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  • What Is It Like Being Asexual?

    What Is It Like Being Asexual?

    An asexual is someone who doesn’t experience sexual attraction to any gender.  It’s the same neutral feeling a straight person has towards their own gender; only I have that neutral feeling towards everyone.

    In a way, I always knew.  For the longest time, I considered my lack of sexual attraction a personality quirk rather than an orientation.  I read my first article about asexuality when I was 22; it was less of a sudden revelation and more of a quiet realization.  I openly identified as asexual not long after.

    Common Misconceptions About Asexuals

    The most common is that asexuality is a choice.  Like any other orientation, asexuality is not a choice; abstinence or celibacy is a choice.  It’s who we are and there’s nothing else to it.  An asexual may choose to be celibate, but a celibate person is, by definition, not asexual.

    Another is that we’re heartless or incapable of having a meaningful relationship.  There are many different types of relationships; just because we don’t see our partners as sexually attractive, doesn’t mean we don’t desire an intimate relationship with them.  Everyone experiences asexuality differently; some want to be in relationships and others don’t.  And a successful relationship isn’t inherently dependent on the sexualities of the individuals; it’s dependent on how well you communicate your needs and desires.

    The worst, I believe, is that we haven’t slept with the right person yet.  It’s often stated as a challenge by people who see us as closeted gays (or straights). And they usually follow-up with invasive questions such as: “How do you masturbate?”, “Do you still have sex?”, or “Are you asexual because you were raped?”.  There is no sincerity behind these questions, and it’s frankly none of their business.

    Does It Affect Dating Choices?

    My sexuality doesn’t affect my dating choices or relationships at all.  I did have to explain why I left the dating pool for a while, but it’s not something I feel left out of.  I’d rather spend my time alone then with an intimate partner, and embracing my sexuality had made that easier to accept.

    Asexuality doesn’t change how we seek out relationships.  We look for partners or friends based on shared interests, beliefs, and values; just like everyone else.

    Personal Views Towards Sex

    It’s not something I enjoy or would do again, it’s just awkward and uncomfortable.  Even watching or reading porn was a challenge, I stopped trying a few months in.  Masturbating can be a bit tricky, but I find it much more pleasurable than partnered sex.

    Despite my feelings towards partnered sex, I don’t view sex itself as repulsive or something to be ashamed about. (It would just be contradictory to my work if I did.)  I believe that consenting adults have the right to experiment and engage in safe sex.  If you have sex daily or don’t have sex at all, it’s no matter.  Your body, your choice, right?

    How To Have A Relationship With Asexuals

    I’m going to tell you the secret to having a healthy relationship with an asexual.  Talk. With. Them.  That’s it, that’s all there is.  Just as in any other relationship, you should be discussing what you are and are not comfortable with.  Not every asexual is the same.  Some enjoy sex, some are neutral about it, and others are repulsed by it.  A few are kinkier than I would have guessed.  Discuss what you would like to happen in the bedroom, or what you would like to avoid.  They might prefer to engage in different forms of intimacy.  Or they may be opposed to any form of contact that would be considered sexual.  I recommend reading articles about mixed relationships with asexuals; they offer more advice than I can in this short article.

    And honestly, it may not work out.  While it may be devastating in the short-term, it’ll be much better for both of you in the long run.  Neither of you are wrong for wanting more (or less) from your partner. However, it is wrong to expect your partner to alter their entire personality and/or sexuality for your own benefit.

    Understand Asexuals Better

    Asexuality.org and whatisasexuality.com are great resources for anyone interesting in learning more about asexuality.  Wiki.asexuality.org keeps track of academic journals, interviews, and articles written about or by asexuals.  And some dedicated members of the community have made wonderful infographics and comics explaining the basics of asexuality.  These are excellent resourcing for the curious or the questioning.

    Summer – I started selling my panties by accident thanks to a few resourceful friends.  For about a year, I worked freelance before I decided to switch to an online platform.  It’s been a slow transition, but is certainly better than my previous haphazard methods.  Feel free to follow me on Snapchat as I do exciting things such as: laundry, painting my nails, and watching all 8 Harry Potter movies in one sitting.

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  • Satisfy Her Breasts With Sexy Play Tips

    Satisfy Her Breasts With Sexy Play Tips

    Honestly I love sex! I’ve always loved sex from a young age. I saw my first porn at age 6 and after that I wanted to have all the same feelings I saw the girls on TV have: and that was all the time. I began to explore my body at the age 7, masturbating with my teddybears and stealing my brothers’ porn. After the horrid of “popping my cherry” with my middle school boyfriend, I just knew I had to get it right. I was always on the quest to have great sex but I wasn’t even aware of what having an orgasm was until I turned 16.

