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  • How To Spice Up Your Sex Life?

    How To Spice Up Your Sex Life?

    Is your sex life boring? Even worse, is it “non-existent”?

    Maybe your current partners aren’t interesting. Or, maybe you’re too busy, with a dry spell going on… If you’ve got those issues, keep reading. We’ll give you a few fixes. Below are FIVE tips to spice up your sex life. Check them out, and have a fun time!

    #1 – Find Easy Hookups.

    Maybe your sex life is horrible because of your game…

    That is, maybe you’re old school. You might be playing the old “pickup at a bar/club”…

    If so, it’s time to step it up. Get with the times, and let technology do the magic for you!

    How So? Use the internet!

    Specifically, look for sex sites. Those are far and plenty. Plus, you’ll find hookups in your area, and in short notice!

    Which Sex Sites?

    Well, there are plenty. You’ve got something like EasySex.com. It’s the world’s most known hookup up. You’ll surely find a few dates over there!

    #2 – Find More Than One.

    The best way to spice up sex is by getting multiple partners.

    The same partner can get boring. They become predictable in what they like, and over time, there’s nothing to explore…

    So you want to change partners around.

    What to Look For.

    Find ones with different personalities in bed. Look for one who like to play rough. Then find another who likes to make your experience “sweet and romantic.” Or, maybe you’re looking to enjoy different physical features – like different body types, skin tones, etc. Basically, alternate. Get online, and find yourself multiple sex partners, and make sure you get much variety!

    Also…

    You gain an advantage in availability. That is, if one partner isn’t available, another can show up to give you fun. So you’ll never have your needs unfulfilled!

    #3 – Don’t Overcommit.

    Casual hookups are hard to maintain. They don’t last for long. At worst, it’s a one night stand. And at its best, your hookup sticks around for a few months. So don’t commit too much.

    Why? Because you don’t want to develop an attachment to them. And if that was your goal, then why not just start a relationship?

    Spicing Up Means Variety.

    This ties into the previous point.

    Not committing forces you to fish for more. It forces you to find women who might be more enjoyable.

    #4 – Add More Entertainment.

    Good news. This tip applies to both couples and causal hookups. So you can apply it if you’re in a relationship!

    So what to do? Spice up your sex life with “before” and “after” entertainment.

    That is, have a light meal beforehand. Maybe one of you can cook something for the other partner… Or how about watching a movie after you’re done? That’s always a nice way to finish off a sex session. It makes the atmosphere more relaxing. It helps you relieve tension, which is what you’re trying to achieve anyway!

    #5 – Start Using Sex Toys.

    Nothing spices up your sex life more than good toys. And by sex toys, we don’t just mean the average vibrator. Instead, we recommend getting the more unique ones… You can get toys that enhance intercourse – or provide unique forms of stimulation. They’ll make sex easier. They’ll intensify every orgasm each side has. And you’ll both want to come back for more!

    Important Note.

    Make sure you own those toys. Quality toys can get expensive. Many of them cost upwards of $100 per item. So you don’t want a partner taking that home, only for it to never be seen again. That would be a crisis to your wallet.

    Final Tip – Get Creative.

    Depending on your situation, there are many “adjustments” that can make your sex life better.

    For example, maybe you like dress up. Maybe a little role play is what adds more to your sex life…

    Or how about BDSM? That could be something you and your partner are into.

    Obviously, those habits are worlds apart. But there are thousands more, and you can explore them to your heart’s content.

    Whatever it is, make sure you explore. You’ve got to know your sexual preferences before hunting for hookups.

    That way, you’ll know what to demand. You’ll know what you need to make spice up your sex life!

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  • How Is Escorting and Mental Health Linked?

    How Is Escorting and Mental Health Linked?

    I have been escorting now for nearly two years and think it has been a very liberating experience. It allows women like myself to take full control over our work, life and financial choices which are almost impossible to have in a normal 9-5 job. Because of this, escorting can be incredibly empowering and allows women to have opportunities that are denied in ‘normal society ‘.

    Is There Any Correlation Between Escorting & Mental Health?

    I don’t believe escorting itself can cause mental health issues, however, I do believe that the stigma escorts face on a daily basis causes unnecessary stress.

    A lot of people wrongly promote the idea that all escorts are troubled in some way which instead of helping SWs, just spreads misconceptions about our industry.

