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  • Holiday Sex With A Handsome Stranger! Could It Develop Into True Love? (Part II)

    Holiday Sex With A Handsome Stranger! Could It Develop Into True Love? (Part II)

    Instead of the levadas walk, mum spent the afternoon helping wash and dry my hair, putting it up into a French twist which looked absolutely beautiful by the time she had finished. I know why she was doing this. She was desperate to see me married and at 31, she was worried I might be left ‘on the shelf’. We have to love our mothers, don’t we?

    At ten to seven, I arrived in the Reid’s Palace lobby, checked my coat into the cloakroom and took a seat in the reception area. I waited.

    “Good evening, Angela,” a voice said from behind me. I stood and gave Martin a peck on the cheek.
    “Where’s your mum?”
    “She was tired after the walking and decided to get an early night. Would you prefer to wait until another night?” I said, putting obvious hints of suspicion into the latter end of my reply.
    “Well, we can always do it again, but I’d still like to buy you dinner tonight.”

    He was good. No doubt about it. I was pleased, too.

    He stood back, looked me up and down and said, “Angela, you look absolutely fabulous.”
    “Thank you,” I replied and we walked off towards the more exclusive hotel restaurant rather than the event location, we’d been in the previous night.

    We had tasty local seafood starters followed by traditional Portuguese suspended skewers of both chicken and fillet steak. For dessert, he chose ice cream, but I went straight on to coffee. Conversation was interesting. I really liked his personality and was now waiting for the request to return to his room. Would I say yes? Should I wait? I never had a problem with first date sex if everything seemed right and it certainly did this evening. After dinner, the question didn’t come. We walked out to reception, recovered my coat and strolled into the grounds.

    “How far away is your apartment?” he enquired.
    “Only a few hundred yards.”
    “I’ll walk you home.”

    Was he probing? I couldn’t make the initiative? I’d made up my mind if he’d asked me to go back to his room I would, but there was no way I would suggest it. I couldn’t do that? Wouldn’t do that? We wandered out of the hotel grounds and turned along the coastal road, chatting about nothing in particular. He asked a bit about my translation business and I discovered he was a freelance journalist. We were almost to our apartment complex.

    At the concierge area, I turned and went onto tiptoe to kiss him. He quickly reciprocated. Yes, those lips were as kissable as I’d originally thought.

    “Thank you for a lovely meal, Martin,” I said, holding his hand in both of mine.
    “If you still have another week we could do it again.”
    “That would be lovely.”

    He turned to go and I remember a crushing feeling of disappointment coming over me. I stood in the doorway, about to close it and heard him speak again.

    “Angela.”
    “Yes.”
    “Is your mother waiting up for you?”
    “Not at any particular time.”
    “I have a beautiful room which is far too large for one.”
    “Oh, do you now?” I knew I could now be playful. He wanted to take me back to the hotel after all. My heart lifted.
    “Yes.”
    “And what? You want to play Scrabble or Pontoon?”
    “Wouldn’t mind scrabbling, but not with the Scrabble bag.”
    “Is your other affair truly over? I am certainly not one night stand material.”
    “It’s over. Come back with me.”

    I let the door swing shut, took his hand and we turned back towards Reid’s Palace.

    – o O o –

    We walked hand in hand back towards the hotel. Neither of us speaking, but plenty going on in the caresses of our hands. We both knew we would shortly be making love. For me it is always a nervous experience with a new lover, but also a great excitement, anticipating the thrill of sexual coupling, wondering about his naked body, hoping mine would please him. All of these thoughts ran through my mind as we approached the hotel entrance, cut across the reception area and awaited the lift.

    We were the only people in the elevator. Martin pressed four and squeezed my hand tightly.

    “You are all right with this, Angie?”
    “Oh, yes. You?”
    “Can’t wait. You’re so beautiful.”

    He was growing on me with every minute we were together. I couldn’t wait, either. The lift stopped, doors opened and we walked along the plush carpeted corridor to the second door on the left. He materialised his key, the door to 403 opened and he ushered me inside.

    The room was large with a balcony looking out over the sea and towards the Funchal promenade. There were two chairs, a built in dressing table, heavy floral drapes which matched the bedcover, two side tables and a full length mirror. A separate door led off to the bathroom and I made my excuse to step inside, handing him my coat.

    A large bath with shower over, the usual WC and I could see his toiletries. Old Spice. It was Peter’s fragrance, too. I thought I’d recognised it. I used the loo, took a minute to freshen my nether regions and rubbed a finger over my teeth with a smidgen of his toothpaste, swirling some water afterwards to rinse away any flavour. A final look in the mirror and I was ready.

    Back in the bedroom he had removed his jacket, tie and shoes, gave me a swift kiss on the lips—yes, really kissable—and disappeared into the bathroom. While I waited, I stepped out onto the balcony, undid the grips in my French roll allowing my hair to hang freely. It was becoming cooler in the clear sky, but was not cold even with my bare shoulders and arms.

    The Atlantic sparkled with the light of the moon and the city of Funchal lit up with myriad lights—amber, white, blue and all colours in between. Far to the left, the main coast road was fringed by the Jacaranda trees whose blossom was just magnificent and clearly visible, even in the street lighting, as a blue haze. I’d seen these trees before, but never in such profusion as they could be seen in Funchal.

