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Spanish Cosplayer Candy Cottom

Hi Candy it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy. Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

Thanks for offering me this feature. I’m known as Candy, I’m a Spainish cosplayer, have one twin sister, Reivaille and is a cosplayer too. I am 21 years old. I mostly cosplay girl characters (especially “loli”).

I have been a person who has suffered many ups and downs in this world but there is nothing that pleases me more than to read a nice comment about what I do.

Where do you love to shop from?

Long time ago I discovered the world of online stores and since then I have not left that world .

What beauty products do you use to look so fantastic?

Thanks but I have never used any beauty product for my skin or anything and I wouldn’t start using because redness will begin to be noticed haha.

Why do you love to cosplay?

Has it never happened to you that you would like to see it differently? To be someone else? Well I do it by doing cosplay, I get to be another for a few minutes or hours. The magic of cosplay and that’s why I love it part of it is fun.

What kind of movies do you enjoy watching?

I enjoy a lot with the cartoon movies. I could spend hours watching them.

If you can travel anywhere in this world, where will you go?

My list is too extensive to choose only one site but if I have no choice I’d go to Japan. Even though I’ve been, it’s a country I never get tired of.

Have you experienced a funny or embarrassing moment before?

Not really.

What is your idea of an ideal date?

I always imagined an ideal date in Disneyland hahaha. Sounds very fanciful but why not?

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Candy. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

I define sexy as having the confidence. An attitude.

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I’m releasing a lot of new content to Instagram but I would like to open Patreon. I hope soon.

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October 27, 2017
How To Find Casual Sex Partners?
There was this time when I really had a hard time in finding love. I have this terrible choice of people I stuck with. Then I realise that these things are just a fugazi (Clearly it did not exist). Then, I decided to change my theory about the relationship and believe me, that is really working for me now.

I am healthy, mentally relaxed and always cheerful. Why? Because I don’t have to face a mental trauma of relationship and other complicated scenarios. A casual sex heals it all. And the best part of it is you don’t have to worry about the complication arise after that. Why? Well because there are none. You don’t have to worry about all that shit which keep your life and celebration at bay. It is just like friends with benefits (Ignore the ending of the picture).

Well, in this post, I will guide you about how to approach successfully for casual sex. Most of you find it hard and end up scrolling forever through online dating websites and scams (That’s the most of the cases). With this elaborate article, you’ll be able to learn the number of ways for how to approach if you’re seeking for casual sex.

Let’s get started,

You must have heard about NCMO aka “Non-Committal Make Out”. This can really help you to heal without the pressure of any relationship. How to approach? Well, just stick with me,

You need to set your intentions first.

Yes, Most of the time we face problems because of our past. It is not that he will come around and mess up your life. It is you who create a mess of your things more badly than anyone else. You need to be precise about what exactly you’re looking for. NCMO cannot help you if you carry away with it.

You need to be clear about if this is the thing you’re seeking for. So, first, you need to be clear as glass before making any move. There is no point if you again dwell into the romantic conundrum. Because believe it or not, casual sex and romantic sex does not fall into any common ground at all. So, make sure of your emotional status before jumping into this phenomenon.

Be a look out for your standard.

Now, honestly having casual sex doesn’t mean that you need to drop down to anyone’s level. You can stay on your ground, there are plenty of people around you who want to have a casual hook up.

Having a casual sex doesn’t mean that you get screwed by anyone on the way. You don’t have to play mind games but dropping out to the lower standard will not be as awesome as it might happen to the person with the same level.

Say “NO” to the fear of ‘NO’

It is my personal experience that most of the time we don’t approach just because we fear what if he or she says no. In the male side, most of the time when they date, the real approach is always having sex. Just because you’re afraid to ask directly causes the same relationship conundrum and for what? Just the sex.

Do you really believe that you have to face such mental trauma just to have sex with someone you want? Come on mate, if that will be the play I won’t be writing on casual sex. Let go the fear and spit it out. Fear of rejection is natural. But there are people who think exactly same as you do. Obviously, you will get rejected by some people and believe me that sucks. Yet there are people who are as same as you, so, don’t hold back.

