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  • Insights Into An Escorts’ Life With Hope Morgan

    Insights Into An Escorts’ Life With Hope Morgan

    Sex to me is a natural thing, a thing we cannot control. Each person has a different libido, and I have to say my libido is extremely high.

    For all of us, it’s important to recognise that we are all different, and the things that are right for us are different to the things that are right for someone else. We should be respectful and positive about people’s sexuality or sexual relationships, and support their right to explore their sexuality in a safe, consensual and responsible way.

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    How I Began Escorting

    I have worked in the adult industry for many years now; I started working as a stripper and this had led me to explore the industry more by becoming an escort. I have been escorting now for around 12 months and love it. It really has changed my life and opened my eyes to a whole new world.

    What Makes Me Unique

    I am easy going, well educated and get along easily with all kinds of people. I am your companion with good looks and without attitude.

    Common Misconceptions About Escorts

    So many people have a negative view of escorts and the men that see them. We need to remember, it is the oldest profession.

    A misconception is that escorts are unhygienic and diseased. Escorts who have sex for money will rarely, if ever in most cases, have sex without protection.

    Another is that there is something immoral about women who get paid to have sex, women who escort or get paid for sex are usually very strong willed women who know what they want and are not afraid to get it.

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    One Tip To Dating An Escort

    Since working as an escort I have not dated anyone as it’s not an easy thing for a partner to accept.

    I think I would like being open and honest within the relationship and talking about issues as they arise.

    Hope Morgan – Elegance and Charm without the Attitude. I can walk into a room full of strangers and before long will be laughing like old friends. Follow Hope Morgan at her website www.hope-morgan.com and on Twitter @miss_hopemorgan

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  • Client Etiquette Tips And Advice When Booking An Escort

    Client Etiquette Tips And Advice When Booking An Escort

    Most of what occurs during sex is in the mind, the anticipation of meeting a client can heighten the experience. I think open mindedness is a common attribute of many providers, more importantly, is living in the moment. Ticking off a list of sex tricks and positions is not nearly as sexy as connecting with a sexual partner. Having tried a range of sexual practices, the affairs I recall most are always those that are more natural, personal, intense and therefore erotically charged.

    Photo: Louise
    Photo: Louise

    Expectations Of A Client

    The laws are different in the UK but the screening process is vital, it’s impossible to feel sexy if I am nervous about the meeting. To lessen these nerves, the client should offer details of his essential personal information such as his name, full details of the location, with booking references. Many times, clients have naively asked to meet in a public space but for me this sets alarm bells ringing for many reasons. I have no guarantee he will arrive and there’s always the potential for mistaken identity. A client should always allow enough time and privacy to make a call to learn more about the provider. Regarding more intimate questions, if providers are being vague, it could be because they are concerned about falling foul of US laws. Be considerate and don’t push too much, you’ll get a clearer view of a provider’s service by reading reviews. I don’t add all my services in order to be tasteful.

    Photo: Louise
    Photo: Louise

    Mistakes Clients Shouldn’t Make

    The worst is saying hello and not introducing themselves. Or better yet, failing to take a note of the provider’s name, age, look details and donation. Asking these obvious questions again makes you look like a time waster. Once it is clear to me that a prospective client does not have the essential details correct, I tell them to go back to the site and read it again. Aside from that, I don’t want to talk about finances unless negotiating a longer date and time that could be better spent learning about each other.

    Photo: Louise
    Photo: Louise

    Is Prior Experience Important?

    I think the main difference is in how apprehensive the two sets of clients might behave. The screening process can seem invasive for new clients. The idea is not to cause offense but to first and foremost ensure my safety, only then can I unwind and be at my best.

    On the other hand, newer clients do try to make more of an impression with the arrangements such as the restaurant and the choice of hotel. For that reason, a date with a more experienced client tends to get off to a smoother start, the focus being on the date proper rather than all the arrangements.

    However, we all have to start somewhere, my favourite clients are in fact those who are not especially experienced, and actually very nervous during the first date. Over time, the nerves subside and I appreciate the attention.

    Photo: Louise
    Photo: Louise

    Do’s & Don’ts During The Date

    Just be yourself. If you don’t normally wear a suit and eat at five star restaurants, then don’t do it. You’ll come across as uptight and this can be sensed, possibly leading the provider to feel uncomfortable. Naturally it is important to make the right first impression and treat each other well. If you are arranging a longer date, find an activity that is unique rather than one that makes you uncomfortable. Some of the wonderful activities I have enjoyed with clients includes walking, horse riding and reflexology.

