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  • What Is It Like To Engage Mature Escorts?

    What Is It Like To Engage Mature Escorts?

    I think sex should be a fundamental part of our lives.

    The Appeal Of Mature Escorts

    The appeal is all about the fact that sexuality and the desire for sex doesn’t end at any specific age, it continues and it’s important for the industry to be able to provide a range of service providers that are comparable with the needs of clients.  Similarly, the desire for those that can provide a pleasurable interaction doesn’t fit into any specific age group either.  Mature clients like mature escorts. and younger clients can be the same.

    I have been told many times when being booked for the first time that women are looking for a ‘man’ and not a ‘boy’.  I use these terms loosely but they are invariably referring to the fact that clients are looking for a person who has life experience, who has a wider understanding of the complexity of how we can relate, who has a level of maturity and a genuine interest in their clients.

    Characteristics Of A Mature Escort

    For me it’s about being empathetic, non-judgmental, pragmatic and being a good listener.  But most importantly, it’s having had life experiences and understanding this first hand.  To know how it feels to be in a wide variety of situations and challenges that life throws up at you and having had the experience of dealing with them.  Sometimes well and sometimes not so well.  This, I think, gives a greater opportunity to connect on a very real level with my clients.

    Two Tips For Clients Engaging Mature Escorts

    Again from my own experience, there are two aspects that clients can expect.

    Firstly, the initial interactions that new clients will have.  I find that there is a quite a lot of email or SMS interaction around expectations and understanding as to how the client has come to contact you in the first place.  I find it immensely rewarding to understand this and it begins the process of trust – one of the most important aspects of any relationship between an escort and client.   Often the interaction can go back and forth many times, and I use this to process to gain an understanding of the client and also let them know about who I am – not in a this is me way, but in the way that I respond, discuss and ask questions with the client.  I feel that as a mature person I have the ability to do this and to be much more subtle about this initial interaction.  I get very good feedback about this, in that it makes new clients feel safe and develops an exciting anticipation for our first meeting.  I might add that these interactions continue with my regular clients and they find this quite satisfying as I do.

    Secondly, when I meet a client at the first appointment, I have a wider range of life experiences to draw from and as an individual I have a high level of empathy, which allows me to ‘tune’ into how they are feeling. Many of my clients have experienced loneliness or rejection, a lack of sexual satisfaction (even though they may be married or in a long term partnership), a complete lack of sex and a lack of emotional connectedness.  What I am able to provide is reassurance and acceptance, emotional and metal connection and a feeling of security and that time spent with me will be totally focused on them.  Of course sex is a big part of the interaction, but it’s always within a context of the emotional security.

    There are a couple of other things too.  A full knowledge and understanding of the female anatomy and how to satisfy my client and not taking myself too seriously.  It’s a wonderful gift to learn as you mature, knowing what’s important and what isn’t and learning to laugh and not be embarrassed.  This is reassuring to clients.

    Is There Anything Out Of Bounds?

    None whatsoever, but this depends on each escort.  I am very broad minded and very open.  My services extend from a quiet dinner with sensual sex to more erotic intense services that include anal, bondage, wax play, control and discipline and everything in between.  My job, if I can call it that, is to satisfy my clients…and of course as a mature escort, I was brought up in a much more permissive time than now!!

    Alex Miller – I’m the man your mother warned you about…and the man your mother has a secret desire for!  I’m relaxed, warm and kind, with an enquiring broad and open mind.  Well educated and urbane, I am a good listener and conversationalist.  What sets me apart from your typical guy is that I’m caring, erotic and sensual…I have a soft side.  I’m also wild, intense and naughty.  Beyond my tall handsome good looks, I love to talk, connect, touch as well as have fun.

    Follow Alex Miller on:

    Website: www.alexmillersydney.com
    Twitter: @AlexMillerSyd

    Scarlet Blue: https://scarletblue.com.au/male-escort/alex-miller?city=Sydney

    I love being in Sydney and I don’t generally tour, but you can fly to your intimate desires!

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  • Camming with Kelley Cabbana

    Camming with Kelley Cabbana

    I really really enjoy sex. When I think about sex I think about all the different things I enjoy most. I do like the intimacy you share with a partner during sex and how you can share fantasies. I am a very open-minded person so I enjoy pleasing my partner as much as I like to be pleased. I think fantasies and role-playing adds a whole new element to any relationship. I have always said if everyone had sex or masturbated daily there would be less hate in the world. Sex is an amazing stress reliever but also makes you so happy and satisfied too.

    How I Get Ready Before Camming

    Knowing I’m getting ready to get on cam is a turn-on for me. I really enjoy the excitement of watching the cam of the person I am interacting with. I like to watch and see how the other person is turned on by me. It’s fun to share their fantasies and play them out as it does make me very horny. Before I get on cam I always make sure my outfits are ready and my dildos are set up and ready too. If I’m online longer than 4 hours I always like to change up the outfits to keep it fun.

    I have everything very organized so my shows go smoothly. My room is my domain so it’s a reflection of my personality and things that I love. My make-up and hair is so important as I always want to look my best for my fans. So I spend a lot of time doing my make-up and hair. I prepare not only mentally (as I think about sex) but also physically so my fans have the best experience.

