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How to Have a Threesome That’s Actually Good
For the most part, threesomes are something of a gray area of discussion – many desire it, but only a few actually do it. This is because fantasies aside, threesomes can be very tricky to pull off. Even more so if you don’t understand the basics of setting up an actually good threesome.

Apart from ensuring your partner is totally into it, you must also find the perfect third person. If you thought finding the perfect partner as a single person was hard, try finding one as a couple!

If you’ve fancied a threesome experience for a while, then it’s a good thing you’re here. This article will explain the basics of setting up a successful and exciting threesome experience.

What is a Threesome?

A threesome (ménage à trois in French) is a form of group dating that involves sexual activity between three consenting adults, unlike traditional two-way dates. Threesome dating often occurs with a couple looking for a third person to add to their sexual lives. This person is called a unicorn and can be of any gender or sexual orientation.

Why have a threesome?

The biggest reason people engage in threesomes is to fulfill their sexual fantasies. Some couples look to threesomes to spice up their sexual lives or gift their partners something special.

Whatever the reason, it is important not to find a threesome in order to distract from problems in your relationship.

Any communication or sexual problems you may have with your partner will only worsen if you add another person to your sex life. This is why you should always avoid planning a threesome as a bandage for your relationship issues.

How to set up a threesome

When you’re ready to go down the threesome lane, here are some basic steps which can guarantee you’ll achieve the best results:

Communicate with your partner first.

Trust me, you can’t do enough of this. Getting into a tinder for threesome or swinging may be an aspect of sex your partner might not be ready to explore yet. Or perhaps they are, but they need some convincing, which is up to you to provide, but gently. It’s possible that your partner will initially feel intimidated or jealous when you propose the idea of threesome dating.

Keep your cool and describe your reasons for wanting a threesome. You’ll want to talk about the sexy aspects of having a threesome and let your partner know that you’re not interested in it because of any inadequacy on their part.

Also, do not try to push your partner into it. Even if they seem cool with the idea, allow enough time to be certain they’re totally on board. A threesome can change the entire landscape of a relationship. Don’t jump headlong into it without discussing it first with your partner. If your partner doesn’t seem cool with it, it’s okay. You can always try again or gradually talk them up to it. Remember, no pressure.

Set clear boundaries

This is the “lay up ground rules” stage. When you’re sure your partner is on board with the whole idea, the next thing to do is establish the extent of your relationship you are willing to share with the third person. Common questions you should ask yourself are;
1. What type of person are we looking for? Male or Female? Friend or stranger?
2. Is it just for the sex? Or do we want to include this person in other aspects of our lives?
3. What do we do if one of us gets uneasy or jealous during the threesome?
4. How do we ensure neither party feels let out?
5. After the threesome, what next? Does this become a regular occurrence? Do we introduce the person into our personal space and lives? Must we always hang out together?
In answering these questions, however uncomfortable they might be, you both are establishing ground rules for your three-way relationship. And honestly, the quality of your threesome relationship is always much better when you can reach an agreement on things like this.

Make a sex-acts checklist and visualize it together.

As a couple looking for threesome partner, it’s always a good idea through swinger sites to create a sex-act checklist. This would contain a list of sexual acts permitted with your partner. What activities would we engage in together? What activities are off-limits? Some couples are okay having sex with a stranger swinger, but not kissing; some with a level of voyeurism but no penetration.

You both want to be very clear on what’s off (and on) the table during sexual activities. As you discuss this, fantasize about every situation. Studies have shown that discussing these scenarios in bed can be a huge turn-on, and it further helps convince you that you’re ready to try it out. Clear-cut intimacy boundaries make it an emotionally safe experience for all parties involved.

Finding the right partner

Now, to the crux of it. Like regular two-way relationships, the most important aspect of setting up a threesome relationship is finding the right third. Not only do you have to find the type of person you’re looking for, but they also have to want you and be enthusiastic about a relationship with you. Sounds challenging, right? Not so much if you know where and how to look. Here are our suggestions.

Use dating apps and sites.

