Tag: Swallow

  • Facials & Swallowing – What You Should Know

    Facials & Swallowing – What You Should Know

    I believe that sex is a pleasure for the majority of us and can be very healthy in many ways!

    Sex itself is a form of exercise, resulting in released endorphin’s, blood flow, and energy! All good for the brain!

    A Choice Between Facials or Swallowing

    I prefer to receive a facial. I like to watch orgasms happen and feel how big the load is that’s being drained on me!

    One Tip For Guys When Giving Facials

    Guys, do be so kind and ask the beautiful lady to close her eyes when receiving facials and don’t risk her eyes getting irritated!

    Why Females Don’t Enjoy Swallowing

    The gag reflex, and texture of the “juices.”

    I would say, “Take one for the team to overcome this hesitancy!”

    Ejaculation Etiquette For Men

    Some men do and some don’t warn before ejaculating, so “Expect the unexpected!”

    The “rules” every guy should follow: Discuss Do’s and Don’ts with the lady and don’t push any limits.

    How To Enjoy Swallowing

    My tip is to swallow immediately if you can’t stand the taste…

    Ensure an enjoyable experience by going out of your way to PLEASE YOUR PARTNER!


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  • How Do I Get My Partner To Swallow?

    How Do I Get My Partner To Swallow?

    Is there a way to convince my partner to swallow instead of spitting out my cum after ejaculation from a blowjob?

    I do not recommend that you try to “convince” your partner to do anything they do not enjoy doing. The point of sex with another person is that BOTH of you enjoy it fully. If your partner does not enjoy what you enjoy, pressuring them to do it will only erode the sexual connection as well as the relationship.

    The fact that you want her to swallow even though she does not want to swallow your cum suggests a possible power struggle in your relationship. Are there other areas of the relationship where the two of you try to control the other?

    Whether she swallows your cum or not will not effect your orgasm but it can effect how you feel about the sexual connection. I invite you to explore how you feel about the fact that she does not swallow. For instance, does it make you feel less loved or accepted? Or do you feel rejected by her?

    If you discover any negative emotions associated with the fact that she does not swallow your cum, I recommend you share those emotions with her. Then encourage her to share her feelings about oral sex and swallowing.  By exploring your feelings and her feelings, the two of you will create more emotional intimacy and more ease talking about the sex you share with each other. That could lead to more sexual experimentation which could be very enjoyable for both of you.

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  • A Pornstar Guide To Facials and Swallowing

    A Pornstar Guide To Facials and Swallowing

    Given that my chosen career is a professional sex-haver, my views on sex are very enthusiastic! I view it as a great way to maintain good health and emotional well-being of yourself and your relationship.

    My Choice Between Facials And Swallowing

    I enjoy the taste of cum, even when it fluctuates I find something enticing and interesting about savoring the flavor of someone’s pleasure. It also doesn’t leave a mess! Although I do really enjoy the slutty feeling of getting a facial and strongly empathize with male pleasure of seeing your semen all over a smiling girl’s face! In off-camera sex I tend to do more swallowing and in on-camera sex there is more of an emphasis on facials when it comes to choosing between the two.

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    Why Men Love Facials

    If I were to stretch my psychoanalysis muscles, it would probably have something to do with unabashed enjoyment of sex and sexual fluids – wanting to rub your body all over the object of your desire is by far the best method of communicating your enjoyment. Most men that have discussed sex and attraction with me, unequivocally desire to be desired as their primary turn on and what better way of signaling that you love everything relating to penis and orgasms, than giddily covering yourself in its fluids!

    One Tip To Prepare For A Facial

    I smile, stick out my tongue, and try not to get too much of it in my eye!

    Make Facials Kinkier!

    I do porn and I already think facials are pretty damn kinky! Ubiquitous but still very naughty and scandalous. To up the kink factor, consider having your partner masturbate in front of you with the explicit and singular purpose of ejaculating on your face.

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    Swallowing Is Not As Bad As It Seems

    Flavor can be a major detractor but often women approach oral sex and swallowing with preconceived notions of disgust and that instantly cuts off any opportunity for discovering enjoyment. In fact, blow jobs and swallowing in particular are the first on the list of “doing you a favor” sex acts and when women set up sex as a business transaction for which they are owed, they reduce their own ability to find pleasure in what is supposed to be a mutually enjoyable activity.

    Proper diet heavy in raw fruits and vegetables (at least 24 hours before sex) and genital hygiene does wonders! However none of that will make a difference to a woman who has set herself up as doing for someone else a favor and not seeking her own enjoyment.

    A Swallowing Etiquette?

    Often women report that the times they have had the best sex and felt most fulfilled is when their partner focuses on their own enjoyment instead of fretting about whether or not he is doing every little thing right.

    I would say this depends on the type of relationship. If your female partner is one of the rare few who prefers to have a lot of dialogue around sex boundaries and likes/dislikes then by all means engage in the conversation of discovering what does and doesn’t feel good to both of you. If you just met for the first time two hours ago and now find yourselves in bed together, a “warning” in the form of dirty talk or moaning that you’re about to blow is sufficient to give them time to react accordingly without completely ruining the mood (and therefore the woman’s emotional memory of the entire event).

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    How To Make Every Swallow An Enjoyable Experience

    First, make sex be your “play zone”. The time and place to completely let go and practice unconditional approval towards yourself and your partner.

    Get out of your own head and empathize with the pleasure of having a happy, caring woman suck you off and love every last bit of it so much that she doesn’t let a drop escape. Think of sex as an extension of the golden rule, behave towards others how you want to be treated. Be the change you want to see in the world!

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  • How to Enjoy Giving Him a Blowjob

    How to Enjoy Giving Him a Blowjob

    I personally love giving blowjobs. As a lover, I tend to focus more on giving than receiving, and I feel like blowjobs are the perfect way for me to do that. It’s so satisfying to see a man’s eyes light up and his head cock back when I surprise them with giving head.

    Giving My Very First Blowjob

    I was still a teenager, it was in the backseat of my now ex-boyfriend’s car. I was nervous, had no idea what I was doing, and worried I wouldn’t do a good job. I fumbled around awkwardly for a few minutes before I found my groove. I gained a bit of confidence and tried experimenting with more, using my hands and playing with the balls here and there. I treated it like a learning experience. We ended up having sex, so I didn’t swallow or get a facial or anything that time.

    To Swallow or Spit?

    I prefer swallowing, I’m usually much too focused on making my partner cum to pull myself away for a facial anyways. I kind of go into another world when I’m giving a blowjob. My goal is to make my partner feel as good as possible, and I put everything I have into that goal. I honestly love the feeling of a guy finishing in my mouth too.

    Tips to Enjoy Giving a Blowjob

    I know a lot of my hesitation came from not knowing if I was getting the job done and not having that confidence in my ability. I feel like an open line of communication with your partner is important, asking them to let you know they like what you’re doing, if they’d like to try something else, so on and so forth.

    It really helps me to have that reassurance. I also spent a lot of time on porn sites watching amateur POV blowjob videos, trying to see other girls techniques and what guys like to see or have done during a blowjob. (I’m the kind of person who extensively researches everything she’s even just mildly interested in)

    My Favorite Positions

    Switch it up! To me, it all depends on the setting. Shower or other small spaces? I’d get on my knees.

    Couch or chair? I’d have him sit back and let me get between his legs while I’m on the ground.

    If we’re in bed, I’d just have him lay back and sit on his face so I could ride his tongue while giving him head. There’s so many possibilities to explore, why stick to only one?


     

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