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  • Role Playing: Spice Up Your Relationship With These 9 Naughty Ideas

    Role Playing: Spice Up Your Relationship With These 9 Naughty Ideas

    Every now and then things can get quite boring in a relationship. You know the feeling when you already know what will happen because it happened so many times before? Well, that’s exactly the point where relationships start to suffocate.

    If two love birds don’t recognize it and act accordingly, it may be the very end for them; let’s face it, no one likes boring stuff. This applies especially to one part of a relationship ‑ sex. Therefore, according to performance insiders, most men try and seek for a solution; like Kegel exercises for men, for an example; and they do all of that they can in order to be better in bed.

    Although it isn’t and shouldn’t be the center of a relationship, sexual intercourse is very important as it has the power to bring two people closer together, or separate them far away. Kegel exercises may help a man last longer, but even so, your sex might still be boring and feel the same; it will only last longer.

    Complications in a relationship may even lead to ED (short for erectile dysfunction). To make things worse, according to Consumer Health Digest, this may trigger all of the erectile dysfunction types. And you know what? ED is a man’s worst enemy; his scarecrow. If you want to know why all that you need to do is check this medical research (one of many) and realize how frequent and devastating ED really is.

    So, what can you do to avoid getting dumped, refresh your relationship and avoid ED (at least avoid this possibility)? Luckily for you, this article will give you some ideas; 9 of them, to be precise.

    9 Naughty Ideas that Will Boost Your Relationship

    If your sex life became dull, maybe all that you need to do is change one aspect of it ‑ foreplay. If didn’t practice foreplay before, you absolutely must include it to your “game”. As we can see from this research, both men and women love and need foreplay in order to get them into the right mood for sexual intercourse.

    So, here are top 9 things you have to try in order to step up your foreplay game! Let’s check them out.

    1. New Sex Positions

    Okay, seriously now, if you haven’t experimented with your partner (of course, this applies to those of you who are with your partners for a long period of time), what are you waiting for?!

    You can’t possibly expect your partner to feel satisfied only with one or two poses each and every time you have sex. On top of that, YOU will feel better if you try something new out as well.

    What you can do is tease the pose before sex. Try something similar in a “dry hump” way. So yes, the key here is ‑ be open-minded and experiment.

    1. Dress up

    Another way to bring some heat to your sex life is the popular “cosplay”. You can visit a Sex Shop near you or simply be creative and try something on. You can also get into roles of your characters.

    For an example, she can be a teacher and you can be a student; or vise versa. As you can see, you have to be creative for this one as well.

    It wouldn’t be a bad idea to talk to your loved one about what or who she/him wants to see you dress up as.

    1. Talk During Sex

    Forget about feeling embarrassed! This one needs you to let yourself go and feel for once, not think!

    What is very important in sex is the talk; not just the touch. It is a known fact that men love when women talk to them during sex (about how good it is or something similar; definitely not the negative talk, of course). So, it would be good to “sweet talk” yourselves during your foreplay.

    Of course, you can and should do it while you are having sex as well.

    1. Massage Each Other

    Massages are excellent ways of relaxing the mind and the body. That’s what sex stands for as well, right?

    So, why not mix the two. As we can learn from this medical research, massages have their own way of dealing with our psyche and relaxing us (something that feels like meditation).

    A fine way of spicing things up between you two is the Nuru massage. The Nuru massage is different from the rest, as you two will be massaging one another at the same time. Did I mention that you would be doing that completely naked on a mattress, and covered in special oils? Oh well…

    1. Buy Beverages

    One of the best ways to get your blood pumping is to buy some alcohol and food before you have sex. Make a nice atmosphere, drink a few glasses of vine, for an example, and then proceed to the sack.

    1. Send Sexy Messages 

    Before you actually meet up and jump “to it”, try sending some sexy messages or sexy calls. This will heat the moment up even more and make both of you excited for the real deal.