    My Camming Specialties

    I really enjoy all types of role-playing. The “Sexy Teacher” and “Naughty Nurse” are two of my favorites. I like when my fans want to see me do a sloppy blow-job because I’m so good at spitting and gagging. I really enjoying teasing and sucking the dildo so my clients will really get to see how I love to give them oral sex. I also love to ride a dildo for them too as they really like to see my big boobs going up and down – it’s a real turn on. I’m always open to new fantasies and role-playing that my clients want to see. I like it when they share what really turns them on during our show. I feel like I’m a very good listener and I want them to have an awesome experience so that they want to be frequent guests in my room over and over and over.

    Differences Between Masturbating On & Off Camera

    When I’m on cam, it truly is my desire to really make sure that the person who is on the show with me really has an awesome mind-blowing experience. I want to make sure if it’s role-playing, that I really put a lot of attention into every detail of that fantasy for them. I want them at the end of the show to give the highest rating possible but also feel like they received what they were paying me for too. I want it to be personal and very on point no matter what desires or fantasies they have. That makes me feel amazing when they let me know how awesome the show was.

    In my personal life, I might tend to be a little more selfish. If I’m with a partner, well I want them to have a great time with me but I also want to make sure that I too am receiving what I want as well. I am very verbal about my wants and desires. I will let you know exactly how I like you to eat my pussy and how I want my tits sucked. I love to masturbate on and off cam. I enjoy the orgasm so much that I get from the toys that my mission for my sexual pleasure really is the same on and off cam. I want to cum and enjoy that regardless of being in front of the camera or not. I really don’t fake my orgasms, my experience are always real on cam and off.

    Memorable Camming Experiences I’ve Had

    I have many fun memories. I think that’s what I love so much about this job. It’s the best job ever. I get to live out so many of my own fantasies too! One is when I was on a Ferris wheel and shot a flashing tit video – it was so much fun and the guy operating the ride just couldn’t get enough. It was awesome!

    The other one is when I went for a ride in my car and I took my camera guy along, while driving, I flashed my tits and played with my pussy. I even had a few guys driving past who followed me to watch and took videos themselves. I really enjoy public displays and pussy play just about anywhere!

    My Personal Sex Toy Collection

    I have so many toys. My dildo collection numbers 75 and it continues to grow as some fans buy me new ones weekly. It’s great I have nearly every size and color available. Some of them I named after fans. I have to retire some when they are used too much. I know that’s so funny but I am hooked with playing with myself so they get used a lot on and off cam. I love vibrators the most, the sensation is the best. I have a favorite purple one that is nicknamed Whitehat Junior. It’s from a very loyal fan that was in my show when I broke the top right off my hitachi wand.

    It was absolutely hilarious that I had destroyed this Hitachi wand. So he mailed me this updated awesome purple vibrator which I now use daily. I even like to use the dildo along with a vibrator. This combination makes for an amazing orgasm. You should stop by my room and check it out. I always have lots of toys and I’m always ready to have fun with them while you watch me.

    Kelley Cabbana – Blonde bombshell Kelley Cabbana has become one of the fascinating webcam models in the adult industry. The Florida native has been scorching up video streams since launching her naughty career in 2011. Kelley has gone on to attain multiple AVN Award nominations for her online work and cultivated a worldwide legion of fans. While standing only 5′ 3″, the larger than life beauty turns heads with her incredibly toned body, her DDD cup breasts, and scrumptious backside. Kelley’s outgoing and positive personality make men fall in love with her.

    But before Kelley began sizzling webstreams, she had a lengthy career as a model that began at an early age. Working in the mainstream for clothing companies as a hobby led to a continuous stream of opportunities. Kelley traveled across the country as more doors opened for her. She received an incredible amount of attention as a glamour model for WWFU.net and Harley Davidson. Showing off her fantastic body encouraged the sexy stunner to make the leap into camming with the launch of her website KelleyCabbana.com in 2011. Her site has exclusive member content and access to private cam shows.

    Since 2015, Kelley can be seen camming on her weekly show on Vette Nation Live. Members of her personal website get to view her webcam show on the VNA network for free. In 2017, Kelley’s been awarded 1st place as VNALive.com’s Most Popular Cam Show for the month of May 2017 and August 2017.

    Follow Kelley Cabbana on:

    Websites:

    www.starfactorypr.com/kelley-cabbana

    www.starfactorypr.com/kelley-cabbana-bio.html

    www.kelleycabbana.com

    www.kelleycabbana.cammodels.com

    www.sextpanther.com/KelleyCabbana

    www.snapcentro.com/kelleycabbana

    www.onlyfans.com/kelleycabbana

    Social Media:

    www.twitter.com/kelleycabbana

    www.instagram.com/kelleycabbanaxxx

    www.facebook.com/kelleycabbanaofficial

    www.kelleycabbana.tumblr.com

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    Kelley Cabbana Talking Points:

    • Nominated for AVN Favorite Cam Girl 2015 & 2016
    • Launched her website http://kelleycabbana.com in 2011
    • Nominated 2017 NightMoves® Best Live Cam Model of the Year
    • Weekly Cam show of which members of Kelley’s personal website get to watch her webcam on Vette Nation Live network for free
    • Awarded 1st place as VNALive.com’s Most Popular Cam Show for the month of May 2017 and August 2017
    • Glamour Model turned Webcam Girl
    • Playboy TV hostess 2010-2011, Miami-based show, Foursome.

