Tag: Camming

The Multi-Tasking Life Of A Camgirl

I first heard of camming in the spring of 2015. I was a street performer at the time and was looking for new hula hoop videos to watch. I found a hula hoop thread online that was explaining how the individual would ‘perform’ with her hoop online and make money. I thought that was really cool and decided to look further into the industry.

How My Life Has Changed Since I Started Camming

My life has changed in many ways such as, how I think, how I live and how I work. I was not always the most determined or high driven girl. I was a little depressed and didn’t like to try. Camming has changed my way of thinking, I think more of myself and have more confidence because I make my own living now. When I work super hard, I benefit super hard… when I slack off, I benefit minimally. I like that it’s all up to me. It has changed how I live. I used to like doing nothing, slacking, drinking, partying etc. Now it’s hard for me to engage in things like that on a daily basis. It has changed my work ethic the most. Before, I had no work ethic, no routine, no goals. Now, I have all those things… and I am actually ENJOYING them! Camming has changed me for the better.

Things I Had To Give Up

I don’t have the social life I once had that’s for sure! Friends were top priority to me about one year ago. Now, with camming I often find myself saying “I’m too busy”, “I have plans”, “I can’t, I’m working right now” all the time. I have lost many friends that don’t have time for me or don’t understand why I choose working over relaxing. I have given up my lazy days of being a teenager/college kid. I have given up partying extensively and even things such as smoking cigarettes for camming. It’s important to me, that I take care of myself as best as I can, for my fans.

Who In My Inner Circle Knows I’m Camming

So many! It’s not something I go screaming to the neighborhood but I don’t hide who I am from anyone. My mom (a.k.a. The Mothership), my dad, and my older brother all know. Other family members ask and I do like to keep it simple with “My boyfriend is supporting me right now, while I focus on school”, some members just wouldn’t understand. I told my close family soon after I got into the industry, honestly because I did not want them finding out by stumbling upon me online!!! They are all “As long as you’re safe and happy” very supportive which I am very lucky to have. All of my close friends know what I do. Especially since my ‘studio’ is my living room and I often get questioned about my pink walls! Friends that decide they want to look at me differently or judge me for being a camgirl, I simply don’t have time for.

How Their Initial Reaction Was Like

The Mothership was very curious about my job, she wanted to know that I was being as safe as I can, wanting to know that I wasn’t harming myself etc, … lots of ‘Mom’ like things! She likes it now and is really supportive of me, I can tell her almost anything about it, and my fans can even ‘Tip’ for me to call her! My brother and dad acted how you would expect, they pretended like they didn’t hear me! Although I know they did, we don’t talk about it like The Mothership and I do *thank god* but they both are aware, and don’t treat me differently. Actually my brother will make jokes about it sometimes. I’m just extremely lucky to have that support from them.

Misconceptions About Camgirls

The biggest one I have heard directed towards me is “Yeah, if I had your body, I would be a camgirl too”. I have to play this off lightly because my body is the last and almost least important quality you need as a camgirl. The misconception that all it takes is being ‘cute and little and sexy’ drives me nuts because you need SO MUCH MORE than that. You need to know and understand the business. You need to know how to manage yourself, your time, and your clients. You need a good personality and good customer service. You need to be dependable and reliable. You need to be responsible. Those are just a few qualities you need that are WAY more important than your body.

Advice For Beginners

The advice I gave myself *and keep giving myself* is this: Take it slow, Stay focused on your goals, Staying organized sucks, but helps A LOT, Don’t spread yourself too thin, and most importantly: Don’t quit, don’t quit, don’t quit, don’t quit!

Princess Jasmine is your favorite down-to-earth slutty little girl on Chaturbate. She is a full time camgirl on Chaturbate, produces videos for Manyvids, Studies Sociology, and performs with her hula-hoop in her spare time. Find her online and tell her what to do… she loves to obey.

