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Bondage And Sex

I think it’s great people are exploring things that satisfy them. As long as people are safe and respectful, I don’t see anything wrong with exploring the lifestyles.

How My Kink Interest Started

I think I have been into kinky things since I was pretty young, I just didn’t realize they were “kinky” things. I’ve always been tying my friends up LOL.

Favorite Forms Of Bondage

I love rope bondage, there’s just so many things you can do with rope. And if I had the studio and money, I’d be interested in building more intricate sets with metal work.

Favorite Bondage Positions

I love a strappado, hogtie is pretty classic and I like that. I like a lot of asymmetrical bondage. I know that drives a lot of people crazy, but I like it.

Being Tied Up and Achieving Orgasms

It’s a truly pleasurable feeling. Being tied tight and not able to escape. Forced to cum whether you like it or not (I usually like it hahaha), it’s a mental thing as well as a physical thing.

Bondage Sex vs Vanilla Sex

I can enjoy both, but since I’m a rope girl, I really enjoy bound orgasms. Bondage just adds more fun. But sometimes I want to cum and don’t have time for bondage, vanilla sex is good too. I like sex, and I have an amazing partner, so I’m always happy over here, no matter what kind of sex we have!

Tips To Try Bondage Sex

Start soft, you can always build up and get harder as you get comfortable with bondage. Always check in with your partner, whether you are top or bottom. Make sure you are both happy and feel good. As much as you might think the master has all the control, it’s actually the submissive that is allowing this to even happen, so appreciate them, and respect their limits. You don’t break the toy if you want to continue to play with it, right?

I’m Nyssa Nevers, an Asian (half Japanese, half Caucasian) international bondage and fetish model. I’m also a bondage and fetish producer! I’m a rope girl, I like all sorts of bondage, from light to corporal punishment. When I’m not modelling or producing, I like to go scuba diving, roller skating and travel the world. Follow Nyssa at:

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I also film custom videos, so if you have a fantasy you would like to see, email me direct to order yours (my prices are reasonable, and so far everyone seems to love my videos). To book me for modeling, email me direct at nyssanevers@gmail.com. I do not book work over social media.

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December 13, 2016
Bondage & Sex

I think fetishes, kinks, and BDSM lifestyles are an integral part of my personal sexual identity. I believe other people should at least give things like this a chance in order to explore their sexuality and possibly improve their sex lives along with their general happiness.

How My Interest In Kink Started

From a young age I was lucky enough to have internet access. Before I discovered pornography, I accidentally stumbled across some non-sexual videos of heavy rubber fetishists wearing latex outfits online, and although I was confused, I couldn’t help but touch myself anyway. I was intrigued by the idea of being restrained and enclosed in a small space.

Favorite Form Of Bondage

My favorite form of bondage involves being wrapped in chains, fastened to cold metal bars.

Favorite Bondage Positions

I like having my body in compromising positions like crucifixion (I love anything sacrilegious), and I especially love being upside down.

Orgasms From Bondage Play

Bondage is great for orgasms because the act of being physically restrained is very mentally freeing. The best orgasm I ever had was on the set of Kink.com’s Device Bondage, where I was restrained upside down by metal pipes.

Difference Between Bondage And Vanilla Sex?

Bondage orgasms add an extra edge and a thrilling psychological element. The word vanilla means different things to everyone, and what I consider vanilla could be considered extremely kinky by someone else so I don’t feel it’s fair for me to comment on that.

Tips To Try Bondage Sex

Find an experienced professional or watch instructional videos. One reason I got into BDSM porn was to explore that element of my sexuality in a safe environment with people who know what they’re doing. I recommend watching videos from Kink.com’s Kink University or the Kink School series from Severe Sex.

Charlotte Sartre is a 21-year-old BDSM porn performer from California. She is a lifestyle submissive and is passionate about fetishes. She wishes to educate people on how kinks can improve their lives. Follow her on her website www.charlottesartre.com, Twitter @gothcharlotte and Instagram @gothcharlotte

The DVD (featuring me getting ass fucked on the cover!) Kink School: Tips from a Master by Severe Sex comes out August 29^th. And I will also be attending Exxxotica in Edison, New Jersey November 4^th-6^th, where fans can meet me and buy DVDs, prints, get autographs and spank me.