    Images courtesy of Kelley Cabbana and Star Factory PR

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  • Kissing Tips For Men

    Kissing Tips For Men

    Sex is all about energy – the exchange of energy and the sharing of energy. Sexual energy is powerful and being able to share it with someone on the same wavelength as you is exhilarating and so connective. Mutual trust and respect makes sexual experiences so much more fulfilling and intimate. I love being able to connect with someone and help them explore their sexuality and feel more empowered.

    Importance Of Kissing

    Kissing is very important to me – especially when it comes to neck kissing, that makes me go weak at the knees! I find that kissing and touching is a lovely way to ease into sex and explore each other’s styles. Kissing during sex can heighten intimacy and connection, and I personally love it when I’m curled up in someone’s arms post-coital and relaxed.

    Types Of Kisses I Love

    Yes, there are definitely different types of kisses for different situations! Some kisses can be very gentle and tender, which are great for initial foreplay and also for post-coital cuddling. The powerful strong kisses also makes me swoon – they’re fabulous for when the action gets a little hotter or when there’s a little bit of power exchange going on. I also enjoy great makeout sessions in darkly-lit bars, they are such a fantastic tease!

    Kissing Mistakes Men Make

    Yes, I have had some bad experiences…one mistake men make is when they try to eat your entire face with their lips and use no tongue at all – I refer to it as ‘the hungry trout’!

    Another mistake is when a man sticks his entire tongue in your mouth and tries to also lick your lips. Tongue kissing is very subtle and you need to get the perfect balance – too much and it’s sloppy, too little and it’s dry. The key to becoming a good kisser is to listen to your partner and take note of their likes. Kissing is so erotic and sexy when done well – it’s not a race!

    Take your time and savour it!

    Men, Remember Your Hygiene!

    Absolutely. I would definitely say that it is hugely important to get regular dental check-ups to ensure healthy gums and breath, as well as brushing your teeth regularly and using mouthwash. A healthy mouth with fresh breath is so much sexier to kiss!

    I would also say that it is very important for men to wash their hands thoroughly and scrub their fingernails before engaging with a lady, especially if they do a lot of manual labour. Clean hands are important!

    Tash Murphy – Tash Murphy is a free-spirited pervert, blonde amazon, full-service sex worker and enthusiastic sex geek. She loves meeting and connecting with new people and learning more about human sexuality. She is an avid fan of game arcades, theatre, travel and eating cheese.

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  • Can Sex Toys Replace The Penis?

    Can Sex Toys Replace The Penis?

    I’m a very open person and I feel like sex has been ostracized as a taboo topic when it’s really just a physical way of exploring what makes one feel good. I like to talk about it, do it, and am genuinely curious about trying new things. I feel like sex was such a taboo topic around my childhood home and when I finally experienced it I couldn’t get enough. I really grew into my own when a good friend of mine shared her openness about it and got me into trying new things to help please myself and my partners better.

    I wasn’t in the sex work industry until I was in my twenties, which gave me a few years to explore what I truly enjoyed about sex before deciding it was going to be more than a hobby for me. My first experience was with a high school sweetheart and thankfully he already had an idea of how things worked. I was like any sex driven, lust-filled teenager so naturally I had a very active sex life then and still do now. From this experience my views on sex had been very monogamous and that it was all about “the one” and that was all I needed.

    Then I moved onto University and found myself single and in dorms which had over 1000 students all my age and all just as much of sex lovers as I was. Let’s just say I was very active and enjoyed experiencing different men and sometimes more than one in the same night. I was what some may call a slut but really, I was just enjoying myself and everything sex had to offer. It was here that I initially found out that I enjoyed having a variety of partners and that not everyone was good in bed. I learned communication is key and telling someone what feels good or bad is the fastest way to improving your sex life. I further indulged my love of sex when I went off to backpack around the world for a few years. I enjoyed regular company of men and sometimes women and eventually came into the sex industry of my own accord.

    Through my experiences I learned that I love sex and everything about it. I love the anticipation of it to come, the excitement and sensuousness that builds inside you before, during and after, the way it makes you feel so extraordinarily horny, the way it pleases your partner just as much as yourself (when done right ?), the heavy breathing and pure ecstasy you feel after having an orgasm. Also, there’s nothing quite like having hot, messy, mind-blowing sex and just needing to fall asleep in each other’s arms after because you’ve both physically and sexually worn each other to the brink of passing out. I feel like more people should be having more sex (consensual of course) because it brings out the happy in people.

