Author: SimplySxy Editorial Team

  • Philippines Plus Size Model Margarita Gumabao

    Philippines Plus Size Model Margarita Gumabao

    I am Margarita Gumabao, a born and raised Filipina. I am from Quezon City. Twenty two years young.

    What is your proudest achievement so far?

    My proudest achievement so far is I’ve recently just graduated from De La Salle University. Another is that I’m a plus size model. I model for Natasha and I’m proud of myself for stepping out of my comfort zone and going the extra mile to love myself a little more, and at the same time encourage people to do the same and be confident in their own skin.

    Do you have any favorite quotes you like to use in life?

    Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV)

    11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

    How will you describe a typical day like for yourself?

    A typical day for me is waking up, do some errands for the day. Workout is a must. Hang around the house, bond with my family and my dogs. Sometimes I go out with my friends but most of the time, I stay home and watch Netflix.

    Is there a food or drink you can never live without?

    WATER. Definitely! Thai cuisine is my faaaavorite. I cannot live without Japanese food, that’s for sure. I love onion rings, and anything salted egg is amazing!

    What have you always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

    I have yet to find time for work. After the holidays, I’m definitely gonna start applying and try to figure out what I really want to do. I’m transitioning from being a bum to the real world so it’s gonna be very challenging for me but at the same time exciting!

    If you could time travel, where will you go and like to experience or witness?

    I would really like to experience/witness the time of conquerors. Like England vs Scotland etc. Treaties being made and wars being fought. I’d also like to witness the time of Jesus.

    What turns you off on a date?

    Sadly, I’ve never been on a date. *Awwwww* LOL! But I think a boring personality would turn me off the most. And if he’s not a gentleman.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Magarita. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    You define sexy. Sexy doesn’t define you. I stand for beauty diversity, and anyone can be beautiful and sexy in their own unique way. Sexy doesn’t have a description. It doesn’t come with a checklist on how to be one.

    Sexy is the confidence inside of you that just can’t be contained! You gotta feel sexy in order to be sexy. You gotta believe that you are! On top of it all, you just gotta do YOU. YOU are sexy. CURVY is sexy. CONFIDENCE is sexy. WE are just simply sexy.


    Follow the beautiful Magarita Gumabao on:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gitagumabao/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/gitagumabao

    Watch out for Natasha catalogs every month! Check out some IG accounts I modeled for @aguabrazilianswimwear @flaunt.plus


    Images courtesy of Magarita Gumabao

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  • Blogger Sarah Diallo Shares Her Love Of Fashion & Food

    Blogger Sarah Diallo Shares Her Love Of Fashion & Food

    Hi guys! My name is Sarah, I am a 23 year old fashion, travel and lifestyle blogger based primarily in Brighton.

    What inspired you to start your blog?

    I was inspired to start my blog by my love of creativity, writing and a general shopping addiction! My sister would always encourage me to take photos of my outfits – which is ironic because I used to be camera shy and would even tell her, ‘enough photos!’

    Now I’m the one asking her to take more.

    Is there a fashion trend you are particularly attracted to?

    Hmm..that is a tricky one! I don’t 100% follow trends, only because they can be so temporary – however, I am really loving animal prints at the moment. It’s the easiest way to give your outfit a bold touch without going overboard.

    Which is your most memorable travel experience so far?

    Mykonos, Greece! Every moment was so breathtaking, every corner was what you would call ‘Instagrammable’ or a blogger’s heaven! The vibe, the food and the views were just 10 out of 10.

    How much of a foodie are you?

    If I could marry food…I would. It just easiest way to my heart! My favourites are Chinese, Thai and Greek!

    Would you rather have a lifetime supply of heels or dresses?

    It’s a tough choice, though, I would have to say dresses, a few pair of good heels and you’re good to go! I can deal with 365 dresses per year and 10-20 heels…I can work with that.

    Which movie did you last watch and was it any good?

    I’ve watched a few during the Christmas period. I did however, see Mary Poppins in cinema. Hmm..I loved and I hated it at the same time! I just feel like it could never have outdone the original, but it was a good attempt. If I was a kid, I would’ve 100% loved it!

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    I think the funniest attempt has been when I met a guy at an event, he asked me what I did. I mentioned my blog and told him the blog name. He literally did not write it down but somehow remembered it – I woke up the next day to a very long email from him!