Follow Princess Jasmine on:

Twitter: https://twitter.com/princessjas_cb
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Email: PrincessJasmine.CB@gmail.com

New videos to be released to her Manyvids account this month. Watch out for it!

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June 26, 2017
How To Make Sexy Videos & Photo Sets

Camming was a way for me to open up and explore my sexuality. I was very shy and reserved when the topic of sex came up before camming. Now, it has made me feel proud to express my sexuality, desires, kinks, everything. It’s also helped me learn to be more sociable, making friends with a wide variety of people online. We as cam girls learn to entertain an online audience, whether it be with our bodies, talents, or even straight up personality. That to me is ridiculously empowering; men as well as women coming to us and paying us for our time, for looks and into ourselves. The ability to work from home and adjust everything to your own comfort levels is better than any other jobs I can think of. As well as member friendships, the cam girl community is a beautiful, supportive place. I’ve met some of the sweetest and most caring women in the industry, which I think is something people on the outside don’t expect.

Videos I Enjoy Making

When it comes to video themes, cosplay and costume themes have to be my all time favorite. Getting to dress up as you or someone else’s favorite character, channeling their personality into an erotic setting; what could be better than that? You can choose to dress up as an exact likeness to the character, or create your own sexy spin on their look. You get to become an entirely different person with each video, which always brings something new to the table. Cosplay videos are definitely becoming a more popular and beloved theme among the video creators as well as customers. I love being able to make those kinds of fantasies come to life for buyers.

How To Make A Good Video

Making videos can be a difficult, lengthy process, just as well as any form of art. I always try to do research before making a video; watching similar videos made by other women, to get ideas and the general tone I may want for it. Sometimes for more detailed videos, I find it helpful to make a basic outline for what you’re going to do in the video. What kind of positions, things you’re going to wear, what you’re going to say if there’s talking involved, etc. If I’m nervous about a particular video, sometimes I’ll have a drink or two to loosen up and shake my nerves (only consider that advice if you’re 21+!).

To make a video exactly how I want it, I may re-shoot a specific part multiple times to see which one has the right look and feel that I wanted at the start. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes and shoot the same scene over and over until you get it right. There will more than likely always be bloopers, awkward camera angle changing, just small mistakes scattered throughout a video shoot. Editing is also very important, making sure you catch all of the mistakes before you put out the final cut. I’ve had a few moments in the beginning of my career where some were missed, and the video wasn’t how I wanted it to be.

Differences Between Video & Photo Sets

Photo sets to me have always been much more time consuming, as well as a little more frustrating. I can sit there and take 100+ pictures, and end up only liking 10 of them enough to use in the set. For editing, you want to go through and make sure your pictures look flawless, as well as keeping a natural look to them. You don’t want to put out a photoset that’s been photoshopped so much you can’t even enjoy the resulting product.

Tips To Take Sexy Selfies

Have fun with it! Try taking all different types of pictures; amateur phone pictures, ones with professional lighting and a DLSR camera, etc. See the variety of results you get and what kind of feel you’re looking for. Camera timers are also going to be your best friend. If you aren’t comfortable with having a photographer or someone to take them for you, just set the timer and pose! When it comes to poses and angles, I’ve realized that what poses and angles look good for others may not be the best for yourself. Try all different angles to show off your sexy body, and you’ll soon find out which ones work best for you.

Hi there, I’m Miss Moon Moon, but you can just call me Moon. I’ve been in the sex industry for almost four years; started out with camming, now I make and sell sexy content. I’m a traditional artist (drawing) as well as a visual artist, creating erotic videos and photo sets that appeal to a variety of people. Follow me on:

Twitter: https://twitter.com/Miss_MoonMoon
Twitter (Findom Account): https://twitter.com/SpoiledMoonMoon

ManyVids: https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/400120/Miss_MoonMoon/
iWantClips: https://iwantclips.com/store/63486/PrincessMoon

YouKandy: http://www.youkandy.com/princessmoon

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June 23, 2017
How It’s Like Being A Camgirl

How Did I Start Camming?