In this predominantly digital age, the easiest way to find a unicorn looking for couple is through threesome dating apps and sites, such as Feeld.co, Findyourthreesome.com, ThreesomeFriendFinder.com, etc., are just a few dating apps geared towards three-way relationships.

Try out bars.

Yes! Try out the traditional way of meeting and picking people up. Go to a bar with your partner. Put out feelers for what you want. You’d be surprised there are cool people interested in it too.

Attend sex parties.

There are cool and well-coordinated sex parties where you can meet people like you with different sexual orientations. One of them could be your third! Finding the ideal person to improve your sex life may take some time. But if you keep putting yourself out there, you will eventually succeed.

Setting up a successful threesome…

Setting up a successful threesome can appear daunting at first. However, carrying your partner along and discussing every step of the way can make the entire process easy and stress-free. We hope these tips have placed you well on your way to spicing up your relationship with an awesome threesome.

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December 9, 2022
How To Have A Good All Female Threesome

I like threesomes! Of course, there needs to be chemistry and cooperation, but they are really fun when they work out.

How Does An All Female Threesome Feel?

In my personal experience, there is less of a central focus on one person in an all female threesome. In MFF or MMF threesomes, where the people involved are straight, the focus tends to be mostly on the one man or one woman in each respective group. In an all female scenario however, everyone is attracted to each other so the focus is divided more equally.

Why I Love It

All female threesomes feel less ‘goal oriented,’ which I really love. In a sexual scenario with a man (cis men in particular), the sex seems to revolve around making him cum, and the sex often ends after his orgasm. Threesomes just with women don’t have such distinct end points and orgasms often don’t feel like ‘goals,’ but just bonuses 😉

Favorite Positions & Activities To Do

I shot a threesome with Jay Taylor and Serena Blair once where Serena put me in a chokehold with her legs while Jay rubbed my clit until I came and it is one of the hottest things that has ever happened to me, so maybe that position!

Other than that, I love positions that are comfortable, like laying on your back or side. In porn, we often do a lot of crazy positions to get good shots of the sex, but they’re not always practical for real life.

Do’s & Don’ts To Follow

This goes for any sexual experience, but consent and communication are the number one most important thing. Check in with your partners throughout the threesome, and ask for consent before trying something new.

Communicating what you like sexually will also help you achieve more and better orgasms!

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November 27, 2020
How To Enjoy A MMF Threesome

I love sex! I’m one of those people that has always had the sex drive of a horny teenage boy… I haven’t figured out if it’s a blessing or a curse yet. I mean there could be worse things.

Remembering My First Experience

That’s a hard one, I lost my virginity at a young age and from there started exploring everything I could. I just wanted to try everything. One time that sticks in my mind was when I was at a house party for this mutual friend’s birthday. I took a boy I liked into the bathroom to hookup, it was going great, then his friend comes and knocks on the door saying he has to pee so we let him in. After he pees, instead of letting that ruin the moment, I just started making out with him too. I don’t know how we managed to have a threesome in this tiny bathroom but we did!

Why I Love MMF Threesomes

I love dick. Two is always better than one, it also feels like you’re the complete center of attention which is really empowering. I also really love making people orgasm and cum everywhere. It’s always a great feeling to please someone and be pleased at the same time.

What My Role Entails

There’s the obvious; Blowjobs, ball sucking, fucking in different positions. But it depends on the men. I’ve been in ones where the men are straight and bisexual.

MMF threesomes are a lot of work for the girl, I’m not going to lie. It’s playing with two men at once but a lot of the times you’re in a position where the movements from one guy helps with what you’re doing to the other one. If the men are also into each other, then that can be so much and open up more positions and things you can all do to have fun with each other.

Favorite Positions & Acts

I just did my first D.V. (double vag) and that was amazing! I definitely recommend at least trying it once. I love anal so DP is right up my alley, spit roasting, making everything really sloppy and messy.

Almost any normal position can work, you just add a dick in your mouth. When doing D.V., D.P., or even D.A (double anal) you’re a little more limited. Riding one and having the other behind you is a good go to. There’s more bodies in a small space so get creative, and don’t be afraid to experiment.

