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  • Burlesque Performer, Model & Cosplayer Ruby Rapture

    Burlesque Performer, Model & Cosplayer Ruby Rapture

    Hi Ruby it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    I’m Ruby Rapture, a Burlesque perfomer, cosplayer, and model based out of Florida. I lived in California until I was 8, but I love Florida, and the friends I’ve made here, although the humidity is awful!

    How did your interest in cosplay develop?

    I was actually cosplaying before I knew what cosplay was! When I was 15, my school held a costume contest.  I was obsessed with this manga called Di Gi Charat so I decided to dress as Rabi en Rose for the contest. My mother helped me make the costume. No one knew who I was but I still came in 2nd place to a kid dressed as Jesus.

    What challenges do cosplayers face that is not usually known?

    For me, as a female cosplayer, I see a lot of the creepier side of cosplay.  There’s a line between appreciation and degradation. Cosplayers put their hearts and souls into their work, we love these characters and just want to share that love with others.  Regardless of what someone is wearing, they should be treated with  respect.

    Is there an experience everyone should try at least once in their life?

    Burlesque! I think everyone has the right to feel sexy and awesome and burlesque is such a fun way to channel that.

    You have a passion for burlesque dancing too. What do you love about it?

    I love everything about burlesque, the lights, the crowd, the routines, but most of all I love the feeling of performing burlesque.  It’s so empowering.  I had a lot of body issues as a breast cancer survivor; performing made me feel beautiful and confident. My burlesque family is amazing, too.  I manage Shaken not Stirred Burlesque, and the girls in my troupe are really supportive.

    What motto or quotes do you live by?

    I think the thing I say the most is “everything is fine,” but my motto is glitter and be great . Or ROADHOUSE!

    If you could describe yourself as a flavor, what will it be?

    Ruby Red Raspberry!

    What exciting projects can we see you in the coming months?

    I have a lot of awesome stuff going on over the next few months.  I’m performing with Shaken not Stirred Burlesque at Epicon on August 19th , then catch me and few of the girls at Space Coast Comic con September 8th and 9th, and at the end of September I’m starring in a short film that I wrote with my best friend.  Check the links for more details!

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Ruby. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Confidence, Charisma, and being comfortable enough to be your own damn self. That’s sexy, own it.

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    Booking Enquiries: rubyrapture@yahoo.com

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  • Why Couples Should Choose An Escort For Their First Threesome

    Why Couples Should Choose An Escort For Their First Threesome

    I find, personally, threesomes need to be carefully cultivated. You need to figure out you and your partner’s level of comfort – for example, do both of you have your eye on a particular friend? Is this a friendship you trust? Can you handle seeing that same person again afterwards? And on the flipside – would you both prefer a stranger? Are you willing to take that risk? How are you going to go about meeting her? Tinder? A bar? The club? A vacation? I would think there’s a lot more to discuss about a threesome prior to actually initiating it, less you wind up in a devastating blow-up from poor planning. A threesome should be a fun, erotic adventure for the two of you – and absolutely not something that could come back to haunt either of you. So essentially I think like with anything in life, they come at a risk – and a great payout.

    Should Couples Try A Threesome At Least Once?

    I wouldn’t actually say they had to. This may not sound interesting to some people. For some – a tangled mess of bodies, writhing, moaning, delighted with each other, is a dream. For others, flip it, and it’s a tangled mess  of bodies, rubbing the wrong things, getting in the way, sweating on their clean sheets. Nightmare. I think if it’s a scenario both couples want, they should try it… exploring your sexual side is always exciting. But if you don’t want it, don’t force the situation, it’ll just be hell on everyone involved. There are other fun things to explore, anyways.

    Benefits Of Engaging An Escort

    I think hiring an escort for your first threesome (especially if you intend to have many more than just one) is a great idea. These girls are professionals. They know what they’re doing, and they’re guaranteed comfortable and confident in their own bodies. There’s no elaborate seduction (unless you ask for that scene!) and everything can go to your plan. When you hire an escort, they are there to please you. There’s no intense romantic emotions tied in, no risk of day-after talks about unwanted feelings, and I stress the romantic emotions as of course your escort will be enjoying herself and very much into the two of you, just no worries about any disturbance afterwards or during. As well – an escort could offer many other things you want in a session, a specific outfit, a roleplay idea… etc, that you may feel uncomfortable asking a civilian girl you met at a bar. These types of encounters are carefully controlled, safe, and most important of all – very exciting.