    My Ideal Penis Type

    I guess my ideal penis depends on what type of sexual activity we’re doing. Generally, I prefer something with a little more girth and average length. I don’t like the giant penis’s that hit my cervix while we’re having sex. It hurts. The only reason I would enjoy a longer penis is when we’re in a position that requires the length to be a bit longer, so he doesn’t slip out.

    The reason I generally prefer an average length penis with good girth is because I’ve always preferred sex to be a little rougher and like it hard and fast. I find that the combination of a thick and average length penis hits all my favorite spots of my vagina and really makes me orgasm well. I find that when a penis is too skinny I don’t get as much of a thrill out of it because it’s harder to feel it pressing on my g-spots, though that being said, if we’re doing anal girth is not always the best.

    Favorite Sex Toys Of Mine

    I own many different types of sex toys though my favorites are my We-Vibe Sync Couples Vibrator, the Hitachi and its attachments, my Lelo Soraya, and my Lelo Nea 2. The we-vibe is great for using while you’re having sex. It vibrates in all the right places for me while also pleasuring him and the overall effect is pretty great. The Lelo Soraya is great for a long slow masturbation session. The Hitatchi is great for a down and dirty quick shuddering orgasm when in a rush or even just for teasing my clit while I’m being fucked from behind.  My Lelo Nea 2 is the perfect travel buddy as it can be used for a clitorally stimulated masturbation session and can be used during sex. Any of these are also great for teasing my partners in the foreplay or break between orgasms.

    Tips For Sex Toys & Penis Use

    1) Clean them before and after using them! Yes both! With sex toys, it’s so important to clean them before you use them to get off micro-bacteria, dust, or any other things that may cause your vagina stress or infection. It’s also important to clean them after because it keeps the life of them longer and also its just gross to put them away dirty. With penis’s I think this is pretty clear, hygiene is your best friend when expecting a girl to put either her mouth or vagina around your penis. If that dick isn’t clean you can bet it’s not getting near me.

    2) Don’t force it in. Both sex toys and penis’s can be too big. If you force it in you could cause some damage and pain and other bad things. Also, it never feels good to be ripped and the recovery time takes away from your enjoyment as you might end up having to take time off from sex or could even damage some nerves and end up having less pleasure.

    3) Try them all! Haha I’m kidding but really just have fun with them and try as many as you want to. Also, give them a second chance and do your research. If you’re using a sex toy wrong or just being plain jane about sex in general, you might not be enjoying yourself to the full potential of either the penis or the sex toy.

    4) Don’t be afraid to try the new toy or the new position. I’ve had some weird suggestions that I’ve been apprehensive about and ended up absolutely loving. For instance: anal sex. It’s not for everyone but it might be for you, especially if you do it right (see the above point about research)

    5) Ask questions. Seriously. Your friends are probably kinkier than you think and if you can’t get any information out of them or maybe you’re too shy to ask them, ask an online forum. There are all kinds of people out there who’ve had lots of experience trying out whatever you’re curious about. Also, many of them love to talk about it so go ahead and ask them.

    6) If it doesn’t feel right it probably isn’t. Personally, I’ve had allergic reactions to certain types of lube but it was slower than one’s I’d previously experienced, so I wasn’t sure what was going on. I did know that it felt weird when it shouldn’t though, so I switched what I was doing and asked my physician about it later. Though I haven’t reacted to a sex toy yet, I do know some people that have. You know your body best so do what feels right.

    7) If you’re not sure what it is, ask. This goes for both penis’s and toys. Sometimes people are just unaware of things but it’s better to ask than to end up feeling bad about it later.

    • With toys you want to be sure you’re getting the right thing for what you want to be doing. Some toys could be too intense for you and others may need more parts to fully enjoy them.
    • With penis’s it might be a birth mark, or it might be something infectious or even cancerous. It’s always better to check with a physician on these than to guess and end up with a bad result.

    Can Sex Toys Replace The Penis?

    For myself, there will never be something to replace the penis. I’m through and through a man’s gal and I love being railed hard with the real thing. I’ve tried different strap-ons and a variety of dildos and other sex toys, but nothing quite lives up to the mind-blowing sex I’ve had with some men and their real penis’s.

    While there are definitely things sex toys can do that penises can’t (like vibrating the hell out of my clit without hurting it), I just find that I love the feel of a real penis inside me and the silicone version just cannot make up for the lack of that feel no matter how many bells and whistles it comes with.

    Chrissy Grant – Chrissy Grant is a sensual companion and escort from Alberta, Canada. Providing upscale intimate and social experiences for gentlemen.

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    Website: www.thechrissygrant.com
    Twitter: @ChrissyGrant_CG

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  • Kinky Ideas For A Sexy Time

    Kinky Ideas For A Sexy Time

    Sex is infinitely complex, multi-faceted, and diverse. I love it because it’s always bringing me something new to play with, challenging me to think about the world with more openness, and connecting me to my own and other people’s bodies. Sex is beautiful, and messy, and playful. It breaks my heart that many people have so much shame tied up with their bodies and sexuality that they don’t even feel like they can enjoy or explore it. That process has been so rewarding and enlightening for me.