    My name is Louise, I am a British provider based in London and available for international affairs with advanced notice. I am an English rose with rosy cheeks and a view on life to match. I continue to work in my professional career because I believe it helps to maintain an appealing balance between sex and brains. This also means I am selective about who I choose to date so you can rest assured I have a joyful attitude to the opposite of sex.

    Follow Louise on Twitter @ModelBelleLulu and on her website http://bellelulu.com/

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  • Things To Know Before Becoming An Escort

    Things To Know Before Becoming An Escort

    My personal thoughts about sex have grown since being raised to believe that sex should be between a man and woman, and should not be done until marriage. Since working in the sex industry and becoming sexually active two years ago when I was 16, I believe that sex can be whatever you want it to be. Our society has grown from the stigma around sex, and the “logic” that sex is not sex without penetration is fading makes me more open to talking about sex, and not keeping it a secret that sex work is my career choice. To me, sex in the industry is currency, and sex in my personal life is emotion.

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    Starting Out Into Sex Work

    Stepping into the sex work industry began with my aspirations to become a porn star at a very young age (probably too young) and I found a decent looking producer who had worked with a couple of big names. After shooting a few scenes, the producer introduced me to the escorting agency that he owned, and offered me a job. My perceptions of sex work before becoming part of the industry was based on everything I have seen in the movies, on TV or reading articles on “How to become a porn star”. I thought that the industry would be easy to deal with mentally, and it was at first, but after only 6 months being a sex worker, I learned otherwise.

    Not What I Expected

    After being a sex worker for 6 months, I started to realize that although movies and TV shows may document sex work, they either showed the horrific and traumatic side, or the luxurious glamour side, there was no in-between. I started noticing that I was conditioning myself to be able to mentally deal with going into work every day, and my patience with clients was decreasing every day.

    When I decided that I did not like escorting anymore, the dollar signs that blinded me made me realize what I was missing, girls being manipulated to work on their periods, or seeing agency owners try and take advantage of the girls started to disgust me.  My reality check didn’t really hit me until I found some forms at an agency’s location. The form listed services, and choices to select, one being “dislike but will do”. It confused and repulsed me to think of how somebody left an option to check that lets girls perform services like “fantasy rape” “rimming” and “slapping” even though they do not like to.

    The saddest part about these forms, was that the girl who had filled it out, selected “dislike but will do” on way more than one service. I expected there to be negative parts of the industry, I just didn’t expect for me to work for and be associated with those types of agencies.

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    Be Independent Or Join An Agency?

    Being an independent escort means booking your own clients, posting your own ads, and exposing yourself to a higher danger risk. Almost all of these agencies are not owned by your average John Doe, and even if they are, I am almost certain that they are associated with the type of people who can provide a high degree of “security”. The only benefits of being an independent escort, include not having to pay your boss a cut of what you make, and not having to be pushed or persuaded into doing services you don’t feel comfortable doing or working more than you want, and even then, there will ALWAYS be at least one client that insists on not using protection, paying the full price, or being aggressive with what they want. Ultimately, the pro’s and con’s of escorting with an agency vs. independent balance out. Neither are safe.

    One Important Tip

    Many of my friends, and even strangers, male and female call, text, email or message me through my social media accounts asking for advice on becoming an escort; my advice always stays the same. You need to be at peace with the fact that at any given moment your family or friends could and most likely will find out that you are a sex worker. Anybody who has second thughts about going into the industry, should not pursue becoming an escort.

    I don’t waste my time explaining the dangers of escorting to people to ask me about it, because it’s common sense, that being a prostitute (and yes, I used the P word) is dangerous. I thought being an escort would be my career, and that I could last as an escort. Ultimately I changed paths, while still a sex worker I now work at a spa, where I am free to do whatever service I am comfortable with or no service and just a massage if I please.

    I recommend finding an agency that is women owned and operated; it may not make a huge difference for other girls, but it sure did for me. At the end of the day it is a person’s decision whether or not they will be sucked into the sex work industry and it will not take long at all for anyone to realize if sex work is for them or not.

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    Cece Richwood (formerly known as Cici Stiff)  is an 18 year old rising porn star and former escort from Canada. Cece dropped out of high school after 2 years leaving her passion for playing American football behind. Knowing she would enter the sex work industry and some day make it big, Cece kept her stage name true to what she is known by in her personal life (Cece/Cecilia); her family and friends are all aware of her choice to be a sex worker and supports her. Currently Cece works at a health center as a day job and is striving to shine in the porn industry while taking her experiences as an escort to guide her through the sex work industry. Cece has an upcoming episode airing on MTV called “MTV True Life: I need Danger Sex” documenting her life as a sex worker, and discovering the category of “Dangerous Sex” porn.

