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  • Keeping the Spark Alive: Date Night Ideas for Busy Couples

    Keeping the Spark Alive: Date Night Ideas for Busy Couples

    Life can get pretty hectic indeed, and sometimes those cherished date nights with your partner frustratingly fall by the wayside. But even amidst your busy schedules, prioritising quality time and intimacy is so incredibly important for a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

    The good news? You don’t need to have especially elaborate plans or expensive ‘outings’ to keep that flame burning away in your relationship.

    Here are some creative and fun date night ideas for busy couples that can be squeezed into even the busiest of weeks!

    For the Homebodies:

    • Spa Night at Home: Draw a relaxing bath, light some candles, put on calming music, and give each other massages using massage oil or lotion. You can take things even further by introducing a few pleasure products, such as a vibrator, some sexy lingerie, and/or lubrication.
    • Themed Dinner Night: Pick a cuisine or theme you’ve both been wanting to try, cook together, and enjoy a candlelit dinner with your favourite music playing in the background. Perfection!
    • Game Night with a Twist: Dust off those board games or try a new card game together. Add a playful twist by incorporating dares or forfeits that involve intimacy, like a kiss for winning a round, removing an item of clothing for losing a round, and…well, use your imagination!

    For the Adventurous Spirits:

    • Stargazing in Your Backyard: Lay out a blanket in your backyard, grab a stargazing app, and spend the evening exploring the night sky together… Share stories, reminisce about your relationship, and get lost in the beauty of the universe.
    • Sunset Picnic in the Park: Pack a simple picnic basket with your favourite finger foods, some quality cheese, a bubbly bottle of wine, and some cosy blankets. Then head to a local park, find a scenic spot, and enjoy a romantic evening watching the sunset together! Who knows where the night may lead you…
    • Couples Workout Class: Try a new workout class together, like salsa dancing, rock climbing, or a couple’s yoga sessions. Bonding over a physical activity can be fun, arousing, and a great way to stay active together! Plus, with healthier bodies and minds, you’ll both likely experience a surge in libido!

    For the Creative Souls:

    • Paint and Sip Night at Home: Get some canvases, paints, and your favourite drinks flowing. Put on some music, unleash your inner artist, and have fun creating paintings together, even if they’re abstract masterpieces that might raise an eyebrow or two.
    • Couples Cooking Class at Home: Find a cooking class online or follow a recipe together and try whipping up a new dish. The experience of learning something new and enjoying the fruits of your labour can be a delicious way to spend quality time together…
    • Write Love Letters to Each Other: In a world dominated by digital communication, unplug, take a step back and write each other heartfelt love letters instead. It may feel a little silly or embarrassing, but just open yourself up to the vulnerability of the exercise. Express your appreciation, share cherished memories, and reignite the emotional connection with the written word!

    Keeping the Spark Alive Beyond Date Night:

    • Small Gestures Matter: Leave a love note in your partner’s lunchbox or send a flirty text message during the day. Small gestures show how much you care and can help keep the spark alive.
    • Plan Future Adventures: Talk about upcoming trips or weekend getaways you can look forward to together! Having something exciting planned on the horizon can keep the flame burning passionately.
    • Practice Daily Appreciation: Express your gratitude for your partner, whether it’s verbally or through small acts of kindness. Feeling appreciated strengthens the bond in any relationship. Take stock of what you have and make the effort to show your love however feels right to you.

    So, put down your phones, carve out some quality time, and reignite the passion in your relationship with these fun and creative date night ideas!

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  • A Brief 2023 Guide to Dildos and Suction Cup Masturbation Toys

    A Brief 2023 Guide to Dildos and Suction Cup Masturbation Toys

    Sex toys are fun, but they can be quite costly. I’ve had so many friends complain that they can’t really afford any high-end vibrators or Lovense products because of the price. I can only get a dildo or two, they say, but isn’t a dildo kind of…average?

    Quite the contrary; though it might not have the features of some other popular sex toys on the market, the humble dildo is still an excellent piece to use for self-pleasure. Both women and men use them regularly, and the current market provides tons of options for any eager user. In this article, I will go over the most common dildo types. In addition, there will be a brief section on how to use suction cup dildos, since I believe they might be the best entry point for newcomers to self-pleasure devices. 

    Different Dildo Types

    Unlike a vibrator, a dildo doesn’t have different speeds, intensities, options, etc. (There are exceptions, of course; some dildos come with a built-in bullet vibrator that the user can take out). It’s merely a solid item that I need to insert manually to achieve pleasure. But even with such a simple purpose, there is more than one type of dildo out there. 

