Tag: SimplySxy

  • Tokyo Based Philippines YouTuber & Vlogger Lyssa Amor

    Tokyo Based Philippines YouTuber & Vlogger Lyssa Amor

    Hi! Thank you for having me. My name is Lyssa Amor, I’m from Cebu, Philippines but I’m currently living in Tokyo, Japan. I have a YouTube channel and I do vlogging as a hobby ☺️

    Where do you get your fashion inspiration from?

    Instagram or YouTube, but I just wear what I feel is comfortable and my fashion depends on my mood ☺️

    Do you have a favorite food or drink you can’t live without?

    Black coffee paired with anything sweet like chocolates or donuts.

    If you could be a cartoon character for real, who will you choose to be?

    Miku Hatsune, an anime-like character virtual reality singer.

    Where do you love to shop from?

    H&M, GU, and Uniqlo.

    What type of music are you into?

    No specific genre. I just love listening to Taylor Swift and Billie Eilish.

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a party animal are you?

    If 1 is the lowest and 10 is the highest, I’m at 3.

    What is a funny or awkward attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    We had a team building at the beach and my workmates hitched a ride on me, and we have this new workmate who left his phone in the car. He asked our team leader to contact me and meet me to get his phone. When he got his phone, he thanked me a lot, apologized for the trouble and asked me for a date. LOL.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Lyssa. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Thank you too! For me sexy is humor, intelligence and creativity.


    Follow the amazing Lyssa Amor on:

    Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/getpoised.blogger/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/lyssaamor

    Instagram: @lyssaamor (https://instagram.com/lyssaamor)

    I’m currently working on a Travel Youtube Channel called The Handy Luggage (https://bit.ly/2vd4GfH)

    And I created a new Instagram where I post my travel photos @amor.travels (https://instagram.com/amor.travels)


    Images from Lyssa Amor

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  • Trinidadian Singer & Media Personality NEICY

    Trinidadian Singer & Media Personality NEICY

    Hi…My name is Nekisha Cyrus, but most people know me as ‘NEICY’. I am from Trinidad and Tobago, so yes I’m definitely an island girl who loves the Caribbean and our infectious culture. I consider myself to be a creative spirit exploring life. My personal motto is ‘Live, Love, Laugh, Learn & Leap’. I am very passionate about entertainment and wear many different hats in the entertainment industry, from music, to modeling to being a media personality. 

    Photographer @trinidadboudoir

    Where did your inspiration to be a singer songwriter come from?

    Ok, so please don’t laugh…lol. But I knew I was destined to be a singer, songwriter and entertainer from the first time I saw the Spice Girls on my TV. I remember I was like around 8 years old when I saw their ‘Wannabe’ music video and something in me said, ‘Yes, that’s what I Wannabe’, LOL – Get it!

    Photographer @kylefrederick

    Which is your favorite or most memorable track you have done/collaborated on so far?

    Up until 2018, my favorite track was the first ever track I recorded back in 2011. It was an upbeat Dancehall Pop fused song called ‘Do it Like Dat’ (featured on my first EP album ‘Ms. Un-Official’), it was the first time I really stepped out of my comfort zone and tried something new. That song definitely had a vibe to it. But then fast forward to 2018, when I released my single ‘Body’ and this track has become my new favorite.

    I think what I love most about it is that you can hear my growth as an artiste. From the lyrics to the flow, it’s more confident, a bit cocky…LOL. My music has matured a lot and at its own pace. And even while recording it, I was more hands on with what I wanted the finish product to sound like.

    Photographer @adrenalinephotography

    How is a typical day like for you?

    Typical day for me starts with me on most days getting a proper nights rest (between 6-7 hours of sleep). I usually wake up around 6am. I like to meditate and get my mind right and centered to start my day. Then I go for a workout from 7am for about one to one and a half hrs, shower and have breakfast.

    Then my work day begins…I am a full time entertainment blogger for the Caribbean Region which I love because it’s based on entertainment which is my passion.

    So I spent the majority of my day writing, researching, updating blogs, etc. for my website Caribbean Entertainment Hub. Outside of that, I’m always writing new music or am at the studio working on new music. I’m also a part-time radio host at ‘We Room Radio’, so I am at the radio station on some days as well.

    Do you have any other hobbies or interests?

    Yes, can food be hobbies? LOL. But on a real note, when it comes to my hobbies or interests, I love hiking, nature and water…OMG I call it nature therapy. I’m also into personal self-development, I even started a motivational blog called ‘Neicy World’.