    My Favorite Kinks

    I’m a big fan of a lot! Some things I love now I could have never fathomed participating in even a couple of years ago. I’m personally into very raw, messy sex. I like spit on every surface of the house, and seeing a beautiful face of makeup slowly ruined as the passion of the night intensifies! I’ve also learned recently that I’m a huge voyeur, and even probably a Cuckquean.

    It goes into the polyamory concept of compersion, where seeing your partner happy, even if it doesn’t include you, makes you happy. It’s that same concept, except I get to get off on how good someone else is fucking them. There’s a quite humiliating aspect as well, of the dominant being better to my partner than I am, which is a fun mind fuck. And of course, since I’m a switch through and through, there’s nothing like giving my sub a nice flogging that takes them to a heavenly, ecstatic, and absolutely destroyed subspace. I just love how far kink can take you.

    Do I Enjoy Being A Dominant Or Submissive?

    It really depends on the partner. I have more experience as a submissive, and that is 100% due to the way women are socialized to be the receptors of men’s pleasure before pursuing their own. In that sense, being dominant has been absolutely empowering and beautiful for me. It’s given me a real sense of accomplishment and self-esteem. I do enjoy being roughed up and ‘put in my place’ so-to-speak though, and I think having been dominant makes subbing even more fun, because it takes more from a dominant to impress me. I like sexual challenges.

    Popularity Of Kink Requests

    I cater to a lot of men who are interested in exploring kink but haven’t had the resources or confidence to, who may be intimidated by seeing a traditional Dominatrix, or want more than a traditional Domme would offer. My GFE background makes it less threatening for clients to confide their desires in me, and my knowledge of both worlds can help them navigate that. Fetish and BDSM interests are slowly becoming more mainstream and less taboo, and I think people feel more comfortable exploring them than we’ve been allowed to in decades, if not centuries.

    Shamelessly acknowledging our true desires and reveling in them can be so liberating in a society that consistently tells you your body, sex, and interests are wrong and dirty. In BDSM and kink, you get to create the world you want to live in. On the flip side, embracing the inherent shame that comes from mainstream conservative mores can be quite a fun edge for some people, myself included.

    Kink Tips For Beginners

    It really depends on people’s personal interests. Just like with sex, we all have things that attract us, scare us, trigger us, or empower us. What excites one person may totally traumatize another. It’s really important for that person to be in control of their own experience and explore their own personal desires in risk-aware and consensual settings. I’d say most newbie/ vanilla people like to start off with more simple things like spanking, anal toys, and breath play, and go from there based on how they feel.

    Others have fantasies they’ve been dreaming about since their early youth, and want to jump right in with a dark-age play scene with themes of degradation and incestuous abuse! More important than any specific act or path to take is for newbies to remember that you don’t have to do anything you don’t like to to be kinky or practice BDSM. It’s there for you; it’s yours to craft to your liking, not anyone else’s. Make it work for you, whatever that means.

    Sadie Prescott – Sadie Prescott is an independent escort and professional BDSM switch who tours frequently and is currently living in Minneapolis, Minnesota. When she’s not having fantastic chocolate-covered orgies or torturing her clients, she’s cuddling her two bunnies, reading queer academic literature, or working on her fine art photography series’. She absolutely loves her job and is fighting for sex worker rights and the decriminalization of sex work across the globe.

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    Website: www.Sadieprescott.com
    Twitter: @Sadieprescottmn

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  • The “All-Natural” Escort

    The “All-Natural” Escort

    At current, my intimate grooming is all-natural, yet trimmed. But I am traditionally femme, so I remove my hair from all other areas. I believe it’s my Irish background that informs the specific character of my thick but soft pad of curls. I love hair. On the head, on the legs, and the chest and elsewhere.  Body hair, to me, is simply an additional feature to play, observe and feel when two bodies come together for pleasure.

    On the other hand, hair removal is totally cool by me! That you look and feel desirable and attractive is what matters most. I do not discriminate against my lovers based on their hair or no-hair preferences. My bush makes me feel womanly, and adds to my appeal as something referential to old Playboy foldouts… perhaps the June, 1985 issue featuring Madonna and her bush. Yum!

    Why Is Going Natural Popular Again?

    Is it back in vogue? Or are older generations, as well as younger ones, simply voicing their true aesthetic desires? One might argue that the bare look is “infantilizing” or “un-feminist”. But I actually don’t think it’s that much of a political issue! While I think the bush has more and more representation these days, I do not think it is a more common practice than two decades ago. It’s simply a true representation in pop culture again!

    Why Do Men Love It?

    As I said before, I don’t choose my lovers based on their preferences, they choose me! Some crave the bush in a fetish capacity. One might call them muff-eaters—haha! Some simply prefer it. Some don’t care either way! And some deeply worship it. In either case, demonstrative appreciation for my carefully groomed pussy are always welcomed and deeply satisfying. Thank you!

    Advantages Of The Bush

    It is unarguable that the bush holds and releases pheromones much greater compared to hairless skin. And who doesn’t love a good whiff of pheromones? Mine are delectable! …Or so I’ve been told.