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Sarah. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I define it as being confident in your own skin, knowing what works for you in terms of fit and colour and owning it shamelessly. Knowing what you what and taking the steps to get it. Finally, being bold and confident in your choices and decisions…now that’s sexy.


    Follow the amazing Sarah Diallo on:

    Instagram: @sarahdiallo

    Website: www.sarahdiallo.com

    Upcoming work:

    Blog post on Instagram tips and advice.


    Images courtesy of Sarah Diallo

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  • Toronto Model, Actor & Content Creator Connie Wang

    Toronto Model, Actor & Content Creator Connie Wang

    Hey, I’m Connie and I’m from Toronto. I’m an actor, model, and digital content creator. My purpose in life is to spread joy and empowerment.

    When and how did your inspiration to go into acting start?

    I watched a lot of spectacular Chinese performances growing up as a kid. I performed in my first play when I was nine and I became addicted to the craft ever since.

    Which is your most memorable acting experience so far?

    My most memorable acting experience would have to be producing and performing in a short film that was made in 48 hours. It was one of the most insane experiences I’ve ever had. I cried four times after we submitted the final product. It was so emotional and stressful, haha. We went on to receive the award for Best Director. Our short film, May Flowers, is now circulating in film festivals.

    Can you describe a typical day for yourself?

    Yes, every day is different. Some days are super chill and some days are jam packed with auditions, meetings, photoshoots and my side jobs. However, I do have the same morning and bedtime routine. I give myself an hour in the morning to do my rituals, prayers, and affirmations to set my intentions for the day. In the evening before bed, I do a meditation or I listen to positive affirmations to ease myself into a healthy and peaceful sleep.

    Do you have any other hobbies?

    I love yoga, meditating, manifesting, and adding to my vision board!

    Are there any quotes or mottos you like to use in life?

    This year, I’m focusing on raising my quality of life by being present and fulfilled with the underrated fact that I am alive and healthy. I practice having an equanimous mind.

    If you could have a super power, what will it be?

    To fly.

    What do you not get about guys?

    I believe this is a sexist question because there are tons of things that I do not get about certain people in general. All I know is that my man is out there and I can’t wait to meet him!

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Connie. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    To me, sexy means being authentically yourself without the hidden agenda of pleasing other people or trying to get more attention. It’s about being freely expressed and not losing balance when people’s judgements come at you.


    Follow the pretty Connie Wang on:

    IMDB: imdb.me/conniewang

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/conniewang_/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/conniewangofficial/

    Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.ca/conniewang21/

    Upcoming Works: Tokens On Call Webseries: Tokens is a comedy about the actors who work for an “On Call” Casting Agency which blindly sends them out to shows to satisfy a diversity mandate. Connie stars as Sammie Pang.


    Images courtesy of Connie Wang

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  • How To Find A Beautiful Girl On The Internet

    How To Find A Beautiful Girl On The Internet

    If you can’t meet a girl at school, at work or at a local cafe, dating sites will be the right decision. Find a girl who shares your interests in order to build a comfortable relationship with her. After a long correspondence, you can meet in person and go to a romantic relationship.

    If you want to find the right girlfriend on the Internet, then it is important to know where to look and how to develop new relationships. So we decided to prepare several advice for real hookup geek who want to become and stay pick-up masters forever! Follow our tips and hurry up to find a sexy beautiful girl of your dreams!

    How to Meet a Girl on the Internet

    1. Sign up for dating sites. Dating sites are the first place to look for romantic relationships. Dating online will be an excellent starting point since all users of such services are trying to find love. Read the profile information to find a suitable pair. After the exchange of messages, you can arrange a personal meeting.

    Specify true information in your profile. Do not try to report false information about work, growth or hobbies, because the truth will still pop up. Act unbiased. Even if, according to the profile information, a person does not look like the perfect match for you, then a conversation through messages can change your opinion.

    1. Find the sites of your interests. Many find their romantic partners on sites of interest. If you are fond of a particular sport, TV shows or hobbies, then fan sites are what you need. While communicating with other participants, it may turn out that your views coincide with one of the users. Start chatting and get closer.
    2. Sites with online games. Strange as it may sound, some people find their halves on virtual reality sites like World of Warcraft. Meet and talk with other players. If your views coincide, then suggest continuing communication in any social network in order to regularly exchange messages.

