Tag: Jade Nguyen Tom

  • What It Takes To Date An International Model & Influencer (Part 2)

    What It Takes To Date An International Model & Influencer (Part 2)

    Continued from Part 1

    Is it even more tough to proceed from dating and into relationship or even sex with an international model and influencer like you who’s almost 23 years old and still a virgin? Your expectations and requirements must be really difficult and hard for men to ever get over that hurdle.

    Sometimes I contemplate if my standards are way too high which could play a role on why I’m 22 years old (almost 23) and have never had sex. I actually want to make love for the first time and not just sex to make things even more special. And I know that’s every women’s dream and I want to make that a reality for me. This makes it even more difficult because I’m still a virgin and I’m already super picky. So this makes me even pickier about who may be my first.

    I have a set of expectations and requirements just to date me. I also have another set of expectations and requirements just to keep me. And another set of expectations, requirements, and a whole interview process to even have sex with me. Some may think it’s too much, but many think it’s worth it and they try to exceed all of my expectations and requirements. Whom I consider them to be very worthy. I get guys on Instagram and in real life saying how special I am. They label me special because I am the complete package to them – untouched and perfect inside and outside.  But they think I’m even more special when they hear I’m still a virgin and that I am very selective. They all praise me for who I am and tell me that they can hardly ever find a woman like me out there who knows her worth and makes herself very expensive.

    Many men label me as someone “which men aren’t so much “lucky’”. This means I am very expensive in their eyes where most can never earn and afford me. And I am viewed as even more attractive because guys feel like it’s a chase and a competition to win the prize (which is all of me). And we all know how guys love the chase and going after people and things that aren’t so easy for them to get their hands on. It gives them a thrill and an ego boost for some. But I came across so many guys who absolutely don’t deserve to take my virginity. But whoever I decide to lose my virginity to means that he has met and maybe even exceeded all my standards and expectations I have for him. So I’ll lose my virginity to the person I think deserves it. If it’s not in this lifetime than so be it.

    I am very classy and selective and consider myself very special, important, priceless, and valuable that not just anyone will ever have the chance. You have to be very special and worthy that you’ll cherish and worship me like no other 24/7. I rather not experience sex at all than to let someone undeserving inside my sacred temple – this makes me to be perceived as even more valuable and such a high worth. It’s like the saying, you attract what you are. I know I won’t be happy at all if I ever lowered my standards. Which is why I am actually happy and proud to set such a high bar for anyone who comes and tries to date me, get into a relationship with me, or even tries to have sex with me.

    Tips To Approach Me

    To be honest, I don’t really have a do’s and don’ts list. It just automatically clicks in my head of when I should say “bye”. But I would say for any guy who approaches me to be yourself, be creative to attract my attention, have a sense of humor and make me laugh, and be open and honest.

    Don’t use the same pick-up line or treat me the same way like you do with all the other girls you’re trying to pick up. Treat me like I’m different and treat me like a queen and/ or princess that I deserve with respect.

    For the don’ts, I would definitely say don’t lie, cheat, be a pervert, and have wondering eyes. I hate liars because that means everything you do and say are all lies. And I don’t tolerate cheaters and wondering eyes because I should be the only one in your eyes and your heart.

    What Attracts Me & Expectations Of My Date

    I use to be all about appearances and gifts. I remember at a young age where guys surprised me all the time with gifts because they knew it was a way to get into my heart. I would be surprised with roses, candies, and many expensive things. But as I got older (and I’m only 22-year-old haha), I realize there’s way more to just looks and gifts. Gifts only make you happy temporary for that moment. But when there’s no meaning to the gifts or you don’t feel any connection to the person giving you the gift, it sometimes makes the gift worthless.

    Also, many good-looking guys may be attractive on the outside, but they have no idea of how to treat a girl. And looks don’t last forever.  So I learned that physical appearances and gifts aren’t that important but it’s still a plus for me. But what attracts me the most is someone who’s intelligent, professional, very caring, very attentive, very sweet, very honest, very open, has a sense of humor, meets up to my standards, and I can go on and on because there’s more to the list after completing those layers. Most of all, my expectations is to treat me and spoil me like a princess and a queen. 