    How To Ensure Everyone Gets Equal Action

    Ask. I always ask what someone wants to do. That’s the easiest way. If say, I’ve been with the girl too long and he’s been sitting there – you can easily say ‘Do you want to -do X thing- too?’, and bam, no more outsider. And you really just have to pay attention to both parties – make sure one isn’t just watching (unless they want to) and always try and pull them in. Just make sure hands are everywhere, all the time. Haha.

    Rules & Etiquette To Follow

    I couldn’t give you a direct list, but always listen to any restrictions (physical or otherwise) that either party has laid out in advance. You don’t want the threesome stopped because someone kissed or penetrated somewhere they shouldn’t have – what an uncomfortable, awkward experience. And as always, always use protection with someone new.

    Daisy Mae – Ottawa-based independent escort. Currently busy re-creating Noah’s Ark, traveling, immersing myself in artistic endeavors, and sucking dick to a prestigious degree. Tacky romance novels are my secret sin.

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  • Fashion & Beauty Enthusiast Vanessa Lim

    Fashion & Beauty Enthusiast Vanessa Lim

    Hi Vanessa it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hey hey, it’s a pleasure to have this opportunity! I’m currently an 18 year old content creator, creative and student from Kuala Lumpur. You can think of me as a huge fashion and beauty enthusiast.

    Photo: @80fifty_

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    I’ve been told that my style is mostly “comfortably classy”, but I wouldn’t consider myself to have a prominent go-to style as fashion to me is a constantly changing and evolving field. I love experimenting with different looks, and keeping myself inspired through different people and platforms. Besides, where’s the fun if you can only rock one style?

    Do you have any guilty pleasures when it comes to food?

    Well, I don’t think I can live in a world without ice cream, let’s just put it that way. I mean, I know it’s not exactly the healthiest dessert but life is short okay!

    Photo: @_theleftside

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a shopaholic are you?

    Probably… a 6. I know, surprise! I don’t shop a lot, but I love mixing and matching outfits, creating brand new looks with basics.

    If you could travel to anywhere in the world for a vacation, where will it be?

    Right now, it would be Santorini, Greece. It would be a dream to wake up to that beautiful view.

    Which flavor best describes you?

    Cookies and Cream for sure! A mixture of classic with a hint of fun, and it so happens to be my favourite flavor when it comes to ice cream.

    Where do you usually party?

    Truthfully, I’d much prefer house parties than heading to the club, it’s much more intimate in my opinion.

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    I was walking alone in a mall, and this guy came up to me and told me he had to get a picture with 10 girls or he’ll lose a bet. I agreed because why not? After that, he looked at me and said, “there was no bet, I just needed an excuse to talk to you.” It was both funny and lame at the same time.

    Photo: @80fifty_

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Vanessa. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy to me is more than how you look. It’s self-acknowledgment, knowing yourself well, and knowing what you want in life. It’s being ambitious and brave enough to go towards the direction of your goals. It’s being able to exude confidence and empower the people around you.

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    Images courtesy of Vanessa Lim unless credited otherwise

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  • Masturbating With Sex Toys

    Masturbating With Sex Toys

    I started masturbating when I was 4 years old. And couldn’t stop till maybe I was 14. And at 15, I started using a neck massager and it felt so amazing. I bought my first real vibrator at a sex store and it was the best!. I always loved to come home and masturbate. It was a dildo shape vibrator and then later on when I used it for cam it broke.

    My Favorite Sex Toy

    Right now I really love using the Hitachi which is probably the biggest sex toy I ever got. And I had the most amazing orgasms ever where I couldn’t stop using it. But when my cam members taught me how to really use it inside and also used it against my clit, I wanted to scream. Because it felt so good. I also started using the dildo which is an average of 6 inches. So I use it when penetrating in me while using the Hitachi and I feel satisfied every time. And a lot of other models gave me some good tips and pointers too.

