What is hypnosis?
Hypnosis is a deeply relaxing state where the subconscious mind opens up to receive the suggestion. Many people think that during hypnosis you fall asleep, however, this is far from the truth. Hypnosis actually awakens you. It awakens your mind, body and senses for more and deeper pleasure.
During hypnosis, the conscious (thinking) brain switches off, so we can reach the subconscious. It’s a safe, relaxed but alert state where focus increases, so you become more open to transformation. Sex happens in the gamma stage of the human brain. When in a trance, your brain is able to activate ecstatic experiences such as a hand’s free orgasm. So it’s true, all real action happens between your ears, not between your legs.
It’s a popular myth that during hypnosis, you can be asked to perform things that in normal life never occurs to do. However, it’s possible to make suggestions, but the participant’s brain will keep consciousness and only act on principles it agrees on. In my point of view, hypnosis can bring subconscious limiting beliefs or blocks around sexuality on the surface.
Wherever you realise or not, you are being hypnotised on a daily basis. Hypnotic language has been used during movies, TV-programs, in magazines, etc.
Research shows that people with higher intelligence level and creativity shows a greater response being hypnotised. There are two types of hypnosis, auto-hypnosis (self-hypnosis) or hetero-hypnosis ( hypnotizer walk you through the process), both entitled to raise your consciousness in a highly relaxing trance state.
Erotic hypnosis can make you become a better lover, and your sex life can be made more intense, fun and a pleasurable activity.
The phenomenon is also called a hands-free orgasm or “Hypno sex”. Erotic hypnosis is a way to seduce someone through their mind. This type of hypnosis can enhance intimacy, love, and trust in the couple’s relationship while boosting their sexual life and gives the best orgasms.
When applying erotic hypnosis, women can feel more sexually desired, can experience increased sexual libido and able to eliminate shame and guilt about any sexual desires. During hypnosis, we enter a deep relaxation state called a trance. In a trance, the brain becomes more alert and focuses on verbal suggestions. Suggestions are short messages; and words can trigger certain emotions within our brain. A sexy voice can guide you to places in your mind that you never knew existed.
Our brain can’t tell the difference between reality or a vivid memory, that’s why erotic hypnosis can feel like a real ecstatic orgasm without being actually touched. Some people can easily fall into hypnosis just by listening to a pleasant voice.
If it’s erotic hypnosis, it can easily lead to a sexually freeing experience and a hands-free-orgasm.
(Remember ladies, everything happens up between your ears – all pleasure starts in the brain!)
An interesting fact about female orgasm:
Women can have at least five different types of orgasm!
“Five”? I’m fortunate if I have one.
“You meant three, right?” – reaction to my statement.
Well, it’s true that the female orgasm is more complex than men’s. However, it’s nothing to do with physical ability, more of that women need to feel completely relaxed, comfortable, safe and have some level of emotional stability and connection to herself or partner to reach an orgasm.
What are the five most common types of female orgasm out there:
1: Clitoris orgasm
Clitoris orgasm is the most common type of female orgasm. Most women can reach orgasm by rubbing the clitoris and the area around by her finger or using a vibrator on the clitoris. The clitoris has millions of little nerves running through. It is the super-sensitive “magic bottom” which by the right stimulation, can help women reach orgasms the easiest and fastest way.
2: Vaginal orgasms
Vaginal orgasms can be achieved by G-spot stimulation or having intercourse with your partner or using your favourite vibrator to pleasure your yoni. (yoni = vagina) Less sensitive for most women than the clitoris area. However, if you can have a vaginal orgasm, it’s a more intense orgasm. Men find this type of orgasm super sexy as they make your vaginal orgasms credited due to their “magic wand” and TLC abilities.
3: Joint orgasms
Joint orgasms are when more than one erogenous zone has been stimulated simultaneously for reaching orgasm. It can be the clitoris, vagina and anus area. The more stimulation it is, the better chance to have the best orgasm, and maybe even multiple orgasms.
4: Anal orgasms
For some women, it’s still a taboo area. No entry. No back door fun. It’s considered ‘something only bad girls do, or it’s for porn stars’. Today, there are hips of anal (starters) toy kits to start exploring. Give it a try, before quitting it. Make sure to lubricate and start with something small. Back door plays are the same as any sexual activity, the more you do it, the better you become. Practice makes perfect, be confident and with time it gets easier. However, it might not be your thing at all, so don’t force it on yourself. Anal sex has to be something both partners agree on and willing to explore (without fears)! Otherwise, you are set up for failure before you even started!
5: Hands-free orgasm
I am a firm believer that people’s biggest sex organ is the brain. The place where everything is related to everything. Good news guys, if you learn to communicate with the right vocal tone and use some seductive, hypnotic language, your lady will be on her knees with no time. Mastering hypnotic language will spice up your dating life.
Part 2 to follow…
Alexandra Holovitz is a tantric sex coach & hypnotherapist. She is known for her honest, passionate and authentic coaching style.
She works with high achieving men in their 40′ helping them to heal, express and empower thought tantra, mindset and self-compassion.
She believes in holistic healing (mind-body-soul) and by awakening sexual energy to thrive in life and business with deep connection, love and sexual liberation!
You can learn more about her work at www.alexandra.guru and connect with her via Instagram.
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