    Material-Based Dildos

    Dildos can be made out of various materials, and not all of them are beneficial for us. As such, I can classify these toys based on how hard or soft they are. The most common materials for dildos include:

    • Vinyl
    • PVC
    • Rubber
    • Jelly
    • Lucite/Plexiglas
    • Borosilicate Glass
    • Stainless Steel
    • Silicone
    • Wood

    Of these materials, the first four I’ve listed are the ones I always avoid. Sure, dildos made out of PVC or jelly might be cheap, but they are porous, making them difficult to clean. Furthermore, they contain phthalates, materials that are harmful to humans. So, for high-end sexual pleasure AND safety, I always recommend the other five options on the list. 

    Realistic vs. Atypical

    This distinction is fairly simple. A realistic dildo looks like an actual male penis, complete with veins, glans, foreskin (if and where needed), and even testicles. The purpose of these toys is to emulate the real deal as closely as possible.

    On the other end of that spectrum are the atypical dildos. Sometimes, they resemble animal or alien genitalia. Other times, they will simply look like smooth rods ready for entry. Whatever the case may be, they don’t look like a human penis, but are designed to pleasure a woman nonetheless. 

    Suction Cup Dildos

    Possibly my favorite out of them all, suction cup dildos are toys whose base contains — you guessed it — a suction cup. The basic idea behind these toys is that we can use them hands-free. All we need is a flat surface to attach a dildo to and it’s good to go. Other than the suction cup section, these dildos largely resemble other types of toys on this list design-wise. 

    Strap-On Dildos

    Couple play is definitely possible with dildos, and strap-on variants help make that happen. These dildos, when outside of their harness, function like regular, basic sex toys for solo masturbation. However, their base is usually made to fit a harness and to stay there, so that the person wearing it can emulate penetration throughout intercourse. 

    Double-Ended Dildos

    Also known as double-sided, these dildos have a glans tip at each end. The main purpose of these toys is couple play, but I’ve seen more than a few ladies use them for solo pleasure as well. In fact, a double-ended dildo is often flexible enough that it can be used for double penetration. 

    Pack and Play Toys

    Now, a Pack and Play dildo might confuse some new users, considering what it looks like. It’s essentially a mix between a prosthetic and a strap-on. The whole point behind a Pack and Play dildo is that I can wear it under my pants as if it were an actual penis, where it stays “flaccid”. Then, once I decide to have fun with my partner, I pull it out and it gets fully erect and ready to go.

    The main appeal of Pack and Play toys is that they are realistic couple prosthetics, meant to simulate an actual body part while the wearer is out in public. It’s an added layer of kinkiness that provides the user with hours of steamy fun. 

    How to Use a Suction Cup Dildo

    While I have enjoyed every single type of dildo listed above, I always default back to suction cup models. After all, they are the ones that provide me with the most freedom, since I don’t have to hold them all the time during solo play. Of course, I recommend giving every dildo a try and figuring out what works for you. But for now, let’s focus on suction cup dildos.

    Find the Right Surface

    In order to make the dildo stay properly stuck, we first need to find the proper flat surface to attach it to. For example, a floor or a wall with tiny bumps won’t do, since it’s difficult to make a vacuum seal on such a surface. In addition, the surface has to be sturdy enough so it doesn’t break off during the act. As such, I recommend anything with tiles, a nice solid wooden surface, or even a mirror. 

    Start Off Slowly

    There’s no real answer as to where the user needs to stick the dildo first. It can be the wall, the floor, the chair, the mirror, the bathtub, etc. However, the key is not to rush anything. Remember, the dildo is there to simulate a partner’s penis, so treat it as such. 

    Hand-Free Experience

    With the dildo doing most of the work, we have both of our hands free. That’s an advantage during masturbation, since we can use them to stimulate my other erogenous zones. That will enhance the experience and open new doors when it comes to self-pleasure. And speaking of enhancing the experience…

    Experiment With a Partner

    A suction cup dildo is an amazing tool for couples. For example, if we wanted to experience the sensation of double penetration, or just a regular threesome, we can do it with a single partner and a suction toy. Furthermore, both men and women can use the toy while pleasuring the other partner, exploring anal play, or other interests. 

    Unstick Carefully

    OK, this is a common problem with suction cup sex toys. There are times when the dildo just doesn’t come off, no matter how much we tug. However, the key is not to panic. Yanking too hard can either damage the toy or the surface underneath it. The goal is to keep everything intact and to get the toy loose for future usage.

    What I  would normally do in situations like these is get a flat, hard object and slightly lift a section of the base. Really, we only need to get it pried open enough to get some air in, and the toy will unstick itself. I recommend using a credit card, a butter knife, a coin, or even a sturdy spatula. Anything that’s hard enough to move the base but not enough to scrape the material. 