    Grooming Tips For My Bush

    I have an *adorable* little pink trimmer called “the lady groomer”. It and I have spent many hours twisting and turning and to keep my bush at the length I prefer. It was inexpensive and falls in line with my DIY nature. All hail the hard working estheticians of the world! But atop my other upkeep expenses, waxing will not be one.

    Claire Gold – Claire Gold is an Oakland and San Francisco based GFE escort of five years. She’s in her late twenties with auburn hair and green eyes. Martial arts, dancing and smoothies keep her fit and energetic. Visit her at her North Oakland incall location or request she visit you at your hotel or residence through the Bay Area.

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    Website: https://clairegold.com/
    Twitter: https://twitter.com/ClaireGoldofSF

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    I have no tour dates planned at the moment. But you may keep an eye on my calendar as I frequently visit Los Angeles, New York, New Orleans and many other cities throughout the U.S. and Europe.

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  • How To Have A Great Threesome Experience

    How To Have A Great Threesome Experience

    I’m very open minded about sex, as long as it’s consensual and enjoyable for all involved. Sex should be in the moment. I love everything about it, the smell on your body afterwards, the passion, taste and feel. As long as you engage a women’s mind, then it will be fantastic, after all the mind is the biggest sexual organ. I have experienced and crossed off most items off my sexual bucket list but now as a sex worker, I’m privileged to help my clients fulfill fantasies and experience things on their sexual bucket list. I’m bisexual, I’m lucky to play with women and couples all the time with many coming back for more, making fantasies a reality, is my favourite type of playdate.

    How My Interest In Threesomes Developed

    I’ve always been attracted to females and obsessed with girl on girl action after watching my first porno at the age of 19 and newly married. Later on in my marriage, we tried to find a female to join us, without much luck. On a night out and being a little drunk, I agreed to experience my first threesome and we decided to visit a Melbourne brothel, The Boardroom. It was so good and I wanted more, so we went back not long after to experience it again. This time, it was amazing because the female SW who joined us was hot, with curves and natural big tits and brunette. I felt that she was basically into me and afterwards I fell hard in lust.

    We tried on adult sites to find a unicorn (single female) to join us without luck and so with encouragement from my husband, we decided to try a MFM threesome, which was so much easier to achieve. Our first experience was on my birthday and we arranged two encounters for the evening. It was mind blowing and left me in an euphoric state the next few days definitely wanting more.

    The Appeal Of Threesomes

    The allure is that you see in porn and it looks good, it turns you on and it becomes something you must try. People act on it when they find a like minded partner that is open minded to the idea and willing to explore.

    I love group sex, I’m actually a swinger so I enjoy having multiple partners to please and being pleased by more than one partner too. Also love being able to fulfill a fantasy and when I join a couple, I see myself as a sex toy, and when I leave you’re left to relive the experience together in that euphoric state. I’m a pleaser and bringing joy is the best part of my job.

    First Time Threesome Tips

    Threesomes are fantastic but you need the right person to experience it with. I’ve had good, okay and bad experiences, and it does come down being with the right partner to experience it with. Having an open mind, knowing what your boundaries are as a couple is important, also viewing the act in the moment and not overanalysing or overthinking it later. If you’re not both on the same page going into a threesome, then it may end badly with someone getting jealous and it could be the end of the relationship. That’s something I’ve experienced as a couple and it inevitably contributed to the end of my marriage.

    Communication is the key, so make sure you have open discussions about what would turn you on to see, if you would be comfortable seeing your partner fucking/kissing/sucking someone else, and be honest with your partner. A threesome can actually bring you closer, give you a newer level of intimacy but only if you have open communication about your wants, desires, do’s and don’t right from the start. Once you have these boundaries and understanding, make sure you let the other person joining know exactly what these are, so on the day it’s an amazing experience for all involved.

    Rules To Follow

    The rules are really the boundaries that you may have in place as a couple, make sure you are considerate of your partner and stick to these boundaries in the moment. Also having a safe word that you agreed on that you can let your partner know when you’re not comfortable with what’s happening is a good idea too.  Other than that, just try to be in the moment, enjoy it for what it is.

    Miss Kellie Blair – Miss Kellie Blair is one of a kind. This is one sexy escort that comes with a warning. Highly addictive and you will be easily hooked.

    Returning as Miss September 2016 in the hugely popular Penthouse Black Label calendar, she made her first appearance in 2015 alongside features in their last September, October and November issues, and will be featured in the Aug/Sept 2016 issue about to be available for sale.

    An independent private escort for men and women, Kellie is genuinely bisexual and prides herself as being one of the top escorts specialising in servicing couples. This impeccable reputation is guaranteed with a loyal fan base of lovers all over the country and over forty-five glowing reviews since she entered the industry in January 2012.

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  • What It Means To Being A Switch

    What It Means To Being A Switch

    Kink and alternative lifestyles are arenas for exploration of life and sexuality. In my opinion, being into kink can add renewed excitement and lust for life. It is thrilling to discover the many ways we can play with the body and mind with everything from costumes to riding crops to psychological manipulation.

