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  • The Ultimate Guide to Making Money Online as a BBW Cam Model

    The Ultimate Guide to Making Money Online as a BBW Cam Model

    In the bustling digital landscape, the adult industry has seen a surge in opportunities for cam performers, especially for those who don’t fit the conventional beauty standards. This guide is tailored for individuals who identify as BBW (Big Beautiful Women) and are interested in leveraging their unique presence in the online adult entertainment world to generate substantial income.

    The Earning Potential of Plus Size Cam Modeling

    Becoming a plus-size cam model on BBW cams can be both empowering and financially rewarding. With the rise of adult webcam sites, plus-size individuals have found a niche where their body types are not only accepted but celebrated.

    Platforms like Chaturbate, MyFreeCams, and Skyprivate offer BBW models various methods to earn, ranging from streaming live shows with per-minute rates, receiving tips from viewers, or selling premium content. The key to success on these platforms is to create a loyal fan base by being authentic and engaging.

    Alternative Income Streams for BBW Models

    Beyond camming, there are several other paths for BBW models to monetize their content.

    Social Media and Influencer Marketing

    Many BBW models have found success by becoming influencers on platforms like Instagram and TikTok. By building a following and promoting products that cater to the BBW community, influencers can earn significant sponsorship deals and affiliate marketing commissions.

    Online Tutoring and Coaching

    Leveraging expertise in adult content creation, BBW models can offer one-to-one coaching sessions or create online courses for aspiring adult entertainers. Platforms like OnlyFans and Patreon can be used to distribute educational content, allowing models to share knowledge while earning passive income.

    The Role of Charisma in Monetizing Personal Connections

    One of the most overlooked aspects of online earning potential in the adult industry is the ability to connect with an audience on a personal level. BBW models who are charismatic and relatable can attract dedicated fans who are willing to pay for personalized content, private sessions, or exclusive interactions.

    Creating a Sustainable Income on Fansly, OnlyFans, and Patreon

    Fansly, OnlyFans, and Patreon have revolutionized the adult industry by allowing creators to take control of their content and earnings. BBW models can use these platforms to offer subscription-based services, sell custom content, and set up pay-per-view options.

    Building a Unique Brand to Attract Followers

    A successful brand on these platforms is built on consistent, high-quality content that showcases a BBW model’s unique personality and perspective. Engaging with fans through messages and exclusive content can turn casual subscribers into loyal patrons, leading to a sustainable income.

    Diversifying Income with Merchandising and Collaborations

    To optimize earning potential, BBW models can also explore merchandising options like sex toys, lingerie, and other adult novelty items. Collaborating with other models or brands for cross-promotion can expand reach and create additional streams of income.

    The Art of Community Building and Retention

    No matter the platform or avenue chosen, community building is crucial for monetization. Engaging with fans, hosting live events, and creating a sense of belonging can significantly increase retention rates and income.

    By following these strategies, BBW models can tap into the thriving online adult entertainment industry and secure a sustainable source of income while breaking stereotypes and empowering themselves and others.

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  • Why Do So Many Guys Love Sex with BBWs?

    Why Do So Many Guys Love Sex with BBWs?

    Our society has been pretty much hostile towards plus-sized people. These people are admonished and body shamed by both men and women of society. However, in a recent study, an astonishing fact came to the fore which almost shocked everyone who is prejudiced against plus-sized women.

    Yes, men are enjoying sex with a big and beautiful woman (BBW) more than with normal size or a small size woman. If you are prejudiced against BBWs, then this will make you wonder why men like BBWs more in bed than? What do they bring extra to sex for men to enjoy?

    When it comes to BBWs, we only see that they are big and they are not fit. But, if you look at the things very closely, you will realize that they bring certain elements to sex that can make sex more enjoyable to men and a normal size or a small size woman doesn’t have those things. 

    Even in the porn industry, you will find that BBWs are among the most popular pornstars in the industry. So, if you are wondering what makes men fall for these big and beautiful women, then in this article, let’s discuss in a detailed way. 

    Thrusting is Enjoyable

    Yes, when it comes to sexual penetration, you should know that thrusting is the key. However, with a petite woman, thrusting can get a bit rough for the man. However, with a BBW, you can make long and hard thrusts easily and the best thing is, she can take them easily. 