    When I finally reached high school and I was introduced to the more experienced boys, I figured I had a chance to finally achieve “that feeling” and I did but to a certain extent. I realized the boys were enjoying me more then I was. I soon became attracted to females, my first experience with another female taught me to be sensual and really opened my eyes to pleasure, to the deep dark ward of pleasure. I now vow that every time, I have sex to make it memorable, for my partner and I.

    Importance Of Foreplay

    Extremely, I feel like we both need a warm up before we let the actual games begin. He’s not just going to stand at attention and my flower doesn’t water itself.  Getting an oily full body massage with some sensual body worshipping definitely gets my rivers running. My pierced nipples and my neck are my super spots, you could just breathe down my neck and my panties are sure to be soaked. I love tantalizing my partner with a very seductive strip tease, taking one thing off at a time is sure to get his wheels a churning. Teasing a man before actually touching him heightens his senses; tasting, hearing, seeing smelling and feeling … A lot of deep french kissing, teasing and rubbing before actual intercourse will makes the connection during sex mind-blowing.

    Breast Play Tips

    Take your time and be gentle, please! Ask a woman what she likes before assuming anything. A women’s breasts and nipples are not cow utters so please don’t squeeze like you’re trying to fill your morning bowl of cereal LOL. Nipples are one of the most sensitive spots on the female body so treat it as such. When licking and sucking on nipples, remember, your tongue is the magic maker and your teeth are the enemy, depending on the female.

    Do’s & Don’ts During Breast Play

    Please don’t bite like you’re trying to chew gum unless the young lady asks for it, there’s no bigger turnoff than a severely sore nipple. If she has piercings, do not yank, nipples are ten times more sensitive and one yank too hard might leave a nipple in your hand LOL. Smashing breasts together like a toddler with toy cars is not as comfortable as you think. Refrain from using a lot of extra spit when licking or sucking nipples, save that for further down south LOL.

    Breast Play Tips During Sex

    Play with me while I play with you; I like my breasts being caressed from behind during doggy style, use my breast to pull my body close to yours. When I’m riding, I know my breasts are bouncing uncontrollably so placing them in an open mouth is highly preferred! I love the feeling of a warm tongue on my cold piercings.

    Milan Antoniette – A professional, upscale West Indian companion(escort) for gentlemen or woman looking for a unique sweet and spicy Caribbean oasis experience without the hassle of packing. Passionate, sultry, confident and funny. I’m a determined nursing student,  part time receptionist, babysitter and wig maker, I’m the Jill of all trades. I love reading, traveling and hot naked yoga. My life motto is “ Quality over quantity”.

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  • Canadian Blogger Victoria Hui

    Canadian Blogger Victoria Hui

    Hi Victoria it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hi! I’d love to share a little bit about myself! I was originally born and raised in Ottawa but I now currently live and work in Toronto. I’m kind of a workaholic and always on the go – having down time stresses me out more than working too much because I get scared that I’m not being productive with my time.

    What inspired you to start The Lust Listt?

    I started my blog way back in high school when it was hosted on blogspot.com. It’s come quite a way since. It first operated as a creative outlet for me to talk about beauty – specifically nail art. Looking at my blog now, you’ll find almost no trace of nail art, but I used to be very into it and obsessed with collecting nail polish. Growing up I was always told to focus on school, and as much as I loved to learn new things, I never quite feel satisfied with just being smarter. I wanted to also be more expressive, which is how The Lust Listt started. I started my blog as a way to share my thoughts with the initial impression of ‘who cares if I make a fool of myself, no one is going to read this anyways’, and here it is now!

    As a child growing up, was fashion and style already a strong interest for you?

    Oh always! I loved clothes, and I loved pairing things together. I was probably the girliest one of all of my cousins in the family.

    How will you describe a typical day for yourself?

    In one word – long. I’m not even kidding. My day usually begins at around 7 AM, I wake up and spend about 30 minutes in bed scrolling through my various social media platforms catching up on what I missed while I was asleep, and then reply back to any comments or questions. Then I spend another 30 minutes or so catching up and responding to some emails while slowly waking up. By 8 AM I’m fully awake and the first thing that I do when I get out of bed is make a pot of coffee. While waiting for the french press to prep the coffee, I usually go through my whole bathroom routine (brush teeth, wash face, apply makeup) and put on an outfit.

    After the coffee is done, I pour one for myself, and another to take to work and then get set on prepping myself a lunch. At this point it’s probably around 8:30, and I’m ready to sit down at my computer to answer any other urgent emails that require immediate responses. I do a bit of work, which involves editing photos, scheduling shoots, writing blog post content, etc before I head out for my 9-5. I usually leave my place by around 10 AM and arrive at work by 10:30.

    Then I spend my day working till about 5PM before I meet up with either my boyfriend or a friend to shoot some content.

