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How do I get my partner to watch porn with me?

Do you watch porn alone and without your partner’s knowledge? Ever wished that you could watch it together with your partner? You’re not alone. In fact, many individuals do wish that they could get their partners to watch and enjoy porn together with them. Not only can watching porn together improve your sex lives, it can also bring the two of you closer and learn about each other’s secret fantasies.

So how do you bring up the topic of watching porn together? Sinn Sage, a top adult actress in Lesbian porn and two time AVN award winner, shares some suggestions to make the situation less awkward and intimidating when you decide to ask the question.

A growing number of women are watching porn

ABSOLUTELY. Women are increasing consumers of porn, and being that over 75% of the fan mail I receive are from women, I think it’s very clear that the days of porn being made for men only are long over. For many of us in the industry, the ancient notion that women are being “degraded” is thankfully being phased out, and people are beginning to realize that we are adults and humans and have every right to perform and enjoy sex as much as men. That old way of thinking of us as “victims” is beginning to come across as very sexist. I’ve always felt this way. Why is it okay for men to perform, why are they seen as autonomous, but the women are seen as damaged or somehow “victims” for claiming the right to our sexuality? How is that not incredibly sexist? Thankfully, those views are on their way out. And thankfully also, women are realizing that it is perfectly okay for them to enjoy porn as well!

Different tastes between men and women towards porn

Well, I must say that I loathe to point out the differences between men and women, because ultimately, we are all human and we all enjoy things differently, regardless of sex or gender. Anything I would say in response to that question would be a sweeping generalization. There are simply many types of porn that people enjoy seeing. I would say that the more gonzo style of porn that lacks connection, passion, or creativity would be something more enjoyed by a younger male viewer, who is maybe less sexually mature. I think that in general, most women and people who enjoy lesbian porn like to see that connection, that passion, and they enjoy seeing a focus on the woman receiving pleasure as well as giving it. I guess this is a problem with a lot of mainstream gonzo style porn, it’s all about the man getting off. I think a lot of couples and women, again, generally, enjoy seeing a passionate couple, regardless of gender, enjoying themselves and each other in a genuine way. Cosmo Online wrote a fantastic article about this, and it mentions me in the beginning:

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a34283/straight-women-who-prefer-lesbian-porn/

How can I introduce porn to my partner so that we can watch together?

This is a tough one. Obviously, I understand that we are all sexual creatures and we can’t always be there to fuck our partner. Or perhaps we’re tired, or not in the mood, or whatever the case may be. For me it’s been easy to understand that my partner will and does watch porn. I think the problem comes in with insecurity and jealousness. People who get that way don’t understand the difference between reality and fantasy. My fiancee had an ex that made him throw out anything porn related and if she ever caught him watching something, considered it cheating on her. WHAT?! How anyone could feel that way blows my mind. It’s extremely unfair.

I guess to answer the question, I would just say that an open, calm, and honest discussion needs to take place, and realization that it can be a way to AMPLIFY your own sex life to enjoy porn together. Compromise is also important; you need to be watching something that both people enjoy. As far as bringing it up, just don’t be shy!!! Be confident, be open, and say it’s something that you want to try. If you are close with your partner, it should not be a problem. And if you’re not, why are you together?!

Recommendations

I would definitely say pretty much any porn with Sinn Sage would be where to start. I’ve noticed that male viewers really enjoy watching my strap on work, so a lot of the videos I’ve done for belladonna entertainment (Strapped Dykes 1 & 2) or any that I’m in of Strap On Specialist for Sweetheart video would be a great place to start for a couple. My award winning scene with Dani Daniels in the movie Dare by Elegant Angel would be a terrific one to watch as well, that scene is SMOKING hot, and anyone would enjoy watching it. It’s very intense!

Any scene I’ve done with Celeste Star would also be good. As for watching boy/girl stuff, I would probably go with any scene Belladonna was in. I haven’t watched a lot of boy/girl porn, but she was always very genuine and passionate and fucking horny and she will always be my all time favorite porn star.

