Tag: Juliet Adelaide

I smiled and walked toward my Sybian but Scott stopped me. He instructed me to spend a few minutes with each of our guests to see if they had any other requests. I obeyed and knelt down next to Mason who was sitting on the couch. He leaned down to kiss me. He placed his hand under my hair and pulled my face toward him as our lips parted and I could feel his breath quickening as our tongues gently touched. We enjoyed our kiss as the others watched us. Scott then demanded that I stroke Mason’s cock.

I found out quickly when I adopted my hot wife mentality that looking sexy make me feel provocative and horny. Scott has reaped the rewards of this part of my transformation. While I wanted sex more often for many reasons, I learned to love my femininity and embraced my sensuality. It’s great to be comfortable around someone and looking casual, even sloppy from time to time. Physical attraction and sex are key components of a healthy relationship, and we should continue to make an effort on our appearance even if it’s only for our own self-confidence.

Being a hot wife has definitely helped my appearance. It may sound crazy but since I have embraced this lifestyle, I have lost weight, dress nicer and put more effort into doing my hair and makeup. I’m not sitting home at night watching reality television, I’m out in the real world making my own adventures. Being active sexually does burn calories too and giving head can even improve one’s metabolism. It also helps to date a variety of younger attractive men, at least for me. Those guys have a lot of energy and I definitely have to work to keep up with them. They make me feel desirable when we’re together and when I go home, my husband makes me feel sexy all over again.

Kristin began checking the time on her phone again. It reminds me of the times when I was out and worried about coming home so late. It was usually with Mark, like most of my bad behavior, but a couple men have kept me out exceedingly late. Time and schedules may have been the most difficult obstacles that Scott and I faced. He didn’t really get jealous about other men fucking me, but he would get a little upset if they got to spend a lot of time with me. With work and family, we would only seem to have a few hours together at night when I was home. My dates with Mark had been known to last 12 hours with a rare overnight. Scott thought I somehow enjoyed Mark’s company to his, but the truth was, it was all about schedules. My husband’s work hours didn’t allow the same amount of free time as a part-time cook.

I would only get a couple nights out a week though, so I guess I always felt that I had to squeeze in as much time as possible with lovers because I didn’t really get to spend a lot of time with them in the grand scheme of things. In fact, it took me a while to be able to look at it from my husband’s point of view. I would go out with Mark for happy hour at four o’clock in the afternoon, then dinner, then a show, then a different place, then his place and then I would come strolling in with my panties in my purse at four o’clock in the morning. My hotwife lifestyle was supposed to be about sex, but Mark had become my boyfriend and it caused issues.

Communication in a Hotwife lifestyle is even more important than in a monogamous lifestyle. There are obstacles in scheduling and when some fuckboy tells you he wants to see you but then can’t answer texts about when, it can be frustrating. That goes for single people in the dating world too but I have a husband’s schedule too. We have agreements about how many nights I go out per week and how many I need to be home to take care of his needs or for my reclaiming nights. When I first start seeing a man, I always point out that scheduling and answering messages is a requirement for me.

I have to clear times on my schedule with Scott and they know this. They usually start off good about communication and scheduling but get lazy. If they get too lazy, I tell them to fuck off. That’s when they try again. I will allow a little room for error but that’s one of the rules between my husband and I, pre-scheduling times for me to see lovers. If they want to continue fucking his wife, then they damn well better respect his simple rules. It’s just good manners and if they don’t have good manners, I don’t want to fuck them anyway.

Michelle also disagreed with us on the normality of polyamory. It’s not God’s plan according to her. I said to her that if there was a God, I didn’t understand why he wouldn’t want more love in the world. Polyamory is just that, more love, although it involves romantic relationships with more than one partner. It also maintains a basic belief of knowledge, honesty, and trust between all partners. These qualities are difficult in many monogamous relationships but since they are critical points in polyamorous relationships, more effort is made by polyamorous people. My husband was even able to be friends with my lovers, especially Mark, Nick and Tanner, oddly enough, the three other men I loved most other than Scott.

I told the ladies it’s because we don’t keep secrets amongst one another. Whether it’s sexual, friendly or any activities we might do together, I am always honest about how I feel about them and what I do with them. If we have no secrets, everything just seems to work better in Scott and I’s primary relationship. There are a wide variety of ways in which polyamory can work. Some couples live together as all equals. Others, like Scott and I, have a primary relationship with external lovers permitted. In the beginning, I planned on anything external just being sexual, but I couldn’t help but develop feelings for these people. Scott knew they mattered to me and he loved me enough to let me have more love in my life.

After all, safety, communication and honesty are the most important rules to any alternative lifestyle relationship. Apart from that, other rules can be made up along the way, depending on one’s preference. I gave the ladies a naughty wink and told them that sometimes Scott will even give me rules for the night; such as I can give the guy a blow job but not fuck him or I can fuck my date but he must cum on my face and take a picture. He even will give me naughty challenges that I must obey. Some of these include rubbing my lover’s cock over his pants in the bar, finding a semi private area at a public place to suck my date’s cock, or masturbate under my own panties while on a date. These challenges keep Scott involved and excited. They are also usually fun nights for me and all I need to do is play by the rules.

Julie laughed and said that these rules definitely sound fun to her and that she would love to play such games too. She confessed that she too likes a little public play with the guys she sees from time to time and that it would be even hotter if she was ordered to do something specific by another lover. She then asked out of curiosity what happens if I’m unable to complete an assigned sexual task. Would I be punished for not being able to give a guy a blow job because too many people were around? I chuckled and answered that I’d have to face some fun punishments if I am unable to complete the assigned tasks and that in such cases, the consequences for breaking or bending the concrete rules can be quite unexpected.

