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Swinging In Your Holiday Lingerie


Swinging In Your Holiday Lingerie

When thinking about Christmas, one can’t help but be reminded of presents (both giving and receiving), the excitement of unwrapping gifts. Well, I am here to put a bit of a twist on traditional (or not so traditional) lingerie gift giving and hopefully add a sassy inspirational touch to this festive time of the year. So picture yourself being given a present which is beautifully wrapped and you start to tear open the paper in excitement! Now, your lady walks into the room and there she is, all beautifully ‘decorated’ in the finest lingerie, just waiting for you to undress her. Talk about bursting in excitement!

Imagine yourself and your wife again, invited over to another swinger couple’s house for dinner and some ‘wink, wink’ sexy time. You show up with two gift bags, one for the beautiful hostess and the other for your beautiful wife. The ladies open up their gifts and find a corset for one and a lace chemise for the other. Excitedly, they go upstairs to try on their new outfits and as they walk down the stairs in those delicious outfits, both you and your mate have your tongues hanging down and that’s just right before dinner too. And now, both of you get to dig into the scrumptious Christmas dinner and the scantily clad eye candy in full view. Talk about anticipation!

Other options on how to include lingerie when attending a swinger’s party at this festive time of the year is to use it to your full advantage and spice things up more than a little. Instead of a Chanel handbag and a pair of Christian Louboutin heels, change things around and take pleasure in giving your woman some fetish wear or a sexy fantasy costume. This may just open the door to fulfilling some of your (and her) fantasies.

Now, let’s talk about holiday classics: Miss naughty elf, sexy Mrs. Claus, and raunchy reindeer. Nothing beats taking your partner along to the boutique for some lingerie shopping or you could even go online together and pick out an outfit or two. Don’t forget to dress up sexily for her as well. Lingerie is not solely for ladies and we are sure she will be more than happy to see you in a sexy mistletoe G-string. How about those who already have made plans to check out one of the many Christmas parties at your local swingers club? Well, holiday lingerie is always a great choice for a sexy festive outfit. In addition, for the ladies out there with plans to go to an on-premise club, do note that the standard practice is for guests to leave their “outdoor clothes” before entering the play rooms. This is the perfect chance for you to put on a …

babydoll 11, chemise Red-Hot-Sexy-Sheer-Lace-Chemise-with-Thong-LC21075-600x600 , or teddy Sexy-Ribbon-Lace-up-Front-Black-Teddy-LC3166-600x600
(all available here).

Remember that be it whatever outfit you choose to wear, it should be one that is easy to remove for quicker ‘playtime’.
There are many ways to enhance your holiday merriment with lingerie, so why limit yourself to plain old green and red undies?
We all love putting on new clothes, even if they are only worn in your bedroom … and the bedrooms of your swinger friends. 😉

Happy Swinging and Season’s Greetings!


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Sandi Andersen

Sandi Andersen has been personally helping Swingers meet since 1993, with the help of her magazines Tryst (est. 1981) and Tab (est. 1956), which are no longer available in print form, and her website (est. 1995). She has a straight forward approach to topics of swinging and sex which comes through in her writing. Promoting healthy, safe sexual relationships with two or more people being involved, as in the Swinging Lifestyle, she has attended and presented many seminars on the subject at Lifestyle conventions and trade shows in Canada and across the United States. Her theory is that sometimes being able to talk with someone (or read about others' experiences and concerns) can make all the difference in allowing yourself the freedom to enjoy your sexuality to the fullest. Sandi also runs an online travel agency specializing in Adults Only Erotic Vacations under the main URL of, where she will help you pick the erotic vacation best suited for the two of you or for you to join in with a group of travelers.

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