    1. Decorate your “place of wonder”

    This one goes extremely well with number 6 from the list. To be honest, everything goes with everything, but make sure not to mix it up too much!

    Think about what your partner would like (or what both of you would like), where your partner wants to go and try and mimic that place by decorating your room.

    1. Watch sex before actual sex and buy some props before sex

    You can watch a movie that has sexual scenes in it, or simply watch porn together. This way both of you will be heated up and ready for the main dish.

    I know that visiting a sex shop may be difficult and embarrassing in most cases, but this is serious; you want to save your relationship and bring something fresh to it. It would be good to talk to your partner about what he/she wants and isn’t afraid to use.

    1. Play with your partner’s body

    Think of this as of art. Don’t just meet up to have sex. Try and appreciate your partner and please his/her body. If you focus on the “sweet” spots and take some time for that before sex, the main event will look way better.

    The Final Verdict

    This would be it for this article. Now that you have a general idea about what to do, well, go for it!

    Like I have said, you can mix things up (not more than three)! The whole “science” behind this lays in your imagination. Figure out what your partner likes and lusts for and try to give that to him or her.

    Some points from this list require mutual trust and communication, so don’t rush into all of them without talking about them with your partner. Good luck!

    References:

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1071543/

    Kegel Exercises For Men: How Kegel Exercises Will Transform Your Sex Life?

    Married Sex: 38 Sex Ideas & Naughty Tips to Spice It Up & Stay Passionate

    https://www.consumerhealthdigest.com/male-sexual-health/erectile-dysfunction-types.html

    Ben Arnold – Ben Arnold is a freelance writer and a health and beauty adviser. He has been giving beauty and fitness advice to thousands of people all around the globe. Through his advanced studies, he has gain enormous experience in nutrition and healthy diet. His articles have a source on personal and practical experience. Apart from health, he likes reading books and listening music in free time. You can follow him on Facebook, Google +, Twitter, StumbleUpon and Pinterest

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  • 10 Signs That She Is In Lust And Not In Love With You

    10 Signs That She Is In Lust And Not In Love With You

    While love can’t be put into words, it can be best described as a strong feeling of affection, and genuine interest and care for the other party. Lust, on the other hand, is pure fire; it is raw sexual attraction based solely on the physical factor. The two feelings are not exclusive, however; they usually intermingle, and may leave you confused.

    You have been seeing someone and sparks are flying. The attraction is mutual, and the sex is mind blowing. This situation may have been going on for a few weeks or for quite sometime now, and you may be beginning to wonder about the nature of your relationship. Whether it is bursts of crazy urgent sex, or hours of tantric sex, you may be wondering if that’s all there is. You want to know if what’s going on between you both is lust or love. Here are the 10 telltale signs that it’s lust she feels for you:

    1. Dates are a means to an end

    If you are at a point in your relationship where you’re wondering if what you have is list or love, odds are you have been courting your love interest for sometime. A look at the nature of your dates can be eye opening. Do you take the time to do activities together, and enjoy things you love to do? Or are your dates more of a door leading to a bed of crumbled sheets? If she seems less than enthusiastic to go on an actual date, and would rather grab a quick bite before heading back to her place or yours, it is definitely lust, not love. In time, you may find that she wants to skip the date intro all together, and just come over to jump right into action.

    1. She doesn’t want to cuddle

    Cuddling is a sign of affection, and feels almost as good as sex when you’re involve with someone. In fact, a study has found that cuddling is a way of nurturing intimacy. Thing are different if it is lust at play, however. Although you may be spending hours and hours in a variety of tantric sex positions, you may find that once you two are finished having sex, she wants to roll out of bed and head home. This sign can take a less noticeable form in her rolling to the opposite side of the bed and using her phone or taking care of unfinished business, and answering texts… etc. If this happens, she is in it for the sex and nothing else.