    Primitive Instincts

    Look, from ancient times, a man is attracted to a woman with a big vagina. And the reason for that is men are looking for the most suitable mate who can bear their child. That is why due to primitive instincts, men are more likely to go after a BBW for sex than to a petite woman. 

    More to Love

    Due to the extra weight that a BBW carries, a man will find more places in her body to love than in any other woman. Yes, she will have plenty of erogenous parts in her body which will be more enjoyable for men to play with. 

    Better Sex Positions

    When it comes to trying various sex positions, BBWs are the best because their curvy body will make room for many sex positions easily. That is why when it comes to having anal sex, BBWs can be the best partners you can ever have. 

    Mammary Intercourse

    One of the things that make BBWs the perfect sexual partner for any man is their big tits. Yes, because of their large boobs, it is easier for a man to have mammary intercourse with them (tit-fuck) and a lot of men love that. 

    Confidence is Key

    The confidence that BBWs poses is quite addictive. Yes, when you are with a BBW, you will feel confident and empowered. They are not ashamed about their body and thus, any man would feel confident around them. They are also not afraid to try things to improve their sex life. 

    More to Grab

    While having sex, men like to grab some of the places in the body of a woman. Well, when it comes to the body of a BBW, a man would get plenty of places to grab on. Therefore, sex with a BBW becomes more pleasurable for a man. 

    Amazing to Cuddle

    You might think that men are not as much into cuddling as you women are because you haven’t seen many men cuddling in the porn videos on various porn sites. But, in reality, men also love cuddling and to do that with a BBW is more pleasurable than with any other woman. 

    Sense of Humour

    Without any doubt, BBWs have an amazing sense of humour and when they laugh, they will draw the attention of everyone around them. Their laughs have the power to make you laugh as well and thus, the post-sex time with a BBW is also much more enjoyable for a man. 

    Final Thoughts

    Finally, when you see the pictures of a nude BBW, you will feel attracted if you are a man. These are the reasons that you have learned in the aforementioned points. So, now you know that having a BBW partner for a man is a dream and being plus-sized is not that bad, after all.

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  • 20 Questions With Adult Model Hadi Hart

    20 Questions With Adult Model Hadi Hart

    SimplySxy follows up with Hadi Hart after her feature on Loving Blowjobs. Find out more below and things you never knew about Hadi before!

    1) Tell me about yourself?

    My name is Hadi. I’m 23, Dominican born and raised in Miami Florida. I’m just your regular college graduate who loves to fuck and doesn’t care who knows it.

    2) How did you decide that you want to try something exciting like this?

    I started on Tumblr when I was 18 and I mostly just did it for my self-esteem I would take nudes and just love the feedback I got. It wasn’t until I was like 19? Then I met a friend who got me into the sugar baby lifestyle. And that really opened my eyes to the sex work community. And I just kept going and I loved recording and being recorded. It just seemed like the next best step for me personally.

    And I am kind of a nympho maniac so it keeps me at bay honestly. But to be fair I had no idea about online sex work until my friend told me about it, he convinced me to start a Twitter. And it was one of the smartest things I have ever done.

    3) What excites you the most about your work here?

    What excites me most is seeing my fans happy, I love feeling the power and seeing the excitement on their face or hearing about how happy I make them. It started off and is mostly about body positivity when it comes to my work but I do have to say I have a slight sadistic side to me that gets off on getting people off.

    4) When your fans comment on your body, how do you feel?

    Sometimes it hurts, I’m human. And I’m not perfect and that’s ok. But luckily I have an amazing support system which keeps me grounded at all times. Self esteem will always be an issue for me and a lot of others but it’s an every day job to love yourself.

    5) How did you loose your virginity?

    I actually planned it…like a weirdo. A lot of my friends wanted it (my virginity) and I was like fuck that. I’m gonna decide. So I chose a kid that was apart of my group of friends and I thought he was cute and I lost my virginity in a house with my best friends in the other rooms also having sex….I was a very weird/wild 17 year old.

    6) Any interesting stories, that you would like to share with your fans?

    Honestly I have too many horror stories to tell but I have definite rules to follow. Never have sex because you feel pressure. If you’re not ready, you’re not ready and that’s ok. Never feel like if you’re not a sexual person that something is wrong with you. And being different is fucking awesome. Be who you are and fuck everyone who tells you to change.

    7) What turns you on?

    Confidence, and honestly good conversation. If you can talk and actually have something start to say then you’re halfway there with me.

    8) What are your hidden fantasies?

