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Tips For Men When Hiring An Escort

I love escorting, I love the money and the people I’ve come across. I got into the industry a few years ago; it’s not a sad story that resembles a plot from Law and Order: SVU nor was it something I did out of desperation. I was fresh out of college and working in a nightclub making decent money at the time. My life changed when I was asked by someone to take me home and I jokingly replied with “sure for 5k“. He paid it and that got my ball rolling. I think many people have a misunderstanding about escorting and sex work, there’s so many stereotypes out there that don’t apply to all of us. We’re not riddled with STI’s, we don’t all offer the same things, we don’t all “walk track”, we don’t see everyone who contacts us…. the list goes on.

Yes some women in the industry are easier to peg than others but we’re all different. I find it empowering and it allows me to meet different people from all walks of life. I’ve had all kinds of clients, they’ve been men who work blue collar jobs, white collar jobs, celebs and athletes.

I don’t do anything I’m uncomfortable with and my clients are good to me. I enjoy the work I do, it’s not for everyone but, it works for me.

Importance Of Privacy & Discretion

Privacy and discretion is a huge deal for both sex workers and clients, always. My partner as well as close family and friends know what line of work I’m in but I don’t share every detail. They’re unaware of what my “work” name is or what my ad looks like. I don’t sit and discuss my sessions with them either. I like to keep my real self and alter ego separate and for that reason I keep my private life private from my clients. As for my clients some are in relationships with families or some are single. I don’t share information about my clients or keep in contact with anyone unless it’s a regular client that’s asked to keep in touch. When choosing a place to work I make sure it’s discrete as possible, whether it’s a hotel with a side door or a condo that doesn’t have a concierge. Any personal information clients give me is kept with me. There needs to be some form of trust between myself and my clients in order to keep the relationship going.

Tips To Spot A Fake Escort

I mainly advertise via Backpage (BP) as well as a review board. There’s very few fake ads on review boards but many on BP.

Anytime a client is browsing through BP I suggest to go with their gut first and foremost. If the pictures look too good to be true… most times they are. Some red flags are mismatched photos (photos of more than one girl but only one girl advertised), professional photos but no website link, ad titles with “available 24/7, party girl”

Second, google reverse search a few images to see if they have any hits anywhere else. If they have hits all over the country or world, she may be fake. Sometimes photos are taken from Instagram models, porn stars, cam girls or other escorts. Some girls use photos that may resemble themselves for privacy reasons, however, some use photos that look nothing like them. When texting her if her rates don’t match up with what she’s offering it could also be a red flag.

Third, if you’re on a review board search her name and see if she has any reviews.

Finally, when texting her, if she’s asking for an EMT and requests the password prior to arrival, major red flag! Never give a password prior to the arrival of an escort and make sure the question is something that can’t easily be figured out.

The only way to really be sure is to actually go see the girl to confirm she’s actually the girl on the photos or at least resembles the girl in the ad.

Information Escorts Require From Clients

Typical things an escort may ask a client during a screening process is a name, two or more references from other reputable escorts, a deposit or a photo of their ID. Most escorts also won’t see clients who attempt to book via text app.

Do’s & Don’ts When Meeting An Escort

When meeting an escort do come prepared. Arrive with the correct amount discussed prior to booking.

If she has a website, do check it out prior to booking. See what the the requirements are in order to get a booking, look at her rates, schedule and services. It makes booking much easier!

Do reconfirm your appointment if she hasn’t already, at least an hour prior. If you’ll be late or cancelling, let her know as well.

Do tip if you wish. It isn’t necessary but definitely appreciated.

As long as you’re kind and respectful there should be minimal problems once you meet. Chemistry may or may not always be there but you never know until you go for it!

My name is Leila Carerra, I’m a Canada wide escort. I’ve been in the industry 3 years. I am university/ college educated with a background in western history and critical thinking as well as cosmetics and business management. Follow me on:

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June 22, 2017
Escort Etiquette Advice For Clients

Before I began working as an escort I was a certified Pillow Princess! I was too shy and self-conscious to take control in the bedroom. Sex was enjoyable for me but inherently intimidating, especially with someone I really liked or admired. But now? Sex is nothing short of liberating, an exhilarating adventure with every encounter!

There are the obvious reasons why sex can create instant intimacy for most… The sensation of touching one another… Syncing your gyrations to move as one… Exploring each other’s hidden carnal desires… The ecstasy fueled release in climax… But, in my opinion, the best part of sex is EXACTLY what used to intimidate me the most! It’s the connection that is created between you and the other person in that stolen moment. It’s the eye contact, the giggles, the moans, the voyeurism in watching one another climax. For me, it’s more than just touch and sensation that creates intimacy, and good sex is impossible without intimacy.