Tips For Ladies Experiencing MMF Threesomes For The First Time

Don’t be so serious, have fun! Make some jokes, just be you and relax. Like any other sex, make sure you communicate what feels good, and what doesn’t, don’t be afraid to move around and try a bunch of different things.

Just because there are two dicks doesn’t mean you have to do anal. If you know you’re not comfortable with something, don’t do or feel obligated.

Lube, lube, lube! There is no such thing as too much lube. Pick people you trust and feel safe around. That will help your nerves. And don’t put so much pressure on the situation, go with the flow and see what happens. You’ll never know if you like something if you don’t try.

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November 3, 2020
How To Enjoy A MFF Threesome

I personally love threesomes WHEN they’re done correctly and all parties are into it. Often times, threesomes are typically displayed as mainly a fantasy of men. Therefore, the man tends to be the main focus and the women do not fully enjoy themselves.

BUT when all parties are excited and genuinely into each other, they can truly be something amazing.

Why Are MFF Threesomes Awesome?

Have you ever had two tongues on your dick? A man sort of gets the best of both worlds. I feel like it can almost be like an interactive porn for men. You’re watching these great women together and then get to join as well. Also, seeing two women enjoy each other while enjoying you, it’s making me hot just talking about it haha.

The Importance Of Choosing The Right Person

That is the most important part. I’ve been involved in a threesome where the chemistry wasn’t the best. It certainly has to be a moment that everyone is into. I recently had one that was simply fantastic. We were all in sync and really into getting our pleasure and it was simply amazing. It went on for hours and everyone was in bliss. Also, I think being too choosy can be an issue. It’s much better as you just let it flow.

Rules To Establish For A Threesome

If that’s the type of couple you are, then yes I certainly think you should have rules. But to me personally, I think it can sort of tame down the experience. Saying who can touch who where and what can be put where, just no.

If you don’t have full comfort and trust in your partner, making rules will only produce a very blah experience.

Ways To Set The Mood

If the chemistry is there, then much prep isn’t needed. Everyone should be completely relaxed and extremely turned on of course.

How To Make The Threesome Successful

Every man for himself haha. But really, you’re getting the best of both worlds with two people you’re extremely attracted to. If you need much prep or specifics to get satisfied, you may have more issues than the threesome haha.

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October 28, 2019
Things To Consider Before You Agree To A Threesome

Having multiple sexual partners is a topic commonly frowned upon for its lousy image, which involves sexually-transmitted diseases, issues of infidelity, and to those who are adventurous, a case of promiscuity and debauchery. Society’s conservative view about intimacy is such that the idea of being in a sexual relationship with more than a single person, such as a threesome, makes for a taboo that scares many people to experiment and break from the usual.

But does having a threesome warrant all the negativity it incurs from the eyes of the public? Or is it such a natural thing that is worth considering at least once in a person’s lifetime?

If you are curious and are contemplating in engaging in a steamy act with at least two persons in bed, whether it be MFM or FMF, here are things you should consider before jumping in for a threesome:

It’s Only Awkward at First and Subsequently Gets Better

Like many things that are new to one’s experience, being engaged in sexual activity with two other people is initially rife with uncertainties and confusion, which could make an otherwise impulsive act seem calculative and unnatural. This is entirely okay as half of the fun about going into a threesome is being a spectator, not an active participant—at least, not initially. Do not expect yourself to be entirely given into the act from the start if you do not feel like it. But once you have built your momentum and begin to get into it, things subsequently become more natural.

Expect to Have Some Laughs and Giggles

You might be hard-pressed to think that all threesomes are serious, rooted in either lust or intimacy. However, there is humor in sometimes finding yourself in an awkward position while playing along with the physics that is taking place involving the bodies of your two other partners. The idea may not necessarily be “sexy” per se, but it adds to the overall amusement and, to some, even play a role in easing out tension.

You Can Do It with Friends

If you are only experimenting, going for a threesome may seem more relaxed with strangers with whom you had a chance encounter. While this idea may work if you are simply into casual sex, others find more comfort and excitement in doing it with people with whom they have emotional connections, like close friends.

