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  • Influencer Rita Rekhtman

    Influencer Rita Rekhtman

    Diversity inspires my fashion style. I believe that we can talk real fashion when it’s truly diverse and literary everyone can be unique. Playing with styles and combining the often thought of uncombinable is what essentially inspires me when I shop and come up with new looks in my mind.

    It’s a creative process which generates indescribable energy. I love to find that thin silver lining between a heavy rock style and a sublime femininity as an example. Or a total business look with an attribute of total casualty.

    Do you have any hobbies and interests?

    Certainly. I absolutely love music, singing and psychology as in psychoanalysis and the innovative applicable methods for reprogramming the mind and thus attract new creative and strong energies. Philosophy and reading in general are of a great relaxing effect on me.

    How is a typical day like for you?

    Wake up almost always stressed when I see the amount of emails and calls I have to return and elaborate. After breakfast, I normally try to do my meditation which charges me for the day and changes my stressful vibes into positivity.

    Is there something you’ve always wanted to do or experience but have yet to find the time for it?

    Yes, acting, theatre, write a song of my own, go back to my tango classes.

    Have you been in an embarrassing situation that is funny now when looking back?

    Oh, so many times that it’s even difficult to pick one to tell you about.

    If you could collaborate or meet anyone past or present, who will it be?

    Martin Scorsese, Leo Tolstoy, Paolo Coelho, Christina Aguillera, Lady Gaga, Anotnio Banderos, Angelina Jolie, Nicolo Macchiavelli, Frida Kahlo, Leonardo Davinci, Veronica Franco and many more…

    What do you not get about guys?

    Why it is often so easy for them to speculate with the heavyweight words…

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Rita. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

    Sexy – is the energy we have inside us and transmit. Only this. One can be dressed as “sexy”, however, it’s simply nude or vulgar if the substance is absent and the energy is exactly the opposite of what one is trying to portray.

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    Instagram: @ritarekhtman

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  • Things To Consider Before You Agree To A Threesome

    Things To Consider Before You Agree To A Threesome

    Having multiple sexual partners is a topic commonly frowned upon for its lousy image, which involves sexually-transmitted diseases, issues of infidelity, and to those who are adventurous, a case of promiscuity and debauchery. Society’s conservative view about intimacy is such that the idea of being in a sexual relationship with more than a single person, such as a threesome, makes for a taboo that scares many people to experiment and break from the usual.

    But does having a threesome warrant all the negativity it incurs from the eyes of the public? Or is it such a natural thing that is worth considering at least once in a person’s lifetime?

    If you are curious and are contemplating in engaging in a steamy act with at least two persons in bed, whether it be MFM or FMF, here are things you should consider before jumping in for a threesome:

    It’s Only Awkward at First and Subsequently Gets Better

    Like many things that are new to one’s experience, being engaged in sexual activity with two other people is initially rife with uncertainties and confusion, which could make an otherwise impulsive act seem calculative and unnatural. This is entirely okay as half of the fun about going into a threesome is being a spectator, not an active participant—at least, not initially. Do not expect yourself to be entirely given into the act from the start if you do not feel like it. But once you have built your momentum and begin to get into it, things subsequently become more natural.

    Expect to Have Some Laughs and Giggles

    You might be hard-pressed to think that all threesomes are serious, rooted in either lust or intimacy. However, there is humor in sometimes finding yourself in an awkward position while playing along with the physics that is taking place involving the bodies of your two other partners. The idea may not necessarily be “sexy” per se, but it adds to the overall amusement and, to some, even play a role in easing out tension.

    You Can Do It with Friends

    If you are only experimenting, going for a threesome may seem more relaxed with strangers with whom you had a chance encounter. While this idea may work if you are simply into casual sex, others find more comfort and excitement in doing it with people with whom they have emotional connections, like close friends.

    Of course, not everyone you call friends may necessarily be into the same quirk. But if you happen to have a few who are, then you hit the jackpot. Consequently, it just boils down to knowing how to invite friends to a threesome, such as with the use of sex dating apps.

    It Does Not Necessarily Ruin Friendships

    Inasmuch as the act of getting into a threesome is consented, the fact that engaging in a steamy relationship with two of your friends at the same time can adversely affect the relationship afterward. You can let the encounter be the destruction of your friendship, or you can all just forget that it happened and never make a follow-up for the same act again, like a one-time fling.