    I sensed him standing behind me before feeling his breath on my shoulder as he leaned down to part my hair and kiss my neck, his hands gently moving to grip the tops of my arms. His lips were warm on my skin. The Old Spice smelled stronger now—he’d obviously added a refreshing dab.

    “Your hair is beautiful and even outshines the view of the city in loveliness,” he said softly in my ear.
    “Thanks, but the view is amazing. Look at the moon’s reflection.”
    “Stunning,” he agreed, his warm hands moved up and down my upper arms.

    I turned, looked into his smiling brown eyes, stood on tiptoe and kissed him. Suddenly his lips were alive with tender motion, savouring and pressing against mine with moistness and incredible warmth. I felt his tongue very tentatively brush my top lip, sent mine out to surrender to it and we tasted each other.

    “Wow, Angela,” he said breathily, “you taste wonderful.”
    “And you.”

    Although a feminist, I was always uncertain about being first to instigate sex with a new partner. I preferred to be ‘wooed and taken’ which is a little old fashioned, I know.

    “It’s a shame to leave the view,” he said, turning me around so we could both look at the necklace of lights along the shoreline and the isolated sparkle from the homes on the distant hills towards the airport.

    He kissed my neck again, his hands moving from my shoulders and so, so softly cupping my breasts. I leaned backwards into him to let him know I approved. He began to caress them more deliberately and I could feel my nipples stiffening into his palms.

    “Would you like to come inside?” he whispered.
    “Please,” I said and turned, ran my hand over his back, feeling his strength through his shirt as we stepped over the aluminium slide for the balcony door.

    Once inside, Martin closed the door and was about to close the drapes.

    “No, leave them open. I love the view,” I said.

    He stopped his action and turned towards me, reaching behind my back and fumbling with the clasp on my dress. I pulled his shirt from his trousers and ran my hands over his lower back. He felt so warm and muscular, his skin soft yet firm beneath. I felt my dress sliding to the floor, temporarily removing my arms from his body to let it fall.

    “God, you’re lovely,” he said as his hands caressed my back, found my bra clasp and expertly undid it.

    I unthreaded his cufflinks and helped him shed his shirt. This man was in fabulous condition for someone of his age.

    “You’re fit,” I commented. [This is in 1982 when the word ‘fit’ meant healthy rather than the more modern meanings of ‘sexy’ or ‘hot’.]
    “Used to play rugby for London Irish.”
    “I’m impressed,” I said. I didn’t follow rugby, but had heard of London Irish.

    I leaned into his chest, turning my cheek to rest against its warmth. His hands descended to my behind and lowered my slip over my hips where it, too, joined the pile of my clothing on the floor. I looked up at him and kissed him again. His hands returned to my breasts and quickly teased my nipples into erectness once more. I leaned encouragingly into him and kissed his upper chest, my hands still massaging his back.

    He instigated another kiss and I brought my hands around to his front, found the waist belt on his trousers, undid one clasp, found a button and slipped it through its hole. I discovered the zip and slowly lowered it so his trousers slipped to the floor. We both stepped out of our clothes and moved closer to the bed. He stood back and looked at me in my sexy briefs, suspender belt and stockings.

    “Like what you see?” I asked, tongue in cheek.
    “Amazing.”

    He looked pretty good, too, in his socks and boxers. I dropped to my knees and got him to lift each foot so I could remove his socks. I hate seeing men’s legs in short or ankle socks. They look comedic. His legs were hairy, but not overly so. His boxers were plain blue, one of my favourite colours for men’s underwear. I could see they were bulging outwards. I stood back up and closed the gap between us, using my right hand to slide in through the top of his boxers and encircle his erection. I guessed between six and seven inches, could feel foreskin and gave him a gentle squeeze while looking at his face, noticing his eyes close in pleasure, his hands squeezing my breasts more tightly in response.

    He stood back, found my suspender belt clasp and released it. Bending down, I stood still while he rolled each of my stockings down my legs, spending plenty of time caressing them, leaving me wearing only my fancy new briefs. I was so glad I’d bought them. I felt his lips press against my mons as he began to lower them inch by inch while I opened my thighs to allow them to fall unhindered.

    Once he was standing again, I slid his boxers over his hips and they fell to the floor as I, once again, held his penis in my right hand and his testes in my left. I massaged him slowly and deliberately.

    “I’ve got a condom in the bedside drawer,” he advised in a soft spoken voice.
    “No need. On the pill,” I told him, squeezing his erection tighter. [In the early eighties STDs were not taken so seriously as they are today.]
    “Wow, that’s lovely Angela.”

    I lay down and he lay beside me, his hand opening my thighs and caressing my vulva, squeezing and tenderly massaging. It felt lovely and very shortly afterwards, his palm started to massage in small circles over my clitoris. I sensed one of his fingers pressing against the entrance to my vagina, opening me and sliding easily inside. Such a delicious feeling. I never had difficulty become aroused and knew I was ready for him. All of this time, I was gently masturbating him with long firm strokes.

    His finger began to press against my g-spot. It was so good, causing my whole vulva to ache as my clitoris began to heat and tingle.

    He climbed on top of me as I opened my thighs to welcome his body, his penis quickly finding my moist entrance. My anticipation was now growing rapidly. I have always found the first entry of a penis into my vagina the most delightful and awe inspiring sensation and as Martin’s slid smoothly and deeply into me, I closed my eyes and gave a long drawn out groan of sheer pleasure.