There is a danger of watching too much porn…

Of course! Just like someone can eat too much ice cream, drink too much alcohol, and do too many drugs, someone can watch too much porn. Doing too much of anything that is fun leads to serious problems. I have a friend who is now unable to achieve an erection because he became addicted to porn. Our brains have all kinds of chemicals running through them that do various things, and what we input into our brain affects our neural pathways and creates physiological differences in us. It’s best to do everything in moderation!

Sinn Sage is available for custom videos or private skype shows at sinnsagemodel.com.

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September 3, 2015
Interview with Roc Solid on Interracial Sex, MILFS and BBWs

Roc Solid is an up and coming male pornstar from Philadelphia, PA who loves interracial sex, MILFS, and BBWs. SimplySxy takes this unique opportunity to find out more about his interests!

SimplySxy: What do you think is behind the phenomenon of interracial sex involving a BBC that makes it so fascinating?

Roc Solid: Well for me I truly believe that colour contrast is largely behind this phenomenon between a black male and a white, Asian, or Latina female. Not only is it a wonderful sight to see but the fact that black males have bigger dicks is what I think really turns a lot of women on. I have gotten plenty of compliments on that and also that our stamina is better than other males. Women love the fact that we can go for long hours at a time. For me, I love to add that dynamic in my films because people enjoy seeing a women getting pounded relentlessly. I also think that porn has had a lot to do with turning peoples attention to interracial sex, some good and some bad. I would say the common misconception is that everyone thinks that all black men are very well hung and that is NOT true. You see in porn films black men that are 10” and more, and plenty of women will tell you that taking a dick that size does not feel good all the time. I truly think that it’s how we fuck that women love so much.

SimplySxy: What is it about the Swingers lifestyle that turns you on? Can you give our readers who are keen to host a swingers party, tips to have one that does not disturb the neighbours or rooms next door?

Roc: The swingers lifestyle has been very good to me these past couple of years. I have been able to meet plenty of ladies who would be considered your “next door neighbour” but when they get behind closed doors turn into freaks. I also think that the “Hotwife” dynamic has played a huge part in how I am able to meet so many wives. Lets face it. Husbands love seeing their wife fucking a black man and are very happy with them doing it. Nothing turns me on better than seeing a husband sitting and watching me fuck his wife and her cumming so many times because of it.

Well the huge tip that I would give is that if you’re going to host at your place, to do it at night and in a place where your neighbors won’t hear it. Also if the woman is a screamer, then playing music in the background is a great option.

SimplySxy: Can you share a kinky and memorable sexual experience and how it came about?

Roc: Well for me, it would be finally meeting Creampie Cathy last year when she came to visit Philly. We had been talking for quite some time and she does these road trips a few times a year. Now going into this, I had no idea what to expect since seeing her movies she goes all out. When I finally did arrive to shoot our scene, I realized that she is even more beautiful in person, and man can she FUCK. I am able to say that I ROC’d her for sure and giving her a signature creampie that she loved. If any of you ever get the opportunity to meet her during her travels, please do so because you WILL NOT regret doing so.

For more information on Roc, check out his blog at http://rocsolidxxx.blogspot.com/. He can be reached anytime at bbcrocsolid@yahoo.com and follow him on Twitter at https://twitter.com/RocSolidXXX

Images courtesy of Roc Soild.

February 5, 2015
Interview with Japanese Pornstar Marica Hase (まりか)

Marica Hase (まりか) is a Japanese pornographic actress and AV Idol who has starred in over hundreds of films since her AV debut in 2009. She was the first Japanese AV Idol to work in the US and was chosen as the Penthouse Pet of the Month in January 2013. SimplySxy takes this wonderful opportunity to feature Marica through an interview to find out more about her.

SimplySxy: Thank you very much for being on SimplySxy. You’re an international pornstar and hold the honour of being the first japanese Penthouse Pet of USA. Starring in many films to date, what type of sex scenes do you enjoy being in.

Marica まりか: In my private life, I prefer being girlie – I love things that are pretty, cute or romantic. The same goes for sex.

So it’s a pleasure for me to work for Penthouse personally and professionally. I really enjoy being in their gorgeous and romantic scenes that rival normal films. But at the same time, I think one of our jobs as pornstars is to show the type of sex that normal people can’t do. The kind of sex that are extraordinarily beautiful or incredibly passionate (that it is almost aggressive).