    My hidden fantasies, hmmmm that’s interesting, I have a lot of them. But I would have to say that I would love to be “kidnapped” and “taken advantage of” and gangbanged. I’m a very sexually deviant person and love weird things!

    9) Do you love kinky gifts? Give some examples!

    YES! I love kinky gifts! I have a few onesies and even nipple clamps that I got from some fans that I use all the time during play!

    10) When you posted your first naked picture on Twitter, where you nervous/excited?

    I was super excited, I was like fuck yes, finally. I’m actually doing this.

    11) What is your favorite position?

    With an ass like mine?….Hellloooo definitely doggy. Or I like to be on top haha.

    12) What do you like sexually? What get you wet?

    I’m the kind of person that gets hot even by someone’s voice. Just by saying the right things to me can get me wet. I love being embarrassed or humiliated in a way. I love to be challenged and made to back down.

    13) Are you submissive or dominant?

    I am actually a switch. I’m dominant with women but submissive with men most of the time. I’m a brat and love to challenge people sexually.

    14) What was your favorite porn genre?

    Lesbian definitely. My first ever porn was a girl orgy funny enough.

    15) Do you have any favorite movies?

    The Harry Potter series will always have my heart.

    16) What is your favorite food?

    Right now it’s anything peanut buttery.

    17) What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done?

    Hmmmm I’ve eaten and finger fucked a mans’ ass?

    18) Are there things you do at home that you won’t do at work or vice versa?

    When it comes to my vanilla job I’m obviously a different person, but to be honest, porn me and the real me are the same person.

    19) What are your views on public sex or showing off your body in public?

    I’m okay with it as long as you don’t involve anyone else who’s non-consenting into it. Other then that fucking go for it!

    20) What will be your message to your lovely fans out there?

    Thank you to everyone who’s been here with me from the beginning! I appreciate all the love from my fans and friends from the SW community. I love what I do and I hope you’re enjoying what I do as well. Thank you for being a fan, and for those who don’t know me. Come check me out!

    Hadi Hart – I’m 23 and just graduated with my Bachelors. I have been in sex work since I was 19, and fell in love with the body positivity and acceptance movement of it all. I’m from Miami and am a BBW content creator.

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    Website: onlyfans.com/lilmsthiccy

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/lilmsthiccy

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  • How To Satisfy A BBW

    How To Satisfy A BBW

    Sex is a great way to connect with someone on a more intimate level. It’s a way to overcome all the awkward exchanges with someone new. It’s a way to open yourself up, let go and have some fun! And the best part about sex is you get to learn what things get you and your partner/s off!

    Appeal Of A BBW

    The biggest appeal in my personal experience is the love for BBW belly! So many people of all genders really love the extra cushion that a BBW belly provides.

    The second biggest appeal is BBW ass. Many people fantasize about having a BBW sit on their face.

    Misconceptions About Having Sex With A BBW

    A common misconception I hear all the time is that a BBW isn’t going to be able to do all the crazy positions that a thinner woman may be able to do. While that may be true for some BBW, many of us are able to twist and turn into some impressive positions!

    But even if you find yourself with a BBW who is unable to get into those unique positions, doggy style with a BBW is an amazing compromise that many BBW lovers never pass up the opportunity to do.

    What Guys Should Know Beforehand

    I think one of the most important things to know before you have sex with a BBW is how comfortable is she with her body. Many BBW are told via social media, traditional media and even sometimes in public places that they should be ashamed of their bodies. Unfortunately, this leads many BBWs into wanting to hide their bodies during sex.

    If you find yourself with a BBW that prefers to have sex with her clothes on, let her keep them on. It can be really hard to accept that your partner loves your body, especially when you don’t love it yourself. Reassure her before, after and during sex that you love her body and never pressure anyone into doing something they’re uncomfortable doing.

    What I Love A Guy To Do During Sex

    Personally I love when a guy gets turned on just when I take off my clothes. I love a guy that loves BBW enough to instantly get a hard on just from seeing her naked! Some of my best sexual experiences have been with men who go crazy as soon as the dress hits the floor! During sex I love it when a guy is not afraid to grab my tits and squeeze them and play with them. It gets me off so quick!