    Contributing Factors That Affect The Mental Health Of Escorts

    Because sex work is still seen as taboo, a lot of SWs have to lie to friends and family which causes huge amounts of stress and anxiety. Loneliness is also a big factor, many escorts work alone with only online friends to talk to and this can be very isolating.

    Another factor is being self employed in a very competitive online environment, there is constant pressure to work longer hours, take better photos and have a bigger presence.

    Is There A Difference Working Independently & For An Agency?

    I think working independently, whilst making more financial sense, is a lot harder than being attached to an agency because you don’t have any support or back up when finding clients, screening clients etc. However, working for an agency can mean working for unscrupulous people on very inconvenient hours. I think both independent and agency escorts face the same mental health challenges.

    Does Making Escorting Legal Help Escorts Have Better Mental Health?

    Yes! Escorts would be free to be honest with doctors and health professionals and state exactly what they need without fear of repercussions. They would feel safe approaching the police and financially would not have the stress of worrying about how to approach banks to handle their earnings.

    What Can An Escort Turn To If She Is Down?

    I’m very lucky in that I have a couple of close friends whom I can talk to and meet up with but a lot of escorts don’t have that luxury. I would talk to other escorts online, use forums or if you can, go to a trusted health professional.

    I would also suggest taking regular breaks, turning your phone off when not available and pampering — going for a massage or doing ‘normal’ things like going to the cinema or finding a meaningful hobby. Having a healthy separation between work and me time is essential.

    Advice For Those Keen To Go Into Escorting

    Escorting is not an easy job and it takes patience, assertiveness and a genuine enjoyment of the job. If done right, it can be very rewarding. My main piece of advice would be to work on your own terms with what you feel comfortable with. If you want to be porn star escort, goth escort or a no make-up jeans and t-shirt escort, go for it. Don’t be put under pressure to pretend to be someone you’re not.

    Estella Brown – Estella Brown is a London based Escort. She is also a writer, a lover of vintage lingerie and an avid Twitterer.

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  • What Sugar Dating Is Really Like

    What Sugar Dating Is Really Like

    I am very supportive of sugar babies. I am the biggest advocate for sugar dating. It’s perfect for someone in their early twenties who is looking to save money, have fun experiences, but isn’t quite ready to settle down yet. I think its a great idea to have some friends that are also sugar babies. I love to meet up with other sugar babies and talk about our experiences. It is a unique world – and sugar babies are full of stories that we can’t tell just anyone. So I think it’s important for sugar babies to support each other. The sugar baby community on Tumblr is amazing and its a place where many sugar babies share their experiences, tips and stories. That’s how I have found most of my sugar baby friends – from Tumblr.

    Expectations Of A Sugar Daddy

    Sugar daddies are expected to provide you with an allowance, at minimum. What you do with your allowance is up to you. For me, I quit my day time job – and with the allowance my sugar daddy gives me, I pay my rent, for food, my car bill, and some shopping. Aside from an allowance, what else you may get depends on your sugar daddy. Whether that be weekly Michelin star dinners, vacations together, etc. Some might offer to help you buy an apartment, help you invest, help you get a job in their career field, mentor you, even put your in their will. It all depends on your sugar daddy and what you ask for or what you’re looking for.

    How A Sugar Relationship Starts & Works

    Sugar dating relationships (usually) start just like every other relationships now a days it seems like, on the internet. Many women meet sugar daddies off of the site “Seeking Arrangement.” Other women will go to upscale bars and lounges and try to scope out the scene for wealthy men. That’s called “freestyling.”

    I found my current sugar daddy from Seeking Arrangement. Our first date was pretty normal. We toured San Francisco by car. He’s been living there for the past 30+ years and would tell me interesting facts about the places we passed. We had a great dinner at a Michelin star restaurant. He took me back to his apartment in Pacific Heights, and I stayed the night. The next morning, he told me he put something for me in the back pocket of my jeans. I checked my pocket on the way out and it was $1500 in cash. That’s the difference between regular dating and sugar dating. Now he deposits money into my bank account twice a month.

    Safety Concerns In A Sugar Relationship

    Just like with regular dating, there are safety concerns with sugar dating too. It’s important to look up your date before going out with them. If you have their real phone number, there are many apps you can use that will bring up a lot of their information (everything from their address to criminal history – just from their phone number).