    It’s Not about You Versus Another

    Yes, the act of having sex with at least two persons can sometimes be an imbalanced thing that you might find yourself having less time in the act than your fellow like-gender partner, which is especially true in an FMF threesome. But do not feel “left out” in the instance that things got way too steamy for the other two and less with you. Things have a way of equaling the odds eventually. Just remember that a threesome does happen with divided attention for everybody, often unequally.

    Communication is Key

    For something as consensual as a threesome, there must be communication before and after the act. Again, this draws from the fact that some are more comfortable establishing emotional connections first and possibly clearing away any potential obstruction before the action. Post-sex, a conversation plays an essential role in affirming the relationship, be it merely casual or otherwise.

    Closing Statements

    The idea of a threesome is not necessarily a subject anyone can quickly get into, given the prevailing notions that surround it. But if your curiosity is getting the best of you and that acting against the thought of not checking it out yourself becomes an issue, why not give it a try while employing all the pointers mentioned here for their insights? Consider the things in this article and you might find yourself surprised by this whole new experience.

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  • San Jose Glamour & Import Natasha Cynn

    San Jose Glamour & Import Natasha Cynn

    My name’s Natasha. I’m a Leo. I was born and raised in San Jose, California. I’m a first generation Asian-American that’s half-Vietnamese and half-Filipino. I grew up watching America’s Next Top Model & Project Runway as a teenager. My desire to be a part of that world led me to pursue a career in fashion first!

    I have two associate’s degrees in Fashion Design & Liberal Arts. I also have two fashion styling certificates from the School of Style & Elite Fashion Academy where I trained in San Francisco, Los Angeles, and New York.

    Eventually, I wanted to be a model behind the camera instead of a wardrobe stylist. I’m really glad I decided to chase my dreams as a glamour and import model, as it’s taken me all over the world and I feel like I can truly be myself!

    How did you get started into being a model?

    When I was in high school, my friend used me for her photo class’s portrait assignment. I was maybe 15 or 16 years old.

    We took a lot of photos using natural light during “golden hour” and some with me walking through the leaves during fall season. They’re very innocent photos compared to now (laughs). You can see the rawness and unrefined talent in the pics.

    A lot can change in ten years! My look, style, and demeanour are much more polished. So for new models not born in entertainment or money; be patient and keep working on your portfolio. You’ll figure it out.

    What do you love about being a model and is it a lot harder than it looks?

    Modeling has brought great joy and purpose into my life. I think others might underestimate my career choice or the lack of stability a modeling career can hold, but I’ve really lived quite an interesting life.

    I love how every job is different. It’s given me something to look forward to in the future. It challenges me to adapt to the situation and evolve myself. By making my own schedule instead of having a typical routine 9-5, it gives me freedom to work as much as I want or take time towards other interests – typically my health/training, hobbies , friends and family.

    I love how modeling has taken me around the world. I’ve been to Fiji, South Africa, Thailand and other countries through modeling! I’ve done ring girl, promo gigs, and even had my own model feature while working around the US. I’m really grateful to experience that. As a kid, I used to read about other people’s adventures because I wasn’t well off and I had a hard time making friends… but modeling has brought my own adventures and friends! I’ve witnessed some beautiful and fun moments that wouldn’t have been possible if I wasn’t a model.

    But the thing I love the most about modeling, is it makes me happy when I see that people genuinely enjoy my work.

    I’m no doctor, but I can make people smile. I get such nice feedback when I go to the import shows. I’m glad my work has brought something positive to the world. Growing up in Asian culture, positive reinforcement such as compliments or talking about your feelings isn’t a thing… so it’s nice to feel appreciated and be good at something.

    This career isn’t always glamorous…

    Well, of course there’s a lot of pressure to maintain how you look… comes with the territory (laughs).

    Sometimes people can be critical about your look– and I’ve learned to be kind to myself.

    I’m bi-racial and exotic looking. I don’t necessarily fit a cookie-cutter Asian look. My skin isn’t that dark, but it’s dark to some Asian cultures. I have a curvy figure and bottom. I always wished I was more petite because I’d get made fun of… now the slim thick/hourglass figure is in (laughs). It can be stressful when there’s a lot of pressure to be a certain look, but that’s just the norm of the industry.

    Some people will love your look.. and some won’t (laughs).

    By far the worst part of modeling is when I’ve been put in awkward situations or when I’m dealing with sleazebags. And the strange photo shoot requests… eww..

