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  • Blowjob 101 – What You Must Know To Give An Amazing One

    Blowjob 101 – What You Must Know To Give An Amazing One

    Think you know all about blowjobs? Well, Carvaka Sex Toys presents a fantastic infographic to give you a lowdown on every detail on how to give an amazing blowjob. Read on!

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  • 7 Ways On How To Blow His Mind

    7 Ways On How To Blow His Mind

    1. Don’t do it, if you don’t want to.

    He will be able to tell that you are into it.  I understand that special occasions call for special treatment, but don’t force yourself to do something you don’t want to do.  If you’re not in the mood during his birthday, anniversary, holiday, etc., just have sex or cook a romantic dinner.  The more you want to do it, the more he will enjoy it.  After all, the goal is to BLOW his mind!

    2. Talk to Him.

    Tell him all the naughty things you are about to inflict on him.  Same way we like for him to whisper sweet nothings in our ear, so does he.  Tell him how you can’t wait to take every inch of his big, tasty, friend into your mouth.  Tell him how you have been thinking about it all day and that you’re getting so wet, just thinking/talking about it. Sexy, naughty talk is a BIG turn on. If possible, send him naughty texts or emails describing all the oral naughtiness that will take place later.

    3. Tease Him.

    Don’t go right into the act, make him wait, possibly even beg. While you’re talking to him (see #2) make sure you are touching and caressing him everywhere, saving his friend for last.  Kiss him in all the spots that get him hot and bothered.  Trace your name with your tongue on his inner thigh, touching the tip of his penis ever so slightly and not often.  Continue to talk to him and tell him how you can’t wait to taste every inch of him.  You can make him watch you practice on a banana without him touching you or his self.

    4. Bring in Others.

    Do not be afraid to experiment with props.  Use edible lubrications to massage his penis. This will make everything tastier and allow for more range of motion for you. It will also be very pleasurable for him.  Try using a flat lollipop pressed against your inner cheek while going up & down on his shaft.  Create your own version of a banana split, lots of whip cream, strawberries, and cherries.  Utilize your hands and mouth. Make sure your hands are playing with his testicles and slightly caressing the perineum (the area between the anus and the testicles), while he is inside of your mouth.

    5. Turn Up the Heat.

    Make sure your mouth is very wet and warm. Play with temperatures.  Take him into your mouth with your regular body temperature.  Try drinking warm to hot tea, or even gargle with it. Then immediately draw as much of him into your mouth as possible, nice and slowly.  The change in temperatures will drive him crazy.  For a nice cool down, try something with mint or menthol in it.  Suck on a cough drop or peppermint for a few seconds and try again.  This time, take him in faster and suck faster in a fast paced rhythmic motion.

    6. Change it up.

    Make sure you do not repeat the same technique over and over, it gets boring quickly.  If you already know that he likes it a certain way, then by all means, do it! Change the speed of your movements. Go faster for a few seconds, then slow it down a bit, keep him guessing.  Try new, different positions.  Instead of being on your knees, turn around and straddle him on the bed.  Allow him full view of your behind, while giving him great mind blowing pleasure.  You can lay flat and have him straddle you (this position allows him to be in control). Try licking and sucking at the same time. As you are sucking, move your tongue from left to right, and then up and down. If you’re the courageous type, try blowing his mind in different locations, this will give added excitement for both of you.

    7. Make noise.

    Don’t be quiet, let him know you are enjoying it as much as he is (you should be, he shouldn’t get all the pleasure).  Moan as you massage his massive member and the testicles (don’t forget those guys).  Make loud slurping noises as you suck. This will also aid you in keeping your mouth wet & moist. Vary the volume of your moans, slurping, and sucking sounds. Slurp loudly, then moan slowly, then suck slightly hard and loud, followed by gentle, quitter sucks.  Kiss the length of his shaft while exaggerating the kissing sound.  As you make noise, so will he.

    Cashanda F. Eleby, M.Ed. is a sexuality educator and consultant. She received her M.Ed. in human sexuality from Widener University. Cashanda’s dedication and passion to sexuality lead her to create SexyShan, LLC to empower and educate people of all ages to embrace their sexuality. She has created & administered sexual health workshops and curricula for adolescents and parents. She is a certified HIV test counselor and enjoys giving lectures on anatomy & reproduction and STI’s at colleges and universities. Cashanda is also a toy consultant, who enjoys coordinating adult parties and teaching adults how to experience sexual pleasure.

