Tag: Cunnilingus

How To Give A Lady A Proper Cunnilingus

I think for me, I enjoy pleasuring her more. I’ve always had a thing for that. Tasting the different flavors of different ladies. It’s a new experience for me every time.

Do Men Generally Know How To Do It?

I think a lot of people forget that every rose is different. Some have bigger petals, some have bigger hips, and some have stigmas that take longer to pleasure.

There are various ways to provide a lady with oral pleasure, the most important thing is to see her, and recognize her. The intervals between kissing, flicking, licking and sucking all change with the shape and preference of that particular darling.

What Do Women Want?

It changes based on the lady, your dynamic with her, and her own preferences. The only consistency is to have consistency.

Common Cunnilingus Mistakes

Receiving a lady isn’t always going to be the same. Some prefer gentle kissing and sucking, some prefer hard sucking and fast licking. The key is to try to be a fast learner.

Observe her body language, and if you aren’t sure, you’re never wrong to ask if she’s enjoying it.

Essential Tips For Men When Going Down

Eating pussy is nothing like sucking dick. Something you like cannot necessarily be incorporated into what you do with your lady. If you aren’t sure, let your fingers guide you. Be sure to groom your hands properly first! Always make sure your nails are clean and of short length, but most importantly, ALWAYS wash beforehand!

Move your fingers in a small circular, triangular, or vertical motion. Whichever feels best with her, determines what you do with your tongue. If she enjoys circular, then that is the direction in which to move your tongue. If she enjoys triangular, then flick your tongue on her clitoris. If she enjoys the vertical motion, then that is the direction in which to move your tongue.

Always have short intervals of different motions to avoid her building resistance and to maximize her pleasure.

Is It All Mouth Play?

I personally, do not enjoy receiving penetration, but I do not limit myself to what pleasures I provide to the ladies who share their love and bodies with me.

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January 22, 2021
How To Satisfy A Lady Through Oral Sex

Being a male sex worker for women – I love sex. It is – and should be – a fun way to explore and experience your body and your partner’s. It shouldn’t be a source of shame. It should be a way to grow as a person

Why I Love Giving Oral Sex

I love giving oral sex just for the experience itself, but also to be able to do something that a woman enjoys and is just about her. I like feeling her respond and finding what works for her best and hopefully helping her to reach orgasm.

Are There Men Who Don’t Enjoy Going Down?

Most women tell me that the men they have been with, short and long term, simply aren’t interested in giving oral sex, or actively don’t like to do it – or in some cases are just really bad at it. Despite a lot of progress in the last several decades, there are a lot of men who still feel no pressure (by example, education, or even porn) to give their partner oral.

Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky (to some degree) made men receiving blowjobs from women more acceptable. Perhaps we need an equivalent political scandal to let everyone know that it’s ok (actually good) to give women oral too…

John Oh

What Do Women Want?

Every woman is different in what she wants. Some women are *really* sensitive. Some women aren’t. Some women like intense oral. Some don’t. Some women like deep G-spot stimulation with fingers, or a toy. Some don’t.

You need to ask her what she likes and wants and listen when she tells you – even (especially?) if she says “I don’t know“. Biggest mistakes that men make: not asking/listening, being in a rush (to do other things), putting too much pressure on their partner to have an orgasm (plenty of women love oral even if they don’t orgasm from it).

Ways To Kink Up Oral Sex

There are plenty – but before you do anything that pushes boundaries, you need to ask for and get consent from your partner and make sure you continue to do so during play. It could include: anal play, which most women enjoy *if* they are introduced to it responsibly and consensual (and with plenty of lube).

You can also just add any other kinky play you can think of, like restraint, spreader bars, voyeurism – whatever works for you and your partner.

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November 25, 2020
How Men Should Eat A Lady Out

Hi I’m Ray and I think pussies are hot, wet, little puzzles and I love giving and receiving oral sex. Every single person’s pussy, vulva, kitty cat or cooch is totally different, and it’s invigorating to explore, tease, and learn just what gets a babe going. And let me tell you, when a curious cat has their tongue on my pussy, I will purr, and loudly.

Do Men Know How To Give Oral Sex?

In my experience, people of all genders feel like they need to know how to do a sexual act, as if there is only one way to do it. Our culture has so many hang ups around sexuality that we feel insecure or embarrassed if we don’t automatically know how to pleasure each other.

Here’s the reality though… there is no one way, and the secret code to breaking the “how to eat a pussy puzzle” is good communication. Ask that sexy babe what they like. Play a game about exploring those succulent lips and finding that sweet spot. Get your hottie to play with the parts they like sucked on while you watch and then have them touch the bits they want licked. This is fun as heck and not only means you are practicing good consent, it also is a path to becoming an epic oral magician.

Common Mistakes Men Make When Going Down

Let’s be clear, people of all genders like to eat some kitty cat and people of all genders have kitty cats craving a little oral attention. We all make mistakes. There is nothing wrong with not psychically knowing what an individual is going to want done to their puss.

