People always ask about me so I’ll go ahead and say I’m Thai. I currently stay in the UK and my family is based here. I have a small little (fat) dog named Allie who I really need to put on a diet but probably never will. I like the color green, beaches and all that other stuff a lot of people like.
I have a lot of sex toys because of my website and the webcam stuff I do, I have to have choices so I don’t get bored with them. I’m not a big fan of the rubber kind of sex toys but I do like vibrators. I have a Hitachi vibrator that I REALLY like and I had a custom glass one made that hits all of the right spots, if you know what I mean. I love all my vibrators and if you ask me, I have a purple vibrator that I love too. In fact, I think the purple vibrator is the one I couldn’t live without, but it’s hard to decide 🙂
Today, I would like to share with you some of my masturbation tips. I have been asked by many on the best ways to pleasure oneself. And my answer is: Do what feels the best. Different times and things happening in your mind call for different kinds of ways to do it. All that matters is that it feels good.
I still remember that time when I got a new vibrator and I had it in my purse when I was at the mall. I couldn’t stop thinking about how bad I wanted to try it so I went into the bathroom and went for it. It was so hot, I could hear people walking around just on the other side of the door and it made me so horny to know that I was that close to so many people with this new toy vibrating on my pussy. The whole experience made me cum so hard it took all of my energy to not scream and I almost fainted. Afterwards I cleaned my toy, cleaned myself and went back into the mall like nothing happened.
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Since the advent of online shopping, sex toy sales have drastically increased, particularly from female buyers. In terms of anonymity, it’s great; there’s no bumping into another school mum when you buy online. It can also be really useful for replacing toys you already know and love.
However, visiting a sex shop will give you a new perspective on the toys, and your reaction to them. Never been before? Here’s some tips for starting out:
Start with one of the larger chain stores that specialise in female visitors. These stores are generally stylish, open plan and well lit for browsing, with mostly female staff.
Be curious. Ask questions. Be ‘wowed’. I’ve been working with sex toys for two years now, and just when you think you’ve seen it all there is something new to be amazed by. It’s ok to be dazzled by just how big some of these things are. It’s ok to wonder ‘how the hell does that even work?’ And it’s more than fine to see something you never knew existed and think ‘I must have it’.
Touch things. This is something online shopping can never give you. The biggest benefit the sex shop gives is tactility. There are no written measurements that will make as much sense as the summation of your own hands; they know what feels good in them. With weight and ergonomics being such a major part of toy design for females, having a 3D sensory idea of what may work for you can be invaluable.
Take a friend and just go to browse. Don’t put any pressure on buying. If something impresses you, be open to it.
‘I Wanna Buy A Vibe, But There’s Just Too Many!’
The range of vibrators these days is (figuratively) out of hand. Sex shop walls are lined with displays of all kinds of cock in a range of colours, textures, shapes, sizes and magic tricks for your clit. So let me refine this for you a bit…
One word: ‘rechargeable’. Yes, rechargeable toys are revolutionising the industry. There are several product lines who specialise in this technology, and although it costs a bit more, it’s a small price to pay to know your toy will last the journey without a battery changeover midway, or any loss of power. The motor isn’t limited by how many batteries the toy can carry so not only can these things GO, they do so in a quiet, efficient manner. Generally, a fully charged toy will run from anywhere between three to fours hours, and can take about the same to recharge. For mine, these are the most aesthetically pleasing vibes; sleek curves, smooth contours, zero veins. Don’t even bother looking at battery-operated vibes anymore.
‘What About the “Anal Stuff”?’
The best advice that can ever be given to someone wanting to explore anal play, is start small, go slow, and use lots of lube. On the most basic level, this ensures a greater degree of relaxation which is key to enjoying anal play. The growing numbers of people buying these toys seems to suggest people are finally feeling free of old taboos.
Enthusiasm for something new is fantastic, but leads to the most common mistake first time buyers make; choosing too arduous a toy. It could be size, shape or rigidity, but generally due to a wonderful want of sexual exploration, they try and take on too much. A great place to start is with silicone or jelly anal beads with progressive sizes. Anal beads are relatively inexpensive, and will give you a good idea of the sort of penetration you may like. Remember to partner them with a good quality lubricant that won’t degrade the toy material. Once you’ve got a sense of the size you’re comfortable with, experiments with buttplugs and vibrators can commence.
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If you’re bored with all the regular dildos and vibrators on the market, why not check out MyToy. One of the newest trends in the sex toys, MyToy is a simple and inexpensive kit to designing and creating your own vibrating silicone toy.
The soft skin feel silicone rubber is non-toxic and kneadable. Not to mention, it’s ready in an hour. Simply follow the instructions, mix it up and paste it onto the vibrator and you’ve got a vibrator designed by you for you.