Julie posed a question about how to handle men who say they hate condoms or won’t use them. Kristin said just don’t fuck them. That’s one way of course but I had dealt with this a few times myself. I found a compromise that usually made men happy. I would inform lovers that they have to use a condom for intercourse but if they preferred to cum elsewhere on me, they could. A few of my lovers Mark, Robbie and Tanner preferred this. Have fun with foreplay, fuck me, and then remove the condom when they are nearing orgasm. I would stroke them or they would stroke themselves to cum on my face, my ass, my boobs, whatever their personal preference. Kristin said that she doesn’t like that because it seems degrading to her. I told them that I really enjoy it. It makes me feel sexy and I get a different view of the male orgasm. Julie agreed with me. She liked it too and told us that it felt empowering in a way despite the fact that the idea seemed degrading. It’s all dependent on talking to your sexual partner. If you can’t talk openly with them about all factors in your sex life as a couple, it probably won’t last long as a relationship.

One of the other factors was to protect against pregnancy with condom use as well. I had my tubes tied some months back, but most women, hotwives or not, need to protect themselves. Julie told us that she’s on the pill and used condoms with the men she’s been with. Unwanted pregnancies were her primary reason for using condoms. The men she saw tended to be boyfriends but none of them were father material in her mind and that was her greatest fear. You can’t always trust men when they say they’re clean and that they always pull out in time to make sure you don’t get pregnant. Michelle laughed. Her daughter was conceived on a night that her husband pulled out. They used to just do that as birth control some years ago. She told us how she was shocked to find out she was pregnant but her doctor informed her that pre-cum can contain sperm and even a bit at the entrance to the vagina can in fact make its way up and fertilize a woman’s eggs. Her husband has since gotten a vasectomy but she definitely agreed that she didn’t know how risky pulling out was as a birth control method.

Julie brings up a friend of hers that is in a polyamorous relationship. She thinks it sounded like things were going well for a time between me, Scott and Mark, we almost had a polyamorous thing going on. She says that her friends seemed quite happy. They are a two-women and one man set-up who all live together.  Sometimes they have sex together but not always. They’re also very honest and open with each other about their sexuality. Julie tells us that she thought it was weird at first, but they have fun parties and seem to care about each other more than most couples do these days.

I agree with her and really think polyamory, more than two people involved in a sexual relationship, can work. It has to be the right people. I thought Mark would be the one it would work with. That was my mistake. He knew from the beginning that I would never be “his”. We had such amazing times that he pretended he was fine with being in second place, but in the end I think he wanted to be a couple, perhaps marriage, with just one devoted woman. I couldn’t fault him for that, but he didn’t have to be such a dick to me at the end after I had done nothing but loved him and was always good to him. He couldn’t talk to me. He wasn’t honest with me and that’s what ultimately kills any relationship. That’s why even though I have had other lovers, my relationship with Scott remains so strong, it’s the communication.

Julie says that she likes the Magic Wand. It’s not my favorite type of vibrator, but I don’t say anything other than to ask her what she likes about it. She likes the large surface area. Kristen blushes as Julie continues to tell us that she can rub it on her wet pussy and then slide it up to her clit without ever losing the touch of it against her. She bites her lip, winks at Kristen and giggles. I tell her that I get that but sometimes I don’t think it focuses enough direct contact on my clit. Julie fesses up that she does have her fingers too when she needs direct contact. The ladies are all laughing like schoolgirls as I turn to Michelle and ask if she’s allowed toys.

She laughs a little and tells me that she has a few items that she plays with occasionally with her husband. She has the large rabbit style vibrator but rarely uses it. She said that she really loves the way it feels but is embarrassed, even with her husband, to use it. She wished that her husband would use it on her but he tried once or twice and was a little too rough with it.

I nod and understand because I’ve had lovers try to use a vibrator on me and they have pushed too hard or moved it too fast forgetting that the tool itself does the work. I like it just gently grazing my clit to start and let the vibration do the work. There shouldn’t be too much effort. Michelle laughs and says that she wished she could teach her husband how to use it but doesn’t want to hurt his feelings.

The other ladies were surprised that there is another hotwife in the bar. Louisa said she doesn’t get to talk about it often but she would be happy to answer any questions we had about her hotwife lifestyle. She turned to me and asked if my husband is a cuckold. Michelle asks what that meant and Louisa replied with a smile that it’s another game that can be played by those actively taking part in a hotwife lifestyle and while she is permitted to have lovers but Nate is not. I then chipped in (to Michelle’s benefit) that a woman plays a more dominant role when her husband is a cuckold.

With a laugh, Louisa told us how her husband wanted sex so much that she thought it would be fun to make him wait for extended periods of time, with her teasing him. Louisa added that while her husband had no qualms about her taking on lovers, she really wanted to be dominant as Nate had almost always been the sub in their relationship anyway. And they both liked it that way. Louisa leaned forward and whispered that she even went to the extent of bringing home a cock cage from a local adult store one day.

Julie nearly spits out her Margarita and laughs. She had seen cock cages before but had not known anyone that had used one.  With a twinkle in her eye Louisa told us about the available on the market these day. They come in a variety of metal, plastic or silicon.  Some of them have small gaps so you can touch different areas of the penis, while others allow no access at all. They have to be put on a non-erect penis, but otherwise they just kind of fit snugly around the whole cock. The purpose of these cages is the same: they make it impossible for a man to get an erection.