To be honest, I’m the least person you can ever consult about fashion. LOL! I really have no signature look or style. One day, I can be the most sophisticated version of myself and the next day I’m the most ‘rugged’ person ever. And since I’m on a work from home setup for more than a year, I invested more on blazers that I can use during zoom meetings.
Do you follow a regular beauty or exercise regime?
I only use a St. Ives facial cleanser, toner, moisturizer and night cream. For exercise, I use my Nike Training Club app and follow Chloe Ting and @growingannanas on YT. I really love them!!!
Is there any food or drink you absolutely don’t take?
I’m not a fan of any food with big onion cuts. I also rarely drink softdrinks 🙂
What hobbies or interests do you have?
Cooking!!! Cooking keeps me sane from the stressful yet satisfying industry that I’m working with. I’m so happy watching cooking videos and cooking at all!!! Super love itttt!
Pre pandemic, I really love traveling!
I’m also an animal welfare advocate. Please please let’s be kind to animals! we don’t know their struggles, we don’t know how hard it is to be hungry and in pain but you have no idea how to say it.
If you could choose to remove one misconception forever, what will it be?
That once women are married, they should stay home, take care of everyone in the house and not work. Hell no! We are women, we are strong and can be anyone we want to be. Being married should not be a hindrance in achieving our growth and development in terms of career.
Which flavor best describes you?
Sweet and spicy LOL. Haha my sun is Gemini so people tend to see that I change my mood within a snap.
What turns you off on a date?
When my date disrespects the waiter, parking guy, utility guy or security guard.
Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Irish. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
Being sexy is being healthy inside and out and being able to carry yourself regardless if you’re small, medium, large and so on.
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Hi everyone! I’m Lisa from Boston, MA. I actually just graduated and have decided to stay in Boston for work. I am currently working as a marketing specialist for a healthcare company.
Most people online know me as Sehisa – a name I’ve created for myself years ago to use as a fun nickname and gamertag. I’ve always wanted to share my fashion, beauty, and lifestyle pics in general with the world but had wanted to remain anonymous back then, so when I first started my page, I used the name Sehisa instead of my real name and it has stuck around ever since.
How is your fashion style like and where do you draw inspiration from?
For the most part, my fashion style can be described as girly/cute aesthetic. I enjoy wearing vibrant and pastel colors, especially pinks and am always in dresses or skirts which you can see in most of my photos.
At the same time, I also like to switch up my style often [off camera] based on how I’m feeling or what’s trending. I enjoy trying different aesthetics because it’s fun to try new looks. Some days, I’ll want to go for a classic elegant look in neutral colors and another day, I’ll want to go for a more baddie vibe with an all-black/streetwear outfit. I get most of my inspirations from Pinterest and other fashion influencers/accounts that I follow on Instagram.
Do you have any favorite food or cuisine you can’t live without?
I am a huge foodie and always love going on food adventures. The one type of food that is my favorite is hotpot! It’s always my go-to no matter what the weather is like or any time of the day. I love researching new hotpot places everywhere I go to try.
As for drinks, I am obsessed with bubble tea and need to have at least one bubble tea drink every week! My favorite is the regular black milk tea with boba.
Is there a beauty or exercise regime you follow regularly?
I don’t have any specific beauty routine but the one thing that I have to use every day is moisturizer. It’s the one thing that I can’t live without. In the winter my skin is super dry and in the summer it’s oily, so I’ve been using a combo skin type moisturizer from Nature Republic that I discovered a few years ago and have been using ever since.
If you could change one thing about the world, what will it be?
I could talk about this topic all day but to keep it short: Racism. I know it’s a stretch as of right now but there’s nothing more that I want than for all of the racism in this world to stop. Especially ever since the pandemic hit, this problem has been at an all-time high – especially for Asians. I don’t understand why it still exists but I am all for doing anything I can to support those who are victims of racism or hate crimes.