    “Oh, Martin. So good.”

    He came completely out of me and entered me again. The filling, the internal expanding, the rubbing against my internal sexual ache was all so wonderful. I groaned again and used my kegels to squeeze him tightly.

    He began to thrust. Each time, at the furthest extent I enjoyed the compression of my labia against his body, his testes hitting my perineum, his pubic bone caressing my clit. Each thrust the same, so delectable, the progress of his glans along the ribbing of my vagina, the end reached, the impact on my vulva, then the slow withdrawal and again and again. This has to be the most delicious and satisfying experience any woman can ever have. The oneness, closeness, affection, warmth and sheer sexual excitement.

    Resting upon his elbows, his arms caressed mine and lifted gradually to hold each of my cheeks. He ceased his lovemaking and delivered the most passionate kiss, taking my breath away with overwhelming pleasure. I wanted more. I moved my hips against him. I didn’t like stationary, I wanted movement, thrusting, stroking, rocking. Anything but stationary.

    Encouraged by my own body motions he began moving again, accelerating his thrusts, not only deeper, but harder and faster. Amazing. The hardest I’ve ever had intercourse. So frantic, exciting and after a few minutes I knew I was already close to orgasm. Sexual aches flooded through my body from breasts to thighs with everything centered on those few inches of another loving human being inside my body, taking me, wanting me, possessing me, making love to me.

    I came. I gripped him tightly, shouted out in joy and he ceased his motion to experience my explosive orgasm.

    “Oh, wow, Angela. You’re amazing.”

    I couldn’t speak, could hardly breathe and just held him fiercely, knowing my nails were digging into his back.

    He waited, my orgasm ended, my body relaxed and his thrusts began again. Slowly at first, but over several minutes he, almost imperceptively, increased the speed and depth until I felt my body reacting once more. Oh God, I was going to come again.

    I cried out, tightened my hold on him anew and he ceased his motions to enjoy my orgasm with me.

    “Martin, this is bliss.”
    “Yes. Heavenly.”

    He began afresh, the slow steady strokes increasing bit by bit to a pounding, almost violent thrusting. My vulva was hot once more, I ached all over my nether regions, my clit red hot, my vagina pulsing with pleasure as I tightened my kegels to try not to come too, soon, but it was a hopeless task. Again my whole being was racked by a third stunning orgasm.

    Another huge cry of self gratification, my gripping and holding of him, his sudden stillness, his penis receiving my loving, involuntary squeezing as it rested temporarily from its exertions. Could I survive a fourth? I was totally exhausted, yet wanted more, more, more.

    I felt his penis slide extremely slowly to my very entrance and back in tenderly and sensuously, repeatedly. I knew he was enjoying himself now. I was totally sated and desperately loved the feeling of his strokes into and out of me. So moving, so satisfying. This time his speed grew more slowly and didn’t reach the severe pounding I had experienced previously. This was more tender, more loving, slower, more sensitive, but nevertheless my vagina was aching again in the most luscious way, the pressure building anew, but I was determined, this time to hold off my orgasm until his arrived.

    He began to moan with pleasure and I encouraged him with my own groans of support.

    “Lovely, Martin, lovely, yes, yes,” I whispered.

    “Oh, Angela,” he cried out as I felt the amazing sensations of his ejaculation forcing its way along his erection and being deposited deep within me. My own orgasm suddenly joining forces with his to squeeze and suck the last few drops of his semen into my body.

    We both collapsed, totally exhausted, speaking short phrases of pleasure and satisfaction to each other, saying each other’s names and kissing tenderly between frantically recovering our breath. It was some time before we finally separated and lay side by side in post coital bliss, his hand on my mons, mine holding his still partially erect, very moist and hot penis.

    So, so delightful. So special. God I liked this man. Could I maybe love him?

    The glow in my vulva very slowly began to fade. What an experience? I’d never had such an energetic lovemaking before and four orgasms on a first date was certainly out of this world, but time was pushing on. The bedside clock said 1.30am.

    “I think I ought to go, Martin,” I said quietly.
    “Oh, no. Stay the night, Angela, please.”
    “I’d love to, but my mother might worry. Maybe another time. When do you fly home?”
    “A week tomorrow.”
    “Oh. Afternoon?”
    “Yes.”
    “Same flight as us.”
    “Go on. Stay the night.”

    I leaned over and kissed him tenderly and turned to sit on the side of the bed, removing the hastily grabbed tissues I’d needed after our sex and gripping some more between my thighs as I picked up my briefs and headed for the bathroom.

    I stood by the bathroom door and said, “I really can’t Martin, but there’s plenty of time for us to get together again.”

    When I returned to the bedroom Martin was up with his trousers on and pulling on a sweatshirt. He announced he was going to walk me back to the apartment.

    “Oh, no. There’s no need,” I protested.

    “Angela, there is great need. Firstly you could in danger walking these streets in the early hours of the morning in the dark. Secondly it would give the hotel the wrong impression if you were seen leaving on your own. Thirdly I want to see you safely back to your apartment and won’t take ‘no’ for an answer.”