    1. All sex and no conversation

    Couples in love never find themselves short on things to say. They simply cannot get enough of each other not just on a sexual level, but also on an emotional and mental level. They can get lost in endless phone conversations and texts about random things that somehow feel fulfilling and interesting to them. If, in your relationship, conversation lags when it’s not a flirtatious tread to bed, this is a warning sign that it is lust, not love.

    1. You don’t feel like she is interested in your life

    You may be quite experienced in female orgasm, showing her a good time and taking pleasure in each others’ company, but if her interest stops at what you have to offer her in bed, it is a very strong sign it isn’t love for her. Love is hungry for everything there is to know and learn about the loved one. If your girlfriend is involve with you, she would enjoy knowing the little things about you: how you like your eggs, how you feel about a political situation, your childhood memories, even your opinion about the latest star wars movie. A person in lust, though, sees these things as irrelevant; a waste of time that can be put to better use.

    1. She doesn’t share details about her life or talk about her feelings

    The flood of conversation about what book she’s reading nowadays, what happened today at her workplace and how she feels about her latest run-in with her old-time frenemy should be reassuring. They mean your girlfriend thinks about you when she needs to talk about something, and that she eels secure and comfortable in sharing these bits of information with you. Even better, she wants you to know her though all these little details. Contrarily, the lack of any shared information other than her favorite sex positions, her fantasies or her past sexual adventures probably mean it’s only about sex.

    1. she doesn’t care about your future plans

    Unless you’re talking about how you plan to last longer in bed in the future, she simply isn’t interested. People in love automatically imagine a future together, and this created genuine interest from her side about your future plans, because your future will be her future. If she doesn’t ask about your dreams and aspirations, and doesn’t seem to be interested if you bring up your future plans, then she probably isn’t seeing you as part of her future, and is only in the relationship because of lust.

    1. Her friends and family don’t know about you

    When two people are in love, they have no problem showing it to the world. They, in fact, want to let the world know that they have found their person. Lust, however, feels temporary, and best kept a secret. If your girlfriend hasn’t introduced to any friends or family, and hasn’t let them know that you exist, this is a strong sign that your relationship is only lust for her.

    Her tendency to keep your relationship quiet, versus showing it off to the world, can also manifest in the way she acts when you two are out in public. While two people in lust generally can’e keep their hands off each other, you may find that your girlfriend acts differently in different settings. You will find that she doesn’t like to have physical contact in public places near her work place or in places where you two can run into people she knows. If you two have actually met someone she knows by coincidence, to be awkwardly introduced as a friend, it is an even stronger sign that it is all about sex for her, and that she doesn’t want to make the arrangement you two have known to other people in her life.

    1. You often wonder if this relationship is going anywhere

    Love feels secure, stable, peaceful and reliable. On the other hand, lust is urgent, volatile, fiery and intense. That is not saying that there is no fire in love, but passionate love combines the fire with feelings of confidence and reassurance. If the vibe you are receiving is making you feel like your relationship is a fleeting thing, leading you to wonder where you are heading, and whether what you two have will last another week, it is probably the fast burning fir of lust that’s making you feel that way.

    1. It is all about your looks

    Her eyes are drawn to your eyes, your body and the way you move, but are they looking deeper into you? When she talks about you, does she describe you as funny and smart, or just as sexy and attractive? Is she as likely to want to hang out with you the you’re not as put together as you usually are, or does the messy hair and unshaved face seem to put her off? If it’s all about your looks and nothing else, you are looking at a girl in lust.

    1. Make up sex

    Reflect on the way you two resolve your fights. A couple in love uses rational conversation to find the root of the problem, and solve it, preventing it from coming back in the future. Lust, however, is all about instant gratification. When you’re in lust with someone, you will find that your fights often end in quick apologies and intense make up sex. The root of the problem and whether or not it reoccurs is irrelevant, because lust is all about now.

