Tag: Covid-19

  • Webcam Sex Services Become Popular In Quarantine

    Webcam Sex Services Become Popular In Quarantine

    A market survey revealed that in Romania there are between 100,000 and 300,000 models offering their services via webcam chat.

    The quarantine to combat the pandemic has swept through many economic sectors, but there are some, such as webcam sex services, which have multiplied.  This sector has seen its demand double in just a few weeks.

    A market study, an online platform that connects webcam studios with clients, revealed that in Romania there are between 100,000 and 300,000 models offering their services via webcams.

    This estimate makes the Balkan country one of the three world powers in the sector along with the United States and Colombia, it adds in a recent report.

    Record high number of users

    “I think we are witnessing an all-time high in both subscribers signing up and models. This is thanks to people being at home and spending more time on the Internet,” says Ionut Militaru, head of videochat agency Unique Studio in Bucharest.

    “User traffic has grown 100%, although revenues don’t necessarily reflect this increase,” says Militaru, who started as an adult videochat model when he was 18. At 32, he is a veteran in the sector.

    Sex and relationships in quarantine: times of adaptation and reinvention.

    “Many subscribers are cooped up at home with their families and can’t log on as many hours as when they were logging on to webcams from work. Or in a hotel room during their business trips,” he explains.

    His wife, Cristina, describes an explosion in consumption among users who do not have these kinds of obstacles. He puts the increase in revenue at 50%, an upward trend confirmed to Efe by two other videochat studios and other digital platforms. These offer the opportunity to advertise to adult webcam sex agencies and models.

    “A subscriber who normally spent three or four hours is now connected for up to 10 hours, even 14 hours,” says Cristina Militaru, 33. The expert continues to model in her studio. “Our subscribers are more eager for conversation and are more active on the web,” says the owner of camchief.com.

    Actresses, lovers and psychologists

    The “webcammers” contacted by Efe reject that it is only a kind of “personalized porn” and emphasize the importance of conversation in this work.

    “Here money is not made with your legs open,” says Ava Goddess in a graphic way. “A man coming in to satisfy his natural needs may last five, ten minutes. In that time we don’t make more than about ten dollars. It’s thought that a high-cache model can take several thousand dollars a day,” she explains.

    The money, she continues, is made “in the hours” of conversation that come after the show. Depending on seniority and cache, a minute of adult webcam sex is paid at between $2 and $10.

    “A model with a high level of general culture with good English and no inhibitions can reach 5,000 or even 10,000 euros a month,” assures Cristina Militaru.

    “A videochat model has a role of psychologist, confidant, counselor and of course lover,” relates Ava in one of the rooms from which she talks to her clients. “There are subscribers who fall in love; there have been some who have even introduced me to their children,” adds model Renesmezanith, 21.

    This young Romanian woman, with her exotic stage name, was on the verge of leaving the profession because of a scar left from an operation. However, the mark on her body has led her to deepen her relationship with a client who underwent the same surgery and with whom she talks for hours about this experience.

    More aspiring models

    Containment orders and business closures in the fight against the pandemic have put millions of people out of work. In Romania, thousands of women have sought a job in adult webcams.

    This is the case of Mirabella, the stage name of a 22-year-old woman, who lost her job when the establishment had to close. The casino had no choice in the face of the state of emergency that has been in force in Romania since mid-March.

    “When I became unemployed I asked friends for jobs; one of them works as a videochat model and brought me here,” she tells Efe. “It’s more mental than physical work, and harder than people think,” she adds from her room at Unique Studio.

    The hospitality and tourism sector has been one of the hardest hit by the coronavirus crisis, and that’s where many of the new models come from. Others, on the other hand, have come to webcamming directly from the sex industry, impossible to perform these days without violating the rules of social distancing.

    part of the girls who have come are dancers who worked abroad,” Cristian Neagu, manager of Privat Studio in Bucharest, tells Efe. “They have come to this sector because they know how to exploit their sexuality and can make money with it,” he assures.

    However, he recalls the “psychological” side of working in front of webcams. She warns that “having been a good striptease dancer doesn’t mean you’ll be raining money” in this online service.


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  • “Kissing is Sensational”. Kissing & COVID-19

    “Kissing is Sensational”. Kissing & COVID-19

    Kissing (cheek to cheek or lips to lips) always seemed as a very natural process which is essential and important in people relationships. Kissing is present in most people cultures since ancient times. We can read kissing in historical documents, look at the ancient drawings even hear from the songs. Kissing has different types. Parents and children kiss each other to express care, love or devotion. People also kiss in religious reasons and of course kissing is very often used for romantic reasons to express affection, sympathy and pleasure. There are also many ways in which people kiss. Some kisses are plain touching lips to something, some kisses, mostly erotic, involve tongue. However, now everything has changed one hundred and eighty degrees when the Covid-19 pandemic spreads almost all over the world.

    COVID-19 spreads mostly from person-to-person contact through  coughing, sneezing, laughing, singing or talking. In the distance scale, people can be infected if the particles of coughing, sneezing, laughing, singing or talking reach their mouth, nose or eyes within 1.5 metres. This virus can also spread by touching surfaces or objects where the virus is present and then touching your mouth or face. But what about to have sex with kissing?  If you are having sex with someone, you are going to be in close contact with them. Although COVID-19 is not an Sexual Transmitted Infections (STI) but obviously, it is transmitted during sex because of the virus is present in the mouth and it makes sense that kissing will pass on COVID-19.