    No need to register on the gaming site solely for dating with the girl. Guys are able to interest visitors to such sites only if they are addicted to this game, and not looking for a life partner.

    1. Register at the alumni club. There are various platforms and social networks for graduates of educational institutions. Often the graduates themselves become the founders of such groups and sites. Find other graduates from the school where you studied or meet new people. You never know where you will find your happiness.
    2. Do not rush to share personal information. If you talk only about yourself or share deeply personal information, then it is easy to frighten off the interlocutor. Leave serious conversations for the future. In the first messages, it is enough to provide general information about yourself and not compose a whole treatise, otherwise, your interlocutor may become embarrassed and stop communicating.

    Do not talk only about yourself. Focus on the girl and show sincere interest, but do not try to make an impression.


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  • Canadian Published Model Athena Leilani

    Canadian Published Model Athena Leilani

    First of all, it’s a pleasure to be featured, so thank you. I am from Vancouver, BC Canada. I love my city, it’s absolutely beautiful, I’m definitely a proud Canadian. My ethnic background is quite diverse. I’m Hawaiian, Spanish, Filipino, Ukrainian and English. My name, Leilani means “heavenly flower” in Hawaii. My parents met in Hawaii, and 75% of my family still resides there. I also have two amazing little boys who are two and six.

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    It’s all or nothing with me. I’m either very casual, no makeup or dressed up, makeup and total glam. There is no in-between for me.

    Are there any accessories or items in your wardrobe you can’t live without?

    My leggings, body suits, and lip liner!

    Do you have any favorite quotes you like to use in life?

    “Everything always works its self out”

    “If it’s meant to be, it will be.”

    What hobbies or interests are you into?

    Although I model, I’m a big introverted nerd LOL! I enjoy being alone, spending time with my children. I am into spirituality, astrology (I am a Gemini) and paranormal activity. I am a huge conspiracy nerd, and love reading on conspiracy theories and documentaries. I am a huge fan of Harley’s and Tattoos.

    Which is your most memorable travel experience so far?

    Hawaii, as my family is there, it’s the chill island life. And Vegas! See, the two sides to me. 😉

    Have you been in an embarrassing situation before that is funny now when looking back?

    Nothing that comes to mind right now.. 🙁

    What turns you off on a date?

    When the gentleman talks about himself. Ignorance. Arrogance.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Athena. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy to me is confidence. Rocking what you got, with what you got. There is a difference between arrogance and confidence. Sexy to me is also how you present yourself, both physically and mentally.


    Follow the pretty Athena Leilani on:

    Instagram: @athenaleilani

    Model Mayhem: https://www.modelmayhem.com/191245

    I am in the process of modeling for a lingerie company, sunglasses company and will be promoting the Monat brand through a photoshoot coming up.


    Images courtesy of:

    Ed Clunn, Sirius Photo Vancouver
    MUA Leona Opong

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  • Malaysian Influencer Iris Lim

    Malaysian Influencer Iris Lim

    Hi, my name is Iris, you can call me 星儿 also in mandarin. I am currently work as freelancer and am also an influencer. Besides, I also have my own online business which is selling original Casio watches. If you want to buy watches you can find me too, haha XD.  I finished my Bachelor degree in business administration and spent three years in Kuala Lumpur. But I am a Johorian from Johor Bahru. My hobbies are playing table tennis, swimming and taking pretty photos =)

    I like to share any things in my life on the spot mostly thru Insta story ^^

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    Good tastes will never go out of style. It is better to regret the things you wear than regret the things you didn’t wear. Do not mind other’s people perception on you, and just be yourself. Wear any thing you like and am comfortable with. Style is a form of expression and also a way to share your information to people around you.

    For me, I like to dress according to my mood, for example if I’m moody; I like to wear a bit brighter to cheer myself up and don’t share your negative mood to people around you. Mostly, I like black or white colors as it looks simple and nice, although it is not a good sign of color in the Chinese tradition. But these colors make you easier to be more “cool” in style.

    Lastly, be your own style and make it have more personality.

    Do you have a beauty regime to looking so beautiful?

    Everyone is different and unique. Each person defines beautiful in different ways. For me, true beautiful comes from inner and outer. For example, you have a kind heart, you are willing to share your knowledge selflessly, you are willing to give a helping hand to those who need your help.