    “Haha, you think they might think I am a lady of ill repute?”
    “No, not at all. They might think I am the sort of man who would employ a lady of ill repute. I’m thinking of my reputation, not yours,” he laughed and we hugged each other for a minute before I started to find my clothes and get dressed.

    – o O o –

    So this story is how I met Martin. He was great fun and we went on to have an extended relationship. I’ll have more to say about him in later stories. He also features in my first story about meeting my abusive husband.

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  • Holiday Sex With A Handsome Stranger! Could It Develop Into True Love? (Part I)

    Holiday Sex With A Handsome Stranger! Could It Develop Into True Love? (Part I)

    Madeira is the most beautiful island, especially in May when the Jacaranda trees’ blue blossom competes with the azure sea and skies.

    It is 1982, my mother had lost her younger sister unexpectedly to a massive heart attack. We’d buried her and I’d had my mother staying with me for a few days in the flat in London while I frantically tried to first catch up and secondly to get ahead of all the work arriving to my increasingly successful translation business.

    Once I was ahead of the game, I convinced my mother we should go on holiday somewhere warm and ‘chill out’ together. My father couldn’t come because it was still term time and he was a headmaster. It took some persuading but once she’d agreed, I allocated two weeks free of business for mid May, arranged for another agency to handle any of my urgent work and we flew out of Gatwick on a direct flight to Funchal in the small, mountainous Atlantic island.

    We’d rented a two bedroom apartment so we didn’t have to eat in restaurants all of the time and could cook for ourselves.

    My mother had been very close to her sister and her sudden death had hit her very hard. Me too, I loved my aunt and at only forty-eight she’d almost been like an older sister to me, staying with me several times. I think my mum was worried something similar might happen to her, but to be frank, auntie Leslie was both overweight and also most unfit. She never walked anywhere and did no exercise at all. I suppose you’d say she was a heart attack waiting to happen. It is a shame that her first one killed her, though, it seems so unfair. Many people, once they’ve had the warning event, change their lifestyles and live for decades.

    We tried to keep busy on holiday, visiting castles and botanical gardens, walking several levadas (walks along hillside irrigation channels). Although almost sixty, mum was extremely fit and anyway, the levadas were usually on a level. We took taxis to start points and arranged to meet later a few miles further down the channel. She seemed to be enjoying it and we had as near fun as you could get given the sadness of our reason for holidaying. It was a shame my dad couldn’t accompany us.

    A few nights into the holiday we went to a cabaret evening at Reid’s Palace Hotel. What a beautiful hotel. Five star luxury at a time when older hotels tended to be grubby and were being replaced by concrete monstrosities. We had a good table for dinner close to the dance floor and from where we could see the action which included a good variety from a not particularly adept magician to Portuguese traditional dancing, an excellent male solo singer to a dance sextet which played modern easy listening music. Dinner was fine with good wine and we were thoroughly enjoying the show.

    At the interval, the sextet continued to play and couples were dancing in front of us as mum and I enjoyed watching them, trying to guess who were married and who were with their mistresses or some other illicit partner. Mum had pointed out a rather handsome but marginally swarthy, character in his sixties dancing with an obviously local girl in her twenties. She asked me if I thought she was his daughter, granddaughter or girlfriend. I didn’t get a chance to answer.

    “Excuse me,” came a voice from immediately behind me as I’d turned towards my mother to speak. I looked around. A tall extremely well built individual with dark curly hair, mahogany coloured eyes and large nose was standing beside me, about two feet clear of my personal space, looking down at me and smiling. He looked to be in his late thirties. I remember thinking ‘nice lips’.

    “Sorry to disturb,” he continued.
    I smiled up at him.
    “I noticed you sitting with your -,” and he looked at my mum and said, “sister,” which brought an immediate laugh from her.
    “You don’t have to flatter me to get permission to speak to my daughter,” she said with a smile.

    I’d looked at my mum and back to this gentleman with a growing grin. His flirtatious suggestion that mum was my sister was nice, although what did it mean regarding what he thought of my age?

    “I am sorry,” he began again, “I can now see your daughter is a little younger.”
    “Ahem,” I said, “Don’t dig the hole any bigger!”
    He laughed, “Well I wondered if I could take one of you ladies for a dance? Would either of you like to partake?”

    Mum laughed again. What could I do? He’d asked so nicely, had obviously thought it through and deserved at least one dance. I put out my hand, he took it, I got to my feet and he swept me onto the dance floor. Obviously a far more accomplished dancer than I, so I followed him as best I could. His hand had mine in a very firm grip, his other hand hard against my back, helping me follow his lead. He smelled good, a combination of male plus interesting cologne. He was tall, over six feet and really quite muscular.

    “I’m Martin,” he announced.
    “Hello Martin,” I replied, knowing he expected me to give him my name.
    “Martin Napoli.”
    “Great name.”
    “You’re with your mother on holiday?” he asked.
    “Yes. Lovely island. You?”
    “Well, I was supposed to come with a friend, but arrangements went sour so here on my own.”
    “Ah, so you thought you’d dance with me on the rebound?”

    The song ended, we parted and clapped the band. I turned to return to mum.

    He took my arm, “Please. One more dance. After all, that wasn’t a full dance, was it?”
    I looked up at him, smiled and nodded. The band switched tempo and played an instrumental version of Orbison’s Blue Bayou. Now we were pressed closer together.