Craigslist! No, really. I’m disabled and my disabilities got too crazy to sustain a “vanilla” job, so I was looking for another work from home job. I found a post on Craigslist about a site looking for girls to get naked on cam. I did some more research, found MyFreeCams (Corii_Siren is my username) and started within 12 hours. And here I am, 5 years later!

Why Is Camming So Popular?

I think it is so popular because of the convenience. There has been a WILD influx of girls in the past 6 months or so who think it’s easy money, etc. even though it isn’t. But, for those of us who do this as a career, it’s convenience as far as not being able to work because of illnesses or wanting to stay home with their kids or maybe just a love for exhibitionism.

It’s a form of porn, so no, I don’t think it will. And with the not-so-desirable guys who record our shows, there will always, at LEAST, be amateur porn out there. However, mainstream porn is such a money maker that I don’t think it will ever completely go away and that’s totally OK.

What Makes Me Unique

You have to figure out a way to stand out. I’m not saying you have to have a talent or go sky diving on cam (although I’m sure it wouldn’t hurt), but you have to be able to connect with your clients. Camming is a lot about personality and individual attention these days.

Misconceptions New Camgirls Should Know

That it’s easy. By no means is this line of work easy. Guys and girls alike make this misconception. Most people don’t realize the amount of time we spend still working when we are NOT live on cam. Also, dealing with assholes and a lot of drama comes with the territory. You are judged by a lot of people. It’s definitely not easy.

Common Mistakes To Avoid

SELLING HERSELF SHORT. There are so many girls who actually do research before they become a camgirl and for one reason or another end up thinking that they need to sell their content and items super cheap. No matter what, a girl should always know her worth. Also, stay away from the drama, don’t bitch *too* much (which can be hard when things aren’t going well) and don’t lie. Just be yourself.

Is Preparation Required Before Going On Cam?

I literally don’t. There is a funny thing between a lot of camgirls that we feel like when we log on with no makeup, hair tied, pajamas, playing video games that we make more money than when we log on all dolled up. It varies so much, but then again, variety is the spice of life! Me, personally – I just wing it. Sometimes I get “cute,” sometimes I don’t. But, I do crank some music to get hype and in a really good mood before going live!

I completely improvise. I never know what kind of mood my viewers will be in when I get online, so I check that out first and we see where things go! It has always worked for me. If there is some kind of big show I want to do, I plan for it and promote in advance.

Corii Siren – I have been a webcam model for what will be 5 years in May of this year and a Pro Domme for 7 years as of August 6^th of this year. I am a 5 time award nominated model. I have 80+ videos and am transitioning to mostly fetish clips as I expand my collection. Read the rest of my profile below!

Follow me on:

ManyVids: coriisiren.manyvids.com

Twitter: www.twitter.com/CoriiSirenBBW

Free Snapchat: coriisirenfree

17 new g/g videos were just released onto Manyvids and I have 2 new sites — CoriiOnSkype.com (which is where I now offer Skype shows froms) and Coriisiren.com. Check them out!

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June 7, 2017
Tips For A Beginner Camgirl
Camming is all about female empowerment and I see it as a form of entrepreneurship. For someone like me who had life changing, alarming and physically draining experiences with the opposite sex, camming gave me that control, self-love and safety I had once lost from a young age. I see camming as an enjoyable and educational job.

How I Began Camming

I ultimately became bored of escorting and I wanted to do something that would still allow me to feel in control of my body and ultimately my life. I found that cam work would give me that independence and power that I wanted. I also had a sense of excitement when I spoke to a new client on cam.

Challenges I Faced At The Beginning

No-one tells you that camming is time consuming and that in the beginning you won’t be speaking or engaging with plethora of people. It starts off slow but you have to trust the process – regularity means that more people will recognise when you’re online and they’d want to communicate with you.