    Proper Cleaning

    Yes, I stress this with every toy, but it’s incredibly vital to keep the sex toys clean. If we don’t take care of our suction dildos, mold can form along the surface, one way or another, and that can harm the ladies who might be allergic. A more serious threat is the bacteria that grow on the dildo that wasn’t cleaned properly after use. These microorganisms can cause various health problems if we reintroduce them to our bodies during our next masturbation session. 

    Dildos: The Final Few Thoughts

    Again, I must stress that just because a dildo doesn’t have the clicks and whistles of other sex toys, it’s still a perfectly fine toy to use. One suction cup dildo, used properly, can enhance the experience of both solo users and partners for a long time.  

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  • 5 Things You Should Know Before Buying a Sex Toy

    5 Things You Should Know Before Buying a Sex Toy

    Have you made the decision to buy your first sex toy? That’s great! Now, where do you get started?

    Sex toys aren’t just limited to vibrators and dildos. There’s a whole plethora of options to explore and chances are that you’ll be coming across some of those for the very first time.

    With all of this diversity, it can be tough to make up your mind.

    To make the right decision, you have to go through a couple of considerations. Here are the five most important things you should definitely know before hitting that “buy” button.

    Sex Toy Materials Are Not Created Equal

    The material that a sex toy is made of is probably the most important factor to examine.

    There’s one critical reason why you should be extra careful – as of now, the sex toy market is NOT regulated. This means there are no set standards concerning the safety of materials. As a result, some low quality products could feature compounds and chemicals deemed dangerous.

    Looking for a “body safe” label is the first thing you’ll have to do. Even if the label is there, make sure that the material itself is actually body safe before you add a toy to your bedroom fun repertoire.

    Good sex toy materials are non-porous. They don’t harbor bacteria and they’re very easy to clean and sanitize. Some such materials include medical-grade silicone, glass and metal. Jelly and PVC, on the other hand, are highly porous and should be avoided.

    Other good materials are plastics and rubbers but these need to be phthalate-free. Phthalates are considered potential carcinogens, which is why you don’t want them coming anywhere close to your body.

    Two other possible materials you may come across are TPE and TPR. These are both types of plastic that are phthalate-free. There have been, however, discussions about the quality of these materials. While they are generally considered safe enough, TPE and TPR are porous. If you can afford it, do opt for something a bit more expensive and safer.

    Bigger Isn’t Always Better

    Whether you’re looking at g-spot stimulators or dildos that cum, do understand one very important thing – bigger isn’t always better in the world of sex toys.

    As a beginner, you could be drawn to girthy and unnaturally big toys.

    The problem with those is that they’re not made of human flesh. As a result, some toys will be stiffer and less flexible.

    People who don’t have experience with sex toys could find bigger items unpleasant or even painful. Even lube wouldn’t be enough to rectify the situation.

    The best approach is to start out small. Get yourself a smaller vibrator and a dildo with realistic dimensions. These will be some of the most versatile sex toys in your collection. As you become more accustomed to those, you can move on to exploring larger items.

    In the world of sex toys, girth tends to be more important than length. A long sex toy may be a good idea because you’ll find it easier to grip. A very thick toy, on the other hand, may be completely unusable.

    Know Your Pleasure Spot

    A sex toy doesn’t have to look realistic in order to give you the experience of a lifetime.

    Rather, you should focus on the right kind of stimulation.

    To do so, you’ll need to focus on a bit of self-exploration.

    Just like it plays a role in partnered sex, solo play can also direct you towards the right kind of sex toy for your needs.

    How do you usually orgasm? Do you need just intense clitoral stimulation? Or maybe you need both clitoral and internal vaginal (G-spot) stimulation? How about anal play?

    Sex toys come in all shapes and sizes. Some can stimulate two or even more spots at the same time. Some offer very concentrated and targeted pulsations/vibrations for a quick orgasm. Others feature multiple settings to give you an array of experiences.

    So, don’t hurry and get a vibrator just because all of your friends have one. A small bullet vibrator that focuses all of the pulsations on the clitoris could be much more satisfactory.

    Ease of Cleaning

    It’s also important to talk about an aspect of owning a sex toy that isn’t necessarily sexy.

    Cleaning your toys is obviously tedious but it’s imperative to keep yourself safe and healthy. You should never leave a toy as-is after use. Uncleaned sex toys will grow bacteria on the surface, even if they’re made from a non-porous material.

