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  • How To Enjoy Role Play With Your Partner

    How To Enjoy Role Play With Your Partner

    I’m a very libidinous lady, I’ve always been fascinated by fetishes, intrigued by individual desires, titillated by toys, and tempted by the taboo…

    I’m a big believer in clear communication, asking for what I want, listening to my partners to learn what they like, and laughing together. Yes, I said laughing. Sex should be fun, and when I’m having fun, you’ll know it!!

    Why I Love Role Playing

    Imagination takes over. We step out of our roles as mundane Monday-Friday breadwinners, or stressed out stay-at-homers, bill-paying, news watching, toilet cleaning humans…..we become our own choose-your-own adventure book, except instead of turning the pages, we are turning each other on. 

    Men love it because they get to be vulnerable. I lead them through the fantasy, they give me the starting point and I take it from there. They’re completely in my hands and I dive fully into character for our entire session. It’s playful, they get to do and say things they’d never dream of doing in real life. It’s a license to be silly or corny; are we hurtling through outer space captain??

    My Favorite Sexual Fantasies & Role Plays

    Nurse/Patient: I’ve got a checklist of symptoms to check and tests to perform on my patient to make sure he’s a healthy specimen. 

    Boss/Secretary: I take great dicktation, let me help you straighten that tie, would you like a coffee sir? 

    Naughty Aunt or Stepmom/Innocent boy: He’s always lusted after her, little did he know she was tempting him on purpose all this time…

    Captain/Sailor: Specifically when played on a real boat. This one has not happened yet, it’s still a fantasy, but I’m listing it here, for all the Captains out there to make my dreams come true. 

    Incorporating Sexual Activities Into Role Play

    I’ll often turn something non-sexual into teasing and flirting, like bringing a cup of coffee to my boss, I don’t just put it down in front of him, I slide my hand over his shoulder, bend down so my breast touches his shoulder and he can peek down my blouse, my breath hot on his ear. 

    Offering to do something non-sexual that sounds sexual, like, “Captain, I need your help below deck, it’s so wet down here!“

    Tips For Beginners Into Role Play

    Have a general idea of your storyline, where are you? A spaceship? The office? Are you alone or are there imaginary voyeurs? Who is the instigator? Is the sexytary seducing the boss, or is the sailor the one tempting the siren?

    Costumes are not necessary, but really does help spark the imagination. Go all out if you want, wigs and props, use what you have around the house, get creative!

    Try to stay in character, it feels silly at first, but once you get going, it’s a lot of fun.  Allow yourself to feel goofy.  You’re playing a part, and it doesn’t have to be perfect, just have fun with it, and let the good times role….play

    Vivian – Fun, flirty, intriguing, sensual. A buxom babe with yummy curves.  She’s got sweetness like you’ve never tasted before, indulge yourself!

    Follow Vivian on

    Website: Vivaciousvivian.ca

    Twitter: Twitter.com/vivivictoria40

    OnlyFans: Onlyfans.com/VirtualVivi

    Chaturbate: Chaturbate.com/VirtualVivi

    Upcoming Works:

    One on one video dates (with or without Roleplay)

    Custom photo sets and videos for your eyes only, let’s get creative!

    Send a Sexy Song or a Strip-o-gram to someone special

    Images from Vivian

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  • Advantages of Having An Escort For Your Threesome

    Advantages of Having An Escort For Your Threesome

    I’m actually bi-sexual so I enjoy threesomes and believe they can be fun and sexually gratifying. However there are several elements that need to be ‘just so’, otherwise one can go from a threesome fantasy to an absolute disaster.

    Frequency Of Threesome Bookings

    I probably get about 2-4 per year from hetero couples and about 1-2 every month from single men wanting me to bring a girlfriend. They are certainly desired by practically most men, however, in “hetero couple” situations, you might have a spouse/girlfriend that isn’t thrilled about it.

    Advantages For A Couple To Choose An Escort

    It’s simple; if you need something done right, you hire a professional. Just like you would go to a doctor if you feel sick instead of trying to treat yourself. You would hire a handyman to fix things around your house instead of attempting to do it yourself and risking creating a much bigger problem. A couple is better off hiring a professional if they want a guaranteed wonderful experience. I can’t tell you how many couples have called me after trying to facilitate a threesome on their own with abysmal results!

    They think they can pick up a stripper (who just takes their money and promises to meet them after work but never shows) or a random girl at the bar (who might not be emotionally stable to handle a threesome, or has never been in one before), but they never succeed and end up wasting so much money, when they could have hired a companion like myself in the first place. We are open-minded, easy going, and loads of fun. Not to mention that our business is to make people feel special, so you can expect to have a more intimate experience because that is our job.

    Rules Every Couple Must First Set

    Most definitely! First and foremost, both parties should be completely honest with each other. Ladies, do not agree to a threesome if you feel uncomfortable about it in anyway. There is nothing wrong with you if you don’t want a threesome and are not attracted to women. Doing it to please your partner is going to show and it makes for a very uncomfortable experience. I’ve been in situations like this before and it was very awkward. I actually talk about it on my podcast – The Sexy Escort Guide (www.thesexyescortguide.com).

    If both parties are absolutely certain that they want to experience a threesome together, then you should talk about it openly and set ground rules on how you want your partner to interact with the person you are bringing into your relationship. Gentlemen, let your lady pick the third (be open to the fact that she might want a man instead of a woman). Communication is very important here; the more open with each other about your feelings during the entire process, the more likely you will have a wonderful experience.

    Tips For A Successful Threesome Experience

    1. Hire a professional

    2. Be respectful of your companion and follow her rules for booking. Be prepared to be screened and vetted, as no companion will agree to meet you until you have given her your details and she feels comfortable meeting you. Once the screening is out of the way, prepare to have a wonderful time.

    3. Plan for a dinner date with the three of you, this helps break the ice and build rapport. Foreplay is extremely important in creating chemistry

    4. Let go and have fun! Life is short; so once you’ve decided to experience a threesome, make sure you do it to the fullest!

    Vivian – Vivian is a luxury companion based in Miami Beach, FL. She also hosts a popular podcast, The Sexy Escort Guide, which is available on SoundCloud and iTunes. Vivian enjoys jet setting around the world and she believes in being present in every moment, especially with her clients.

    Follow Vivian on

    Website: http://www.exoticvivian.com

    Podcast Website: http://thesexyescortguide.com

    Personal Twitter: https://twitter.com/ExoticVivian

    Podcast Twitter: https://twitter.com/TSEGPodcast

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exoticvivian/

    My Amazon Wishlist: http://a.co/4fYOhbD

    Send Vivian a gift:  https://grock.me/ExoticVivian

    Images courtesy of Vivian

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