What are you afraid of? Just be honest

Are you going to be with that man or woman after that night? Of course not, then why need to be afraid of any sort of rejection. Be honest when making conversation with the potential partner.

Do my partners were honest? Yes, some of them were just too honest. They were even hurt at that time but they were clear as me to indulge in physical activity to nurture the soul.

Watch your words carefully, being nerdy and honest are two different things. Use phrases like, “But I will hook up with you”. This shows that you’re just being generous to him or her. These phrases will keep you away from him emotionally.

Always respect your boundaries

It’s Friday night, and you are off to a party. Now, you just thought that having a sex mate can be beyond perfect but then suddenly you thought that you might not respect yourself later in the morning. Believe me, stop right there and don’t indulge. Just for that night. Keep yourself together. You’re not a slave to your sexuality. You control it. Be a controller and avoid anything like that. Tomorrow is another day.

Never get Obsess

This is the hardest part of the process. This is where things might get ugly. Just because you had an amazing time doesn’t mean that you can change it into a relationship. Don’t forget your intentions when you started this.

If you fixate with this person just because of a one-night stand, then you might break your heart again. How often does one-night stand turn out to be a perfect relationship? I will never wager on that. You too, don’t bank it and back away. That will save you a lot of pain.

Places to meet

Well, places are very important here. Social venues are ideal choice to find a casual sex partner. Alcohol is the play here. Well, while talking about casual sex, alcohol is not a bad play at all. It usually makes people bold and makes them take some decisions that even they are not aware of. That is the reason people don’t often rely on clubs and alcohol. They not only blur the decision making skill but also ruin the sex part.

People then decide to go and meet online. That can be safer but sometimes even worst. Online scams for paid dating services. I have many of guy friends who fall for that and end up with whores. So, make your own decision. Things are not as bad as it seems, but being careful can be beneficial.

Wrapping it up

So, these are the ways and tips when indulging in casual sex. Allow me to follow you up with a quick recap of the pointers,
- You need to set your intentions first.
- You can stay on your ground, there are plenty of people around you who want to have a casual hook up.
- Say “NO” to the fear of ‘NO’.
- Just be honest.
- Always respect your boundaries.
- Never get Obsess.
- Social venues are ideal choice to find a casual sex partner.
Do you like my points? Leave a comment and let me know.

Zoe Maria is an associate editor at Adult Toy Empire – an online adult toys store, catering to all tastes and fetishes, all preferences! Zoe will introduce you to very popular types of sex toys that are guaranteed to spice up your life, or just add some much needed excitement to the bedroom!

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October 26, 2017
Cosplayer Brittany Chaos

Hi Brittany, thank you for taking the time to answer our questions. Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

My name is Brittany or (Brittany Chaos). I’m originally from Dayton, OH born and raised. But now live in San Antonio, TX. I stared cosplaying back in 2010. When I went to my first conversation (Dragon Con) in Atlanta, GA. I wore my Lady Deadpool cosplay. The feedback was so overwhelming that I wanted to keep making costumes. In my everyday life, I’m a hair stylist and have been for 10 years now. But in costume I can be anyone!

What do you love most about cosplay?

The immediate connection you have with a stranger, when they see you dressed as their favorite character. Another reason is being able to be anybody I want. I know simple right? It’s more than that. The cosplay you become could be a little kids hero. And the way they light up when they see you… it’s the best feeling in the world!

Is there a misconception you still commonly hear about cosplay?

Well there are a few. But the one I will talk about is age! That you should be young (below your 30’s) in order to cosplay. Not true at all! I’m 32 and still going strong ! And I can tell you I’m just getting started!

Which is your most memorable cosplay experience so far?

This has been the hardest question I’ve had to answer. Since I’ve had so many amazing moments while cosplaying. From meeting celebrities, pro cosplayers, etc. But my most memorable would have to be during memorial weekend this year. I was attending a local convention called Alamo City Comic Con. It was here I first debuted my Hawkgirl. As well as competed in my first costume contest. The most thrilling moment was walking on stage and showing everyone the hard work I put it! I was placed 2nd in the expert level. I was incredibly proud of my self! Because there were some pretty amazing costumes I went up against.