    There are some shady people in entertainment! People definitely take advantage of young models. You have to learn how to navigate the politics of entertainment and hold your own ground. Whether you’re a freelance or agency model, that’s one of the hardest things with being a model is the sleazebags. Also, photographers that don’t return images or manipulate girls into drinking, pressuring them to do things to get photos, posing overly provocative photos are scumbags to the industry!! A fashion photographer asked if he could do a nude trade shoot…. for free. I told him absolutely not. Yeah… some people are just cheap and gross…. (laughs).

    Which is a memorable or unforgettable event or photoshoot you have done before?

    I’m supposed to just give one? (laughs) Hmm… there’s so many “unforgettable” shoots.

    When I first started modeling, I was really excited to work with these pro skaters… I taught myself how to skate at 16 so ya… I was super stoked! I wasn’t really used to being around celebrities back then… I was definitely brand new.

    Louie Barletta and Roger Bagley are such nice people to work with… I’m glad they were professional (not some gross sleazebags) and didn’t scare me off from the entertainment industry (laughs).

    Oh, a really funny and memorable shoot was when I did this one in Vegas. It was a typical lingerie shoot… except one of the models was not typical… SHE HAD A HOUSE ARREST BRACELET ON. She proceeded to talk about how she crashed into five cars a month or two before she had the bracelet. And she that was her second or third DUI? Like whoa homegirl…. TMI!

    Do you have any quotes or mottos that you always use regularly?

    I guess I don’t really use a quote or motto regularly, but I refer to literary posts philosophically. I have a few tattoos on me that go along with my attitude towards life.

    They are: “Live Fast“, “Trust No One“, “Love Hurts“, and “Veni Vidi Vixi“.

    “Veni Vidi Vixi” (I came, I saw, I lived) is not to be confused with the more popular Latin quote “Veni Vidi Vici” (I came, I saw, I conquered).

    “Veni Vidi Vixi” is poem by French writer Victor Hugo written after the death of his daughter Leopoldine. She was 19 years old at the time of her death. I guess you could say they’re kinda like scars instead of tattoos.

    I also believe in the law of attraction to manifest the life you want. Under the sunflowers tab in my Instagram, I post about it and other philosophies I feel deeply about.

    Where have you always wanted to travel to but have yet to find the time for it?

    I want to go to Paris, London, Tokyo, Seoul, and Vietnam. Ummm… Hawaii.. Australia..  honestly, the whole world!

    A world tour would be the dream… I’d start with an Asia tour (laughs). My bucket list includes doing a photo shoot in traditional clothing in my father’s land (Vietnam) and mother’s land (Philippines).

    If you could learn anything, what will it be?

    I wish I was fluent in many languages. Spoken and written language helps connect with others stronger than body language. I have a few language apps and I love watching foreign films… so I’m trying!

    As far as my knowledge on languages goes…

    My primary language is American English.

    Japanese would be my second language since I taught myself Hiragana when I was 11/12. I’m a huge anime nerd so I try my best to sing the anime songs in Japanese (laughs). I’m pretty sure I can do Ranma karaoke version (laughs).

    Third language is French. I took it in high school. I know some slang and can read but I can’t speak on a conversational level. You can also find me in a French rapper’s video, so that’s kind of a good reason to know some français (laughs).

    If you want some thing romantic to say to your bf/gf, tell them “Envie de toi! Je t’aime et tu me manques beaucoup! Bisous.”

    I wish I could talk in Vietnamese since there’s a big community in San Jose.  I get a lot of slack for not understanding and looking Vietnamese enough (but I’m biracial so I’ll never look full). Vietnam is a homogeneous country where it’s a big deal in the community to not understand the language or look “Vietnamese”. My mom actually put me in Vietnamese school, but it was hard… like learning and fitting in with other kids was no bueno. It’s just such a hard language to learn cause it has a combination of Chinese and French influence.

    I don’t feel as pressured to learn Tagalog or Bisaya (my mom’s dialect) as there’s not many Filipinos in my area. The national language in Philippines is Tagalog and English, so I’m gucci (laughs). I feel there’s more of ethnic diversity and acceptance since Filipinos have many different looks but most notable are the Chinita, Mestiza, and Morena/Kayumangi look. I fall under the Chinita category.