    Conclusion

    Lust and love are both connected and different. In the best relationships, you have both. Relationships start with lust or friendship and develop into love, so there is no reason to worry if what you currently have with your girl is mostly heated passion. If you can see your partners interest in more than just sex growing, and you can see noticeable progress in the shape of your relationship, you are on your way to something long-lasting. If you tick off all the above signs with no improvement for months, however, you are in a lustful relationship. Enjoy it while it lasts. After all, lust is not too bad! If you recognize it for what it is, you will be able to reap the numerous physical and physiological benefits associated with sex, and have fun while you’re at it.

    References

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23070529

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/20088868

    Ben Arnold – Ben Arnold is a freelance writer and a health and beauty adviser. He has been giving beauty and fitness advice to thousands of people all around the globe. Through his advanced studies, he has gain enormous experience in nutrition and healthy diet. His articles have a source on personal and practical experience. Apart from health, he likes reading books and listening music in free time. You can follow him on Facebook, Google +, Twitter, StumbleUpon and Pinterest

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  • Virectin Reviews: Is Virectin An Ultimate Male Enhancement Supplement?

    Virectin Reviews: Is Virectin An Ultimate Male Enhancement Supplement?

    Sexual performance is a major source of confidence and it justifies your role as an alpha male. That’s why low libido, erectile dysfunction, and other problems also have a negative influence on a man’s self-esteem. To improve their sex life, men often use supplements that promise miraculous results in a natural fashion. Virectin is one of these products and we bring you some practical reasons why to consider trying it.

    Relationship problems and sexual performance

    Different factors contribute to your sexual performance and relationship is one of them. A growing body of evidence confirms that relationship conflict can cause, maintain, and influence therapeutic outcome of sexual problems, especially in cases when the physical cause is missing. Unresolved problems in a relationship affect overall sexual satisfaction, decrease libido, and contribute to erectile dysfunction. On the other hand, resolving relationship issues also helps manage sexual dysfunctions.

    It’s not uncommon for couples to avoid discussing their problems and avoid any kind of confrontation. This impairs relationship dynamic and it also influences your sex life. Besides unresolved issues in the relationship, couples can also have problems regarding frequency of sexual intercourse, role divisions, positions, and other sex-related factors. The key to a healthy relationship is to feel free to communicate and discuss all problems, regardless of their natural (sexual or non-sexual). Men who want to improve sexual performance can also exercise regularly, modify their diet, and try out male enhancement products like Virectin.

    What is Virectin?

    Virectin is a male enhancement supplement specifically created to address low testosterone and different sexual dysfunctions that men experience. The product was formulated by a brand called Gentopia Laboratories. The company’s mission is to produce the most effective scientifically advanced nutritional supplements. The brand uses the most technologically advanced methods to develop consistent products that include powerful substances and ingredients that have been used for medicinal purposes throughout the history.

    Why is Virectin such a great choice for you?

    Okay, I know what Virectin is, but why should I try this product? Reasons to try this supplement are numerous, including three listed below:

    • Natural formula ‑ what makes Virectin stand out from other male enhancement product is 100% natural list of ingredients. Unlike many other products on the market, this one doesn’t feature hidden and potentially harmful compounds. This also explains why Virectin, unlike other items you can find, has never had any problems with FDA and was never recalled.
    • Ease of use ‑ the most inconvenient characteristic of Viagra and other similar products is that you have to take them prior to the sexual intercourse. This so not sexy, and you already know it, plus there’s always a risk of forgetting to take the pill. Virectin is taken daily (see below) and you don’t have to worry about taking the pill when you’re in bed with your loved one. Also, there’s no awkward waiting for the pill to kick in.
    • Special offers ‑ compared to other products on the market, Virectin has an affordable price. That’s not all, the manufacturer also arranged various special offers that allow you to purchase multiple bottles and save some money in your wallet.

    How Virectin works?

    The supplement uses natural ingredients to exhibit its male enhancing effects. Virectin works to improve blood flow throughout your body, particularly to the genital area. Why does it matter? It matters because blood flow is essential for arousal and strong erections. The supplement helps promote optimal blood flow due to the nicotinic acid, an essential component for the production of red blood cells.