    Sex toy cleaning becomes even more important if you share such items with somebody else or if you use one and the same toy for both vaginal and anal stimulation.

    The more textured and curved a sex toy is, the more difficult it will be to clean thoroughly. In addition, some types of sex toys shouldn’t be submerged in water because their mechanism will get damaged.

    Always check the care instructions before buying a specific type of toy. Some can just be sprayed with a sex toy cleaning solution and wiped clean. Others will require a bit more effort to remain in pristine condition. If you’re not that meticulous about sanitization, you should opt for an item that’s easy to clean.

    The Frequency of Use Determines Some Features

    How often will you use your toy?

    Knowing the frequency of sexy times will enable the selection of some additional settings and functionalities.

    For a start, a rechargeable sex toy is a good idea if you don’t want to buy new batteries every week. There are still old-school sex toys with a battery compartment. The problem is that regular batteries make the item heavier and they also increase the risk of running out of steam in the middle of a sexy session.

    A corded toy is also not an option (although some such toys do still exist). The cord limits the use of the item, it could get in the way and it completely eliminates the possibility to have more fun.

    As you can see, practical considerations are just as important as determining the type of toy that would work well for you. Unfortunately, many people don’t take the time to think about these essentials. As a result, they end up buying a toy that will be used only a couple of times before becoming forgotten.

    Final Verdict: Determine What Matters the Most to You

    No two people have the exact same needs when it comes to convenience and sexual gratification.

    To choose the right sex toy, start out with a few key considerations. This way, you’ll narrow down the range of possibilities significantly. Once you do that, you can focus on additional features and even some non-essential extras that will help you differentiate between a couple of choices you like.

    A final thing to remember is that the price should not be the primary factor (although it’s a good idea to set some budget). Very often, cheap products end up costing you a lot more in the long-run than a well-made but more expensive toy.

    If you come across an offer that’s too good to be true, it probably is. Do your research and use online resources to do a bit of comparison. When you acquaint yourself with the market, you’ll find it much easier to spot quality.

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  • What Should You Do If a Vibrator Gets Stuck Inside You?

    What Should You Do If a Vibrator Gets Stuck Inside You?

    The modern world of sex toys is one that spans far and wide, as there are currently an endless number of little devices aimed to help you enhance your sex life in both self and partner play. With this vast collection comes a variety of different characteristics in your toy, as each maintains a unique size, shape, and curvature.

    And the unique nature of all of these toys, especially a vibrator for women that can range so greatly in size, arises the truth that yes;

    Sometimes sex toys do get stuck inside you!

    And if you have found yourself in the position of frantically wondering what you should do if a vibrator gets stuck inside you, then before getting into the more detailed advice, please-

    Start First With Breathing!

    Although there are quite a few necessary differences in the steps you should take if a sex toy gets stuck inside your vagina versus your anus, start first with taking a few deep breaths! No matter what, breathing will help you to lower your heart rate, and relaxing your tense body is one of the most essential steps in helping to remove a vibrator as it will assist in not making your current situation worse!

    Seriously, just know that everything is going to be entirely okay and this is a normal occurrence, so never feel embarrassed or afraid to seek help, whether that be from your partner or a healthcare provider, and breathe slowly to approach the situation with a strategically calm mind.

    What To Do If A Vibrator Gets Stuck Inside Your Vagina vs. Stuck In Your Anus

    I am going to be blunt here because it is the best advice for you… If a sex toy is stuck in your butt, then unfortunately you are going to need medical care, so keep breathing slowly and seek immediate attention. You see, a sex toy getting stuck in the vagina is usually a totally different experience, as the cervix of your vagina will act as a literal wall to prevent that little hand-held bullet vibrator for women from entering the womb.

    Pretty handy of evolution to hand us that one, right?

    Yet the anal cavity just isn’t quite there on preventative measures. If a sex toy gets stuck in your anus, then there is a chance that it will continue to move further up and eventually into the digestive tract which will require surgery (Hint: This is why it is important to use body region-specific sex toys like the high-quality butt plugs from “V for Vibes”) to remove it safely.

    Your best bet is to not try and reach your fingers inside to grab it out as this will even further push the toy in, and instead head to the doctor. Like I said, your doctor has seen this before and it is nothing to be afraid of, so take the lesson learned and get yourself all fixed up!

    If you have a vibrator stuck in your vagina, however, then although you can always seek medical attention as the best and safest means to get it out, there are also plenty of effective techniques you can implement to get your favorite little woman’s vibrator out of you!