    Follow Cece on Twitter @CeceRichwood, Clips4Sale http://clips4sale.com/list/en/search/Cici%20stiff/category/0/storesPage/1/clipsPage/1 and bookings at CeceRichwood@gmail.com

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  • How To Satisfy A Woman In Bed

    How To Satisfy A Woman In Bed

    What are my personal views on sex? I think it’s really fun! This lighthearted sort of view stems from the idea that if any one of us lives long enough, it will/does stop being fun at some point. This is probably true for women sooner than it is for men, very generally speaking. So that’s why I think: Have the fun while you can!

    While it’s immensely pleasurable, sex is also a very primal thing. Maybe that’s why it’s a topic that evokes a lot of curiosity, while also being somewhat uncomfortable to talk about. The curiosity can be a bit one-sided, meaning, while it may be natural for others to be very curious about other people’s sexual affairs, many value privacy with regard to their own sexual escapades.

    I think that in one’s sexual adventures as fun, one should consider a few important elements. Respect, empathy and common-sense are the few that I can think of at the moment. Respect – meaning respecting your sex partner via investment of time, effort and/or so on and also, being sensitive to your partner’s boundaries. Empathy is important because sex is one of the states in which one is most vulnerable.

    A sexual dynamic, whether one is the recipient or provider of sex, invites for the opportunity to dehumanize and abuse the other party. Empathy is important to counter that risk. Common-sense refers to staying/playing safe, and going to the doctor to ensure one’s health for one’s sake, as well as his/her past, present, future partners.

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    My Turn Ons

    I’m not someone who requires physical perfection to be attracted to someone. Rather, I am someone who sees beauty in imperfection because I feel as though imperfection is the very thing that makes us all human. As a general rule, I like older men, and always have. As far as more specifics as to what I find attractive,  I think it’s difficult to know what really turns me on until I see it and experience it. It’s almost as though I have to try it to know if I like it!

    Sometimes, the attraction is purely physical and immediate. I see someone across the room and go “wow”.  Maybe it’s something about his lips, hair, or as he walks closer, the way that he smells. Then ensues the slight discomfort of anticipation of what may unfold.  As he gets closer, the space between us feels like pressure inside a champagne bottle waiting for it’s cork to be popped. Sometimes the attraction is more elusive. Maybe it’s something about the sound of his voice; or, the deliberate yet gentle way he glides across the room; or, the way his hands slide down my back in an embrace. Other times, the attraction begins as cerebral-like, for instance, after a thoughtful conversation. In that case, it is the intellect which serves as a sexual catalyst.

    As you can see, there are more than one ways to become aroused. Generally, I’m not someone that finds it difficult to become excited about having fun! Most important thing is: Just be a nice guy.

    Foreplay Mistakes Men Make

    One of the most obvious mistakes is foregoing foreplay entirely. Of course, this only applies to guys who are overly eager and/or inexperienced. What I need the guy to do exactly, as part of foreplay, depends on where we are and how much time we’ve allotted to our fun. If the act is completely spontaneous, no foreplay may be required at all. In that case, we may be both already so thoroughly in the moment and excited by the prospect of the act to even remember foreplay as a requirement.

    Otherwise, being the very tactile person that I am, touch is usually a good start. It can include the more obviously erotic areas such as what’s in between a lady’s legs, or the more erogenous zones like the back and neck. Caresses, fingering, or kissing are good options. Some women also like toys as part of foreplay. And then, there is also 69/mutual oral which some might find especially fun!

    As for the breasts, as much as my partner is enthusiastically willing to provide is fine with me. I don’t have any specific breast play that I favor.

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    Ready For More!

    Whether or not I require oral depends on how much time my partner and I allotted to the experience. Sometimes the circumstance is simply not conducive to making oral sex a priority before penetration. So with that said, from experience, I know that I can definitely go without. Penetration usually happens as a natural course of things. Sometimes, the partner asks outright. Other times, the partner intuitively knows when to put it in, as much as he knows as to where.

    At this point in my sexual adventures, I think I’ve graduated to liking various styles of sexual positions. It all depends on the circumstance.