If you don’t know where to look for resources or just information in general on how to help with what’s going on in the world, please feel free to reach out to me I will definitely share some with you.
Have you been in an embarrassing situation before that is funny now when looking back?
I have been in so many situations like that I could list them for days! But I remember this one time back when I was in college, my friends and I were calling an Uber to go to a rave and we ended up getting into a random stranger’s car by accident thinking it was our Uber because the cars look exactly the same. It was so embarrassing but funny now that I think about it.
Which flavor best describes you?
I would say strawberry. It is usually represented as a cute pink color and I think it fits my aesthetic the most hahah. Also, strawberry is usually my go-to flavor for everything – especially strawberry ice cream.
What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?
I think the funniest attempt that a guy has ever tried to know me was by sending me food pictures on snap hoping that I would be interested because he knew that I liked going out to eat often and trying new types of food.
Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Lisa. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
I define “sexy” as anything that you consider attractive. For me, it would be confidence and self-love.
Hello, It’s an honour to be featured! I’m from Mississauga, Ontario, Canada and I’m a freelance model. Meaning I manage myself and book my own photoshoots. Aside from my modelling, I’m in school to become an animal welfare officer since I love animals!
How long have you been modeling and what do you enjoy about being a model?
I’ve been modelling for about five years now, and I think what I enjoy the most is the empowering feeling it gives me. Each photo I get back makes me feel and look good, which can be empowering.
Do you have any favorite genres of modeling you prefer?
My favourites are boudoir and nude, since I’m free to express myself and my body.
What is a memorable or unforgettable photoshoot you have had so far?
My most memorable photoshoot so far is when I shot at an old abandoned mill, it was full of history still, even in the broken down walls, and I find that just beautiful and cool about abandoned buildings.
If you could change one thing about the world, what will it be?
There is way too much I’d want to change, and I think some of the world’s problems are more complicated than that. What’s to say one change would fix that issue/problem?
On a scale of 1-10, how much of an adventurer are you?
Definitely a 10, I love to try new things and see new places, especially if it’s outdoors!
Would you rather be a vampire or werewolf?
Hmm I guess it would have to depend, what movie universe I’m from, but I guess for now, I’d go with a vampire.
What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?
Not so funny, as sad and annoying. Definitely lame, but send me dick pics, even after I blocked him off on social media for doing just that.
Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Kasey. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
Sexy can be fluid, what is sexy to one person may not be for someone else, with that being said, I think sexy is whatever makes you feel good, or appeals to you as an individual.
Let’s clear some of the biggest myths around BDSM.
What are the top 5 Myths in BDSM?
#Myth 1: BDSM is a Fetish
BDSM is not a fetish. It’s an erotic behaviour or kink. A fetish is admiring something that not exclusively sexual but has erotic stimulating qualities. For example these days one of the most popular fetishes is foot fetish. Feet aren’t sexy for most people, but for someone with a foot fetish, they can quickly become the object of desire.
#Myth 2: BDSM is Uncommon
BDSM might be a taboo, but it’s far from rare. Especially since 2015 when the movie 50 Shades of Grey stormed into our lives. Durex survey revealed that out of five participants, one has already been engaged in some form of light bondage during sex. These numbers have shown a respective 37% in the U.K and 35% in the U.S. Not surprisingly the same number is around 65% with people fantasise to try it.
#Myth 3 People are always Submissive or Dominant
In BDSM the fulfilment requires having both roles during the role-play. In these scenes, the Dominant (or Dom/Top/Master) will have the power over the submissive. The Dom can humiliate, punish, control or reward the Submissive (Sub/Slave/Bottom) depending on how much they able to meet the Dom’s expectations. During these power-mind-games, both will have tremendous pleasure, sexual arousal and satisfaction from the power dynamic. A good D/S relationship when both meet their human need. The Dominant being powerful and significant. The submissive being in service and contributing to her/his Master’s pleasure and well-being.
