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What Is ASMR & How Is It Incorporated In BDSM?

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What Is ASMR & How Is It Incorporated In BDSM?

Having been an active member of the BDSM fetish scene for well over a quarter of a century, I only have positive things to say about it. I wish more people would truly get involved with it, learn the skills and history, and not just see it as a means to make money.

Not only am I a professional dominatrix, but I also am a BDSM educator as well. I give free talks and demos at fetish events etc. However, I have taught my monthly group workshop for eight years. I can do 1-2-1 classes or Skype workshops or private sessions on Wax Play, Anal Play and Pegging, Impact Play, Needle Play and for those ladies that want to go into this as a profession, I teach Social Media Marketing workshops. All dates and details are in my mistressworkshop.com.

It makes perfect sense that I have come up with a new form of BDSM, as it plays into my teaching background. I’m very creative, playful and sensual. Every mistress is different and I feel like this is one of my unique selling points (USP). I also have a large collection of items for rubber-bondage-play. Very accomplished at CP (Impact Play). Love nipple and CBT play. Huge collection of dresses, shoes and undies for sissy play. My play space is fully equipped but is not traditional in its look. It has an enchanting feel. My fetish wardrobe is vast due to running a fetish club –www.club-rub.com for 20 years, which has monthly themes. I still operate a latex-only event in London called www.ruber-cult.com twice a year.

Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response (ASMR)

It involves basically whatever I decide, as I made it up! I like to use my voice whispered in the ear of the client. Usually perverted BDSM stories, perversions, suggestions, dirty talk etc. I also like to use a playlist of soundscapes; birdsong, waves, babbling brook, wind in the trees, heartbeat etc.

If this is loud, it fills up their thoughts, over takes the mind, so I can infiltrate it with my own ideas of perverse scenarios. There is lots of touching with feather, fur, satin, latex, silk…well, anything that feels great on the skin. I can get quite creative!

Is ASMR Popular?

Not really popular. It’s a niche market thing. It’s for those that want elements of domination and restraints, but who don’t enjoy pain. It’s a hedonistic approach that appeal to those who like the senses to be bombarded.

How ASMR Links With BDSM

I have linked it through the use of bondage, mistress attire, my demeaner and the environment of my playroom. If you Google ASMR, you will get lots of YouTubers whispering in their videos. That is certainly where my idea came from. I have used it as a blanket term for sensation play. A few years back, I noticed that when I whispered into a clients’ ear, he squirmed with delight…his body shuddering with delight.

Popular ASMR Requests

I like to add smells too, like a masculine perfume on a silk scarf dragged over their face, zest of a lemon rind, cake, coffee, basically anything that arouses the olfactory nerves.

Trying ASMR For Beginners

It can be a very emotional experience. Although, not necessarily! I’ve had clients want a hug after. One even looked like he was going to burst into tears during the session. I touch the body very intimately and some guys don’t get that in their lives. Maybe they’re single and no one ever lays hands on them. I’m not afraid to touch them, and in a meaningful way too.


Miss Kim Rub – As a professional London Mistress  living and working in Shoreditch/Hoxton, London E2 UK.  I have always had a passion for BDSM and fetish. With more than 32 years of experience, Both lifestyle mistress and pro domme, I have the skill and the knowledge to make for a very interesting private BDSM client session, and Mistress Workshop class.

I discovered the BDSM fetish scene a long time ago. It happened when I found myself, in a fetish club, it should have scary but it wasn’t –  I felt like I’d found my place in the world.

So my journey as a professional in the arts of domination, happened when the whole scene was underground. It has taken many years to gather the wealth of information and skills that I have acquired. The most important, of course, the ability to be able to tap into your psyche and give you the session of your dreams.

I am a powerful woman with ageless charm and a creative mind. Surrender to me and enjoy the delights of submission. Or assume the position for something a little more impactful. Engage in playfulness as we role play or the sensuality of a touching scene.

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Miss Kim Rub

As a professional London Mistress living and working in Shoreditch/Hoxton, London E2 UK. I have always had a passion for BDSM and fetish. With more than 32 years of experience, Both lifestyle mistress and pro domme, I have the skill and the knowledge to make for a very interesting private BDSM client session, and Mistress Workshop class. I discovered the BDSM fetish scene a long time ago. It happened when I found myself, in a fetish club, it should have scary but it wasn’t - I felt like I'd found my place in the world. So my journey as a professional in the arts of domination, happened when the whole scene was underground. It has taken many years to gather the wealth of information and skills that I have acquired. The most important, of course, the ability to be able to tap into your psyche and give you the session of your dreams. I am a powerful woman with ageless charm and a creative mind. Surrender to me and enjoy the delights of submission. Or assume the position for something a little more impactful. Engage in playfulness as we role play or the sensuality of a touching scene.

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