How long does it typically take for you to prepare for one event?

Well if we are talking building a costume. That can take me months. After a cosplay is constructed it takes me about a week to prepare for an event.

Are you more into action movies or horror flicks?

Horror all the way! I’ve seen so many horror movies! Do not get me wrong I like action. But I will choose horror over action every time!

If you could go back in time to live in a historical period, which will you choose?

That’s hard! I would say, the 50’s. I love the clothing during that time frame. The hair, makeup, how people presented themselves.

What is the funniest or lamest pickup line a guy has tried on you?

Oh gosh, Well I have been asked if I wanted a sugar daddy. Which I kindly declined.

It is a pleasure to feature you Brittany. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

Being confident in your own skin, a sense of humor, and Passion. Confident to know you can do it, humor to laugh at your mistakes, and passion to keep trying!

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October 25, 2017
Frequently Asked Questions for Dating an Intersex Woman

Taylor Lianne Chandler is a former sign language interpreter and crisis management consultant that came into fame after it was revealed that she was involved with Olympic Gold Medal Swimmer, Michael Phelps.

Her privacy went away as more stories, images and text were made public. She had a decision to make about what she wanted to do with her life after losing her career on Capitol Hill and shuttering her consulting company.

Lots of offers came pouring in. She went on to sign a book deal with Riverdale Avenue Books. They published The Making of Going for the Gold and Super Bowl Surprise in 2015. Her memoirs are expected to be released next year. She signed a three-year contract with Steven Hirsch, President of Vivid Corp. They released Going for the Gold which depicts a snapshot of her life after meeting Phelps on Tinder.

Taylor was outed to the world on the cover of The National Enquirer, RadarOnline and TMZ on November 19, 2014, the same day Michael left The Meadows, as not only Michael Phelps’ girlfriend, but that she was born intersex and had undergone corrective surgery in her early twenties to make her anatomically one gender, female. Since then she has appeared on tons of TV and radio shows: Entertainment Tonight, E! News, Huffington Post, Howard Stern, and many more.

She was also featured in print media like Time, Glamour, Cosmopolitan, The Guardian, The Advocate, The Washington Post, as well as podcasts like, The Toddcast Podcast, Cyberstation USA, U interview, The Reverend Bob Levy Show and many more.

Taylor’s interviews and articles about her are in over 100 countries and translated into over 45 different languages.

1. Are you Transgender?

Transgender is very different than intersex. Transgender feel like they were born in the wrong body, where as intersex, you are physically born both genders in some variation. The word intersex replaced hermaphrodite. There are more than 55 variations of intersex. Intersex people are born with any of several variations in sex characteristics including, chromosomes, gonads, sex hormones, or genitals that according to the UN Office of the High Commissioner for Human Rights, “do not fit the typical definitions of male or female bodies”. I’m diagnosed Mosaic. In essence, they believe I was twins that morphed into one fetus. Growing up knowing you are the wrong gender feels the same regardless of gender marker. The experience and what you face by society is the same. Sadly, people are more accepting of intersex, as there is physical, scientific proof, not just a feeling. Studies have estimated that as many as 1 in 100 children will be born with bodies that “differ from standard male or female.”

2. When did you decide to become a man or a woman?

Thinking that I was born one gender is not only incorrect, but disrespectful! While stories of intersex people may have similarities to those of trans people, they are not the same. Today doctors recommend assigning a gender at birth and allowing the child to develop physically and emotionally before deciding to undergo surgery to make the genitalia look more distinctly male or female. Many intersex individuals choose not to have surgery. When I was born they assigned me male at birth and did unnecessary genital mutilation. As soon as I could talk and walk I knew I was female. That started a long, painful process of surgeries and medications to undo the chaos that was done to me. I identify as female even though genetically I am both genders.