    At the same time, your kindness will make you look more beautiful in appearance. Having a healthy lifestyle also is the key to being beautiful. Do not smoke, reduce caffeine and reduce alcohol also will keep your skin more elastic and healthier. Eat more fruits, exercise regularly and sleep earlier is also a main key to keep you more pretty in this electronic society.

    Another regime to share is to maintain your good mood! I really believe that bad moods will affect seriously either your health, your skin and also your day! So keep up your good mood every day=)

    What do you like to do during your free time?

    I really love to surf online. When you are surfing online, you will know any news immediately without stepping out from home. At the same time, I like to study other peoples photo taking skills and try to learn from it. I think this is a good way to improve my own photo taking skills.

    Other than that, I also like to go swimming when I’m free. Swimming is a good way to relax your mind, listening to the amazing water sound and also swimming can help in listening to your heart when you are facing confusion.

    Is there any food or drink you don’t take?

    Haha, yes! I think everyone has their own likes and dislikes for food. But I think I’m very weird on this. For me, I really cannot like pumpkin, bitter gourd and anything relate to the bitter smell and anything considered “hard to bite”. For example, I like to eat french fries but only eat fries in soft textures and my friend will specially pick soft texture French fries for me XD.

    On the opposite, I verymuch  like to eat tofu, especially stinky tofu (臭豆腐) and the king of fruits – Durian. Every time I visit Kuala Lumpur, I must eat stinky tofu as JB is not famous for that, and most of the Johorians cannot take the heavy smell.  But I have a special liking on it, and you really must have a try=)

    Have you been in an embarrassing situation that is funny now when you look back?

    Yes! Haha, now thinking back it really felt so funny and embarrassing. I have more than one embarrassing situation that happened in my life. But one of the deep impression was I remember that day I needed to text my supplier to make an appointment for the next day. But, I accidentally texted him with “eating shit”, as the phone will remember your previous text and automatically correct it.

    Actually my mantra is scolding someone with “eating shit 吃大便” without any hostility. After that I was shocked and cannot retrieved the message back XD. I think he was very shock also as suddenly he got scolded by me, haha! Then I quickly apologized for sending wrongly. The most embarrassing moment was when we met face to face! Haha! Since that time, I will check my text before I send it to someone else. Really never felt more embarrassing and funny in my life.

    Which movie did you last watch and was it good?

    Aquaman is the last movie I watched in 2018! Really a good movie and I watched it twice. Actor Jason Momoa was perfectly cast as a CD hero, his appearance with his muscles and his height was suitable for acting the “aquaman”.  He brings a playfulness and enthusiasm to this film. He perfectly explains the half-human and half-Atlantean and brings us to his life to becoming a King. Besides, the heroine “Mera” was so pretty and has a good body figure. I could not remove my signs on her.  Haha! It was a good movie ever to end my year 2018!

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    One of the lamest attempts he did was finding excuses to deliver his bento by asking me where I was working. This guy knows me though short films on Facebook which I act as a sales girl in a bridal shop for a valentine’s commercial. Then he believed that I’m really a sales girl in that bridal shop and tried to ask about the exact place I worked. Actually I did not believe that he really thought that I’m working as a sales girl like in the short film. I felt quite funny about how he tried to meet a girl online XD.

    Another lamest attempt was a man try to private message me and asking  me whether if I wanted to join his movie shoot or not, but actually I felt quite afraid when receiving messages like this. I will always check his profile when someone attempt to contact me. For me, you can know me online, follow me, or comment on my photo to support me or to attract my attention. But personally I do not like to meet strangers online in person.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Iris. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Thank you for interviewing me ^^. For me, the word “sexy” comes from personal confidence, passion, kindness and intelligence. Personal confidence can be shown through eye contact, strong and purposeful walk, and a welcoming smile. Personal confidence is a foundation for a strong life which it is the ability to be successful after what you want. Other than that, passion is one of the keys to make you look sexy in life.

    A passion for life, passion for an interest, music or art which is able to drive you to be a better person. Sexiness from passion shows when a woman truly loves what she is doing. Taking a few moments to go out of your way to talk with someone else, showing compassion to other people from different races, regardless where are they from.Showing kindness is a level of depth that could never be made up by a beautiful exterior.