Of course, not everyone you call friends may necessarily be into the same quirk. But if you happen to have a few who are, then you hit the jackpot. Consequently, it just boils down to knowing how to invite friends to a threesome, such as with the use of sex dating apps.

It Does Not Necessarily Ruin Friendships

Inasmuch as the act of getting into a threesome is consented, the fact that engaging in a steamy relationship with two of your friends at the same time can adversely affect the relationship afterward. You can let the encounter be the destruction of your friendship, or you can all just forget that it happened and never make a follow-up for the same act again, like a one-time fling.

It’s Not about You Versus Another

Yes, the act of having sex with at least two persons can sometimes be an imbalanced thing that you might find yourself having less time in the act than your fellow like-gender partner, which is especially true in an FMF threesome. But do not feel “left out” in the instance that things got way too steamy for the other two and less with you. Things have a way of equaling the odds eventually. Just remember that a threesome does happen with divided attention for everybody, often unequally.

Communication is Key

For something as consensual as a threesome, there must be communication before and after the act. Again, this draws from the fact that some are more comfortable establishing emotional connections first and possibly clearing away any potential obstruction before the action. Post-sex, a conversation plays an essential role in affirming the relationship, be it merely casual or otherwise.

Closing Statements

The idea of a threesome is not necessarily a subject anyone can quickly get into, given the prevailing notions that surround it. But if your curiosity is getting the best of you and that acting against the thought of not checking it out yourself becomes an issue, why not give it a try while employing all the pointers mentioned here for their insights? Consider the things in this article and you might find yourself surprised by this whole new experience.

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October 26, 2019
Is Tinder Threesome Friendly? How To Find Couple Threesome Thing

Many have often questioned whether tinder is threesome friendly? Actually, there is no need to find out the answer. There are certain sites that designed exactly for this kind couple threesome thing. People on those sites are looking for the same as you do. No matter you are a single looking for a couple or you are a couple looking for the third, you will always get what you want. And with that said, SLSswing is one of those typical sites where you can find couples for a threesome experience. The quest for sexual exploration even for the married couples finds its epitome on this site where both married and singles alike are matched with others looking for a threesome.

How To Get Started

Start by signing up for a free account on the swinger dating site and you are set for a great experience ahead. The site requires one to be of mature age to have sexual consent which is above the age of 18. The other bit since an account belongs to a single user, you have to specify your gender and what you are seeking on the site, is it a man, a woman or another couple?

As a couple, you can sign up one or two different accounts each bearing one person’s details like age, gender and whatever you are seeking. In the case that you are looking for another couple or you are matched up, you can now go ahead and explain to your match that you doing this as a couple. Then, together as a couple you take over the chat and find the most appealing match to both of you and plan a date.

SLSswing uses the information given at the signing up to create a match for you. By comparing the information and even the location of the other user a match is created. On whenever both of you swipe right on each other’s profile then, you can carry on with some private chats and webcams.

What You Should Know About SLSswing And Why You Should Give It A Try

The site is basically the best and it does not only boast of some sleek features but it has actually had tremendous testimonials of satisfied customers. It encourages the exploration of our carnal abilities even when in the marriage institution. Finding a threesome as a couple is not just about the sex but it more to do with creating the thrill and uncertainty that is present during dating.

Many have argued about these acts of pure debauchery and its effects on the whole relationship ties but couples who have tried it have different views. However, it is more common in open relationship and has seen some level of success even in married couples. This happens mostly when it’s between two married couples such that none feels offended.

By signing up and having a clear description of what you seeking you stand to be overwhelmed by the many likeminded individuals ready for you. SLSswing takes away the bustles and hustles of hitting all the clubs and to find willing couples to engage in a threesome. By creating a pool and match them up to their best of similarities helps create the most successful matches in the couples’s hookup world.

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January 29, 2019
Advantages of Having An Escort For Your Threesome

I’m actually bi-sexual so I enjoy threesomes and believe they can be fun and sexually gratifying. However there are several elements that need to be ‘just so’, otherwise one can go from a threesome fantasy to an absolute disaster.