    Lilith Gilman, or “Lily” for short, is a professional companion based out of CA. She’s a blonde, blue-eyed classic beauty with a distinctly European look; a slender build that is still supple to the touch; a soft voice with a non-distinct accent; and a gentle disposition. Nature, the arts and “fun”  are some of her favorite things. Follow Lily at:

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    https://twitter.com/LilithGilman

    https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?ID=260847

    https://www.preferred411.com/pwb-public.cfm?cid=120825

    http://openadultdirectory.com/escorts/CA/

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  • What Every Guy Should Do On A Dinner Date

    What Every Guy Should Do On A Dinner Date

    What I love about dinner dates is that it allows myself and a gentleman to connect on all levels over mouth-watering food and delectable wine. There is something very sensual and satisfying about connecting and exploring each others’ minds while we talk and laugh over dinner and drinks. A dinner date allows us to take our time and get to know each other better.

    I recently had the honor of being invited to a 2 star Michelin restaurant in beautiful San Francisco.  This is the first time I had visited a Michelin restaurant so you can imagine how excited I was! The food and wine pairing was out of this world and my date was the perfect gentleman! I am a foodie and I love to cook.

    I have a very open minded personality and I adore trying new places and new foods. I would love the luxury of going on more amazing dinner dates where I can explore a wide variety of cultural foods. I would be interested in trying some Ethiopian food as I have heard it is very tasty. I would love to meet more cultured interesting men who will open up new doors for me to try new cuisine so we can explore more together.

    In addition to being a courtesan I am also a personal trainer, so I am very interested in eating healthy cuisine. I love to shop at farmers markets and cook and experiment in the kitchen with all the fresh produce and make some yummy dishes.

    Since I am a big food and wine enthusiast (don’t get me started talking about cooking shows), I also offer weekend excursions. I would love to go to the Napa Valley for the weekend with a gentleman that appreciates fine wine and amazing delicious cuisine. I have a very curious mind and I would love to learn more about food and wine. I am part Italian (also Irish, German and French) so I love good homemade Italian food and succulent wine paired with the food. I am now getting hungry for some spaghetti and meatballs or lasagna.

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    Preparation Every Guy Should Do

    I believe a man should treat this as a very special night. I appreciate a man who is freshly showered, shaved, smells good (body and mouth) and wearing appropriate dinner attire.  I love it when a man dresses up and wears a suit and tie, especially if you are going to a Michelin or expensive restaurant.  It not only shows respect to the lady, but to the entire restaurant as well.  I am old-fashioned and love a well dressed man for a date. For me it says you care when you take time to pay attention to the little details. Awhile back I was on a dinner date and the man wore jeans, a t-shirt and sneakers to the restaurant.  Not only did we look mismatched, but I was very embarrassed to say the least. You never want the lady to feel embarrassed. You always want her to feel excited and proud to be on a date with you.

    Some extra finishing touches I feel that would add to the date would be to send a limo or car to pick her up, beautiful flowers (I love roses) and perhaps her favorite bottle of chilled wine, champagne and hor d’oeuvres available upon her arrival. I love starting out a dinner date with some champagne and various hor d’oeuvres  (I love french champagne and my favorite is Veuve Clicquot).

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    First Impressions Count!

    First impressions are very important and sets the mood for the entire date.

    What I first notice is my dates’ appearance and even his smell. I love a good cologne on a man. I can tell when a gentleman has put effort into the date because he is clean, well-groomed, looks handsome and smells good. You can tell when he puts some some thought into the date because it shows.

    Bad Date Experiences

    Yes I have had two bad dates so far. One happened last year when I first got started in the escort business and was too trusting and naive.. The guy wrote me a check for my companionship which of course bounced.  After we had dinner he went outside to have a cigarette and disappeared and I had to pay the bill! He actually had the nerve to text me later on and wanted to come back to my place and finish the date! I did verify the guy through another provider but sometimes these guys can be good for many dates and then all of a sudden become bad. So now I always pay attention to my gut feeling. I did not have a good feeling about this guy, but I overrode my impression of him and went ahead with the date. I have since learnt my lesson.

    The other date was not a scam but the guy showed no class, dressed down and put very little effort into the date. He even let flies and moths into the hotel room lol (I mean it was like a Seinfeld episode and btw I love Seinfeld!). I mean he was not even hungry when it was time for dinner and never even made a reservation. He did not make the date or me feel very special and of course I did not have a good time.

    I would say that bad manners and no or little attention to the details are date spoilers for me.

    It takes two people to make a date special and memorable and when one party does not care to make a good impression, it can make a huge difference in the overall date experience and connection.