    I also love reading and by reading, I mean listening to audiobooks…LOL. I also love dancing. And my gym time has also become like a serious interest of mine of lately. Slowly getting addicted!

    Photographer @adrenalinephotographer

    If you could meet anyone past or present, who will it be?

    Hmmm….I will have to say Beyoncé. I really admire her work ethic and how humble she has remained throughout all of her success. Also Rihanna, because of the level of success and longevity she has attained thus far, being a Caribbean girl as well, I will definitely like to pick her brain and gain some insight into how she was able to do it.

    Photographer @adrenalinephotographer

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a party animal are you?

    I’m like a solid 5, don’t really consider myself to be much of a party animal. I think it’s because I work so much in the entertainment industry, that in my down time, I prefer to be nowhere close to it. I rather go to the cinema or find a new food spot I haven’t tried or a fun game night with close friends, filled with a lot of shit talk and laughing.

    What is a funny or awkward attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    I had a guy donate a huge amount of school supplies to a Charity Book drive I was doing last year in an effort to impress me and ask me out on a date, which he later did. Men…SMH. I didn’t mind though. It was a lot of school supplies…LOL.

    Photographer @trinidadboudoir

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Nekisha. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

    This was truly a lot of fun. Thank you so, so much for having me.

    How would I define ‘Sexy’? It’s simple for me…three words – it’s Confidence, it’s Classy and it’s Courageous.


    Follow the beautiful NEICY on:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/neicyofficial/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/neicyofficial/

    Instagram: Motivational blog- https://www.instagram.com/neicyworld/

    Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/nekisha-neicy-cyrus

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtWuvrVLfuxJjgxQLI3UhmQ

    I will be releasing my new single ‘SUMMER’ in June 2020. So definitely stay tuned for that, it’s going to be the 2020 Summer Anthem.


    Images from NEICY

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  • How To Create An Amazing Cam Show

    How To Create An Amazing Cam Show

    I love sex. I’ve always been a very sexual person. I masturbated very early and the pattern of my acquaintance for debauchery and deviance was starting to show. I do not only love penetration, I love everything that gravitates around it: sexual history, paraphilias, preferences etc. I have been very curious and explored a lot in the past and I don’t regret a thing. I am still exploring today but in a different way.

    Why I Love Having Sex On Cam

    I love the idea of being desired. That people are excited by me. I am a little bit of an exhibitionist so I love being watched or even/at least the idea of it.

    People jerking off to me and fantasizing on me ? And passing a message ? Hell yes.

    Sexual Acts I Enjoy Filming

    Mostly teasing n stripping off, spit play, spanking, foot fetish, squirt, vaginal penetration, Uro, blowjobs (toy) and special demands 🙂

    Preparation Required Before Going On Cam

    Mmmhh you could create an ambiance with a décor, a certain light etc..

    Take a shower – choose an outfit – put on make-up maybe, should I say ?

    And theoretically, If I was to do anal, I should do a washing (too lazy plus inserting things in my anal cavity makes me wanna pee).

    Tips To Create Your Own Videos

    Good luck to you if you’re getting started in the X biz. I would say:

    – Follow your instinct

    – Do what you want

    – Charge what you want

    – Remain smart

    – Remain legal

    – Be yourself

    – Get some skills

    – Learn to tease enough to entice them to tip, but not too much cause they would just wait till you do.

    – Learn to say no

    – Be playful

    – Cover your traces (get a VPN), don’t give out information about your location, your activities, where you live; no events or names

    – Purchase a good webcam

    – Get a dedicated email address and social media

    – Know your value


    Antimuse – I am a young and french sex entertainer. I am an escort, Domina, model, Camgirl, porn amatrice and more to come…

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    Websites: https://linktr.ee/Antimuse

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/antimuse9


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  • Philippines Entrepreneur Yelim

    Philippines Entrepreneur Yelim

    Hi! I’m Yelim but I prefer people calling me as Yel. I’m Korean but I was born and raised in the Philippines! I’m 22 years old just finished Uni and I’m actually an entrepreneur here in the Philippines. I hold a marketing team in a travel agency company (@resortsbook).

    I guess I have to say that I am such a geek when it comes to art and candles, probably why I started my candle business in 2019 (@Olkcandle), a fast-growing local candle brand in the Philippines loved by many including actors and actresses in the country.