    After fifty shades of grey, kink seems to have moved from the fringes of society into average Joe’s bedroom, a development I feel ambivalent towards. On one hand, I am happy to see more people introduced to the delights of kink. On the other hand, I am mildly concerned that people who are not really into kink might feel pressured into doing it because everyone else is or it’s cool at the moment. I believe kink is best when motivated by personal desire with matching, consenting partner(s).

    Whats It’s Like To Be A Switch

    As a switch, I feel empowered and liberated both by giving up control and by taking on full control. In everyday life, I feel more flexible, and able to have a deeper understanding of power dynamics.

    The idea of releasing control and exploring the intersection of pleasure and pain always appealed to me. I tend to be more on the submissive side in my personal sex life, and get extremely turned on by being spanked, slapped, tied up, having my hair pulled and so on. I love having someone take charge and bend me into different positions and fuck me hard. Since I am a pretty bossy lady, it can be liberating not to think about what to do, but instead, just being in the moment with a partner who directs the show.

    After leaning more towards the submissive side for years, I started playing with being dominant and discovered the pleasure and excitement in having someone give up control to me. The thrill of designing an experience in which you take your partner to his edge (and beyond) is an amazing high. I now love being dominant, in particular in sex work, because I enjoy providing the space for a client to explore the sides of himself that he does not get to act out in his ordinary life. Since I know firsthand what the sub experience is like, I feel I can more easily provide this for clients and lovers.

    Preference For Being Dominant Or Submissive

    I usually prefer to be submissive in my personal life and dominant at work. For me, being a submissive requires a large amount of trust, something that builds up within time, and therefore I tend to save my submissive side for private encounters or client relationships where trust has been built. As a dominatrix, I love designing experiences for my clients based on their submissive desires.

    Kink Activities I Love

    I love spanking, both giving and receiving. I enjoy the different types of delicious pain inflicted by a hand, a paddle, riding crop, and flogger. A flogger is probably my favorite.

    As a sub, besides spanking, I love being flipped into different positions, getting tied up or held down, as well as using a blindfold, getting my hair pulled, nipples pinched hard, and light slapping.

    As a domme, besides the spanking, I enjoy taking control and putting my partner into different positions for me to physically take charge, pin him down, and fuck him with a strap on. Other things I enjoy as a domme is using a collar and leash, nipple torture, slave training, cock and ball torture and ball busting.

    Anal play, strap on, foot fetish and trampling are some of the requests I get the most these days.

    Characteristics Of A Good Sub

    A good sub gets turned on by the idea of giving up control to their partner. A good sub is in it voluntarily for his or her own pleasure, not to please a partner. He or she is open-minded, willing and able to suspend control, obedient, and eager to explore their sexuality.  A good sub is also clear about their boundaries, and soft and hard limits, so the domme knows what to avoid and where to tread with caution.

    Tips To Be A Switch

    I would not say it is easy being a switch, since it involves knowing oneself deeply and the ability to perform a complete role reversal. However, it gives me so many options and has most certainly added color and excitement to my life.

    If someone is keen to become a switch, I suggest they do their research and find what turns them on by the idea of being a submissive, and by being a dominant. Then, I recommend experimenting with a partner they completely trust, or hire a professional to explore with in a safe environment.

    Nina Nyx – Nina Nyx is a Sydney based Scandinavian escort, masseuse, and dominatrix. Nina is an all-natural, curvy blonde, deeply passionate about traveling, writing, massage, alternative rock, yoga, dancing, and sexploration.

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    New session: For the man and/or woman curious of exploring being a switch, I am now offering switch sessions.

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  • Power Play In Sex

    Power Play In Sex

    Funnily enough, my interest in the concept of fetishes grew out of my religious upbringing. Religion and sex have an uneasy relationship with one another, but I’ve learned that humans are intrinsically attracted to the taboo. We live in a society that governs all our social behaviour – how we can act with whom. Having an experience or a secret enjoyment that flies in the face of that can be extraordinarily enticing. When we are denied something, it holds a special power. This is basic human psychology, and when applied to our sexual desires, we enter the world of kink and fetishes.

    While you might occupy the world of vanilla, there’s something in every person, some unexplored corner of the mind, attracted to the possibility of the alternative. What might that be? The possibilities are endless. Your individual experiences in life, particularly in your formative years, might answer that for you. We enter the world of sensations before we enter the world of words, which is why tactile fetishes can hold such a strong arousal. Or maybe it’s a certain kind of scenario, a certain kind of person in a position of power or who is prohibited for some other reason.

    While I have my own personal fetishes, one of the most satisfying experiences in my life is consensually exploring the kinks and fetishes of others. I love doing what I call ‘de-shaming’ – sharing my thoughts around why their particular kink is not a source of shame and providing a non-judgemental space for them to enact a particular fantasy and experience sexual satisfaction.

    What Is Sensual Domination?

    My definition of sensual domination is a sexual or sensual exchange where one person is in control of the experiences, sensations and satisfaction of the other – and dictates when those sensations are withheld and when they are given. This may involve playing with pleasure and discomfort or pain. It may be purely psychological, or it may be extremely physical. Usually it’s both.