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  • Why Do Some Guys Not Like Blowjobs?

    Why Do Some Guys Not Like Blowjobs?

    Is it normal for a guy to not like receiving blow jobs? My friends rave about it but I don’t really enjoy it as much as they do.

    Blow jobs are one form of sexual activity. What one finds pleasurable is unique and subjective to their sexual experiences and how they are wired to experience pleasure.

    Sex is as varied as the food we eat. Liking blow jobs is the same as liking a certain cuisine. Some people may love pizza and others prefer Chinese food. It doesn’t mean one is better than the other. It all comes down to personal preference. Sexual positions and activities are the same way. It is absolutely normal for a man to prefer other forms of sexual activity over blow jobs.

    The body may prefer other forms of stimulation and pleasure. It could also be due to the type of blow jobs and technique used by current or past partners. I would explore different types of stimulation and ways to receive oral stimulation that feel good for your body. Maybe your interest in blow jobs can change with the right stimulation and penis pleasing techniques.

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    Dr. Shannon Chavez is a licensed clinical psychologist and sex therapist with an expertise in female sexual health. She works with women of all ages and backgrounds helping guide them from sexual concerns to sexual empowerment. Read the rest of her profile below and follow her on Facebook at Dr.Shannon.Chavez

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  • 3 Favorite Sex Positions To Try

    3 Favorite Sex Positions To Try

    I think sex is great and I think everyone needs it and that it’s a really healthy way to express someones’ true self. I know some people tend to think that sex is supposed to be strictly between just 2 people or that it’s immoral, but I personally feel that sex is a part of nature and it’s to be had. I think what people confuse about sex is that just having sex because it’s healthy and having sex with a person you love is the same thing…I completely disagree. I think morality, sex and making love are all very different creatures and should never be mixed together in the same boat.

    Try Different Positions!

    When it comes to different positions with sex I’m always open to trying something new because you never know what you’re going to fall in love with! Besides, who wants to just stick to all the traditional when there are SO many different positions to try out?! I mean, once on vacation for my birthday in Australia, I managed to bend myself over a railing out of a hot tub and basically hung upside down for my spouse at the time. New is FUN!!!

    What Turns Me On

    I almost always am submissive in my sex life. Because that personally is what turns me on. There have been times though where I can get carried away and take control and do my own thing. But if I have a good dominant man there’s never a lack of action for me to even get the chance to.

    Try This Position for Deeper Penetration

    There’s a couple of different positions you could try for that. I happen to really enjoy doggy style but you have to spread your legs out as wide as you can and keep your chest to the bed or ground wherever you’re at so your back is arched as much as possible. It makes for deeper penetration and also I think it’s more fun for the guy to admire the curve of your body and grip your hips and ass better.

    I also really like going from missionary to my legs up over my head almost bent into a pretzel position, because with the right movement, a guy can hit your g-spot, NO PROBLEM and it feels amazing.

    A Great Position To Give Blowjobs

    I actually think it’s best when the guy is sitting on the edge of a couch or loveseat leaning back.

    I think you can get the most movement out of that position. It gives you access to his entire shaft and balls which is ideal for a great blowjob! What I like most about that position though is that it’s not too hard on your body or joints so you can stay there FOREVER giving your man the best head he’s ever had. I’ve easily given hour long blowjobss that way!

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    The Most Challenging Sex Position Ever

    Hmmm… the most challenging position would have to be doing anything covered in baby oil!!! In theory it looks amazing and it’s great when you’ve got some way to brace yourself. But if you’re on a smooth surface, you get no traction and you’re all over the place! Hahaha. Great workout though!

    Axis Evol is an adult performer from Las Vegas, NV who has been in the industry for just over a year and a half now. Covered in tattoos and piercings she works mainly with BurningAngel.com taking advantage of her alternative look. She’s a full time mom & leads a pretty normal life in the Vegas Valley working at one of the local adult boutiques. Follow her on Twitter (@Bitemebarbiexxx), Instagram (@axisevol), Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/AxisEvol.BA) and Burning Angel (http://www.burningangel.com/en/user/Axis+Evol/787604)

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  • A Pornstar Guide To Facials and Swallowing

    A Pornstar Guide To Facials and Swallowing

    Given that my chosen career is a professional sex-haver, my views on sex are very enthusiastic! I view it as a great way to maintain good health and emotional well-being of yourself and your relationship.