    Photo: Kitty Lovegood

    Tips For Sex Toy Play

    I think you have to be really patient and find a private time for yourself so you can find what works for you. There are millions of sex toys out there to choose from. And always be very careful to make sure you are not allergic to certain dildos that could cause allergic reactions. And if you do choose a dildo that fits to your liking, always use lube. By far the best vibrators for reaching the best orgasm is Doxy and Hitachi.

    Tips For Beginners

    I strongly believe that masturbation is healthy at any age. And I believe that it’s good for your skin and health. And helps you get that release you need. Even if your partner isn’t around to please you. I do feel that it’s good for you even before having sex or if you are sexually active, or if you want to be more sexually independent, always have one of the best toys for you. Which is the vibrator. And I feel that nobody is ever gonna love you but you. And always practice on yourself to have the best orgasm. When you have the right partner you can experiment as well. Where they can use it on you. It’s always important to masturbate to find out what works for you.

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    Kitty Lovegood – 18+ cams, mother of fur babies and abstract artist. Worships anime. Movie buff.

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  • Hong Kong Model & Cosplayer Shiki Lee

    Hong Kong Model & Cosplayer Shiki Lee

    Hi Shiki it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy. Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hello. I am Shiki Lee, a model and cosplayer from Hong Kong.

    What is your fashion style like and where do you love to shop from?

    I am interested to try different styles but my friends keep on telling me that it is a Japanese fashion style. I do love buying clothes from Japanese brands. Sometimes I go to stores that sell old fashioned or second hand clothes to search for some ideas for mix and match.

    What beauty products do you use to look so fantastic?

    To look good, you must do your base makeup well. Finding a long lasting foundation that suits your skin tone with natural glow is important. Aqua foundation from Koh Gen Do is my recent favourite.

    But to be fantastic, the key is your smile and confidence.

    People judge with first impressions. Your perfect makeup may be overshadowed by the mental image.

    To minimize the illusion of impatience brought by uncomfortable makeup and clothing, I always dress up in a simpler way that I can feel comfortable. I also choose long lasting products for daily makeup so that I don’t have to care about my makeup throughout the day.

    Do you have any hobbies?

    I love Japanese animation and games so much. This is one of the reasons why I do cosplay.

    The other reason or I would say my intention is that photography and modeling in cosplay is different from fashion modeling. In cosplay photography, you have to show different characters by your facial expressions and posing. I would like to show more character in fashion photography too.

    What kind of movies do you enjoy watching?

    Movies, like the Marvel series, with good story lines and visual effects always catch my eyes. I also enjoy movies which describe the psychological events of characters.

    If you can travel anywhere in this world, where will you go?

    I would like to travel deep under the sea and observe the weird creatures living there.

    Have you experienced a funny or embarrassing moment before?

    As said before, I am interested to try different styles. Sometimes the look is so different to the previous image. People may recognize me as another person.

    One day, I just finished a cosplay shoot as a male character. With my wig and makeup on, I had dinner with my family. That is a restaurant where the waiters can already recognize all the faces of my family members. “Oh. You got a cousin to eat with you guys today,” said the waitress. Okay. That’s me.

    What is an ideal first date for you?

    It should not be in a hurry. Great to have delicious food and desserts.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Shiki. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

    “Sexy” to me is an inner power that make a person attractive. Understanding  and being confident with our own charming points allows us to shine.

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    Facebook fanpage: https://www.facebook.com/shikicosplay/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ojiisan.shiki?fref=ts

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/woo_in_the_dark/

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkZWLg7zpj1Oz6w1-wLcPPA

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/shikicosplay

    Images courtesy of:

    ViVi Hong Kong (https://www.shewin.com.hk)

    Patrick Shing Wong (https://www.facebook.com/pwsphotog/)

    Wilson (https://www.facebook.com/WilsonEyesCapture/)

    Wilson Cosplay Photo (https://www.facebook.com/wilsoncosplayphoto/)

    Zeros Wai (https://www.facebook.com/ZeroCosPhoto/)

    Kwan Lun Lun

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  • Chinese-Canadian Model & Entrepreneur Candice Lia

    Chinese-Canadian Model & Entrepreneur Candice Lia

    Hi Candice it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Greetings from Canada! Thank you, SimplySxy, for featuring me today. It is a pleasure to share a little bit of myself with you and your readers. I am a Chinese-Canadian published model based in Vancouver. I enjoy doing promotional modeling, working at car shows, traveling around the world and working on my own brand as my life career.