For that reason it is just as much of pleasure for me to be in the ultimate SM scenes that can only be accomplished by being surrounded by the experienced professionals at Kink.com. It is also amazing to be able to work for Bang Bros and be able do super passionate interracial scenes with Prince Yashua, the top black porn actor who is physically 5 time bigger than little Japanese me.

SimplySxy: Is there a sex scene you enjoy most of all and why?

Marica まりか: Evil Angel – Raw 11.

This was the first video I did in America shot by Manuel Ferrara. The whole video is shot POV style, starting with a date in Hollywood, shopping, lunch then going to the hotel at the end.

I’d never been in a shoot in America before, and I was so nervous. Manuel took me out for dinner a night before to help me relax so that I could enjoy the date in the shoot next day.

“Marica doesn’t understand English. Marica is VERY Japanese. What we want to shoot is Marica being just the way you are, wearing your own make up and clothes. Use a dictionary if you want. When I came from France long time ago, I couldn’t speak English either, so I know how you feel. I just want you to continue enjoying our date just the way you are right now”, he said.

I have enjoyed being in many different projects since then from super hardcore to beautiful ones, but I think I enjoyed that project the most for letting me be just the way I was.

SimplySxy: A lot of our readers are interested to know your views on the difference between Japanese and US pornography?

Marica まりか: The ideal porn actress for Japanese men is fragile, sweet and helpless. On the other hand, men in America and Europe look for strength, sexiness, and aggressiveness in a woman. These differences have a great impact on how I behave as a porn actress, from the gestures I use in the porno shoot to the type of selfies I would upload for promotional purposes.

The Japanese ladies always prioritize men’s enjoyments first. This does not mean they aren’t enjoying. They feel even better about being the kind of women who prioritizes men’s pleasure… I guess that’s a cultural thing.

I was born and raised in Japan, and such attitude came natural to me. One of the biggest challenges for me as an international star was to make the necessary adjustments so that my play will be appropriate for the international audience.

SimplySxy: Can you share with us some personal sex tips to have an amazing time in the bedroom?

Marica まりか: Just be yourself, your true self. Unlike the porn shoot, there is no one watching you in your bedroom. Get rid of your inhibition and explore what you really desire deep down, and really enjoy each other’s company.

Read on to see more of Marica Hase’s photos as she talks about the craziest places she has ever had sex, her ideal penis size during sex and her definition of Sexy.

October 26, 2014
How Doing Porn Cured My Shyness

Remember back at school there was always that one kid who had really messy hair, spent all her time in the library and was always a bit of a social outcast? Hello! That was me! I had my fringe covering up most of my face, braces, super thick glasses and my best friend was a cake. When I look back at my school photos, I can certainly say that I was an ugly duckling. I found it insanely hard to talk to people and I’d always void any awkward social interactions.

My family moved from the south of the UK to the north and that’s when things started to change. I decided I didn’t want to be part of the background anymore. I joined a volleyball club and during weekends, my family would go swimming together. I also started to watch what I ate with a bit more vigilance. It was tough but after shedding most of my puppy fat, getting my braces removed and having a haircut, I finally felt confident to say hello to the girl sitting next to me in my maths class.

How I looked before and after:

I made some really good friends by my final years in high school and felt confident enough to begin wearing skirts and dress in a more feminine way. However, I still wasn’t sure if I was doing it right. My mum would keep telling me how pretty I was getting but who believes it when their mum tells them that? This was also around the time I discovered Reddit; mostly to talk to people about comics and video games. Reddit is a sort of sharing platform/forum/everything-internet-sort of website, and it’s huge in the geek community.

My best friend was a big redditor and convinced me to post a picture up on “Asians next door”, a sub-reddit dedicated to homely Asian girls (as opposed to the super model kind.) I was really nervous taking that first photo, however the response I received was so positive and unexpected. People really liked my photo. I was getting compliments from random internet strangers, saying that they liked my face! I’d never gotten that kind of attention before and I felt on top of the world. For the next couple of months, I posted more pictures and it became really fun to check out people’s reactions.