So THE mistake we make as linguists is not having a sense of playfulness and curiosity. Sex is messy, hot, raunchy, silly, and fucking fierce. Don’t be afraid to ask questions and don’t be afraid to enjoy giving as much as you enjoy receiving a good oral experience.

Tips To Follow When Going Down On Her

Well darlings, I cannot tell you how to go down on every hot thing with a vulva and a vagina out there. What I can tell you is what I like when a babe is getting down on me. I want a goddamn symphony!

When you play music, there are rests, quiet sections, crescendos, changes in tempo, and multiple scales of tone you can work in. And, I love to be teased. You can drive me wild with that mouth close to my sweet little clit and you don’t even need to touch it. Before you know it, I’m gonna be squirming for your tongue.

Start out slow, use the tip of your tongue, explore my labia, maybe suck a little, find my clit, circle it, and then change it up… unless of course I give you the glorious “don’t stop.” Then, whatever you do, keep doing exactly what you are doing even if you think your jaw may suffer irreparable damage, because I am going to cum. That said, I don’t orgasm from oral very often and I am not interested in that being a goal. I’m in it for the journey, honey.

Signs I’m Enjoying Myself

My favourite part of giving the gift of oral sex to both humans with vulvas and the ones with penises is the feedback. When I get you to moan, or catch your breath, or breathe heavy and beg for more, or move against my face while curling your perfect little toes, it is so hot I could die happy. Every person orgasms differently and the lead up is just as unique. The key is to be in tune to your partner’s body; notice the changes when you try something different, ask questions about how a thing feels, and take direction.

The human body is a magical and strange miracle and not a machine with a set of instructions. That’s what makes sex the extraordinary, weird, and wonderful experience it is!

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March 18, 2019
Oral Pleasure To Satisfy Men & Women
I think oral sex is not only great but plays an important part during sex. It’s like the appetizer before the main course. Delicious yet satisfying. I like to receive as much as giving oral pleasure. It’s so much more arousing and a huge turn on for me, especially if it’s a threesome (M/F/F/). I get the best of both worlds.

Men & Women Expect Differently

Yes, men and women have completely different views. Men want to show great oral satisfaction to their partner as much they give them. Women, such as myself, we want just the same amount as men but we are more like the energizer bunny so we can orgasm and cum as many times as we can and keep going and going until we satisfied.

What Men Want

It’s all about worshiping the penis, balls, and even rimming. Lots of spit, tongue play, sucking and coupling the balls, and for the win, swallowing. Start slow, then gradually build up the motion, put it in and out of your mouth, and work at it till orgasm. Additional bonus points if you allow the guy to come wherever he pleases.

Pleasuring Women Is A lot Different

For women, like myself, it’s a whole different spectrum. There’s something very sensual and passionate when women get intimate with one another . You have a connection with the other woman, get passionate, hug, kiss, then get home base, oral sex. When I’m intimate with another woman, I get so into it that I literally can’t stop myself from endless wetness. I dive right in it without hesitation. You can also get creative on giving oral pleasure with strap-ons, flavored lubes, oils etc., and positions such as the classic 69 (my all time favorite oral sex position).

Mistakes To Avoid

The most important mistakes to avoid are making sure and absolute first that you are in good health to engage in oral sex or any kind of sexual interactions. Second important thing, watch your teeth. The absolutely buzz kill in oral sex. I can’t stand teeth and nine times out of ten, your partner won’t either.

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August 10, 2018
Quick Tips To Give Her Great Oral Sex

I used to think that sex is definitely an act to be done with attractive people. But my new fantasy is having sex with several people, both females and males and enjoy the pleasure and shout together instead of focusing on beauty. I want to experience it in a dark room with a red sofa and a bed covered with red silk sheets. The color red turns me on a lot. So do heels, jewelry and men in suits. The contradiction in elegant wear and a kinky action is what makes it so attractive to me. And a dark setting covered with red furniture is making it feel like a dream in Wonderland. Darkness makes me forget about everything and live the moment, while red reminds me of pleasure. I’m a total fantasy person.

My First Time Receiving Oral

It was tickling. Sticky saliva didn’t feel as pleasurable at that moment because I was thinking of how weird the feeling was.

My Favorite Position

69. In this way I can give him one, too. It’s nice to have both of us moaning of pleasure.

Is Experience Crucial?

I always liked older men so I’m into wisdom in all meanings. That’s what it takes to be a man.

Worst Oral Sex Experience

Using teeth or hurting me with his beard.

Tips For Guys To Follow

Stretch the skin upwards, then move his head up and down fast on my clit smoothly. The tongue must not be inside, but touching it slightly.

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January 7, 2016
What does eat me mean?

Previously posted on Gasm.org

Has this ever happened to you: you’re driving down the road and then someone cuts you off. Before you realize who is in the car with you, you mutter something under your breath at the other driver…. something you might not want your kids to hear?