I love creating and partaking in those passionate moments. Escorting has helped me to overcome my insecurities and mental blocks to really enjoy sex without getting wrapped up in “doing it right.” Now I’m able to let go in the moment and venture with another to find that connection in tried and true, yet pleasurably unique ways every time.

Clients I Prefer Seeing

The only preferences I have regarding clients I am willing to see are that they must be hygienic and respectful. A cleanly shaven face (or well-groomed beard), FRESH breath, clean and trimmed fingernails, as well as a working knowledge of why one must never venture from front to back… are all vastly underrated and GREATLY appreciated qualities in clients. As far as being respectful goes there is not a punitive, demanding, or vindictive bone in my body. If you try to contact me and you are pushy, uncouth, start trying to negotiate donations, or avoid screening, I will simply disengage. I have never believed in doing anything that feels like a waste of time or energy. Therefore, I have no interest in arguing or begging, nor do I have the patience for either. No booking is that important to me.

How My Screening Process Works

I do not make appointments over the phone. Other providers might, and more power to them! But it has proven to be more of a hassle and a drain on my time and energy reserves trying to do so. Every call I receive, I respond with a text redirecting you to my website as soon as my schedule permits me to do so. Sometimes I will screen or take information via text, but I prefer to correspond via email (ExclusiveJourdanJames@Protonmail.com) or to receive meeting requests via the secure booking form on my website.

Importance Of Personal & Client Privacy

As of right now my privacy, health, and safety are all equally paramount and non-negotiable aspects of escorting for me. There are providers who show their full face in their ads and social media, but I don’t see that in my future any time soon. I have so much admiration and respect for career escorts, but that trajectory is not why I began escorting. I don’t think escorting should affect someone’s other personal and professional endeavors, but I can’t really control the sway of social stigma..

Right now I’m just hoping to use escorting as a stepping stone into the next chapter of my life. I have not been contacted by someone I know personally in a professional capacity and truthfully, I hope it never happens. I’d only be willing to share my legal name with a sponsor who is interested in entering into a formal arrangement. But that’s the type of dynamic that requires a substantial amount of mutual trust. That level of trust can only be fostered and proven with actions that betray each individual’s character over a significant amount of time.

Common Mistakes Clients Make

A guaranteed way to get blacklisted or ignored by me is to contact me and attempt to goad me into giving you a moment-by-moment breakdown of our prospective time together. I am a companion. I provide an experience. If you really are eager to meet me, then why not expedite the process by reading through my website and reviews before contacting me? If you are unsure about anything you’ve read I would be delighted to clarify any concerns you might have! But once you start throwing acronyms at me and pandering for a play-by-play, I move your information to the blocked list. If you read through my website most of the questions you could have will likely be acknowledged there. I don’t have the energy for time-wasters and I have no interest in incriminating myself.

Tips For First-Timer Clients

A lot of girls will refuse to see you unless you provide them with your legal name, regardless of any screening site or review board membership you might have. We don’t care who you’re married to or who your boss is, and I’m sure as hell not going to call anyone (though some providers do and that is their prerogative). We are just looking for some basic information to verify your identity for our safety. Historically, there have been a lot fewer providers who can behaviorally be likened to Glenn Close in Fatal Attraction and a lot more clients who can be likened to Christian Bale in American Psycho. Having “BulgingJohn6969” saved in our calendar doesn’t do much to lead the police to our body after we’ve lost in a race against you and your chainsaw, if you know what I mean.

I can promise you, I am just as anxious and eager to meet you as you are to meet me! So when you reach out to me, make it easier on both of us and help expedite the process. Fill out the booking form on a provider’s website as completely as possible and with as much information as possible. Better yet, contact a provider with a quick introduction and the date, time, and desired duration of your meeting (feel free to throw in a modest compliment if you’re feeling flirty!).

Follow that introduction with a link to your LinkedIn profile or work website and the websites and email addresses (or phone numbers) of 2 providers you’ve met with recently. Follow these instructions and you can contact me personally to complain if the lucky lady you’ve messaged isn’t concealing a raging river flowing with excitement and anticipation the moment she opens the door to meet you!

Jourdan James is Chicago’s premier executive companion. She’s eager to please, but I wouldn’t recommend asking her opinion if you don’t want to hear the truth! There’s nothing she enjoys more than creating a private world wherein you are the center of her universe. Her dry wit, effervescent personality, and effortlessly sensual demeanor will always leave you wanting more. Follow Jourdan on:

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June 16, 2017
My Sex Preferences and Favorite Positions

Sex is wonderful. Sex is amazing. Sex is so many things. It can be a kinky, hot, sweaty mess or an amazing opportunity to connect with someone. Our urbanized society puts such a taboo on it that we forget how fun, orgasmic and liberating it can be. Sex is the reason I get to have so much fun doing what I do.