Things I Wished I Knew

Taboo fetishes are so popular and common on cam. I find that taboo fetishes on cam can be really disturbing and I didn’t know that there was such a demand and desire for such fetishes. For example, as an ebony girl, I receive a lot of “Black Slave, White Master” and “HIV and Murder” taboo fetishes. I always tell myself that these are simply fetishes and clients are simply communicating with me because they know that they cannot fulfil these types of fetishes in reality.

Misconceptions About Camgirls
1. Not all cam girls have Daddy issues. For some apparent reason, I receive emails and comments from people saying that I “should resolve” my Daddy issues and leave this industry which makes me laugh because I have an incredible relationship with my father.
2. Not all cam girls do this job to fund a drug addiction or any type of addiction for that matter. I don’t drink, I have never done drugs and I wasn’t forced into webcam work. I enjoy what I do and I reap the benefits of my job.
3. I often get told that I should be ashamed of myself because I am essentially selling my body providing a type of sexual service. If I was ashamed, I would not be doing such an empowering, amazing and entertaining job like camming.
Tips For Beginners
1. Using a HD webcam camera – You ultimately want to make sure your virtual client is able to see you clearly. A HD webcam camera really helps to create a better experience for the cam girl and the virtual client.
2. Your setting is totally important as it can create a particular mood for a webcam show. I do my shows in my living room on my white sofa. I love using a lot of light so my shows are clear and the focus is always on me.
3. Get to know your virtual client before “showing them the goods.” A conversation can actually make a cam show fun and very intimate. Additionally, you’re keeping the client for a longer time period which means MORE MONEY for you so it’s a great skill.
4. Great Wifi connection – There is nothing worse than a webshow ending abruptly because of connection issues. You need to have the best wifi.
5. Eye contact with your camera makes the experience for the clients a lot better. The client will feel special because all your focus is on them
6. Dress to entice and impress – If you look great, the client will want to have fun with you.
7. Be open minded and enjoy your shows – I have numerous orgasms on cam because I’m always relaxed and I always try new things (afterall everyone has different fetishes, desires and thoughts).
Electra Black – 22 year old British Ebony Babe enjoys being a virtual plaything to hundreds of men and women. Offering the most tantalising and extraordinary webcam shows, clients always return for more euphoric fun. With a copious amount of sex toys and outfits, this cam girl aims to fulfill the highest level of naughtiness! Blessed with natural incredible assets, she leaves you exploding with excitement. She’s certainly the best UK Ebony Camgirl.

Twitter: https://twitter.com/ElectraBlackXXX
Webcam Shows on AdultWork: refer.adultwork.com/?R=3605789&T=3605789

Upcoming Works:

Weekdays availability: 6PM UNTIL LATE (UK TIME)

Weekend availability: 11AM – LATE (UK TIME)

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May 24, 2017
The New Trend In Sex

This a new option for all those who are constantly looking for the new sensations and impressions. Why? Well, it’s all because this option opens you a whole new world where you can get any hot girl easily, within seconds. It is the world where sex is always available and always great. It’s the universe of pleasure and passion which is called Firecams. This is a website where Live Sex Cams on Cam is easy of access 24/7.

Adult Cams

What are they? Adult webcams is an online service that can make you forget about boredom and bring all your secret fantasies to life. What are you dreaming about? Femme fatale in a leather outfit that leads you to a fantastic orgasm? Or maybe you prefer shy girls with big blue eyes that show off their young perky tits for the first time? Whatever you like, you get it on a sex cam website like Firecams. You just need to name your wishes.

How does it work?

Everything is pretty simple. You come to the desktop version of the site or visit Mobile Free Sex, where you see a lot of girls (and guys too) who are currently online; thus, they are ready to chat with you. You choose those ones you like and drop them a line. The rest is just the matter of your fantasy and will. You can start with a dirty talk with the “Nude Girls“, then move further and ask one or few of them for a live XXX cam show, or switch on your camera and enjoy cam2cam sex.

Whom will I meet there?