    I don’t usually get home till about 7 PM at night, to which I like to lie down on the couch and unwind to some Netflix for about an hour before I prep dinner. When I’m done eating, it’s around 8:30/9, and then I jump back onto the computer to edit the photos that I just shot that evening. My day typically winds up with me brushing my teeth/washing my face at around 1 AM and getting into bed at 2 AM only to restart the process again in 5 hours.

    What beauty tips can you share to every lady?

    Hydrate and skincare. I’m a firm believer that the better skin that you have, the less makeup that you have to wear. I’ve always focused on making sure that my skin is hydrated, which includes drinking lots of water and always moisturizing and applying masks at night while I’m asleep.

    If you can time travel, where will you go?

    This is so hard, and I’d want to time travel forward in time to see what the fashion would look like in the future so that I can stay one step ahead of the curve 😉

    Which was the last movie you watched and was it any good?

    I love a good horror/suspense/thriller, so I just recently watched the movie, Hidden – it was amazing. Not completely scary but it was directed so well and with an impressive script that I loved every moment of it.

    What exciting plans do you have for the rest of 2017? 

    Travel! I love traveling and can’t wait to hit up Portugal and Morocco in September 🙂

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Victoria. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Thank you for having me! Sexy to me means being comfortable in your own skin and not caring what other people think. I have a personal mantra that’s quite cliche (do what you love, and love what you do) that works really well alongside with my other one (do what makes you happy), so as long as you’re happy and you’re loving yourself, you’re sexy! Who cares what other people think?

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  • Spanking Play For An Awesome Experience

    Spanking Play For An Awesome Experience

    First things first, lets set the record straight. I may live in this world but I am not of this world. In other words, I do NOT Judge.

    I believe it is none of my business how someone chooses to live their life, unless of course it directly affects me. I believe that there is freedom to be had living in an alternative lifestyle. There’s acceptance, understanding, love, respect and so much more to be had in a power exchange relationship.

    I do not think it is fair or right to judge people that enjoy this freedom. I also believe that the people who are open about their kink are very brave to share that piece of themselves with the world.

    How I Got Interested In Spanking Play

    Well to be honest it started in high school. I had a group of friends that I used to hang out with. Whenever someone bent over in front of another, that person was then “obligated” to smack that ass, to show appreciation for what a fine ass it was. There were also consequences to pay if you did not smack that ass bent over so perfectly in front of you. If you didn’t, you would get 2 punches in the arm from everyone present for your fuck up. I think that’s the point in my life where spankings went from being a bad thing to being a good thing. Then later as I got into Daddy/Babygirl roleplays, the whole spanking thing seemed to go hand and hand with being a “Brat” to Daddy, LOL.

    Why Is Spanking A Turn On?

    As far as why it’s such a turn on for me personally, well I am a switch so I like giving and receiving spankings. So when I’m receiving them, they’re a turn on because I enjoy a little pain with my pleasure, I believe the pain heightens our pleasure receptors because of the contrast between both elements. As far as when I am giving spankings, it turns me on because there’s a lot of shit we have to deal with this in this world and it takes it’s toll. Spanking someone allows me to release some of that frustration and give me just that much more peace of mind. So on one hand, it’s a very sexual stimuli and on the other, it’s all a mental stimuli, for me at least. However I do believe that it is a different experience for each individual.

    Different Levels Of Spanking

    Of course there are! Just like everything in life there are always levels. Plus with spankings theres different levels for different tools as well. Someone could be spanked with their hand and have multiple levels of that, then upgrade to a paddle. There are so many different toys and objects you can spank with in addition to your hand which makes every single spanking experience unique. Honestly there are endless combinations and levels to a spanking sesh (session).

    Favorite Spanking Tools

    Top fave spanking tool will and always will be my hand. There is just something about feeling that skin heat up under my hand that just does it for me. I also make spanking toys, and some of my most loyal fans have earned paddles in their name. So, one of my fave spanking toys is one I made for a fan. It’s called my “Lotus” paddle. It’s similar to a riding crop, however it has an extended paddle part, and a thicker, longer sturdy handle. The handle is covered in a braided soft blue and white fabric, while the paddle fabric is blue with tiny little studs on it. It packs a whallop and leaves you spotted!

    The “Right” Way To Spank

    People get too caught up on the right and wrong way to do something. News flash, there is no right or wrong way. It differs from partner to partner and from play sesh to play sesh. What’s right for you and this partner today may not be what’s right for the partner you have tomorrow. To figure out what’s right, you have to start small and low level and work your way up till you find that persons’ stopping point. Then, you know the bottom and the top of that partners’ pain threshold scale. That gives you some sort of guide for that partner, however the real key to finding the right way is open and honest communication between you and your partner.