    “So?” I asked.
    “What?”
    “Why couldn’t she come with you?” I asked, making the assumption the friend was a partner.
    “Sadly she dumped me two weeks ago,” he reported sadly, “so I’m here alone.”
    “Poor you.”
    “What’s your name?” he asked.
    “Angela.”

    We continued to dance.

    “You know, Martin, I can’t dump my mum at the drop of a hat. Her sister died a few weeks ago and I brought her here to take her out of herself. I can’t simply leave her alone.”
    “No. I’m sorry. I just saw you, realised how beautiful you were and decided to take a chance.”

    I smiled at the flattery.

    He continued, “Are you attached?”
    “Not currently, but it doesn’t really help us, does it?”
    “No. Where do you live?”
    “West London.”
    “Goodness, that’s a coincidence. I live near Heathrow.”
    “You could look me up when you get back if you liked.”
    “Seriously?”
    “Oh, yes. For a date anyway,” I said. I actually quite fancied him.
    “Where are you staying here?”
    “Private apartment. You?”
    “Here. Room 403. Let me know if you get left at a loose end while you’re here.”
    “I will. My business is called Oriental Words. It’s in the book.”
    “Right. I’ll be in touch.”

    The music ended and Martin returned me to my table where my mother was beaming at us both, “You’re a good dancer,” she said.
    “Glad you think so,” he replied, moved around the table, took her hand and continued, “because now it is your turn.”

    Mum resisted for a moment, stood graciously and allowed him to take her to the dance floor where I watched, in great surprise as they danced an absolutely expert quickstep. I had no idea my mother was a proficient dancer and thoroughly enjoyed watching her being whisked around the dance floor by this rather dashing man.

    He returned mum to the table safe and sound and took his leave of us. A few minutes later two drinks arrived with his compliments.

    I couldn’t wait to get back to London.

    – o O o –

    Back at the apartment, we were lazing after breakfast and mum told me she’d got Martin’s room number.

    “And what am I meant to do with that piece of information?”
    “When we were dancing he told me he’d like to take us out for dinner.”
    “That wouldn’t be very fair on him, would it mum?”
    “Well, I was thinking you could set up the dinner and I could cry off and spend the evening here.”
    “We came on holiday together for a reason, mum, so we’d be together, not so I could go off dating.”
    “Yes, but two or three evenings wouldn’t hurt. I’m happy and I brought a couple of good books with me.”
    “Are you sure?” I asked, knowing she was, but feeling I needed to confirm it.
    “Of course. Now go and call the hotel from the phone across the road. Before he goes out.”

    I thought about it for at least ten seconds, ran out of the apartment like a smitten teenager, across the street and encountered a strange looking Portuguese public telephone. I eventually managed to locate the number for the Reid’s Palace and they put me through to his room. It rang and rang without answer, eventually returning me to the switchboard. I asked them to try again and decided if there was no answer a second time I’d leave a message.

    After four rings I heard a breathless, “Hello.”
    “Sorry to call so early. It’s Angela.”
    “Angela who?” the voice said.
    “Angela Goodnight. We danced last night.”
    “Yes and now I know your surname,” he laughed.
    “Very amusing,” I giggled, “My mother said you would like to take us out to dinner. When would suit?”
    “Tonight. Seven. Here?”
    “OK. We’ll see you at the reception.”
    “I’ll look forward to it. What are you doing today?”
    “A short levadas walk in the north of the island.”
    “Hope you enjoy it. See you later,” and the line went dead.

    – o O o –

    I had nothing to wear. Because I’d come on holiday with my mother, all I had brought was smart casual clothing and now I needed something far superior. Mum and I went shopping in downtown Funchal. I found a sweet little green dress which would go with my green shoes and clutch bag. My mum loved it. It fitted to my hips and flared out into a lovely pleated skirt. The material was green with sparkly thread providing myriad tiny explosions of light in the store’s quartz halogen lighting. The bodice was tight with no sleeves and a round neckline which would suit a few of my strings of pearls.

    “Sorry mum, need some lingerie, too.”
    “You like him enough to sleep with him?” she asked in a critical voice.
    “Well, probably not,” I lied, “but I don’t want to be unprepared.”
    “Fiddle-de-dee,” she said, meaning she’d live with my opinion but didn’t accept it was correct. I knew what she meant and it might not head that way, but I didn’t want to end up in his room wearing Marks and Spencer’s briefs and bra.

    We found a really nice ladies’ lingerie shop in the town centre and I bought a lovely lacy green pair of skimpy briefs, similarly skimpy matching bra and spent some time discussing the merits of stockings or tights with my mother.

    “Well, why either, dear?” she said, “You have a lovely tan.”

    I suppose I did, but felt I would be under-dressed without something on my legs so chose an emerald green pair of stockings with green suspender belt. Matched the dress and underwear perfectly.

    Stay tuned to tomorrow for Part II of Angela’s sexy holiday escapade.