Normally, big sex cam sites like Firecams are the best place to meet hundreds or even thousands of sexy girls from all over the world: European beauties, American babes, Latina chicks, Asian Webcams, and even Arab cuties. There are barely legal teens and mature ladies who already know what you need to be satisfied; blondes and brunettes, skinny and curvy babes, tall and short. You can switch between different types of women every day!

Featured image courtesy of Firecams
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November 2, 2016
Challenges Of A Camgirl

Well, it’s a way to combine business with pleasure. I’m well known for loving to talk or meet new people and exhibit myself, so camming was a way to satisfy these two things while still paying my bills.

How I Began As A Camgirl

A few years ago, I’ve discovered that one of my girls was working as a cam model. She told me a lot of things about camming and my interest was growing day by day. I tried right away in this industry but it wasn’t the right time, I didn’t have enough background or information about it, did a lot of wrong things and ended thinking that camming wasn’t for me. One year later I decided to try it again, this time I was inspired, dedicated and had done my homework. Now everything went better than expected, I’ve just completed one year of this new chapter and I couldn’t be happier.

Standing Out Among Other Camgirls

Yeah it’s very hard and competitive, there are a lot of awesome and very beautiful girls. I think you need to be different, show your strengths, your perks, you can’t be just another one or camming will eat you out. I try to improve everyday as an adult entertainer, such as putting new things on my shows, trying new stuff, even asking what my clients like to see to create a quality show.

What I Love To Do On Cam

There’s one thing that I love the most: Spanking! Seriously if you want to grab my heart, just give me a few good spanks and I’m all yours, hahaha joking. But yeah spanking is my favorite, but I also love to do some fetish stuff like foot fetish, pet play and bondage.

Challenges Faced When Camming

The hardest thing for me is this constant competition, you can’t stop or you fall. I need to improve myself everyday to maintain a good client rate.

Annie Fox can be your real girl in this fake world or she can be your best friends…with benefits! Gamer geek/nerd girl that knows how to make you feel good with simple pleasure. Follow me on Instagram @anniefoxgiven, Twitter @anniefoxxx and Snapchat: annie.foxxx

Images courtesy of Annie Fox
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October 25, 2016
Why I Love Being A Camgirl

I worked in the Thailand prostitution industry for two months, when I was 18 years old. My first sex in life was with a customer from America that I had known only for 10 minutes… I got to do things to old guys that I wish I had not done. However, I like sex… I then met a 22 year old French man who was more than a customer. He found me Chaturbate.com, learnt everything about it for me, and then explained to me how everything was working.

At first, I couldn’t believe that I would get more money from just staying on my bed ALONE. While I was having real sex for ridiculous small amounts of money. I was young. That was a mistake. Maybe. However, I love sex. And this alternative of camming is perfect for me. I get a good pay. And my boyfriend isn’t jealous and doesn’t leave me 😉

What I Love Doing On Cam

I can do almost anything. I’m very open-minded.

Personally, I love to cum. I cum a lot. I can have six or more orgasms in the same session. I’m almost always excited, everyday. Very wet. A lot of “white cream”… Guys love to see it. Many guys love different parts of me. They have different preferences. So I adapt myself with the person who is watching and what they want.

I can do almost any sexual thing, but NO dirty things. I mean, I’ll never poop on myself… so I just block those guys…

Preparing For A Cam Session

I make up for about 20 to 30 minutes before a session. I choose a sexy outfit according to my mood of the moment. Sometimes, I makeup while I’m live on cam so people start talking with me and asking questions while I’m preparing for the show.

I also set up some basic lights… a single LED bulb on my level and the ceiling lights…

That’s pretty simple 🙂

What I don’t Do

As I said, I’m very open-minded. But I don’t accept doing anything with urine or pooping on myself… Forget about eating it!!!