    Typical Spanking Sessions

    Well I guess that depends. If it’s a new partner and they do not have a lot of experience with spanking play. Then the sesh would begin with some talking about limits and protocols. Then maybe a warm up with my hand, followed by a spanking toy of low to medium strength based on the read I get from my partner. Then we would end the sesh with some aftercare and talking about the experience, which would then help me determine what to do next time.

    If it’s a partner that I have already played with, I would take my cue for this sesh, from our last sesh. I always start a sesh with talking and getting feedback from the time before, so if I need to adjust anything in my plans I can do so. I always like to warm that ass up with a good ole fashioned hand spanking. Then I would move onto a low-med toy based on their pain threshold and from there, one more toy that actually pushes their limits that I have already found in the first sesh.  Of course I end the sesh the same way, by making sure my partner is okay and asking them how they felt about what they just went through.

    Zora Stone – 36yr old MILF from Ohio uses BDSM knowledge and Lifestyle to conquer the world! Haha no, really maybe not the world, however I have used it to conquer some demons in my world! I am a nobody from nowheresville who somehow has pulled 3 Adult nominations out of the secret cavern in my ass! I am perfectly imperfect and teaching imperfection, one subby at a time! Step into one of my rooms and I’ll coat you in imperfection like peanut butter coats a spoon!

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    *Release of Webinar “Camgirl Boot-Camp”
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  • European Model Olivera Orsic

    European Model Olivera Orsic

    Hi Olivera it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hi! Thank you so much for giving me the opportunity to tell more about myself on your amazing site! I’m Olivera. I’m 19 and I’m from Europe, both Serbia and Croatia.

    How did your interest in fashion and beauty start?

    Ever since I was a little girl my mum would always dress me like a princess, she would buy me all those fancy and cute things and I would always look put together. Even though back then I didn’t like it as much, I adore it now and I am so thankful for my mum and everything she did back then made me more in love with fashion, makeup and beauty now. I was little so I didn’t quite understand anything about dressing up but now I realize that the fashion is one of the most powerful ways to express yourself!

    What kind of clothes do you usually wear?

    I usually wear things I feel comfortable in that day. So, for example, if I’m wearing a tutu skirt, with some heels, you can probably guess that I’m happy and sparkling inside so I wanted to sparkle outside too!

    What makeup accessories are a must have in your opinion?

    A must in makeup are: a good foundation, a good mascara, perfect brow combo, nice highlights and your fave lip duo (a pencil and a lipstick)!

    Have you experienced a funny or embarrassing moment before?

    I’m usually the one to whom embarrassing things always happen, so yeah, it’s usually about things I say in wrong moments or ever do. They’re all probably too embarrassing to tell!

    If you can time travel, where will you go?

    I would like to visit the time after The Industrial Revolution because that’s the time when the fashion world really bloomed!

    How will you describe a typical day for yourself?

    A usual day for me is getting up early (I hate to wake at 9 even, it’s a day wasted for me!), eating breakfast and being active on Instagram for a few hours. Then after I’ll hang out with friends or family.

    Lamest or weirdest attempt a guy has hit on you? 

    It would probably have to be ‘it’s good you’re not made of chocolate because you’re so sweet I could eat you all up‘.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Olivera. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    The sexiest thing is probably the confidence! Tell me there’s something better and more powerful than a confident woman!

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  • What It’s Like Being A Submissive

    What It’s Like Being A Submissive

    My fascination with kink and alternative lifestyles started when I came out as queer as a teenager. Through connecting and engaging with the queer community, I gradually learnt more about alternative ways of viewing sex, gender, pleasure and pain. Entering the adult industry in my mid twenties was where I first became aware of transactional kink and BDSM play, and where I found a safe space to explore all types of taboo fantasies and role plays through the anonymity of the client/escort relationship.

    For me, kink practices serve as a way for humans to explore parts of their psyche that they ordinarily keep hidden away from society due to stigma, shame or even simply impracticality. Kink allows us to wear masks (sometimes literally) and find our authentic selves through performativity. Now, kink and roleplay are integral parts of my personal life, and one that I consider a great privilege to share with others.

    How My Interest In Submission Began

    Submission is something I came to gradually, dipping one to after another into the world of energy play and BDSM. I was in an open relationship with a retired pro-dom and through learning about his relationships with his submissives, I began to learn about the diverse types of kink play and gradually began educating myself through reading and attending kink events.

    Being a Sub has always been very natural to me. I love to please, to be taken care of, and I hate having to make decisions. Kink and BDSM are an exaggerated version of the more ‘vanilla’ aspects of my day to day relationships, and the ability to parody and subvert these social dynamics in a way that was intimate, pleasurable and safe is a huge part of my interest in Submission.

    Expectations Of A Submissive

    A Submissive is a vessel through which a Dominant channels their erotic energy, with both parties playing out a mutually satisfying fantasy of domination and control.

