Many times, it is not what you say, but how you say it that matters. Mastering your voice will give you great success with women. Hypnotic language can help you make a connection with the ladies instantly. Pick and persuade them almost anything you like, communicate to them and make them feel you speak their language. Last, but not least, using hypnotic words can make you a better lover in bed. Saying a few sexy words during sex can help to reach the best orgasms for women (men too!).
What’s your ideal man in bed? – asked my friend the other day.
“I want someone who can “mindfuck me” while we are having sex. – she stated her desire.
What’s the “mindfuck” of the 21st century?
It’s an erotic hypnosis. During “hypo-sex” you can get completely relaxed, comfortable, open about your sexual desires, fantasies and communicate openly with your partner during sex – that’s why they often incorporate this into BDSM role-plays.
You can call upon a sex scene when you both are very aroused and have a memorable sexual experience. Remember: The brain can’t make a difference between reality or vivid memory pictures, especially when in an aroused state. Why not use this to your advantage?
Have you noticed within your relationship that saying certain things during sex can sexually trigger your partner’s mental and physical state? Maybe even get him/her to reach hypnosis orgasm instantly?
If you master erotic education and guidance before getting down to ‘business’, your partner can experience a hands-free orgasm (aka HFO) without you doing anything to them physically.
Example: You are having dinner at a fancy restaurant.
You can’t reach one another physically. You can start using seductive language in your conversations and watch what happens to her/him.
Example: Women in the bar, with two guys trying to chat her up. One has a great look, but unable to say much and there is another man who is not particularly her type, but somehow he always says the right things in the right time.
I’m sure you all think of a situation when you did not particularly fancy a guy, but something he was saying just magnified your brain and set on fire your mind and pussy. That’s what hands-free hypnosis does to you. Giving you a chance to open your thoughts for possibilities and experience a hand’s free orgasm without being touched. I know it sounds crazy, but once you experience it, you understand what I’m talking about.
You might not believe any of what you just read until (it’s okay, probably you have more left-brain thinking, more realistic) or might hear some negative rep when it comes to hypnosis.
We all use hypnosis on a daily basis for some extent.
You hypnotise yourself while reading a book, or watching a movie.
Best example: We regularly have been hypnotised by television commercials. It’s not by accident how all the ads follow each other in every single movie breaks. There are also suggestions which depend on how much your brain accepts them and you can take them on board.
Why not hands-free hypnotise yourself towards becoming a Sex Goddess/God in bed instead?
I would rather reach multiple hands-free orgasms than having another commercial suggesting to have a pill against a headache. By the way, hypnosis works well for pain-relieving (headaches) as well. Give it a try before claiming another “I have a headache” which can lead sexless nights and more ‘a headache’ for your man. Headaches caused by a long night out can be cured quickly by having morning sex. Hypnosis or regular orgasm helps to boost your blood flow and cleans your head for sure. Pandora tested 🙂
15 Easy Steps to Start Hands-Free Self-Hypnosis:
1: Find a comfortable space, where you won’t be disturb
2: Sit down and start focusing on your breath
3: Breathe in and out with same slow pacing
4: Start visualising a white light
5: Meditate on the light
6: Imagine the light running through your body, clearing space, healing your blockages
7: Make first positive suggestion (make it related on what you hypnotise yourself)
8: Start counting back 1,2,3
9: Tell yourself to breathe deeper and go deeper
10: Make a 2nd positive suggestion
11: Start counting 4,5,6
12: Suggest you go deeper and more relaxed
13: Make the 3rd positive suggestion
14: Count down 7,8,9
15: By the time I reach 10, I will open my eyes and feel XYZ ( put what you like to experience)
You can guide yourself or your partner through erotic hypnosis as foreplay.
Create a “magic word” that you will use during the count downs.
A magic word can be “sexy”, “pleasure” “surrender” whatever you want to experience and whatever words you can relate to.
This magic word will be the power switch during the hypnosis suggestions to help you get into a trance state where suggestion can work best.
Example:
I’m walking across the bedroom. Look at him while he lays on the bed and “I feel sexy and surrender to pleasure” – Repeat this statement three times during your self-hypnosis and next time, watch what happens when you are activating the state. You can easily slip in and out of hypnotic states – all you need to do is just tap it into your fingertips. While you make suggestions to anchor, it snaps your fingers. Next time, when you snap your fingers, you can instantly feel that state of sexy, powerful women. If you are planning to do hypnosis on yourself for multiple things, just tap states in various places on the body, so your brain doesn’t get confused.