Frequency Of Threesome Bookings

I probably get about 2-4 per year from hetero couples and about 1-2 every month from single men wanting me to bring a girlfriend. They are certainly desired by practically most men, however, in “hetero couple” situations, you might have a spouse/girlfriend that isn’t thrilled about it.

Advantages For A Couple To Choose An Escort

It’s simple; if you need something done right, you hire a professional. Just like you would go to a doctor if you feel sick instead of trying to treat yourself. You would hire a handyman to fix things around your house instead of attempting to do it yourself and risking creating a much bigger problem. A couple is better off hiring a professional if they want a guaranteed wonderful experience. I can’t tell you how many couples have called me after trying to facilitate a threesome on their own with abysmal results!

They think they can pick up a stripper (who just takes their money and promises to meet them after work but never shows) or a random girl at the bar (who might not be emotionally stable to handle a threesome, or has never been in one before), but they never succeed and end up wasting so much money, when they could have hired a companion like myself in the first place. We are open-minded, easy going, and loads of fun. Not to mention that our business is to make people feel special, so you can expect to have a more intimate experience because that is our job.

Rules Every Couple Must First Set

Most definitely! First and foremost, both parties should be completely honest with each other. Ladies, do not agree to a threesome if you feel uncomfortable about it in anyway. There is nothing wrong with you if you don’t want a threesome and are not attracted to women. Doing it to please your partner is going to show and it makes for a very uncomfortable experience. I’ve been in situations like this before and it was very awkward. I actually talk about it on my podcast – The Sexy Escort Guide (www.thesexyescortguide.com).

If both parties are absolutely certain that they want to experience a threesome together, then you should talk about it openly and set ground rules on how you want your partner to interact with the person you are bringing into your relationship. Gentlemen, let your lady pick the third (be open to the fact that she might want a man instead of a woman). Communication is very important here; the more open with each other about your feelings during the entire process, the more likely you will have a wonderful experience.

Tips For A Successful Threesome Experience

1. Hire a professional

2. Be respectful of your companion and follow her rules for booking. Be prepared to be screened and vetted, as no companion will agree to meet you until you have given her your details and she feels comfortable meeting you. Once the screening is out of the way, prepare to have a wonderful time.

3. Plan for a dinner date with the three of you, this helps break the ice and build rapport. Foreplay is extremely important in creating chemistry

4. Let go and have fun! Life is short; so once you’ve decided to experience a threesome, make sure you do it to the fullest!

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July 2, 2018
How To Have A Great Threesome Experience

I’m very open minded about sex, as long as it’s consensual and enjoyable for all involved. Sex should be in the moment. I love everything about it, the smell on your body afterwards, the passion, taste and feel. As long as you engage a women’s mind, then it will be fantastic, after all the mind is the biggest sexual organ. I have experienced and crossed off most items off my sexual bucket list but now as a sex worker, I’m privileged to help my clients fulfill fantasies and experience things on their sexual bucket list. I’m bisexual, I’m lucky to play with women and couples all the time with many coming back for more, making fantasies a reality, is my favourite type of playdate.

How My Interest In Threesomes Developed

I’ve always been attracted to females and obsessed with girl on girl action after watching my first porno at the age of 19 and newly married. Later on in my marriage, we tried to find a female to join us, without much luck. On a night out and being a little drunk, I agreed to experience my first threesome and we decided to visit a Melbourne brothel, The Boardroom. It was so good and I wanted more, so we went back not long after to experience it again. This time, it was amazing because the female SW who joined us was hot, with curves and natural big tits and brunette. I felt that she was basically into me and afterwards I fell hard in lust.

We tried on adult sites to find a unicorn (single female) to join us without luck and so with encouragement from my husband, we decided to try a MFM threesome, which was so much easier to achieve. Our first experience was on my birthday and we arranged two encounters for the evening. It was mind blowing and left me in an euphoric state the next few days definitely wanting more.