3. Does your vagina feel the same as a real girl?

Don’t get me started how this real girl conversation makes me feel. I have nothing to compare it to. I can tell you the men I have been with haven’t complained. I had vaginal rejuvenation in my 30’s so I am tighter than most women. I also had my outer labia removed so I only have one set of inner labia. I feel I became obsessed with surgeries to “make” me more female, or my vision of what female was. I did not tell the men in my life my intersex past, so until I was outed by The National Enquirer, Radar Online, and TMZ, no one knew. Watch my Vivid film, Going for the Gold, and you tell me what you think.

4. Does dating you make me gay?

I can’t help but laugh at this question. If you are a man that is attracted to women, how could dating me make you gay? You are attracted to a woman. There is nothing manly about me. Even if you are attracted to a trans woman that answer is the same. You are attracted to the female you see. Regardless of what is between our legs you are being turned on by the female image. A gay man is not attracted to a woman.

5. Can you have children?

As a matter of fact, yes I can. I have a Uterus and can carry a child through IVF, but I do not have eggs, so I can’t have a child in the traditional sense. Because I have so much scar tissue and have had so many surgeries, it would be a high risk pregnancy because I can’t dilate to give birth. I would have to have a C-section. The ability to have a baby doesn’t make you any more or less a female.

You may follow Taylor Lianne Chandler on Facebook at www.facebook.com/taylorliannechandler1, on Twitter at www.Twitter.com/realtaychatlc, on Instagram at www.Instagram.com/realtaychatlc and on her website www.taylorliannechandler.com.

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October 24, 2017
How To Maintain Strong Erection And Healthy Libido

Erection and libido

Every man dreams to have a satisfying sex life, and they have immense pressure to satisfy their partner in the bed. However, this dream is obstructed due to various reasons. One of the most common reasons for a man not being able to satisfy their partner is due to sexual dysfunction. Among various sexual dysfunctions, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, and low libido are some of them.

According to the published statistic, over 18 million American men are diagnosed with erectile dysfunction, which is a serious issue. Without having an adequate sex drive, a person will not have any willingness to have sex with their partner. And, a strong erection is needed for vaginal penetration.

Without strong erection and an adequate libido, a satisfying sex is impossible. Now, the question is how men can maintain a strong erection and healthy libido for a satisfying sex life. There are many causes of an erectile dysfunction, and low testosterone is one of the major causes of a low sex drive.

Ways to maintain a strong erection and a healthy libido

Like with most of the problems in the world, there are solutions to various male sexual dysfunctions. In this section of this article, you will get to know about some of the useful ways, which can help you to maintain a strong erection and a healthy libido.

Eat right

The first thing one should do to enhance their sexual health is to change their eating habits. There are certain foods that one must avoid, and there are certain foods that can incredibly improve the sexual health of a person. Avoid cigarettes and alcohol if you consume them because they have adverse impacts on your erection. The study shows that the individuals who drink a lot have an increased risk of an erectile dysfunction.

Some of the foods, such as banana, figs, dark chocolates, and others should be added to your diet plan. It helps in increasing your libido.

Stay away from excessive masturbation

Male masturbation is a very common practice. Most of the men have the habit of masturbating a lot, which is not a healthy practice. Remember, men should aim to satisfy their partners, not their emotions. Practice self-control if you want to enhance your sexual performance. There are many adverse impacts of vigorous masturbation. The men who masturbate a lot have a decreased sensitivity, and they may also experience premature ejaculation and weak erection.

A decreased sensitivity can create many issues while having sex with a female partner. It can drastically reduce the overall sexual performance of men.

Consider using some products

There are many people who are struggling to have a satisfying sex life, and there are many business houses too who are trying to solve the people’ problems. All sorts of products can be found on the internet. There are male fertility boosters and many other products. Some of them deliver the results while many other products are just useless.

Some of the useful products that can help men in maintaining a strong erection are:

Cock Ring: This tool is to be placed around the base of a man’s penis, which must be just behind the testicles. It helps in trapping the blood flow for holding an erection. However, this ring must not be placed over 15-20 minutes.

Sex pillow: Using sex pillow allows both the partner to have a comfortable sex. While a female partner can bend back and relax, a male sex partner can stand, kneel, or squat, according to his comfort. This helps in a better sexual performance.