However, bare in mind that if one relationship you act Dominant does not mean you have an overall Dom personality. Usually, dominant people like to stay in control, and submissive people like to obey and serve, so it’s a win-win. Individuals who are enjoying variety could switch from one role to another. These people love the mental challenge to expand their erotic boundaries. This type called: Switch.
#Myth 4 It’s all about abuse and pain
Rightly sadist and masochist can be these cases. However, most kinkers in the BDSM community mainly involved some for of bondage and D/S games. BDSM sex should be a situation where you can’t wait to see your partner to give or receive sensations. Create a fun, playful, naughty and erotically exciting sexual playground where people free to express their deepest desires to one other. It never should hurt, unless someone gets turned on by pain.
# Myth 5 It’s all about Sex
BDSM is rarely about sex. It might contain the element of sexual activities, but it’s not the payoff. Sometimes you can feel sexually so stimulated by certain scenes, mind-fucking manipulations that it would feel intimate, almost as good as having an orgasm without an actual ejaculation. Some people say it can be better than traditional sex. Only one way to find out if that’s true for you – try some BDSM sex tonight!
What’s all about the BDSM clothing?
There are a lot of hot kinky materials that stimulate the skin, such as rubber, latex, leather or wearing sexy uniforms such as school girl, nurse or dominatrix. Cross-dressing also a fun way to explore some of your kinkier sides. The term stands for cloth swapping. Example: Your man would like to wear your lingerie, stockings, panties or whatever he fancies during sex. Put some lipstick, make-up or wig on. Why not? It’s no harm to explore new things in the bedroom. Remember it just play, an act. You could become anyone you want to be for an hour or two. Who would you be?
Who practices BDSM sex can’t enjoy Vanilla Sex?
Vanilla sex refers to ordinary (aka traditional) sex.
Trying BDSM sex is like topping up your vanilla ice-cream with some chocolate sprinkles or syrup. You can add on the ice-cream or leave it. Both way you could enjoy the ice-cream right? The same applies to BDSM sex. In my opinion who practise any form of BDSM just has a wider range of colours to paint in the bedroom. Giving more sensations, attention and pleasure to their partner by respect and understand their true sexual desires.
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She works with high achieving men in their 40′ helping them to heal, express and empower thought tantra, mindset and self-compassion.
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Hi! Thank you for interviewing me. My name is Sophia, I am a recent college graduate from Chapman University who works in accounting as well as makes social media content on the side.
What is your fashion style like and where do you love to shop from?
My fashion style could be described as athleisure chic, kind of like what you wear to your classes in senior year of college, but throw on some makeup and jewelry! I love shopping from Fashion Nova, Shein, and H&M.
Do you have a strict beauty regime to look so fabulous?
Yes, thank you for noticing! I have a skincare routine I follow for both morning and night, and on most days I try to not wear makeup so I can allow my skin to breathe. Both AM & PM skincare routines are a pretty basic routine of face soap, toner, serums, and lotions.
Is there something you have always wanted to learn or do but haven’t had the time?
I’ve always wanted to open a YouTube channel, but I’m not quite sure what type of content I would upload there.
What food or cuisine do you enjoy most?
I really enjoy Korean BBQ.
If you could be a superhero or villain, who will you be?
I’m not sure if this counts, but I would be Azula from Avatar the Last Airbender.
Would you rather stay in or go out for a date?
I would prefer staying in, but would love to occasionally go out and experience something new.
What do you not get about guys?
Where do I begin? Uh… Everything haha!
Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Sophia. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
I define “sexy” as something that you find confidence in, and allows you to exude an aura around you that attracts others to you.
I’m currently working on a makeup project where I ask my friends to draw makeup looks for me, and I do my best to recreate and elevate them, check them out on my social media pages!
Samantha Yardley is an internationally published writer and editor specializing in the fitness industry. Former sub-editor of Muscle & Fitness UK, Muscle & Fitness HERS UK and FLEX UK and current sub-editor of Muscle & Health she is on a mission to educate and inspire through the power of the written word.