    My Choice Between Facials And Swallowing

    I enjoy the taste of cum, even when it fluctuates I find something enticing and interesting about savoring the flavor of someone’s pleasure. It also doesn’t leave a mess! Although I do really enjoy the slutty feeling of getting a facial and strongly empathize with male pleasure of seeing your semen all over a smiling girl’s face! In off-camera sex I tend to do more swallowing and in on-camera sex there is more of an emphasis on facials when it comes to choosing between the two.

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    Why Men Love Facials

    If I were to stretch my psychoanalysis muscles, it would probably have something to do with unabashed enjoyment of sex and sexual fluids – wanting to rub your body all over the object of your desire is by far the best method of communicating your enjoyment. Most men that have discussed sex and attraction with me, unequivocally desire to be desired as their primary turn on and what better way of signaling that you love everything relating to penis and orgasms, than giddily covering yourself in its fluids!

    One Tip To Prepare For A Facial

    I smile, stick out my tongue, and try not to get too much of it in my eye!

    Make Facials Kinkier!

    I do porn and I already think facials are pretty damn kinky! Ubiquitous but still very naughty and scandalous. To up the kink factor, consider having your partner masturbate in front of you with the explicit and singular purpose of ejaculating on your face.

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    Swallowing Is Not As Bad As It Seems

    Flavor can be a major detractor but often women approach oral sex and swallowing with preconceived notions of disgust and that instantly cuts off any opportunity for discovering enjoyment. In fact, blow jobs and swallowing in particular are the first on the list of “doing you a favor” sex acts and when women set up sex as a business transaction for which they are owed, they reduce their own ability to find pleasure in what is supposed to be a mutually enjoyable activity.

    Proper diet heavy in raw fruits and vegetables (at least 24 hours before sex) and genital hygiene does wonders! However none of that will make a difference to a woman who has set herself up as doing for someone else a favor and not seeking her own enjoyment.

    A Swallowing Etiquette?

    Often women report that the times they have had the best sex and felt most fulfilled is when their partner focuses on their own enjoyment instead of fretting about whether or not he is doing every little thing right.

    I would say this depends on the type of relationship. If your female partner is one of the rare few who prefers to have a lot of dialogue around sex boundaries and likes/dislikes then by all means engage in the conversation of discovering what does and doesn’t feel good to both of you. If you just met for the first time two hours ago and now find yourselves in bed together, a “warning” in the form of dirty talk or moaning that you’re about to blow is sufficient to give them time to react accordingly without completely ruining the mood (and therefore the woman’s emotional memory of the entire event).

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    How To Make Every Swallow An Enjoyable Experience

    First, make sex be your “play zone”. The time and place to completely let go and practice unconditional approval towards yourself and your partner.

    Get out of your own head and empathize with the pleasure of having a happy, caring woman suck you off and love every last bit of it so much that she doesn’t let a drop escape. Think of sex as an extension of the golden rule, behave towards others how you want to be treated. Be the change you want to see in the world!

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  • How to Enjoy Giving Him a Blowjob

    How to Enjoy Giving Him a Blowjob

    I personally love giving blowjobs. As a lover, I tend to focus more on giving than receiving, and I feel like blowjobs are the perfect way for me to do that. It’s so satisfying to see a man’s eyes light up and his head cock back when I surprise them with giving head.

    Giving My Very First Blowjob

    I was still a teenager, it was in the backseat of my now ex-boyfriend’s car. I was nervous, had no idea what I was doing, and worried I wouldn’t do a good job. I fumbled around awkwardly for a few minutes before I found my groove. I gained a bit of confidence and tried experimenting with more, using my hands and playing with the balls here and there. I treated it like a learning experience. We ended up having sex, so I didn’t swallow or get a facial or anything that time.

    To Swallow or Spit?

    I prefer swallowing, I’m usually much too focused on making my partner cum to pull myself away for a facial anyways. I kind of go into another world when I’m giving a blowjob. My goal is to make my partner feel as good as possible, and I put everything I have into that goal. I honestly love the feeling of a guy finishing in my mouth too.

    Tips to Enjoy Giving a Blowjob

    I know a lot of my hesitation came from not knowing if I was getting the job done and not having that confidence in my ability. I feel like an open line of communication with your partner is important, asking them to let you know they like what you’re doing, if they’d like to try something else, so on and so forth.

    It really helps me to have that reassurance. I also spent a lot of time on porn sites watching amateur POV blowjob videos, trying to see other girls techniques and what guys like to see or have done during a blowjob. (I’m the kind of person who extensively researches everything she’s even just mildly interested in)

    My Favorite Positions

    Switch it up! To me, it all depends on the setting. Shower or other small spaces? I’d get on my knees.