    There are many different types of Submissives, from brats, princesses, puppys, slaves and human toilets. All with their own unique desires and needs. However the main expectation from any Sub is that they will be eager to serve and please their dominant in whichever way is requested of them – within negotiated boundaries of course!  When I am in a Submissive space, I am 100% focused on pleasing my partner, finding out what they want, how to move, how to look, every aspect of my being is focused on giving pleasure and hanging out for that all important validation! I live for hearing the words ‘good girl!’

    Common Misconceptions About Subs

    A Submissive is not weak. We are not pushovers, easily manipulated, or passive victims with no will of our own. Submission is a conscious act – chosen through much deliberation and negotiation. When I am in subspace, I am completely in control – nothing happens without being expressly permitted by me ahead of time. Many people are under the misapprehension that Submissives are simply people who allow you to do anything you want to them – the reality being that we are incredibly choosey about who we allow to control and lead us.  I have even been told that being a Submissive means that my boundaries don’t need to be respected (or that I enjoy having them violated) and have routinely had my bodily autonomy encroached upon by strangers in kink spaces.

    Another misconception is that submission is all about pain – we aren’t all masochists! For me, my favorite type of play is sensual domination, pet play and Daddy/Littlegirl role play, where I feel cared for, nurtured and protected.  Sadism and masochism are only two of the many delights on offer in the kink/BDSM buffet!

    My Two Favorite Fetishes

    Pet Play

    In it’s most basic form, pet play is a form of role play where one or more people assume the role of a pet/animal. Most commonly this takes the form of puppy play, kitten play and pony play, with one person as a ‘pet’ and the other acting as a ‘handler’.  Most of the time, pet play is heavily based in traditional D/S power dynamics, with the handler playing the role of Master.

    I absolutely love being a kitten – sometimes I can be reticent or superior, spurning advances and refusing my Masters’ touch unless approached with the loving respect I deserve. Other times I am playful and seductive, inviting you to stroke me all over while I deliver teasing licks and nuzzles. I also love to indulge in puppy play, whether it be performing tricks, begging for treats, simply lying content at Masters feet while he relaxes.  Like any good Puppy – I require strict and loving discipline and love undertaking difficult tasks for my handlers enjoyment.

    Pet play is particularly rewarding for those who enjoy their kink to be more nurturing and caring. It is one of the purist forms of escapism, creating a fantasy world where both parties fully embody their new characters – and in doing so, discard the repressive or mundane aspects of themselves for a moment.

    Wet Play

    Wet play is my absolute favourite for of kink play! – I could never date someone who wasn’t prepared to indulge me in this incredibly intimate taboo.

    Wet play is better known as waterports or golden showers. For me, a typical scene could be anything from giving and/or receiving golden showers to filling a pool with urine and wrestling and fucking in the mess. To a lesser extent, spit fetishes also fall under the wet play umbrella. Think spitting, licking and sloppy kissing and wet sensual blow jobs to create a slippery, carnal and hedonistic environment.  Wet play is the ultimate rejection of puritanical values which dictate that bodily fluids and natural bodies are somehow unhygienic or unpalatable. To me, when you truly desire someone – you desire all of them!

    Wetplay is also hugely stigmatized with almost all porn distribution platforms refusing to show depictions of urine or golden showers, and many credit card companies will refuse to accept payment on any depiction of people urinating on each other. The only other categories of porn that are subject to the same stigma are pedophilia and rape. This means that many clients I see with wet play fetishes are extremely ashamed of their desires. Lucky for me I love to help people shake off societal shaming around fetishes and help them to embrace their depravity with abandon.

    Dion De Rossi – Dion De Rossi, is an Australian escort, prosubmissive and pornstar living and working in Berlin. She considers sex work to be a spiritually satisfying pursuit, creating fantasy worlds where people from all backgrounds can find a safe space to explore taboo and misunderstood fetishes without judgement. When she is not satisfying the sexual needs of friends and lovers, she is focused on her activism, rescuing and rehoming animals from the agricultural industry.

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    Dion is currently focusing on providing fantasy and prosubbing doubles with Queen of Queer porn Sadie Lune, and performing in feminist and psychedelic porn productions for friends in Berlin.

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  • Ordering Custom Videos With Used Panties

    Ordering Custom Videos With Used Panties

    Like most fun things that happen in life, my Panty Seller site came about purely by chance. I’ve been Mistressing for some years now and was often being asked by Submissives if, for an additional tribute, they would be able to take away the panties or stockings etc that I had been wearing for our session. (I was even occasionally asked for my shoes or boots!) So, of course, if I felt that the additional tribute was worth my journeying back home from the dungeon minus panties or stockings, I would sometimes oblige!