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    Signs She Is Enjoying Herself

    If I am laughing and engaging in lots of conversation with you then you will know I am enjoying myself. I am very expressive and vocal and I will tell you I am having an amazing time with you. I will also be enjoying the food and wine and talking about how delicious it is.

    I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve and it is easy to tell if I am having a good time. If I get quiet then that is a bad sign (well anytime a lady gets quiet that is a bad sign lol) I am bored or the date is just not going well and we are not having a good connection.  I will also look around more and not really engage much with you if I am not having a good time. I am not hard to figure out.

    Stephania Ricci is an Exotic International Courtesan who specializes in  luxury dinner dates and travel companionship. She is also a Foodie, wine and fitness enthusiast. Follow her on Twitter @stephaniaricci1 and on her website www.stephaniaricci.com

    She is going to be starting a series of podcasts soon and if anyone would like to be informed the minute each one comes out, you may either follow her on twitter or sign up for her email list at her website.

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  • How To Spice Up Your Sex Life

    How To Spice Up Your Sex Life

    My personal views on sex are vast. I find most people acquaint their sex life to dating type relationships. What most refer to as vanilla. To me sexuality is a huge playing field, from trying out new toys to swinging and fetish. It’s a chance to explore and become more self-confident while satisfying inner most desires. Sex is an important factor of a balanced life whether I’m in a relationship or not. Sex is beneficial for the mind and body. As long as no one is being harmed, there is no right or wrong. It’s all about what’s right for you. I actually categorize sex as a form of self care.

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    Experiment!

    Experimenting is something I find to be really fun with a partner. I’m a visual person. Toys are a lustful interest of mine. I have several luggage bags full of vibrators, dildos and such from my experimental journeys, whether alone or on a group venture. It’s my feeling that experimenting brings couples closer together. My consorts always keep me mentally stimulated with an amazing variety of interests. I adore going along for the ride. Sometimes we have to play a little naughty doctor or maybe dress up. A man isn’t a man until he has strapped on a garter and heels. Other times they like diving into a true release with a little domination or sensual bondage. As long as there is no physical or mental damage taking place. I am all about experimenting. Fear doesn’t belong in the bedroom. You need to push boundaries to discover new areas of enjoyment. You may even learn something about yourself along the way.

    Non-Existent Sex Lives

    Any relationship is work. To have a great sex life, you have to put effort into it like any other aspect of your relationship. Very often, kids and a busy lifestyle are the main issue for couples trying to stay intimate. It’s really hard after a long day to feel sexy. Unresolved arguments, or lack of communication can also be the culprit. Feeling like you’re never on the same page is an easy way to hinder sex. When you’ve been together for years things are bound to get boring. If your intent is to have a healthy sex life, some efforts in the right direction are easy to spice things up.

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    Ways To Spice Things Up

    The first step to spicing up a couple’s love life is communication. I know this may sound cliche. You would be surprised how often couples are not even on the same page when it comes to sex. Building trust through open communication is the step that launches you into a better sex life. I’d advise setting aside time to have an open honest, non-judgemental conversation about things you’ve been dying to try. This can lead to experimenting with different toys and positions. It can start off simple, perhaps a strategically placed vibrator during oral sex for him or her. Often, role play or a trip into a bit of submission territory with her at the wheel.

    I find that many couples who have gotten that far have an amazing sex life. Playtime can then escalate to new adventures. Encounters such as threesomes may come into play. Which for this I always advise hiring a professional escort. It’s just a safer way to go both emotionally and professionally. It alleviates any concerns of affairs or gossip after the fact. Women or men well versed in entertaining couples can help guide the way to a truly intimate, exciting and eye opening experience.

    Another suggestion I like to make is separate bedrooms. If you have the space to do, it’s not wrong to have your own space to sleep in. This aids in two ways. One, you always get a good night sleep. Two, when you do come together for sex it can almost be a bit of a date night. It actually takes some effort and thought. There’s something special about it. No one is rolling over for a quickie. Although you may argue over who has to sleep in the wet spot.

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    The Benefits Are Endless

    Adventurous couples are very often best friends, lovers and life partners who live enriched lives through these experiences. The act of experimenting together helps create a deeper level of trust and intimacy. The openness to communicate desires, boundaries and curiosities can only make a relationship stronger when approached as a team effort. Physical benefits also prevail. Sexually active men and women tend to be healthy and carry less stress versus their less active counter parts.