    Couch or chair? I’d have him sit back and let me get between his legs while I’m on the ground.

    If we’re in bed, I’d just have him lay back and sit on his face so I could ride his tongue while giving him head. There’s so many possibilities to explore, why stick to only one?

     

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  • Become a blowjob queen with these tips

    Become a blowjob queen with these tips

    Personally, I love giving head. I consider myself to be pretty submissive in the D/s sense, and there is nothing I like more than servicing my partners. Giving a Dominant guy head is a giant turn on. But like with anything sexual, all parties need to be signed up for the same thing. Giving someone head when you’re both into it can be one of the hottest experiences but there is literally nothing worse than being pressured into giving head when you’re not up for it or receiving from an enthusiastic partner.

    Preparation before giving a blowjob

    Preparing to give someone a blow job can entail a couple of different things but really, you just have to be prepared to get messy. Drink some water, because you’re going to produce a ton of spit. I like to massage the sides of my neck and near my throat a bit to relax the muscles and my gag reflex. I tend to try and deepthroat my partners if they’re not too girthy and when I can manage it. Some warm tea just before doesn’t hurt! (Just try to avoid any herbal brands that carry essential oils like peppermint, chamomile or some other numbing agent)

    Don’t ever miss these parts of his body

    Well, not only ladies give head and it is really important to remember that everyone is different and likes different things. I really cannot stress enough how much talking to your partners before engaging in any kind of sexual experience plays into how hot it will end up being.

    When I was shooting my blowjob clip with Owen, there was a lot of “Does that feel good? Am I covering my teeth enough?” and him responding eagerly with “Yes”, “Suck here, lick there”. Communication is so so important, even if it’s just a one time thing. If you’re receiving, you’ll probably feel a lot more relaxed if you feel like your partner knows what you like and if you’re giving, you’ll have a better understanding of what to do to make the receiver feel good and probably give a more confident blow job.

    After all, isn’t that the point? The odds are that your partner knows their own body better than you do, so they’ll be able to tell you what feels good and where to stimulate.   It just depends on who you’re with and how they like being touched. Personally, I’m all about some enthusiastic ass eating and sucking balls. I really like using my mouth to please people haha.

    Kinky locations I’ve given a blowjob

    I mean most of the places I’ve given head have been on cam or during shoots. I like the idea of being watched and told what a pretty slut I am as a role play scenario haha. I try to avoid public places. I’m super into consent and don’t like the idea of actually being arrested so I tend to keep my bedroom antics in the privacy of someone’s home. I’ve certainly given head in places I probably SHOULDN’T have…but those are stories I’m not sharing with the net!

    Tips to make a guy go weak in the knees

    Suck. The name is pretty misleading, just don’t blow. Round your lips over your teeth, relax your tongue before taking the cock into your mouth and then use it to massage the shaft while you move your head up and down. Suck the tip and keep your rhythm.

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  • Best songs to have sex to in 2015

    Best songs to have sex to in 2015

    Hello! I’m Annette Worth; adult film actress, disc jockey’ dancer, and a Scorpio. Previously, you might have seen my list of the Top 20 songs of 2014 to have sex too here. Well guess what, this time, I’m back with a kinkier list for 2015. Check these songs out and add them to your playlist so that you’ll be in the mood and rockin’ when participating in these different acts.

    Songs to dance to striptease ψ(｀∇´)ψ – What’s a striptease without any music? Strip to the tune and beat of the following songs for a naked good time.

    #1. The roots – Break you off
    #2. The Chakaschas – Jungle fever 1972
    #3. Tito & tarantula – After dark
    #4. Mo horizons – Dance naked under palm trees

    Getting a blowjob in the car – Nothing beats getting a blowjob in the car. Turn the music with this soundtrack and you’ll be cumming all over in no time.

    #1. My life with the thrill kill kult – Sex on wheels
    #2. Lords of acid – I sit on acid
    #3. Lil Louis – French kiss (original mix 1989)
    #4. N.W.A – She swallowed it

    Threesomes – Whether it’s your first time and there is a sense of shyness, or you’re a seasoned participant, listening to these will unleash all your inhibitions and put you in the mood to Ménage à Trois.

