twitter and saw I could upload clips to a site and sell them to eager fans.  I had to make 5 clips at once in order to open my store, therefore I created a sexy work video, a cumming video, a strip tease video, and a yoga video. After exploring the sites’ Twitter page, I came upon Femdom and Findom.  And I was mesmerized by the idea of selling my powerful and dominating nature.

    I am extremely competitive and I always want to be #1, and anything I put effort into usually turns into gold.  I value work and  striving for success no matter what.  And my plan is to really grow into Femdom and Findom. I hope to make a name for myself.  I have been eye candy for men since it was illegal for anyone to look at me…why not benefit off my beauty and make men kneel before me and worship me in all my glory.

    Personal Fetish Favorites

    Femdomme is a huge fetish that I didn’t know existed until January of this year.

    I like it because it flips the tables on the male dominating world we live in.  It forces men to put their egos and cocks aside and think of women as their goddesses.  The pendulum has finally swung into our courts and the men who divulge into Femdomme tend to be thee most generous men I have ever met.  That is after you have found the needle n the haystack  or “white whale” amongst all the time wasters, losers, crumbsnatchers, and free loaders.

    Women are responsible for much of the good in this world and often times women are mistreated, disrespected, or completely robbed of their dignity that we deserve.  The men who realize that there needs to be a shift in power are the men I am eager to meet.

    Fetishes I Like To Tty

    I personally would love to try bondage ,I think it’s super enticing.  I’d love to tie someone up with rope and tease them and allow them to experience an uninhibited orgasm all under my control!!!

    Also forced intoxication…men are always buying drinks for girls so that we will get drunk and lose our inhibitions so that they can fuck us. Well why not turn the tables…let me fuck your wallet while I make you drunk on your own dime…lol sickening and I love it..

    How Fetishes Complements My Sex Life

    Interestingly after I started divulging into Femdom and Findom…I have started to become a lot more bossy when it comes to dating and my sex life.  I find this to be extremely empowering.  I no longer care about making sure my male partners are completely satisfied.  I actually demand my own satisfaction before ever making sure he’s okay.  In terms of being a pleaser, I pretty much had stopped all of it…I no longer care if men cum or don’t….I know how to make you cum…the question now is…do you know how to make me cum…and just how many times do you plan on doing that…..


    Miss Alexa L. Taylor is a 29 y.o. woman Living in Southern California. She was born and raised in Miami Florida and moved to California a year ago to continue her career.  She enjoys all things women empowerment including findom, femdom, humiliation etc.  She strives to make  a name for hers elf in the sex worker industry and hopes other women will find her inspiring and a pleasure to be around.  As for men your only purpose in her life is to bow down and serve any means necessary.  To sacrifice your needs for hers is the only way to gain her attention.

    Follow her on:

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/Alexa_L_Taylor
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    IWantClips: https://iwantclips.com/store/69410/AlexaLTaylor16

    Nite Flirt: AlexaLTaylor

    Skype and Kik are available for purchase on Iwantclips.

    I will be moving back to the east coast for exactly 18mos therefore  for all the fans that have missed me on easter standard time zone and wanted to meet me I wil be back in July! Cheers


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  • The Goddess Asia on Sensual Domination

    The Goddess Asia on Sensual Domination

    The alternative lifestyle that expresses kink and fetish interests is BDSM. BDSM can be a fun, exciting, experimental lifestyle but it is not for everyone. Some prefer the same vanilla, routine, normal, standard lifestyle.

    Typical Characteristics of Sensual Domination

    Restraints are often used, blindfolds, oils, and ropes. Sensual Domination for me, mainly involves a lot of sensory overload, sensory deprivation and sensual teasing.

    There are many different types of domination. Sensual, erotic, mental, emotional, financial, etc. You probably are used to the “Fifty Shades of Grey” type of BDSM..LOL.

    Organising A Sensual Domination Session

    It varies depending on the Submissive’s interests and hard limits. I like Electro Play, cold and hot toys, sensory toys, oils, etc.

    Session of Sensual Domination

    There’s no typical session that I’ve had so far. All of my sensual sessions have been very different.  I can say that the Submissive in a Sensual session gets very excited, aroused without any sexual activity. Many times, they will need time to recover, catch their breath after our session ends in a happy way. It’s fun to take someone over the top with their pleasure senses and control all of the reactions.


    Goddess Asia – I am the Sexiest Asian Femdom you will ever meet. Queen of Tease – Pleasure & Pain. Warning: I am Very Addictive. Follow me on Instagram @thegoddessasia, Twitter @yesgoddessasia and Snapchat @lovesammyv

    I will be traveling to San Francisco in January. Plans for future travels to Dallas, TX. And Manhattan, NY. TBD. Travels will be updated on my website calendar.


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