How to Enjoy Giving Him a Blowjob

I personally love giving blowjobs. As a lover, I tend to focus more on giving than receiving, and I feel like blowjobs are the perfect way for me to do that. It’s so satisfying to see a man’s eyes light up and his head cock back when I surprise them with giving head.

Giving My Very First Blowjob

I was still a teenager, it was in the backseat of my now ex-boyfriend’s car. I was nervous, had no idea what I was doing, and worried I wouldn’t do a good job. I fumbled around awkwardly for a few minutes before I found my groove. I gained a bit of confidence and tried experimenting with more, using my hands and playing with the balls here and there. I treated it like a learning experience. We ended up having sex, so I didn’t swallow or get a facial or anything that time.

To Swallow or Spit?

I prefer swallowing, I’m usually much too focused on making my partner cum to pull myself away for a facial anyways. I kind of go into another world when I’m giving a blowjob. My goal is to make my partner feel as good as possible, and I put everything I have into that goal. I honestly love the feeling of a guy finishing in my mouth too.

Tips to Enjoy Giving a Blowjob

I know a lot of my hesitation came from not knowing if I was getting the job done and not having that confidence in my ability. I feel like an open line of communication with your partner is important, asking them to let you know they like what you’re doing, if they’d like to try something else, so on and so forth.

It really helps me to have that reassurance. I also spent a lot of time on porn sites watching amateur POV blowjob videos, trying to see other girls techniques and what guys like to see or have done during a blowjob. (I’m the kind of person who extensively researches everything she’s even just mildly interested in)

My Favorite Positions