The Appeal Of Threesomes

The allure is that you see in porn and it looks good, it turns you on and it becomes something you must try. People act on it when they find a like minded partner that is open minded to the idea and willing to explore.

I love group sex, I’m actually a swinger so I enjoy having multiple partners to please and being pleased by more than one partner too. Also love being able to fulfill a fantasy and when I join a couple, I see myself as a sex toy, and when I leave you’re left to relive the experience together in that euphoric state. I’m a pleaser and bringing joy is the best part of my job.

First Time Threesome Tips

Threesomes are fantastic but you need the right person to experience it with. I’ve had good, okay and bad experiences, and it does come down being with the right partner to experience it with. Having an open mind, knowing what your boundaries are as a couple is important, also viewing the act in the moment and not overanalysing or overthinking it later. If you’re not both on the same page going into a threesome, then it may end badly with someone getting jealous and it could be the end of the relationship. That’s something I’ve experienced as a couple and it inevitably contributed to the end of my marriage.

Communication is the key, so make sure you have open discussions about what would turn you on to see, if you would be comfortable seeing your partner fucking/kissing/sucking someone else, and be honest with your partner. A threesome can actually bring you closer, give you a newer level of intimacy but only if you have open communication about your wants, desires, do’s and don’t right from the start. Once you have these boundaries and understanding, make sure you let the other person joining know exactly what these are, so on the day it’s an amazing experience for all involved.

Rules To Follow

The rules are really the boundaries that you may have in place as a couple, make sure you are considerate of your partner and stick to these boundaries in the moment. Also having a safe word that you agreed on that you can let your partner know when you’re not comfortable with what’s happening is a good idea too. Other than that, just try to be in the moment, enjoy it for what it is.

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December 6, 2017
Why Couples Should Choose An Escort For Their First Threesome

I find, personally, threesomes need to be carefully cultivated. You need to figure out you and your partner’s level of comfort – for example, do both of you have your eye on a particular friend? Is this a friendship you trust? Can you handle seeing that same person again afterwards? And on the flipside – would you both prefer a stranger? Are you willing to take that risk? How are you going to go about meeting her? Tinder? A bar? The club? A vacation? I would think there’s a lot more to discuss about a threesome prior to actually initiating it, less you wind up in a devastating blow-up from poor planning. A threesome should be a fun, erotic adventure for the two of you – and absolutely not something that could come back to haunt either of you. So essentially I think like with anything in life, they come at a risk – and a great payout.

Should Couples Try A Threesome At Least Once?

I wouldn’t actually say they had to. This may not sound interesting to some people. For some – a tangled mess of bodies, writhing, moaning, delighted with each other, is a dream. For others, flip it, and it’s a tangled mess of bodies, rubbing the wrong things, getting in the way, sweating on their clean sheets. Nightmare. I think if it’s a scenario both couples want, they should try it… exploring your sexual side is always exciting. But if you don’t want it, don’t force the situation, it’ll just be hell on everyone involved. There are other fun things to explore, anyways.

Benefits Of Engaging An Escort

I think hiring an escort for your first threesome (especially if you intend to have many more than just one) is a great idea. These girls are professionals. They know what they’re doing, and they’re guaranteed comfortable and confident in their own bodies. There’s no elaborate seduction (unless you ask for that scene!) and everything can go to your plan. When you hire an escort, they are there to please you. There’s no intense romantic emotions tied in, no risk of day-after talks about unwanted feelings, and I stress the romantic emotions as of course your escort will be enjoying herself and very much into the two of you, just no worries about any disturbance afterwards or during. As well – an escort could offer many other things you want in a session, a specific outfit, a roleplay idea… etc, that you may feel uncomfortable asking a civilian girl you met at a bar. These types of encounters are carefully controlled, safe, and most important of all – very exciting.

How To Ensure Everyone Gets Equal Action

Ask. I always ask what someone wants to do. That’s the easiest way. If say, I’ve been with the girl too long and he’s been sitting there – you can easily say ‘Do you want to -do X thing- too?’, and bam, no more outsider. And you really just have to pay attention to both parties – make sure one isn’t just watching (unless they want to) and always try and pull them in. Just make sure hands are everywhere, all the time. Haha.