    What To Do If A Vibrator Gets Stuck Inside Your Vagina

    Lay Down and Breathe

    Remember that breathing is the most important thing in this situation! Lay yourself down flat and continue to relax your entire body by closing your eyes and breathing slowly. It will indeed feel difficult to enter a meditative state when you know that something is stuck inside you, but you have to do your best to try!

    This is because the key to getting anything out of your vagina begins with pure relaxation of the muscles, as your vagina is quite strong, and any extra tenseness will further tighten that grip on the toy. By laying down, you will help your entire pelvic floor to relax. To further do this try bringing your feet together.

    This position feels great during sex as it enhances stimulation as a result of calm muscles, but it is also a great position to try and get a stuck toy out of your vagina for the same reasons. When you are calm, breathing, and laying down with your heels together, slowly reach your fingers inside and see if you can’t find a grip on the stuck vibrator.

    Chances are you will be able to feel it, and once you have, keep breathing while you pull it out. Just be careful to not take this too fast, as you don’t want to injure yourself further, and wallah!

    Use Gravity To Your Advantage!

    Gravity is one heck of a force, so try utilizing a squatting position to enhance the natural ‘downward and out’ direction of the vibrator with gravity. Get out of bed, keep those deep breathes a-comin’, and place your feet about shoulder-width apart to enter the squatting position.

    Lower your core until your butt is hanging down around your knees. Once you are squatting, begin increasing the strength of your breaths to push the toy out of your body. Not quite as crazy as giving birth, but be strong with your force while ironically remaining as calm as possible.

    If the gravity and pushing together do not bring the sex toy completely out, then use your fingers as well while still in the squatting position to try and grab it. The position of your body should allow you to easily feel inside yourself and snag that sneaky little vibrator for women right out!

    Lube Is Your Friend

    No matter what method you choose in finding an answer as to what to do if a vibrator gets stuck inside you, regardless of such;

    There is no such thing as too much lube!

    Lube is your friend, and it is an extremely important asset in removing a stuck sex toy. Not only will lube help to prevent any stretching or tearing of the vaginal wall, but it will also help give you the lubrication required to comfortably stick your fingers inside and up to the cervix.

    Just remember, vaginas are technically made to stretch, but you never want to force anything that is beyond your comfort zones. If you simply cannot bring yourself to what it takes to reach your hand inside to pull it out, then seek medical attention to do so for you. But if you can, then use a ton and a ton of lube to make the sex toy removal as smooth as possible.

    When You Can, Ask for Help!

    Unless you have accidentally had too much fun using your vibrator for women by yourself and inevitably lost it inside, then chances are there will be a partner with you who can help you out in this situation. First of all, as soon as you realize a vibrator is stuck inside you, you need to stop any further sexual activity.

    Tell them what has happened so that nothing is done that will push the toy deeper inside. And then, approach the situation together!

    An extra pair of hands will do you a lot of good here, as they will have a lot better of an angle in finding and grabbing the toy with their fingers. Just as well, it can help you to further lay back and straighten out your body by preventing the awkward lean that occurs from reaching your hand down towards your vagina. If it helps, use your hands to spread your vagina apart so that your partner can easily navigate and see to remain as delicate as possible in this process.

    Take A Moment To Look Around You

    I know this might seem silly, but if you really cannot get the sex toy out of your vagina, then you must question one time if it even got stuck! Look diligently around the area and under every one of your sheets. Sex toys are slippery and they can be small, so maybe you did not lose it inside yourself but instead lost it somewhere else!

    Double-check and take but a few moments to look around you before moving on to the next step in getting it out.

    Always Seek Medical Advice

    Please please, your body is your body, and to look out for your health in the best manner possible, the safest and most efficient method in removing a sex toy or vibrator from your vagina is to simply seek medical care in doing so.

    Your doctor will ensure that everything has been done properly and that nothing else has slipped inside(like a battery), so if it feels right simply do not wait any longer and get yourself professionally checked out for the absolute best results!

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  • How To Have Self Fun With A Vibrator

    How To Have Self Fun With A Vibrator

    Masturbation is an extremely natural thing to do, as we even do it in the womb. It’s a good stress reliever and a good way to understand your body better. I masturbate a lot, maybe double what I show in my online content. I was very ashamed of it when I was younger because it is a bit taboo, especially for those with vaginas. It helped me with getting comfortable with what my pleasure can be and what it can be with a partner.

    Vibrator Vs Fingers

    I prefer a vibrator because it’s a lot less work and gets the job done faster and better. I was never one to be prone to using my own hand, rather grinding on pillows, so the vibrator was similar but I didn’t have to move at all. It makes my orgasms much stronger, I’m able to control them better, and edging has become part of my routine as well. There are a ton of different kinds as well, from tiny bullets to huge Hitachis, so there’s plenty of  options for anyone.