Male Enhancement Supplements: There are plenty of male enhancement supplements that are sold over the internet. Most of them are not effective, though, while some supplements are effective in enhancing the sexual performance. Consuming these supplements can enhance the sex drive; improve the sperm count, erection, and more.

Get enough sleep: The modern lifestyle is hectic for some people because of a busy work schedule. However, this lifestyle must not restrain you from getting enough sleep. A lack of sleep can lead to exhaustion, which reduces the sex drive of a person. Manage a time out of a busy schedule to get enough sleep. This will restore your energy, and you will have a greater desire of having sex.

Manage medications: There are plenty of people who are regularly consuming specific drugs for their depression, anxiety, social phobia, and other mental disorders. These medicines may provide a relief for a certain period, but these medications can lead to an erectile dysfunction. Consult with a doctor and make sure that you’re not overdosing these medicines.

Proper sex position: The sex position plays a crucial role in determining the sexual satisfaction. There are many sex positions that can be tried out by the couples; however, some sex positions are comfortable in comparison to others. A man standing or being on the top of a woman helps in a better blood flow, which leads to a better erection.

Try placing your partner at the end of the bed and ask her to hang her legs up. It will allow you to stand and have a comfortable sex.

Exercises: A person must be involved in regular workouts. There are numerous health benefits of exercises, as it can enhance both physical and mental health. There are different types of exercises; however, there are some specific exercises that can enhance one’s sexual health. Try out abdominal exercises as it can strengthen abdominal muscles for a better erection.

Combine weight training and cardio, as both of them, help in fat loss. The study shows that obese people are at a higher risk of erectile dysfunction, and losing some pounds can certainly help in reducing a risk of an erectile dysfunction. Finally, add pelvic floor exercises in your fitness routine. These exercises can strengthen pelvic floor muscles, which results in a better erection.

Maintain healthy relationship: A lack of communication can destroy a relationship. It can lead to a lot of misunderstanding, leading to many conflicts. After a conflict, it’s obvious that a person does not want to talk with his partner, which ultimately kills his/her desire to have sex.

For a better sex, it’s very important for couples to have a strong emotional bond. It leads to a better sexual intimacy, which leads to better sex. If there are unresolved conflicts, then it’s better to sort it out before it ruins your sex life and marital relationship.

Conclusion

All the tips mentioned in the above section of this article are very practical and effective. The thing is clear, and it’s that you need to adjust your lifestyle in most of the cases to have a healthy lifestyle. The study shows that the sexual frequency is one of the major causes of divorce. A better erection and libido means an increased sexual frequency and a better chance of a healthy relationship.

In the case of a serious sexual disorder, it’s recommended to consult a doctor.

Dwayne Austin – Dwayne Austin is a multi-faceted author, blogger & fitness instructor. His articles on Health & Fitness have been published on various sites. Through his meticulous & informative blogging, Dwayne hopes to contribute to curious readers. He promotes ConsumerHealthDigest (https://www.consumerhealthdigest.com/) and encourages people to live a healthy lifestyle. He is passionate about photography and enjoys swimming during his leisure time.

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October 23, 2017
Texan Model Jillian Lyle

Hi Jillian it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy. Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

It is an honor to have been asked to participate in this interview! A little about me: I am a wife and a mother of two daughters, who are my absolute world. I am from Lubbock, Texas and still currently live there.

Photographer/Stylist: Laura Beck @laurabeckphotography

When and how did you get started into modeling?

I started modeling about seven years ago. I got started in the industry when a well-known fashion photographer, took an interest in me and asked me to do a photoshoot. From then on, I knew I loved modeling and wanted to make it my career.

Photographer/Stylist: Laura Beck @laurabeckphotography

Is there a memorable modeling or photoshoot experience you can share with us?

Definitely! The one in particular that comes to mind is my most recent studio shoot I did with Steve Ellinger. It was four months after I had my youngest daughter, and I had worked extremely hard to get back in shape and dive back into the modeling industry. I felt so alive, I kept saying to myself, “I’M BACK!” Being back in front of the camera after an eleven-month break from modeling was absolutely invigorating. And, I got some of the best shots of my career in that shoot!