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September 26, 2016
Tips For Bondage Sex Play

My favorite kind of restraint is rope bondage. It is just so much more versatile than other forms. It can be comfortable or excruciating, depending on what you’re going for. I also feel that it creates a deeper connection in the scene. Rope is an art form and someone turning you into their art is an incredible experience.

I adore inverted suspensions. Sensations are so much harder to process when I’m upside down. It get’s me to that adrenaline high so much faster.

Suspensions are unique because you are limited in how you can shift around. If it is painful you can only relax into that pain, fighting it makes it worse. It is almost like a form of meditation.

But I can’t discount how awesome other forms of bondage can be. I have had some amazing experiences with machine bondage. This amazing shoot with House of Gord was unique and incredibly hot. Being fucked upside-down gives me the most amazing head rush, and I couldn’t stop cumming!

How Powerful Are Bondage Sex Orgasms?

Before I start talking about my amazing orgasms I’d like to get up on my soapbox for a minute. I prefer the term ‘vanilla sex’ to ‘normal sex.’ Saying some people have “normal” sex is implying some people have “abnormal” sex. I don’t like negative connotations towards any sort of sex that is consensual.

Furthermore, what is normal sex? I personally define sex as any activity between two or more people that results in at least one person getting closer to an orgasm. So what would be normal in that spectrum?

Foot fetishes are common, so are forced-sex fantasies. Do handcuffs fall into normal? They are used quite a lot in mainstream media’s portrayal of being “naughty.” Is normal, missionary style, ‘lets both come once and cuddle’? Have about blowjobs? That wasn’t accepted as “normal” in the bedroom until Deep Throat brought it into the public eye. Now that 50 Shades of Gray is nearly a household book; is light, non-consensual, bad BDSM, “normal”? (You can tell I have strong negative feelings towards that book)

So, with that out of the way; my orgasms are very different. I would say during vanilla sex my climax is more of a single powerful rush. During rough sex I get this feeling of continuously cumming. I start speaking in gibberish and lose control of my body. I will sometimes even faint. It is fucking amazing! If you would like to witness this nearly-religious experience, check out my Live Sexually Broken shoot, here! That is my favorite shoot to date!

My third, and favorite kind of orgasm is cumming from pain. I can orgasm without any genital stimulation as long as I have the right kind of pain. Piercing does this to me. Especially when I get needles in my nipples or do hooks. It is just this rush of pleasure that completely shuts down my brain.

Tips To Try Bondage Sex Play

Communication! Lots and lots of it. Once you think you’ve talked the subject to death, talk one more time to be sure. Talk about your desires, how you’d like to feel during the play, how you want your partner to feel. Talk about what you find sexy, and why you find it sexy. Don’t be nervous! I promise that your fantasy isn’t “weird” or “abnormal.” Instead tell your partner why you may be anxious about your fantasy.

Discuss safety between yourselves and with people who know more than you. Look up safe ways to restrain someone. (I do not recommend handcuffs until you are experienced in other forms of bondage) Talk about emotional safety. Does no mean no, do you have a safe word, or maybe both? I personally use “Red” when the play needs to stop immediately. Talk about any potential emotional landmines you have around a subject. If you think you will experience emotional stress from an activity, talk about that. Decide if it is a risk you are both willing to take.

Most importantly make sure you have consent. Clearly communicate what you want to do and what you don’t want to do. If you are undecided explain why to the best of your ability. You can decide if you’re willing to try it, or if you want to save it for later. Make sure the other person has communicated all of these things as well. Consent is the sexiest thing out there. Make sure you always have it.

After you have played, talk about how it went. Did you have fun? If so, why? What didn’t you like? What would you like to do more of? What was the hottest part? The only way your fantasy can become reality is if you talk to someone willing to help you achieve it. It is completely worth it, trust me!