    Common Mistakes When Using A Vibrator

    People think that you put it to the highest setting and press it hard on your clit. I personally am extremely sensitive on my clit and can’t take hard contact, so I prefer to do it lightly, going up and down. People need to find what works for them, and that’s different for everyone. I can’t take my vibrator at the highest setting but some people can’t do anything lower. Just feeling out what feels good without any reservations is key.

    Vibrator Tips To Achieve An Orgasm

    First, I like to already be in the mood, whether it be watching porn or just imagining a scenario. I get a bit wet and then put my vibrator on the first setting, going slow and easy. Once that stops being enough, I turn it up another setting and begin to grind on it a bit, going on and off the clit in a rhythm. This can make me orgasm in under a minute! Incorporating something else that turns you on (such as dressing sexy, penetrating yourself, etc) can make the vibrator more of a secondary tool to get you all the way there.

    Kink It Up & Make It Hotter

    I like to switch it up, grinding against a pillow with a vibrator, penetrating myself vaginally or anally, using toys such as nipple clamps or ball gags, or simply edging and not letting myself cum several times to make it extra good.

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  • Why Should Every Lady Masturbate And Own A Dildo?

    Why Should Every Lady Masturbate And Own A Dildo?

    My personal views on sex and masturbation are pretty positive, I may still be a little new to everything. Up until a little over a year ago, I hardly ever masturbated but I’ve been having sex since I was almost 18 and since then I’ve been a bit of a nympho.

    The First Time I Masturbated

    I actually do remember, I was playing around in the tub when I was in my mid teens and learned that the shower head actually felt amazing. At that time I didn’t really know I was masturbating but eventually I caught on and only masturbated that way whenever I wanted too.

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    What Makes Me Horny

    A lot of simple things can make me horny. For starters, an erotic story as long as it’s nicely detailed and not some humdrum “he humped her so good that she eventually was a hot mess on the bed”. Another thing that can turn me on is a nice romantic movie that borders porn. Surprisingly enough, teasing turns me on more than anything, porn don’t even do it for me, they just make me think of new positions I wanna try at some point.

    Just fingers or with Dildos?

    It’s all a matter of mood on which I prefer, more times than not though, I enjoy dildos over my fingers. The main reason would have to be that I like to actually feel myself being filled with something larger than just my fingers.

    Why Every Lady Should Own A Dildo

    As mentioned, a dildo fills you up to how you like depending on what size you’ve gotten. If you order vibrating ones, it’ll help more with stimulation and turn you on even more than fingers could. Squirting ones are great for those ladies that love cream pies but aren’t on birth control or are just in general afraid of getting pregnant.

    The biggest reason for every lady to have one, in my opinion, would have to be that you know how to please yourself better than anyone, if your man’s not around or you don’t have someone available for some fun (even if you’re just not in the mood for a man) then you can always turn to your dildo for that fulfillment.

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    Tips For Dildo Play

    Some great ways that I’ve come to enjoy dildos (mainly) would have to be riding them, or even sticking them on a wall or something of the like to do a simulated doggy style. Rock your hips, grind, shake your ass, anything to make it feel even better as you get yourself closer to your own climax.

    Laying on your side, knees folded up as you take it from behind would have to be another way to enjoy it more thoroughly. Have a hitachi or vibrator? It’ll make for a greater climax if you hold it against your clit.

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    Trying to hit a goal this month of $1,000 on my ManyVids (https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/362840/Kitten5lyf/) page, if I do then I’m going to be doing a raffle for 5 people to win access to my full google drive of almost 400 pictures and 80 videos (constantly growing) and all my ManyVids videos that I’ve made at that point in time. I’ll also be doing a free 30 minute video for all my followers/fans to see on my Tumblr (http://kitten5lyf.tumblr.com/) / Twitter (https://twitter.com/Kitten5lyf) page. The raffle will happen every month as long as I hit my goals, along with various other prizes that I plan to bring out when the time comes.

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  • How to Use Sex Toys like an All-Star – No Experience Required!

    How to Use Sex Toys like an All-Star – No Experience Required!

    Maybe a new partner brings it up in conversation, or (perhaps worse) springs a surprise on you in the middle of the hot and the heavy. Maybe you’re curious about how to bring a current sex partnership to the next level, and you think sex with toys might be just the elevator you need.

    Whatever the incentive, there’s no reason you shouldn’t be able to join in the fun, and feel confident doing it. We’ll give you some basic, ahem, assisted sex education to teach you how to use the most popular sex toys online today, so the next time someone brings up sex with toys, you can really get excited.