A client of mine wanted to reach an orgasm whenever she would touch or rub her left elbow.
As her hypnotist, I guided her through the relaxation process. Helped her visualise a sexual play earlier when she reached the best orgasm by rubbing her clitoris.
Once we had the memory, I supported her to get into a profound and relaxed state through breathing and connecting with the sensation of orgasm. Giving her positive suggestions about how sensitive her left elbow was. Encouraged her to feel again the orgasmic state. Redirect her focus on how she would feel when next, she would touch her elbows with the same circular motions as she touched her clit. Hypnotiser asked her to touch her left elbow as she would touch her clit then guided her into a deeper trance. When I snap my fingers and give permission to have the clitoris orgasm, it has been tapped into her elbow now. Ever since, when she is nervous or wanting to have a quicky with herself, she told me, she just touches her left elbow and feels the similar excitement as she would play with her clitoris.
I find it fascinating of the power of the brain and what can be achieved if we set our intention on it.
Rubbing your elbow and having an orgasm?
Incredible. Hypnosis orgasm are limitless! (be bold and let your fantasies come true!)
Most people only use three per cent of their brain. Imagine the possibilities once you master your mind and are able to give some positive suggestion to it, what can happen? Maybe you will be just like my friend who now can reach her best orgasm type pretty much anytime anywhere. A huge mood booster in a dragging office day!
A male client reported reaching multiple orgasms just by listening to a prerecorded Hypno-audio
“As I closed my eyes and listen to your sexy voice, I felt my entire body sink deeper into the mattress as I let go of control. A similar feeling when I practice meditation, but much deeper. I felt quickly relaxed and in total ease. Felt: reassuring, calm, peaceful to be there. Somehow a familiar feeling, similar when your lover holds you, yeah I felt safe. Went dropped deeper into a trance, I stopped thinking and just felt tingling in my body as your voice seduced me deeper and deeper. Then felt pulsating in my cock. My mind was alert for a moment: Omg, what is happening? Then I let go and felt deep craving wanting to touch myself…. but keep my hands away, grabbing the sheets, trying just to let go whatever my brain can process at this stage and let her voice guide me through this beautiful almost out of body experience. My entire body is shaking, jumping up and down on the bed, felt warm and sweat run down on my cheek through my breast. My soul felt free, my heart opened it was a sensation like I can fly. Floating. I feel joyous; a feeling came to me that I made a connection with the divine around and within me. Almost like being in love.
When you suggested: “Ride that pleasure wave”.
I breakthrough and BANG, my whole body started climaxing and holly f*** I reached orgasm, multiple ones. It wasn’t just an orgasm. It was some earth-shattering magical hands-free orgasm; all sprang from my brain. Crazy, but it did work 🙂 Thank you, thank you, Alexandra, for this remarkable recording and healing pleasure.
I’m sure we will be back for some more.
Are you interested in try hypnosis or Hypno-sex?
You can listen to this ORGASMIC body scan recording to get a teaser of what it’s like to surrender to pleasure by my voice.
I hope you found this article interesting enough to give it a try and embark erotic hypnosis, Hypno-sex journey.
You can try self-hypnosis or reach out to me to get hypnotized.
Feel free to share your HFO journey.
Choose a “magic word” that can trigger your sexuality instantly for an ecstatic state and multiple orgasms.
Ps: Don’t get disappointed, if you don’t succeed for the first time.
I practice guided meditations daily; it does take some time to be able to get into and out of trance easily.
Just be willing, open and curious to explore!
Have an orgasmic day!
Hypnotic Hello my loves,
Alexandra
Alexandra Holovitz is a tantric sex coach & hypnotherapist. She is known for her honest, passionate and authentic coaching style.
She works with high achieving men in their 40′ helping them to heal, express and empower thought tantra, mindset and self-compassion.
She believes in holistic healing (mind-body-soul) and by awakening sexual energy to thrive in life and business with deep connection, love and sexual liberation!
You can learn more about her work at www.alexandra.guru and connect with her via Instagram.
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