    Photo: MD Snapshots

    What do you enjoy most about being a model?

    As I am mainly an extrovert, I love meeting new people and socializing. The best place for this is at car shows! Car shows are so much fun. You get to see all the cool rides as well as meeting other photographers, models, and brands that you have potential of working with in the future. I also love working for myself, as I also consider myself an entrepreneur.

    Is there a memorable modeling experience you can share with us?

    One of my most memorable modeling experiences is one I cherish in my heart because of how unique yet simple it was. It was just a road trip with me and a couple other girls. One of them was a photographer; the other was another model/actress. We had only just met and we were driving to Vancouver Island so we had to take the ferry as well. Even though we were going somewhere local, it proves that even the simple things in life can still be enjoyed. We were on our way to shoot all day in the countryside, at a saloon for a calendar. The saloon style is not quite my style anymore, but I was young in my modeling career and that was an adventure for me.

    The girls and I bonded so well, and we had such a close tight-knit experience. We were enjoying complimentary alcohol and food all day while shooting against car after car. There were some really awesome classics too. Everyone was so nice and welcoming; it was a totally different environment. I just had so much fun in the car with them, on the ferry, on the island, and even the whole way back home. It shows that you don’t have to necessarily hop on a first class plane to another country in order to have fun. Fun can be found right in your very own province, just an island away… and you would’ve never even had known.

    Photo: MD Snapshots

    Where do you like to party usually?

    Since I am usually in Vancouver, my favourite local places are Celebrities Nightclub, Harbour Event Centre, and Bimini Public House. Celebrities is my number one spot. They’re popular there on Tuesdays and weekends. Harbour is great when they have a big event going on with big name DJ’s. Bimini is a cool place to drink and dance if you’re in the mood to go out on a Wednesday night. If you ever see me at these places, don’t be afraid to say hi! I love meeting my supporters and we can snap a selfie together!

    Photo: AJ Foto

    Do you have any guilty pleasures when it comes to food?

    I generally have a healthy diet. I regularly eat salads, meat and vegetables. Although I enjoy it, I can’t say I don’t have any guilty pleasures. Because what I love to eat more than anything in the world is Chinese food and bubble tea (AKA boba in the States!) The reason why these are ‘guilty’ pleasures is because Chinese food tends to be heavy in sodium, MSG, oil and/or carbs. And bubble tea is full of cream and sugar. But there is no way I can eliminate these from my diet. They taste soooo good, this is how I thrive!

    Are you more of a bikini or lingerie babe?

    Oh this is a tough one. I like to consider myself both. But if I had to choose one over the other, I would say bikini! I feel like bikinis are fun because you associate bikinis with beaches, and beaches with fun! Just imagine, a free soul, running around half naked on a beach – that’s me!

    Photo: Mike Wu Photography

    If you could have a special or super power, what will it be?

    Teleportation. It would make my life a whole lot easier. I would never have to factor in the time it takes to travel somewhere and I’ll never have to worry about getting lost again! Plus, I can just teleport myself anywhere depending on how I would like to spend my time. Hungry? Teleport myself to a cool restaurant in Asia! Bored? Teleport myself to some exotic beach! Got spare time? Teleport myself to the biggest shopping plaza in the world! Aweeesome.

    Photo: Mike Wu Photography

    Which is the lamest or funniest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    Well one time I was at a beach with my girlfriend and we were watching the fireworks together. I had my phone out because I was about to film it on Snapchat. And then this guy comes out of nowhere and just says ‘Hey you should add me on Snapchat.’ Before I can even respond, he took my phone and added himself. Then he gave it back to me and walked away. And I’m left like… ‘??????’

    Photo: NKZ Productions

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Candice. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy can come in so many different forms, and everyone sees sexiness differently. It can be confident, daring and bold, or subtle, sweet and shy. Sexy can be showing more skin in lingerie, or even covered up in a classy outfit. Sexy can be visually appealing yet it can also be found in someone who’s got brains. Sexy can be in the eye of the beholder as well.