Mia is a camgirl and goes by the name Mia Thai Girl. Check her out at the following links:

Website: http://miathaigirl.pw/ (to getMia’s personal Skype ID)

Twitter: http://twitter.com/miathaigirl/

Chaturbate: http://chaturbate.com/miathaigirl/

Jasmin: http://jasmin.com/en/#chat/MiaThaiGirl

Images courtesy of Mia Thai Girl
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September 12, 2016
Tips For Beginner Camgirls

When I first started camming, I didn’t fully realize the potential of this industry. I felt excited, ashamed, and nervous all at the same time. I didn’t even know whether I would actually be receiving a paycheck, or if I had just sold my soul to some website I’d never heard of, that would take advantage of me, and leave me broke. But I took a chance.

Three years later, I am so glad that I decided to make that decision, and to take that chance. The vast majority of my customers are loyal, friendly people, that are excited to see me on a daily basis. I have become fully self sufficient, I pay all of the bills on my house that I paid for with cash, I support my family, and I do it from the privacy, and comfort of my own home. The only regret I have is that I didn’t start camming sooner.

How I Started Camming

I was at a low point in my life when I decided to start camming. I had just left my home state, and moved to another with my boyfriend, and we were living in a small trailer with his mom. I worked in the morning while everyone else went to work at a restaurant down the road, where my boyfriend was only making about $60 a week. Things quickly changed though, and as I figured out the basics of camming, I quickly realized that I would be making twice as much a day as my boyfriend did, and it would actually cost us money for him to keep working at the restaurant.

Challenges Faced

When I first started camming, I dealt with a lot of different problems. Trying to explain to people that I have a job, but I don’t ever leave the house was a major one. I’ve learned that it’s better to just avoid the question, “I’m not at liberty to discuss my work with you” or “I’m not really supposed to talk about it” sounds much more official than,” I work online”, or “I’m a cam model”.

Things You Should Know Before Starting!

Camgirls are considered self employed! This means that your site isn’t going to take taxes out of your pay check, you have to file, and pay the taxes owed yourself. This is simple to do if you use a tax software, but it can be very confusing if you’re trying to keep your job title a secret from your family. Be smart, do some research on how to file self employment taxes, be prepared to talk to the IRS, and don’t be afraid, this is your business.

Common Misconceptions About Camgirls

I hear a lot that I should have went to college, or that I’m only a camgirl because I didn’t go to college. However, I am 22 years old, I have a house that is completely paid off, I pay all my bills on time, and I have a lot of downtime to pursue other hobbies/things that I really love to do.

My sister is 8 years older than me, she graduated from college and owes a very large amount of money to that college. She is still renting, and will probably have no other choice but to rent for quite a while; she works 5/6 days a week, and has very little downtime. You tell me who’s happier.

Hey! I’m Kitty! I’m cute, short, sexy, and sweet! I am a model on numerous sites and enjoy it. I enjoy all my fans and will take all the support I can get! I’m one of the best and that won’t be changing any time soon.

Links:
Sign up link to become a camgirl: http://chaturbate.com/affiliates/in/?track=default&tour=5zjT&campaign=RVcIn

A link to become an affiliate: http://chaturbate.com/affiliates/in/?track=default&tour=9O7D&campaign=RVcIn

A link to my cam room: http://chaturbate.com/affiliates/in/?track=default&tour=ZQAI&campaign=RVcIn&room=xxhellokitty22xx

A link to my twitter: https://twitter.com/kittysofficial_

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Images courtesy of Kitty
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September 6, 2016
Alternative Model Jeselyn And Her Amazing Tattoos

Hi Jeselyn, thank you for taking the time to answer our questions on SimplySxy. Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

Originally, northern New Hampshire. I live in Rhode Island now.

Photo Credit: Greg Easton Photography

What inspired you to be an alternative model?

I honestly fell into it. I was asked several times if I ever did modeling and started thinking I should try it. I did a few shoots while I was starting to get heavily tattooed and as my look progressed, so did my career.

Photo Credit: Greg Easton Photography

Can you tell us more about your book, The Dawn of Doom?

