I love escorting, I love the money and the people I’ve come across. I got into the industry a few years ago; it’s not a sad story that resembles a plot from Law and Order: SVU nor was it something I did out of desperation. I was fresh out of college and working in a nightclub making decent money at the time. My life changed when I was asked by someone to take me home and I jokingly replied with “sure for 5k“. He paid it and that got my ball rolling. I think many people have a misunderstanding about escorting and sex work, there’s so many stereotypes out there that don’t apply to all of us. We’re not riddled with STI’s, we don’t all offer the same things, we don’t all “walk track”, we don’t see everyone who contacts us…. the list goes on.
Yes some women in the industry are easier to peg than others but we’re all different. I find it empowering and it allows me to meet different people from all walks of life. I’ve had all kinds of clients, they’ve been men who work blue collar jobs, white collar jobs, celebs and athletes.
I don’t do anything I’m uncomfortable with and my clients are good to me. I enjoy the work I do, it’s not for everyone but, it works for me.
Importance Of Privacy & Discretion
Privacy and discretion is a huge deal for both sex workers and clients, always. My partner as well as close family and friends know what line of work I’m in but I don’t share every detail. They’re unaware of what my “work” name is or what my ad looks like. I don’t sit and discuss my sessions with them either. I like to keep my real self and alter ego separate and for that reason I keep my private life private from my clients. As for my clients some are in relationships with families or some are single. I don’t share information about my clients or keep in contact with anyone unless it’s a regular client that’s asked to keep in touch. When choosing a place to work I make sure it’s discrete as possible, whether it’s a hotel with a side door or a condo that doesn’t have a concierge. Any personal information clients give me is kept with me. There needs to be some form of trust between myself and my clients in order to keep the relationship going.
Tips To Spot A Fake Escort
I mainly advertise via Backpage (BP) as well as a review board. There’s very few fake ads on review boards but many on BP.
Anytime a client is browsing through BP I suggest to go with their gut first and foremost. If the pictures look too good to be true… most times they are. Some red flags are mismatched photos (photos of more than one girl but only one girl advertised), professional photos but no website link, ad titles with “available 24/7, party girl”
Second, google reverse search a few images to see if they have any hits anywhere else. If they have hits all over the country or world, she may be fake. Sometimes photos are taken from Instagram models, porn stars, cam girls or other escorts. Some girls use photos that may resemble themselves for privacy reasons, however, some use photos that look nothing like them. When texting her if her rates don’t match up with what she’s offering it could also be a red flag.
Third, if you’re on a review board search her name and see if she has any reviews.
Finally, when texting her, if she’s asking for an EMT and requests the password prior to arrival, major red flag! Never give a password prior to the arrival of an escort and make sure the question is something that can’t easily be figured out.
The only way to really be sure is to actually go see the girl to confirm she’s actually the girl on the photos or at least resembles the girl in the ad.
Information Escorts Require From Clients
Typical things an escort may ask a client during a screening process is a name, two or more references from other reputable escorts, a deposit or a photo of their ID. Most escorts also won’t see clients who attempt to book via text app.
Do’s & Don’ts When Meeting An Escort
When meeting an escort do come prepared. Arrive with the correct amount discussed prior to booking.
If she has a website, do check it out prior to booking. See what the the requirements are in order to get a booking, look at her rates, schedule and services. It makes booking much easier!
Do reconfirm your appointment if she hasn’t already, at least an hour prior. If you’ll be late or cancelling, let her know as well.
Do tip if you wish. It isn’t necessary but definitely appreciated.
As long as you’re kind and respectful there should be minimal problems once you meet. Chemistry may or may not always be there but you never know until you go for it!
My name is Leila Carerra, I’m a Canada wide escort. I’ve been in the industry 3 years. I am university/ college educated with a background in western history and critical thinking as well as cosmetics and business management. Follow me on:
Twitter: https://mobile.twitter.com/LeilaCarerra
Website: https://leilacarerra.com/
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