I’ve always been a kinkster myself. I started exploring my sexuality in my teens and spent a lot of time in kinky and queer spaces including play and sex parties. I believe that the exploration of deviant sexuality offers a huge potential for liberation and growth. Kink can be very powerful – it can allow us to enter a non-judgemental zone full of playfulness, pleasure and pain. It can be very transformative.
What I Love About Online Domination
What I like about online domination is that it allows for a bigger audience and the creation of a kinkster community. Especially my live chat room has become a place for my regulars to chat with me and with each other. It also allows for at home play which for many of my clients, feels safer and more accessible than going to a dungeon in a far away city.
I started from personal experience. I’ve had many submissive dates and partners before. My decision to go pro came from a long held desire to become a full time domme.
What Is Sissification?
I love Sissification because I think that there is something so inherently sensual, sexy and sweet in femininity. Our society is so fixated on masculinity that it forgets about the deep power of femininity. Going down the path of Sissification offers a whole range of sensations and experiences that most men (or people raised as men) were never allowed to explore: the softness of freshly shaved legs, the feeling of a thong rubbing between the sissy’s butt cheeks, the joy of a sexy dance. As a Mistress who is in touch with her inner Goddess, my part is to enable and guide this journey with tenderness and encouragement as well as persistence.
My Sissification training entails dress up, make up and blow job training, education in all things girly (dancing, walking, shopping, sensuality, cleaning, cooking, girly movie nights) and possibly also chastity and/or anal stimulation, depending on the wishes of the sissy that I’m working with. In some cases, I will pimp out the sissy and make her earn cash for me either online or in real life.
Misconceptions Of Sissification
Unfortunately, there is quite a lot of misconception in the mainstream about Sissification. Sissies are often belittled and laughed at which comes from a sexist idea that anything feminine is less worthy than masculinity. I often observe a lot of shame in my sissies and my aim is to work towards a shame free expression of their fetish (unless they get off on humiliation).
What Makes Me An Ideal Domme
My domme style comes from a space of natural power. I’m in touch with my inner Goddess who is both nurturing and punishing. I dominate on a fluid spectrum reaching from sweet Mommy to devious Sadist. With sissies, I can explore my sweeter and more nurturing side, the Mommy in me. Which of course doesn’t mean that I can’t also be nasty and humiliating at the same time – Mommy is mean sometimes!
Favorite Sissification Scenarios
One of my favorite scenarios is being served as the Queen by my sissy servants. I love good servitude and think that sissies can make great maids, assistants and whores whose main purpose is to make my life as pleasurable and easy as possible. In return they get to wear gorgeous slutty outfits and suck my pink blue glittery strap-on.
Advice For Beginners
Don’t be afraid of judgement! Sissification is such a fun and sexy fetish and there is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of.
I am Mistress Lucy Lash – your smart and sensual Mistress from Germany. Let yourself fall into my guiding hands and experience the sweetness of complete surrender. I will make you submit, suffer and squirm in pain and pleasure.
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