“Jeselyn: The Dawn of Doom” is a book that my photographer Greg Easton put together of our early work together. It’s from 2009 until 2012. The break off point was when I had my breast augmentation in the end of 2012. It was a natural break of sorts. But it’s a bunch of photos he and I did together over the years.

Photo Credit: Greg Easton Photography

How many tattoos do you have and is there a story behind one of them you can share?

One big one… we think I’m close to the 400-450 hour mark. My tattoos don’t always have meaning. There happen to be 2 that are quite meaningful to me. I have a matching tattoo with my mom behind my ear. And I also have a box of fritters on my lower left calf as a memorial for my Grandfather who passed recently. He used to make fritters in a concession stand at fairs when I was little.

How often do you go on Chaturbate and where can we find you?

My Chaturbate schedule is sporadic. Your best bet is to follow me on Chaturbate so when I am on you’ll get an email. Also on twitter. I announce when I will be on. I own a couple businesses on top of modeling and doing cam work so I never know when I have to run errands and such.

Photo Credit: Jenna Doughtry Photography

What turns you on?

Confidence and a great sense of humor. Looks… heavily tattooed bald guys with beards. And curvy tattooed ladies.

Which is your favorite sex position?

Doggy style tends to be a leader all the time.

Photo Credit: Jenna Doughtry Photography

What advice can you give to those who are looking to try out camming and adult work?

Cam work… dive right in! It’s fun! You can make it fun! Check out various sites and see what you like best. It also doens’t hurt to reach out to other cammodels through twitter or email to ask their opinions. You might be a reply! I reply and help people out as much as I can. As for adult work, if you are working with someone else or a company, RESEARCH! Don’t just dive into any project, make sure you will be safe and have an idea of what is going on!

Photo Credit: Jenna Doughtry Photography

It’s a pleasure to feature you Jeselyn. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

… A chocolate brownie fudge sundae with extra cherries…

Follow the beautiful Jeselyn on:
Website: http://www.jeselynonline.com/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeselynonline

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeselynonline/

Featured image courtesy of Jenna Doughtry Photography

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December 27, 2015
How to make Skype sex amazing

Hey, I’m Jenna. I’m 22 years old. I live in Colorado, and I work full-time as a front desk agent at a hotel and part-time as a camgirl doing private shows over Skype. I’m also in a long-distance open relationship, so I regularly have Skype sex not only with paying customers but also with my long-distance boyfriend, multiple times a week. I started doing cam shows, and selling my used panties online, a few months ago when I moved to Colorado from New Jersey. I got into it because my boyfriend Chris* said that my panties smelled so good, I should sell them. He was joking, but I started selling my panties and, from there, began camming.

I love Skype Sex!

There’s something really fun and playful about it, because at times you’re “pretending” to have sex. I love dirty talk, and Skype is a great place for dirty talk. Plus, I’m a bit of an exhibitionist, so showing off for the camera gets me excited. It can also be a great way to spice up your sex life, especially if there’s a woman in the relationship who has a hard time cumming from penetration. With my boyfriend, Skype sex has been amazing. At its best, it is the personal gratification of masturbating, plus all the shared joy and intimacy of sex with someone you love. I’m talking about crazy multi-orgasmic Skype sessions.

With clients, I love Skype sex for similar reasons. It’s not just the gratification of getting to fuck myself properly, but also to develop a vibe with another person. With some clients, we’re quiet, and with others, we talk dirty the whole time. One of my favorite clients doesn’t let me cum until I ask him, and we often cum at the same time. With clients, it feels like more like performing, even if I cum, but it’s still great.

During Skype sex, my boyfriend once got jealous and said “This is just another cam show to you, isn’t it?” And I was taken aback, because it’s so different. Of course, when it comes to sex, nothing beats the real thing. I’ve found that with a relationship partner, Skype sex doesn’t cut it after a while and we’re longing to hold each other again.

It’s easier to get started than you think!