    Things That Turn Me Off During Sex

    Typically I don’t really get that turned off by my partner/s as long as they’re respectful. If they respect my boundaries, everything goes smoothly! I am however not really a big fan of anal play but men really love BBW ass. A lot of men will try to pressure you into doing anal even if you’ve made it clear that you’re not into it. That’s a huge turn off. I mean, I get it, BBW ass is very desirable but some girls just aren’t into that.

    It’s important you communicate with your partner to see what they’re into and what they’re not into so that you can expand on your fetishes that you share instead of fighting with your partner so that you can have one of your fantasies fulfilled. Because in the end, nothing dries a pussy up faster than a huge argument!

    Princess Fat – I am a BBW/SSBBW fetish model. I was born and raised in the south, a true Georgia Peach. People love me for my huge tits, big belly and cute face. I love to tease and I’m a huge exhibitionist!

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    Instagram: Instagram.com/_princessfat

    Websites:

    C4S.com/117074

    OnlyFans.com/fatstonerchick

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  • What To Know About Feedism & Fat Fetish

    What To Know About Feedism & Fat Fetish

    When I first started, I had no idea what feedism or feederism even was.  My now current girlfriend gave little hints that she liked fat or liked it when girls ate. She slowly introduced me to the fetish. One day she got up the courage and just fed me. I saw how much it turned her on, which of course turned me on. It made me feel good. I enjoyed having someone look at me and be turned on that I was fatter.

    I got to enjoy eating like I always did and have someone want me for it. I didn’t have to hide enjoying food anymore. I didn’t have to be that fat girl that had to hide wanting to just eat. Feedism Gave me a whole new level of confidence I didn’t know I had. I never knew food could be sexual but feederism makes it sexual and I enjoy that.

    As time passed, my girlfriend would introduce me to more and more of the fetish and well, it led me to be a gainer model! I even won 2019 Feedee of the Year at the BBW awards show!

    What Does Feedism Involve?

    Feedism can be a number of things. For starters, it’s when a person enjoys feeding or being fed. I, for instance, am a feedee or gainer model if you will. I enjoy being fed till I feel like I’m about to pop. My girlfriend enjoys seeing me really stuffed and likes to feed me.

    Feedism or fat fetish is so many things. It can include funneling, squashing, wearing tight clothes, being degraded by being called pig, slob, cow whatever it is you like. Over the years, I’ve realized how sexual feedism can really be. It gets so hot! Getting hand fed by someone you find so sexy can be really erotic. A lot of feedee models enjoy getting their bellies rubbed after a long feeding session. I know I do!

    Popular Fat Fetish Play Activities

    I do a lot of stuffing videos. Not just eating but eating to the point where moving is unbearable sometimes. I’ve done funneling which is where you fill a funnel with soda, beer, weightgain shakes and chug it all down. Busting out of my clothes is something my girlfriend really enjoys seeing and I noticed a lot of my fans do as well. Funneling is another fun activity! Who doesn’t want to see how much soda or shake they can fit in their expanding bellies lol.

    Common Misconceptions About Feedism & Fat Fetishes

    A big one is not all feedees are unhealthy! My doctor always says how healthy I am for my weight and what I eat. I know fatty greasy food all the time is bad for you…eventually, but right now I’m enjoying the fetish and all there is to eat.

    Another misconception I’ve heard is people think because we are into this that we are gross and don’t take care of ourselves. I can rest assure you that I am just fat, not dirty. We have personal hygiene like everyone else.

    Tips For Those Keen To Be A Feedee

    Never be shy or embarrassed! You never know who else will be into the return as well. I went from not knowing anything about it to being 2019 Feedee of the Year!

    If it’s something you are dabbling in to see if you enjoy it, join chat rooms on Kik, websites relegated to feederism/feedism, search Twitter! There are so many platforms to find like-minded people! The community is huge and very welcoming!

    Queen Ivy – BBW/Fetish Model, Feedee, and gainer. Model since 2016. BBW awards show Nominee and 2019 Winner for Feedee of the Year

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    Websites:

    Queeenivy.manyvids.com

    https://fancentro.com/queenivybbw

    Twitter:  @queeenivy

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  • BBW Sex In The Adult Industry

    BBW Sex In The Adult Industry

    I think sex is complex. I personally consider myself to be pansexual and sapiosexual. I am not attracted to a particular gender or physical characteristics. I have to connect with someone intellectually to be really turned on.