Sex is what brings us together. Look at me, sounding like a hippie. Really though, you build chemistry the moment you meet, connect physically, do what turns you on and have amazing orgasms. It’s so simple!

Some of us get so caught up hiding our porn, our sexual preferences and our deepest sexual desires that we forget to let them loose with the right people. Which really sucks. I get so turned on when a guy comes to me and says “I have something I want to try with you.”

Sex should be liberating. It should be a go to, an escape, an amazing experience, and most of all it should be explosive. Orgasmic. Let’s have more sex, and create more orgasms.

One Major Mistake Men Make During Sex

Worrying. Stop it. I know it’s like saying “calm down” when you’re pissed but it ruins the whole experience. Guys worry so much if they are “doing it right” that they forget to just relax and enjoy the experience.

All you have to do is show up and enjoy yourself. Do what you want and enjoy. If you push the limits I will let you know but I want to see you enjoy. It turns me on.

My Favorite Sex Position

Me on top or doggystyle any day. Something about the way I can really feel a man inside of me during both of those.

When I’m on top I have more control, but something about the way I can feel the man completely inside of me when I am sitting on top of him, really gets me going. I’m wet just thinking about it right now.

Doggystyle allows a man to grab me from behind and have their way with me. I find that such a turn on.

Quickies Or Long-Lasting Sex?

Both. They are so different. Long-lasting sex can lead to multiple orgasms, exploration of each other, different positions and acts, and of course moaning. Long lasting sex can leave you in a daze hours after.

Quickies are like a straight shot, a concentrated dose of pleasure in a short amount of time. They leave you breathless.

How I Love To Kink Sex Up

I like to grab onto a man or at least touch him somewhere like his leg or his shoulder during the act. It’s an extra boost to the pleasure.

Changing the speed of our rhythm during the act. When it’s really heated up, slow down. It gets you to the edge and back, leaving you wanting to come even more.

Brielle Barnes – Real, classy and unique. I have a great smile and an all-natural body. I’m sensual, adventurous, discreet and flirty. I am open-minded so we can build a great connection together. I’m your sweetheart girl next door with a wild side. Our time together is laid back, yet full of passion. Find out more about me on:

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June 15, 2017
A Courtesan’s Advice For Clients

Sex is something that is ever changing from having a deep connection to it just being carnal lust. It can involve multiple partners whether it be another woman, a man, or even both. That’s why I love it so much! It is never the same experience. The creativity of each intimate encounter is always unpredictable but my anticipation and excitement aren’t. Growing up in a conservative European home, sex was considered taboo. We never spoke of it nor was it ever acknowledged. It wasn’t until I reached high school that I first discovered myself and sex. It was empowering as much as it was arousing. It became one of my favorite things to talk, write, and experiment. The intimate moments of ecstasy, the humorous orgasmic expressions, the droplets of lustful sweat, the secretive fantasies and kinks, the erotic whispers and moans, etc. Sex has endless possibilities of exploration bringing out a part of a person that isn’t publicly displayed.

Types Of Clients I See

Clients come in different ages, sizes, races, gender, and backgrounds. However, my preference seems to lean towards older men. It is not that I am not keen on men my age, it is just the majority have a strong attitude of self entitlement and lack mannerisms. Older men are finely aged and have an array of interests. I am quite selective of whom I see and I always favor a person who takes their time to send me a lovely email describing themselves. Discretion and safety is always of concern hence, why a screening process exists. This process is in place to keep both myself and the client safe. There are different methods of screening to accommodate everyone’s comfort. From employment verification, background checks, references, or verification services such as P411. As always discretion is of the utmost importance and verification information submitted is deleted after an initial engagement.

What A Client Is Expected To Know Before Booking

A smooth booking occurs after a proper screening. A mistake that is often made is when a client fills out a screening form incorrectly such as submitting a false name or information. Another common mistake is inquiring about detailed services whether it be with the usage of acronyms or not. Both of these mistakes can easily land someone in the Do Not See list. Filling out the form correctly will assure for a smooth process. Clients should rest assure that their information is handled with discretion and will never be shared. Remember, discretion is a two way street.

Mistakes Clients Make When Meeting

To err is human and mistakes often occur. A lot goes through someone’s mind when they first meet and without realizing they often forget to place down the envelope. I understand for I have also been taken by the moment our eyes met. To avoid interrupting the flow of an engagement it is best to place the envelope down as soon as you meet. If you are in a public setting it is proper to place it in a greeting card or in a gift bag. It is incredibly disrespectful to hand the envelope directly or having me wait until it is awkwardly brought up.

