Connect with us
Shop Megan Fox's Favorite Lingerie at Frederick's of Hollywood

Sexual Healing Beyond Sex

Sex Ed

Sexual Healing Beyond Sex

Sex to me, is more spiritual than anything. Sex is an entity that people are afraid of because its forces are so powerful it allows people to step out of their comfort zone… but people are afraid to be uncomfortable.

Is It A Misconception That Men Visit Escorts Just For Sex?

Yes, society (the masses) do have that misconception, because people think men only want sex.

Nope, they want to be listened to, they want attention too, they want to vent, and sometimes just laugh and relax…

One Reason Men Visit Escorts

A lot of men want a break from their reality while still enjoying themselves by indulging in fantasy .

Why Are Sex Workers Healers Beyond Sex?

It is literally our job to not discriminate against others (unless they are trying to cause non-consensual harm to us), but because we meet all of our guests and clientele with love and respect despite how they look – that can do so much for a person’s self esteem.

We’ve been making people feel good by being vulnerable with them since the beginning of time.  The fact that we, as whores have been through so much – yet can make others feel good despite our own pain says we are Healers On Earth aka HOEs!

What I’ve Gained & Experienced

What I’ve gained is patience and understanding. I also learned about boundaries, because if you don’t know what your limits are, people will keep trying to push you.

What I Wish Would Change About Sex Work

I wish more women were at the top. Like more women porn producers. More women club owners. Sex workers need their own union, because safety is usually at risk due to people’s lack of respect for us and the work we do. I hope that we can take the shame out of this work…


Destiny Love – aka The Confident Hoe. I am a young single mother, a proud whore, SLUTivist (I speak out against the misconceptions of this lifestyle and teach people about the impacts of slut shaming). I love to read, write, study, listen to music and fantasize.

My goal is to touch hearts, heal souls, repair what is broken and learn love for what it is truly… all through sex work.

Follow Destiny Love on

Instagram: @TheConfidentHoe / @ConfidentHoeSociety

Facebook: facebook.com/therealdestinylove and

YouTube: The Confident Hoe

Website: ConfidentHoe.com (merchandise only)

My book “How To Be A Confident Hoe … Because Slut Shaming Is Over” also available on Amazon.com

I was also featured on Viceland’s TV network series: Hate Thy Neighbor – Different Sides of Feminism when I was at Amber Rose’s SlutWalk as a participant in 2017. In 2018 I was there as a vendor selling my book and other merchandise.

You can catch me at the train stations advocating about the impacts of slut shaming while passing out informational brochures on this topic. I speak at events in different boroughs of NYC, I will also begin to speak at schools such as colleges, Universities, and even high schools about this very important topic – slut shaming.


Article images courtesy of Destiny Love, featured image from Shutterstock

Like to be featured on SimplySxy? Drop us an email at editorial@SimplySxy.com!

Destiny Love

My name is Destiny Love aka The Confident Hoe. I am a young single mother, a proud whore, SLUTivist (I speak out against the misconceptions of this lifestyle and teach people about the impacts of slut shaming). I love to read, write, study, listen to music and fantasize.

Comments

More in Sex Ed

To Top