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    Website: http://candicelia.com
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    Featured image courtesy of MD Snapshots

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  • Model & Body Painter Caitie Marie

    Model & Body Painter Caitie Marie

    Hi Caitie it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Thanks for having me! I’m a born and raised Jersey girl, working as a model since 2008. I’m also a body painter, foster cats for local shelters, and love black coffee. I’m a business student, passionate about educating other creative folks so that they can run thriving business doing what they love, too!

    What do you enjoy most about being a model?

    The adventure of it. Lots of new people and places, domestically or abroad. I appreciate creating personal connections with the talented folks I work for. A lot of past clients have become collaborative BFF’s, or like family to me.

    Is there a memorable modeling experience you can share with us?

    The first time I was published in a major magazine, I wasn’t told. It was a painting of me by Alyssa Monks, on the cover of American Art Collector, October 2010. A friend of mine was browsing in Barnes and Noble when she found it and called me. I was pretty giddy!

    Do you have any hobbies?

    I really love my work, and I’m starting a new venture teaching business to creative entrepreneurs. I spend most of my downtime on that these days. But when I’m really looking to check out and unwind, I love DIY craft projects or video games.

    How will you describe a typical day for yourself?

    A typical day when I’m on tour, working: wake up, coffee, look over my notes to refresh myself on that day’s shoots, pack for them, text photographers that I’ll “see ya soon!”, Job #1, have a snack, nap in my car in a Dunkin’ Donuts parking lot,  Job #2, find food, zone out in my Airbnb until bedtime. It’s really hectic on the road! And I get “over-peopled” quickly so it can be very tiring. But the work I do is so gratifying, it’s worth the grind!

    Is there anything in life you can’t get enough of?

    Talking to people about what they are passionate about. I love getting under the hood of what inspires and motivates different people, encouraging them to take on exciting projects, break down their barriers, and create lives they love.

    If you could have a special or super power, what will it be?

    Oh man, I wish I could press a button and have two bickering people stop being defensive and instantly understand each other. Even if you still don’t agree, you’re a better friend, supporter, colleague, parent, spouse, when you can identify the core issue and say “I understand you, let’s work this out together”.

    Which is the lamest or funniest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    After posing for a figure drawing class when I was about 19, a 40-something fellow with a volatile jail-break vibe asked me out for “snacks”. I told him I had just gotten something from the vending machine…

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Caitie. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    It’s a mood you embody, not something that’s defined for you. I see women of all shapes, sizes, and styles owning their femininity and loving their bodies…confidence (or lack thereof) shows up crystal clear on camera!

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    Website: www.caitiemarie.com
    Instagram: @caitiemarie

    Images courtesy of Caitie Marie

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  • Italian Content Creator Barbara Valentina

    Italian Content Creator Barbara Valentina

    Hi Barbara it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hello! It’s my pleasure. My name is Barbara Valentina Grimaldi and I am a content creator from Naples, even if I live in Milan right now.

    What is your proudest achievement so far?

    I would say my life in general. My blog is what I am and what I live but overall represents me following my passions.

    How do you constantly motivate and inspire yourself?

    Everything around me inspires me, music deeply does it but also books, pictures, places and other content creators works.

    If you can have a superpower, which will you choose to have?

    I would like to have the power to control time, making some days longer, relive the best times every time I want and deeply enjoy everything without rush.

    Do you have any guilty pleasures when it comes to food?

    Sure, I really like food and to cook. I am not a really big fan of cakes and sweets in general but my guilty pleasure is the breakfast with pancakes, bacon and eggs.

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    Concrete, minimal but with personality. I really like basics, black and white, plain looks but I always like to put a personal touch on it.

    Which was the last movie you watched and was it any good?

    I watch a lot of movies. Me and my boyfriend are very into films and we really like documentary. We watched a big number of them on Netflix and we liked pretty much all of them.

    What is your idea of an ideal first date?

    I am usually nervous before a first date and I definitely don’t like something formal like a dinner out. The first date you must understand if something clicks inside you, you must learn something about the other person so the best way is to walk and talk, better if near the sea, everybody looks better near the sea.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Barbara. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

    I would say confidence is sexy. Sexiness is not about the body for sure, it depends on the way someone moves in the world and connects with people.

