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  • Spanking Fetish As A Favorite Impact Play

    Spanking Fetish As A Favorite Impact Play

    Have you ever thought why men just love slapping a woman’s ass so much? It is the most human-like way to express our animalistic nature! There are people, tho, who have accepted this nature, and they are quite happy! Being able to spank your partner without worrying about how they are going to accept this action is one of the best things in our lives. But it turns out to be a fetish? Do you have it, too? Check out now for some spanking porn at PornOne !

    Can Spanking Be A Fetish

    The answer is a bit ambiguous, depending on how you see stuff. For some people, it may be totally inappropriate to spank your partner from time to time. For others, it can be absolutely fine and even recommended for the well-being of a relationship. Let’s be honest! There is nothing wrong with giving your partner a couple of spanking punishments when they have been a bit naughty! I mean… It happens for a reason! Why not give them a reason to do the naughty thing again!

    Can it be a fetish really? Spanking feels so good on both sides of the play. It is a very nice feeling that you have all of the control or to lose all of the control. It can really relieve you from some of the stress that you have!

    This feeling of mental relief and sometimes even physical is the action of the hormone of happiness getting emitted. In this sense, this sexual practice really changes the biochemistry of your body. Thus, now you see that when I say that spanking is addictive, I am not lying. It is literally addictive! So, yeah, this naughty impact play can really turn into an actual fetish!

    Are People Crazy To Enjoy This Pain

    The answer is a crazy NO. Suppose you are living a very hasty life, with too many responsibilities, with too much pressure, with specific strong behavior. In that case, it is only natural that you would want to do something naughty from time to time! However, these naughty actions deserve punishment, and this punishment brings some pain. On the other hand, the part of the brain which is in charge of the pain is in charge of the physical pleasure. And mistakes happen. But this is one of those mistakes with a ‘Sorry Not Sorry’ attitude!

    Why People Love Spanking So Much

    The answer would be different for everybody, but generally, this is an Impact play with not that big of an impact. This is the best of it all! You can enjoy it today with your partner, and tomorrow nobody will know! Nobody can tell that you cummed yesterday while laying on the knees of somebody who slapped the shit out of you! So convenient, right?

    Do People Need Something

    Another cool thing about the slap fetish is that it is disengaging. Besides the mutual consent for this to happen, you do not need any accessories to execute this activity. You just need one stable hand to raise!

    Of course, if you are really into this and do it quite often, it is absolutely okay to get bored with that hand sometimes. To keep it fun forever, people have invented different tools to use for spanking. Here are the best options if you are a newbie with a newly discovered fetish!

    1. A Plank
      Planks are great for people who have just started exploring this fetish! They are glide and provide a bigger impact on your skin. The fact that they are usually bigger than your dom’s hand makes it show more impact not only to the skin but to the muscles, too. It is not impossible to get a bruise or two when using a plank for the good slap. A big inconvenience, tho, is that planks are a much louder source of pleasure! Beware of that!
    2. A Riding Crop
      A riding crop is a great option for people how are into spanking from afar. Yes, you had it right! There are people who like their sub lying on the bed while they are standing from above. It is a very appealing view! This is why people have invented a little plank at the end of a long a little flexible stick!
      It is very convenient, and it gives an additional feeling of control standing from above or an additional feeling of humiliation…Depending on which is your side of the play! But humans in our nature need a little from both!
    3. A Flogger
      This is a tool that is very suitable for someone who needs a bigger and more intense impact on their body. It is a very loud tool as well, but what really matters is that it will give you the pain to die for! Depending on your choice of a flogger, bruises might be different, but they are all coming in the area of play!

    When it comes to floggers, you have to pick up the material wisely. For a regular intensity of the impact play, most people prefer the rubber. It gives enough pain, but it does not leave as deep marks as the leather one. However, if you want to see the over the left of your naughty behavior and its punishment, then leather should work perfectly fine for you!

    After all, spanking is one of the most popular fetishes for a reason! You have tried it for sure, but do not let this burning desire for it to die unsatisfied! It is just natural to be naughty and to get what you deserve! Do not miss a good spank today if you want to get slapped tomorrow!