    If I was a genius, I’d learn it out of respect for my mother. I think it would also be useful to know some Chinese, Korean, and Spanish.

    What is a lame or funny attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    A really funny time a guy has tried to get to know me was when I posted a Facebook status about how hard it is to cut a pineapple.

    He then solo chain commented three times in a row about how he wish he lived near me and would cut my pineapples for me. And then he ended it with a fart joke about cutting cheese (laughs).

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Natasha. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I find it very “sexy” when you don’t have to talk about something – you just do it. Self-confidence without all that extra fluff. When your work speaks for itself, and you reach that moment when you no longer have to introduce yourself. That’s sexy.

    People that are beautiful, fun, kind, and rich don’t have to always say they are because that’s just who they are. I strive to be around people like that, which falls into the principles of law and attraction.

    Don’t talk about it, just be about it!

    Follow the beautiful Natasha Cynn on:

    Website: Natashacynn.com

    Instagram: Instagram.com/natashacynn 

    Facebook: Facebook.com/natashacynn

    Twitter: Twitter.com/natashacynn

    Images from Natasha Cynn

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  • Singaporean Cosplayer Ayu Mantou

    Singaporean Cosplayer Ayu Mantou

    I am Ayu Mantou from Singapore! I actually started cosplaying around three years ago and still planning on continuing. I am actually still a student here, however I always feel that cosplay was a way for me to escape my stress and issues I face in reality, being able to change myself into a character I love or simply create new looks always came therapeutic to me.

    What inspired you to first start to cosplay?

    Initially it started off by having to be asked by an old friend of mine to accompany her to an event in cosplay. At that time I didn’t even know the basics of makeup and practically attended bare faced! But eventually, I was inspired by various cosplayers I met there who were really warm and friendly, how much effort they actually placed into bringing a fictional character to life made me want to do the same as well.

    How much time and effort goes into making the costume and props for each cosplay?

    As I do not have much of a gift for dressmaking, I usually order my costumes online, however when it comes to props I have made quite a few on my own as well as help from others. I’m actually still a beginner at prop making, however I would always be more than willing to make a prop for a character that is within my abilities!

    What do you enjoy most when you are cosplaying?

    Just having to be another person and the fact that I am actually able to be complemented by others on how similar I look like the character I am portraying helps build my confidence. The journey also allowed me to meet various valuable friends whom I might not even meet outside of the community, their support through the tough times always have a special place in my heart.

    Do you have any other hobbies and interests?

    I do draw occasionally and game. Currently I am terribly into Destiny 2.

    If you could have a super power, what will it be?

    Being able to fly or run really fast? The areas that I usually go to photoshoots are really far, just being able to solve this would no doubt reduce the time constraint haha.

    Are you more of a morning person or night owl?

    Night owl definitely. I cannot maintain proper conversations in the early morning without dozing a little.

    What is a funny or awkward attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    I remember quite clearly a certain occasion where a man private messaged me on Instagram claiming to be an ex-classmate. It kinda backfired on his part because the first question I asked was if he knew my actual name and he gave my stage name. He still powered through it and continued to ask for my number to no reply.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Ayu. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Thank you! I feel that the term “sexy” has often been related to rather negative things, however having to be confident in your body and seeing how much you worked for it definitely deserves the eyes of others.

    Follow the gorgeous Ayu Mantou on:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ayumantou/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ayumantou/

    World Cosplay: https://worldcosplay.net/member/680620

    Ko-Fi: https://ko-fi.com/ayumantou

    I would be appearing next as Atago and Takao in their school uniform (yes, the both of them)!

    Images from Nik Yan Photography

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  • Malaysian Model Grace Chung

    Malaysian Model Grace Chung

    My name is Grace Chung, 22 years old, a broadcast student in University Tunku Abdul Rahman, also working as a freelance model.

    What do you love most about modeling?

    One thing I love most about modelling is we get to be pretty while working.

    Are there any fashion accessories you can’t live without?

    One fashion accessory that I will always have with my outfit is definitely earrings. It enhances the whole appearance of the outfit.

    Where do you usually love to shop from?

    I usually love online shopping more than shopping in actual shopping malls. I usually shop on TaoBao.

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a party animal are you?

    On a scale from 1-10, I’m actually rating myself as 1 as I’m not much of a party animal.

    If you can be a cartoon character, who will you be?

    Not sure if it’s considered as a cartoon, maybe half, I wish I can be Alita, the battle angel, as her character is similar to my personality.