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    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bvgrimaldi
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    Twitter: https://twitter.com/B_Grimaldi
    Blog: http://lovehandmade.me

    Images courtesy of Barbara Valentina

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  • Model & Blogger Emily Doll

    Model & Blogger Emily Doll

    Hi Emily it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hey there! Thank you so much for inviting me.  My name is Emily, I am 28 years old and I just recently moved to the Houston area from Oklahoma City with my two little boys. I am a freelance model and blogger specializing in Pinup, Rockabilly and vintage styles as well as most anything in the beauty and style world. I am also a body and self love activist.

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    Oh goodness I don’t even know anymore LOL. For about seven years my style was devoted to the Rockabilly style which can also be considered Pinup style. Everything I wore was retro and pulled from the 40’s and 50’s era. Now, I don’t really embrace any one type of style. I love style and fashion, I always have, so now I just wear what I want and what I like without worrying about how others feel about it. I wear a lot of things now that I never would have when I was younger due to worrying about being judged but after seven years of looking like I stepped out of a different time, I am used to the weird looks if I do choose to wear something that pushes the limits of the public. The only difference now is I don’t care.  My style is me, simply put.

    Which beauty products are a must have in your personal collection?

    Highlighter is my addiction. I never used it until it really became a thing and now I am obsessed with it. If I had to do a top five I would say face lotion for sure, my Better Than Sex mascara, red lipstick, liquid eye liner and some good ol’ chap stick!

    Where do you usually like to party?

    I don’t party. I never have partied. I was home schooled my whole life so I never had the high school parties, then I went into my first relationship at 17 and was in it until I was 23 which was a very controlling and unhealthy life style. I wasn’t allowed to ever go out so clubs and parties are something I always missed out on in my early 20’s. Now pushing 30 it isn’t something I even think about. I would rather go to a car show any day than clubbing. It just isn’t my thing.

    If you could travel to anywhere in the world for a vacation, where will it be?

    Honestly I would do a road trip to all of the most haunted and abandoned places around America. I love visiting places with history and energy and I love photography so I would love to do a road trip and take my time to just explore and relax and enjoy. Amazing photos, exciting moments, really bad truck stop food LOL, oh yea!

    Which flavor best describes you?

    Salty! LOL. Most people would say sweet. I like to say I am like a fairy, too small to have more than one emotion at a time, mad, silly, hungry, horny, whatever LOL.

    Is there something you don’t get about guys?

    I don’t think so. I don’t think there is any one thing I don’t understand about a certain sex. I would say there are things I don’t understand about people. Man or woman isn’t really defining but your heart and soul is pretty defining and that’s what I pay attention to.

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    I wouldn’t say any attempt was lame. I think it is always flattering that someone thinks I am worth their time. I really don’t get hit on that often though to be honest. It’s always really basic stuff, very polite, a dick pic or two LOL. I think the only memory I have to use here is when I was ten years old and friends with some little boys in our apartments. The oldest one liked me and I had no idea until he sang me a Brian McKnight song and gave me a card. I panicked and blamed my mom as to why I couldn’t be his girlfriend LOL.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Emily. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I think owning your sexuality is what makes you sexy. Embracing that raw carnal part of yourself and not being ashamed of it. I’ve had my sexuality used against me and abused and I have been told my entire life to be ashamed of it. It is part of who you are. Man, woman and everyone in between has that part of themselves and owning it and allowing it to shine is what is sexy.

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  • How To Feel Pleasure During Sex

    How To Feel Pleasure During Sex

    Sex is such a deep rooted part of being a human, and I love that our society is growing more and more open about sex, what turns them on and what they’re happy to talk about with other people. It is so intimately connected to our psyche and we really have no reason to be ashamed about talking about it or having sex – but a lot of people really don’t know what they’re doing! Sex really can be an artform – it can take time to figure out especially with women and what will make them cum.

    How Underrated Is Foreplay?

    SUPER UNDERRATED!!! Women really need to be warmed up – it plays a massive role in whether she will orgasm or not. But take care – all women warm up differently.  For example, a lot of women can have clitoral orgasms but it isn’t for me – I’m just too sensitive and it actually makes it harder to relax. So you really need to ask her what feels good to her, and maybe even ask her to show you, if you want to get it right and give her a mind blowing experience.  Some examples include body strokes, breast massages, running your fingers around the opening of her pussy, gentle and slow strokes inside it, body kissing….. there is a lot that you can do. But too much foreplay or foreplay that is too rough can also be overstimulating and makes it harder. So go gently and tune into the signs of whether it’s turning her on or turning her off…. And ask her to give you directions!