    What hobbies or interests do you have?

    I love painting! Making candles is part of my business but I love making them and designing all my candles.

    Is there a favorite brand you like to shop from?

    Well there isn’t any specific brand, but I do love shopping in any Korean indie stores.

    How do you like to spend your free time?

    I would hang out with my brother, maybe cook together or watch movies with him. Sometimes I take photos of my products and edit them for Olk candle’s daily content. (IG: @Olkcandle)

    What type of music are you into?

    I don’t think I listen to just one genre, it really depends on my mood.

    Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

    Most of the time I get so busy with work I don’t get to travel with friends.

    Which is your most memorable travel experience so far?

    Ah!! That would have to be my trip to Portugal! I super love the place, the people and their FOOD!

    What turns you off on a date?

    Oh my…When the other person chews loudly.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Yelim. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy to me is the ability of one individual to believe in themselves and achieving their goals.


    Follow the pretty Yelim on:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsyelimm/ (@itsyelimM)

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/itsyelimM

    Businesses:

    https://www.instagram.com/olkcandle/ (Candle shop IG)

    https://www.instagram.com/resortsbook/ (Travel agency IG)


    Images from Yelim

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  • How To Deepthroat Properly And Enjoy It

    How To Deepthroat Properly And Enjoy It

    Oeh oh my, blowjobs? I totally love them! I mean I couldn’t think of having a hot time with a guy without going down on him. Getting his tool pumped for the upcoming action or even just to get him finished off by it. You can go so many ways with blowjobs. Nice, easy and sexy or just go full on headfirst sloppy and dirty.

    Or going next level and deepthroating that cock.

    Is Deepthroating Easy?

    No it surely ain’t always easy, especially when talking about the hulks under the cocks. It can get quite a challenge sometimes.

    But that’s also part of the fun, extending your own limit every time. Because I myself love to feel him slide all the way in, feeling him shiver from excitement when he does. That gets me off even without him touching me.

    Recommended Techniques To Deepthroat Well

    As for techniques it’s most of all practice, practice, practice… really, but you do need to know what to practice. Nothing is more important then knowing how to relax your throat and yaw. Even though everyone is spooked about the whole gag reflex, that’s just a part of it all.

    Because ironically enough, I can deepthroat like crazy but I still choke on my toothbrush! But when you get the hang of it, deepthroating can become so much fun. And every guy knows how awesome the feel of a good deep deepthroat can be. (Right guys?)

    One big tip I can give is to relax. Really, if you’re uptight, it won’t work. You’ll just end up throwing up on yourself or your partner. Then again, if you just ate a full four course meal, prepare to eat it for a second time. And (nearly) an empty stomach is going to help you under pressing you gag reflex so much!

    Then, there is the shape of that hard cock in front of you. Most of them are in a curve like bend. Make use of that. Your throat goes down in a curve to, so be sure to align to that. If your gag reflex is really strong, you can actually kinda get rid of that. It’s all coming up to making your throat getting used to having something in it.

    You can train that by simply putting something in it on a regular basis. And no, don’t start of with your Tarzan laying at your nightstand. Start off with your fingers. First one, or maybe two. Press them against your tongue. And slide them in as far as you can pressing your tongue down.

    Now when you’re about to gag, pull back slowly. Now you know where your gag border is. Take a deep breath and repeat. Try to go beyond this border every time you do this. And repeat this for like ten minutes a time. If you actually have gone too far and gagged, no worries, take a breath, wait for a few seconds and try again.

    Now if you gagged like three times in a row, STOP. You’ll just keeping gagging or get even worse. Try it again later that day or the next. Eventually, you’ll manage to suppress the gagging and with that, relax your throat.

    And if you’re really getting the hang of it and deepthroating becomes easy… you can level up and try something like throat fucking!

    Is Throat Fucking More Complicated?

    Yes and no… haha terrible answer, isn’t it? It is harder because you don’t have the controls, yet it’s also easier because you do not have the control. It’s quite simple, because you can control it and you can’t control when to breathe.

    When you’re short of breath, you automatically start a gag like reflex, trigger you gagging and before you know it, you’re sounding like Donald Duck being held under water. (I know that’s kinda funny yet not what you want). So be sure you have a tap sign or anything to let your partner know you’re at your limit.

