I think kink is a means of an individual, in this case for me, the sub or slave having an outlet to be able to live and express his/her fantasies or hidden desires without judgement. Many kinks such as an example Assworship, Feetworship or Humiliation just to name a few, are often ways for the sub or slave to do what’s called power exchange which also allows them to release hidden anxieties and frustrations.
As for alternative lifestyles, I feel it’s the most healthy way to live because this allows a person to experience both reality lifestyling which is going to work, dealing with family and friends in the “vanilla world” as we call it. But then in the secrets of their alternative lives, being able to live out their fantasies with a Domme whom most time specialises in their fetish rather than maybe, humiliation, sissy-training, mind-fucking, superior female domination and so many others that I haven’t listed.
How My Interest In Femdom Began
I was approached about FemDom almost 20 years ago, so it was asked of me based on my look at that time. I was in a nightclub and a man approached me. His statement to me was, “You look so intimidating and dominate, I’d do anything to serve you and be your slave.” My response to him was, “Get lost you stupid F@#K, you’re a weak a$$ loser aren’t you?” He got on his knees, extended a large sum of money and begged. From that night forward, I did FemDom sessions off and on until it became a lifestyle for me.
3 Favorite Humiliation Activities
My number 1 favorite is Tease and Denial Humiliation. I like it because it’s exactly it’s name. I tease them about, lets say the size of their penis, which is most likely micro sized. This excites them and makes them hard enough to get it the size of lets say a mouses’ cock. Then, I deny them the right to cum.
2nd favorite is Financial Humiliation. I enjoy this one because they (the sub) are like a gambling addict. Day after day they come with money from their credit cards, bank accounts, savings accounts and anywhere else they have money trying to please me. It’s an erotic high for them and me.
3rd favorite is Jerk Off and Cum Denial. I enjoy this one because I tease them with erotic movements of my body and my alluring voice, then when they are close to cumming, I stop them LOL. There’s nothing more fun to me than denying a man on the edge.
Why Subs Love Being Humiliated
Subs enjoy being humiliated because it gets them physically excited, it gets them hard unlike regular stimulation of sex. Regular sex does nothing for this type of sub, they are aroused by being mentally insulted, degraded and made to feel smaller than a worthless ant being pissed on by a dog.
I love making them feel so bad about themselves that sexually (and mentally) it makes them explode, that is IF I allow them to which as you’ve read earlier in my interview, I take great pleasure in denying them and this includes the losers.
Characteristics Of A Good Sub
Characteristics of a good sub is one that always does what pleases his Goddess or Mistress and is never self-serving, one that always asks permission for everything, one that knows his Goddess/Mistress is everything and he is nothing but her humble servant for whatever she desires of him.
As for rules with me, I have a variety of subs that do various things and serve in various ways. But all of them follow the same rules. Respect me and my decisions, obey me at all times, I am always right. Never be self-serving. Be available to me whenever I desire their service.
Punishments For Disobedient Subs
As for me, I terminate the relationship because by experience, when you simply punish a sub and allow them to stay, they gain momentum to disobey again. I don’t tolerate disorderly or disobedient subs. The ones I’ve had to release has regretted their defiance and have begged to come back but I don’t allow it.
Rahjah Stoney – As a ProDom, I have subs and slaves from all around the world. Some serve me in real-time where others serve me via online. No matter where they serve me the result is the same. All men find themselves weak to my seductive humiliation, my erotic commands and my provocative power. My eyes draws them, my voice moves them to follow my commands and my muscular warrior body drops them to their weak knees. Follow me at:
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