    If they give you a fake number through Google voice (which many do at first), you can do a Google reverse image search on their profile pictures. Many times if they are a professional, they will use a professional photo on their profile (like one from their LinkedIn) and it’s easy to reverse image search them and find out their real name. Once you have their real name, it’s a good idea to let a friend or roommate know where you’re going and who you’re with. If you cannot find out who they are, go on one first date with them in public, it’s often called a ‘meet and greet.”

    You will usually get a good vibe of them. In the past, I went on a coffee date for a first meet with a man I wasn’t able to verify. I went early, waited outside, and took down his license plate number when I saw him parking. Seems crazy but it’s important to stay safe! So far I have had nothing but really great experiences with all the men I have met, thankfully.

    Misconceptions About Sugar Dating

    There are a lot of misconceptions about sugar dating. A common one is that all sugar daddies are old. There are plenty of men in their 30’s and 40’s on Seeking Arrangement! Personally I prefer the older men, though, for myself.

    Another misconception is that sugar babies do it just for material items. Many women enjoy sugar dating to pay off their tuition, to pay for grad school. Sometimes women prefer sugar dating because aside from the allowance, sugar daddies are able to provide you with experiences you otherwise wouldn’t necessarily have.  Or perhaps not in your twenties. Such as Michelin star dining, trips and vacations, etc.

    Another misconception is that it’s just about sex. It’s a relationship – so of course sex is usually a part of it – but that’s not the only aspect of it.

    Tips To Know Before Becoming A Sugar Baby

    First off, don’t settle or sell yourself short. Closed mouths don’t get fed, so if you want something – don’t be afraid ask. It’s important to invest in a quality wardrobe. Buy quality dresses that will last, for dinner dates. I like black outfits – no matter the brand, black is classic, chic, and classy. Invest in your appearance. I’m on a first name basis with the nurses and aestheticians at my local medspa. I go there for facials, laser hair removal, botox. Have your nails done and hair done, always. It’s important to always look polished.

    Another tip is to know what your sugar daddy wants. Why did he go on the site in the first place? Is he looking for discreet fun? Many sugar daddy are on the site because they want companionship but don’t have time for traditional dating. My sugar daddy likes that I’m young, energetic, curious. Find out what he’s looking for and tailor to his needs. Also, hold your ground. I made a rule for myself that I will always use condoms. My sugar daddy has asked to ditch them, but I’m stern on using them and he has accepted it. Money does not equal power. Sugar babies also hold much power and should not forget that. A young beautiful woman who knows her value is very powerful.

    Lastly, try to save your money. Whether that be for college, paying off debt, saving for a house or car – save save save! If you want designer luxuries, have your sugar daddy buy them for you. Ask for nice presents for your birthday and Christmas. Take advantage of the connections you make. I’ve heard of a sugar daddy professor helping his sugar baby write a dissertation in the field he studied for her PHD paper. If you’re looking for someone specific – don’t settle because you’ll eventually find the sugar daddy you’re looking for.

    And lastly of course, be safe.

    Isabella Ivy – Socialite. Companion. Sugar Baby. Based in San Francisco, CA

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  • How To Deepthroat & Give An Awesome Blowjob

    How To Deepthroat & Give An Awesome Blowjob

    I love blowjobs for so many reasons! First of all, I love foreplay and oral is the mother of all foreplay. Also, I just really enjoy being able to really work to rock that persons world and let my pleasure take control of them.

    Does Size Matter?

    When I’m blowing someone, the size doesn’t really determine how well it is going to go. There’s so much about dicks that make them different rather than just the size. Like cut vs uncut, or a curved dick, etc. As far as my personal preference goes, I like a challenge and I love to have something I can deep throat.

    Common Blowjob Mistakes Women Make

    YES! First of all, stop worrying about being cute when you’re sucking dick. Make that shit as sloppy as you can and stop focusing on the head. Swallow the dick ladies.

    Is Deepthroating Challenging?

    Deepthroat can be challenging for sure. I’ve deepthroated a dick once that was so thick it felt like I had to dislocate my jaw to get the job done! It’s really something you have to work towards. While I do have a nice big mouth, I do also have a gag reflex. Knowing what I can handle and then pushing those limits helps.