    That’s why this works best with someone you can thrust. Unless you’re bonded and letting you being fully dominated. In that case, good luck and bon appetite, hope you did not eat a four course meal earlier.

    But why is it easier??? Simply because he is controlling the movements so you can totally focus on relaxing your throat. And especially with a throat fuck, relaxing is the key to success.

    Yet, prior to be able to relax, you do need to know the best positions for deepthroating.

    Best Position For Throat Fucking

    The one positions that tops them all is the one where you lay on your back with your head tilted over the edge from your bed or couch. No other position beats that one!

    Now, if you’re more experienced, you can go 69 as well-being the one where you are on top, which is most definitely the most ideal one.

    Still Having Fears For Throat Fucking?

    Well let go of that! Fear is your worst enemy. Because fear won’t let you relax properly. Don’t be afraid of sucking (pun intended) at giving deepthroats or getting throat fucked. It’s not that easy to do. It is a skill that needs to be learned but when you do, you can be proud of possessing.

    Even I, who knows how to take a cock and deepthroat, fucks it up sometimes just because I wasn’t relaxed enough. And no, I won’t be bothered from it as sometimes it’s kinda funny. After catching my breath again, I just relax and head in again. Now, there will be days where it won’t go that easy, and make sure your partner respects that.

    It needs to stay fun and not a must. Eventually, you will get the hang of it and it as simple as brushing your teeth.

    Unless your name is Stacey Sapphire… because brushing my teeth still makes me gag LOL.


    Stacey Sapphore – Stacey Sapphire is a Dutch International Adult star. Originally from Amsterdam now working for numerous Productions.

    Bisexual by heart because, why choose?

    Fav quote – “I’m a Pornstar and my job is #adickthing” – Stacey Sapphire

    Follow Stacey on

    Website: https://www.stacey-sapphire.com/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/StaceySapphire

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stacey_sapphire/

    Other Sites:

    https://www.manyvids.com/Join-MV/1003146541

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    https://www.pornhub.com/pornstar/stacey-sapphire

    https://www.kinkylife.com/getkinky/126066

    Due to corona everything is on hold. Where preparing to travel to the USA for a three month term so I could shoot with the big names and fellow performers and stars. This still is my main goal to achieve today.


    Article images from Stacey Sapphore, featured image from Shutterstock

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  • What It Takes To Be A Content Creator

    What It Takes To Be A Content Creator

    My personal views towards beauty is that beauty comes from within. I know that’s a default answer but somehow it’s truer than ever nowadays. It also applies in fashion; if you feel beautiful, it will radiate and everyone will notice it. Comfort first over trend. That’s my fashion mantra, if you’re comfortable in what you wear; you will shine. Doesn’t matter if you don’t follow the trend.

    How I Got Into Modeling

    I have tons of photographer friends, they would get me as their test model from time to time. And I love getting my photos taken, that’s when I realized that I wanna get into this business.

    Was Being A Content Creator A Natural Move?

    Not really. I was struggling at first but then I’m thankful that I know people who are already into the business, who notices that I’m always online, so why not make a career out of it.

    Misconceptions About Content Creators

    Some people would still think of us as “freeloaders” and we are only after for the free stuff. We’re not. It takes a village to do what we do; from concept, style guides, contents to do. It’s not easy. We make it look easy because we love what we do.

    What To Know Before Becoming A Content Creator

    You need to find your niche. Where do you want to focus on; is it beauty? Food? Health and wellness? Travel? You need to find which field you are going to take. And invest in equipment; take good pictures. Be active online.


    Camille Jamie Gabol is a Beauty/Fashion/Lifestyle Content Creator and Model who is based in Manila, Philippines. Camille has a full-time corporate work while she does content and modelling on the side. You can check her profile and sponsored campaigns on her Instagram and her Facebook Page.

    Follow Camille on

    Instagram: @camillegabol

    Facebook Page: @imcamillegabol

    If you wish to do collaborations with me; feel free to DM me on Instagram as well.


    Images from Camille Jamie Gabol

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  • What Is ASMR & How Is It Incorporated In BDSM?

    What Is ASMR & How Is It Incorporated In BDSM?

    Having been an active member of the BDSM fetish scene for well over a quarter of a century, I only have positive things to say about it. I wish more people would truly get involved with it, learn the skills and history, and not just see it as a means to make money.