    Endorphins are believed to help fight depression. Serotonin has a euphoric effect on the brain. This is why humans are often in “in love” after having a sexual encounter. Women can greatly benefit from regular orgasms. These muscle reactions actually help to tighten the vaginal walls, which helps fight off muscular atrophy which occurs as we age. The perks to spicing up your sex life are amazing to the mind, body and relationship in more ways than most people truly recognize.

    I’m Arden Moon a career courtesan and industry adviser. When I’m not planning the next erotic adventure. I can be found enjoying my fitness routine, golf or writing. I’ve authored two books relating to the internet escorting industry. Residing in the playground called Las Vegas. Life is a non stop party. You can catch me in a city near you as I tour the US in 2016. Follow me at ArdenMoon.com, Twitter @VipArdenMoon and Instagram @ArdenMoon

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  • 5 Things You Didn’t Know About Escorts

    5 Things You Didn’t Know About Escorts

    I love sex and everything that’s related to it. I view sex as a great source of fun, relaxation and endorphins 🙂

    I’ve always been very sexual and a bit promiscuous. Already at quite a young age, I realized I’m attracted to older boys/men and that monogamous relationships don’t satisfy me. So when I first got an offer to have sex for money, it didn’t take me long to decide to go for it. I did the math and came to the conclusion that having lots of sex with various guys and getting paid for it is even better than doing it for free 😀 So I became a prostitute.

    At first, I had some lovers who gave me “pocket money” and then I started to advertise as an escort and meet clients on a daily basis. After a short time, I found out that working abroad is more lucrative and adventurous, so I started to travel for work to richer European countries. Nowadays, I mostly work in Scandinavia, France and in Prague, where I live, but I consider visiting other European countries in the future.

    1. Popular Requests From Clients

    Most people want to meet me for an one hour long encounter and their popular requests are kissing, blowjobs without condom, CIM and girlfriend experience in general. I also get requests for longer appointments and overnights, which are more about companionship than about sex, but most of my meetings are the combination of both.

    Concerning the requests for specific services, most of my clients want a GFE, because that’s what I specialize in. Or better said, it’s the way I normally treat them, unless we agree on something else. Kissing, cuddling and a lover-like attitude is what feels natural for me. My website and ad is targeted to the men seeking for this kind of experience, therefore the GFE is the most common request I get. Many people also ask me for anal sex, prostate massage and giving them golden showers.

    2. Preferences For Certain Clients

    Age and looks are the least important things for me. In general, I prefer men who are experienced in terms of how to please a woman, but the inexperience ones can be fun too. I like to teach them. I’ve met quite a many virgins and in many cases, I didn’t want to believe them that they really had no experiences.

    If it is about penis size, I don’t like anything extreme. Apart from that, I don’t care whether it’s small or big, thin or thick. It’s more about the technique.

    I only have preferences about the clients manners and behavior. I like to meet people that are polite, respectful and who want me to enjoy the meeting too. Since I’m careful and selective about who I meet, I rarely have clients who aren’t like that.

    3. Establishing A Good Connection

    I think it’s all about being relax. So I just keep myself in a good mood and it seems to be working 🙂 I just act naturally, wear casual clothes (unless they ask me to wear something specific) and I treat them like my lovers. Then in most cases, the clients are relax too and the chemistry and the connection just shows up. What clients don’t like are the girls who are stressed out and the robotic professionals who act like they think they’re the best girls in the world.

    4. Falling In Love With Clients

    I see romantic love that people write poems about as a set of chemical reactions, just like happiness or sadness. The sensation of feeling in love is given by the same set of hormones that are released when doing sports or eating chocolate. So to me, falling in love is something that can be controlled or even avoided, if I want. I sometimes feel that kind of emotion when spending time with some clients. I’m even able to feel “in love” a couple times of a day and with various people 🙂 I always enjoy that feeling, but I don’t let it fool me. First and foremost, I love my freedom.

    Even though some of my regular clients are more like my friends, I always keep our relationships professional. We meet up, have a good time and conversation, and that’s pretty much it. I enjoy the time we spend together, but I refuse all the offers for unpaid encounters I get from them. I have a lot of good time with my clients, so I don’t have a need to go for dates that aren’t part of my job.

    5. Challenges Of An Escort

    I sometimes have to deal with prejudices and stupid questions, but I believe that’s something what everyone who doesn’t go with the flow faces from time to time. When having to communicate with people, that are prejudiced or negative, I always try to remember that what they’re saying is not about me, but about them and their lack of information.

    Another challenge are various legislation about prostitution, which are said to be settled to protect the escorts, but do the exact opposite. That would be a topic for a longer article, I guess.

