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What I enjoy most about being a Slutwife

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What I enjoy most about being a Slutwife

I suppose I’ve been actively involved in the lifestyle now for around ten years. Would you believe the first man i fucked outside my marriage was actually my brother-in-law …. with my husband’s blessing. My husband’s brother is widowed and lives in New Zealand. He and came over to stay with us as i said … back in 2004. He’d always been forward in his liking and finding me attractive … flirting and making suggestive remarks It was something which hubby and i talked about often, as well as the possibilities of what it would be like should i ever take him up on one of his ‘invitations’, should the opportunity arise to find out.

It eventually did, i accepted, and took the bull by the horns, so to speak, and we’ve slept together now regularly over the years, when we’ve shared time together. So that would have been my initiation into the lifestyle, a little strange when you think about it with my brother-in-law possibly, but in all honesty it was a very comfortable, relaxed way of getting started i think.

What do i like about it?

That’s actually a very difficult question to answer. The obvious answer i suppose would be to say that i enjoy the physical pleasure of just having sex … no strings attached, no complications, which yes, i do enjoy very much. I’ve always enjoyed the physical act of having intercourse and I’ll freely admit, I do love seeing a man’s penis. I prefer uncircumcised ones because i love seeing the foreskin roll back. That for me really is a big turn on and I find it fascinating. I know a lot of men find a woman’s vagina a work of art with its many folds and intricacies but for me, a penis is just the same … there’s something about knowing that it’s getting all lovely and stiff and hard just for me, that really gets me wet So many times, i think a woman feels the need to justify enjoying sex. Isn’t that stupid?

We live in a world where despite what culture you live in, a man is looked upon as being ‘one of the lads’ if he puts it around a bit. I know, i know, the same old rant, but it’s true. A woman on the other hand is a slut if she is seen as remotely enjoying sex, case in point, your reference to me as a ‘slut wife’. Which incidentally i don’t mind at all, because there comes a point in a woman’s life where she realizes that basically being regarded or referred to as a ‘slut’ is actually a form of a back-handed compliment. Why? Because it means she has the power sexually.  And i suppose that’s what it comes down to: power, liberation, and the feeling of self-confidence it brings, is possibly the nearest i can come to describing it. The knowledge that i have the power of choice and that it’s me who makes the decision. What i mean by this is, that women by their very gender, live their whole lives through, bearing up to the judgement and reaction in other peoples eyes …. other women especially.

We know what a man thinks about us by the way he looks at us. Men don’t really disguise their thoughts terribly well. But unless a man is going to actually physically assault a woman and take what he wants that way, which doesn’t make him much of a man really, does it. Then any granting of permissions, as i call it, is entirely down to the woman.

It’s her choice. A woman’s decision.

We have the power. Women are the ones who get to choose. And i suppose being involved in this lifestyle, proves that especially.

That isn’t to say that this is just a subliminal power game or anything like that, because there are obviously moments it really is just about the enjoyment of some very pleasurable carnal lust and sexual fulfillment. The majority of times actually, i would say it really is just about the excitement of feeling a man, albeit a stranger on top of you … or behind you, fucking you hard, just because he wants to fuck you and you want him to as well. You don’t have to know his name, his circumstances, what he’s doing tomorrow, it’s not about that. It’s the excitement of two people with probably two very different lives and in reality very little in common otherwise, just fucking. A moment of blissful unreality.

That ends when you put the key in the door, walk in the hall, hear the kids screaming at each other, see the bills piled up, and start making the evening meal.

Read about how I got into the slutwife lifestyle! http://simplysxy.com/articles/2015/01/12/how-i-got-into-the-slut-wife-lifestyle/


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Mrs G

I'm mid 50's, been married now for over 30 years, and have three children,all in their teens. I work and I suppose you could call me a professional lady....no, not that kind you're thinking of! I smoke, enjoy a drink, like Red Wine or a Gin & Bitter Lemon with ice. Italian is my favourite, especially fresh pasta. Sexually, I like older men and always have. My preference is a man who is assertive, and dominant with all that implies. I love sucking or playing with a man's cock, size isn't important, but if pushed I'd have to say I do like a nice chunky thick one. I enjoy role-play, and my favourite position is straddling a man, facing him, because i do like kissing and being kissed, and also having my tits played with...the harder the better. Oh, and I'm a confirmed Stockings and Suspenders wearer, and have been since my late teens.

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