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  • Reminiscences of an Ex-Dominatrix (Part II)

    Reminiscences of an Ex-Dominatrix (Part II)

    My first customer who ever booked me was very honest with me from the beginning (almost which we will get to in a bit) and I was very happy with that. He explained to me as he was 6 when he was raped by his cross-dressing uncle. Since then it has been branded in his brain and he only somehow gets the full enjoyment of pleasure by going through the scenario again and again (where I came into play). He wanted the women to put on a gigantic strap on in shiny bright color latex suits and while he was tied up, taking as hard as possible from behind without any mercy, stretching or loob. He was married, talked only positive about his wife and children and how much he loves them and he could never have a life without them (even showing me pictures, a very very uncommon thing to do). But the fact that this “demon” as he called it, was stuck inside and he couldn’t handle but to go for a session at least once a month just to get really off and go back to normal life. It was at that moment that I realized what all those men and women who were dominatrixes were telling me all along. This is when I got the gift of really listening. Not only what they are saying, but all the details too.

    After emailing back and forth, we met up a month later in a hotel in Trier. My rule was first 15‒20 minutes of natural time, meaning to discuss the do’s and dont’s again in person (“personal limits”). How this was going to go down step-by-step exactly. I would then get dressed, have my glass of champagne to calm me for I was really really nervous. And then just like that, the show began. I wore a purple cat suit with a huge gigantic black and pink decorated strap-on which I had borrowed from a friend and proceeded to tie him up on the bed in a doggy-style position and did what he had asked for; said the things he exactly wanted to hear. And everything was going so well and smoothly and as I was thinking about this, I looked down and saw a huge bloodstain. I jumped up in total panic— because he was bleeding out of his bottom—ran to the phone and called an ambulance. He was so embarrassed and just kept on saying “I’m sorry, I’m so so sorry, I’m sorry. Don’t worry, you won’t be in trouble for anything. I’m sorry.” I couldn’t help but started crying, thinking that I was going to go to jail and ended being deported back (for hurting him). But as the people arrived, I was still in shock, sitting in my outfit with the strap-on on me and as they walked in and noticed me asking, “What happ … Oh! Okay. I see. Let me have a look …” I rushed into the bathroom embarrassed to the max, taking everything off upon hearing what they were saying. Suddenly, my client who was still outside said, “I know why it happened, I have inner hemorrhoids.” I burst out of the bathroom half naked and angry as a lion shouting, “ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME !?”

    As I left the hotel that night to get on a 2 hour train ride back home, I had plenty of time to think about everything that happened that night: a) i had to kinda evaluate my clients before sessions on the “why, how, what” of sexuality; digging as deep as possible into their sexuality in order to best understand their needs and wants. b) YOU WANT ANAL, GOTTA BRING A NOTE FROM THE DOC …

    And hence throughout that whole year, I met men and women from different walks of life but all with the same need: the need for help with their sexuality. This ultimately led me to me joking with my friends about how my role has evolved to that of a sex therapist. I not only helped these individuals to understand their own needs better, they were also comforted (I know the whole thing is a bit ironic considering the fact that we are talking about BDSM, just bear with me), had a understanding and judgmental free zone to express themselves. They got exactly what they needed from me not in a proper and none “profit mode” manner but in a helping manner. I’m not saying everyone of my clients was raped as a child like my first ever customer back then. However, a lot of them—if you just ask about their sexual history and how everything became clear to them—the stories and way things happen is so unique in every case. Many a time, these individuals simply cannot explain why they like it but the ones who can, oh boy! they sure have a lot to tell and are truly entertaining—no need for popcorn or anything. I cannot list each and every one of them, but if only they knew …

    The only problem I had with this was with my own sexuality after 9 months of doing this for my sexual appetite started to suffer. I didn’t enjoy sex and even lost all interest and lust at one point in time. Hence after a while, I had to make the decision to love my own vagina and my love for lust. However, even after quitting this, something weird happened. I never dropped my analyzing. To this day, I continue to analyze everyone I meet. Why do they act in this way, why do they handle things in that way? It is almost as I have become a hobby psychoanalyzer (funny given that I was never in school for it), but the thing is, i actually enjoy doing it and it has definitely helped me to help others with their stuff be it making right decisions or handling situations; making them stronger to take on their daily battles etc. In a sense, I learned how to help others in a proper way even though it was achieved through whipping and tying people up. However, if you are able to read between the lines and really get a deeper understanding of people, it’s quite remarkable to see how easy it is to help people without having the drama and fights.

    And I honestly don’t think I would have learned this anytime soon if it wasn’t for my crazy roller-coaster life and i will never forget the people who have helped me in understanding this so much better in this world; through the conversations I had with clients and other SW’s in the BDSM industry. Each and every one of them will be forever remembered (yes, even the very first client I have had because without him, everything would have not turned out the way they did).

    And so what do I do these days you ask? Well, I modeled for a long time in Germany (and throughout Europe) and when I became pregnant, I stopped and let life be put on hold for a while. I got married, moved back home to Washington State, and got back into 2 long loved passions: politics & erotica photography.420Photography has became a huge and new factor to the Creativity Closet. I do a lot of smokeography and films. I have also been modelling for Godsgirls since Spring 2014 and am blessed with all the love I receive on social media for my work, be it Instagram,Tumblr or GG. I don’t think I’ll be done working in the world of sex anytime soon (whether its occasional caming, making my erotica photoart, or even short videography clips on Youtube). I feel like I have so much more to say and do. My main mission is to change our views on not only nudity but overall sexuality. We shouldn’t be demonized for what we love for as long as what we love does not hurt others, we should be encouraged to embrace our passion.