    Do you have any hobbies or interests?

    I love photography and cinematography. I also love travelling, well who doesn’t.

    What is a funny attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    There’s one guy during my secondary school days, he suddenly stood infront of me, tied his shoe laces and stood up and asked for my number. I was shocked more than surprised. And then felt it was funny and laughed about it with my friends as everyone witnessed the moment.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Grace. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    The word ‘Sexy’ is defined as slim for females and muscular for males in the media. However, I think that humans are much too influenced by how the media portray ‘Sexy’. In my opinion, I think that everyone can be sexy in different ways. As long as there is one person that admires you, you are sexy.

    Follow the beautiful Grace Chung on:

    1st Instagram: 

    https://www.instagram.com/_gracechung_/

    2nd Instagram: 

    https://instagram.com/gracechung_modelling?igshid=1dxdtcl84ivr9

    17 live: 

    http://17.media/share/profile/7fe2e887-fc2c-4c98-a16f-0b93ffe1a07a?lang=TW

    Images from Grace Chung

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  • Tattoo Artist Alize From Singapore

    Tattoo Artist Alize From Singapore

    Hello! Firstly, I would like to give a huge thank you to SimplySxy for featuring me. My name is Alize and I am a tattoo artist that practices Japanese Irezumi (Japanese tattoo) in Singapore. I am also currently the only female that is mainly studying Japanese Irezumi in Singapore.

    Where did your inspiration to be a tattoo artist come from?

    Honestly I just wanted to be a cool young adult and be part of the cool scene (laughs).

    When I was young, I was always known as the shy kid in class that draws the best. Gradually as I grew older, I was exposed to Japanese Irezumi, mainly via anime and the Internet and I was so charmed by it.

    To me, Japanese Irezumi is so fiercely beautiful. I do not know how to explain how I feel towards it but there is something so purely seductive and charming about it. Therefore this explains why I chose to be a tattoo artist and also study its craft!

    Tattoo by Alize

    What challenges do you face as a tattoo artist?

    Dealing with people who are trying to tell you how to tattoo and create the work.

    I would like to emphasise to do your own research and study the artist’s work before approaching them!

    I always make it very clear on how I would approach the tattoo and clients should be clear of my body of works before arranging an appointment to discuss. I believe its both parties’ responsibility to understand and trust one another.

    Is there a story behind one of your tattoos that you like to share with us?

    My sleeves are done as a reminder to myself that there is no turning back.

    Rather than focusing on my sleeves and any stories behind it, I would love to take this chance and say that it is the huge amount of time invested, the process, the pain and dedication that makes getting a large scale Japanese Irezumi such a endearing experience to share – rather than having trying and finding to input meaning into your tattoo.

    The craft itself is beautiful enough!

    Tattoo by Alize

    What have you always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

    Thank you for asking this! I have always wanted to try out MMA ever since I was a kid but my parents were against it and now I do not have the time and commitment for it.

    Tattoo by Alize

    If you can have a super power, what will it be?

    I would love to fly! To be able to able to enjoy amazing sceneries from a bird’s eye view would definitely be super amazing.

    Tattoo by Alize

    Are you more of a morning person or night owl?

    I would pick night but a good cup of ice coffee solves the problem!

    Tattoo by Alize

    What turns you off on a date?

    It’s been quite awhile since I’ve gone out on a date (laughs). If I have to pick, I would say turning up late.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Alize. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    My tattoo girls are the sexiest (laughs) . You do YOU!

    Follow the gorgeous Alize on:

    My tattoo IG: http://instagram.com/alizetattoo

    Business Email: alizedolltattoo@gmail.com

    Tattoo studio IG: http://instagram.com/8voltstattoo

    Tattoo studio website: http://www.8voltstattoo.com

    Images from Alize

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  • Singaporean Cosplayer, Anisong DJ & Performer, Yukira

    Singaporean Cosplayer, Anisong DJ & Performer, Yukira

    Hi, I’m Yukira! I’m a cosplayer, anisong DJ and performer from Singapore. I’m a big fan of Idolm@ster Cinderella Girls, FGO and Azur Lane!

    Luna – Pic by Tinneh

    When and how did you first start to cosplay?

    I’ve been cosplaying for about two years now. I’ve wanted to cosplay since I was young because I’ve been into anime and manga since I was about nine. I didn’t actually get the chance to do so till I started working because I didn’t want to burden my parents financially which was why I put it off for so long.