    In addition to improved blood circulation, Virectin also increases testosterone levels in order to combat problems such as low libido, erectile disorders, and an overall decline in sexual function. It is important to mention the product doesn’t contain a synthetic version of testosterone but works to promote the natural production of this hormone. Users who posted their Virectin reviews claim the product increased their arousal, improved erections, and it also helped them train better in the gym.

    Key ingredients

    Virectin poses as one of the most powerful products of this type on the market and it owes this status to a potent formula. As mentioned above, the product contains natural ingredients and one of them is tribulus terrestris, found in many male enhancement supplements.

    Tribulus terrestris is an annual plant originating in Mediterranean area where it was used for medicinal purposes throughout the history. The plant was used mainly to treat different sexual dysfunctions and studies confirm it can boost your libido and testosterone levels. One study found that supplementation with tribulus increased anaerobic and alactic muscular power and total blood testosterone levels in young men. In addition, the BMC Surgery journal published a research which discovered that tribulus supplementation increased libido and testosterone in older men.

    Another important ingredient in Virectin is maca root, a plant native to high Andes of Peru. Just like tribulus, this plant is also a common ingredient in testosterone boosters and male enhancement products due to tremendous libido-boosting potential. A study from the CNS Neuroscience and Therapeutics found that supplementation with maca root boosts libido and alleviates sexual dysfunction associated with the use of antidepressants. In addition, maca intake increases the frequency of sexual activity.

    Besides tribulus and maca, Virectin also contains other important ingredients such as:

    • Avena sativa (wild oats) ‑ enhances sexual desire, improves overall sexual function
    • Zinc ‑ essential for testosterone production
    • Tongkat ali ‑ boosts sex drive and energy levels
    • Mucuna pruriens ‑ increases testosterone, libido, and sexual satisfaction
    • Fenugreek ‑ libido-boosting effects
    • Horny goat weed ‑ increases testosterone levels

    How to use Virectin?

    Getting the maximum out of Virectin requires adherence to the recommended dosage. Ideally, you should take three capsules on an empty stomach. The manufacturer advises you should start with recommended daily dose and tweak it based on your experience, but avoid exceeding taking three capsules in one day.

    Are there any side effects?

    Virectin is perfectly safe for daily use, no side effects have been reported. What’s more, users who take the product every day confirm they didn’t experience any adverse effect either. It is the natural formula of Virectin that makes this product safe to use. That being said, if you’re taking medications or you have some health condition, you should consult your doctor before buying this (or any other) product.

    User reviews on other sites

    In order to determine whether you’ll purchase some product or not, the first thing you do is to look for user reviews. When most people like the product it makes you feel more confident, but bad reviews induce the opposite effect. Men who have tried Virectin have only nice things to say about the product. Here are some, of many, user reviews about this product:

    “Lots of male enhancement products promise the moon but don’t deliver. This stuff works! It’s reliable (when taken daily) and actually does everything the manufacturer claims it does. Great product and I buy it regularly!” ‑ The Traveler

    “I was skeptical when ordering, but this stuff really does work. I will continue using it. I recommend the product.” ‑ Paul S.

    “My sexual stamina improved substantially after started taking Virectin. I have also experienced a decrease in sleep interruptions due to BPH. I highly recommend giving this product a try.” ‑ Bill Anton

    Final verdict

    Virectin won’t help you overcome relationship problems with your significant other, that’s something you have to do on your own, but it can enhance your sexual prowess. The product uses natural ingredients to improve blood flow, increase testosterone levels, and boost energy for optimal performance between the sheets.