Another frequent mistake is lack of consideration towards their hygiene. A lovely English gentleman once visited and greeted me with toothpaste kisses. He later explained that he had just smoked and ate some toothpaste to avoid tasting like cigarettes. If you feel the need to freshen up please feel free to excuse yourself to the restroom. I take my time to be presentable and expect my date to do so as well. From time to time I encounter a gentleman who with good intent brings their own lubricant or toys. While it is a gesture with harmful intent I personally do not utilize it. I only utilize my own products that I know will not effect my body chemistry. As for toys if they are in an unopened package then I will gladly use them after cleaning them.

Is Any Topic Of Conversation Out Of Bounds?

I am lover of conversation and feel like a wide spectrum of topics helps get to know someone. Often, people say not to discuss politics nor religion for it can cause conflict. However, I have yet to have a problem arise from doing so. There is an art and beauty into the attempt to understand someone else’s point of view. One of the topics that makes me cringe in the inside is when they talk about the similarities I share with their daughter. I don’t mind hearing about their children but it is a completely different thing to be compared. Aside from that the time spent together is a time to truly liberate yourself and share anything you desire.

Claire Lamoureux – Originally from Southern France, this wanderlust debutante became a worldwide courtesan. She is an international companion who adores jet setting adventures and collecting books. Although she is only twenty two years old she has an appetite for culture and languages. Claire is a multilingual biochemist with an insatiable lust and true passion for opening others to new experiences.

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June 10, 2017
My Experiences As An Escort

Honestly, everyone should be having more sex then things would be more at ease with much less stress in our lives. It is a natural wonderful thing. I personally love it.

How I Began Escorting & Why I Love It

Oh boy, here we go….haha.

I inadvertently got started, really did. I went on a sugar baby site and the first person I met, we had an arrangement. We saw each other for 5 months while his start up business started up. Unfortunately, his business never did start up, that was sad for him and me too, I liked him. The next 2 people I met was NOT like what I had initially. I didn’t know any different, and was wondering why are we not having an arrangement and started to question what was going on. Then low and behold I met one other from the sugar site and we did a lot of talking about how when he was younger he was in some very interesting situations and that he got so and so started in the escort biz and she makes blah blah blah. The more he talked the more I listened. I knew about escorts of course, but had NO idea how it actually was right there on the internet, that easy.

So I went home and googled this woman, got the gist of it and put up some ad.

The next day he calls and said “Summer what are you doing!” I said, “You did a lot of talking, I did a lot of listening”. He said, “If you are going to do this, you need to do it right” and told me about screening, website, reviews. I was blown away at how organized it all was. He started my review page, left the first one and I was off to the races. Crazy right? See, inadvertently.

I enjoy how most people treat me, they are very happy to see me and I feel great about that. I learn different things from different people that I would have never learned had I not met them. Some bring gifts as their token of appreciation, so awesome. Some like to treat me like a princess, they go above and beyond. I am always smiling, wouldn’t you be if everyone was in awe of you!

My Specialties

Truth be told…my specialty is myself. I am genuine. I never had a game or an act. I was just me from day one and it has worked wonders. How easy it is just to be yourself! MANY, nearly everyone tells me how nice it is to be with someone who is chill and down to earth and can laugh at herself, they always use the word sexy. Pretentious is not me at all. I would be a very bad actress at this life. Just go with the flow, whatever company you may be in, you naturally go with the vibe

My Off Limits

I will not rim a man. Never, not happening. Weird, well it is a bit weird to be called mommy and tell him he is a good boy. That is indifferent, and he’s older than me. Regardless of who is older, it is weird. Mostly everything else is just people, with a fetish or fantasy. I love accommodating foot fetishes, that’s my absolute favorite. So far so good.

How I Prepare To Meet A Client

Well of course he is already screened and we have a date, time and place set. I always like to keep a tan, so I have a spray tan machine I do at home at least once a week.

I look great with a tan, makes a difference to me. I always do my makeup and my hair is simple, long straight and blonde. Depending on where we are meeting depends on what I wear. If he is coming to me I am wearing something very sexy to open the door with equally sexy lingerie to match, and always the heels, always. If he had made an outfit request in an email I accommodate that. If I am meeting him out or at his location it is a combo of classic yet sexy, and again, always those heels. What happens is a flow of conversation to get to know one another, perhaps a glass of wine. Always Moscato wine, that is my favorite. I used to like vodka on ice but it catches up quick. Then what happens…. well, a lady never kisses and tells. xoxox

Summer The One – Philadelphia’s Top 5 Consistently Rated Companions. Self described Tall Cool One, that oozes sex appeal and intelligence. Easy going, down to earth, sexy with a West Coast vibe…. The One. Lover of the Ocean, intricate artist and seasoned lover.