Just the other day I was driving on the freeway. Some rude guy sped up and honked at me when I was merging into his lane. I have a tendency to talk to the other drivers while I’m driving in my car. In this instance, when he honked at me, I sighed, “Come on dude, don’t honk at me. You saw me signal; Eat me.” My nine-year-old daughter was in the backseat of the car with me. After a beat, she asked “Mom, what does “eat me”

Ah, those teachable moments…

I had to pause for minute. Then I began to think aloud: “Well honey, I don’t really know. I can’t imagine “eat me” indicates anything sexual because it’s being said out of frustration or anger. ” This answer seemed to satisfy her curiosity but it left me thinking…

I reflected on how much language around sex has anger or violence associated with it. For example: think of all the different euphemisms for intercourse: Nailing, banging, hitting it. Masturbation: beating off, whacking the mole. Or even Frustration: fuck you, bite me, eat me. All of those have a negative connotation to them.

I’m not sure why people say “eat me”. I don’t know about you but I certainly wouldn’t want someone I was angry with or didn’t care for to perform cunnilingus on me. I would not want to force someone to do that either. For me, this seems to be another example of our failure to teach about how important PLEASURE is when talking about sex and sexuality. If it was clear to children, teens, and adults that pleasure is a goal when talking about the behaviors around sex, would we be so quick to talk about sex in terms of violence and/or anger?

There is something else I’d like to point out here: I didn’t know the answer to her question. I was not lying to my child to get out of giving her an answer to her question. I don’t know about you but I feel like I had a pretty good bullshit detector when I was a kid. I also want to point out that not knowing the answer was okay. My kids know that I am imperfect and human. As much as I might like to think I know it all, I am shown all too often that I don’t.

Why does so much of the language around sex have to do with violence and aggression? What does “Eat Me” mean to you? If this has happened to you, how did YOU approach this with your kids?

xxoo,

The MamaSutra

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July 6, 2015
5 Things You Should Know About Going Down On Your Lady

Ah, the vagina. That mysterious piece of art between a woman’s legs. Few men dare to venture their faces too close, and those that do, regretfully, don’t quite know what they’re doing down there. Fortunately, I’m here to shed some light on this magical unicorn of sexual pleasure. Starting with…

1) It’s not an all you can eat buffet.

The goal here is not to plunge your face in and gobble up everything in sight. This isn’t some cheap Chinese buffet—it’s a delicate, gourmet meal. Start out slowly. Even foreplay needs a little foreplay, and everyone likes a little tease. Start out with little kisses leading the way, or just barely brush her clit with your tongue to get her warmed up. No need to dive right in; you are a respectable gentleman, not a cocker spaniel.

2) NO TEETH.

For some absurd reason, a few of the guys who I’ve had the unfortunate luck to sleep with think it feels good when they rub their teeth on my clit, or use their teeth as part of the “experience”. Now, I don’t speak for the entirety of women here, but it stands to reason that if you don’t want my teeth digging into your cock, then don’t be digging yours into my clitoris. Seriously, that shit hurts. Tongue and lips only, please!

3) Use your fingers!

We women are extremely lucky in that we have two main spots of pleasure in our genitals. One, the clitoris, which hopefully at this point you’re taking care of with your tongue and mouth. But often, a world of pleasure is ignored when you don’t use your fingers on the g-spot. Pleasure her orally for a little, get her nice and wet, and then slide two fingers inside her all the way and move your fingers up and down. It’s a win-win situation ; it’ll feel amazing for her, and you won’t end up with lockjaw ’cause she’ll come way faster.

[Side note : Please trim your nails before attempting any penetration of a vagina with your fingers.]

4) Don’t be afraid to suck.

By this, I don’t mean don’t be afraid to be awful at cunnilingus. Be very afraid of that.

What I’m talking about in this case is actually using a little sucking action on her clit.

My absolute favourite move, and one that I’ve only just recently experienced, is having the guy suck my clit into his mouth (LIPS ONLY. See #2.) and while sucking, run his tongue over and around it. Absolute perfection! Don’t be afraid to add a little suction action to your repertoire of pussy-eating skills. If your lady is anything like me, she’ll love it—and maybe return the favor. And I’m almost positive you won’t mind having a little suction action on your cock, right?

5) When in doubt, ask.

So, the time is here, you’re “headed downtown for some lunch”, your face is buried in an all you can eat pussy buffet … and you’re getting nothing. Not a moan, not a squeak. What are you doing wrong?

Well, the only sure fire way to find out is to ask. I’ve had guys go down on me who didn’t have the slightest inkling what I liked; and it’s not like they were going to read my mind to find out. Every woman is different, we all like slight variations on the traditional pussy-eating technique. So simply ask. “Do you like it when I do this?” “How do you like it baby?” Most of the time, you’ll get a very specific answer. We know what we like and for the most part, we’re not afraid to tell you. We will literally give you a map to the Kingdom of Orgasms—you just have to follow it. Easy, right?

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