SimplySxy catches up with Samantha to learn more about her fashion style, interests and beauty regime!
That is so kind, thank you for having me. I’m a journalist/ writer specialising in the fitness industry and the sub-editor of Muscle and Health.
How will you describe your fashion style and where do you draw inspiration from?
I love tight fitting clothes that show your figure but don’t reveal too much skin. In the daytime you’ll probably catch me looking casual in skinny jeans and a bodysuit with Timbos or Air Max 90s.
For nighttime, I like to make an effort with nude Loubs and a red or black dress; I’m really into cut out styles at the moment that show a little bit of the top of your midriff.
What is your beauty regime like and do you use any beauty products?
Pre-COVID, my beauty regime was dire, but I’ve started being much more vigilant and my skin is so much better for it. The lockdown-induced break from makeup has helped too. I use lots of beauty products at the moment; a weekly peel or facemask, cleanser, toner, moisturiser, eye cream. I have a cream for everything!
What hobbies or interests do you have?
My life pretty much consists of working and working out! I love to stretch and lift weights and food and cooking is my obsession. I’m really into food provenance, and shamefully, I’m one of those meal prepping Tupperware pests, ha!
Which 3 activities do you recommend to everyone who visits your city?
I’m based in the Midlands (UK). You have to visit Warwick Castle, if you’re ever in the area. It’s a sight to behold. For a leisurely wander, The Parade in Leamington Spa is beautiful and a lovely place to grab a coffee and people watch. For a bit of nature, Ryton Pools is my favourite.
If you could time travel, where will you love to go and witness?
Am I allowed to buy a lottery ticket in this scenario or take out some shares in Apple and Microsoft? Lol! Art deco has always appealed to me, it’s just so stylish. So, transport me into a scene from the Great Gasby please.
Would you rather invent a new gadget or discover a new species?
Easy one! 100% invent a new gadget. I would love to solve a problem for people and obviously… royalties.
What turns you off on a date?
My biggest turnoff of all time is unpolite people; manners cost nothing. If someone was rude to the waiter, I think I would want to escape from the bathroom!
Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Samantha. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
That is my pleasure! Thank you so much.
Good question! I think confidence and positivity personifies “sexy”, I love pragmatism, ambition, and a good sense of humour. I gravitate towards an alpha. Superficially, I’m really into the sound of people’s voices and a good set of traps is my weakness, ha!
My name is Ishita Chakraborty. I’m a 3rd year honours literature student. Along with that I’m interested in makeup, beauty, fashion and styling. I’m from Kolkata, India.
How will you describe your fashion style and where do you draw inspiration from?
Fashion and style to me is all about knowing about the self comfort zone and sticking around it. It should always be something relatable and creative. Fashion to me has always been my comfort along with little mix and match. My fashion and style is very feminine, sometimes bright and sometimes neutral. I normally plan my outfits based on what looks the best on me and apart from that, I love looking into Pinterest for inspiration.
What is your beauty regime like and do you use any products regularly?
My beauty regime is all about cleansing, moisturising and applying sunscreen no matter what I’m doing/where I’m going. I also love using sheet masks occasionally. I use an moisturiser and SPF by Neutrogena and it’s my favourite so far!
How is a typical day like for you?
Pretty normal, I try to cope up with my classes and studies, scroll through Instagram. Sometimes I plan a home shoot for my gram.
Do you have any hobbies or interests?
I love to sing! Apart from that, I love reading fiction and I love to cook.
Would you rather be able to teleport or read minds?
I’d definitely love to read minds.
On a scale of 1-10, how much of a foodie are you?
A solid 7 out of 10.
What do you not get about guys?
Sometimes trying to be someone that they’re not.
Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Ishita. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
All about being confident in my own body type and being comfortable. Being sexy is all about carrying out the style and personality. Just being myself and that’s good to go.