    Not only am I a professional dominatrix, but I also am a BDSM educator as well. I give free talks and demos at fetish events etc. However, I have taught my monthly group workshop for eight years. I can do 1-2-1 classes or Skype workshops or private sessions on Wax Play, Anal Play and Pegging, Impact Play, Needle Play and for those ladies that want to go into this as a profession, I teach Social Media Marketing workshops. All dates and details are in my mistressworkshop.com.

    It makes perfect sense that I have come up with a new form of BDSM, as it plays into my teaching background. I’m very creative, playful and sensual. Every mistress is different and I feel like this is one of my unique selling points (USP). I also have a large collection of items for rubber-bondage-play. Very accomplished at CP (Impact Play). Love nipple and CBT play. Huge collection of dresses, shoes and undies for sissy play. My play space is fully equipped but is not traditional in its look. It has an enchanting feel. My fetish wardrobe is vast due to running a fetish club –www.club-rub.com for 20 years, which has monthly themes. I still operate a latex-only event in London called www.ruber-cult.com twice a year.

    Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response (ASMR)

    It involves basically whatever I decide, as I made it up! I like to use my voice whispered in the ear of the client. Usually perverted BDSM stories, perversions, suggestions, dirty talk etc. I also like to use a playlist of soundscapes; birdsong, waves, babbling brook, wind in the trees, heartbeat etc.

    If this is loud, it fills up their thoughts, over takes the mind, so I can infiltrate it with my own ideas of perverse scenarios. There is lots of touching with feather, fur, satin, latex, silk…well, anything that feels great on the skin. I can get quite creative!

    Is ASMR Popular?

    Not really popular. It’s a niche market thing. It’s for those that want elements of domination and restraints, but who don’t enjoy pain. It’s a hedonistic approach that appeal to those who like the senses to be bombarded.

    How ASMR Links With BDSM

    I have linked it through the use of bondage, mistress attire, my demeaner and the environment of my playroom. If you Google ASMR, you will get lots of YouTubers whispering in their videos. That is certainly where my idea came from. I have used it as a blanket term for sensation play. A few years back, I noticed that when I whispered into a clients’ ear, he squirmed with delight…his body shuddering with delight.

    Popular ASMR Requests

    I like to add smells too, like a masculine perfume on a silk scarf dragged over their face, zest of a lemon rind, cake, coffee, basically anything that arouses the olfactory nerves.

    Trying ASMR For Beginners

    It can be a very emotional experience. Although, not necessarily! I’ve had clients want a hug after. One even looked like he was going to burst into tears during the session. I touch the body very intimately and some guys don’t get that in their lives. Maybe they’re single and no one ever lays hands on them. I’m not afraid to touch them, and in a meaningful way too.


    Miss Kim Rub – As a professional London Mistress  living and working in Shoreditch/Hoxton, London E2 UK.  I have always had a passion for BDSM and fetish. With more than 32 years of experience, Both lifestyle mistress and pro domme, I have the skill and the knowledge to make for a very interesting private BDSM client session, and Mistress Workshop class.

    I discovered the BDSM fetish scene a long time ago. It happened when I found myself, in a fetish club, it should have scary but it wasn’t –  I felt like I’d found my place in the world.

    So my journey as a professional in the arts of domination, happened when the whole scene was underground. It has taken many years to gather the wealth of information and skills that I have acquired. The most important, of course, the ability to be able to tap into your psyche and give you the session of your dreams.

    I am a powerful woman with ageless charm and a creative mind. Surrender to me and enjoy the delights of submission. Or assume the position for something a little more impactful. Engage in playfulness as we role play or the sensuality of a touching scene.

    Follow Miss Kim Rub on

    Website: http://www.misskimrub.com/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/misskimrub


    Images from Miss Kim Rub

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  • Ukrainian Model Mariya Halushka

    Ukrainian Model Mariya Halushka

    Hey, I’m from Ukraine, but currently I live in Ottawa. I’m in the 3rd year of the PhD in Economics program. I also work part-time as a Bookkeeper in SABA Accounting Solutions Ottawa. I’m modeling whenever I have time, LUXI MGMT and OMM are the two modeling agencies I’m with now.

    Do you have any hobbies or interests?

    I don’t even know what I should start from! First, modeling! Best experience I’ve ever had! Doing runways is even more fun for me, than the ordinary shoots.

    Second, dancing and fly yoga. I’d been dancing for about 14 years in a dancing troupe in Ukraine: ballet, contemporary, jazz-modern etc.