My favourite part was replying to comments, saying thank yous and getting to know everyone. Some people would comment on all my posts and I felt like I’d made some really cool friends. It was also weird because we’d have conversations that spanned a couple of days due to the forum style’s comments. At some point, a fan suggested that I try webcam modeling. I’d never even heard of it before, terms such as camgirl were totally alien to me and I was a little bit apprehensive about what I would be doing. It seemed like a big jump to go from posting photos of myself to doing camshows, which seemed to revolve entirely around sex.

Camming didn’t turn out to be like that though, at least, not for me. I decided to just be myself and see what happens. It was just a step up, so now I could talk to people in real time. I was so nervous the first time and I had no idea what I should be doing or saying. I was thinking how should I be sexy? How should I pose? But I didn’t have to. I was just being my dorky and clumsy self.

People seemed to really like me. I did a dance, which I called a panty dance since I was in my underwear. It wasn’t sexy, no poles were involved, but I did manage to do the running man! Everyone was laughing, but they weren’t laughing at me, they were laughing with me. Honestly. I still can’t believe it sometimes. I come online, I talk about my day and see what everyone else has been up to. We talk about movies and books and games. I do get naked and do naughtier stuff, but that feels like a natural progression. Like a date. You get to know fans on cam so intimately.

I’m having fun and it’s such a thrill to flash my boobs or wiggle my bum. I’d never thought people would even want to see that! I still get nervous every night before my shows, but I know I have friends waiting for me. I’d noticed some girls who have also sold adult videos to their fans. I thought, why not me? It’s not so different from posting photos. But I wanted to do something more personal than regular porn. I felt like it had to be more personal because sex is really personal. I decided to start filming my sex life and making videos that excite me. It’s very different to the organized professional porn videos most people are familiar with. I only ever filmed with my real friends that I really care about, and trust (who also trust me with a video camera).

Eventually, I even put all this on my own website. It’s very simple because I’m terrible with technology yet it works and it’s fun being creative and trying to do everything myself. I write a blog and share my life in words, pictures and video with my growing set of fans. The whole thing feels empowering. I am my own boss and it seems like I get paid for just living my life the way I would anyway.

I’m only a teenager and so I am still exploring and learning about my sexuality. I’m still pretty new to dating and my website and career have really helped me explore this side of myself. I find it therapeutic. My fans and I are always sharing tips on how to improve one’s love life. Some people have told me they don’t know how to categorize my work. Is it professional porn, is it amateur, am I just an out of control camgirl? The truth is, it’s just me. A girl who was super shy at school who managed to find herself and become a fulfilled, more confident person thanks to the internet, camming and making her own porn.

This is my first article for SimplySxy. If readers like it and are interested in my perspectives on love, sexuality, porn and femininity, I will be look forwarding to getting to know readers better and explore some juicy topics over the next few months. Please feel free to ask me questions in the comments section. What I love most about the internet is the two-way nature of media.

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September 6, 2014
Interview with Michele Masters, Bi Swinger Adult XXX model

Michele Masters, 27 years old, 5ft 3, 112 pounds, 34 B natural breasts

Toronto, Ontario

Married to Mike Masters, photographer

I enjoy living the swing lifestyle with my husband in Canada, photo graphing and recording our sexual adventures and having a great time! I have been featured on pornstarradio.com, mhogpodcast.com, and have a few other spots coming in the near future including a full nude spread in the May issue of ALL Pleasure magazine. I love being on cam, being naughty in front of people and I thought my site would be an awesome way to be live with so many other people!

SimplySxy: In this industry, women are way more popular than men. Do you think its tough for your male counterparts to breakthrough?

Michele Masters: Yes. It’s tough for anyone but men even harder.

SimplySxy: Have there been moments where male star is unable to get an erection or perform to expectations?

Michele: Yes. But you work with it. Take a break or help him out. ‘Fluff it‘ as they call it.

SimplySxy: Can you share with us one funny/awkward/embarrassing moment that have happened on set?

Michele: The camera lights fell on top of us while having sex. No one was hurt but it killed the mood for a bit.