    #1. Pete moss – Strive to live
    #2. Ennio Morricone – A lindia (swell session remix)
    #3. Moloko – Forevermore
    #4. Jette Ives – In the presence of love

    Orgy – The heat of excitement and all the sex might drown out the music playing in the background. Not to worry, these songs are perfectly chosen to keep the party going while everyone is lost in sex.

    #1. The Herbaliser – Sensual woman (erotic version)
    #2. Luomo – Body speaking
    #3. La roux – In for the kill
    #4. Uptown funk empire – I’m a man child

    Masturbation – For that solo play, move your hand and fingers according to the rhythm while you fantasise dirty thoughts. Beats touching yourself to total silence.

    #1. Whirlpool productions – From disco to disco (original version 1996)
    #2. Fedde le grand & Funkerman & Dany P – New life
    #3. Oi va voi – Yesterday’s mistakes
    #4. Madonna – Justify my love

    Special thanks going out to Jeru Davis
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  • How do I give a blowjob if his penis is too huge?

    How do I give a blowjob if his penis is too huge?

    The blowjob is one of the sexiest acts and a favourite among most men, but what if you’re well endowed and your partner has difficulty taking every inch of you inside her mouth? Thankfully, Goddess Lilyth Vaine has the skills of an expert to make men weak in the knees and we’re glad to have her share tips to make you and your partner’s next oral activity an orgasmic one.

    Can you tell us a bit about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hi! My name is Goddess Lilyth Vaine. I am a true southern gothic bell and I have been in the BDSM scene for almost 8 years and love every moment of it. I change my hair color monthly, love theme parks, the moon, clouds and a fantastic pair of heels. I was born and raised in Florida but prefer to only go outside when the moon is shinning instead of the sun. I love talking about my adventures and am so excited to share a bit of knowledge with you all.

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    What are your personal views on giving blowjobs? 

    Ever since I started dating, I have been told my blowjobs were the best. Even had an ex secretly film me once and put it on the internet! Every time someone would find the video I would have it taken down…but not before reading all the comments. From what I could tell, men loved my blowjobs. Even have had exes tell their current girls that they wanted a free pass to get blowjobs from me. Hah. Personally the reason I like blowjobs is, watching a male crumble over such pleasure is a high level of power and control. They will practically beg to cum.

    How do you feel when you encounter someone with a huge penis?

    I feel like it is a challenge and a nice change of pace. There are not too many out there with really massive cocks.

    Can you share with us tips on how to give a blowjob on a massive dick?

    I have a few tips I could share.

    1. When it is still kind of soft, put it in the back of your throat and start deep throating. Putting it in still mostly soft makes it much easier to hold a cock in your throat. Once it is there he will get so excited that it starts to get hard while in your throat. Breathe through your nose and you will find that starting a deep throat blowjob this way is much easier and will cause less pain. Just flatten your tongue, and as you take in a deep breath, take in his cock for the ride.
    2. If your man is laying down, sit on your knees between his legs and suck keeping your head going up and down in a direct straight line. Keep his cock perfectly straight, you might have to tilt your head forward a bit more than normal, but trust me…they cum quickly this way.
    3. Do you have a tongue ring? A lip ring? Both? Use them. If you have balls on your lip rings, use them as if they were tongue rings. If you are like myself and have both, use them both. He will think you have three tongue rings running along the base of his shaft and be amazed at the sensation it gives. To use your tongue ring in your mouth, keep your tongue flat and press it firmly to the shaft as you move it in and out of your mouth.
    4. Focus on the head. The head is sensitive and if played with correctly, will send your man reeling. What I like to do is, suck my cheeks in as hard as I can until I look like a fish with the head of his cock in my lips and my tongue lapping quickly at the tip. Practice making fish faces and getting your cheeks to suck in to almost bulimic proportions. Trust me, he will thank you.
    5. Be sloppy! Let your slobber drip, trail, ooze and spit out of your mouth. The wetter the more of that lovely popping and sloppy noise it will make. It will also keep your hand nice and lubricated as it moves up and down.
    6. Down. Yes hard and fast is great, but not all men like it. And all can appreciate the slow and sensual motions. Tease him…suck it slow…look into his eyes, pop the head out of your mouth. He will think you are a porn star.

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  • Blowjob & Anal Sex pornstar moves to try out in the bedroom

    Blowjob & Anal Sex pornstar moves to try out in the bedroom

    Have you ever fantasised about having sex like a pornstar? Trying out the various sex positions you see in porn and recreating the hot scenes that reach an explosive climax right at the end. We get a chance to seek Adult actress Kassondra Raine to share her tips on Blowjobs and Anal sex for all those seeking to sex it up a notch in the bedroom!