Pick one up today and get creative, our writers say that it’s an amazingly fun thing to do with the girls especially during bachelorette parties.
Tickler, the rebel in the world of vibrators. They create vibrant, colourful and playful vibes that scream personality. The company’s main slogan, “Which Tickler Are You?” goes in line with their vision that every individual is unique with their own ideal toy. Hence leading to the development of six different ranges of vibrators. With over 15 different designs, you’ll never get bored of Tickler.
Founded in 2009 by a diverse group of people with the skills to create some of the finest sex toys in the world, Tickler has grown in both size and depth. The Swedish designer label is based in Stockholm and Shanghai and the brand creates fun and exciting vibrating toys. Their toys innovative designs means that it manages to hit even the most elusive places. Fully waterproof, Ticklers are built to be amazingly powerful despite their small size as one of our product reviewers found out first hand.
(You can read her review of the Curvy Rockettickler here).
While, International Tickler Day is still awhile away on the 23rd of June, owning a Tickler means you can enjoy it yourself or with a partner anytime of day. Tickler is available online in Asia at SimplySxyLife. You can also check out the full Tickler range at www.ticklervibes.com.
2013. We’re surrounded by dozens of different vibrators in all shapes and sizes to choose from. For the uninformed, it’s a nightmare. However, it’s no surprise that this seemingly simple invention used to cure women’s hysteria in the 1800s has managed to become the sex toy of choice for a third of women today.
Amidst the multiple variations, the two common things all vibrators contain…a battery and a motor. It’s also pretty standard to have multiple program options and intensities. Simply perfect for experimenting.
CLASSIC
Often mistaken for “massagers” grandma uses to ease those aching backs, the classics are simple, discreet and can be easily purchased in most departmental stores. The most common of which is the Magic Wand made famous by all the AV movies you watched as a kid. Its sole purpose is for clitoral stimulation and because of it’s design the Magic Wand is significantly more powerful than most other vibrators on the market.
DILDOS
Dildo shaped vibrators have dual purposes, they are meant to simulate the actual experience of sex. The phallus-shaped toy is often modeled after the penis with some even molded from actual porn stars with lengths of up to 16” and 7” around. The penis shape allows for vaginal penetration, which the vibration action helps to enhance the sexual pleasure. They can also be used anally although significantly more lubricant is often required
G-SPOT
Since Ernst Gräfenberg discovered the G-Spot it’s been the “Holy Grail” of the female orgasm. G-Spot vibrators are dildo shaped vibrators with a specially designed curved shape to stimulate the G-Spot in women and prostate in men. For some women, it’s really the only way they get to cum.
RABBITS
The world renowned Jack Rabbit was popularised by Sex and the City in the 90’s, invented by Ann Summers it became the company’s cash cow for years to come. The rabbit is designed to stimulate both the vagina and clitoris simultaneously. It feature two vibrators one dildo shaped to penetrate the vagina and the second, its namesake is a clitoral stimulator shaped like rabbit ears to target the sweet spot.
BULLETS AND EGGS
Relatively small and unobtrusive, bullets and eggs are the perfect companion to take on the go. Due to its small size, it’s normally minimalist with few added programs and function exactly like the classics. Predominately used for clitoral play there are some larger ones which can also be inserted into most openings.
ALARM CLOCKS
Needless to say this is the perfect way for any woman to wake up short of having her partner between her legs. Alarm clock vibes are worn on panties during the night. They are exceptionally thin and shaped to the curves of the female body so you don’t notice it at all. They work great as they’ll wake you up feeling so good that snoozing would become a thing of the past.
BUTTERFLIES
The butterfly is a pretty interesting style of vibrator. It’s obviously shaped like a butterfly and is worn like a pair of panties and targets the clitoris. As it’s strapped on, operation is completely hands-free and often it comes with a remote control for added fun.
REMOTES
With the introduction of the Internet, long distance relationships got much shorter and sooner or later, someone would come along to bridge the gap between lovers. Remote controlled sex toys from firms such as the Vibease and Remote Pleasure have burst onto the market. Partners across the globe can now using smartphone apps can be directing the orgasm distances away.
COUPLES
Previously vibrating cock rings were the only thing couples could use together but the We-Vibe couples’ vibrator changed all that when it was launched. A flexible U-shaped toy worn inside the vagina during sex has not one but two vibrating motors, one for the G-Spot and another for the Clitoris. It’s unique shape and design allows the man to penetrate the woman while she adorns this magnificent piece human ingenuity. The things we think of to have better sex.
In our opinion, all vibrators are really just meant to help us get off. But with so many different styles to choose from, these days we’re really spoilt for choice. Imagine if we only had that one steam powered design.
