Hmm, I like the word experimental. I am very open minded, but like everyone, I have my limits and limitations. I will not perform certain acts which are illegal or immoral, which I am not trained in, or which I personally find un-enjoyable or un-hygienic. These include things like beastiality (illegal and immoral), blood play (untrained), and Hard Sports/Brown Showers/Scat Play (AKA Poop Play – unenjoyable and unhygienic).
I have tried about 95% of the fetishes I’ve ever come across though, if that gives you an indication. Though I remain mindful that I haven’t encountered everything or everyone possible in life, and sadly never will, so the option for new ideas is always out there! As a general rule, I’ll try most things at least once and have a “yes” attitude when it comes to me and my partners’ pleasure.
Incorporating Fetish Play Into Sex
To me, fetishes are beyond sex! Sex becomes not simply a practice between two people expressing love, for mutual masturbation or for the purposes of baby making, but the exchange of honesty, trust and pleasure. Partners learn to communicate and read each other’s bodies in ways they hadn’t or couldn’t previously. It increases intimacy as it breaks down some of those walls inside us. The ones we keep hidden as we fear judgement and rejection.
Being accepted and indulged in one’s own sexual fantasy is an ultimate expression of love. Fetishes allow individuals the opportunity to be more truly oneself, and to gain pleasure from it. Performed seriously, not in a joking way, fetish play leads to levels of emotional, mental and physical arousal and intimacy unparalleled to any I have experienced in other romantic relationships or sexual encounters. A life without fetish, to me, is a life without colour.
Evelyn Amoure: A debaucherous sweetheart. Lifelong lover of alternative sexual practices, turned purveyor of the flesh. Evelyn works as a Professional Pansexual Escort, providing men, women, trans and others with Companionship, Girl Friend Experiences, Erotic Massages and Fetish Play. A believer in body, sex and fetish positivity, she practices what she preaches! Everyone can be loved, and you can try to love everyone. Follow Evelyn at her website www.evelynamoure.com and on Twitter @EvelynAmoure
Catch her upcoming works on her blog:
- Anal Play and Hetero Men: Sexual Preference vs. Sexual Orientation.
- The Average Client: What to Except When You’re Expecting A Client
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