    How To Finish A Blowjob

    I personally enjoy taking a facial. It’s warm and I just feel so nasty for it when I look up at the end with all that nut on my face.

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  • How To Pick Up Women

    How To Pick Up Women

    Well I’m different than the average woman. Because I’m not in any way looking for a relationship at this time and near future. I personally am not a fan when someone tries to stop me from what I’m doing to flirt. But because I am a romantic deep down, and one day will appreciate the effort a little more.

    My advice to the men trying to pick up women out in public…have confidence but don’t be cocky and if she says no, apologize and walk away. Don’t ever say anything insulting or keep hassling because that is the absolute worst and is a reason why I can be so quick to politely shut it down.

    What Makes Men Attractive To Women?

    Finding the right balance… I think women love confidence and hate cockiness, be romantic but not too clingy, funny but not a clown, has a good job but doesn’t work 24/7, intelligent but not smarter than her. Haha I’m just kidding on that last one!

    Typical Pickup Mistakes Men Make

    Coming off too strong, saying insults if turned down. Be creative as in try not making it so obvious you’re trying to hit on me, be subtle about it.

    Different Approaches In Different Situations

    Location and timing definitely plays a part! If I’m at a gas station, the LAST thing I want is for someone to approach me unless it’s an employee, or parking garage etc.

    Signs She’s Interested

    Well if she keeps walking or says no, that’s when you know it’s not going to happen. But if she stops and smiles, laughs, touches her hair while coyly smiling, you’ve gained her attention

    Other Tips To Take Note Of

    Don’t ever give up or get too down on yourself!! Most of the time, we just want to be left alone when out running errands. But there are times when we really want you to go for it! And if you ever catch a woman constantly glancing your way, go for it!!

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  • Pleasure The Male G-Spot For The Best Orgasm Of Your Life

    Pleasure The Male G-Spot For The Best Orgasm Of Your Life

    Men get sexual pleasure through the penis. But it’s not the only way to climax.

    In fact, there’s a much more intense orgasm than the penile type. Have you heard of the male G-spot?

    It’s more commonly called the prostate, and when this area is massage together with the anus it can give a long-lasting, multiple orgasms.

    What is the prostate?

    The prostate is a small, walnut-sized gland located between the bladder and the penis. It is responsible for producing a fluid that is part of semen and protects the sperm. It is found just a few inches inside the rectum.

    What happens when you massage it?

    When you have a prostate massage, you feel intense sexual pleasure in and around the penis. It’s so intense that you can orgasm without even becoming erect.

    And, once you’ve ejaculated, you can continue to orgasm, similar to the way that women have multiple orgasms.

    Here’s a few tips to make sure you get the maximum benefits from anal massage…

    1. Use lube

    Putting anything into the rectum hurts. However, if you use lubrication, the pain is minimal.

    2. Use your fingers

    Cover your fingers with lube and massage the anus. Slowly insert one finger and reach until you find the prostate. You can get your girlfriend or wife to do this for you, if she’s comfortable with it.

    3. Use a toy

    Alternatively, you can use a prostate stimulation – a “toy” made to slip comfortably into your butt and find the prostate. You can us vibrators which increase the pleasure of the prostate massage.

    4. Stroke the penis at the same time

    As your masseuse or partner massages the anal area and prostate gland, she can also massage the penis. As you can image, this combination feels fantastic.

    Anal pleasuring can be a wonderful form of sensual stimulation, and can lead to most powerful orgasms known to man. So go try this therapy as soon as you can.

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  • 4 Hands Massage Bucket List

    4 Hands Massage Bucket List

    This should be on every guys bucket list

    4 Hands erotic massage: Sensual please taken to another level

    Now guys, just imagine two hot women moving all over your body and touching your most intimate areas.

    Not just one but two talented sensual massage therapists will smooth, rub and slide their hands all over your body from head to toe. Not a single part of your body will feel neglected.

    Sounds good doesn’t it?

    Why a sensual 4 hands massage should be on every guys bucket list

    Sensual four hands massage is a form of traditional erotic massage that’s been used to tease out tension, stress and pleasure from men and women for thousands of years.

    It’s an authentic and delightful way to forget your troubles and boost your well-being.

    It is not often you get the chance to be massaged by two women, so make the most of it while you can.

    What happens in an erotic four hands massage?