SimplySxy: Which is your favourite porn scene to shoot?

Michele: Definitely girl on girl. I love men but I love the soft touch of a woman.

SimplySxy: Do you think condoms should be used during filming?

Michele: I do. But most are tested 1 to 2 times per month to be safe.

SimplySxy: The age old question, does size really matter and what is ideal for you?

Michele: It doesn’t have to be big if you know how to use it. Too big is too much. I like about 7-8 inches myself.

SimplySxy: What turns you on the most?

Michele: I love woman. I love group sex. I love watching two bisexual men as well.

SimplySxy: Let our male readers in on a secret. What can a guy do to ensure the girl is satisfied?

Michele: Put her first. A guy will cum. But get her to cum first and she will be hooked. Use your tongue or fingers or even a toy but get her to cum!

SimplySxy: For our female readers, give one reason why they should give oral sex.

Michele: To satisfy your partner. Don’t want him to stray? Besides I think sucking cock is fun! Its hot and my husband loves watching me in the act.

SimplySxy: Allow our imagination to run wild. Share with us what you will do to your guy to give him the night he won’t ever forget?

Michele: I make sure he cums. But also I try to find out what his secret turn ons are. The ones he is afraid to admit. Those are the ones he will enjoy the most.

A message from you to all your fans and the SimplySxy readers:

Please be sure to follow my twitter@MicheleMasters and facebook https://m.facebook.com/profile.php?id=677179412325055.

I love to show off. I’ll be live camming soon on a few different sites because I love to interact with my fans and making them cum personally is a big turn on for me. I’ll be announcing where soon through my twitter and Facebook so follow me! Love you all!

Images courtesy of Michele Masters

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May 17, 2014
Ex-Librarian and Ladies’ Pornstar Ela Darling

Find out more about ladies’ pornstar Ela Darling, who shares with us how pornography can be useful and healthy in a relationship as well as the craziest place she has ever had sex.

SimplySxy: What is your personal view on pornography?

Ela Darling: I think pornography is a hell of a career and I love it.

SimplySxy: With the pornography very easily accessible on the internet, do you think anything should be done to control youths and children from having access to it?

Ela: I think that the best way to protect kids from the negative effects of porn is through communication and facts. Parents should communicate with their kids candidly about sex, consent, and how to have safe sex. They should discuss what pornography is and explain that pornography is a form of adult entertainment that portrays a fantasy which is much different from normal sex.

SimplySxy: How do you think pornography can be useful and healthy in a relationship?

Ela: Partners can watch porn together to initiate sex or explore new sexual experiences they’d like to share together. If one person has a specific sexual fetish or interest that their partner doesn’t share, they can use porn as an outlet for that sexual interest. If one partner has a stronger sex drive, they can get sexual release from porn rather than being unfaithful to their partner.

SimplySxy: Please share with us one tip for ladies to enjoy giving oral sex?

Ela: If a lady doesn’t like oral sex, she shouldn’t do it. Don’t force yourself to do sex acts that you genuinely don’t enjoy.

SimplySxy” Where is the craziest place you have ever had sex that was nothing to do with filming?

Ela: Either in the middle of a field in a residential neighbourhood in Texas or in the middle of a casino in Vegas.

SimplySxy: Which do you think is the sexiest part of your body?

Ela: I think the sexiest part of my body is my brain. My mind is a dirty, sexy place

SimplySxy: What is your favourite sex position in bed?

Ela: I like to be fucked doggy style while my partner pulls my hair and slaps my ass.

SimplySxy: Share with us one secret to spice it up in bed with a lover?

Ela: Explore the veritable cornucopia of kinks and fetishes and find something new that you both like that you haven’t experienced yet.

SImplySxy: What defines a sexy woman according to you?

Ela: To me, sexy is a smart, confident, boss ass woman who knows what she wants, who she is, and harnesses the power of sexuality to get what she wants.

SimplySxy: What is your favourite sexual fantasy?

Ela: My fantasy is hot, rough, hair-pulling, choking, scratching, biting sex with whomever I’m currently jerking off to followed by smoking a lot of weed.