    Dating Turn Offs For Me

    For a person like me who’s super picky and has such high standards, I could say, almost every single thing is a turn off. I get turned off so easily it’s crazy. My tolerance is very low. I can go from heart eyes to ice cold eyes with a snap of a finger. That’s why many people call me the ice queen because I am cold hearted and don’t really have any emotion for guys who don’t meet my standards and expectations.

    But if I have to list a few turnoffs for me, the main turnoffs would be guys who only care solely on my appearance, think about sex 24/7, liars, cheaters, perverts, and wondering eyes.


    Jade Nguyen Tom – It’s not everyday you get to meet the Virgin Queen who is a mixed Chinese and Vietnamese famous influencer and international model. Put all of the beauty, mysteriousness, intriguing, exoticness, innocence, and purity in the world and you get the sexy Jade Nguyen Tom, whose beauty matches her brains and business acumen, running and leading various organizations while being a double major. Constantly, ranked as one of the hottest models internationally, Jade is one beautiful and sexy lady you never want to take your eyes off after just a single glance.

    Follow the gorgeous Jade on

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jadenguyentom/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/chinandvietdoll

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chinandvietdoll

    Youtube Channel: Jade Nguyen Tom

    Websites:

    https://linktr.ee/jadenguyentom

    https://omgasianbabes.com/jade-nguyen-tom-aka-chinandvietdoll-ambitious-sexy-asian-italian-babe/

    https://www.famousbirthdays.com/people/jade-nguyen-tom.html


    Images courtesy of Jade Nguyen Tom

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  • What It Takes To Date An International Model & Influencer (Part 1)

    What It Takes To Date An International Model & Influencer (Part 1)

    I am a recent college grad who graduated from the University of the Pacific with a double major in Marketing and Management & Human Resources. Many people think I have the beauty (of being mixed Chinese and Vietnamese) because of my past history of competing in pageants (such as Miss California USA, Miss Vietnam Global, Miss Vietnam Northern California, Face of America, etc.) and modeling competitions (such as Maxim Magazine and Maxim Australia *placed 3rd in both competitions*), while being featured in many publishing sites like Famous Birthdays, Omg Asian Babes, and many others.

    What many don’t know is that I also have the brains. I was a double major in Marketing and Management & Human Resources while holding three positions in one organization, one position in another organization, and a side job being a content creator which I was able to grow over 160K followers within three years of opening my Instagram accounts. With all of this, I was still able to give back to my community by volunteering. My personal views towards life is to be spontaneous and ambitious. Shoot for your dreams while still having fun along the way. You only have one life so be able to live it to the fullest. I like to live by the line “live like there’s no tomorrow” to push me to do things that are beyond my limits or what I’m afraid to do. The most important thing for me is to make an impact and lasting impressions wherever I go, so people are able to remember me. And I usually successfully accomplish that because many people label me as very mysterious, exotic, and such a wild card. I love to be able to leave that lasting impression that makes people come begging for more.

    My Modeling Journey

    I actually was approached by a modeling agent at a very young age. I was about five years old when I stole the hearts of visitors at the Disneyland Resort. A modeling agent approached my parents at the theme park giving them their contact information. Unfortunately, we never went forward with the modeling gig. A few years later when I was nine, the second time was at Target (in a city I didn’t live in). A modeling agent happened to be shopping at the same store and spotted me. The agent proceeded to speak with my parents and I about signing with their agency. But then, my parents and I never went through with it because my parents didn’t like me investing my whole life and career into modeling because it wasn’t promising.

    Then at the age of 18, I was snapping photos and posting them online where I was selected by PUSH Models, Femme Fetale Media, and many more to rep for their agencies. I continued to have mainstream success throughout the following months – being asked to play in various roles and commercials while also being asked to compete in various pageants such as Miss California USA, Miss Vietnam Global, Miss Vietnam Northern California, Face of America, etc. In 2019, I was ranked 2nd as the Top 10 Models/ Beauty & Makeup / Fashion Influencers in Hong Kong. 