Rules & Etiquette To Follow

I couldn’t give you a direct list, but always listen to any restrictions (physical or otherwise) that either party has laid out in advance. You don’t want the threesome stopped because someone kissed or penetrated somewhere they shouldn’t have – what an uncomfortable, awkward experience. And as always, always use protection with someone new.

Daisy Mae – Ottawa-based independent escort. Currently busy re-creating Noah’s Ark, traveling, immersing myself in artistic endeavors, and sucking dick to a prestigious degree. Tacky romance novels are my secret sin.

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October 4, 2017
Why You Should Book An Escort For Your Couple Threesome

I get the greatest sexual pleasure from the intimacy and passion within which sex is experienced. From the moment I walk through your door, catching a glimpse of you undressing me with your eyes, I get butterflies knowing how much you want to devour me. As I sit down with you, my heart skips a beat as you reach for my hand and give me a cheeky little kiss. I grow closer to you as we discuss topics dear to both our hearts. I let you stimulate my most powerful sexual organ – my mind. This is where sex begins for me.

Sexual acts only come in to complete the picture, but are hardly the centre of the experience. I can tell you which position will make me orgasm the quickest, but will always ensure that you know it is never the end goal. Well, not mine anyway. What matters to me most, if you want to please me, is the quality of our time together, the connection we share and the passion we enthral ourselves in (and just so you know, these intensify my orgasms).

Chances are we will share a precious few hours together and days, weeks or months will pass until we see each other again. In between these times, while I will remember you for how much pleasure you have given me, what truly leaves an imprint in my heart is the person that you are and the way you make me feel.

Why I Love Couple Sessions

As a lover of men and women, I adore couple sessions. With men, I love feeling feminine and vulnerable in their presence. From their strong embraces and masculine touches, I delight in sexual energy. With women, I relish the sensual and visual of the feminine form, the emotional closeness and special female bond. Couple bookings give me an opportunity to experience the best of both worlds and I am always almost too excited when I receive an enquiry for one!

My interest in joining couples started before I became an escort. It was one of the things that I had wanted to try since the day I knew I was bisexual. But it had taken me a long time before I finally met a couple where both people were attracted to me and whom I feel comfortable with. My first couple play turned out to be all that I had dreamed of. He knew how to multitask (gentlemen, take note!) and she was the most delicious thing that certainly knew her way around the female body. I was spoilt rotten from the very start.

As both of them were keeping me busy, I lost count of how many orgasms she and I had in that long lustful session (and he swore he was the luckiest man alive). Since that day I have joined many more couples in my personal life as well as professionally as an escort. What I enjoy most in couple bookings is being able to help partners share an adventurous sexual experience of a threesome, knowing that I have added a little spice to their relationship and made their life just a little richer.

Why Should Every Couple Try A Threesome With An Escort

The theory is that female sexuality is more fluid than that of male’s (I am not going to bore you with the details but if you are interested here is one of the many studies on the topic http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/brv.12278/abstract). In short, women are rarely strictly heterosexual. When it comes to what turns them on, women are either bisexual or gay. Their sexual preferences tend to be a grey area rather than black and white. So even though women say they are straight, they may sometimes be attracted to beautiful women.

This is often the experience I share with the female part of many couples I have come to know. Many women in heterosexual relationships craves a woman’s touch and are excited at the thought of being sexual with another woman. Inviting a second lady into your bedroom (with your partner’s consent, of course) is a great way to allow her to explore her sexuality in a safe environment. However, having spent considerable time in the swinging scene (please don’t judge) I can tell you that it is nearly impossible to find genuinely bisexual, sexually liberated, willing AND attractive single females to join you for a threesome because they are highly sought after by couples like yourselves, plus all the men in this world. This is why they are often referred to as the “unicorns” in the swinging/polyamory community because it is so rare to find one in the real world, almost as if they are a mystical creature!