A message from you to all your fans and the SimplySxy readers:

Check out my website at www.DarlingEla.com and follow me on Twitter: @ElaDarling xoxo!

Images courtesy of Ela Darling, Shawn Kennedy and Alexander Sinclaire

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May 15, 2014
Interview with Alex Janjanin, from LA Direct Models

As part of SimplySxy’s on-going Pornography special feature, we are pleased to have this unique opportunity to interview Alex Janjanin from LA Direct Models. Alex tells us his favourite move on a girl in bed, which part of a girl he likes the most and his definition of a sexy woman.

SimplySxy: Where do you feel the current direction the adult industry is heading?

Alex Janjanin: Personally, I feel like the adult industry is heading in a great direction. There’s always going to be demand for sex.

SimplySxy: What are some of the misconceptions people have about the adult industry?

Alex: I’ve been asked if the adult industry has destroyed my relationship…it definitely hasn’t. I couldn’t be happier in my relationship since becoming an adult performer!

SimplySxy: Can you share with us one funny/awkward/embarrassing moment that has happened on set?

Alex: One of my first times on set, I had forgot about the multiple cameras around me…apparently I kept showing my ass to the camera lol and the camera guy shouted at me “get your ass out of the shot!” It was embarrassing haha.

SimplySxy: What is the challenge a male adult star faces as compared to a female star in this industry?

Alex: I feel as a male performer, it’s a lot harder to get work than it is for a female performer. You gotta be packing big if you want to be considered lol.

SimplySxy: What is your favourite porno scenario?

Alex: My favourite scenario would be me at home chilling, ripping the bong lol when all of a sudden my girlfriend comes through the door with a few of her girl friends, and we have an orgy right there in the living room.

SimplySxy: What is your favourite move in bed to do on a girl?

Alex: I love spooning or being behind a woman, grabbing her hair with one hand, and wrapping my other hand around her neck 😉 definitely my fav.

SimplySxy: What defines a sexy woman according to you?

Alex: A sexy woman to me is a woman who has her priorities straight, who can hold a conversation with me, and also has a gorgeous booty haha.

SimplySxy: Which body part of a girl do you like most?

Alex: I love me a nice ass! 🙂 she can be ugly and flat chested lol as long as she has a nice ass, I’m down!

SimplySxy: Porn is huge and caters to every taste imaginable. Is there anything that hasn’t been done or you like to see more of?

Alex: Honestly, I think the adult industry has covered all the bases for me. Who knows though, I might develop a new fetish in the future that I might want to see.

SimplySxy: Do you prefer to see your girl spit or swallow?

Alex: I prefer my girl to swallow every time.

A message from you to all your fans and the SimplySxy readers:

Message to my fans & SimplySxy readers: Thank you guys for all your support! I wouldn’t have this awesome job if it wasn’t for you guys 🙂 Be sure to look out for my new scenes and follow me on twitter @ohshititsalexxx

Images courtesy of Alex Janjanin

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May 14, 2014
Interview with Mia Li, the new adorkable Asian pornstar

I am Mia Li. I am a new adorkable Asian pornstar. My career started in June 2013. At the onset, I was primarily a cam girl and through that I started shooting porn. I love shooting both fetish and mainstream porn because of the variety both genres offer.

SimplySxy: What is your personal view on pornography?

Mia Li: Pornography is definitely a way for an individual to explore their own sexuality in private before taking it to practice. I am very happy to contribute to an industry that makes so many individuals feel a little less lonely and a lot more pleasured.

SimplySxy: What were some of the challenges you faced when you started out in the industry?

Mia: My greatest frustrations lie at the beginning of my career because I got so few shoots. Although I understood that as a new talent I wouldn’t get very many shoots, it was doubly frustrating because the industry slows down during the summer.

SimplySxy: What are your views regarding pornography addiction?

Mia: Pornography addiction is like any other addiction. The main problem is hedonistic adaptation. It just takes more and more to get the same pleasurable outcome. Personally, as long as the addiction doesn’t adversely affect the individual and those around him/her, it’s as manageable as any other addiction.

SimplySxy: Please share with us one tip for ladies to enjoy anal sex?

