I think that the kink lifestyle is a unique way of life that allows people express themselves in some many different ways. Whether they do it just in the bedroom or live it 24/7, it’s fun and sexy and provides an outlet for people to gather and indulge in some of their wildest fantasies. I know that being in the lifestyle has made me a stronger, more mature, honest and overall well rounded person. I enjoy the idea of a community of people from all walks of life coming together to share in what can only be described as incredibly intimate play. I love that there are really no rules and that every relationship is different, everyone’s approach or interpretation of their fetish can be different. It makes for great interactions and connections that I wouldn’t trade for anything.
How My Interest Began
It developed slowly ever time. I’d been tied up on several occasions by different people and didn’t think much of it; it was fun but not intoxicating. I don’t think it was until I did a scene that called to my masochistic side that my opinion changed. The day I was introduced to torture rope everything change. I also had partner who was heavily into rope bondage and it became the best and most basic way for us to connect.
Next thing I knew, I craved the smell of rope, the way it felt on my skin, how it made me feel, how it was changing me, and I was addicted. I started training my body to handle suspensions and my partner at the time taught me how to maneuver in rope, get in touch with my body and spirit through meditation, and he also taught me how to check for signs of nerve damage, (that’s important).
How It Feels To Be Tied Up
This is going to sound very odd, but the feeling of being tied up is actually very liberating. It f…eels safe and secure, and it hurts oh god it hurts! Sometimes it’s difficult to breath, sometimes you are using muscles you’ve never used before, sometimes it’s feel like you are being pulled apart even as it you being reconstructed. In my experiences, being tied up leaves me very opened and vulnerable and then being in rope no longer becomes a physical experience, it also becomes an emotional one.
It becomes a dance; the top shapes and contorts you, and you yield to his every wish, his vision, and then you are flying, soaring beyond the ropes, outside of whatever confined space you are in you feel free, and strong, and empowered, and beautiful, and desired, and cared for and yes, you will feel pain. I am probably most at peace in rope and I love that.
Favorite Positions To Be Tied Up
I do a lot of suspensions and transitional rope, so it is very rare that I am actually in a rope position unless I’m doing bondage for clips. But I do have some ties that I really enjoy. Fred_Rx does at double column tie around that hips and thigh area that feels amazing in and out of suspension, the pressure, the location, the security, everything. It’s just a damn good tie and a super sexy one! I also really enjoy futomomos, which is a very tight tie around the legs that secures your ankle to the back of your thigh.
Being suspended on a single futomomo makes me orgasm almost every time. Oh! And Lunaticbound does a torture tie that he calls the “Thigh Crusher”, which is a tie that is tied around the thighs, with very tight tension. The tie is used to restrict the muscles in your thighs, and then he forces you to use those muscles. It’s a very simple tie, but by far the most painful.
Create A Better Experience
Using rope bondage or torture rope during sex is a super sexy way to have fun with it. Ball ties, the thigh crusher, frog ties, and Agura are some great xamples of ties you can use during sex, they usually hurt and provide perfect access for penetration. To spice things up I enjoy adding neck rope, hair rope, face rope, and being gagged with rope is also very hot. A lot of people like to kink it up with crotch rope. I for one dislike the tie, oddly enough I like to be able to use my vagina after a rope scene. Also, adding impact to a rope scene is another way to add variety to your rope play.
Mia Amor – Kink enthusiast turned cam model which lead me to fetish modeling and rope bondage. I rope bottom for classes and events in the central Florida area, and I also self tie. I was fortunate enough to demo bottom and perform at FIRE 2016 and look forward to seeing where my rope journey will take me. Follow Mia on:
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Mia Amor is taking a break this year and focusing on furthering her education and skills in rope bondage.
Images courtesy of Fred_Rx, Iambic, Knothead, Lunaticbound and the Woodshed.
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