If you are planning on going away and are leaving your man at home, then you may start to feel insecure and concerned about what he will get up to while you are away. Time apart can sometimes make you worry that your man won’t remain faithful to you and the phrase ‘out of sight, out of mind’ can be a concern. However, there are many ways that you can keep your man interested and faithful to you while you are away.
Just because you aren’t with your man, it doesn’t mean that he will forget about you and your amazing relationship. We have put together a list of some of the best tips on how to keep your man focused and faithful while you’re away from him.
Get Him a Gift
You may want to get your man a gift before you go away, so he is reminded of you during your time apart. What gift you buy them depends on what sort of person they are. You could buy them the box set of their favorite show to keep them entertained (and indoors) while you are away, or you may go for a slightly naughtier gift. He’ll love a blowjob machine for instance to keep him company and satisfied during his lonely nights away from you.
Let Him Have Time to Himself
You may feel tempted to talk to him all the time while you are away, either because you miss him or because you want to know what he is doing or who he is with. But stifling him is the worst thing you can do, and you should be sure to let him have some time for himself. Nothing is more off-putting than a girl who just won’t leave you alone – don’t be that girl! Allow your man time to miss you and remind him of what he is missing without you in his life.
While you should give your man the chance to long for and miss you, it is also important that you still check in with your man even though you are away. You may be away with work and have a lot of things to do, or you may be on vacation with the girls, but you should still find the time to check in at home and let your man know that you haven’t forgotten about him. Even though you are away, you don’t want to cut off communication altogether. Be sure to check in when you wake up in the morning and before you go to sleep at night.
Try Virtual Sex
Just because you and your man are miles apart, it doesn’t mean that you can’t still be intimate with each other. Many couples who are in a long-distance relationship use phone sex to talk dirty to each other and still have that intimate bond that all couples need. Sexting is a great way to send each other a dirty message throughout the day as a reminder of your scheduled phone sex later that night. If you feel comfortable, then you could always send your man a few risqué pictures to remind him of what he is missing!
Most importantly, you shouldn’t worry too much about your main being faithful to you while you are away, as if he is the right guy for you and he cares for and loves you then he wouldn’t be thinking about being unfaithful to you. Instead of spending your time away worrying about what your man is doing, focus on yourself and having an enjoyable and productive time away.
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