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May 3, 2017
Top Tips For Hiring Your First Escort

Hiring an escort for the first time should be exciting; regardless of why you are wishing to hire them. That said, if you have never hired an escort before, the likelihood is that you will feel very social awkward, and you might forget anything you have ever read regarding the correct protocol. Escorts will know if it is your first time or not and will generally try to make you feel very relaxed and welcome both on the phone and in person. After all, they are providing a service which you are paying for, and they want you to come back to them. That said, they do expect a level of professionalism and politeness from you, and there are certain unwritten rules that you must quickly learn and abide by at all times.

Here are a few hints and tips for anyone who is looking to hire their first escort…

Use A Trusted Provider

There are so many different escort agencies, as well as independent escorts, if you are hiring an escort for the first time, using a well-known, and reputable escort service, such as Angels Of London, is the best way to avoid running into any trouble.

If you are looking for something in particular from your meeting with your escort such as engaging in a particular fetish, it is beneficial to go through an agency, as they will be able to match you with an escort specifically catered to your needs. Ultimately, this will mean that you will get the evening that you are hoping for.

Talk To Her Before You Meet Her

It is only polite to talk to your escort before meeting up with her. This is for several reasons. It gives you the opportunity get a feel for the escort (pardon the pun!), and tell if she is right for you but it also gives you the opportunity to ask any questions that you have.

You can talk about pricing, where you are meeting, the protocol when you arrive – should you call her, or is there something else that she would prefer you to do? When you make this first contact, never do it from a blocked or private number. She simply won’t answer, and to be honest, who would blame her?

DO NOT Negotiate The Price!

Never barter or negotiate the price. Refer to it as a donation, not a fee, and do not be surprised if she asks for payment at the start of the meeting.

Remember that you are buying a service and not coming prepared with the right money, or trying to change the price during the meeting will not go down well at all and chances are she will just end the meeting there and then. Not only is it very rude, but it also puts the escort in a very uncomfortable and potentially vulnerable situation.

The same goes for offering to pay more than the agreed price for her to add a last minute extra on to the service. If you have not agreed to it beforehand, do not ask, or suggest that it happens. Instead, save it for a separate meeting.

Although a lot will come with experience, these are three important things to remember when you are hiring an escort for the first time. The most important thing to remember is to find an escort who can meet your needs, and that way you will not run into any problems with the escort, and you will have an enjoyable first experience.

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April 30, 2017
Experiences Of A Sex Worker

I love sex! I think sexual urges and fantasies are natural, and ever since fully embracing my own sexuality I’ve received so much more pleasure in life and through all the experiences that I’ve been able to have. I was incredibly shy throughout my teen years, and had the worst social anxiety. This actually led me to being homeschooled during high school. Despite my socializing problems at the time, I grew to really dislike the lack of being in a social atmosphere and/or stimulated by the conversation and thoughts of others. It’s made me appreciate the interactions that I now have with people much more. Homeschooling also gave me the time and opportunity to seek out my own interests and passions, subjects that never even stuck to me when attending public school.

Once turning 18, and having been felt like a caged bird by the end of high school, I was ready to be on my own! I had a sugar daddy starting off when I first moved to D.C. During that, I discovered how much I loved the company of an older gentleman, and I found that I was able to really enjoy my conversations with them. I respected and valued the discretion, but did not like the feeling of it being more like a relationship instead of an open love that could grow and one that did not have to be defined. The sugar baby relationship lasted roughly 7 months, and I honestly just jumped into escorting. I started with an agency, and assumed that I would learn from them and from experience. I was fortunate enough to have a lady who helped and explained everything to me, and was really quite patient me. But by no means am I recommending that anyone jump right in! There are easy mistakes to avoid, and tips to learn; it would be much more beneficial to read and educate yourself beforehand.

What I Love About Escorting

My greatest passions are learning all I can about the world, and making others happy. This lifestyle has given me the amazing opportunity to do both! I’ve met some of the best guys, and made some of the greatest friends. I love the socializing, the intimacy, and the mutual happiness my clients and I bring each other – whether it’s only one encounter, or numerous! I meet the greatest dynamic of people; finding ways to relate to them is something that has not only furthered my social skills, but educated me on topics that my clients share through their own learnings and life experience.

I also love the traveling. I’ve always travelled even through my youth, and I don’t think I could ever call one place home forever. This lifestyle has allowed me to see some of the most beautiful places, all while doing what I love! This has become such an amazing opportunity helping me work towards future goals and dreams. The ability to support myself fully and to take care of any school debt in and of itself has been the most fulfilling feeling, but the people that I have met and the things that I have learned through this lifestyle are priceless.

