Whenever there’s any talk about improving your sex life, people automatically assume that there’s something wrong with it. But the fact of the matter is that there really doesn’t have to be anything wrong with your current sex life to want to improve it further.
Sex toys offer a great way to bring more fun and play into your bedroom, and explore all the new forms of pleasure. But how can you introduce them to your current sex life? Here are a few ideas.
Talk to your partner
The most important thing when it comes to your sex life is to have open and honest conversations with your partner. Introduce them to the idea of bringing sex toys into the bedroom and see what they have to say about it. Also, make sure you’re being entirely open regarding the things you wish to try and why you want to try them out. If you’re interested in trying out a blowjob machine, for instance, make sure that your partner doesn’t end up feeling like you’re not satisfied with their performance. Instead, explain to them that you’re simply interested in trying out new things and see if they’re willing to explore with you.
If your partner is down with the idea to include sex toys in your sex life, make sure you start small. Look for beginner-friendly sex toys to get accustomed to the feeling and the experience of not only having them present, but actually using them. Some people may find the idea of using sex toys interesting but a bit intimidating, so make sure neither you nor your partner get overwhelmed on your first try.
On the other hand, if your partner is really not warming up to the idea after you’ve discussed it with them, don’t push it. Some people simply don’t feel comfortable exploring, so don’t make them feel like they need to in order to keep you satisfied. Alternatively, you can always see if your partner would mind if you used a sex toy on your own, but make sure that they give you an honest answer to avoid any confusion or frustration down the line.
Always keep in mind that the only way you can actually improve your sex life is by having both parties open to the idea. So, if your partner is willing to explore, there will be nothing standing in your way.
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