Photographer/Stylist: Laura Beck @laurabeckphotography

Do you have a strict exercise regime you follow?

Yes, I do. I have found that the gym is one of my favorite places to be after making it a habit. I make sure to visit the gym at least five days a week and coordinate different muscle groups each day. For instance, Mondays are leg and glutes day. Tuesdays, abs. etc. But I always start with ten minutes of cardio. I make sure to spend 45 minutes to an hour in the gym each time.

Photographer: Walter Galaviz
Instagram: @luxphotoz806

How will you describe a typical day for yourself?

This one is difficult. My day to day life is not consistent, but if I had to sum it up, I’d say, of course taking care of my daughters is my number one priority, so taking my older daughter to school and picking her up, caring for my younger daughter at home, preparing meals, etc. as well as co-managing my modeling career by marketing, booking shoots, and/or going to photoshoots, and modeling/acting classes to better myself.

Photographer: Walter Galaviz
Instagram: @luxphotoz806

Is there anything in life you can’t get enough of?

I don’t think I could ever get enough of the ocean. It has always fascinated me, and I try to go to the beach as much as possible, because it is truly my “happy place.”

Photographer: James Harris
Instagram: @gritimagesco

If you could have a special or super power, what will it be?

I would absolutely love the power to teleport. I have always loved to travel, and would love to see more of the world, so teleportation would allow me to do that in very little time. Plus when I’m having a bad day, it would be nice to just be able to escape to the beach for a while ?

Photo: Steve Ellinger Instagram: @ellingerfoto

Which is the lamest or funniest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

One night while out with my friends, a guy came up to one of my girlfriends and asked us if he could buy us a drink. Then his friend came to the bar and asked me for my number. When I declined, he leaned in to kiss me so I ducked and he kissed the top of my head and I spilled the drink his friend bought me on his junk. I felt awkward, so I just said, “Well…BYE!” and left.

Photo: Steve Ellinger Instagram: @ellingerfoto

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Jillian. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

I believe sexiness has everything to do with confidence.

Photo: Steve Ellinger Instagram: @ellingerfoto

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Instagram: @jillianlyle
Facebook: @jillianlylemodel

Agency: Diane Dick International Modeling and Talent Agency

Upcoming works:

Fall Fashion shoot: September 2017

Digital update: September/October 2017

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October 22, 2017
Planning A BDSM Session

I get asked a lot of questions about BDSM and how I plan a session so I think it’s time we ventured a little further in to the rabbit hole to see what it actually entails.

I’ve already blogged about my own take on BDSM from a mental perspective ( here ) which is heavily rooted in trust, sensuality and connection but now I’d like to share with you one of my scripts I created for a client not too long ago. No two scripts are the same and I always create a new script bespoke to my clients taste.

So this particular script was created for a client who was new to BDSM. I wanted to ease her in gently but still give her the thrill she was seeking. We spoke in detail about her fantasies and what really turned her on. I used that to form a picture of how our session would play out.

I’ll refer to her randomly as Mrs. x (Note the lowercase ‘x’ as she was the sub in this equation.) Mrs. x is in her late 30’s, size 10, tall, toned, short hair with a porcelain complexion. She also loves anal and loves giving blowjobs – and is very good at it. However, this session was more about exploring her erogenous zones through pleasure and pain.

When creating a script I tend to follow the 80/20 rule; 80% scripted and 20% reactive. If she’s enjoying something I’ll dial it up or down depending on where I intend to take her. (I’m a wicked tease)

So why do I script?

That’s a very good question – The rush of spontaneity is definitely a turn on but in this instance I’d liken it to a 100-meter sprint. Fast, furious and explosive. My sessions tend to be more like a marathon that puts you though your paces and then some. I wanted to be able to create an experience that would take Mrs. x on a journey through many new and wonderful sensations that climax at various stages of our session.