    Four hands sensual massage describes the technical attributes of this classic and indulgent massage.

    However, it doesn’t describe the sensation of feeling two experienced erotic therapists stroke and slide their hands across every single area of your skin.

    As the sensations are so exquisite and numerous your mind will struggle to focus on the strokes and it will drift into a state of pleasure.

    Each masseuse will work in tandem mirroring each other’s strokes. They will massage your right inner thigh, while the other masseuse will massage your left.

    They will work up and down your body paired in a sensual rhythm with delicate teasing strokes to relieve your anxieties and tension.

    It will feel so good you won’t want it to end…

    Two gorgeous ladies massaging you intimately is beyond heavenly.

    After you’ve been stroked, teased and built up into the ultimate level of anticipation, the masseuses will then focus on your genitalia. It will feel fantastic as two women massage this part of your body together.

    At the end your body will explode in complete orgasmic joy.

    The question is though – Can you handle being massage by two lovely females?

    When four erotic hands are synchronized and working in harmony for your sole pleasure the physical sensations are relaxing, sensual and exciting whether you are male or female.

    Any aches and pains or muscle tensions you have are eased away by us. It’s one of the best ways to de-stress and recharge your mental batteries.

    You’ll be free from stress and worry your body will be able to relax completely, forget its anxieties and focus purely on feeling the bliss.

    Everyone needs this feeling for good physical and mental health. When you have a stressful life, four hands massage can help you manage the problems and tensions you face each day by strengthening your mind and spirit.

    Four hands erotic massage also promotes physical healing by boosting blood flow and circulation to your body and skin which releases toxins and leaves you with a healthy glow.

    Anyone with body image issues, anxiety about sensual touch, or those who are curious about their sexual response may find four hands massage gives them the opportunity to explore their sexuality.

    This session will enable them to feel sensations they may struggle to experience in a pressured situation or relationship.

    A four hands erotic massage is designed for your pleasure and comfort, there’s no pressure or obligation – just relax, feel the sensations and let your body respond.

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  • Internet Dating – 100% Safe Approach

    Internet Dating – 100% Safe Approach

    Online dating is a speedy and increasingly efficient way of making contacts and communicating. Although new types of fraud have appeared due to the development of Internet technology, it is still possible to meet your love online.

    Communication implies the observance of certain safety rules, regardless of whether it is conducted in real life or on the Internet. Yes, there are scammers on the World Wide Web, but you shouldn’t panic or stop using a computer. In this post, we will provide you with some recommendations that will protect you during https://lookadate.com/ adult dating and avoid tricky situations while searching for relationships online.

    #1 – Do Not Forget about Personal Safety

    When registering an acc on a dating site, check if your personal data is protected. It is better to create a new email address that does not contain your first and last name in it. Communicating with a new internet friend, do not rush to tell your last name, address, mob number, or any other sensitive info.

    #2 – Select a Reliable Dating Website

    If you want to be sure of the complete data security, then it is a way better to register on professional dating sites. As a rule, such companies are careful to protect the personal data of their users.

    #3 – Set a Secure Password

    Online stores, social networks, email, special online platforms – all these require having a secure password that no one can hack. It is not the best idea to use the identical password for all the platforms. Password security can be improved by using a mix of special symbols.

    #4 – Be Vigilant

    Before you message a lady, carefully study her profile. If you come across conflicting or unreasonable information while viewing a profile, it is better to avoid contacting this person. In case you have doubts about the seriousness and honesty of the girl or you have received a spam message from her, be sure to inform the site’s support service about the accident.

    #5 – Secure Communication

    If you have no experience, it is better to use not personal email but an internal communication system on the site. In case you want to stop the conversation, you can simply delete the user, and she will no longer be able to contact you.

    #6 – Do Not Trust Links

    While chatting online, you are expected to learn just everything about the one you chat with: what her hobbies are, what books she likes to read, what kind of music she listens to. It may happen that you receive some URLs during the correspondence. Do not rush to open all the links – they may contain viruses that are dangerous for your computer.

    We hope that the above rules will be of great value to you and hope you to meet cool persons and enjoy online dating!