    How I Started Out

    I was broke like a lot of young women and tired of starving. I couldn’t find a job in the small town I was living in and I did not want to be on government assistance. I wanted to excel at life not just get by. I found the BBW niche on Twitter and realized I could more then feed myself by shooting porn and fetish videos so I’ve been going hard at it ever since. I invested money back into my business by purchasing a professional camera and equipment and shoot weekly to update all my sites.

    Characteristics Of A BBW

    There is a huge range of what qualifies a person to be labeled a BBW. I have seen models who are slightly chubby with love handles but had cut abs labeled as BBW all the way up to models who are 350lbs. I personally think they fit in the category because it’s about body positivity but the term BBW originated from girls who were over 200lbs to about 300lbs. Typically over 300 is considered SSBBW.

    Rise Of BBW Interest

    I think it’s a reflection of society. You can see more and more stars are not following the typical body standards which has opened up the conversation of what is beauty. When people’s minds are opened it’s easy to appreciate a pretty face and giant tits.

    Favorite Sex Acts

    I love love love giving oral sex, especially sucking cock. I am sure most of my fans can tell you that. I go somewhere else mentally when I am performing fellatio. It transports me much like meditation. I know people are probably laughing at this LOL but it’s true. It calms me down with such repetitive motions and knowing that I am bring pleasure to someone else.

    Satisfying A BBW

    Communicate. It’s simple, every women is different. Every woman, whether or not she will admit, is turned on by different things. Don’t be afraid to speak about your true desires and you will have a rockin’ sex life.

    Multiple Award winning XXX actress and producer Eliza Allure is the leading force in the BBW industry today. Her production company EA Productions is releasing steamy BBW porn every week starring herself and her hot BBW girlfriends on www.ElizaAllure.com. Eliza is the owner of these BBW events @BBWstripnight @BBWinparadise @BPartshow.

    Follow Eliza at @ElizaAllure on Twitter and Instagram, and at www.ElizaAllure.com , www.ElizaGains.com , www.GoddessEliza.com and www.PowerstuffGirls.com

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    Eliza Allure’s got a booth at Exxxotica in Denver March 31st to April 2. She will be attending with her hot girlfriends Lila Lovely, Sexy Signature, Sienna Hills and Lyla Everwettt. Come meet them all and buy one of their signed DVDs!

    Images courtesy of Eliza Allure
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  • BBW Sex Tips & Orgasms

    BBW Sex Tips & Orgasms

    Sex should be had between consenting adults.  Sex should be fun, exciting, relaxing and liberating. It should be an escape from the real world and sex needs to be thought of beyond our genitalia and bodies, the strongest sexual organ is the mind. I know it sounds corny but it’s the absolute truth.

    What Turns Me On

    Well I’m not only into men, I’m into other genders as well. Confidence really turns me on. Owning who you are and also not taking yourself so seriously is really attractive.  If you’re funny and confident in who you are, then I am ready to do almost anything and everything!

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    How Much Foreplay I Require

    Foreplay is most probably my favourite part. It helps each of us figure out what makes each other tick and what buttons to push without both losing each other in reaching a climax together.  Oral is very important to me.

    My Favorite Sex Position

    This is hard because I find this so dependent on who I’m having sex with at the time and what kind of rhythm or dynamic we’re on. When I really think about it, my favourite position is when I am going down on someone and being penetrated in doggy style at the same time.

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    Spicing The Sex Up!

    I think the sex I have is usually quite kinky, very rarely do I have what people call ‘Vanilla’ sex. I like to take things up a notch by talking about what gets each other off or describing scenarios you’ve been fantasizing over but have never tried.

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    Tips For Male BBW Lovers

    For me, I love when a man really shows his appreciation and acknowledgement of how blessed he is to be exploring a body like mine and not being afraid to caress all the wobbly bits.

    Nicki is a naturally hairy, genuinely bisexual, Eurasian BBW escort & Domme from Australia who prides herself on providing an open minded service. Eclectic in nature, she knows how to connect with all walks of life and loves to create experiences unique to her clients as individuals. Follow her at http://nickivisage.dominatrixsites.com, Twitter @nicki_visage and Facebook facebook.com/nicki.visage69

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  • Big is Sexy – BBW is In!

    Big is Sexy – BBW is In!

    The definition of a feeder is usually a male who likes to encourage weight gain in his partner through the consumption of food. Feeders differ from FA (fat admirer), whilst an FA is attracted to big girls, a feeder gets turned on by making a thin girl fat … or a big girl even bigger. Every feeder has a ideal weight they fantasize about fattening a girl up to. Some want to see how the body grows and expands and where all the fat goes, will it go to her butt or belly or boobs? Will the fat be hard or soft and jiggly. Its a love affair with the actual fat on her growing body.