Hi, SimplySxy readers! I’m Kisha, a 17-year-old beauty and lifestyle content creator in the Philippines. At a young age, I started writing stories on a writing platform. Eventually, I bore it out and made a YouTube account around April 2020, and that’s where it began. I auditioned for brands on my Instagram in mid-April, and it’s been a year ever since!
I feel blessed with all the support I received and the vast sponsorships that I acclaimed. One of my specialties is to give talks on my Instagram (@kishaghermay). I’m currently a student at the University of St. Tomas Manila and I’m aiming to get a law or business course when I graduate next year.
How is your fashion style like and where do you draw your fashion inspiration from?
Hmm, my fashion style’s probably a mix of cottage core and minimalist clothing. My fashion inspos would be the Filipina YouTubers Faye Balogo and Toni Sia and American Instagrammer Kelsey Simone. They value comfortable clothes over anything else!
When the pandemic started, I embraced my inner homebody and loved sweaters, sweatpants, and pyjama sets; and when I go to errands, I dress up like I’m going to a business meeting or I’m from early England. There’s no in-between!
How is a typical day like for yourself?
A day full of skincare, pajamas, food, reading, and binge-watching. That would be the most typical day of self-care for me! It’s better to arrange days when you feel like doing what’s good for yourself, with no tasks and duties to do. Take care of yourself in this pandemic!
On a scale of 1-10, how much of an adventurer are you?
11/10. Really. In a month, I’d discover random facts of astrology, personality types, historical events, and more due to my curious “researcher” side. The next thing I know, I’d be a self-proclaimed writer or an established blogger. I admit, I am a LOT of things.
Which beauty or fashion accessories are a must-have in your collection?
Not sponsored, but I love Colourette Cosmetics’ Colourtints for my natural looks. It’s a lipstick, blush, and eyeshadow all-in-one! Perfection, really. One of my best staples. For the accessories, earrings and purses are always in the mix. I always feel like I look expensive when I wear those!
TIP: If you’re a minimalist like me, invest in silver-colored accessories. Trust me, it looks good.
Would you rather be able to control fire or water?
Water would be the best option. Fire is so NOT my personality.
If you could have a superpower, what will it be?
Flying and mind reading can have so many disadvantages, so I’ll go with invisibility instead. This is essential for those embarrassing moments!
What is an ideal first date for you?
I mostly establish my potential partners as close friends first before any official “dates”, so we’ll probably go on binge-watching marathons or amusement parks. Ambivert alert!
Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Kisha. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
Reminder: It’s okay if you don’t have hourglass shapes like your local celebrities or models. I do believe that all of our bodies are perfect in their own unique way; if you’re happy and contented with it, then why would you force your body to change?
Thank you SimplySxy for reaching out to me. I’m a DJ from Ukraine. I was in China for a very long time. Now, I’m more in the Arab Emirates.
What inspired you to be a DJ and was it something you’ve always wanted to be?
It happened naturally. I was a booker manager of Ukrainian DJs and I had the opportunity to learn this craft.
Then I started to play and did not notice how I turned into a professional DJ.
What is your DJ style like and which kind of music are you into?
Now I play house, progressive, tech house, and ethnic deep. I love techno very much.
But I like to listen more than I play. I should try more of myself in this style. In China, I had huge experience in EDM styles.
How do you like to spend your free time if you are not DJ-ing?
I’m an active and versatile person! I’m looking for mood classes! Today I can spend a day with my family and tomorrow, I can go to a party with my friends and, the day after tomorrow I will go to the museum alone. I love fashion, sports, art. And this is not even the limit.
If you could perform anywhere or at any event in the world, which will it be?
Of course I would like to be stimulated to more professional performances and venues. It doesn’t even matter the place! There is a very cool atmosphere in simple places.
TOMORROWLAND, ULTRA MUSIC FESTIVAL
These festivals are an indicator of an artist’s popularity if you get there once! Of course I would like that!
Which 3 fun things do you love to do in your city?