    The challenges people often talk about, such as bad customers or sexually transmitted diseases can be easily avoided by not taking the risks, being well informed and by simply following my intuition.

    Escorting is as safe and fun as I make it. And I love to have good fun 🙂

    Hi, I’m Coco and I’m an independent escort working in Europe. Few years ago, I decided not to waste a minute of my life by doing things I don’t enjoy and by doing what others expect me to do. So I turned my passion for sex into a profitable business. When not spending my time with nice gentlemen, I love doing sports, educating myself, traveling around the world, relaxing and doing whatever makes me happy at the moment 🙂

    Follow and contact me at http://www.coco-independent-companion.com and Twitter @coco_companion

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  • Insights In The Life Of Montreal Escort Genevieve Marceau

    Insights In The Life Of Montreal Escort Genevieve Marceau

    My views towards sexuality are positively open minded, and I consider this act as an important form of self-expression. The bedroom (or any other room) is where the mask falls. It is during this exhilarating moment that we release the deepest side of our personality, the one that we keep from the general public. We enter a world of fantasy where we can truly be ourselves, without fear of judgement. To me, sex is a connection: an exchange of power and energy with the partners involved, between the mind and the body.

    I have been an escort for 4 beautiful years now. I had this comfortable, safe 9 to 5 career in which at some point the free thinker that I am grew incredibly bored out of it. I simply needed more in life. I needed to grow and expand as a human being. I always did the right thing, following the right path as per the society’s standards, and one day, I decided that I could no longer take more of this polished and unchallenged life. I then reached out to my escort friend, and asked her to introduce me to this world of mystery and sensuality that is the companionship profession. To this day, this was one of the best decision that I made in my life.

    I am unique, just like everyone else! On a more serious note, I don’t have competitive views on the trade. I see other escorts as my colleagues, a networking community where we exchange tips, ideas and from which friendship may thrive. We all have something different, special and unique to offer, and therefore it is impossible to compare to one another. At the end of the day, it’s only a matter of personal taste and chemistry.

    My trademark would be my generous and all-natural hip to waist ratio, which is not so common for Caucasian women. More than my sensual skills and physical attributes, I also consider myself a great listener with a considerable general knowledge, and with an acute intuition for non-verbal cues. I am an INFJ personality type, which only represent approximately 1% of the population.

    The requests that I would consider weird are usually received from time wasters who don’t have real intentions of committing to an appointment, therefore they are forgotten as soon as their demand comes in. As I have previously mentioned, I have a non-judgemental approach towards sexuality and for that reason, I would never qualify as “weird” a request coming from a serious client.

    I am grateful in life for not putting me in such situation yet to call off a date halfway into it. I did have rare occasions where I refused to see the client for a second appointment. Included in those reasons was a self-entitled attitude, or even a poor hygiene.

    My name is Genevieve Marceau (pronounced Mar-sso), a Montreal based courtesan who takes pride in delivering an authentic, reliable and ethical experience of the highest standard. I am also internationally available by private invitation.

    Follow and contact her at www.genevieve-elitecourtesan.com , Twitter @MissMarceau and Instagram @GenevieveCourtesan

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  • Sexy Reads – The Courtesan Handbook

    Sexy Reads – The Courtesan Handbook

    Do you dream of designer clothes, fine jewelry, five star dining, and vacations to luxury resorts? For centuries, certain women have made their living simply by living a fantasy lifestyle. Historically, such a woman was called a “courtesan.”

    Today, women who live this luxury lifestyle, and get paid to do so, are known as “high-end escorts.” It is a world that can provide a woman with financial security in addition to glitz and glamour. It has also been a world that few have been able to enter. Until now.

    In The Courtesan Handbook, Arden Moon mentors her readers using her years of experience and a passion for the art of escorting. The author has had enormous success in the industry both before and after the business transitioned into a mainly digital industry. Escorting can lead to an incredible lifestyle for any woman. However, entering the upper echelon and mastering the craft is virtually impossible without the sort of valuable knowledge offered within this book. If you have ever thought about being an escort or are a novice wishing to expand your knowledge and increase the caliber of your clientele, then The Courtesan Handbook is your perfect step-by-step guide.

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    After getting down to you under clothes the fun begins. In my sexy bra and matching g-string I’ll ask him to lay face down. From my bag I pull out the massage oil and harm a bit between my hands. Take the warm oil and spread it across his back. Gently spread it over the entire back area and across the shoulders. Start with the neck area and a gentle kneading motion. Begin to work your way down to the shoulder blades.