Mia: Dim the lights, put on a glove, and try it solo first. Find out how you like it on your own before throwing a dick in the mix.

SimplySxy: What is the ultimate role play for you?

Mia: I love romantic role plays. I’ve always wanted to be stranded out in the country with a broken down car only to have a hunky man in flannel come save me. Open air sex out in an orchard would promptly ensue. It’s rather apparent that literotica was rather influential for this role play.

SimplySxy: Which do you think is the sexiest part of a men’s body?

Mia: A man’s face. I love watching expressions dance over a man’s face during sex, frustration, anything really.

SimplySxy: What is your favourite sex toy?

Mia: Men trump sex toys any day, but if I had to choose a nice fat headed dildo always does the trick. Also, Hitachis have been rocking my world recently.

SimplySxy: Share with us one secret to spice it up in bed with a lover?

Mia: Don’t be afraid to share fantasies and enacting them. I have found that the more forthcoming someone is when it comes to pleasure, the easier it is to get off. Knowledge is power. Sexy. Sexy power.

SimplySxy: What defines a sexy man according to you?

Mia: Confident, competent, and considerate. A sexy man is comfortable in his own skin, capable of making a woman feel good, and conscious of his own actions.

SimplySxy: In your opinion, what can a guy do to give a girl a mind-blowing orgasm?

Mia: To give a woman a mind-blowing orgasm, take your time. Sex isn’t a race. Really get to know a woman’s body and be perceptive to how she reacts to the ways you touch her. It always helps to ask how to make her feel good.

SimplySxy: Thanks for your time Mia. How about one last message from you to all your fans and the SimplySxy readers.

Hey readers!

I can only hope that my scenes make you all feel as good as filming them made me. Please, please, please feel free to contact me via Twitter @LoveMiaLi because I adore chatting with my fans.

Live long and wank on, darlings!

Images courtesy of Mia Li

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May 13, 2014
Interview with Jessica Grabbit, the adult film starlette

SimplySxy interviews Jessica Grabbit, as she shares her favourite sexual fantasy and a tip for ladies to enjoy giving oral sex.

SimplySxy: What is your personal view on pornography?

Jessica Grabbit: I think pornography is very creative. It combines acting and true to life raw human sexual emotions, making it sinfully delightful to watch and make . I love it. It is a definite necessary evil so to speak.

SimplySxy: With the pornography very easily accessible on the internet, do you think anything should be done to control youths and children from having access to it?

Jessica: Yes I do. Stricter laws for people who distribute, advertise, or stream it. We are a need to know society but some things need to be known at certain ages and not before then. Did any of you walk in on your parents while they were humping…case in point 🙂

SimplySxy: How do you think pornography can be useful and healthy in a relationship?

Jessica: It can keep it very spicy. I have fans who love to tell me how they f**k, and they f**k often, and porn is usually the common denominator whether they were just chillng out watching and got frisky…or they wanted to act out the scenes… Porn is good for any relationship as long as it established where porn belongs in that relationship.

SimplySxy: Please share with us one tip for ladies to enjoy giving oral sex?

Jessica: Relax. Breath and drink water before you do it.

SimplySxy: Where is the craziest place you have ever had sex that was nothing to do with filming?

Jessica: A parking garage. We were super horny for each other. So he found a parking garage and f**ked me every which way but loose. To this day I can’t drive in a parking garage without my pussy getting wet wet wet!!!

SimplySxy: Which do you think is the sexiest part of your body?

Jessica: The brain. I think the sexiest thing someone can do for a person is to inspire them to think a thought they never thought was possible.

SimplySxy: What is your favourite sex position in bed?

Jessica: I like to ride the dick. I’m a definite cowgirl and reverse cowgirl kinda chick .

SimplySxy: Share with us one secret to spice it up in bed with a lover?

Jessica: Never forget why you mad him/her your lover in the first place. Make it more than just a sexual connection. Make it an emotional one as well. Give and receive equally. It’s the little things really that keep sex spicy.

SimplySxy: What defines a sexy woman according to you?

Jessica: A confident, motivated, and smart woman.