    SimplySxy: Can you tell us a bit about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hi I’m Kassondra Raine. I was born and raised in Las Vegas, Nevada. Although I’ve always been a very sexual person, I never expected to become an Adult Film Actress. I majored in psychology at UNLV in hopes of becoming a therapist/psychiatrist. But by my third year, I realized that I had no interest in labeling people with pre-packaged “disorders” and becoming a legal drug dealer for major pharmaceutical companies. So I dropped out of school, and eventually started doing webcam, which lead me into the adult industry! I love sex, I view religion’s perspective that sex is a shameful act as utterly insane. Sex is something that should be supported and celebrated, and I’m very proud to promote that perspective through my scenes and films!

    SimplySxy: In your opinion, how much of what’s going in porn can viewers try out successfully at home?

    I think viewers can try out anything they enjoy watching in porn successfully at home. To me, that is an important part of the beauty of pornography. It offers viewers a way to discover new fantasies and possibilities, and can help them explore their own sexuality. In my opinion, trying something new is a success in itself.

    Kassondra Raine on Blowjobs

     

    SimplySxy: What is your personal view about giving blowjobs?

    I personally very much enjoy giving blowjobs. I have found that when I suck cock, it can be very therapeutic to me. I tend to lose myself in the moment. When that happens, all my troubles, frustrations, and daily stresses just melt away, at least for the time being. Of course I want my partner to enjoy it. However, it seems the more I enjoy it myself, the more my partner enjoys it as well.

    SimplySxy: With regards to blowjobs, what secrets can you give for ladies to give amazing blowjobs like what is in porn?

    There are thousands of books, magazine articles, classes etc. with tips on the latest and greatest techniques for the ultimate blowie. My perspective is that learning a new technique is fine and dandy and can be fun; it’s always good to try something new. However, I believe that technique is only icing on the cake of an amazing blowjob. With technique alone, the experience can be somewhat empty feeling. The driving force that should be fueling and controlling the technique is missing; without it you are just going through the motions. Your mind becomes focused more on your performance rather than being in the moment. The less you are lost in the moment, the less passion and raw sexual desire can be expressed. Sexual experience on a physical level is supposed to be about sharing physical pleasure with someone and having fun. When I am giving a blowjob, or having sex, I allow myself to get lost in my pleasure and desire, without worrying about my skill, technique, or “performance.” When I am in that state of being, there is no self judgement, no room for worry, doubt, or second guessing myself. The mind takes a back seat and pure feeling takes over. So my advice to ladies would be to focus on having fun and enjoying themselves while giving a blowjob. The more you are having fun, the better it will feel for your partner.

    On Anal Sex

     

    SimplySxy: Do you enjoy anal sex a lot?

    When I am in the right mood, anal sex can be as erotic and pleasurable as anything else, sometimes even more so. However, I have typically preferred vaginal intercourse in general. My sexual preferences have always changed as I have gone through life. There have been occasions when anal sex is uncomfortable and not much fun, and occasions when it felt amazing and turned me on more than anything else. I think it is healthy to explore new things and keep an open mind. You just never know. One day you can cringe at the thought of a certain act or experience and the next day you could love it so much that you don’t know how you have lived without it up to this point.

    SimplySxy: How can a couple try out anal sex like what they see in porn?

    I think the most important thing to remember is to RELAXXX…. If you are feeling pain it is because you are tense. You become tense when you are anticipating pain. I think that can be one of the biggest hurdles to get over. Where focus goes, energy flows. If you are focused on whether or not it’s going to be uncomfortable, it probably will be. If you are focused on wanting the experience and feeling excited about trying something “naughty” with your partner, then it’s going to feel amazing and be a great experience. Your mindset is extremely important.

    Also, remember to have patience with each other. I’m sure the guys out there who are super anxious to put it in their partner’s backdoor would be more open to patience if they had a battering ram trying to break down their exit gate. Women need to practice patience as well. Instead of feeling frustrated that your man doesn’t ever seem to let up on talking you into doing anal, realize that he is just excited to do something new with you, and that is a good thing. If the genders can do their best to see both sides, the sooner we will come into understanding and work together as a team instead of as opposing forces.

    There are many different anal training kits that you can pick up from your favorite adult retailer. Pick out the one you would like to give a try and do it together as a team. Who said working toward a goal together couldn’t be fun. Experiment and have a good time with it.

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