    Last but not least, intelligence of someone will make up someone sexier. Being intellectually challenging and having the ability to hold real discussions about meaningful topics will always bring you to the long run regarding beauty and sexiness.  Sexy will not only be defined as sexually attractive, but from the inner and behavior of someone.

    Lastly, I am really felt grateful to have such a wonderful interview by Simply Sxy =)


    Follow the beautiful Iris Lim on:

    FB link: https://www.facebook.com/iris.lim.52?ref=bookmarks

    FB page link: https://www.facebook.com/irisxiner/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/irisllx/?hl=en

    Upcoming works to promote:

    Recently commercial shooting: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GmDmhGfBpE8&feature=youtu.be

    Xgear watch ambassador: https://www.xgear.hk


    Images courtesy of Iris Lim

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  • Philippines Model & Writer Maddie Cruz

    Philippines Model & Writer Maddie Cruz

    I’m Maddie Cruz and I was born and raised in Manila, Philippines. I’m a diplomacy major, a writer, a plus size model and a body positivity advocate. Just like any other 20-something from my hometown, I’m just out here working my way around this whole adulting thing and trying to make it.

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    I would say it’s pretty unpredictable. On most days, you’d see me sporting an all-black ensemble. On other days, you’d see me wearing really loud or unmissable colors or prints. Sometimes, I go for that ‘off-duty’ look – leggings, a basic shirt and sneakers. Sometimes, I feel like going a little extra and I show up in make up, tons of accessories and heels. It really depends on how I’m feeling for that particular day.

    Honestly, where I’m from, people still get a little shook whenever they see a plus sized woman feeling herself and just rocking that outfit unapologetically. And I guess, that’s the subliminal message I want to express with my fashion style – you’re free to wear whatever you want, never mind the stares, as long as it’s appropriate to the occasion and you’re not deliberately offending or hurting anybody.

    What is your proudest achievement so far?

    I’m going to try to make this as brief as possible: recently, at my school, they decided to hold a pageant that’s intended solely for plus size women. It’s the first time they ever came up with something like that and I won the title.

    I think I consider it my proudest achievement so far because it’s able to encompass so many aspects of my life: having lived through abuse, rising above my body image issues, moving out at 19, working multiple jobs, battling with depression and anxiety, and so on.

    It’s been a real struggle since I decided to go back to school. Winning that pageant just really put a lot of things into perspective. More so, it gave me a platform that enables me to speak to a larger audience about body positivity.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    There was this one time a follower messaged me on Instagram saying, “You were able to open my eyes to see things differently and now I see clearly that there are so many reasons to love life despite my size.”

    It’s great when people compliment your style, your looks or even your achievements. But when someone, even just one person, tells you that what you do adds value to your life, that’s on a whole different level. Nothing compares to the kind of joy being able to help brings.

    Is there any food or drink you can’t live without?

    Milk tea, chicken wings, cheese and rice.

    What hobbies and interests do you have?

    I honestly think I’m a pretty boring person because all I ever do is go to school and TRY (emphasis on try) to get all the things on my to-do list done. I barely have time to fully commit to a hobby or sport.

    I love dogs though. All of them. And history. And indoor cycling. I would rather do indoor cycling than go to a club.

    If you can drop everything and go on a road trip, where will be your destination?

    I’m not sure if this counts as a road trip as it involves riding a plane but if money wasn’t an object and time wasn’t an issue – I would go on a trip to London. I have always been an anglophile.

    What do you not get about the opposite sex?

     Whatever I don’t get about the men also applies to women. So yeah, nevermind. Lol! Haha.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Maddie. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I think being sexy goes beyond how you look or how much you weigh. To me, being sexy is all about how well you’re able to embrace yourself in a world that ceaselessly convinces you you’re never going to be enough. It’s possessing the type of energy that’s so contagious it doesn’t just draw people towards you – it uplifts them and inspires them to love life and be the best version of themselves.


    Follow the stunning Maddie Cruz on:

    BLOG: MaddieCruz.com

    FACEBOOK: Fb.com/MaddieCruzDotCom

    INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/MuddyCruise

    MY STORY: psimonmyway.com/give-yourself-a-chance

    SHOP: Instagram.com/MaddieCruzDotCom

    SHOP: Carousell.com/MaddieCruzDotCom


    Images courtesy of Maddie Cruz

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  • Philippines Travel & Lifestyle Blogger Chel Inumerable

    Philippines Travel & Lifestyle Blogger Chel Inumerable

    Thank you so much for this opportunity <3

    My name is Chel and I’m from Manila, Philippines. I love travelling and prefer the beach than the city life. I enjoy drinking and hanging out with friends. I’m also a foodie and have a separate stomach for desserts haha!