SimplySxy: What is your favourite sexual fantasy?

Jessica: Hands down two guys, one black, one white threesome. Double penetration. ..ass spanking. ..hard f**king mmmmmmm.. can’t wait to turn that one into a reality.

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May 12, 2014
OC MILF – Joclyn Stone

As part of the Pornography special feature, SimplySxy takes this opportunity for an interview with Joclyn Stone, the OC MILF from California. Inside Joclyn shares a tip to hook up with MILFs and explains the meaning of “dick drunk“.

SimplySxy: What are your favourite scenes to shoot?

Joclyn Stone: All of them, I love every scene. I do each scene like I will never have sex again, they are all special and I adore each person, each set, the energy the crew brings to the scene….each experience as an individual is awesome! So…… I hope that explains my strange way of thinking 😉

SimplySxy: In some quarters, pornography has been blamed for the lack of sex in relationships. Do you agree on this?

Joclyn: I am answering in two parts, hang in there…..

Yes I do believe that porn can be a true cock block. Since I do so much fetish filming, I see that men and women alike will hide their true desires in fear that they will be judged. So they get comfortable with hiding what they truly like and alienate their significant others.

When it comes to a speedy way of a “quick cum or jerkoff session” you tend to lose the foreplay concept, the closeness, the fact that cumming is only the “grand finale“. Don’t lose touch by the close up of the pussy on the computer or iPad, you may rewrite your brain by accident and it is hard to cum back from.

SimplySxy: Can you share with us one funny/awkward/embarrassing moment that have happened on set?

Joclyn: I get “dick drunk“, when I get into the scene, what happens is my brain shuts down and I am only into that person, all communication goes out the door and I am as dumb as a rock and just a f**k monster. I have fallen off a bed trying to talk to a director and my favourite word when they make me stop f**king is, “why” and when they tell the guy it is time for the pop shot, I usually say “already“. Dick drunk is very embarrassing ;-/

SimplySxy: Is there any particular preparation required for a gangbang scene as compared to say a mother-daughter scene?

Joclyn: I prep my body the same for every scene. But with a gang bang (it) is fun because they are all manhandling me, it is less work if you think about it… Lol yes, cheating, I know.

SimplySxy: In your opinion, what is the most important trait one must have to succeed in the porn industry?

Joclyn: It is a f**king business not a dating service. Ooh, and if you aren’t getting paid keep your pants on. Drugs and alcohol are not something you should need to do your job. If you need them, you are in the wrong business.

SimplySxy: For all MILF fans out there. Let us in on some secrets to hook up with one.

Joclyn: Manners and communication.

“Aaa ah, mami” and I’d hit that, are not a pick up lines they are requests to be humiliated in public. Do not tell a mature woman you know how to get her off, or what she needs, she will destroy you while she bakes cookies. You mind your manners and she will let you in her panties. A humble man is sexy. Use your brain and you will get what you are wishing for.

SimplySxy: Which do you prefer? Anal, vaginal or oral?

Joclyn: Vaginal, I don’t do anal, and I don’t deep throat (all though I love sucking cock) so since I have control over my pussy muscles it is my most favourite toy ever 😉

SimplySxy: Have you ever had sex outdoors? Were you caught in the act?

Joclyn: At this point I think I have has sex everywhere. No, I do not ever have sex where I can get caught because doing porn, well indecent exposure would not be a conversation I would like to have in a court of law … Lol

SimplySxy: What do you think men should do more to ensure their loves are satisfied in bed?

Joclyn: Ask, and if she cannot communicate clearly, watch a little porn with her and see what she likes and try it. Have her look stuff up and choose what she wants to try. I cannot say communication more. It is key to all.

SimplySxy: Allow our imagination to run wild. Do you have any sexual fantasy that has not yet been fulfilled?

Joclyn: No I don’t think so, I do want to have a private party dungeon in Vegas, that would be a huge fantasy of mine 😉

A message from you to all your fans and the SimplySxy readers:

Thank you fans, fans that have become friends by coming to live events, and newbies who will be googling my 42″ ass when they are done reading this. I am nothing without you and I will never forget that. Thank you!!!

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May 11, 2014