    Then there are the guys who want to immobilize a girl by getting her too fat for her body to handle. These guys like girls around 150 lbs to start gaining weight till they are 500 or 600 lbs. This happens but is really rare, it is mostly a fantasy or the girls who gain stop gaining after a certain point. This is perhaps the more controversial part of the BBW (big beautiful woman) niche because the guys really like the woman to be so fat they cannot move. However, not every fat admirer likes feeding, its a very niche part of being a BBW, but it sells the most because not many girls are willing to gain weight.

    My personal experience with gaining is a little different. I don’t have one specific feeder who wants me to gain or achieve a goal weight. I just eat what I want when I want and do not stress about my size. I have gained around 90 lbs over the last three years in the industry. I went from 190 lbs to about 230 lbs when I first entered the industry and found the fetish. Then I became pregnant so my body naturally gained weight and I was about 260 lbs after. With the birth control I started on after I delivered, I gained about 20 lbs, which my doctor said is very normal. Through out my weight gain, I have dominated my niche with two AVN nominations for BBW of the year, five nominations for BBW fanfest awards, and modeling for Hustler and Evil Angel. Apart from that, I produce a lot of content for other BBWs and myself to sell on our personal sites. I tend to do a lot of weighing videos where I am stepping on the scale. The video clips are about two mins per weigh in and I have one of the top selling BBW site in the world. Its so simple and my fans love it. Realistically, I have gained all that I can so I am shooting on other fetishes as well.

    Men have all kinds of fetishes and nuances in all those particularities. The BBW niche is no exception. There are all kinds of belly play, slapping, rough, punching, jiggling, fucking the actual belly fat or belly button fucking. I recently shot a hot boy girl scene for a site called plumperpass with the legendary Shane Diesel and belly play is a staple in their shooting routine. His monster cock was buried in my belly button and my fans went crazy for it. I love it when my man worships every inch of my body and my stomach is no exception. That is what belly play is all about, kissing and caressing another part of your BBW partner’s body that you enjoy. Most women are so self conscious of their mid-section but body acceptance actually begins inside yourself, and having your partner eagerly accepting your whole body makes it easier.

    My take on all of it really is that everyone has some kink. Whether it is liking blondes or fake tits or fat girls, everyone has a right to enjoy their preferences without chastisement as long as all parties are willing. We are all adults after all. Does me being fat and having a good sex life take away from your ability to do the same? Happy fucking!

    Check out SimplySxy’s other two featured articles by BBW’s Kimmie Kaboom and Sarah Reign

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  • Of Ravishing BBW

    Of Ravishing BBW

    When emailed about writing an article for SimplySxy the topic was “Why sex is more fun with BBWs”, I wasn’t exactly comfortable with it and I am grateful that SimplySxy was so flexible in allowing me to approach this topic my way.  Mostly because I think it is unfair and even a bit egomaniacal for one to think that sex with a particular body type is better than another body type or is it? If there is anything I have learned over the years and especially since beginning my porn career is that there is a niche for everyone.

    Big beautiful woman (BBW) being one of those niches and with that being said it hasn’t always been socially acceptable. Looking back 10–15 years ago, BBW were not as mainstream as they are today. For that, all of us as well as myself should be very grateful that wonderful BBWs like Sam38G and Ms. Maria Moore opened those doors and paved the way for other BBWs. Not just for those of us in the porn industry but for all women, they helped bring out the sexiness in all of us. They helped break through those society based stereotypes and showed everyone that yes, the chubby, the BBW can be sexy. They can be desired by men and even women for that matter. I love being a BBW, especially in porn. I feel more sexy, more desired, more wanted and even more self confident than I ever have.IMG_1522

    Basically I guess what I feel is that BBWs and Barbie doll types (for lake of a better phrase) are like any other fetish or genre for men and women to lust after. I don’t think that I or any other women hold the key, magic spell or potion for the holy grail of sex. I think that having self confidence in who you are and knowing what you desire and those desires of your partner are what makes for the best sex ever.