    What is your proudest achievement so far?

    It would have to be when I graduated as a cum laude for my degree, AB Political Science. It was what my parents wanted and I made them proud. I am however, doing something really different now.

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    Sexy, chic, comfortable. I like to look good but I make sure I do it with comfort. This way it guarantees that you look confident because you aren’t feeling uneasy.

    Is there any type of food or drink you are dying to try but haven’t had the opportunity yet?

    Lately, I’ve been so fixated on visiting Marrakech in Morocco. There’s something about that place that I’m so attracted to and being a foodie, I’m excited to try their food and drinks.

    Which is your most memorable travel experience?

    Last month I went on a very spontaneous weekend trip to Batam, Indonesia from Singapore. Like it was so last minute that I was packing during the day! But you know what they say, the best trips are never planned. It was a much needed trip to unwind and relax.

    Do you have a beauty regime that you follow religiously?

    Yes. I wasn’t blessed with the perfect skin so I need to really work hard to keep those zits away. During the day, cleanse, tone, serum, eye cream, moisturizer (better if it has SPF). Then in the evening, remove makeup, cleanse, tone, serum, eye cream then night cream. Once a week I exfoliate too.

    If you could be a fictional or cartoon character, who will it be?

    Captain Marvel. And wow, I can’t wait for the movie!

    What is a funny or lame attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    Hitting on me when he actually has someone already. Please, I’m not interested if you’re a cheater.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Chel. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    It is more than just physical appearance, definitely. You can’t be sexy with a boring personality. And for me, it’s also the way someone speaks and thinks that I find very appealing.


    Follow the beautiful Chel Inumerable on:

    Instagram: @chelinumerable

    Website: heyitschel.com


    Images courtesy of Chel

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  • 4 Tips for Using a Strap-On Dildo on Your Boy Toy

    4 Tips for Using a Strap-On Dildo on Your Boy Toy

    There are lots of couples that want to spice things up when it comes to their sex lives and doing the same thing time after time can become a bore to them. If you are looking for ways to make your sex life more exciting and liberating, one of the things you can do is consider the use of a strap on dildo on your boy toy.

    This is something that more and more couples are experimenting with, and many couples get immense pleasure and excitement out of trying out new moves and experiments such as this during sex. This is something that can take the excitement to a whole new level for both parties, which is why it is something that is well worth trying if you want to enjoy a truly unique and liberating experience.

    Some Tips To Help

    If you are considering using a strap-on dildo on your boy toy, there are a number of tips that can help to make the process far easier and more fun for both of you. This includes:

    Discuss With Your Beau

    If neither of you have ever experimented in this way before, make sure you discuss it with your beau to ensure he is happy with the whole situation and willing to give it a go. The last thing you want to do is surprise him when you are getting intimate, as he will most likely go into a state of shock and run for the hills.

    Use Suitable Lube

    You should make sure you do not skimp on the lube if you are planning to use a strap-on during sex with your boy toy. You need to make sure you use the right lube based on the strap-on your purchase so make sure you double check before you make your purchase.

    Don’t Rush Things

    Again, if you are both new to this – or if he is new to it – don’t be tempted to rush things. Make sure you check that he is comfortable with what is happening every steps of the way, as otherwise it will ruin the experience for both of you. Just take things slowly and make sure you communicate and get feedback to determine how comfortable he is.

    Use A Condom

    It is also advisable to use a condom on your strap-on, and this is for a couple of reasons. First off, it will help to make the experience more comfortable for your boy toy, which is good news for both of you. Second, it means that you won’t have to worry about scrubbing the strap-on down afterward, as a condom will make the cleaning process far easier.

    A New Twist On Your Sex Life

    If you want to put a new twist on your sex life, this could be the ideal solution as long as it is something that you are both willing and open to try. You can then both look forward to a unique experience.