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  • How I Started My Own Porn Company

    How I Started My Own Porn Company

    I have several personal views towards sex. I can understand and appreciate the point of view of people inside and outside of the adult entertainment industry. As an ex-husband and an adult in a current monogamous relationship, I have a view of sex that can be aligned with the thoughts and feelings of that group of people: sex is private, my woman’s body is for my eyes only, our pleasure is only for our memories and no one else’s. As an adult film producer, my view of sex is that most adults do it, and almost all those adults have the option of how soft or how hard/freaky their sex lives are, AND MANY PEOPLE MASTURBATE TO PORN (or in general).

    I love sex. Love to have it, love to do it, love to make it. My girlfriend and I have many mutual sexual attributes: the desire to please the other person, realizing the importance and of foreplay, being open to (listening to) creative new ideas from your partner, and both partners feeling the desire to assist one another in reaching climax.

    My girlfriend is also in the adult film industry, as a female talent performer. While I prefer to stay behind the camera shooting, directing, and producing, there are times that I still perform in shoots/scenes. She and I have an agreement that when we do scenes with other people, there is no kissing, no romance, no lovey dovey, no flirting off camera. We are ALL about the sex and the scene, but we take our relationship seriously. For us, the distinction between the sex in front of the camera and the sex in our bedroom is very easy to differentiate.

    The Inspiration Behind DoggVision

    Like many guys, I’ve been masturbating since my preteen years. In some years past, like many other guys, a grown (married) man still masturbating, I used to curse my computer for not being able to fight the urge to turn it on whenever no one was around, and rub one out for fear of explosion if I didn’t. I used to wonder if I could ever make any money from this industry that seemed to be taking so much of mine.

    I tried to start a website in 2003, but with zero industry knowledge or successes to draw from, I only ran into roadblocks. I used to have an ex-girlfriend and we would make videos of some of our bedroom sexscapades. She would also let me take pics of her in sexy clothes/lingerie/nude. Eventually, I admitted to that I posted some of the pics/videos to a free porn site. As all of our videos never showed either of our faces, she wasn’t too upset, and after a while, she was interested to hear some of the comments that men and women would leave.

    Of course, after we broke up, she demanded that I take every video and pic gallery down. I did. I hated doing it. Although I did all of the work to create the videos, I badly missed the adulation of our (her) very small batch of fans.

    Years later, I would have a very short relationship with a woman that wanted to have her own porn site; she was talking my language! Neither of us had any porn sites, or even any content. I had six jobs at that time: a college professor of two colleges, a substitute teacher, a night janitor, a night auditor for a hotel, and I ran my own online resume writing service. When I would wake up in my bed, I didn’t know if it was morning or night. I had been a single dad with my kids living with me. With six jobs, I still lived paycheck to paycheck…if I was lucky. Life was hard.

    That woman got me to quit ALL of my jobs and work on the site full-time! That woman that had convinced me to start my own porn site, gave me the balls that I have today. When she and I started DoggVision.com, there were times when I thought it was over before the site ever went live. She believed in me when I didn’t.

    Gradually, I started making swinger connections and my network grew. Once the word got out that there was a guy who was paying people to video them having sex on camera, I had slowly found my footing. With some good made connections, hard work, and belief in yourself and what you’re doing, this can be a successful business.

    DoggVisions’ Specialty

    DoggVision.com specializes in straight and transgender content: all interracial, all amateur. Our content includes raw hardcore scenes of sex, fisting, water sports, and sh** play.

    Favorite Genres To Film

    I’m not sure that I have a particular favorite scene or genre. But with any scene, my favorites to shoot are the ones where the performers have a sexual history together. This way, they know the hot spots to get the other person off, and vice versa. I prefer to shoot amateurs because I believe that the true purveyor of porn can tell the difference between a woman screaming and moaning (and continuously looking at the camera) and a woman who is truly enjoying herself in the scene.

    Criteria For Performers

    My sites are generally ALL amateur; although, I do have a few ‘porn stars’ in some of my videos. For example, when I first began my TS-Perversions.com site, TS Kimber Haven and TS Raven Roxx were just starting out and barely known. Now, several years later, both of them have received multiple industry awards, and run their own porn empires.

    If you were to ask me ‘who’ I would love to work with, I would have a very short list of popular porn star names. If you were to ask me who I ‘preferred’ to work with, I would tell you straight-up amateurs. From my point of view, the sex is more real, the woman are generally not acting, and the screams and moans that you hear are real and actual. It can be refreshing to work with a professional who needs very little direction or advice on the set. I’ve found, however, that, in comparison to porn stars, amateurs are more excited about the shoot and appreciative for the opportunity – and many work harder on the set, with that mentality in mind.