When I sit down to write I visualise the entire session piece by piece and yes, it’s very erotic. I massage and edit the various sections of the script based on how I want her to feel at any given time. I picture an ocean of orgasmic pleasure swaying back and forth, sometimes peaceful and other times unhinged. But it’s constant, sustained and it builds in intensity to the point of share fucking ecstasy.

I spent probably 90 minutes or so creating her session. I titled it ‘Breath’ as Mrs. x is a Yoga enthusiast and was keen to explore that side of her sexuality whilst being dominated.

This is how it went down…

You can download the word doc here to use as a template but I definitely suggest you create your own tailored to the lucky recipient. This particular script is roughly 3 hours long excluding bath time so pace is important. For more information on how to play safe go here. Enjoy.

Madison James is a degree educated 37 year old international male escort from London with a keen interest in BDSM, Tantra and massage. He has an aptitude for intellectual conversation, an inquisitive mind and a genuine desire to help women embrace their sexuality one orgasm at a time!

This article was originally published at https://www.madisonjamesescort.com/single-post/2017/07/22/how-to-plan-a-bdsm-session

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October 21, 2017
Colombian Blogger & Instagrammer Ana Cruz

Hi Ana it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy. Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

Hi SimplySxy team! I am the head editor of sponsored content at Narcity Media by day and a full-time blogger + serial Instagramer by night.

How will you describe your fashion style?

Honestly, my style ranges from homeless chic to fierce JLo. It really depends on the day and what mood I’m in. I go through phases where all I want to wear are oversized items and then there are days where I never want to take off my dress.

Do you have any guilty pleasures when it comes to food?

Mmm that’s a hard one. I’m Colombian so really any type of Colombian food. I’m also ALWAYS craving French fries and ice cream. Have you tried the two together? It’s life changing.

Describe a typical day like for yourself.

A typical day for me is pretty busy! I go to the office every morning, which keeps me busy till about 5 PM. After that, I usually go home, eat and work on my side gig: blogging! I’ll be editing photos and writing until about 10 PM. Then I get up and do it all over again.

If you could travel to anywhere in the world for a vacation, where will it be?

Definitely Bali or Marbella in Spain. I am not meant for this cold weather.

Which flavor best describes you?

I’m a sucker for chocolate. It’s my go to.

Have you ever had a secret admirer?

I used to have one in middle school. Does that count?

What turns you off on a date?

It’s going to sound so weird but I hate when guys have dirty nails. I can’t handle it, it actually creeps me out.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Ana. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

Sexy is confidence! It’s not about looks or anything like that, it’s really (in my opinion) all about how confident you are in your own skin. If you own it, that’s what matters, that’s what’s sexy.

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anacruz/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6OJGIyOotCk3T2AGyxqB8Q
Blog: http://www.withlovecruz.ca/

Upcoming Works:

Narcity Media x Las Vegas Video Project

https://www.facebook.com/NarcityCanada/videos/1499844030079333/

I collaborated with Narcity Media & the Las Vegas tourism board to produce a 3 day video series with my boyfriend! The goal was to encourage couples to visit Las Vegas. We positioned LV as the ultimate trip to take with your significant other.

Images courtesy of Ana Cruz

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October 20, 2017
How Sleeping Apart Can Save Your Marriage

The image and idea of a couple sleeping together has long been one of the main symbols representing unity, content and happiness in a relationship. After all, if you can’t share the same bed, what is there that you can share?

That’s the most popular opinion, at least. But what happens when sleeping together with your spouse becomes an inconvenience for one of you, or even both of you? Is it okay at that moment to opt out for separate beds, or even separate sleeping quarters? Still, most people you talk to would say absolutely not, and that does seem to be status quo nowadays.

However, today I’m here to explain why I think that is prejudice and nothing more, and whether you sleep together or apart doesn’t have to affect in a negative way at all. In fact, I’m of the opinion that it can bring a lot of good things to your relationship, and here’s why.