    References

    https://www.virectin.com/

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11894797

    https://www.consumerhealthdigest.com/male-sexual-health/erectile-dysfunction.html

    https://www.performanceinsiders.com/low-testosterone.html

    https://www.virectin.com/the-company.html

    https://www.healthnewsjournal.com/virectin-reviews.html

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/20095389/

    https://www.performanceinsiders.com/best-testosterone-boosters.html

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23173697/

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18801111

    Ben Arnold – Ben Arnold is a freelance writer and a health and beauty adviser. He has been giving beauty and fitness advice to thousands of people all around the globe. Through his advanced studies, he has gain enormous experience in nutrition and healthy diet. His articles have a source on personal and practical experience. Apart from health, he likes reading books and listening music in free time. You can follow him on Facebook, Google +, Twitter, StumbleUpon and Pinterest

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  • Top 5 Foreplay Techniques You Should Know

    Top 5 Foreplay Techniques You Should Know

    The foreplay is important for both partners, no matter what you might have read or heard. You should never skip the foreplay part, as it can help both you and your partner become more excited. If you will use the right foreplay techniques, you will be able to enjoy a more satisfying sexual experience.

    You can both reach Nirvana or orgasmic bliss, using a couple of the techniques presented below. Just keep on reading and discover how you can turn your partner’s head around, making him/her explode with pleasure and satisfaction.

    #1 Sexual tension buildup

    You should never disregard the importance of foreplay, as this part can really make a difference between a satisfying sexual experience and one you would rather forget. A great foreplay that you should consider giving a try is based on the buildup of sexual tension.

    Very few people take into consideration how arousing sexual tension can actually be. This is because it does not necessarily have a physical effect but it rather influences our minds. When you appeal to a number of careful steps, you will definitely manage to increase the sexual tension and prepare yourself for a hot night in the bedroom.

    These are some of the things you can do, in order to build up the sexual tension and even get rid of some of the most common male sexual disorders (arousal present, reduced risk of erectile dysfunction):

    Naughty text messages

    Build up the scenario for a hot night in the bedroom with naughty text messages

    Make sure that you explain the scenario with juicy details, so that you raise the level of excitement

    Do not be afraid to use dirty words, as long as you are tasteful and arousing

    Teasing comments

    If you are in a place in which intercourse is not possible, you can try a few teasing comments

    These comments should be softly whispered in your partner’s ear, as your sensual voice will definitely contribute to the arousing experience

    Gentle touches

    Gentle touches can be easily used to increase the sexual tension, especially if you concentrate on erogenous areas.

    #2 Oral sex

    When we think about foreplay, we generally consider kissing, caressing and touching our partners as main activities. But what about oral sex? This is not only a crucial skill to possess in the bedroom but one of the best choices for a hot foreplay. It can even help those who are suffering from erectile dysfunction; however, if you are looking for a little bit more help, you should consider taking special supplements. It is recommended to read Virectin reviews, in order to decide whether this is the right supplement for you or not.

    Returning to oral sex, these are the main things you should remember:

    Oral sex is about intimacy and wanting to satisfy your partner, so you should give it all ‑ use your hands and your mouth, making sure that you are arousing your partner the right way

    For men, the combination of oral pleasure and tactile touch is the best; keep in mind that the hands will create a different sensation than the mouth but you should never resume solely to the hand action

    Women love oral sex just as much, especially when their partner uses different motions and techniques; however, you should always pay attention to your partner and her requests. If there are things that she suggests, do not be afraid to put them into action. On the other hand, if she says that she is not comfortable with certain actions, respect her wishes.

    You can offer more pleasure to your partner by using sex toys, so do not hesitate to give those a try. There are sex toys especially designed for oral pleasure, both for men and women.

    #3 Slow rhythm

    Sexual intercourse is one of the most satisfying experiences we are able to experience, especially at the beginning of a relationship. No matter how tempting it might be to engage in a heated sexual encounter, a slower rhythm might have more advantages to offer. You can hold back and ask your partner to go slow, as this will guarantee a more satisfying experience overall.