    Which characters have you enjoyed cosplaying most?

    My favorite character is definitely Luna from Shadowverse! It was a plan that I really wanted to do for over a year before I finally managed to cosplay her at gamestart 2018. Her costume was incredibly elaborate as well. I had to try out crafting for the first time, making some of the details that had to go on the dress. Besides Luna, I also really enjoy cosplaying Kuudere characters like Takao from Azur Lane.

    Scathach – Pic by Nik Yan Photography

    If you could be a cosplay character for real, who will you choose to be?

    I would love to be Hinata form Naruto! I feel that her story of falling in love with one boy from when they were little and growing up to marry him is the sweetest thing in the world. She is a female character that I really love for her kindness and her strength as she begins to learn to grow out of her shyness and become strong as a person.

    Do you have any other hobbies and interests?

    Besides cosplaying, I have also been trying out performing on stage. I’ve recently been into dancing with my friends and it’s been incredibly fun because we all just act so dumb during practices it’s ridiculous. I’m also trying out DJing and I made my DJ debut at Golden Mix Vol 1 earlier this year. It’s been very fun standing on stage instead of being in the crowd.

    Suigintou – Pic by Emily Fliptography

    If you could time travel, where will you like to go?

    The Victorian era! I love stories and fashion styles based around that time period, it’s definitely an era I would love to see for myself.

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a party animal are you?

    In a normal club, about a 3. I’ll just be there for drinks mostly. In an anisong club, definitely about an 8. The experience for anisong is on a while different level so I always party hard at those.

    Takao Race Queen – Pic by Isa AR Photography

    What is a funny or awkward attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    None really…I’m not the kind of person to get hit on very often hahaha.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Yukira. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I think confidence makes a person sexy! I think self-confidence translates very well into how a person carries themselves and how they present themselves to others. That would be my definition of sexy.

    Follow the talented Yukira on:

    Instagram: www.instagram.com/yukira.rin

    Facebook: www.facebook.com/Yukira

    Featured image from Lizespero LIZ LIZ

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  • Chilean Cosplayer Lianka

    Chilean Cosplayer Lianka

    Hello! Thank you so much for having me! I’m Lianka, I’m a cosplayer from the remote country of Chile, I was born and raised there, and I’ve been doing cosplay for about two years now. I know, it’s not so much but I feel like I’ve been doing it since forever, it’s crazy!

    How did your interest in cosplay come about?

    So, a little before I started with cosplay I didn’t even know what it was, like, when I was in high school no one ever talked about it or, it just, wasn’t a thing, at all. But when I graduated from high school, I met many people in college mostly who shared the love for anime and other geek things and some girls had J-pop dance groups I felt like oh, this might be fun, and long story short, I ended up in a Love Live dance cover group and that’s how I started with cosplay!

    Which is the most challenging character you have cosplayed before?

    I think the most challenging character I’ve cosplayed was Akali from League of Legends, I did the K/DA version. And it was SO challenging for me because I had never done a character like that. I mean, she’s like very serious, she looks very mature and has a very fierce personality over all. So it took me a while to decide whether I should really take the risk, you know?

    So I tried like A MILLION times with different kinds of makeup to make my face look more sharp (because my face is very round and like a baby’s haha), or trying with poses and other things like that. And I think it turned out quite fine, but I’m still thinking I could’ve done better.

    If you could be a cosplay character for real, who will you be?

    Woah, that’s a really hard question. But if I had to choose between one of the characters I’ve cosplayed… I would chose Popuko from Pop Team Epic (lmao). But only because it’s a funny character, I laughed SO MUCH with the series, and I like fun, I like making jokes, and my humor gets quite dark so yeah, I think it would be fun and I could make as much weird or cruel jokes without being judged I guess.

    Do you have any other hobbies or interests?

    To be honest, cosplay is like my BIG hobby, and it takes most of my time right now. It’s hard having many hobbies and balancing them with studies so I don’t do many things but, maybe singing, I really enjoy it and also drawing, those two really take my stress away.

    If you could time travel, where will you go?

    If I could time travel I would probably go to when I was younger, like in my teens and I would tell myself not to be ashamed of your interests, that it’s okay to be different and most importantly, to take care of yourself and enjoy life and worry less.

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a risk taker are you?