    Then, one of my regulars suggested I’d be a very popular addition to a Panty-Selling site he used. So I investigated and subsequently launched a profile page on that site (Panty Trust link) . . . and to my surprise I began receiving requests from all over the world almost immediately.

    Two years on and I am still continually adding new items to my page on Panty Trust, but in order to offer a more “personalised” interaction with my used panty lovers, I last year launched my own dedicated “Mistresses Lace” website.

    Why I Love It

    It’s thrilling for me to receive requests for my Panties, Pantyhose, Bras and Lingerie, as well as other personal items such as shoes and used personal toys, straps and paddles . . . and, of course, custom videos which I film exclusively to order.

    I absolutely LOVE sliding on a pair of lacey panties, or tight pantyhose or stockings, that one of my gentlemen has specifically ordered, and wearing them for him for several days, knowing that very soon he will be squeezing himself into those very same items. And, of course, personally feeling and experiencing my dampness and musky scents.

    It’s also wonderfully enjoyable and fulfilling to receive lovely emails expressing thanks and satisfaction, often with photos attached displaying the gentleman wearing my item (with very obvious excitement!!!).

    And also, of course, equally thrilling to receive repeat orders from my regulars.

    Requests For Custom Videos

    I’ve been filming custom fetish Femdom videos for quite some time and am continually surprised and intrigued by the nature, and range, of requests I receive.

    I find it fun, and very often, quite exciting filming a new scenario . . . and usually am able to fulfil most requests I receive.

    As I say, the range of fetishes and desires is huge, from simply putting on and taking off a particular item a gentleman has ordered; to role-playing tease and denial scenes; from just wiggling my naked feet to perhaps painting my toe nails; or walking on a hard-wood panelled floor in stiletto heels; from pulling on my silver elbow-length gloves and slowly straightening the fitting on each finger; from shower and even bathroom scenes . . . and so on.

    My most recent video request was quite memorable in that I was asked for a 15 minute clip smoking one of my large Cuban cigars in a very famous central city park. Being a lovely bright and sunny day, it was crowded with tourists who obviously thought the sight of a lady walking around smoking a huge cigar (with an accompanying camera-man) was quite an unusual sight. It gave me quite a thrill actually.

    So anyway, if you’ve tossed and turned at night dreaming about it then I’ve probably been asked for a custom video of it.

    Making My Panty Smell Good

    I work really hard to fulfil every gentleman’s wish regarding scents and aroma. Some may ask for an extra day or two of wear, some may ask to have them actually damp (very damp in some cases). But I always do my utmost with regard to “special” or “additional” requests!!!

    Most Popular Lingerie & Panty

    I get asked for, and always try to provide, all sorts of different panties, stockings, hose, bra’s, lingerie, socks etc, even if I don’t have a specific item, or colour, listed on my website. (And, as I said earlier, even shoes and used “personal toys”). But the one thing that I have learnt over the past few years of both my Mistressing and Used Panties experiences, is that there is no definite, or most popular, of requests.  As with all things in life, everyone is different . . . and everyone has different desires and fantasies and kinks. That’s what makes it so enjoyable and so much fun!!!

    Mistresses Lace – I am a London housewife (married over 30 years), swinger, hotwife and recently . . . (in my spare-time LOL!!!) . . . a Femdom Mistress. My continually developing “open” lifestyle has given me wonderful fun, enjoyment and fulfilment over the years . . . and I’ve always enjoyed meeting new and different people . . . and trying new and different things. And it’s been more amazing than I ever imagined.

    And over the past few years a number of friends that I have met in those swinging and femdom adventures, began asking me to leave behind my panties, or stockings and tights . . . as souvenirs!!!

    Follow me on:

    Website: http://mistresseslace.com/

    Mistress Modesty Ablaze at PantyTrust: https://www.pantytrust.com/modesty-ablaze.html

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/MistressesLace

    Tumblr: https://mistresseslace.tumblr.com/

    Submit to Mistress Modesty Ablaze FemDomme: http://mistressmodestyablaze.com/

    Fetish Video Clips: http://mistressmodestyablaze.com/MyClips/

    As I mentioned I absolutely LOVE fulfilling Custom Video requests so please feel free to ask from my Contact page at:

    http://mistresseslace.com/contact.html

    Images courtesy of Mistresses Lace

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  • Incorporating BDSM Into Masturbation

    Incorporating BDSM Into Masturbation

    BDSM is everything! Within BDSM you can find love, support, play, drama, every imaginable human emotion, and exploration. When I’m in a scene I almost feel like I’m in a theatrical play that explores every aspect of human experience. From pleasure and joy, to despair and fear, you can really absorb the full vibrancy of life while under bondage or a firm command. When I give my control to someone, or to myself, I feel free.

