How I got into the Slutwife lifestyle

SimplySxy kicks off this 6 Part special featuring Mrs G, beginning with how she got into the slutwife lifestyle.

Well it wasn’t a conscious lifestyle decision, that I suddenly woke up one morning and decided upon, that’s for sure.

It started by degrees, i suppose that’s the easiest way of describing it.

I’ve always worn stockings and suspenders, and my hubby has a serious stocking and leg fetish. When we first started dating many, many years ago now, he couldn’t believe his luck because, and I think it’s safe to say, all his previous girlfriends had worn tights/pantyhose.

He said he’d found the perfect girl and who was I to argue. After we’d been married a good few years, while we were making love, he used to like to talk about me flashing my legs at other men, and I didn’t mind because it got him excited, so I went along with it. Then it progressed to talking about me letting other men feel me up, until we were regularly talking about other men having me.

Usually in the back seat of a car, or in an alleyway. which at the time, although we didn’t know it then, would prove to be very prophetic words indeed. I’d make up little stories about how I’d been chatted up somewhere, usually by an older gentleman, because that was something that turned me on as well … in our little stories it’d taken place at a pub, or while i was out doing the shopping, or while at work, then I’d make something up about how i ended up letting them have sex with me … despite me being a married woman who should be ashamed of herself for letting something like that happen.

I think I probably got as much out of being a naughty girl sexually, as hubby did having a wife who imaginary strayed. I don’t know if all this was normal sexual foreplay, but I have read about things like that a lot in magazines or in television lifestyle documentaries since, where couples talk about their sex lives and fantasies. So maybe we were only being normal? I honestly don’t know.  From there, it went to me being ‘persuaded’ to go out in skirts a little too short and heels a little too high, and to sitting in coffee bars and restaurants accidentally revealing a little too much leg, showing off my stocking tops and suspender clips.

It probably sounds very tame and restrained compared to what I get up to now. But at the time, it was like our version of the moon landing … a giant leap for the married-kind. We’d both get so very turned on at our, at the time ‘outrageous and daring antics’, that we’d often celebrate with a quickie or a blow-job on the way home in the car, down a back lane, or parked at the back of a remote car park somewhere to relieve the passion. So that, in a nutshell I suppose, is how we first dipped our collective toes in the water of marital consensual adultery, without really knowing or planning where it would lead to later.

And from there, eventually things progressed, to me one day willingly consenting to giving sex outside of marriage a try. Which I eventually did, and have been doing regularly ever since, with hubby’s full support and approval.

If you’d asked me about the prospect of me ever being the person I am now or of the possibility of me willingly embracing this lifestyle when I first met my future husband, or even a good number of years after we first got married. I can honestly say, i don’t think it’s either something I ever thought about or probably would have considered doing. And yet here I am now, openly talking about it like this. It just goes to show, never take anything or yourself for granted. Given the right circumstances or motivation, I think we can all change over time, until eventually we become the person we were probably always meant to be.

Stay tuned next week for Part 2 of 6 when Mrs G shares what she loves most about being a Slutwife!

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