    Be sure to pay equal attention to both sides. You will work your way down the back to you get to the lower back, the lumbar region. If he still has on his boxers then this is a good time to slowly remove them. After you have slipped them down and off around the ankles. Begin to massage his lower back and buttocks area. Now you want to turn this to more of a full body massage. By this point you are most likely a good 20 minutes into your hour. Begin to stimulate him sexually at the very base of his back and his buttocks. I suppose most would refer to that as the booty crack. Do this with your tongue, an exposed nipple, or by blowing gently blow on the oil.

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    However, if you want him to cum good oral skills can be a blessing. Many times men have a hard time reaching ejaculation with a condom. Many times I have lubed again and again followed by every position. Some men will not be able to cum with a condom on. You will want to have good oral skills to help finish him off. Good technique includes if you are able to take most of him in your mouth. Men who enjoy this typically enjoy nice long strokes with both mouth and hand. I find in this area men are never shy to let you know what they like. If you do this while gently stroking the shaft you may get a quick response. Other men are what I refer to as ‘headers’. This means the tip of the penis just under the head is their weak spot.

    Often licking just right, along with sucking a stroking of the head will also bring a man to his knees. A type of stroke for those with a sensitive tip is called ‘the twist’. The twist is where you take him in your mouth about half way down the shaft. Usually just enough the make it moist and warm. You stroke the shaft but alternate with you mouth and hand caressing around the tip. As you bring you hand to the top of the penis you twist your wrist. This creates a rotating sensation as you come up and go back down the head. This followed by your mouth causes and unending chain of stimulation. Learning to control the stimulation is important. Your client will probably tell you when is he is getting ready to reach his peak. By this point it may be too late to turn back. Learning to control the action is important and only comes with practice.

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  • What Is An Escort And What Does She Do?

    What Is An Escort And What Does She Do?

    Sex is a lot of fun.  I don’t see sex as this supreme act where you become connected on a spiritual level nor form a stronger bond as two people in love. The best type of sex is sex with someone on the same level, as two individuals who want each other equally and who are sexually compatible with each other.  In my opinion sexual intimacy has nothing to do with romance; sexual intimacy is mind blowing sex in the way that you want it to be and being comfortable enough to do that.

    What Makes Me Different And Unique

    My interactions with clients are always authentic and genuine, a memorable experience.  I only meet a few select patrons.  I screen very heavily and if I don’t think we are compatible or I cannot give what the client is seeking (I do very naughty GFE dates) I won’t take the booking.  I genuinely love meeting interesting, fascinating people. Words my clients use after meeting me are adorable, delightful, funny, charming, intelligent, gorgeous and great company.

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    Common Misconceptions About Escorts

    I think the most common ones is that escorts do not have any other career options, and that is very much not the case.  I have met some of the most intelligent women in this industry, smart as a whip, who escort as a part-time job.

    Or that we are badly treated by clients, which could not be further from the truth.  My clients are extremely intelligent, kind and generous, and they remember what I like.  I love horses so I have been given expensive riding boots and a jumping saddle, and these were very thoughtful gifts.  I have been given great business and financial advice too which is very much appreciated by me.

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    Do You Date?

    To be a great private escort you have to be able to give a small piece of yourself to the job.  It is very hard to describe what that piece is comprised of to someone who is not a companion.  If I have very deep feelings for someone then I don’t want to share that piece of myself with anyone else but my lover.  Currently I am involved in competing with my horse as well as completing studies so I don’t have much spare time for a relationship in any case.  I am very independent so I’m quite hesitant to start a relationship with someone unless I really, really like them.  I do enjoy being in a relationship and especially being in love.

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    Things To Know Before Dating An Escort

    I think a guy needs to be able to fully accept who you are as an individual, your aspirations in life, and that whatever your future may hold, you will always be an ex-escort.  It can make them very insecure.  If a guy can’t deal with you working while the relationship is still in its very early stages, they will certainly never be able to respect and accept it in the long-term.

    Escorting has raised my standards in men, I don’t accept any disrespect,  meanness or bad behaviour.

    Famke Fonteyn: lithe, elegant blonde high-class GFE escort and luxury companion based in London.   Northern European paramour,  courtesan, and delightful aficionado.  Sassy & Playful | Often passionate, sometimes hilarious, but rarely forgettable. Available worldwide by private arrangement.

    Follow and contact her on www.famkelondon.com , Twitter @famkebee and Instagram @famkefonteyn 

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