    I didn’t want to write this without getting my husband, Mr. KaBoom’s opinion as I felt that a male perspective was important. He said that he feels the reasons he has always liked the BBW is their voluptuous figure and their boobs of course, spoken like a true boob man. Again, feeding into that niche or genre. When asking other male opinions, I was disappointed to learn that many men prey on the BBW or SSBBW types because many of these women have low self esteem and feel the need to please and be completely submissive or less likely to say “NO” to some things in the bedroom. The same men also told me that they felt they didn’t have anything to prove either. That they too, felt the pressure of being “society” perfect to obtain the “society” perfect women. I really didn’t want to believe this so I went to a few women I knew to get their take on this. I did indeed, learn that three of the four I spoke with confirmed some of the things the men told me. They said they didn’t feel like body wise, they lived up to other society based women (barbie dolls) and that giving in to sexual requests and being submissive in the bedroom gave them that sense of control and self esteem. Therefore, empowering them and making them feel dominant in the bedroom.

    Which leaves me asking “Is sex more fun with a BBW?” I know that since I have been in the porn business, my husband and my sex life has been even better than before, NOT that there was anything wrong with it before. We have always had a healthy sex life and still do. The thing is that with all the popularity with my work and ever growing fan base, it has only increased my self confidence and has made me feel more comfortable in my own skin. So, perhaps sex with us BBWs are more fun. And husbands out there, remember that when your barbie doll wife bares your children and gains an extra 40 pounds over the course of your marriage. Remember sex isn’t dead but can actually just be getting good, perhaps even the best of your life 😉

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  • Big Beautiful Women attraction is not a Fetish!

    Big Beautiful Women attraction is not a Fetish!

    Attraction and beauty is relative. What works for one may not work for the next. What do you look for in a significant other? A slim waist? Beautiful smile? nice hair? Long legs? These are all just preferences that enhance our general interest in a partner.

    Maybe you’re captivated by something that goes against the social norm of slim women and prefer everything extra large. You like BBWs or Big Beautiful Women. There is nothing else that lures you in like a big girl and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that! BBWs are becoming more in demand these days (I know because I am a BBW). It’s actually been this way since ancient times; where a big woman was worshiped and seen as fertile and attractive. Everything comes full circle in history as we are coming from the social norm of the last 50 years where “thin is in” and into “big is beautiful”. I believe ALL WOMEN are beautiful no matter their size, but we can touch upon that another time.

    Most men who like BBWs are attracted to more than just their visual characteristics. I’ve been told that personalities play a huge (pun intended) role. Apparently, big girls are just more enjoyable to be around, “aren’t as vain”, are confident and that they “will actually eat real food out on a date”. I don’t know what it is about guys, but they definitely like girls who will eat and not complain about it (from what I’ve been told). The confidence in some women, especially with plus sized ones is “increasingly sexy”. Men should be proud to have a big, beautiful, intelligent down-to-earth girl under their arm.YouWILLPregnant (3)pic1..

    What comes with going against the grain and procuring a propensity for large, plus bodies opens up the possibilities of attracting negativity; that to me partial to these types of women means you have some assortment of fetishes. Fetish are nowhere near as adverse as people assume. Nearly everybody has some sort of fetish. I have plenty (I’m a kinky deviant) and I am 100% open minded to the kink world. In this instance, I am implicating fetish in how those of negative mind apply it; that BBW are only identified as sexual objects to be fetishized by those who may have a hidden fat fetish. I have observed this multiple times on mainstream entertainment such as TV shows, movies, online and even heard the stereotype in person.

    Whilst this does happen, it’s not very frequent. To make this clear; BBWs are NOT a fetish. We are an inviting preference to men who certainly love us as any other may be attracted to blondes, green eyes or even short women. The fetish aspect in my opinion develops when both parties consent to indulging in fantasies each may have, which enhances their sex life and strengthens their bond. Activities that they may partake in appear just as common as not. Everything depends exclusively on each individual’s comfort level as well as if they do in fact possess the fetish or any fetishes at all.

    These misconceptions (that BBWs are a fetish) have been debunked in my own personal experience as well as via people I have spoken to regarding this topic of interest. Personally, most men I meet are genuine and enjoy my company, appreciate me and don’t seem to treat me any differently than a woman of smaller stature. Honestly, I would like to see more BBW perceived as a standard of beauty just as women of any size or ethnicity should be. There is beauty at every size. Nobody should feel intimidated, embarrassed or be scrutinized for preferring the alternative. This is what is beautiful: Diversity in the Laws of Attraction.

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