    Possible Reasons Women Don’t Get Orgasms

    I wrote a blog not long ago about the pleasure spots on a woman and there are many more than men probably realize – there are five alone related to the pussy! Like I said earlier, not all spots work for all and it’s a bit of  combination practice sometimes to figure out what someone likes.

    Sometimes women are our own worst enemy too – a stressful day can make it infinitely harder to relax and tune into our bodies. On the flip side, sometimes men will also experience this although usually it results in them not paying attention to what the woman wants…. They’re just focused on getting what they need from sex, and forget sometimes that someone else is there that also wants to get off.

    And sometimes, sadly, we let societal pressures get in our head. For some women, they don’t like sex – it feels dirty, they feel uncomfortable, they have this irrational notion in their head that lots of sex is bad. Maybe they’re fearful of how they will be perceived by their partner if they just let go, or explore their deepest fantasies, so it’s easier to just not have sex. And some women just don’t have a sex drive although honestly I believe that everyone has one to tap into – it all comes down to if you explore it the correct way.

    Absolute Deal-breakers Guys Make During Sex

    Doing something she is not comfortable with is deal breaker number one. Mind blowing orgasms rely upon a really trusting relationship, and if you’re trying to sneak fingers into holes you’re not allowed, or sticking tongues in her ears when it feels gross to her, it’s just not going to happen – sorry, not sorry.

    Any time you play with a pussy with your fingers too the strokes should be soft and firm but please, for god’s sake…. Don’t act like you’re a diabetic in an insulin crisis desperately scooping ice cream from a tub. Don’t poke your finger in hard and consistently like when your phone refuses to hang up at the end of a call – no manic button pressing please. It feels horrible.

    But other than that, if she’s down and you’re down, there aren’t really many general deal breakers. It will just be deal breakers specifically to her or to you, so just be open enough with each other that you can tell each other if you’re going somewhere you don’t want to go.

    Ways To Heat Sex Up

    Sex toys are the fucking bomb. You know how I said earlier that everyone is different, everyone gets off differently? There’s a sex toy for every possible combination out there. It took me four purchases to find my favourite and now, even though I struggle to come from sex, this toy will crack me in under two minutes consistently. I had my first double orgasm with it.

    Just purchase according to the spots that you know feel the best for you. For me, I like penetration but found that a little bit of clitoral stimulation sent me over the edge – so I purchased a rabbit toy with a curve at the end to hit the A spot (the most important spot for me).

    Keep an open mind too – sex toys aren’t just for women. There are incredible prostate toys out there for men, and I honestly think that all men should have a go at prostate play at some point in their life. It may not be for you, but if you find out it is…..well, you’re welcome in advance.

    Roleplay is super fun, you can consider scripted vs unscripted. I personally find unscripted roleplay suits me best, but sometimes you do need a script in advance – especially if you’re a little more nervous about it. It will just take the improv pressure off so you can enjoy it more.

    My personal way to spice things up – I am a food junkie, so let me eat food off your body and I’m a happy camper. There are so many ways you can put a twist on sex, just think about some of the things that you love to do and incorporate them. If you’re an outdoorsy type, go away for a naughty camping trip. If you love to be pampered, draw a bath together – fooling around in water is super sexy too. There will always be a way to incorporate what you love into sex, just get creative.

    Tips For Solo Play

    Honestly, again everyone is different. I generally need toys for masturbation because my favourite pleasure spots are deeper and toys just make it a hell of a lot easier to reach them…it means I don’t have to scrabble for them. I suggest taking some time to relax beforehand, stroke your body, warm yourself up before you go straight to masturbation – it honestly helps. And I love to think of fantasies, it really helps me get over that edge.

    Charlie Forde is a very down to earth, goofy gal well known for the twinkle in her eye, her natural and toned body and her slight geeky side. She loves helping people to explore their sexuality, and shares a lot of information via her blog on her personal site. Lover of gin, dogs, the outdoors and video gaming, experiences with her are chilled, full of intellect and ultimately unforgettable.

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