    I knew I had become an international model at that stage, but I knew for sure when I was 20 years old where I was handpicked by Maxim Magazine to compete in their international competition. Through that, it was confirmed that I was an international model because I had exposure to such a huge audience from all over the world. Just this year, I was also scouted to compete for Maxim Australia which is all the way across the world. So I guess you could say that I have always been in the eye of the modeling industry but I began to be interested in being part of the modeling industry in my late teenage years.

    The Transition To Being An Influencer

    At the beginning, I separated being an influencer and model. I actually came onto social media and became an influencer because I had an interest in connecting with people and always wondered how public figures and companies built their brand for themselves. So I guess you can say that my business side kicked in where I wanted to learn how to build a brand while also being able to make a lasting impression where people would remember me for who I am and the impact I’ve done.

    The modeling aspect actually merged with being an influencer much later. I was afraid that many people would be blinded by my modeling work that they wouldn’t be able to see the real me. Which was why I kept those two separates. After establishing a fan base, I was able to unveil my past, present, and future modeling work. I now use both experiences interchangeably because they both have many similar aspects to the job.

    The Hard Work Done Behind The Photos

    I try to be as natural as possible. I am not a big fan of photoshop and editing because it takes away the real beauty you were born with. Instead, I take lots of photos like one hundred per setting, so I have a selection to choose from. Sometimes a few photos don’t capture how you actually look like in real life because of the lighting, angles, lens, etc. Also, a fun fact is that I didn’t start wearing makeup until I was 21 years old. I am all about natural beauty and displaying your natural features instead of covering it up. Even now with the makeup, I only wear very minimal – just eyeliner and lipstick – and I am good to go. I just think that makeup actually harms your skin in the long run and that’s why I only wear eyeliner and lipstick.

    I think the hard work actually comes from accepting the beauty you were born with and being able to learn how to display it in the most flawless way. Another hard job behind my photos and videos would be to choose which one I want to post when they all look good. I don’t want to spam my fans with photos from the same settings. So I am faced with the issue of choosing the best few photos to post while the rest just sits sadly in my photo gallery.

    Do Guys Feel Intimidated To Ask You Out For Dates?

    Yes, all the time. Many guys are intimidated by me even before hearing that I am an international model. Sometimes I feel uncomfortable letting people know that I am an international model because of the impression of what they may have of me and it may be perceived as bragging. So I usually lay low about that topic.

    I still get many guys who would stare at me from afar no matter where I am, but they still never have the courage to come up to me to strike up a conversation. But it’s the complete opposite on social media, where I have over thousands of guys in my DMs calling me their dream girl, asking me for my number, to go on dates with them, to meet their parents, some labeling me as their girlfriend, and many proposing to me. And I can understand this because people seem to be bolder online than in-person.

    But there have been times where you get a brave guy from time to time who would come up to me and ask me out on a date or for drinks. But because I’m the person that I am, I am very picky and usually think that every guy was out of my league because of the high standards I set. Years have passed from that mentality, and I still maintain those high standards.

    I have come to understand that not everyone is perfect and that I need to focus instead on someone who makes me happy in every way and is able to put my needs before theirs while treating me like a queen and/or princess. Some may say that I have increased my standards even more while others may say that I grew to understand what I truly want.

    End Of Part 1


    Jade Nguyen Tom – It’s not everyday you get to meet the Virgin Queen who is a mixed Chinese and Vietnamese famous influencer and international model. Put all of the beauty, mysteriousness, intriguing, exoticness, innocence, and purity in the world and you get the sexy Jade Nguyen Tom, whose beauty matches her brains and business acumen, running and leading various organizations while being a double major. Constantly, ranked as one of the hottest models internationally, Jade is one beautiful and sexy lady you never want to take your eyes off after just a single glance.

    Follow the gorgeous Jade on

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jadenguyentom/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/chinandvietdoll

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chinandvietdoll

    Youtube Channel: Jade Nguyen Tom

    Websites:

    https://linktr.ee/jadenguyentom

    https://omgasianbabes.com/jade-nguyen-tom-aka-chinandvietdoll-ambitious-sexy-asian-italian-babe/

    https://www.famousbirthdays.com/people/jade-nguyen-tom.html


    Images courtesy of Jade Nguyen Tom

    Like to be featured on SimplySxy? Drop us an email at editorial@SimplySxy.com!