Read Part I on Why I Love Bondage Sex here

I am a full time student, most of the time athlete, sometimes porn actress, and always a dinosaur. While terrorizing unsuspecting scientists in a theme park is my favorite past time, I also find time to pursue extreme sports and edgy BDSM. I am an adrenaline junky through and through. Follow me on Twitter (@_Endza), Tumblr (http://endza-adair.tumblr.com/) and my blog Confessions of an Opinionated Pervert

Images courtesy of Endza Adair
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January 1, 2016
Why I Love Bondage Sex

I adore both kink and any sort of alternative lifestyle. Anyone willing to say, “screw you” to the mainstream culture is cool in my book. All of society is telling us that we must look a certain way, buy these specific clothes, and to constantly compare ourselves to their standard of beauty. The mainstream culture tells us to only partake in “normal” vanilla sex, but not to like it too much. We should enjoy it, but make sure to feel sufficiently dirty after. Anyone willing to lift their middle finger to the air and proclaim their freedom from these stigmas deserves some praise!

Personally, I have found kink to be both a gateway to mind-blowing sexual experiences and an incredible journey of personal discovery. I have come to know myself intimately; I know my limits, my desires, and my emotional landmines. The best part is, every time I play I learn more. And I have learned to be comfortable communicating my feelings with others, with both first time playmates and in the context of relationship.

My biggest motivation in porn is to show people how amazing and healthy this lifestyle can be. I want people to see that I am an articulate, intelligent, strong woman who loves kink and loves doing porn. I am celebrating my sexuality, in a way that makes me happy.

Additionally, I do porn for that person who feels that they need to hide their proclivity towards kink from their partner/partners. I want that person to know this is nothing to be ashamed of; it is something to be excited about. Some people are extremely sexual, some are kinky, some are monogamous and some aren’t. Most people have sexual fanaticism that is not socially appropriate. And all of that is okay. Actually, it’s more than okay; it is great! Wherever you fall on the sexuality spectrum, give yourself a high five. As long as you are exploring your desires in a safe, sane, and consensual way, go for it! I support your wishes to dress up like animals and fuck, to tie someone up and beat them until they cry, or to birth an egg out of your ass. You do you! Just be responsible about it.

How My Interest In Bondage And Rough Sex Came About

It developed before I even knew what sex was. When I was a child I would always demand my friends and I play cops and robbers, except I always wanted to get captured. Then, I would tell them that they needed to tie me up so I couldn’t get away.

It wasn’t until I was about 17 that I finally connected bondage with sex. I had a “friend” of mine who would tie me up then bite me all over my body until I begged. I had so much fun hiding those bruises from my family. I felt so naughty!

I was 20 when my desire to top others became evident. It developed a bit slower than my desires to bottom but now 80% of the play I do in my personal life involves being a top. I have to say there is a certain satisfaction in riding someone and telling them they can’t cum until you are satisfied. It’s a win/win, because if they do cum without permission I get to punish them. Yay!

Where I Enjoy Receiving Pain

I process a wide range of sensations as pleasurable, without considering them pain. Flogging is a very intense and pleasurable sensation for me. Temporary piercings are the same. So in that case I like it mostly around my chest, back, and face. When it is in other areas it is more likely to turn into pain.

Pain itself, I enjoy for the adrenaline. So in that case I love it everywhere! It is so hard to describe the high I get from adrenaline. It is like the whole world stops, nothing exists except for that single moment. That single impact of the cane, or the moment of lifting your feet in a hook suspension. It is life-altering experience.

I could go on for ages about my love for adrenaline. In fact I have! Check it out on my blog, Confessions of an Opinionated Pervert!

Part II to follow.

I am a full time student, most of the time athlete, sometimes porn actress, and always a dinosaur. While terrorizing unsuspecting scientists in a theme park is my favorite pastime, I also find time to pursue extreme sports and edgy BDSM. I am an adrenaline junky through and through. Follow me on Twitter (@_Endza), Tumblr (http://endza-adair.tumblr.com/) and my blog Confessions of an Opinionated Pervert

Images courtesy of Endza Adair
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December 31, 2015