Most unicorns will realise at some point how valuable they are and turn professional (like yours truly). Hiring a professional is therefore much easier. Because there are so many of us, you will have a privilege to choose one that tickles both of your fantasies, plus a sex worker that is experienced in couple bookings can guide you into the direction that will yield the most satisfying result for you both, especially if it is your first time.

Less common in my experience is one partner gets involved only to please the other partner and that is fine, as long as you do not feel pressured into it but please take precautions that I will discuss in the next section. Keep in mind that booking an escort to join you and your partner in the bedroom means that you are allowing someone else to enter into the sacred and a very intimate space between you two. It can therefore evoke some strong emotions and is something I will recommend only if you have considered and discussed in length with your partner.

Do’s & Don’ts When Booking A Session

As I have been on both sides of the equation, I can give a little advice for any couples who are looking to enrich their relationships with the help of a professional escort.

DO’s

Do know why you are doing this for. Is it for her to explore her bi-curiosity? Or she is fully bisexual and craves a woman’s touch once in a while? Is it for him to realise his fantasy? Or you are trialling the idea to see if it can spice up your sex life? There are various reasons why a couple may seek to book an escort for a threesome and these different reasons should guide how you and your escort tailor the experience to be satisfying for both of you.

Do know your boundaries and talk it out with your escort. Often the boundaries you set will be linked to the reason why you are doing this in the first place. As a professional unicorn, I often find that different couples have different levels of comfort. For a total satisfaction for both female and male of the couple, I recommend that you find out among yourselves where your comfort level lies. It is important to go at the pace you are both comfortable with, no need to be too brave especially if it is your first time. For example, if you are doing this for her to explore her bi-curiosity, you may agree to a full lesbian play between the females and only foreplay between the male and the escort. See how you go and decide if you want to go further next time. No one should be pushing anyone to do what they are not comfortable with

Do observe how your partner is feeling at all times because they should come first if you care about your relationship. If at any point you notice that your partner is being consumed by jealousy, stop what you are doing and attend to their feelings. Any professional experienced with couples would understand when this happens and it does more than you may think. You may have discussed the idea with your partner plenty of times before actually taking the plunge, but the reality might be very different from what you expected. Keep in mind that you are entering a territory where logic does not apply. So even if you think you are above jealousy, you may not be and that is absolutely fine (because hey, love isn’t rational anyway!) This will be the opportunity to acknowledge that your relationship may not be ready for this just yet and remember that most relationships will never get there and that is fine. There are plenty of fun things to do sexually. If you still want to explore threesomes, discuss the problem in length with your partner, increase your boundaries, start from tiny baby step (how about starting with you two ladies play while your man watch and he is allowed to touch only if you feel like it? I’m sure he doesn’t mind that)

DON’Ts

Do not do this just to please your partner when you are not into it yourself. Likewise, do not push your partner into this if you feel it will only be for your pleasure. Remember, threesomes should be all about enhancing your relationship and reinforcing your connection, so the motivation to do this should come from both of you. If only one of you is keen on the idea, it is time to re-evaluate what is important in your relationship. Are you making your partner feel inadequate because you want to add somebody else to the equation? Are regret, distrust and insecurities worth a couple of hours of fun? A threesome can wait. There are and will be endless supply of providers experienced in couple bookings for when you are ready.

Tips For Equal Threesome Play

As I have explained before there are different dynamics of a threesome which can be tailored to your desire and best discussed with an experienced provider. This means equal playtime may not be a requirement. But if you are worried I would advise you to learn to multitask (very important, gentlemen). Ladies, if you are anything like me, you will appreciate another female form being presented in front of you and I am sure you will find the way to keep each other busy!

Another thing is, do not be afraid to be creative. In threesome textbooks, there are proper positions that you can learn and that is fantastic (have you heard of the Eiffel Tower?!) but in reality, most of the time you will find yourselves entangled in awkward positions and that is great too. I think it adds to the fun to improvise and try to utilise that idle hand or tongue!

My name is Monica La Bella. I’m a professional sweetheart, hopeless romantic and strikingly beautiful distraction. Available to please and inspire in Melbourne, Australia and world-wide by invitation

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July 28, 2017