    Do Your Research

    Even assuming that you’re close to a brick-and-mortar adult toy store, asking the shopgirl at the local sex toys shop exactly where to put what (and in which situation!) can be pretty embarrassing. Save yourself the trouble and research your interests, then buy sex toys online. Established sites like Adult Force One: Porn toys provide a wealth of information that will undoubtedly come in handy when you’re sitting in a hot tub and wondering if that vibrator is waterproof.

    This is doubly important when you’re considering testing the limits of your new sex toy – will you need lube, an extra set of batteries, or a condom over top? Don’t risk what you don’t have to, either in wasted time or in bodily harm. Reading the descriptions and the reviews of sex toys online before your first encounters help to ensure that every experience is a fun one.

    Know Thy Toy

    Clit stimulators serve a different master than G-Spot stimulators. A vibrating ring will help a man get to the point, and palm-sized, squishy vibrators fit lovingly between two down and dirty bodies. When you’re confused about which of those online sex toys will make you the real-life star of the bedroom, first consider where you most keenly feel emptiness in your sex life, and then buy the toy that, well, fills the hole. 😉

    Know Thyself

    The best way to learn how to use a new sex toy is to try it on yourself – yes, we are officially, enthusiastically encouraging you to masturbate! See how different types of silicone feel in different places; note your special spots (left side or right?), and your preferred methods (vertical or horizontal rubbing?).

    Know Thy Partner

    If you know already know that your partner is thoroughly into sex with toys, it’s time to experiment with their bodies, too! If you’re not comfortable explaining that you just learned how to use sex toys by reading about differences and usages of sex toys online, feel free to pretend it’s a game of discovering your partner’s specific preferences. After all, one person’s dream of vibrating anal beads is another’s nightmare, whereas the latter might enjoy soft nipple stimulation with them.

    The best advice is to go slowly, be respectful, enjoy yourself – and never shy away from reading the directions!

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  • Sex Toy Review: Iroha Uma-Anzu and Iroha Midori by Tenga

    Sex Toy Review: Iroha Uma-Anzu and Iroha Midori by Tenga

    Iroha Midori and Iroha Mini Uma-Anzu are both manufactured by Tenga, a sex toy manufacturer based in Japan. Representative of Japanese design, all their toys have clean lines, are thoughtfully made and entirely researched. I love how there’s a lot of love that has gone into these sex toys.

    Tenga is well-known for its flip hole and egg-shaped sex toys for men. This is their first foray into female vibrators and I have to say I love these two toys that I have. Watch these videos for more!

    Iroha Mini Uma-Anzu

    • Come with one tester triple AAA battery inside
    • Battery lasts for five hours
    • Palm-sized and fits easily into any handbag
    • Even though it is small, it is actually quite a strong vibrator
    • Can use the noob for more focused stimulation on the clitoris or any part of the body that feels good
    • Subtle button
    • Quiet
    • Waterproof
    • Made of body-safe silicon material
    • Other colours: Fuji Lemon and Sora Mikan

    Iroha Midori

    • Magnetic docking system
    • Dust resistant and waterproof
    • Made of body-safe silicon material
    • Comes with a control panel which just has two easy-to-use buttons (Press Plus to increase or turn it on; and Minus to change/ turn off the toy)
    • 3 speeds (from subtle, stronger to strongest) and 1 pulsation option
    • Unique soft cushioning
    • Quiet
    • Sister models to check out: Iroha Yuki and Iroha Sakura

    When I tried using these sex toys because they are actually quite powerful so I was able to obtain orgasm quite easily. So that’s the personal bit that I have to share.

    Reminder: Use a water-based lubricant instead of silicon lubricants when you have silicon sex toys because silicon lubricants can erode silicon sex toys. And so you just want to remember that you want to be using water-based lubricant instead.

    I hope you enjoyed this video. And in the meantime, keep loving, live life fully and stay lovely.

    This article has been republished with permission by Dr Martha Lee. To view the original post and the links to buy the Iroha Uma-Anzu and Iroha Midori, read it here

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  • Sex Toy Review: Zini Zook V.2

    It’s been a while since I released a sex toy review, and this is one which I am happy to talk about because I looove the design.

    Zook means Bamboo in the Korean language and as you can see, Zook does resemble the Bamboo!

    It comes in three different colours, and the version two I am holding in this video is Dark Wine/ Brown. Zook is also available in Green/ White or Red/ Black.