    I’m definitely a 1 or maybe a 2. If I have to do something that implies some kind of risk, I have this tendency of always making sure of everything, sometimes I over analyse things. It’s not healthy I believe. I should take more risks in life.

    What is a lame or awkward attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    Haha I have some fun stories about that. But I remember that one time when a guy said the usual like “hey you’re so sexy” and whatever and he was like “I think we have so much in common, we should go out for dinner together someday, I’ll buy you a hot dog” and ok, maybe it doesn’t sound as lame as it was.

    But in Chile, hot dogs are like, something you eat everyday. So I felt like basically like he was saying “I’ll take you to a very fancy restaurant” but then it was to eat a hot dog in the street.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Lianka. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

    Hmm, it’s kind of the same as hot, am I right? Or maybe my English is bad. But I think the word sexy describes something in a person that is HIGHLY appealing, and that it calls your attention involving all your senses and makes you attracted to it, in an erotic way of course.

    So if there is a person that has at least one of those things that you considered sexy, then that person IS sexy. Moreover if you were a little (or very) turned on by it (or them). So yeah, that’s my lame definition for sexy.

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  • What To Expect From The Perfect Domination Mistress In London

    What To Expect From The Perfect Domination Mistress In London

    As with all aspects of BDSM, trust is the most important factor in a domination relationship. For a genuine domination relationship to work, both parties need to know exactly what they expect, and exactly what they are willing to give and take, from the pairing. As such, you cannot get into a Domination relationship in the same way you would a standard sexual coupling. If you are looking for your perfect Domme in London, here are some qualities that your mistress should exhibit during your encounter. That way you know that you will be in for a night of pure submissive passion.

    Domination Expertise and Trust

    A domination relationship is a complex thing that should not be taken lightly – otherwise, you are not going to get what you want from the experience, and your partner will not

    Escorts are trained professionals at what they do, and they will not advertise themselves as offering a service without having had significant experience in that field. As such, hiring a Domination escort is one of the best ways to meet responsible, passionate dominatrixes in your area.

    This might seem counter-intuitive, after all, if a major part of a Domination relationship is trust, why would you enlist the services of a woman you don’t even know? Put simply, escorts offer a professional service, in the same way, that a swimming instructor does. The trust between a client and an escort is business-based, as opposed to the more personal trust one usually associates with a sexual relationship.

    If you meet up with a domination mistress, she will talk you through all of your fantasies and let you feel like you are safe hands. It does not matter if your mistress is an outcall escort or is from the best London incall escort agency, at the end of the day, she should know exactly what she is doing and make you feel like you do not need to control the situation. You should be able to trust her enough to allow yourself to let go and relax into a natural submissive state. It may take a few encounters to do this, but it is worth it once you get to the point of pure obedience without question.

    Communication

    Now that we have established that the act of domination/BDSM is a trust exercise between partners, it’s also important to understand that a BDSM relationship between a mistress and slave cannot happen unless there is open communication. Whether that is about kinks, fetishes or interests, your mistress must know them all. The more open you are about what you like and dislike, the more informed your mistress will be. This is especially important in terms of safe words and warnings.  Your mistress needs to know when she is going too far and when she needs to take a softer approach with you. So, don’t be afraid to think of the perfect word that will not disrupt your atmosphere but will still let your mistress when she has done too much.

    So, the main thing you need to know about finding your perfect mistress in London is to keep an open mind and let her know exactly what you are thinking. That way you can have a passionate encounter every time.

    Services

    Now, when it comes to your mistresses services, they need to suit your every need and desire. You can’t be submissive to a mistress who can satisfy you. Then you may start to question whats the point of being good. That’s why your mistress needs to be able to carry herself with the perfect combination of “carrot and stick” to reward and punish you.

    When you first meet up with your London mistress, don’t be afraid to question her services. If there is something specific that you like the sound of, for instance, whipping or spanking, then ask her about whether or not she would be willing to do it. A good mistress will understand what you enjoy and use it throughout the service either as a “punishment” or to reward you for good behaviour. For instance, if you are interested in puppy play, she may reward you by taking you out for a walk. However, if you have been bad then she may spank you or take away your toys as punishment.

    The services your mistress provides you to represent the dynamic of your relationship. She should exactly how to please you and how to hold the balance of punishment vs pleasure. That way, you will WANT to obey her every command, rather than just be forced to.