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  • An Introduction To BDSM

    An Introduction To BDSM

    I think kink and alternative lifestyles are amazing, especially if you’re someone who wants to change up their sex life. There are so many BDSM activities, fetishes, role-play scenarios and fantasies you can explore. There’s really something for everyone. Kink can promote open-mindedness and awaken your sexual deviance . Studies have even shown that kinky sex can benefit your health and your relationship.

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    How My BDSM Interest Began

    My interest came about in early high school when I started perusing erotic novels at the bookstore. The only ones that did it for me were the books that had sadomasochistic undertones. I loved reading about women who gained pleasure from pain and the strong, hunky men who loved inflicting it.

    After that, I joined sites and forums dedicated to the subject. When I found my first play partner, I dove in head first and surrendered myself completely. The vanilla life I once knew was gone and I was more than happy to wave it goodbye.

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    Favorite BDSM Activities

    My favorite activities are breath and impact play. Breath play is pretty simple, it’s the restriction of you or your partners’ oxygen. You can do this in a multitude of ways. I enjoy choking and plastic bags the most. I find it to be incredibly thrilling to know my life is literally in someone else’s hands.

    Impact play is spanking, slapping, punching, flogging, paddling, caning, etc.  When it comes to this fetish, it’s go hard or go home for me. I want to be beaten to tears and reduced to bruises and welts. Gives me a sense of accomplishment to push my boundaries and limits.

    Tools Every Beginner Should Have

    Thinking back on my first “starter kit”, I had a small flogger, a wooden paddle, drip candles, handcuffs, anal beads and plugs, nipple clamps, silk ties, a blindfold and an assortment of gags. Not all of those are necessary but they’re good tools for beginners.

    Take It To The Next Level!

    For someone who wants to take it to the next level I would recommend Shibari rope, violet wands and E-stim devices, nipple or genital pumps, sounds, ben-wa balls, speculums, and strap-ons. If you really want to look like a pro, invest in some furniture. Saint Andrew’s crosses, spanking benches, swings, etc can be fun additions to the bedroom.

    Making BDSM Safe & Fun

    In order to make it safe, there has to be trust and communication first and foremost. Secondly, you need to know your stuff. Do some research, watch some videos, talk to experienced kinksters and then give it a go.

    As for the fun part, that’s up to you. Do whatever feels right, try something that makes you uncomfortable because it may surprise you, or try it with multiple partners. It’s your fantasy, you direct it.

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  • Exploring Impact Play

    Exploring Impact Play

    My interest in kink started when my interest in sex started in general. I’ve never really been into “vanilla” sex, I’ve always been on the more extreme side of things; especially when it comes to sado-masochism.

    What Is Impact Play?

    Impact play is when one person (typically the Dom/me) hits another person (typically the Sub) repeatedly for sexual gratification. This can be with a hand, paddle, flogger, cane, crop, or other instrument.

    In a typical scene (though I don’t think any scene is “typical”) the Dominant will bind the Submissive to something and hit them (spank, flog, cane, whatever) repeatedly and with increasing force for the sexual gratification of both partners. Some Submissives (meeee) can even achieve orgasm from impact play alone, even if the genitals aren’t stimulated at all! Impact play can be VERY powerful, and is a great way to get into “sub-space”.

    Popularity Of Impact Play

    I can’t vouch for how “popular” impact play is as a fetish, but I will say I know a lot of people who are very into it. I personally participate in impact sessions at least once every week or two. It’s a great form of stress relief (just like any sexual activity) and is honestly the best form of foreplay for me personally.

    Preparation For Impact Play

    To start you’ll want either your bare hands, or some type of tool as I mentioned above: a paddle, a flogger, a cane, a crop, or something similar. I’d also recommend something for bondage, like cuffs or rope, but that’s not absolutely necessary.

    Typically the process of impact play begins with the Dominant “warming up” the submissive, by hitting them lightly with what they’re using for play. For example, my preferred method of impact play is flogging (giving or receiving). So, for instance, with a flogger the Dominant would lightly flick the flogger against the Submissive’s skin to draw the blood to the surface. You want to use an area on your submissive that has a lot of meat or fat (i.e. back, butt, thighs). You warm them up so that you can hit them harder later without seriously injuring them.