    What I Love About Masturbation

    Masturbation is a loving act of intimacy with myself, that allows me to explore, nurture, and connect with myself. It’s also a ridiculous amount of fun! I’m a big psychology nerd, and could point you to tons of research on the positive effects of masturbating, and my personal life has certainly seen these benefits! I see masturbation as a time to relax, be creative, and take care of myself. When I’m all alone, touching and pleasuring myself, there’s a different, almost spiritual bond with myself that I really value.

    Incorporating BDSM Into Masturbation

    You need a lot of creativity and openness to have a successful BDSM masturbation experience because you are playing both roles, dominating yourself while being dominated by yourself. Whether or not you have a fantasy projection of who’s doing what to you or who you get to punish, you are ultimately embodying both the submissive and dominant side of BDSM.

    In most sexual and romantic interactions, I take on the submissive role but I can occasionally switch. Although I’m a submissive, I’m at my most dominant and sadistic when masturbating by myself. The things I subject myself to aren’t just about me getting to experience pain and pleasure; being able to cause and inflict control and pain are equally appealing. If I have a dialogue going, I am fully experiencing both parts. I am both the slut and the slut tamer.

    Make Masturbation Kinkier & Hotter

    Most toys I’ve found can be used all by myself, and can be just as fun as when a partner is using them on me. Nipple and clit pumps, clamps, crops, anal plugs, and of course vibrators are awesome with or without a partner. For safety’s sake, I actually recommend trying out most toys you get on your own before incorporating them into a scene with a partner. I also have to give a shout out to Hitachi style vibrators, they’re a must for anyone with a clitoris, BDSM or no. There are a lot of self-bondage tutorials online, and I love breast binding and crotch ropes by myself.

    Aside from actual sex toys, there are a lot of things you can do by yourself that don’t require an extensive kink budget. In your kitchen, wooden spoons are especially nice for self-imposed pussy spankings, ice is an all-around good time, and ginger root shaved into a butt plug can really spice things up (look up figging). Your bathroom has the tub’s faucet or shower jet, toothbrushes for a torturous genital brushing, and hairbrushes also make great impact toys. Don’t forget your mirror, to fully appreciate all that you are doing for, and to, yourself.

    Potential Downsides To Masturbating With BDSM

    BDSM needs a lot of education to be practiced safely, and being on your own is no different. In fact, there’s no one around to help if something goes wrong, so it’s important to read up on every act or toy you’d want to use, and use common sense when playing. Always make sure you have an out, so you don’t wind up tying yourself up and unable to get out of a bad situation with no one able to save you.

    Lila – My name is Lila, your sex-positive kinky sweetheart. I’m a 25-year-old Persian-American who gets off on being teased, punished, and pleasured. I make my own videos, sell my used panties, and do private kik and skype shows. I love making kinky custom films, and enjoy projects that requires creativity, roleplay, or experimentation. I love my sexy projects because I feel like they are a great avenue for self-exploration, and I love feeling connected to strangers who get to take me home in the form of a video clip or a pair of panties.

    Follow me on:

    Contact: fuchsiapeach@gmail.com

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/FuchsiaPeach

    Videos: https://extralunchmoney.com/user/FuchsiaPeach?ref_user=FuchsiaPeach

    More Videos: https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/1000523096/FuchsiaPeach/

    Used Panties: www.usedpantymarketplace.com/vendors/fuchsiapeach/?ref=10

    Featured image courtesy of Shutterstock, all other images courtesy of Lila

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  • Toronto Model Mizuki

    Toronto Model Mizuki

    Hi Mizuki it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    I’m a freelance model from Toronto, currently in University studying Criminology.

    Why do you love about modeling and how did you get started?

    I find modeling to be exciting,  liberating, and a great creative outlet. I got started at 18 through Model Mayhem.

    Which kind of modeling genre do you love most?

    I enjoy boudoir, because it’s sensual and sexy.

    How is your typical day like?

    A typical day involves going for a run or going to the gym, taking my Pomeranian out for walks, going to my lectures, or heading to a photoshoot.

    Do you have any other hobbies?

    Eating and working out. I’m the biggest foodie you will ever meet, and I find exercise a great way to relieve stress.

    Which is your favorite band or singer?

    I love Melanie Martinez and One OK Rock.

    If you could describe yourself as a flavor, what will it be?

    Matcha, because I’m Japanese, and I’m obsessed with anything matcha flavored.

    What is the lamest attempt a guy has tried to hit on you? 

    I think the lamest attempt was when a guy kept calling me Mizuki-Sama, his Goddess and sent me photos of himself in dorky anime costumes.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Mizuki. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy is being your best, most confident self. It means loving yourself, taking care of your mind and body and doing what makes you feel good.