    Product Features:

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    • Dual motor harmonized system
    • High performance, powerful and silent motors
    • Synchronization pulse with sensual illumination
    • Water proof for perfect cleaning
    • User-Friendly Interface System
    • 15 different pulses with 15 different colors

    Product Details:

    • Materials: Body safe silicone, PC ABS
    • Size: 202(L)x31(W)x33(D)mm
    • Weight: 165g
    • Number of intensities: 5
    • Number of pulsation modes: 15
    • Frequency (MAX): 160Hz/szini_zook_02 (507x640)
    • Sound level: <49db
    • Battery type: Li-Polymer
    • Voltage: 100-240V
    • First time Charge – 4h
    • Next charging time: 2H
    • Operating time: 2H
    • Lube: Water-based Only
    • 1 Year Warranty
    • Comes packaged with a charger, storage pouch, and user guide
    • Curved to a 23.5 degree angle for easy insertion that follows the body”s natural contours

    This article has been republished with permission by Dr Martha Lee. To view the original post and the links to buy the Zini Zook V.2, read it here

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  • Are vibrators killing your pleasure?

    Are vibrators killing your pleasure?

    If you’ve seen my talks at Sexpo, you’ll know I warn ladies in particular, about the dangers of overusing vibrators.

    So I wanted to use this week’s blog to explain why!

    But before I tell you how vibrators kill you pleasure, let’s looks at how the vibrator came about shall we?

    Would you believe the vibrator was actually a household appliance – the fifth in fact, to be electrified.

    In the 1800’s, women were being diagnoses with ‘hysteria’, which showed up in the form of erratic behaviour.

    Today we have different names for ‘hysteria’ such as PMS, road-rage, downright bitchiness!

    And in order to treat this very serious ailment, women would line up at the doctors for a clitoral massage to help ease them of their woes.

    Now as you can imagine – women grew quite fond of this treatment!

    Fast-forward to 1899 and one smart chap invented a device that women could take home and service themselves.

    Thus, the vibrator was born.

    Advertisements started popping up in women’s publications, with such taglines as “Vibrate your body and make it well,” “Take the edge off things,” “Nature’s own cure-all” and “Magic power… will make you feel like a new person.”

    These ads made no mention of sex, orgasms, or even ‘hysteria’ – the so-called ‘disease’ for which vibrators were said to cure.

    Now there is no arguing that sex toys – such as vibrators – can be fun and bring a lot of spice to the bedroom.

    But before you arm yourself with a cache of vibrators please consider what I am about to say, extremely carefully…

    Overuse of vibrators can actually desensitise your special bits.

    If you consider a tongue, a finger or a penis; they cannot go near as hard and fast as a vibrator!

    This is why women who use them a lot, often have trouble orgasming with their partner.

    You see, the more stimulation you get to reach orgasm, the more you need.

    So over time you sensitivity – the very same sensitivity that will open you up to deep orgasmic pleasure – is lost.

    This is why vibrators can be such a pleasure killer!

    What you also need to consider is that most vibrators only focus on your clitoris, and sometimes other regions of your genitals like your G-spot.

    Yet the whole body can be a pleasure zone, if you take the time to wake it up.

    And when you do invest time in increasing your sensitivity as opposed to decreasing your sensitivity (which you do when you use a vibrator) that’s when you’re going to start to experience those full body orgasms; orgasms you feel throughout your entire body as opposed to just being confined to your genitals.

    But I’ve already lost sensation, what now?

    No sweat!

    Get yourself a Jade Egg. 

    The Jade Egg is designed to awaken the tissue in your vaginal canal so you start to feel more pleasure inside the vagina.

    Even if you don’t use a vibrator much, most women’s vaginal canal’s are quite numb, hence why they don’t experience G-spot and cervical orgasms.

    Less really is more when it comes to pleasure.

    You want to be so sensitive that someone blowing on your skin is enough to arouse you into ecstasy!

    Personally I do NOT use vibrators for this very reason.

    I want my entire body to be as sensitive as possible, because that’s where we open ourselves up to experiencing the most pleasure.

    All of that said, if you’re not yet willing to trade in your vibrators for a Jade Egg, then make sure your toy box does NOT contain anything with phthalates in them.

    Phthalates are carcinogens.

    You find them in those squishy, jellylike dildos – the really cheap ones.

    They’re toxic!

    They leech chemicals into one of the most absorptive place in our body.

    If you have any toys like that, please throw them out.

    NOW!!!!!!

    Studies have even linked them to cancer.

    What you want are toys that are non porous, and made of materials such as silicon, glass or stainless steel.

    Or just get yourself a Jade Egg and enjoy the deliciousness of deep vaginal orgasmic bliss!

    This article has been republished with permission from Tamara Mercieca

    Please visit Tamara’s website  to view the original post and more of her works.

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