Screening The Clients

There are various screening sites to further validate a client’s identity, but I would say one of the biggest ways I rely on deciding to see a client or not would be the trust amongst the SW community. I ask that clients provide at least two references (providers that will vouch for them saying that they are real, safe, and respectful). References and a screening handle is not enough to get through screening, however. I also require a photo of their ID prior to meeting along with their work information. All of this information is erased after screening is complete. Clients see enough of my presence online (through social media, my p411, and my booking site) to know that I am who I say I am, so me asking for the same validation in return should not be an issue for them and if it is, I don’t book. I value and respect discretion, and would not have the reputation that I have built if I ever abused a client’s privacy.

Weirdest Client Requests I Have Received

Well, one person’s weird is another person’s kink. But I’ve definitely had some odd requests – some that I agreed to, some I refused, and some I just couldn’t bring myself to do. One time in specific I remember a guy was just absolutely infatuated with my nose. The whole session he was staring at it, he was playing with it, and even in the middle of making out I’d feel two fingers in the shape of scissors slide down the middle of my face and just pinch my nose. The random nose pinches continued even during sex, barely making eye contact with me but instead staring at my nose; occasionally leaning in and putting his whole mouth on it as if he was giving my nose a sloppy kiss or something!

One request I just couldn’t bring myself to do was a roleplay act. I initially should’ve known he had something up his sleeve cause he walked in with a Whole Foods bag. I was the innocent schoolgirl that apparently got caught blowing two guys in the locker room, and I was facing suspension. The only way to avoid suspension was to sleep with my principal..but first, had to “demonstrate what exactly I was doing to the two boy students”. He grabs his bag and pulls out a banana and a condom. He slides this condom so smoothly on the banana, I’m convinced his real job is a sex Ed coach. He then holds the banana out, looking at me. I am looking at him. We are just staring at each other for a solid minute before he again asks me to demonstrate how I gave a blowjob. I lean down, hovering over the banana, and all I am thinking is “I will never forget the time that I seriously gave oral to a fruit”, I licked the tip of the banana, then snapped away apologizing profusely saying “Sorry, I can’t! I just can’t do it, I’m a terrible actor! Can i just…. demonstrate on you?!” Not my sexiest way of denying a request… but looking back on the two stories now, it almost seems like the banana request should’ve been much easier to fulfill LOL.

Preparing For A Date With A Client

I am still a nervous wreck before every date, regardless of how many times I’ve seen someone. The whole time getting ready is me telling myself to not be weird. The nerves are every time, but I’d never want to feel indifferent or bored. The anxiety and build up is what makes the meet so much sweeter. I am typically sitting on my sink counter getting myself pretty..even if there is a vanity, a sink counter always seems to be a girl’s zen place. After the getting ready process, it’s an extensive amount of YouTube video watching that I always end up regretting, a minimum of 30 pictures taken all of which ended up getting erased anyway, and Mariah Carey karaoke. I also make sure everything is in place, and that my date doesn’t go without supplies! Once I meet my date, my nervousness eases and I’m filled with joy and excitement to see them. Every time is a new experience.

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April 27, 2017
Role Play For The Day

I would like to offer a new service or dare I say a twist or two on some of what I already offer.

If you are tired of the hum drum wham bam thank you mam encounter or just want to spice things up, why not try a custom date with one of the role plays below? Or perhaps you have one of your own you would like to share.

Please keep in mind these role plays may require additional fees above and beyond my listed fees. Especially if you require one or more of my friends to participate or additional equipment or locations. Please let me know your needs and we will eagerly please.

1. Incompetence – Dead Line Missed!

Your boss – A beautiful Japanese woman known for being strict and handing out unorthodox punishments especially to her male subordinates, summons you to her hotel suite where you are to answer for missing a shipping dead line with a major client. The oversight has cost millions of yen in fees to the client. Your boss demands an apology and plans to exact her wrath and punishment on you. What ensues next is best described in the illustration below by Eric Stanton. Of course her beautiful assistant will also be present to assist with your punishment session.

2. French Maid

A sexy French maid erotically dressed in a traditional French maid uniform is sent to clean your room. You follow her around to make sure she does a good job. As she bends over. you catch a glimpse of her beautiful bum and French knickers as well. Overcome by sadistic lust, you decide to take advantage of her by telling her she missed some spots and is basically not doing a good job. You tell her that she is lazy and impertinent and needs to be put over your knee for a good spanking. What ensues next is an erotic interlude of master and servant where you decide that she needs a lesson in cleaning more than your room. To your surprise, she has brought a wonderful array of dildos and anal plugs for your pleasure. This is truly French made ☺

3. Sick in Bed

A sexy nurse arrives to take care of her sick patient. Taking his temperature with an oral approach followed by a rectal treatment and medical massage. The only cure she can really prescribe is a good old fashion dose of potion 69 to climax. This nurse is liberal with her medicine and if the illness is too serious, additional nurses can assist with the procedures.