What do you mean? Eat, sleep and sports.
Would you rather have the ability to teleport or read minds?
Teleport!!!!!
What turns you off on a date?
I will adhere to the saying…they are greeted by clothes, but escorted by the mind.
Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions DJ Nicole. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
It is naturalness and grace! This is a very neat and subtle hint!
My views towards companionship have changed over the years with every new life experience. When I was younger and had never experienced this world myself, first-hand, I could only go by what mainstream media painted this industry as: a dirty one, something someone engages in out of desperation. I thought only people with trauma or a poor upbringing would be involved in any type of adult work, but then, after graduating college and having some debt I found myself immersed in it.
I thought I would get in, pay-off my student loans, and get out. But then, once I slowly discovered all the different layers to this fascinating industry, I realized it makes a lot of sense, as a woman, to be involved. I highly enjoy my companionship job. I have met men and women of all walks of life all around the world, and I’ve been treated better by my clients than any “normal” boyfriend ever treated me. There are never any mind-games involved. People think everyone is coerced into this industry, and although that may certainly be true for some, it’s very far from the truth for many others.
I know many educated ladies who come from “good” families who do this job. We are service providers like any other. Men have the need for intimacy, I don’t mean just sex, I mean intimacy. They come to us because with us, they can be themselves without the pressure of always having to portray themselves as masculine and having all the answers. With us, they get to be vulnerable. They get to enjoy a fun, relaxing time, get a stress-free release, that every human-being needs, and then go back to their world, without the drama and expectations of a traditional relationship. I view companionship as a necessity for the successful functioning of society.
Popular Reasons For Men To Engage A Companion
In my particular case, men come to me for intimacy. I’m a low volume provider, or companion, which means I don’t see a lot of people every day. I accompany gentlemen to dinner, a theater show, an event, a vacation, or a staycation… Men engage a companion because they seek a judgement-free person to spend time with.
I know a lot of personal details of my regular clients, and this stems from the trust built over the years. It has become a friendship. They feel the need to talk about the realities of their job, or the pressures they face at home, because society, unfortunately, views men as weak if they show emotions and vulnerabilities. They engage a companion because they get to be vulnerable for once.
What Makes Me An Ideal Companion
In my personal life, I keep to myself. I only have a few close friends and I spend a lot of time with my family when I’m on time off. My work persona is a kind, nurturing, understanding lady. I am very laid back, relaxed, and I do not judge the gentlemen or couples that seek me out.
When I feel totally comfortable with someone, I’m quirky and funny. I believe I’m very confident, and I try to see the world from multiple different lenses and not just my own. I feel the only way to be a successful companion is to put yourself in other people’s shoes.
Do First Timers Feel Nervous When Meeting You?
When I realize someone is nervous because they are new to this world, I always tell them to relax, to view me as their friend. They don’t have to put on an act to impress me. I always ask them what their fantasies are, what they want to talk about, how their day was, and I try to get them to open up.
I’m kind of like a naked psychologist. But they correlate their “appointment with their naked psychologist” as a fun, nurturing time. They correlate me to positivity.
Mistakes To Avoid When Engaging You
Yes. One should be respectful of my time. I am not on-call. I am appointment-based. This is a service I am providing. A service YOU need. So it’s important to respectfully approach me and make an appointment in advance, so I can also schedule my life. I do not only do this job. I do other things in my life too, hence why I am so well-rounded, and can offer you such a good service.
I value good hygiene, good manners, and also it’s important to read the “etiquette” portion on my website. It’s in poor taste to make your companion ask for the monetary gift. It should be given on your own, at the beginning of our meeting, and always the correct amount. It’s also uncomfortable for me to count it in front of you, so it’s important for you to use the restroom to freshen-up, so I can then count the gift in private.
Those formalities must be out of the way from the very beginning so we can enjoy our quality time together. Such simple little steps go a very long way when making the appointment super positive and memorable for both of us.
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