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  • Japanese Model & Performer Tsukio

    Japanese Model & Performer Tsukio

    はじめまして。この度は、このような素晴らしい機会をありがとうございます。私は日本で、セクシーショーパフォーマー、SMショーのM女モデル、イベント主催、風俗嬢、ライター…など様々な仕事をしています。

    Nice to meet you. Thank you for this wonderful occasion this time. I am doing various works in Japan, such as being a sexy show performer, SM show M’s female model, event hosting, customs mission, writer … and so on.

    How did you get started into entertainment and what do you enjoy about it?

    芸能界にどうやって入ることになられましたか。お仕事の一番楽しいことはなんでしょうか。

    ちょっと説明が長くなってしまうのですが

    長々と風俗嬢をしていたので、風俗で培ったスキルを何かに活かせないかな?と思っていたところに、「うちでコラム書かない?」と声を掛けてくれた方がいたんです。これはチャンスだと飛び付きそこからライターとしての活動が始まりました。

    それから数ヶ月後、ライターの仕事を通じて知り合った方から「明日、SMショーのイベントがあるから見に行ってごらん」と言われて行ってみたんです。そうしたら、イベントが終ってからそのイベントの主催者に「SMショーのM女モデルで出てみないか?」と誘われて、とても迷いましたが新しい自分に出会えるかもしれないと思い、その二ヶ月後にSMショーのM女モデルでショーデビューしました。好奇心と偶然の出会いがいくつも重なって今があります。

    仕事で一番楽しいことは……

    ショーは普段の自分とは違う自分になれること。かわいそうな女を演じたり、甘えん坊な女を演じたり、健気な女やコミカルな女、様々な自分を演じるのが楽しいです。

    他の仕事は多くの人との出会いがあること。日々、新しい発見があって楽しいです。

    The explanation will be long for a moment…

    Because I was doing for a long time mainly customs, I asked myself if I could use the skills I cultivated in customs for something? Where I thought, there was one who called out “Do you write a column at home?” When this was an opportunity, I jumped and being a writer started from there.

    A few months later, from those whom I met through the writer ‘s work, “I went to see it because there was an SM show event tomorrow” and I tried going. In that case, after the event was over, I was invited to the organizer of the event who asked, “Do you want to go out with the M Female model of SM show?”

    I thought that I might be able to meet new people, although I got lost very much two months later and I made a show debut at SM show M model. There are now many curious and accidental encounters overlapping.

    The most enjoyable thing in work … …

    The show is to be yourself being different from your usual self. It is fun to play poor girls, play spoiled girls, act as healthy women and comical women, various types of myself.

    To encounters with many people. Every day, it is fun with new discoveries.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    今まで一番褒められた言葉はなんですか。

    一番を決めるのは難しいけど……、決めるなら、髪の毛を褒められるのが多いです。傷みにくい髪質で艶々の黒髪が自慢なので褒められるととっても嬉しいです。SMショーでは髪を掴まれたり、引っ張られたり、とても悲惨な事になるんだけど、それも含めて髪を褒められるのは嬉しいです。

    あと、コラムの感想はどんな言葉でも貰えると嬉しいです。

    褒め言葉はどれも全部嬉しいです。

    It is difficult to decide the best, but …. it will be my hair. I am very happy to be praised about it because it is of brilliant hair quality and glossy black hair boasts. At the SM show, it will be grim and pulled, and it will be very miserable, but it is nice to be praised for it.

    How much of a foodie are you and what are your favorites?

    好きな食べ物はなんですか。

    和食とタイ料理。それとチョコレートと和菓子。素材そのものの味を生かした料理が好きです。シンプルな味付けだといつまでも食べれちゃうくらい。タイ料理は辛い食べ物が好きだからです。

    嫌いな食べ物が無いので、なんでも美味しく食べちゃうから、食べる事で得る幸せの数値は人よりも高いかも(笑)

    Japanese and Thai food. And chocolate and Japanese sweets. I like the dishes that makes use of the taste of the material itself. If it is a simple seasoning, I will eat as much as possible. Because Thai cuisine has spicy food.

    Because I do not have a dislike for food, I eat anything delicious, so the value of happiness I get by eating may be higher than people (lol)

    What do you enjoy doing in your free time?

    お暇な時、何をして過ごされますか。

    本を読んだり、ネットサーフィンしたり、散歩をしたり、友達と会ったりしています。

    一人で過ごす時間を大切にしているので、どんなに忙しくても一人の時間は作るようにしています。友達と過ごす時間は、他愛のない会話をしてのんびりとした時間を過ごしています。

    セクシーショーに出ていると休日も卑猥な事をしているのかと聞かれたりするのですが、そんなことはなくて、どこにでもいる女性達と同じような休日の過ごし方をしています。

    I read books, surf the net, take walks, and meet with my friends.