    Some Submissives enjoy bruising or marking (*cough* me *cough, cough*) some do not. This is why communication is VITAL. For any type of BDSM experience, but especially those involving pain play. The Dominant is responsible for making sure the submissive is having a comfortable experience. You can go to town on your submissive for a bit, but it’s important to come in close, touch them, whisper to them, remind them that you’re there and that you care. Be sure to ask them if they like what you’re doing regularly, and especially after harder strikes.

    It’s always important to have a safe word as well, so that if it becomes too much the submissive can say their safe word (which should be a word that would never be used during play! “No” and “stop” should not be safe words. For instance, mine is “mango”) and end the scene.

    How Impact Play Is Used As Punishment

    I suppose impact play could certainly be used as a punishment in the context of BDSM, but I personally use it as a pleasurable thing. I beg my Dominant to flog me.

    That being said, it would be extremely simple to incorporate as punishment. Is your submissive behaving poorly? Bind them up to a Saint Andrew’s Cross (or anything of course), tell them why they’re receiving punishment, and begin. As always, a safe word is vital, but more often than not Submissives enjoy their punishments. Even if they don’t enjoy the feeling, they enjoy being trained right from wrong by their Dominant.

    Precautions For Safe Impact Play

    All you really need for safe impact play is to PAY ATTENTION. Constantly communicate with your Submissive. “Is that okay?”, “Do you like that?”,“Is that too hard?”. And Submissives: be TRUTHFUL with your Dominant! Don’t endure something you really really don’t enjoy just to please your Dominant. It’s important to voice when something is TRULY unpleasant. You may enjoy going out of your comfort zone, or intense pain, TO AN EXTENT, but always keep your own well being in mind.

    Does your submissive want to stay mark free? Be sure not to hit them too hard. There are still ways to increase or decrease the intensity of your strike without hitting them hard enough to mark them.

    Does your submissive want to be left with marks, or maybe even bruises? Give them that! But after an intense strike, always ask them how they felt about it. I cannot stress enough that communication is key in ANY BDSM scene.

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  • Exploring Impact Play in BDSM

    Exploring Impact Play in BDSM

    Impact play in my experience, is an activity where an implement is used to strike with force on a part of the body. I keep away from high risk areas such as joints, kidneys and any areas that are not protected by fat or muscle and mostly target the upper back and buttocks. An object used for this type of play could be a paddle, strap, flogger, cane, baton, whip or even a fist or foot. An implement can be made of a variety of materials including wood, rubber, leather, plastic, carbon, rattan, etc.

    Impact play is definitely one of my favourite activities and popular amongst my regular clientele. For most of those who visit me requesting heavy impact play, it is more a need than a fetish. One of my goals is to fill that need, and for my clients to leave feeling better than they did when they entered the dungeon, regardless of how much pain I have inflicted during their stay!

    A typical Impact Play process

    I aim to customize each session to suit what the client has asked for. There is no point whatsoever in having a set style for every impact play request, unless it’s a first timer. If I am seeing a client who has never experienced impact play, I will start with a warm up and increase the intensity throughout the session. I will stop on occasions to check in with the client. The first time with a client is never typical so I am careful and take things slowly.

    When a session involves impact play I will get information from the client about their past experience, reasons why they wish to receive, if they have any injuries, medical conditions, any medications , and if they wish for marks to be left on their body etc. A safe-word is put in place so that a client can halt a session if he needs to.

    There are many BDSM scenarios where impact play may be applied. Just to name a few: Head Mistress and student role play, Sadist and masochist session, slave training, general discipline to keep a wandering mind in line, and many more!

    In my opinion, the mind is the most important part of the play!

    Safety is the priority if you are trying it at home

    There are so many books and educational sites on the internet. On some of those sites there is access to skill shares and workshops run by BDSM practitioners. If you want to try Impact Play, attend workshops or skill shares, go to events and munches. There are always kinksters about who are happy to share skills or watch over you on your first time trying something new. Read from reliable sources and communicate well with your partner before play begins. Be sure that you understand what limits are, and just as importantly, what yours and your partners’ are. Communication is of great importance. With time comes experience so don’t rush things!

    I specialize in Corporal punishment, Latex and Medical play. I also indulge in many other activities so let me know your fantasies! Keep an eye on my site for my regular travel dates to Adelaide and Sydney. Read my profile below and visit my links!

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