4. Kidnapped

Two femme de fatales of the infamous Tokyo cartel demand your ransom and decide to add torture and humility to the mix. These sexy and hungry femme de fatales know how to bring a man to his knees. As you are bound and gagged, they decide to torture mentally by putting on a very erotic girl on girl show. You are ordered to gratify yourself during the show but may not ejaculate. To get their point across, a large knife sits on the table nearby waiting to castrate you if you fail. After bringing themselves to an incredible climax, they decide to focus all their attention on you. You are ordered not to cum during the efforts, to tease and taunt you erotically, they are ruthless, irresistible and deadly. Can you survive these dangerous femmes?

5. Slave for a Day

You have dialed for the services of Mistress SATO. She arrives at your room decked out in latex and super high thigh boots. You are immediately ordered to the floor like a dog. From there, you are forced to be a slave for the day and must complete a number of humiliating tasks including the punishments when you fail her commanded tasks. She may require time outside the hotel for a very adventurous day in Tokyo which will definitively involve a trip to Tokyo’s notorious dungeon hotel.

This role-play can also allow you to be in the drivers seat if this is your desire.

6. Naked Stranger

You catch a glimpse of beautiful woman at the bar. She is wearing a lovely mink coat and looks absolutely stunning. She smiles at you and you smile back. You decide to send her a drink with a note to please join you at your table. She accepts, you make small talk and learn she has recently broken up with her boyfriend and was hoping to meet a nice guy that evening. She whispers in your ear that she is so happy to meet you. She then tells you she has a favor to ask.

She hands you a small remote control and asks you to turn it on. As you do you can hear the purring of what seems to be some sought of mini vibrator. Your new found friend gives out a soft moan. As she does her coat slightly opens. To your surprise, beneath her coat she’s only wearing her sexy lingerie and a pair of super high heels. She begins to discreetly rub your cock. You now know you are in for an evening of untold pleasure!

7. The Harem

You decide your own personal roman style orgy filled with debauchery and lustful whims. The sky is the limit and how many women that join us is up to you. You may want to ask your friends to join in the fun. What happens behind closed doors stays behind closed doors.

8. The Audition

You are a powerful Hollywood film producer and you have the pleasure of interviewing a young beautiful but very innocent up and coming starlet. Your desires get the better of you and you force your starlet onto your casting couch where you decide to make an adult film. She is putty in your hands as she wants to further her career. The rest is celluloid history!

9. Sensual Masseurs

Two beautiful masseuse show up to your room to give you the most incredible rub up or rub down. It’s not your usual oil massage.

This is the perfect soft role-play for couples or easy-going gents. This is a massage that comes with a very happy ending. In fact you will have a smile on your face for some time after!

10. Threes Company

You and your wife / girl friend / best friend would like to experience a threesome or maybe foursome. You decide to try your luck at your hotel bar. To your delight, you meet one /two / or three beautiful nymphs more than willing to accommodate your fantasies. It’s a shining example of that rare Tokyo hospitality and you just hit the erotic jack pot!

11. 9 1/2 Weeks No Means Yes

Your very beautiful secretary has been flirting heavily with you. You finally decide to make a move but she is playing hard to get so you decide it’s time to be a caveman and take her by force. You rip off her clothes, bra and panties and have some pure physical passionate 9 1/2 weeks sex style. Ice cubes and strawberries included.

Mickey Rourke has nothing on you.

Misa – You can expect a genuine unrushed girlfriend experience. I pride myself on being the genuine article. I am very down to earth and will make you feel like you are the center of the universe. Find Misa at BeautifulTokyoButterfly.com

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December 19, 2016
Difference Between A Sugar Baby And An Escort

Sex is beautiful. I see sex to be like painting or dance, it is an artistic expression that flows through your body and has the power to channel moments of pure ecstasy. It requires a level of inner tranquility, mindfulness and uninhibited energy that it can lead to an almost meditative state, clearing your mind and connecting you to a deeper sense of self. Sex is a form of expression, it is art.

Can A Lady Be Both A Sugar Baby And An Escort?

It’s kind of like comparing a dentist with a gynaecologist; they are two very different professions that require different skill sets, but at the end to the day, they’re both still doctors. Be it an escort, sugar baby, mistress, or even wife; we’re all whores at the end of the day.