    So go out and spread sex positivity and together, lets change the world one step at a time!

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  • Reminiscences of an Ex-Dominatrix (Part I)

    Reminiscences of an Ex-Dominatrix (Part I)

    When I was younger, I had no idea what I wanted to do in life. Sometimes, I would say a family law attorney (because I grew up witnessing the horrible divorce of my parents and I wanted to help; I felt the need to do so). There was a time I would think that I would become a physiotherapist and help people with injuries to get them back on their feet, or I would imagine myself being an anthropologist and going out to explore the world of humanity and its cultures etc, or maybe help countries with political issues … you know what I mean. In case, you have noticed there is a similarity to all these aspirations: the dream to help. Why? To be honest, I have no idea and I simply feel this strong calling through my whole life to help others. But if you would have asked me about my life-long career and told me that my first steps in the adult industry would be in Germany at the age of 18 as a Dominatrix, my response would have been, “What is a Dominatrix?”

    I had a rollercoaster lifestyle until I had my daughter and two years after finally figuring out what I would do or let’s say, what my heart had the most passion for. I did not end up being a full-time dominatrix for the rest of my life, but the brief period of my life in the world of BDSM has not only truly changed my view, but also the way the humans work. I was a dominatrix for about a year when I turned 18. I was living in Germany as a civilian then, attending school there and working on becoming a hairdresser. Sounds all pretty normal right? Except for the fact that I was a full blown punk (sex pistols style), politically active on the Left Wing movement and its many many protests throughout Germany, and had a deep passion for gothic electronic music dance parties while working as a part-time amateur model. Now, because I was active in the gothic scene at parties, this opened a different drawer in the creativity closet for me as many of the guests at such parties would wear tons of latex, PVC etc. It was not just any regular latex stuff you can get in your next door porn shop. No, we are talking about actual high quality dresses and suits (long before Miss Gaga and Katy Perry made it a thing in the pop industry). In addition, there would often be attendees and scenes such as older BDSM couples, women taking on the mistress role, hubby on the leach in short and very tight latex shorts, not to mention the very short shorts …

    A friend of mine whose name I shall not mention but let’s just call her W. W was a model and dominatrix, and boy! she was one of a kind. So when life as usual every now and then takes a drastic turn, I quit my job as a hairdresser (due to major bullying within the company) and lost my apartment (because if there is something more horrible then standing 30 in line at a grocery store it’s dealing with government stuff in Germany like social help etc. That’s a major bitch and will take you forever. And so because of this, I ended up losing my apartment, job and a lot of my friends to move to Trier to stay with her for a while and figure out what I was going to do). Since I was making a bit of money but not enough to survive as a model, I decided that I needed a fresh start with everything. And that’s when W opened a whole new world to me.

    She taught me everything I needed to know and just like that, I into the big world, moved all the way to Kaiserslautern and started anew with absolutely no physical experience. In a city that’s not only huge, but with a soccer stadium, multiple army bases and a lot of international tourism all going on all that town—I saw nothing but profit. And boy was I happy because I turned out to be the only dominatrix (even though prostitution is legal in Germany and trust me, there are more brothels out there then bakeries, and that in Germany trust me, has to say something). At night, I would work at a Table Dancer club and made a ton of money just for being American and being able to speak with all the soldiers who were looking for some fun. During the day, I would either model or offer SM sessions. As the session requests started flowing in like spam mail on MSN, I started to realize very quick how high the demand actually was. And armed with the W’s knowledge, I decided to use the internet and sign up to a very well-known BDSM community website in Germany BDSM community website. I interacted with other dominatrixes on tips and advice (don’t get me wrong; not many were willing to help a young fellow girl who was once in their shoes), but those who did seemed like the nicest people on earth. One thing every dominatrix has told me is that if you are not a lil familiar with psychology, you will have problems on becoming a successful dominatrix. I had no fuc*ing clue what they meant with this. So there I was on a Friday evening with some European spliffs, a few beers and Google (my best friend in the world) and started to dig much deeper into this whole BDSM thing. And the more I dug, the more I found out how much psychology has to do with our everyday life, especially sexually …

    Stay tuned to tomorrow’s post for Mary Jane’s virgin dominatrix experience!

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  • Office Romance – How much Sex really goes on at work?

    Office Romance – How much Sex really goes on at work?

    Have things been steaming up at work lately? Been thinking about taking it one step passed the flirting game with a certain coworker who makes your knees weak? Here are a few things you should consider before getting down and dirty in the stockroom.

    Romantic/sexual relationships in the workplace have existed, well…since there were workplaces. It usually starts with an innocent smile,a soft compliment, and then the “accidental” brush-up. This of course, often leads to acts of a more explicit nature— like boardroom table bang bang. But just how much sex is really going on at work?  According to a survey conducted by Workopolis.com–Canada’s biggest job site—63 per cent of workers say they’ve been involved in a romantic relationship with a coworker; however, only 57 per cent of them feel that romance in the workplace is acceptable. Should this be surprising?

    “This is not surprising at all. In fact, these numbers may be somewhat low because of response bias,” says Marilee Zaharia, Ph.D., and Clinical Psychology Intern with the Dept. of Clinical Heath Psychology at the Royal University Hospital in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan. “The reasons for this high percentage could simply be the easy access (and availability) of a partner, and the fact that we are working longer hours than previous generations,” she adds.