    Evolution Of The Porn Industry In The Future

    One thing that I, and many others, see these days is ‘professional’ studio companies making their porn to ‘look’ more amateur. For example, using cell-phone footage in videos, etc. I tried using cell-phone footage on my ‘paid traffic’ videos years ago (on the free porn sites), but they weren’t ‘accepted’ or ‘approved’. Today it’s done all the time, and even I do it now, and it’s ‘acceptable’. Hmmm…isn’t that nice of them to allow me to do it, now that the big companies do it. Porn Politics…?

    My company, Network 33 LLC, and my sites will be what I consider to be a ‘big’ company within the next several years. I do my homework, I plant the seeds of prosperity and I water them, I plan my work, and I work my plans. There are many genres and categories of porn out there, but I will always keep it raw, extreme, and amateur.

    DoggVision.com – Raw. Extreme. Amateur Porn. 1000% Interracial. Specializing in hardcore and extreme videos (some videos too extreme for many sites). Cum Get Some!

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    Upcoming Work: 
    – Planning 4th Annual Party Bus Event
    – Planning 1st Annual Party Boat Event
    – Planning 1st Annual DoggVision Pool Party
    – (Presently) sponsor demonseedradionetwork.com at ALL adult film industry award shows and conventions (not the website). You may contact the site to confirm.
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  • The Importance of Foreplay For Sex

    The Importance of Foreplay For Sex

    Oh dear! This is much more complex than one might think… *Melissa chuckles*

    Sex in one sentence is what makes the world go round. We can’t live without it, we exist because of it, we are not happy when we don’t get enough and we are jealous of those who get plenty; in essence, we blame it for all our miseries!

    During consensual sexual intercourse and real orgasm, there is secretion of endorphins, the hormones of well-being. It takes tension away, gives you positivity and makes you feel and look good. This improves your confidence and hence your efficiency to any activity you do. Sex is the greatest medicine! I wish it could be prescribed!

    Importance Of Foreplay 

    Foreplay is like the hors-d’oeuvre of the main dish. It prepares for more delights to come. The better and more pleasurable the foreplay, the better and more pleasurable the sex, that follows it, is.

    How Long Should Foreplay Last

    That varies. There is no such a thing as a set time! Some people take it longer to “ignite”, some others are “superfast”. What really matters is that the partners are interested in mutual satisfaction, care about each other and are aroused as equally as possible in order to get ready for further happy intimate interaction.

    What Constitutes Good Foreplay

    A good foreplay is a combination of mental and physical stimulation. You have to have sex with somebody in your mind, before you actually have sex with him/her. You need to visualize where you want to be, before actually getting there! This is a field where speed is usually not important and actually it can be negative. I have not come across anybody who would love a quick foreplay. It’s not a matter of a “quicky bang bang” ha ha ha.

    Focus on the erogenous areas of your partner: don’t feel ashamed to ask how she/he likes it, in particular oral sex. But it is not all about genitals! There is so much skin surface on us, where our partner’s fingers can surf and sail(!), gently touch and caress, firmly hold and squeeze or fine scratch with the nails and explore with the tongue and lips.

    Common Mistakes Men Make During Foreplay

    There is a reason why it is commonly said that men think with their small head *Melissa smiles* or sometimes I say they just want to stick their stick in a hole(!). Sounds a bit over the top, but when I tell them, they even laugh louder than me! *Melissa laughs big time*

    I think what both sexes do wrong here is that they concentrate too much on their own satisfaction and forget the partner they are sharing it with. Be natural, don’t worry too much that what you do is right or wrong, be you, be the person your partner fell for!

    Melissa Honey –

    Some of you may ask why I do what I do?!?!

    Well, because…

    • I like the excitement of every new acquaintance…
    • I love the art of seduction!
    • I love to see the sparkle and the lust in your eyes.
    • I want to make you happy and give you this “feel good” feeling.
    • I love being adored…
    • I just…can’t explain it more than that lol

    Respect, good manners, discretion and safety are still my first priorities, and I expect the same from you.

    So, if you are a well-mannered gentleman, I would love to hear from you!

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