Difference Between An Escort & Sugar Baby

Escort’s have the advantage of being able to regulate a standard to which her pool of clients must adhere to. The relationship’s boundaries are much more honestly defined in terms of timing, payment, services, safety and discretion. Sugar babies and daddies have a much more open-ended relationship where a mutually beneficial arrangement still needs to be reached over time. This type of undefined relationship typically leads to emotional manipulation and gives the sugar daddy leverage and power over the sugar baby.

The Selection Process

As an escort, it is extremely important to have a verifiable screening process in place to ensure your personal privacy and safety. Screening can also establish your client’s quality and sets a level of trust and comfort for the relationship to proceed. Sugar babys’ have to rely on intuition alone when selecting Sugar Daddys’ and have to find a balance of practising extreme caution with blind faith.

Which Do Men Prefer

It’s all a matter of preference. Some men prefer verifiable and experienced companions who provide safe and professional services. Some men prefer the flexibility of creating their own ‘mutually beneficial’ relationship on their terms.

My name is Celina Rai and I’m a bright young woman with a passion for being an intimate distraction for hardworking gentlemen and curious couples. The perfect blend of Eastern and Western sensuality. Enjoy my charismatic and elegant exterior as I cater to you over a flirtatious meal and then watch as I transform into a passionate tigress behind closed doors. Follow me on www.CelinaRaixo.com and on Twitter @_Celinaxo

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October 18, 2016
Sexy Travel: 5 Great Countries Where Hiring an Escort Is Legal

Many people get really excited when planning a trip. What will the food be like? Which sites should I see? Where can I find an escort to really spice up my trip?

Okay, so the last question certainly isn’t on the mind of every traveler but it is a valid one. Every country around the world has its own unique laws regarding sex workers and while most of those laws are in place to prevent exploitation and human trafficking, other aspects of the laws actually help women (and men in some cases) work safely as an escort if they choose to.

Other aspects of these laws relate to promotion. In most of the countries where it is legal promoting it illegally by outside parties is not, so it’s wise to keep this in mind when you’re on a travel high and looking to hire an escort for the night (or two).

These are five incredible countries where hiring an escort is legal, and they’re also incredible places to explore, even outside the bedroom.

1. Great Britain

With the exception of Northern Ireland, escort services are legal in Great Britain. However, street solicitation is not. One of the most popular and safe ways to hire an escort is through a reputable escort agency. The women who work for these agencies are thoroughly vetted and, as is the norm, the client has his choice of body type, ethnicity, hair color, and even an escort’s specific sexual skill.

Incalls and outcalls are the most popular forms of escort services in England. During an incall, the client goes to the escort’s apartment. During an outcall, the escort comes to the client’s home or hotel. It’s easy, safe, and completely legal.

2. Argentina

Who isn’t captivated by the exotic beauty of Latina women? Who wouldn’t love to take a trip to Argentina and meet one of them? Argentina is famous for its legendary BBQ, salsa dancing, wine, and women. While Argentina is a popular destination for all types of travelers, those who want to hook up while there can do so with ease.

As with Great Britain, the best and safest way to find an escort is through a reputable agency. In larger cities like Buenos Aires and Mendoza these agencies are everywhere and it’s not hard to locate them. Most agencies advertise that their escorts speak a variety of languages such as English, Portuguese, German, and French.

3. Greece

An easy flight from most cities in Europe, Greece has long been a popular holiday destination due to its gorgeous islands, delicious food, and low costs. It’s also one of the European countries where escort services are absolutely legal.

As is the norm, your escort should be hired through an agency and most of these agencies are located in Athens, Mykonos, and other popular tourist sites. The Greek government has taken things a bit further than some other countries: All sex workers must be registered and carry a medical card that is updated bi-monthly.

4. Mexico

Mexico is a little different than the other countries on this list in a few ways. First of all, sex work is legal in Mexico but only 18 of the 32 states officially regulate it, meaning that sex workers in those states are registered and undergo required health checks.

Most of Mexico’s larger cities like Mexico City and Guadalajara have a red light district and escorts are available on the street. Other cities operate legal brothels. Of course, most of the brothels are located in the more touristy areas like Cancun and Playa del Carmen. These brothels offer both incall and outcall services.

5. Spain

Spain is one of the most beautiful and most visited countries in Europe, but it’s not always for the wine and tapas. Spain’s sex business is booming as people from all over the world come to meet with some of the country’s most beautiful women.

The legality of sex work in Spain is somewhat muddled, but the escorts or their clients are rarely bothered by law enforcement, who instead focus on those that illegally promote these services. Escort agencies aren’t as popular here, but there are several that provide high-quality incall and outcall services, especially in Barcelona.

Sex tourism is big business but it’s always wise to be well aware of the laws regarding escort services before you visit a country. So keep yourself safe by using a reputable escort agency when you travel and be prepared for one of the best vacations of your life.

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September 25, 2016