Mistress Anja from Singapore shares her expertise on Anal Fisting

Anal fisting is one of the most fascinating sexual activities involving penetration. Also known in other terms as handballing and fist-fucking, anal fisting has generated a lot of buzz among the kink community as a popular fetish. Mistress Anja, a skilled dominatrix from South East Asia, Singapore, shares with us her expertise and views on the topic of anal fisting.

What constitutes anal fisting?

The height of depravity in mainstream society, where an entire fist is inserted into the rectum. Unlike the name suggests, fisting does not usually involve clenching the hand into a fist and forcing it into the rectum. Instead, the most common technique is to hold one’s hands flat, fingers close together with the thumb and last finger under the other fingers, resembling a duck bill. This can be performed with a partner, as well as a solo activity.

How popular are anal fisting sessions and how often do you get the requests?

More popular than you think! It is a quite a dark, potent fantasy that many people have, but are unable to act out. Going to a professional is a appropriate outlet for it. I’d have 4-5 fisting sessions a week.

What preparation do you do when there is fisting involved?

Preparation would involve mainly plastic sheeting, and a kitchen roll on hand. Always be prepared for the mess, especially when you know your hands will be full after. The main play would involve plugs, glass beads, condoms, lots of lubricant (i prefer silicone based and numbing), short latex gloves and opera length latex gloves.

Describe a typical process of fisting play one can expect from you?

Fisting in a session with me will be done in gradual stages. Erotic exercises through glass beads, electric plugs, then the widening of the anus with fingers, one by one with a slow thrust and slide technique, until the sphincter is stretched well enough to accommodate the ‘duck-bill’. This however, can rarely be achieved in one session and is done over the course of a few sessions. Relaxing music and vasodilators like alcohol help greatly.

How is fisting used as a punishment in the context of BDSM?

We seldom see fisting as punishment, but more of an erotic activity that stimulates both the mental and physical self. The peak of eroticism, where your legs are spread in front of a beautiful girl, grabbing your ankles as she commands, and her arms are clad in well greased shiny black latex, as she gently spreads you wider and wider, the feeling of being stretched, coupled with gentle temperature change of the slippery in/out movements.. Darling, that’s a reward.

What are some precautions to ensure safe fisting especially if trying at home?

Never force anything if the body is not willing. Do not continue if you notice the presence of blood, the extent of internal damage is not easy to determine so stop at any early signs. Comfort and safety always comes first.

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