Snoring, Active Sleepers and Different Bedtimes

Many people don’t know this, but back in the day of our grandparents it was perfectly normal for a married couple not to share a bed, and they did so for numerous reasons. My grandparents are a fine example of this; they’re one of the happiest couples I know going on their 50^th wedding anniversary in a few years, and during 49 of those they’ve slept in separate beds. Why? Simple; my grandpa is an avid snorer, and it was simply impossible for my grandma to get a good night’s sleep in the same room as him, let alone in the same bed.

Another reason why you might be considering sleeping apart is if one of you is what is called an active sleeper and has either done unintentional damage to the other person while unconscious, or is simply too frantic in his tosses and turns for their spouse to be able to stay asleep.

And perhaps the most common one these days is simply that you work opposite shifts sometimes, and so your biorhythms differ either slightly or significantly. In such a situation, it’s really good to have separate sleeping quarters so that each of you can go to bed and get up at your convenience, without disturbing each other.

Why Sleep is Important

Most couples that go through this problem bare it for years before they realize they actually have a problem, and this is due to how the importance of sleep is vastly underestimated in this country. A recent study showed that a third of Americans are constantly sleep deprived, and this is having a detrimental effect on their health.

A lack of sleep can lead to weight gain; it also messes with the insulin balance in your blood, raising the risk of diabetes and heart disease, and let’s not even begin to get into what it does to your mental focus and cognitive ability. Especially if you have children, being well-rested every day is paramount to conducting a successful romantic relationship.

Your Sex Life Doesn’t Have to Suffer

One of the most common reasons why people dislike the idea of sleeping apart is that they think their sex life will somehow diminish by doing so. And honestly, I really don’t see where people get this; the bed is far from the only place you can have sex.

Furthermore, I think that not sleeping together can actually enhance your sex life by taking away the element of routine. You’re no longer sleeping in the same bed, so you can take the action to other parts of the house. Use the opportunity to get imaginative and bring some unpredictability into your sex life, because as we all know, you can never get enough of that.

Summary

So, as you can see, sleeping apart can actually be pretty beneficial to your marriage. The number one priority is that both of you are getting as much sleep as you need to deal with everything you need to deal with during the day, and some modern-day prejudice that says you’re a bad couple because of it should be just ignored and left behind. I hope this article has been helpful and I wish you the best of luck!

Theresa Brawner – Theresa Brawner is a 28-year-old fitness instructor from Boston, MA, who writes articles for www.diet.st. in her free time. When she isn’t helping new moms get back in shape, you can find her in the kitchen, working on new recipes.

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October 19, 2017
Model Vivian Yu

It is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy Vivian. Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

Hallo! I’m a student who is majoring in Biochemistry at UCLA and is pursuing a career in medicine, specifically in Obstetrics/Gynecology. On the side, I like to model and share my personal style on my Instagram page.

What is your fashion style?

My fashion style seems to vary from casual to chic.

Where do you usually love to shop from?

I love to try out different stores when it comes to shopping. But, I can always rely on Forever21, H&M, and Zara for elegant outfits.

On a level of 1-10, how much of a party animal are you?

Lately, during this summer, I’ve been a real big party animal haha (Level 9). However, when school starts I seem to always be in the library hitting the books (Level 3). So, I’ll take the average of the two and say I’m a Level 6 party animal, haha!

If you could have a superpower, what will it be?

If I could have any superpower it would be the ability to control time, because time is a very valuable thing. Nowadays people get carried away with their school, career, and chasing money that we forget to pause and take a breather.

Which is the sexiest item in your wardrobe?

My favorite casual black dress that goes right above my knees with spaghetti straps. It sways whenever I walk and it fits nicely around my waist, accentuating my figure without rubbing in people’s faces. Plus it’s made from cotton, so it’s super comfy!

What hobbies do you have?

I love to go hiking with my dog and I also paint on my spare time.

When people come to you for help, what do they usually want help with?

Most of the time they either come to me for school advice or relationship advice. Which is kind of odd to me since I’m the single one, haha.

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Vivian. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

To me, sexy is not defined through how much skin you’re showing off. A smart, confident, and independent woman is what sexy really means to me.

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Instagram: @vivianjasmineyuu

Images courtesy of Vivian Yu

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October 18, 2017