There’s no special ritual involved, I just have to feel good emotionally. Regardless of whether we get naked ten minutes or two hours into a virtual conversation, my boyfriend and both have to feel like our emotional needs are being met before we feel like having sex – just like in real life. If we’re having a disagreement or we just need someone to talk to, we have to talk before we feel like having Skype sex. There’s no special preparation because we don’t plan for Skype sex, we let it happen spontaneously. We video chat in our respective bedrooms so we can get naked if the mood strikes.

The good thing about it not being real sex is that you don’t have to both be physically ready to start the action. I have a higher sex drive than my boyfriend, so he often makes me wait or doesn’t join me in masturbating if he wants to hang out without (virtually) fucking. If I’m not wet yet, I just watch him masturbate.

With clients, I just like to be hydrated, and dressed in something cute. If I really need it, I will take the day off. I want it to be fun, not a chore. And weed helps me get horny.

Dress the part

I like babydoll tops, matching pajama sets, dresses, and good old nudity. Again, I don’t plan for Skype sex, I just try to wear sexy things whenever I Skype in the privacy of my bedroom. It’s fun to get on camera and not reveal until halfway through the conversation that I’m wearing no pants, just a thong. If we’re talking about sex and my boyfriend gets horny, he says “guess what?” and then pans the camera down to show me that he’s pulled out his hard cock. I like it when he does that and I don’t expect it (as long as he’s not interrupting me when I’m talking).

Tips for men

If your girl likes eye contact during sex, remember to look into the camera, not just at the screen. Put on a show. If you see your girl’s eyes light up when you do something, try doing it more. I like my man to squeeze his dick, rub it faster and then nice and slow, and then with two hands, and then play with the head, etc. As you get good at it, you won’t just be sitting there repetitively jerking off. Ask your partner to do things you want him/her to do, and ask them what they want you to do. “Direct” each other. And remember that dirty talk is your friend.

First time advice for couples

Work on having trust in each other. Make sure you’re okay being vulnerable in front of each other, because Skype sex can feel silly and awkward the first time, just like regular sex. A good “practice step” is to masturbate for/on each other in person. Masturbation feels vulnerable because it’s a private act, so if you masturbate for each other during live sex first, you will probably feel less awkward. If you think dirty talk is a good addition to skype sex, you can first practice with phone sex so you don’t have to look your partner in the eyes.

If you’re trying to initiate Skype sex for the first time, make sure that you two are each Skyping from a private place (of course) and not under time pressure. Have a conversation first, and maybe wait for sex to arise naturally in the conversation, so you can tell your partner what you wish you could do to them. If you’re long distance, you could go “Hey, I miss your ass/belly/face, can I see it again?” Ladies, you can ask your man to take off his shirt…and then his pants. When Chris and I first had Skype sex, we were talking about things we wish we could do to each other, and then I just started stripping and asked to see his dick. If your partner is less of a nympho, you might just have to ask them if they want to get naked on Skype with you. Use your words. I’ve never planned a Skype session specifically to have sex, we just start stripteasing a little on camera if I get horny.

How to make Skype sex amazing

Play with camera angles!! Sometimes, my boyfriend shows me just his dick, or just his face, or both. I like to masturbate without letting him see any more than my upper body, and then by the end I’m spreading my pussy for the camera so he can see inside.

Let each other say and do anything without judgement. Before I had Skype sex with Chris, we had phone sex. He felt awkward, so I did most of the talking the first few times, and eventually we stopped worrying that we sounded stupid or repetitive. One time I told him that I wanted to call him Daddy but that I felt silly and shy about it. He said, “You can call me Daddy if you want to. You don’t have to be embarrassed that you want to suck Daddy’s cock.” He got really into it, calling me a good girl and everything. I get wet just thinking about it. After that point, I felt like I trusted him with all my sexual quirks, so I could say or do anything, and Skype sex was no biggie. Communication and trust are key. Duh! Haha. I can’t believe I’m saying that, because it’s so cliche, but it’s true for pretty much every aspect of sex and relationships. Skype sex is a great place to try out your wildest fantasies. Happy sexing!

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