    Being six foot tall, I had been told on the odd occasion that I’d make an excellent dominatrix. But discovering my niche in sensual domination came through having many vanilla ‘girlfriend experiences’ and realizing that some clients had more complex sexual desires that required something slightly different – like me taking control, teasing or taunting them to the extreme, or performing a fantasy scene. I started realizing then that sex is far more mental than it is physical.

    The first time I was asked to dominate someone I was a little nervous but willing to give it a go. When I saw the effect on my client and how satisfying the experience was for them, I wanted to explore more. My curiosity piqued, I shadowed a couple of Mistresses who performed total domination, humiliation and submission of a slave or sub. While I admired their skills in that dynamic, I soon realized that the more extreme forms of domination – especially inflicting pain – weren’t really for me. Since then, I’ve found so many people out there who aren’t ready or don’t want to be completely dominated and humiliated, but who crave some power imbalance or some feeling of relinquishing sexual control. Once I started exploring that, there was no going back!

    What I Love About Sensual Domination

    The subtleties, the nuances, playing with different sensations, performing different roles, leaving the regular world and entering a fantasy space where nothing else exists, watching the physical and psychological responses that are elicited from people, having another person under my thrall, keeping somebody on the edge and then watching them experience satisfaction. De-stigmatising people’s kinks and having them leave feeling that they’ve been able to explore another side of themselves … should I go on?

    Why Men Love Women Being In-Charge

    At some point in our upbringing, we all had our first sneak peek at a magazine or film where a guy was fucking a girl, and he was the one doing the fucking. He was in charge. We still live in a world where men are expected to ask women out, to be the pursuer and to take the lead in the bedroom. Even if taking charge in sex doesn’t get them off, the concept of a man being submissive throws their ‘manliness’ into question. Despite advances toward gender equality, boys are still socialized from before they can remember to be ‘masculine’. To be a man is still to be self-sufficient, strong, to lead situations. In business and politics, men still overwhelmingly occupy most of the seats of power and a marker of ‘being a man’ in most cultures is still around what you can ‘do’ – whether that be lift weights or make a lot of money, or get the girls.

    In my experience, the pressure to perform this version of masculinity gets old sooner or later. The concept of a strong woman taking charge, taking the pressure off the usual expectation to be the initiator can be very appealing. The concept of being the receiver of attention rather than the giver, the idea of being aggressively seduced or sexually aroused by a woman, of being told what to do in the bedroom by a female rather than being expected to take charge can be an enormous dynamic shift that can be incredibly satisfying for men who have lived their lives in charge. Sometimes, this may take a more maternal role, where somebody simply wants to be held and receive affection and stimulation without having to give it back, which is something I love to offer.

    Power Play Activities I’m Into

    There is almost always an element of tease and denial in my sessions and withholding / giving of affection. If someone has a foot fetish, that dynamic will happen with feet, or if someone has a boss / employee fantasy, or a mother / child, it occurs in that fantasy space. I enjoy using stockings and silk and having more submissive clients, often creating a dynamic of affection and admonishment, arousal and denial – depending on the comfort level of who I’m playing with. I enjoy body worship sessions where clients can fetishise and enjoy particular parts of me and be held at a distance until I’m ready to satisfy them, or playing game in which I test their obedience before I reward them. For lots of men, one really sexually satisfying experience that is stigmatised is prostate play, anal play or anal sex with a strap on. I absolutely love giving someone their first prostate orgasm and blowing them away!

    Mia Monday – I’m Mia, a private fetish escort and companion based in Melbourne.  My niche lies in the sensory world found between affection and domination. I enjoy walking the line between tease, sensuality and taking erotic control. Intuitive and instinctual, I love discovering what satisfies you.

    It might be something you didn’t expect.

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  • Rough Sex Tips For An Orgasmic Good Time

    Rough Sex Tips For An Orgasmic Good Time

    My view towards rough sex is really simply, if you like it in your personal life then I encourage it all the way because I feel like if a couple can have rough sex, then there is a trust and bond built between those them and I find it very beautiful.

    What I Love About Rough Sex

    I enjoy submitting to my partner. I like it when my partner can physically show me his strength. I enjoy being held down and choked. I couldn’t tell you where I got the love for BDSM but once I encountered it, I started to prefer it more and more. I enjoy bondage and other forms of domination only with a professional.

    Rough Sex Limits

    I’ve definitely had times where I’ve reached my limit but I’m all about pushing my boundaries. I’ve tried everything from simple bondage to tongue torture.

    One Tip To Remember

    My one major tip is do your homework and learn before you hop into the sheets. Also, sit down with your partner and discuss your boundaries and safe words.

    Ways To Make It Kinkier

    Haha of course there is!! Use your imagination and you’ll discover endless amounts of ideas!

    My name is Kat Monroe and I am a 23 year old adult entertainer who lives in California. I am one crazy kinky kitty on camera but when there’s not a camera on me I really just enjoy being out in nature with my pup Creid or adventuring to new places. I love to paint, write and crazy enough clean. I am a motorcycle and bmw lover, I’d rather get my hands dirty then sit on a pedestal.

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