    Third, music! I play the piano and guitar, finished a music school when I was 12.

    Finally, art! I like drawing on clothes, and jeans jackets especially! Love to create something unique for the people I love and see them so happy wearing it every day.

    What inspires your fashion style?

    My fashion style is totally dependent on my mood, seriously! I like to be different. One day I’m wearing Nike’s with a black Zara dress, the next day it is a sexy body-shaped dress from PLT with high heels and fur coat from Topshop.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    Once my friend told me that I have the cutest and the most unique nose she has ever seen that made my day!

    How will you describe a typical day like for yourself?

    I’m hustling, guys, but from 9-10 a.m., not an early bird at all. Of course, except the days I go to work. I’m in deep need of a cup of coffee in the morning, maybe two, or three… Then I study, write my thesis, meet with professors or attend seminars. My boyfriend and I always spend the evening together – go shopping, cook, clean, go out or visit museums and ..everything!

    Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

    I want to learn French! I really do, but don’t have time for it now.

    Have you been in an embarrassing situation before that is funny now when looking back?

    I guess there is no person in the world that hasn’t been of course. I was, too, but don’t expect me to reveal all my secrets so fast.

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    Once, my girls and I were in Bulgaria, Sunny Beach – the craziest party city/beach ever. I still even remember the name of the bar near the beach, where it happened – “Amigo” We were dancing near the entrance and a group of German guys caught our eye, as far as I remember, 3-4 of them.

    All of a sudden, they all ran up to me and started throwing me up in the air like a cheerleader or a rockstar on a concert. That was so unexpected and fun.. after that they explained that my dress reminded them of the real cheerleaders and they thought I’m one, a lesson: your style means a lot!

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Mariya. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

    Sexy = smart + confident + fearless


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    Instagram: https://instagram.com/m.hlsss?igshid=jv4t6ayp90m

    Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/mariya.halushka

    Website: https://mariyahalushka.portfoliobox.net/


    Images from Mariya Halushka

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  • Actress & Producer Alli Miller of Cherry Poppins Productions

    Actress & Producer Alli Miller of Cherry Poppins Productions

    I’ve been dancing since I was three, and apparently told my parents I wanted to be a full time actress and part time doctor when I was in kindergarten. BUT I would say that Carol Burnett was a HUGE inspiration to me, and I often refer to myself as the Burnett of Burlesque.

    My writing, I think, has been strongly influenced by Amy Sherman Palladino and the original YouTube…I know that sounds silly but when YouTube originally came out and we all were watching “Old Greg” and “Charlie the Unicorn” and “Shoes” on repeat, I think that brand of humor got stuck in my brain and it’s all I truly understand! Goldie Hawn in Housesitter was the moment I knew I wanted to act on screen though….so there is that!?!?!

    What is a typical day like for you?

    Well it’s hard to answer that question right now as we are quarantined, so a typical day for me is waking up, making breakfast, staring at the wall, trying to understand Tik Tok, and eventually working out, watching my dog sleep, and finally drinking a bottle of wine before I have a meltdown and fall asleep…LOL not LOL…

    But USUALLY, it’s rehearsal to another rehearsal to another rehearsal, trying to remember to eat, go for a run, and try to write a song or a script at night before getting four hours of sleep and watching Gilmore Girls as comfort in between.

    Which is a memorable or unforgettable show you have done before?

    This is hard because there are so many. I would say as a musical theatre performer, anyone who has ever done RENT, that cast stays with you for life. I have done this show twice and both casts are permanent fixtures in my life having truly changed me. I learned so much about myself doing that show, both times, and so much about parts of the world I maybe didn’t totally understand before.

    As an adult now looking back, “Shakeslesque” which when we do bring it back will be retitled “Shakespeare in Lust” is the show I miss every day. Partially I think because it stretched me as a writer, not being a Shakespeare buff, but also as an actress. I did not play a role written specifically for me and there was so much heart in that show. That cast was so amazing and the show felt like coming home every night.

    What have you always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

    Hmmmmmm. Travel more? I was awful about going anywhere when I was younger. Always afraid I would miss an opportunity at home, and that is nonsense. We need to go out and learn about the world so that we can be better performers! Also I would like to pick my violin back up and get more comfortable playing her. She’s just been sitting in her case for so many years and she deserves some love. 

    If you could collaborate with anyone past or present, who will it be?