    These are some of the measures you can take, in order to slow down when things become heated:

    Touch your partner over his/her clothes, moving at a slow pace and using sensual touches

    Rubbing, caressing and groping are more than allowed, as they intensity the sexual pleasure and excitement

    You can massage your partner and explore his/her most erogenous areas, maintaining a soft and steady rhythm

    Grabbing and pinching are also allowed, especially if you are looking for things to become more interesting

    You can move up and down your partner’s body, making sure that your intimate areas touch and that the sexual pleasure intensifies at a nice pace

    Pull your partner close to you and kiss him/her as passionately as you possibly can; use your hands to caress and explore his/her body.

    Open communication is very important in a relationship. Sometimes, your partner might want to move at a different rhythm other than the one you are comfortable with. In this situation, it is essential to communicate your feelings to your partner and ensure that you are both feeling alright with the current experience.

    #4 Kissing

    A wise person once said that kissing is the most intimate experience two people can share, sometimes even more intimate than sex. However, when it comes to foreplay, you can transform kissing into something truly amazing. Do not hesitate to kiss your partner and not just on the lips. While you might think that kissing is not that interesting, your partner will probably share a different opinion.

    Why should you consider kissing as part of the foreplay? This is why:

    Kissing can replace the tactile touch and guarantee an arousal of the partner, especially if you will concentrate on erogenous or sensitive areas (back of the neck, ear lobes and so on)

    You can use your lips to kiss your partner on his/her entire body ‑ this will ensure the slowly buildup for the sexual tension and an incredible arousal on both parts

    When you will reach the genital area, you can use your lips as part of the oral experience; surprise your partner with a little bit of action and this will definitely get things heated between the two of you

    Men love kissing just as much as women, so do not make the assumption your partner is not interested in this experience; kiss his entire body, concentrating on the most sensitive areas.

    Once again, it is important to communicate with your partner and make sure that you are well-aware of his/her erogenous zones. Sometimes, you might be surprised to discover the most sensitive areas of your partner.

    #5 Domination

    When it comes to sex, we all like to be dominated (at least once in a while). By taking control in the bedroom, you will present yourself in a new light in front of your partner. Do not make the mistake of thinking that only men are supposed to be dominant in bed; as a woman, you are just as much entitled to take control and enjoy this new perspective. Moreover, there are a lot of men who are genuinely aroused when their partner takes control in bed.

    These are some of the steps you can take, in order to dominate your partner in the bedroom and enjoy a satisfying sexual experience:

    Push him/her gently onto the bed and stating your intentions with precision and clarity

    Being on top ‑ this is a clear position of dominance and one that many men would like to try out with their partners

    Tell your partner what he/she should do; place small commands and ensure that he/she follows. You can ask him/her to take his/her clothes off, strip naked or dance to your favorite song

    You can use sexual toys that are specifically designed for dominance or handcuffs; what matters is that you take things to a whole new level and enjoy the time spent together in the bedroom.

    While dominance can be a fun experience, it is essential that both partners are in agreement with what will happen in the bedroom. It is for the best to discuss about any limits you might want to impose and respect these whenever the case might be.

    Final note

    If you want to satisfy your partner, you should work to ensure that the foreplay is fun and exciting at the same time. You can use some of these techniques presented in the paragraphs above, discovering your partner from a completely new perspective. It is also essential that you discuss with your partner about his/her interests; when you incorporate the partner’s wishes into the picture, things will become even more interesting. And, remember, it is always fun to try something new.

    References:

    http://www.yourtango.com/experts/sean-jameson/foreplay-techniques

    http://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/foreplay-and-sex-tips

    https://www.prevention.com/sex/7-women-share-their-best-foreplay-tips

    http://www.redbookmag.com/love-sex/mens-perspective/advice/g203/foreplay-tips/

    http://www.mensfitness.com/women/sex-tips/10-moves-she-wants-you-make-during-foreplay

    Ben Arnold – Ben Arnold is a freelance writer and health advisor. He also does PR for Consumer Health Digest and Performance Insiders. In his free time, he loves to read books and enjoy soft music. You can Follow him on Facebook and Linked-In.

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