    No Judgement

    A London mistress has been in the BDSM community for a very long time. She has seen a whole range of fetishes from vanilla to the extreme. So, why would she even think about judging you? A good mistress will make sure that you feel welcome in her lair and that you can truly release yourself from your pent up urges. If your mistress makes you feel insecure or bad about the sort of services you are after, it may be time to look for a brand new domination escort in London.

    Where to find the perfect London mistress?

    One of the best places to start when it comes to finding a mistress in London is online. Yes, a lot of mistresses credentials get passed on through word of mouth but try by searching “dominatrix escort agencies” or “London Mistresses” on Google. There you will be able to find a lot of Dominatrix agencies or directories that will show you some of the best ladies in the business. Some London dommes even have their websites that show off their dungeons and services. It’s the best place to start if you’re after meeting up with a London Mistress for a date.

    Have fun!

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  • Australian Model Janade Rayner

    Australian Model Janade Rayner

    Hi SimplySxy team! It is a pleasure to have been invited to your platform, My name is Janade Rayner and I’m originally from a small town in Western Australia called Dunsborough, I’ve recently moved to Sydney NSW a year ago to better myself and chase my dreams in modelling, I believe in body positivity and I’m an advocate in mental health awareness. What I’m trying to do on my platform of following mainly through my Instagram is give a voice to those whom find it hard to speak, mental health is a very touchy subject that I believe needs to be spoken about.

    What got you started into modelling?

    Honestly I never thought twice about it until I helped a friend in her makeup course, she asked me to model for her makeup. After that I uploaded the photos and my exposure blew up, I got asked to shoot with photographers from all around Perth and thought, “why not?” Since being in Sydney I have been signed to Royalle Modelling Agency and its been such a blessing.

    Which genre of modelling do you prefer most? 

    I really enjoy modelling for swimwear and for editorials, meaning I like dressing up in funky clothes and makeup with fun concepts, I think it brings out another side in me compared to the regular modelling. Although I do really enjoy swimwear, I think its empowering.

    Do you follow a strict beauty regime to to look so amazing? 

    Honestly I’m the furthest thing from strict, I am so easy going but if I want something I will do anything to go get it. Growing up in a small country town I never had a particularly glamorous lifestyle. I never wore makeup and I still don’t knowhow to apply it, I often get my friends to do my makeup because I’m honestly utterly hopeless at being a female. I do take good care of my skin though, I make sure to wash my face morning and night and apply moisturiser during the day before leaving the house (moisturiser is my substitute for makeup because I know how to apply it.)

    Have you had a memorable modelling or photoshoot experience to share?

    I do indeed, it was August last year and I went to Bali, Indonesia. I did a photoshoot for a clothing brand over there – Islandstyle Designs. The photographer – Fabio Lorenzo,  at the end of the shoot offered to shoot me again but a more sensual and raw shoot. I struggled with mental health growing up and as a result have self harm scars. Fabio made me feel so comfortable and it was the first time I had ever done a shoot with my scars exposed. I decided I wouldn’t hide it anymore and I would try help other teens feel more comfortable in their skin if they were struggling with similar circumstances. He seriously has changed my life’s a model since.

    If you can time travel, what will you like to witness? 

    Tough one! I would probably go back to simpler times, maybe 2010, so I’m going into grade 5 or something and its the first day of school and the only things I had to worry about is making sure I had new shoes and a new school bag and my hair was done nicely and I could impress all the other 5th graders, oh and of course making sure I was sitting next to my best friend and I had a nice teacher. That would be cool.

    Would you rather have the ability to fly or read minds? 

    Is that even a question! i would save so much money in travel. I’d go see the world and wouldn’t think twice about it.

    What is a funny or awkward attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    Well I was walking out of my work at about 10pm and a guy looked once and looked back, turned around and literally ran to me, grabbed my hands and got on one knee and proposed. I couldn’t stop laughing and as his friends proceeded to usher him away he threw his hat at me and told me to hold onto it so we had a story to tell our future children. Not going to lie, I still have the hat.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Janade. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I believe sexy is power, I think that being confident is sexy, I think trust, honesty and loyalty is sexy. I think sexy is more than a magazine cover and I think it has such a deeper meaning, sexy can mean a lot of things, but I’m telling you now their is nothing sexier than a woman or man walking down the street with a smile and confidence in their step.

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    Images from Janade Rayner

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