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    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zukiseri/

    Images courtesy of Mizuki

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  • What You Should Know About Lingerie

    What You Should Know About Lingerie

    There’s nothing I feel sexier in! It’s something that can feel deeply personal. I work part time in a library, so I have to present myself a certain way; modest and professional. While I’m not constricted by a uniform, there’s definitely limited options as to what I can wear. What’s underneath my clothes is a whole different story! I can wear whatever I want and it’s my little secret. It makes me feel so sensual and naughty to know that I am wearing the most provocative lingerie underneath my ‘professional’ demeanor. There are so many possibilities when it comes to lingerie that you’re guaranteed to find something that you’ll love. There’s just so much freedom of expression, it gives you a chance to explore a whole other side of yourself.

    My Favorite Lingerie

    I have a fairly extensive collection, but what matters to me are those ‘signature pieces’. I have around 3 or 4 sets that are my go-to and lots that depend on how I’m feeling. My personal favourite is a simple black lace bra and panties set with a garter belt. Stockings are one of the best parts of lingerie, in my opinion, and using a garter belt instead of hold-ups makes me feel amazing. Garter belts are a little fiddly to get used to but they’re well worth the effort! There’s something so elegant about them, I just can’t resist. My taste varies day to day, so I like to keep lots of different colours and styles at hand!

    Different Lingerie For Different Occasions?

    Definitely! If I’m wearing them under clothes, I tend to go for things that won’t be obvious to someone looking at you. For example, if I’m wearing a tight blouse, I find a bra that doesn’t have too much detail so it doesn’t show through the fabric of my shirt. Same goes for panties if I’m wearing a tight skirt.

    It all depends on my mood. If I’m feeling powerful and dominant, I choose bold reds and blacks, usually all in lace! But if I’m feeling more demure or want to tease someone, I’ll usually go for whites and light pinks, or maybe something in satin. Lingerie really does give you a wonderful opportunity to wear something that completely reflects who you are or what you’re feeling. For parties or social events, I love to wear something erotic. It gives me that extra bit of confidence. I once wore crotchless panties to a housewarming party!  Sometimes, when I’m at my day job, I’ll wear a little white lacey thong with a matching bra. Just the thought of someone potentially finding out what I’m wearing under my clothes gives me a huge thrill.

    Lingerie Buying Tips

    The best tip I could give you is to make sure it fits! A lot of people wear the incorrect size bra or panties and it has a huge impact, on both your appearance and your confidence. I can almost always tell if someone is wearing the wrong size, it does not sit as well as it should on your body. For a while I thought a certain style just didn’t suit my body type, but I went a size bigger and it looked 100% better. If you’re wearing the wrong size of anything, whether it’s bra, panties, or garter belt, it probably won’t be comfortable.

    Feeling comfortable in what you’re wearing immediately makes you feel better in your body. When you feel confident, you’ll feel (and look!) sexier! It makes the occasion you’re wearing it for so much more enjoyable. In terms of style, if you don’t like something, that’s okay! There are hundreds of styles out there, you just need to keep trying them on until you find one you like. It’s practically impossible to look or feel good in all types of lingerie, so keep at it! In my experience, if you aren’t happy in it, men can usually tell. For both people to enjoy lingerie, you need to be secure in the fact that you look amazing!

    What Men Should Know Before Buying Lingerie

    Again, the biggest issue is to make sure the sizing is correct! It’s heartbreaking to find a gorgeous set of lingerie only to find out it doesn’t fit! When buying as a gift, I think it’s important to keep in mind the personality/character of who you’re buying it for. For example, someone fairly new or cautious about ‘dressing up’ in lingerie probably won’t want to go straight for crotchless panties! Try something simpler, like introducing a garter belt and stockings. If you’re ever in doubt about it, ask a few subtle questions about what they like or dislike. What’s their favourite colour? What kind of underwear do they normally buy? Do they like to play innocent or do they have a naughty side? Or maybe they’ve got a secret desire to roleplay! If you take the time to think about what they’ll like the most, the more fun you’ll have when you go to take them off!

    Evie – Hi! My name is Evie, I’m a 20-year-old panty seller from England. It all started when a partner commented on my sweet taste and smell. One thing led to another and I was soon taking naughty pictures of myself for my blog! I then discovered the whole world of the fetish industry and started selling my used panties, bras, socks, etc. to have fun and perhaps pay for some university textbooks as well! I have a part-time job as a librarian and also am studying for a degree in Psychology. Already having a part-time job means I get to really enjoy panty selling as I don’t have to rely on it for money. Plus, it makes it even more exciting when the people around you, don’t know what you’re up to.

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    Blog: https://eviebliss.tumblr.com/
    Panty Trust: https://www.pantytrust.com/evie-bliss
    Twitter: https://twitter.com/EvieBliss96

    Images courtesy of Evie

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