Big Beautiful Women attraction is not a Fetish!

Attraction and beauty is relative. What works for one may not work for the next. What do you look for in a significant other? A slim waist? Beautiful smile? nice hair? Long legs? These are all just preferences that enhance our general interest in a partner.

Maybe you’re captivated by something that goes against the social norm of slim women and prefer everything extra large. You like BBWs or Big Beautiful Women. There is nothing else that lures you in like a big girl and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that! BBWs are becoming more in demand these days (I know because I am a BBW). It’s actually been this way since ancient times; where a big woman was worshiped and seen as fertile and attractive. Everything comes full circle in history as we are coming from the social norm of the last 50 years where “thin is in” and into “big is beautiful”. I believe ALL WOMEN are beautiful no matter their size, but we can touch upon that another time.

Most men who like BBWs are attracted to more than just their visual characteristics. I’ve been told that personalities play a huge (pun intended) role. Apparently, big girls are just more enjoyable to be around, “aren’t as vain”, are confident and that they “will actually eat real food out on a date”. I don’t know what it is about guys, but they definitely like girls who will eat and not complain about it (from what I’ve been told). The confidence in some women, especially with plus sized ones is “increasingly sexy”. Men should be proud to have a big, beautiful, intelligent down-to-earth girl under their arm.

What comes with going against the grain and procuring a propensity for large, plus bodies opens up the possibilities of attracting negativity; that to me partial to these types of women means you have some assortment of fetishes. Fetish are nowhere near as adverse as people assume. Nearly everybody has some sort of fetish. I have plenty (I’m a kinky deviant) and I am 100% open minded to the kink world. In this instance, I am implicating fetish in how those of negative mind apply it; that BBW are only identified as sexual objects to be fetishized by those who may have a hidden fat fetish. I have observed this multiple times on mainstream entertainment such as TV shows, movies, online and even heard the stereotype in person.

Whilst this does happen, it’s not very frequent. To make this clear; BBWs are NOT a fetish. We are an inviting preference to men who certainly love us as any other may be attracted to blondes, green eyes or even short women. The fetish aspect in my opinion develops when both parties consent to indulging in fantasies each may have, which enhances their sex life and strengthens their bond. Activities that they may partake in appear just as common as not. Everything depends exclusively on each individual’s comfort level as well as if they do in fact possess the fetish or any fetishes at all.

These misconceptions (that BBWs are a fetish) have been debunked in my own personal experience as well as via people I have spoken to regarding this topic of interest. Personally, most men I meet are genuine and enjoy my company, appreciate me and don’t seem to treat me any differently than a woman of smaller stature. Honestly, I would like to see more BBW perceived as a standard of beauty just as women of any size or ethnicity should be. There is beauty at every size. Nobody should feel intimidated, embarrassed or be scrutinized for preferring the alternative. This is what is beautiful: Diversity in the Laws of Attraction.

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