    ANYONE?! Oh man…..I’d go back to Burnett. Carol is one of the most brilliant minds to ever walk on stage or in front of a camera. And her story is amazing, if you haven’t read her book that she wrote for her daughters about her life. I would kill to just sit in a room with her for an hour and pick her brain about writing and creating and timing.

    Which flavor best describes you?

    Cinnabon flavored Vodka.

    What do you not get about guys?

    I feel blessed to have been able to really put myself in others shoes, my mom pounded this into my brain growing up, so there wasn’t much chance of me not “getting” something about someone….however…men that do not respect the independence of women sharing their sexuality makes LITERALLY NO SENSE TO ME. I know after my mother got married, she started wearing more conservative clothing, and even admitted to putting on weight so she would stop getting hit on by men that weren’t her husband….because…he “deserved the control” because…. “she belonged to him”!!!!

    Now, I know this was a sign of the times, but that is PURE TRASH! I am not saying I am not loyal to my husband, or that I don’t belong to him, because I do…but I wouldn’t have married a man that didn’t appreciate my need to be wanted and want others. We are animals and we appreciate people’s beauty and sexuality NATURALLY. And if it makes me feel powerful to wear something sexy and do my hair and makeup, then fuck it, that’s what I should be able to do. My husband loves that about me and it is WHY we work. Did that answer any part of that question?

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Alli. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy?

    Sexy for me is so many things. I’m a fan of hard rock classics that make you wanna bone in the bathroom of the bar and not giving a fuck.


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  • Consent and Autonomy As A Sex Worker

    Consent and Autonomy As A Sex Worker

    I believe sex work is a valid form of physical and emotional labour, and is inherently feminist. People from every walk of life are drawn to sex work for all different reasons. Some do it out of the luxury of privilege, some because it’s the form of labour that best suits them at this point in their life and some strictly out of survival because it is all they can do. However, it is important to remember that under the current system, all work is survivalist work as we all must trade our time and labour for currency.

    Constant Challenges To Sex Workers

    Physical safety in regards to client interaction is obviously an issue as well as obtaining safe working conditions at spas, dungeons or escort agencies since we lack unions and the ability to organize for a safe and sanitary working environment. In countries where full criminalization is in place, it is impossible to seek help from law enforcement if you’re assaulted as you are subjected to arrest for your occupation.

    Is Consent Still An Issue?

    Absolutely and I’m afraid it will until people understand that consent is not a matter of gaining all access clearance from one word or action but an ongoing subject between two people that requires constant checking in. Just because you pay someone for sex does not give you the right to do whatever you want to a person. Consent can be revoked at any time, and as one of my favourite saying goes, “a hoe CAN say no.”

    How Sex Workers Set Their Boundaries & Rules

    There exists, a wide variety of ways to go about establishing boundaries with clients, no way is right or wrong, some just work better for that particular provider, or with different clients. Some assert them verbally with clients before the session; others choose to navigate them more fluidly during the session.

    Some providers prefer to take a very black and white approach and have their boundaries and restrictions in their advertisement or websites which is why laws such as SESTA/FOSTA which prohibit online soliciting, only serve to put sex workers in further danger by prohibiting us from freely expressing what services we do and do not offer.

    Misconceptions About Autonomy 

    We’re heavily stigmatized individuals who are often devalued in worth as partners, parents, friends, and in other professions, simply due to choosing to participate in the sex trade industry. It is a common misconception that we are uneducated, party heavily, have no money management skills and can’t have a spouse because of our work. This is just simply untrue.

    We’re juggling other jobs, navigating going to university, raising families, we’re everywhere, at your gym, in line behind you at grocery stores, next to you on public transit. We are normal people just like you trying to live happily and survive.

    What Can Be Done To Remove Such Misconceptions?

    While not an option for everyone, being out as a sex worker helps to normalize our work and allows people to see us for the multifaceted human beings that we are. It is one thing to regard sex work as a legitimate form of work, it is an entirely different thing to be able to see the whole person behind the sex worker and not objectify them.

    Recently, I facilitated a workshop on deconstructing whorephobia and understanding autonomy and consent in the personal lives of sex workers outside of their work. I believe it’s everyone’s job to educate themselves on how to properly interact with sex workers in everyday life and the burden of labour should never be on the marginalized community.


    Bree Daniels – Toronto based companion, Dominatrix and content creator. They are a profound lover of cats, nature, punk and metal, martial arts and do not have time for your shit.

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