    Like it or not I have to hold back from kissing my partner. Actually I don’t like it. What’s so good about having sex without a kiss? Kissing is sensational for me but since the COVID-19 pandemic I have had to endure it“, said Mekar, 25 years old (not her real name). Mekar is a private employee and has a partner.

    Most think that kisses as an essential part of any romantic relationships or sex and that real passion is very difficult to be achieved without kisses. Some see it as a proof of love and proof of sympathy and probably think of it as very important part of reaching intimate pleasure. But can you have sex in the times of COVID-19? The answer is yes you can but how?

    The obvious answer is to masturbate. Masturbation will not spread COVID-19, in particular if you wash your hands for at least 20 seconds before and after. Or at least if you want to kiss and have sex, do it with your safest partner. Having sex with your close contact helps prevent spreading COVID-19. In the mean times, you should limit close contact with anyone outside your circle. But if you do kissing and have sex with others outside of your circles, you have to talk about COVID-19 risk factors, just as you discuss condoms, and other safer sex topics.

    I met Ayu (27 years old) and Deni (31 years old) (not their real name) in the virtual website. They are couple and they do have sex and kissing at least four times a week. As Deni is hypersexual, Ayu ask Deni to not to kiss her but they have sex.

    Ayu said, “I asked my partner not to kiss during the pandemic. It’s tough because my partner is hyper.  He always ask me to kiss. I said “No”. He continued to force me. Then I said go ahead if you want to kiss me but if I catch Covid-19, you will also catch it. My partner occupied me for almost two weeks. At that time I had given up if my love life with him ended here. After two weeks, my partner called me and he said that he was hopefully strong enough not to kiss but he said that the sex would continue.” Deni nodded his head in agreement with Ayu. Deni said that it is their agreement.

    “Like it or not I have to obey my partner. Currently the number of people without COVID-19 symptoms is getting higher in our city, Jakarta and we don’t want to be people without symptoms. My partner knows that I am hyper. I have to refrain from kissing before sex. It feels bland but I have to,” said Deni.

    We are all currently fighting the COVID-19 pandemic. This pandemic is very dangerous because it can cause sudden death. Couples who want to have sexual intercourse by kissing should be avoided. Kissing is not something you have to do in a relationship. Love your partner and their family.


    Dr. Wisnu Adihartono – He received his Ph.D in sociology (gender studies, migration studies, family studies, and Southeast Asian studies) from École des Hautes Études en Sciences Sociales (EHESS), France. He wrote the articles for journals, the book reviews and the short articles for the website. He is the author of the book Migration et Soutien Familial. Le Cas des Gays Indonésiens à Paris (French version only). You can contact him at wisnuadi.reksodirdjo@gmail.com or wisnuadi.reksodirdjo@outlook.com

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  • How To Make Those Long Distance Relationships Work During COVID

    How To Make Those Long Distance Relationships Work During COVID

    Long-distance relationships are already hard enough, but when you throw in COVID and social distancing, it only makes them all that more difficult. Countless couples have been separated for weeks and months at a time, as governments from all around the world race to contain what has become known as COVID-19. With limited movement of citizens allowed and travel restrictions placed on certain countries, it almost eliminates the possibility of traveling. Heck, for some individuals, it is hard to travel in their own countries. In fact, they may only be allowed out to collect essentials.

    Nonetheless, these circumstances would put a strain on any relationship. Here’s how you can handle the sudden split and keep your relationship on the path to success.

    Unique Communicating

    As a long-distance couple, you and your significant other are probably used to communicating over the Internet, the phone, or some kind of connected device. There is nothing wrong with this, as communication is key to any relationship. That being said, the same old methods can be worn out, regardless of how much you enjoy them or need them. This is where thinking outside the box can come in handy while also spicing things up at the same time. Unique communication might mean anything from voice recording to music. Yes, you might not be the best singer or even the best communicator, but that doesn’t mean you still can’t get creative.

    Use various websites and online resources to create music and voice recordings that you can send to your mate. Shipping is stalled, but your package will eventually get there. Sometimes the waiting makes the receiving all that much more meaningful. Regardless of how good your recording or how professional it sounds, just the tone of your voice in a different manner can be enough to soothe and comfort in a time of need.

    Make Future Plans

    There is nothing like anticipation. The anticipation for something makes it all that more meaningful when it actually happens. It’s just like that voice recording that was mentioned above. The longer you wait on it, the more it’ll mean when it does arrive. This is why you can your mate should plan. Plan as much as possible for the future. Plan how you are going to meet, where you are going to meet, and what you are going to do when you meet.

    While a lot of places are already shut down with no idea as to when they’ll open back up, you can still plan and make appointments for future visits. Just make sure that you’ll be able to get a refund in the event that the date of the trip falls through.

    Enjoy Adult Entertainment Together

    One of the hardest parts about long-distance relationships is the lack of intimacy. Any couple will tell you this much, but that doesn’t mean there also aren’t ways to combat. Just like you setup voice and face interactions online, you can also check out adult content online together and foreplay. Sites like XXXBios  provides users with tons of content and niches of all varieties. With all the available content on this site, you and your mate won’t have a problem culling your wild side or even experiencing new things together.

    Participate In Online Activities

    Just like you can watch adult content online together, there are plenty of other things that you can do online together as well. Everything from solving crossword puzzles together to steaming movies and working out together is available online through video services. Even though you may want to communicate on a daily basis, make sure that you are setting aside at least one day of the week for a date night where you can participate in online activities together.


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