    I value the time spent alone, so I try to make time no matter how busy I am. Time spent with friends, and I spend relaxing time with no other loves.

    When I am on a sexy show, I heard that holidays are for doing obscene things, but there is no such thing. I spend the same kind of holiday as women everywhere.

    If you had the chance to learn any skill, what will it be?

    今身に付けたいスキルはありますか。ありましたら、それについて教えてください。

    こういう海外からのインタビューに答える時のための英会話です(笑)今、英会話ができたらいいのに!!って思いながら質問に答えています。

    これまでSMショーのM女モデルでアメリカとイギリスへ行きましたが、滞在中ずっと「英会話ができないの辛い!! コミュニケーションが取れない!」と英会話ができないことを後悔したんです。だから、帰国後に英会話の勉強はするんだけど……とっても難しい。英会話で生活をする環境にいないと覚えられそうもないみたいです。

    だけど身に付けたいスキルです。

    This is an English conversation for answering interviews from abroad (lol). I wish I could have an English conversation now!!

    Until recently, I went to the United States and the UK with the M-female model of the SM show, but I regretted that I could not speak English conversationally. I cannot communicate in English because I cannot speak English during my stay. So after I returned to Japan I began studying English to converse…. and it is very difficult. It seems that it is unlikely that you can remember that you are not in an environment where you can live in an English conversation.

    But it is a skill I want to acquire.

    Which song best describes you?

    ご自身のことをよく表現できる唄はどの曲ですか。

    たくさんあって1曲に絞れないです。でも選ぶなら……

    風俗嬢としてなら女王蜂というアーティストの『雛市』。昔の私を歌っているみたいで切なくなります。過去の私に「いっぱい頑張ったね」って褒めたくなっちゃう、そんな歌です。

    私自身を表すのならば、中島みゆきの『愛だけを残せ』かな。過去も今も様々な出来事が私の身に起きていて、常にポジティブでいたいけど、ネガティブになってしまう事もあって、ああもう疲れたな……って全てを投げ出したくなる時があるんです。だけど、毎日のように人に会っていると新しい人との縁が生まれ、人の優しさに触れ、人の想いを知るから、まだまだ頑張ろうって、諦めちゃダメだって、私にだって何かを残すことはできるはずって心が前を向くんです。その時に思い出すのが『愛だけを残せ』です。

    自己満足かもしれませんが、愛を持つ人になりたい、愛を与えられる人になりたい、そんな想いがあるからこの歌が好きなんです。

    There are so many things that I cannot narrow down to one song. But if I had to choose …

    If it is a customs man, the artist of Queen bee “Hina City”. It feels like I’m singing from a long time ago. It’s a song that I want to compliment my past that “I got a lot of effort.”

    If it represents myself, it may be “Leave only love” by Miyuki Nakajima. Various events have happened to me in the past and now, sometimes I always want to be positive but sometimes I become negative, so I am tired of it now … There are times when I want to throw out everything as is. However, I know the feelings of people, so I’m still trying to keep up, and not give up. I can do something as the heart should face forward as long as you can leave it. Remembering “Remember only love” is remembered at that time.

    Although it may be self-satisfying, I would like to be a person with love, to be a person who can give love, and I like this song because I have such feelings.

    How will you describe an ideal date?

    理想的なデートはどんなものでしょうか。

    美味しいお茶と美味しい食事と楽しい会話がある、そういう穏やかな時間が流れるデートが理想です。価値観が合う人なら、外でも家でもどこで何をしても楽しいです。

    It is ideal when there is a calm time that flows with delicious tea, delicious meals and fun conversation. If you are a person with a sense of values, it’s fun anywhere outside or at home.

    It’s a pleasure to feature you Tsukio. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    最後に、 にとって「セクシー」という言葉の定義はなんでしょうか。

    健康的な体と健康的なメンタルがあって、意志が強くて志しが高い、そういう自分を持っている人の振る舞いは何もかもがセクシーですね。とても惹かれます。

    A healthy body and a healthy mind, strong willed and high willed. The behavior of those who have themselves is everything sexy.


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