    And what about plain old boredom; could the monotony of daily routines and repetitive tasks act as an accelerant for our natural, sexual impulses? “Yes, particularly when a person is looking for ways of putting extra stimulation in their life,” agrees Dr. Zaharia.

     “Dating coworkers can be lots of fun, especially between peers; and when you know all the little hiding places,” said Julia, an Information Management Analyst for a high-tech company in Kanata, Ontario.Interestingly, hiding seems to be the norm here; she adds that most of her coworkers/friends who are involved in relationships try to keep them low key, and sometimes even covert. “Even though the company doesn’t enforce a dating ban,” she says, “the social pressure not to date coworkers is still present.” While professional workplace environments—such as high-tech companies, government office buildings, law firms, etc. —do offer some insights concerning workplace romantic/sexual relations, they represent but one side of the social workforce.

    When I told Mike Wodicka, a server with 10 years of experience, about the Workopolis survey, he said, “Take one of those at any restaurants I’ve worked at, and the results will be close to a hundred per cent!”Although a statement like this might lead some of you more depraved individuals to run out the door to drop off your resume at every Denny’s in town, you’re better off taking a cold shower. However, from my own personal experience in the service industry, Mike’s statement rang pretty true.

    Several years ago, I was working as a server at a well known chicken and ribs franchise. I spent two years there. While the majority of employees were college students,some were still in high school. At times, there was ten to fifteen servers working, plus take-out girls, cooks, dishwashers, bartenders, hosts, delivery drivers, and managers. It wasn’t long before I realized that this little self contained society, like many others (high school comes to mind), had its hierarchies, gossip, and scandals. However, it wasn’t until I started going out for a beer after work that I really grasped how much sex was going on. The manager was sleeping with the take-out girl, one bartender had a hostess and waitress fighting over him, the owner was having an affair with a 21 year old waitress (and everyone knew it except his wife – or did she!?), and chicken wasn’t the only thing the cooks were choking … I mean cooking. Out of over twenty servers, only three were men; and one was gay. Paradise?!

    The restaurant was more like pagan site of sexual worship than a workplace. As Dr. Zaharia says, “…the opportunity for sexual relationships to occur may be increased within the workplace, particularly when workers actively socialize within their work environment.” The high amount of overt, romantic/sexual relationships between coworkers in workplace environments such as restaurants, retail stores, shopping center boutiques among others, appears to be due to the social groups who make up the majority of these work forces: high school and college students who work part-time; many of whom are single and live at home.Unlike many other professionals with spouses/families, careers, and financial responsibilities to think about, these young people feel less inhibited to engage in overt work place relationships. Dr. Zaharia agrees and adds that, “The penalties/complications of relationships amongst coworkers are much greater than those in non-professional workplaces.This lack of inhibition leads to a complex, tangled network of promiscuous relationships; and unlike computer networks, the inevitable crashes are not of an electronic nature but of an emotional one.

    Several months after I had started working at the restaurant I came to realize that our little, licentious tribe was not immune to spite and jealousy. I myself did not suffer much, but I did see many employees, usually young women, being harassed by the managers. There was also a case of sexual harassment pending against a dishwasher when I resigned; although I later heard that it had been dismissed, the reality is: sexual harassment is a serious byproduct of romance in the workplace. “I’ve known of a couple coworkers who’ve been fired, transferred, or that simply quit because of constant harassment after a romance with a superior went bad,” says Julia.

    Most, if not all companies have in one form or another, sexual harassment policies. Such policies exist to protect the employees’ rights, and to deter anyone from carrying out any act of this kind. But to what degree are these policies effective in preventing incidents? Dr. Zaharia says, “The policies are likely more effective in preventing incidents if both (or more) parties involved have been reviewed the policies and they engage in behaviors consistent with the policies.” Finally, she adds, “The degree of whether sexual harassment policies work will likely related to the social atmosphere of the workplace and the ratio of male to female coworkers.”

    While there are men who do sexually harass women—and they should suffer the consequences—there are also women who abuse these policies by making false claims out of spite.It happens. So gentlemen, beware, and exercise good judgment before taking out, the take-out girl. False accusations of this nature can wreck havoc and dent futures. Be it overt or covert, most employers would likely agree that a romantic/sexual relationship amongst coworkers is a double-edged sword. While some employees surly become more productive when engaged in a romantic relationship with a coworker, others do just the opposite. Dr. Zaharia somewhat disagrees and says that overall, there is a decrease in productivity—depending upon how much the work product/service is related to participation of both parties.

    Many companies enforce interoffice dating bans. Are these bans a waste of time? I think so. And the reason is self-evident: if two coworkers—who are infatuated with one another—cannot safely date overtly, then they will do so covertly. Most of us spend a third of our adult lives at work; we spend another third sleeping; and after running trivial errands, there isn’t much time left for our most primal instinct: sex.When opportunity knocks, genetics always answer.

    Dating coworkers definitely involves risk; but if one keeps one’s wits about him/her, work can feel like a five-star vacation. As the philosopher/poet William Blake put it “To deny our own impulses, is to deny the very essence that makes us human.”

    Marty Masterson

    Marty Masterson is a Canadian freelance writer that’s been living and traveling in Asia since 2003. He currently resides in Phuket, Thailand with his wife.

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